Are your friends ACTUALLY Good Friends?
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- Опубликовано: 12 сен 2024
- Shwetabh gets a question from a viewer about how to know if you are surrounded by good friends or not? Shwetabh talks about the need of friends in your life, which helps with relieving your stress, verbalizing issues you may be facing that may help you with venting out frustrations, and the fact that you have people who will help you out when in need. He emphasizes on the need to manage your life between work and friendship because you do need fun in your life.
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Bhaiya pls i have sent you my problem on my instagram pls you haven't made the solution
Eagerly waiting for the next 2books.
Thanku guruji bht kuch sikhaya h aaapne🙏
Guruji aap daily video daala kare... Hum ko maza aata h aapka video dekh ke..
@shwetabh bhai mera dost mere se door ho gye.. I am now studying for jee now.. I have to work on myself thats why they are detached from me... My friends dont talk to me.. I feel left alone sir... Pata nahi kya karu... I am working on myself instead of hanging out with my friends
"If you look at your friend circle and don't get inspired, you don't have a circle. You have a cage"- Nipsey Hussle
Nice one.
Hey Man,
I hope you been holding well. I know i would be perceived as a bug that just keeps promoting my music and sending long ass messages. But you are all i got :')
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#sushantsinghisbest
Rest in peace!
Rip nip...the marathon continues
Well said
He is the most logical person I have ever seen in my life
Not wrong but he is just like any of us just got his priorities clear
Being logical is easy - but being logical as well as emotionally intelligent is his forte. :)
swethabh sir and Sandeep sir are most logical people I ever seen...
U haven't seen me yet
Yeah he is.. So is sadguru ☺
A friend is one who has the same enemies as you have.
--Abraham Lincoln
Nice quote true💯
It's an arguable quote
Who is enemy ?
Unbox Gamer life
Diplomatically **
Summery of the video is:
"KAAM KARTE RAHO DOST SIRF WAHI TUMHE AAGE LE JATA HAI"👍🏻
People complaining about their friends..
Me: you guys having friends 🤨🤨
Friends are curse
I got my phone...which is most intellectual.
@@dreamsanddrownie2672 not true....it's arguable
Same brother
lol.......same here!!!!
I rewind a year back and just think how stupid I was to destroy my 10th grade creating imaginations of the friends who don't even talk to me now
Same dude
So True
Same thing bro my life 7th,8th,and 9th grade were terrible years.. Being depressed, always angry with myself, for not having many friends.. Now when I think it feels so stupid.. I could have done something better in those years
Well, 10th grade friends mostly don't stay friends after school. Just saying.
@@praggyab actually I don't really care about the friends.. it's the grades I care about (I could have done better)
Wondering why no one talks about this and there's this man reading my mind!
Two things you never have to find : true friends and true love
-A person.
Hey Man,
I hope you been holding well. I know i would be perceived as a bug that just keeps promoting my music and sending long ass messages. But you are all i got :')
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I have both
@@bunny-ie2mq nice :)
i have a true friend luckily
Two things you always have to get away from : fake friends and fake love.
-another person
I follow shwetabh sir since 2 years and literally this person has totally changed my life . God bless uhh sir ❤️
Bold of you to assume I have friends.
🤣🤣
& you are...? 🤨
Lol
I just love his intellectuality of Dealing and understanding things very clearly ❤️❤️❤️😘😘😘
Truly
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Bhai sab research ka kamal. Hai uske mann se nahi bol raha ye. Samjhe?
It seems like he contemplates alot
AUR LAUNDE, KYA HAAL CHAL??
MISS THIS MAN😌😌
All introverts will be imagining their friends. We introverts want good friends but we are unable to make them. We also need a true friend who can understand us but there is no one. It really hurts sometimes. Sometimes We do not want to go out and meet new people. We want to live in dark shade.
Yes..same here
But family and society will come up with words like: "Tu toh akela hai kuch honey wala nahi hai tera. Zindagi mey dost chahiye."
@@nayanghimire5663 Yes but you should say that "Main akela hi kafi hun "
sometimes we also need a true friend who can understand us but we can't force anyone to be our friend. We should stay in solitude rather than being with fake friends.
@@alkatiwari6650 yeah bro. But people around us dont understand the word "solitude" or "individuality" they only understand either "lonely" or "desperate".
Well nothing to be gained from typing this n nothing to be loss.
So, kitney ghantey kam kiya bhai aaj?
😭💔💔
I believe, everybody needs good listener.
Everybody is willing to tell something, but no one is willing to listen
True friend will not criticize demean or judge you not in your face neither behind your back. They will take you as you are. Guess what there no one that is capable of that, then there is not true friends today. A dog or any pet will be a good friend!!
Manish pandey yes pets are always better friends than humans
But I have
That's just anothee way to say the one who criticizes me is not my friend because i believe criticism means hating someone and not actually trying to help someone also yes it varies in the tone in which A FRIEND criticizes another
So if i want my friend to be the best version of himself I'm not a true friend.
Noiicceeee
@@pulkit21 haha that's just what i said thank you for summing it up xD
My friends inspire me to push harder in life. There are good 😌
I have 5-6 friends.. actually we are brothers more than friends.. we help each other in every situationts..and we have one golden rule bnde ki burai uske muh pe kro aur uski achaai uske peeth piche.. i feel lucky.. m blessed with the best😇😇😇😇
I literally don't have anyone to talk to.
Me too😑😑😑
Both give ur insta I'd,we are friends now,I will share my whole story
@@shashankpawar7755 wah bhai😂
@@shashankpawar7755 😂😂😂
Lone wolf
Some people seek validation from other people and not themselves
Hey Man,
I hope you been holding well. I know i would be perceived as a bug that just keeps promoting my music and sending long ass messages. But you are all i got :')
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You mean everyone by some people?
0:55-
1:45-Friendship's foundation is trust and. Friendship Allows you to share things which you are not able to share with someone else
2:37-Stress Relieve and Fun
3:13-
3:28-Friendship Helps you Psychologically
3:57-Balance b/w work and friendship
5:12-
5:30-
5:47-Being able to have fun and share things which is in your mind is the most important thing which makes friendship healthy as it is therapeutic in nature.
6:45-
7:45-8:20-Bad Friends
8:37-9:45-70% work + 30% fun and don't ruin your work for friends and don't ruin friends for work
10:25-
I'm friendless !!
u r wrong
I have many girlfriends and I am happy. I always fight with all boys
@@rajattripathi8599 ehhh kya kuch samajh nahi aya bro tera situation
@@dinasuarsenpai uske kehne ka matalab hai voh laundo ko pelta hai jo uski girlfriends ke peeche hote hain 😂
@@rajattripathi8599
Wtf "girlfriends" or "girl friends".. There is a huge difference.
There was a night, I was standing in middle of nowhere far from home, with a broken foot, in tremendous pain. I called my friend he just said one thing
"Tu jaha bhi ho me aa rha hu, tension na le".
That time i realised i have great friends
𝙳𝚞𝚍𝚎 𝚝𝚑𝚊𝚝 𝚑𝚒𝚝 𝚖𝚎 𝚑𝚊𝚛𝚍!
@@Natashaæà its a true story
Sir! Your alarm clock technique changed my life... More power to you... God bless
I always help my friends and don't need anything from them in return ✨🙏.
Otherwise I don't really party or hang out with them.
I spend a lot of time with me, but also listen and care for them.
🌞🤸
Bhai aapki wajah se bht jyada motivation milta hai kaam krne ka!!! Love from uttarakhand bhai nd stay blessed...❤️❤️❤️
I have been without friends since November
Have gone outside home just for 5-6 times
You know the life of a Jee/Neet aspirant 🤘🔥
I dont complaint for it
Prepare today
Have a better life tomorrow
SAME HERE ... 😆😅😅like srly my ppl are just counting on like Aka you missed total some 11 hang outs 🤣🤣😃
Yes bro!! I know!! I am a jee aspirant
U guys are going outside 😱
@@hiteshwarsingh8219 U guys are even alive😱😱
@@SandeepMeena79 that's how we roll
“A friend in need is a friend indeed. “😁
It is so ironical that in spite of having millions of friends on social media, but very few of them are ‘good’ , and very very few will help us in need. 🤕🤕🤕🙂❤️
Hey
I hope you been holding well. I know i would be perceived as a bug that just keeps promoting my music and sending long ass messages. But you are all i got :')
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Social media is profetic world , just like movies it has nothing to do with reality
So true
No, and i know that, that's why I'm happy, i don't except much from them from beginning, so what i get is better or worse near to that scale
Yes , kinda same scenario wid me.
My friends (most of them) keep on calling me to play PUBG & CoD wid them, & I always say "NO!" to "em , widout getting hurt & making them hurt as well. 😇
Fact is that
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My friends are also watching this..😂😂🤣🤣
Sath bath k? 😂
I am friend with anyone who needs me but no one is there when i need them.And friendship is like two way no one ever messages me without me messaging them first so are they really my friends?
Same here😔!!!
That's how this world works , it s just meter of need , for every person his life is his no 1 priority , not his friends life
Logo se umeed rakhna hi q.. Khudse umeed rakho na.. Expectations hi bc dukh ka sabse bada karan he..Duniya mei tashan se jeena padta.. logo ko apne weaknesses dikhaye na toh poori duniya fayda uthane pahuch jati hai..
Yeah same,,
when you are always available for someone 2 things happen at a time
1] the person takes you for granted
2] subconsiously a message is delivered to ourselves that when we need him he will always be available.
thes 2 things fuck up a healthy mind. Just be loyal and Honest to your Parents coz afterall they are the one who would always be there for us.
I am lucky that i have a very good friend who is always there for me when i need him and vice versa.
He is like my brother and he is a well defined example of a true ' FRIEND'
Thank god.
Well explained brother. 👏🏻 Glad that my circle is already like this. ❤️
Who'll thought he's the most valuable person in our life. ❤️
Yeah right.
Valuable but not the most....
@@zzzzzz1510 yeah bro
Who will... 😂😂... English 😂😂 top level
English wali video dekho didi
Bro, you said you're gonna uplaod a video for women here who can see red flags while dating men. We're desperately waiting for that one and we know you will release it. Just wanted to let this out. We stan you bro. Thank you for imparting your wisdom 🙏
I have two friends but they always makes fun of me and they make jokes on me but when they needs my notebook they always says that "You are our best friend , please give us your notebook .
Unse dur hojaiyeh tab jyada attach mt. Hoaiyega
Fuck man same 🤣
Run awayyyy
Us moment lol
Bhai mai bahut frastrate or depression mai chala gaya tha love ke chakker mai.....dinbhar bas uski ke bare mai sochta tha....even mai padh v nhi pa raha tha.....kisi ne apka video suggest kya.....apke video ne mujhe ye samjha diya mere priority kya h..bas isbar maine apna pt qualify kiya ..ab mains ki tayyari kar raha hu......thans bhai.......
Shwetabh should do more podcasts?? How many of you think 👇❤️
Sometimes having no friends is great
Thanks shwetabh for clarity for perception b/w career &frnds🙏❤
I needed this. I have exam coming up and I suddenly started feeling that I am missing out on all the fun my friends are gonna have on coming weekend. Thank you I am going to study from now on. Feel much better. :D
Didi ab koi nahi hai trust ke layak na ladka na ladki except mother and father
This hita differently after seeing what prakhar did to you.
🍺
I know many people won't take head of this message but if you don't have anyone to share your thoughts with then start reading books for they have the potential to become your best friends and most trusted source of inspiration knowledge and mental peace(albeit you are reading the right ones and not sensationalistic bs)
Don't point your fingergun towards us Bhai, I'm scared.
Lol
@@justheretoruinyourday9499 😂
Views paane ki ninja technique
@@d1nkar jo kaam nhi kr rhi
I had been thinking about this for past few days....thanks for clarifying my confusion about my friends
A proper perspective on ourselves, our friends & friendship! Awesome 👏
fab explanation🔥🔥🔥 don't blame ur frnds if u yourself r not doing anything to improve ur life💯💯👌
Today's work- 1 chapter, 10 sums, 4 subject school homework and last learned something new today by ur this video♥️👍
Total- 5hrs👍👍👍
Friendship is based on "Aukaat"
I still remember when I didn't have as much money as them , than I changed my path
Didn't went to parties , places because my social status changed but I will work hard to get my normal life back...
"Galti meri nahi thee , lakeen mahanat meeri hoogi"
I bow down to your logical reasoning....this is something I was realising..your logics concreted it.
Always be helpful to your friends. And please make friends carefully
Rip Sushant😭😭😭
Your are my game changer for my life thought structure and process and in whole aspects I thankful to you for that you doing these
Shwetabh Gangwar....sir you are really a good guidener ever...your word are so easy to understand and clearly ..love from pakistan
Shwetabh Is Writting 2 More unfictional Books
My Excitement Is On Top Level.....😯
If you don't give importance to the work, everything else will destroy even your friend will become strangers,1st do your work and be best in your filed everything else will be fix automatically...
I have 5-6 friends whom I can actually trust.... I am so lucky to have them♥️
I don't even have one
Bhai... Apki video se clarity mil jaati hai hum sabko
Thank you Shwetabh Bhai
1 priority ...my life ,my goal,wellness,health,wealth
Then
2 freinds but not destroy your life for frnd, and manage them ...don't be slave .
Make your work priority the. Freindship.
Deep down each guy knows there is nothing such as real friends!
Today onwards I'm going to loose my a few friends 😂😂
Shwetambar Is OG motivational speaker ,he changed life of many ppl ❤️
I don't even have friends to begin with 😞
Give ur insta id
Same bhai
That's really good 😂
You must be happy then..... I don't have friends either..... Less people, less bullshit
Hey u have this guy
Bro I love your intelligence and the perspective of seeing things in a different manner
I love these type of discussion becuase it's actually improve our life thanks bhaiya 😊🙏🙏
Don't make friends. Make girlfriends
@@rajattripathi8599 ya 😂but a good one
This is the exact mindset we need right now 🔥🔥🔥🔥
You are my inspiration yaat or tmhri ye book best thing in the lockdown it's really wow ❤❤
I love everyone ❤️ but at the same time I don't want to be with anyone .... I am very productive when nobody is around me and it's quite difficult for me to allow the one to enter in my comfort zone .... Just want selective people in my world .... I'm very Lucky in case of friends ❤️ but the one who can give me the best advice is myself .... Shortly not dependent on anyone for anything except parents 😊
Hey dear you are completely in my state
And trust me I have also got so much positive ppl as friends but as far as life is concerned me and my parents are just best ...
Fatma hi five to you! You're so me🥺
Then you don't know anything about a ship ??
Friendship
Insta I'd give
i have just passed my class 12 and i have no one to talk to.
sometimes i feel sad
It happens
No brother u should enjoy your own world talk to yourself understand yourself.. exprcnce evrythng.. and enjoy you will get many one day best wishes :D
Same feeling here, preparing for IITJEE , studying 12-13 hours everyday, lonely and cold, no one even asks me how I am, but that's okay.
@@rajdip6324 how are you bro?
ahh peri bhi kuch esi hi situation h tu family par jyada dhyan de sakta h rather than ki kisi aur ke bare m soche esa hota h bro ki apka soch auro se alag ho is karan tu special h is karan apne kam par jyada dhyan do padhai par jyada focus karo aur enjoy karne ke liye gaming kar sakte ho ya agar family ke sath time spend kar sakte ho
My most of friends are loyal bcz I m loyal to my friends....Dost bahut jaruri hai zindegi me....😍😍😍
Watching your channel since 2017! Your thoughts and speech have made me very selective ultimately leading to better choices and preferences! Now living a decent and contended life👍🏼 Live long brother!
Sir, u r a gem i have been following you since 2017. Ur adviced have always helped me.. Thank you
In a Nutshell, Keep everything Balanced in Life.
Lots of love brother I was searching for it.
I have learned lot of thing from u and ur book.. thank you so much ❤️ sir and i am eagerly waiting for ur upcoming book
This Video Opened my Eyes in many Ways. 💕💕💕💕
I am a happy loner, now. 'Cause my old friends , Backstabbed me (It's my fault too). I am glad that they did!
This video taught me to how to manage friendship.
Thank you sir, just when I needed this type of guidance
Man.....ur videos are completely changing my LIFE. Thankyou, and keep motivating us.❤🔥✌
I just ordered the rudest book ever from amazon... Keep up the good work
Ive been thinking about this since morning ,and here i got this video. Thanks mate
Please explain about having trust on people while running any business.
Look out for your work life system and see the compatibility. Priority of work over group activities should be done. They can’t be your helping hand towards your destiny. Maja karna vent out karna is therapeutic, but check your requirements regarding your priorities. They can’t be your philosopher and therapist. If they are sabotaging your work life, they are not good for you. Your health, wealth and prosperity should be first. Don’t be a slave to your friends fun life.
6:33 heart touching!
I watch his videos just to know his opinions and he always has something great to offer!😍
I don't have lot of friends I know lot's of people
-heath ledger
In this one line he told everything
Thank you for making videos on diverse topics like these , really needed it ,commenting before even watching the video
I'm lucky to have 1 good bestfriend from 1st class to college 2nd year. He is my only friend
No.1 Priority hain Meri Zindagi 👌
Much needed topic❤
really bhaya mai abhi 19 years ka hoon aur aapne mera sare questions ka answer kar diya hai, thanks a lot for be on the youtube, keep making videos like this.
thanks for expanding my knowledge in life ♥️🙏
Thank you shwetabh bhaiya..!
You always change my mind and perspective for the things 😇.. your intellectuals that u share in videos just help a lot to vanish out the worng perception abt peoples and get a clear thoughts...
Just wanna know from where u get this high level of maturity..?? 🙏
Keep sharing..,✨✨
How can u be so intellectual ❣️👀
We are not alone ,let's unite together and grow together 👬👬👬
One of the topics
I was looking for..!! ✌️✌️
I know all things from earlier. Thank god i have good friends whom understands me and i also understands them. Now days we are meeting rarely like occasions but all understands each other's and we do lots of fun there and we have what'sapp group where we are in contact. So I am very satisfied from my friends. we knows everyone needs and we are always ready for help
Always Keep doing this kind of things bro
Karma will do a good thing for you
10:00 yes I fell in that trap when I was jobless. my friends would say: oh it is our day how can you...? and later advised me that I shall manage my time to meet friends else I will be burnt out. but they didnt say for my benefit, they said for their benefit because they found fun in meeting me. so they were saying for fulfilling their own emotional needs. meanwhile, I was getting exhausted all this while. and, these people will bring you gifts, help you a lot-doesnt mean they want best for you. it is complex. I wish I had watched this video earlier so that I didnt waste my whole 8 months of youth.