Dealing with your In-laws
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- Опубликовано: 11 май 2023
- Welcome to episode 32!! Today we talked all about IN-LAWS! We know this can be a loaded topic for a lot of people so we wanted to give our take on it. We talked about setting boundaries, our current relationship with our in-laws with our baby on the way, how we work to have a good relationship with them and more! Let us know about your relationship with your in-laws in the comments!
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I'm sorry but Jonas being so flippant and telling you that you "have it easy" and essentially downplaying how hard a pregnancy is' especially considering you JUST GRADUATED TOO. like the reason why people even come here is because of YOU. NOT HIM. He consistently undermines your value and as more episodes come out the clearer it is becoming he has some deep rooted issues and it honestly comes off as if he's envious of your exposure. Unfortunately I can no longer support this.endevour because his communication style is aligned with an emotionally and mentally unavailable/ border abusive partners. I mean how he reacted and spoke of the baby was just disheartening. I wish you, Mykayla, all the success and pray that you and your future child are showered with love.
As a lifelong educator, I assert that MyKala Skinner quite literally has one of the highest levels of kinesthetic intelligence in the world, and a tremendous work ethic for things that she takes up in life. There are ten types of intelligence, and she is a gifted person in the realm of kinesthetic intelligence. I hope she is able to understand that her gift is from God, and that he values her as she is. Some folks have linguistic intelligence or mathematical intelligence, and they do well in academics. MyKayla has finished a college degree despite the fact that the academic intelligences are not her strength and has a great deal of interpersonal intelligence and intrapersonal intelligence that have contributed to her personal success thus far. MyKayla, you ARE smart!
Amen!!!
Could not agree more! ♥️
No, she's athletic. That is not the same thing as intelligence in the way that humans have understood it for many thousands of years.
I definitely disagree with talking to your mom/sister with your martial problems. Coming together as a couple after an argument is the most healthy thing for a Marriage. Give time to decompress after an argument and then talk to each other and truly forgive without having a grudge. Prayer is the most important thing.
Hi MyKayla, i am grandma age now but when i was younger i hated reading aloud in front of others. I would look at a word and have trouble saying it properly even if it was an easy word. So i would avoid it as much as possible. When my children were very young i began reading kids books to them. They were a great audience for me because they didn’t know if i said something wrong. I gradually got much better at reading aloud in front of others, practice with my kids as they grew helped heaps. These days i would say I’m pretty well over my anxiety about reading in front of others & i wanted to share my story with you MyKyala as you might want to read to your children too. Its a lovely sharing time with kids & its great now to be able to read with more confidence. My spelling ability has also improved lots as I’ve aged. The more words i see the more i retain i think. I love playing wordle games now too. 🤗
Please make MyKayla drink more water. Lol
Agreed!!!
Very excited to watch you guys mature and grow into parenthood!
This should have been titled the one about Olive Garden.
Have you ever seen a cognitive psychologist because you are super smart, your brain responds differently to language and text. You might want to see a cognitive psychologist because sometimes these issues are hereditary, actually you should probably confer first with your OBGYN, and go from there.
There’s a great book called, Overcoming Dyslexia. It’s a book written for parents so it’s not full of scary language.
In-laws can be a stressor but if you set healthy boundaries and take care of yourselves you're doing the best thing you can! And no matter the struggle keep learning and striving for better. You've overcome so many challenges in life and you'll keep achieving more if you try!
Hey kiddos I am an old Meemaw so here's what I want to share with you simply remember that your in laws have given you the very best of them..I have the privilege of being mom to three awesome men..I do not agree with all of everyone's choices but I keep my opinions to myself unless asked..Hardest to keep my thoughts to myself when it comes to grandkids
Also I started journaling awhile ago and when you guys do the podcast I write about the topics and write down questions !!! It will be fun to look back later and see how different things get !
Maykayla - I’m not good with school either. My husbands family is so smart to and I just laugh as my nervous like I don’t know what something means or pronounce things. I just love that my husband and I can relate to you and Jonas!!!
I don’t think arguments should be shared outside of the marriage tbh unless it’s very serious or you need outside help.
Hod is the mediator and it’s not always easy but if you talk to Go individually pray do then come together again (as it says in the Bible) to deter Satan from putting a wedge between you.
This is awesome! I didn’t want to travel after having a baby. You also need to have your own family traditions. I hated feeling guilted into stuff.
MyKayla puts herself down a lot-I don’t like to see that. I understand wanting to be authentic and not front but it’s sad to see.
Mormons are perfectionists
Why the hell would Jonas think he was entitled to bring a friend on the universal trip?! Bare minimum he should have asked one of your family members
Stick with what you want Mykayla
Don't complain about your spouse to your mom or siblings. You can go for a walk to cool down or write it down and then throw it away.
What about Easter, Mothers Day, Fathers Day…there are more than Thanksgiving and Christmas
Also you can still do Christmas in Utah with Jonas family just the week before or the week after
Also what are you going to do for daycare? Or is Mykayla going to stay home?
I get along with my in-laws really well , my husband doesn’t get well my mom but my dad he
gets along better .my parents are very overprotective. I have a hard time getting along with my
mom.
16:30. IMO, the mom who supported MyKayla's gymnastics since she was a toddler should have been able to go and watch her at Universal. At least ask her if she wants to go before making other plans. She might have said no but it feels dismisive not to ask. (Now that it's done though, I wish you the best and hope you had fun on the trip) If you ever feel the way I do, apologizing for this, even if it's been a while, would show consideration and make your relationship stronger whith your in-laws.
I woulda done hubby and MIL for the watch party. I woulda been annoyed if my son in law brought a friend to something that was such a reward for everything I as her mom put into her over the years…
If she wasn’t married I would say both of mykayla’s parents should have gone but a compromise would have been hubby and MIL.
How cute mr skinner thinks he’s the bread winner.
Maybe instead of reading you could lead a prayer or tell a story from scripture that is not verbatim. Share something that you prepare in advance or are familiar with and aren't going to question pronunciation. Or lead a conversation rather than be expected to "perform". You obviously don't have to prove anything to anyone. You have already been a great role model and inspiration to countless people. You have spent the majority of your life on a stage being judged, being scrutinized, and with very real consequences. You deserve to put your mental health first. At some point, you may just find yourself more comfortable to read in public once there is no pressure to.
Mykayla looks 2 feet tall next to him lol
My assumption is Jonas is a leader. He definitely has the Alpha personality. Tough exterior, authoritarian, assertive. Nothing wrong with any of that. But I've seen a more gentle side of him, lately. And I have a feeling this precious little girl is gonna turn her Daddy into a softie! lol
please point to where this has occurred because in this episode alone he legit basically told her to shut up because she doesn't do anything but stay home and "cook a cute little baby"????
Tbh obvs her parents are more entitled to the watch party or you and one parent they raised her and paid for most of her gymnastic career it kind of blows my mind that Jonas thinks him and a friend no offence to Jonas and a lot of people ring their mom when they have fights 😂 i feel for mykayla ngl 🥲❤️