I have a squish on this particularly guy classmate I had back in highschool and even though we’ve had classes together, we never really talked nor were we friends. Fast forward 7 years later and we have both become Christians. I prayed he becomes Christian and find Christ too since I see him at random places at random years after highschool. Since then, I’ve included him in my prayers. And when he finally did by God’s grace, I prayed to God I would finally be able to talk to him and be friends with- since I have been wanting to be friends with him since highschool! I had waited and finally got to talk to him at a cafe where we met up. Happiest day for me!! God is so good! ❤️😭
Thank you for sharing your thoughts & feelz! There isn't enough out there on squishes (hell, most people don't even know the term), so it's great to see people talking about their experiences! :D I (thankfully) don't get a lot of squishes (or crushes) but damn, lots of butterflies when it does happen xD Kinda annoying cause I don't wanna put people on a pedestal or treat them somehow differently from 'normal' humans, even if I objectively know they're not flawless.
I know! I hear so many people say they have a crush but then totally describe a squish. Having people on a pedestal is dangerous territory. I totally get what you’re saying and I’m very glad you said it. I’m happy to know there are others feeling these things I feel. 🤓
See, I feel like when I describe my squishes it totally sounds like a crush, but I know I'm not actually sexually/romantically attracted to them xD But I also been reading/watching a bunch of stuff by different people describing their squishes and there's quite some variation :) Which makes sense, people are all different and I guess the same would be the case with crushes ^^
I always have squishes on ppl who i find attractive Like i'll say "dang they hot" (mostly on anime characters) and think "I wanna be their friend so bad" For example, i think levi from attack on titan is super fine so i wanna be his friend super badly 😅
So if I like someone but didn’t have butterflies in the stomach would that count as a squish? I’m starting to wonder if my 4 crushes in the past 19 years if my life were actually just squishes.
Thank you so much for making me feel I am not the only one. You have no idea how good this feels to know myself better thank you for the wonderful explanation :) Have a great day
So you’re in love with your husband but you never had a crush on them? Yeah, I get more squishes than crushes as well! 😜 It’s just a thing us weirdos probably go through! 🤣
Well, yes I had a crush on him when I first met him but I don't say I have a crush on him now because it's grown into love. I know some people say that they still have a crush on their spouse but for me it's no longer a wish or a want to date him because I can date him and be with him always. So to me that is different.
I have a sister who is 15 years older than me who I adore to pieces. Age has nothing to do with friendship. As for the teacher thing... yeah you can be friends with a teacher. Maybe not immediately, since there are rules, but it can happen. I’ve seen it happen. I’m friends with some of my former teachers. Don’t worry too much about it. Finding a friend in others is something we should enjoy. It doesn’t happen every day.
Marian C Searle this is the last few months that I will now her in my life... Should I tell her the truth on the last day? I feel like that is the right thing but I also feel it will be very weird after
I can’t tell you what to do because I don’t know all the parts of your situation. Only you know all the parts. Only you can decide what’s right for you. Trust yourself.
What if you're already friends but it is also not exactly a crush... I genuinely just want to spend time with this person but I don't think of them 24/7. I am a confused woman here. 😂
In my life I feel I have a squish when I want them in my life because I want to be their friend. I want to have a platonic relationship with them because I love them that way. I wouldn't want to date or kiss any of my squishes but I still want to spend time with them on adventures and just hang out with them. That's how I know. I don't know if it's that way for everyone.
I have a squish on like everyone i know
I have a squish on this particularly guy classmate I had back in highschool and even though we’ve had classes together, we never really talked nor were we friends. Fast forward 7 years later and we have both become Christians. I prayed he becomes Christian and find Christ too since I see him at random places at random years after highschool. Since then, I’ve included him in my prayers. And when he finally did by God’s grace, I prayed to God I would finally be able to talk to him and be friends with- since I have been wanting to be friends with him since highschool! I had waited and finally got to talk to him at a cafe where we met up. Happiest day for me!! God is so good! ❤️😭
I got agree on that. Also congrats you might find a good friend.
I have GIANT squish on a kid who I'm kind of friends with.
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Thank you for sharing your thoughts & feelz! There isn't enough out there on squishes (hell, most people don't even know the term), so it's great to see people talking about their experiences! :D
I (thankfully) don't get a lot of squishes (or crushes) but damn, lots of butterflies when it does happen xD Kinda annoying cause I don't wanna put people on a pedestal or treat them somehow differently from 'normal' humans, even if I objectively know they're not flawless.
I know! I hear so many people say they have a crush but then totally describe a squish. Having people on a pedestal is dangerous territory. I totally get what you’re saying and I’m very glad you said it. I’m happy to know there are others feeling these things I feel. 🤓
See, I feel like when I describe my squishes it totally sounds like a crush, but I know I'm not actually sexually/romantically attracted to them xD But I also been reading/watching a bunch of stuff by different people describing their squishes and there's quite some variation :) Which makes sense, people are all different and I guess the same would be the case with crushes ^^
Let's just appreciate the fact that she's still giving hearts and replies even after 3 years❣
I always have squishes on ppl who i find attractive
Like i'll say "dang they hot" (mostly on anime characters) and think "I wanna be their friend so bad"
For example, i think levi from attack on titan is super fine so i wanna be his friend super badly 😅
it was J A R R I N G for me when I realized that calling someone hot didn't mean that you thought they had an aesthetically appealing face
@@kae41 wait, that's not what it means...? oh
So if I like someone but didn’t have butterflies in the stomach would that count as a squish? I’m starting to wonder if my 4 crushes in the past 19 years if my life were actually just squishes.
you don’t have to have butterflies when you see them or with just like how some people don’t experience butterflies with their crushes
HAHA I HAVE A SQUISH ON EVERYONE
Thank you so much for making me feel I am not the only one. You have no idea how good this feels to know myself better thank you for the wonderful explanation :)
Have a great day
So you’re in love with your husband but you never had a crush on them?
Yeah, I get more squishes than crushes as well! 😜 It’s just a thing us weirdos probably go through! 🤣
Well, yes I had a crush on him when I first met him but I don't say I have a crush on him now because it's grown into love. I know some people say that they still have a crush on their spouse but for me it's no longer a wish or a want to date him because I can date him and be with him always. So to me that is different.
Ok I have a squish on my PE teacher
She is like 17 years older than me and married....
Help
I have a sister who is 15 years older than me who I adore to pieces. Age has nothing to do with friendship. As for the teacher thing... yeah you can be friends with a teacher. Maybe not immediately, since there are rules, but it can happen. I’ve seen it happen. I’m friends with some of my former teachers. Don’t worry too much about it. Finding a friend in others is something we should enjoy. It doesn’t happen every day.
Marian C Searle this is the last few months that I will now her in my life... Should I tell her the truth on the last day? I feel like that is the right thing but I also feel it will be very weird after
I can’t tell you what to do because I don’t know all the parts of your situation. Only you know all the parts. Only you can decide what’s right for you. Trust yourself.
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Damn u just said one of my fattest squishes lol
Talk more about asexuality! New sub, keep it up!
What if you're already friends but it is also not exactly a crush... I genuinely just want to spend time with this person but I don't think of them 24/7. I am a confused woman here. 😂
I have a crush on a trans boi I knew since he identified as a girl. I’ve always had a squish on him for him
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ik this vido is old but how do you tell when you have a squish? i just wana know so i can tell when i do. thanks!
In my life I feel I have a squish when I want them in my life because I want to be their friend. I want to have a platonic relationship with them because I love them that way. I wouldn't want to date or kiss any of my squishes but I still want to spend time with them on adventures and just hang out with them. That's how I know. I don't know if it's that way for everyone.
@@mariancsearle7010 Thanks fore responding this is pretty helpful. have a nice day!
uh can you have celebrity squishes :0 because aaaa
Jared not Darred.