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So true. I've cut off every friend I've had after they've disappointed me and have gotten to the point where I don't even bother making "real" friends anymore because I don't see the point in spending the time on a relationship that I know will end in disappointment. It gets lonely but I would rather be alone than betrayed again.
Most Sigma videos seem to stroke ego's the right way, but this clip is by far the most comprehensively accurate I have seen. My entire life that no one could explain, ever, until now. Thank you, OP.
I always knew what I was. People used to think it was antisocial disorder when I was younger. Truth is, I can so easily read people and the vast majority disgust me.
Never harm a sigma you want to keep in your life. Being dead to someone is powerfully painful. I have erased a few people in my life and it was brutal for them. But they hurt me in a way that took earning my trust and using it against me.
@@runyunhyde4373 if you can forgive the other, you also forgive yourself. If you dont, well.... that karma will come back and back untill you learn its not about them. They reflect something back........
These videos are like looking into a mirror. I have never been able to describe why I do what I do, but now I have a better understanding of myself. At first I thought that I was ill, now I know that I am just wired differently. I think that I can be myself instead of trying to fit what are called "societal norms".
its better to be yourself, as societal norms arent designed to benefit you as an individual, but rather society as a whole. society doesnt care about your well-being - so why should you waste effort trying to embed yourself into it’s norms?
Absolutely true on everything. We always playing high stakes game, hence we walk trough life on a very sharp blade. We are cold and dangerous but also very kind and gentle, giving people what they have given them by double ❤
@@marvinromero9299 ... hey Sigma, you are manifesting manipulative and less than honest behaviour. We are all here Sigmas my brother, attracted by this content where we recognise ourselves and others, we respect people here. Fake humblenes is for beta's and alpha's. This place on youtube, this channel is our place to meet as you know we don't have much places in outside world where we meet other Sigmas... so we are here. And be sure in one thing, there is no perfect Sigma, some of us are stronger in one thing and weaker in another. We acknowladge these weaknesses to ourselves and to our brothers Sigma's and striving to become better. We know who we are here and there is no place for fake humbleness. This is what we are. Bless you brother !
Nothing wrong with anyone being quietly confident and moving forward. Rules of action in both normal life and work situations are very often similar. Subscribed to your channel a while ago and agree with most of this release. Keep up the good work which initially led me to having a good look into myself and confirming im on the right track. Cheers from OZ
I use to withhold forgiveness begrudgingly but I realized that I don't want someone to withhold forgiveness from me. It works both ways. Can't hold people to a different standard than we do for ourselves
I came across this channel by chance, never knew what a Sigma even was, but after watching a few of these videos I was left with the realization that these videos have described a certain character pretty well spot on...
So I can't realise what I am without judgment, either? I'm not triggered by your comment, but it sounds like you're gatekeeping a categorically sectioned set of traits and saying if it triggers me, you get to feel validated in your comment. You must be an Alpha. So I'll just continue to never fit in anywhere and continue the path of solitude.
Well, another video and another round of introspection for me. I am currently not in agreement with the grandiosity trait, but I will dig a bit further into my psyche for examples. I just recently had another incident of cutting those out who wronged me and couldn’t be trusted. A former employee whom I supervised for several years had a death in the immediate family. When working, I would make an appearance at services as a sign of respect. Now retired, I felt absolutely no obligation or desire to attend anything. I felt it was heartless, but absolutely more authentic and honest on my part than to attend and put on a “play nice” front with him and his cronies whom I did battle with on a daily basis while working. I wasn’t afraid of attending, but absolutely not interested in being dishonest with myself. Again, I wish I had known and understood myself as being different years earlier. I can only imagine how much different life would have been if I had fully embraced and harnessed my sigma manhood. Wow, what an even better ride it could have been!
@@fruitydickens6291 Ouch! Ok, you may be right on that one. But since another sigma trait is not letting others opinions of you bother you, well then, there’s that. 😁 (intended in good fun!). Thanks for the insight in pointing out the irony!
I never understood a lot of things about my behaviour and thought pattern till I heard about sigma males..This video helped me a lot. 90% of the video is correct and describes me and my attitude. Thank you
@@stevenopolis23yes you are special. So very special. I'm sure you no self work to do. This sigma bullshit is dangerous. Tricking a buncha incels with personality disorders into believing they are superior to other humans. Ego driven.
I disagree with everything in this video 1. ignoring idiots is not a dark trait 2. being silent is is a dark trait 3. making logical decisions is not a dark trait 4. Manipulating people with logic evidence and truth is not a dark trait 5. doesn't make sense and is not a sigma trait 6. taking extreme measures to accomplish goals is not a dark trait, in fact should be admired 7. not trusting people who have dark traits, is not a dark trait 8. doesn't make sense and is not a sigma trait
Even some of my best friends have had a year of silence from me , one lived just across the driveway from me , he stepped over the line and I didn't even acknowledge him for over a year,, while that relationship is mostly mended I have not forgotten what he did, and never will,
Although I talk to and get along with him now, I still haven't forgotten or really forgiven a conflict I had with my own brother from almost 20 fucking years ago.
@@hugokappes4077 That sucks. Mine didn't put me "through" anything really. Until this whole Sigma thing came around, I just assumed I was a petty asshole LOL. Older brother, he got divorced, moved home and if he wanted to go out for drinks and bullshit, I went. Every time. When the situation was reversed and my divorce came, not one single time did he return the favor. Something I think most people would forgive and forget.
I never knew why I acted this way. I always thought that something was wrong with me. This information helps me understand what I’m going through and why.
I had people say to me, “it’s unhealthy to hold a grudge with someone”, I’d tell that it takes to much energy to hold a grudge on someone, that when I’m done with someone I basically forget they even exist”. It’s hard to understand unless you’re a true sigma but it’s just something that comes naturally to me. They think I’m BSing them, until I tell them that they could be laying on the ground dying, and I’d just step over them and keep walking. It’s weird but that’s the way I am if I’m done.
I’ve never verbally told someone that they a dead to me, but I do mentally write them off. They don’t exist in my world. I also never ever forget a wrong. No slight will go unpunished.
Now I understand why I've always felt like I wasn't doing enough.. never heard if imposter syndrome. Thank you for taking a weight off my shoulders because I'm tired.
Excellent video, AG. Regarding grandiosity, the sigma man, by nature, has little to no ego. Ego is friction, necessary to move forward in life. For me, I have used grandiosity as an uncomfortable, voluntary friction to put myself into in order to motivate myself forward in a situation or goal, in lieu of ego. 👍🏻
Very good. I recognize all but number 8 in my life. Number one: the cold side. I think is also meant to avoid conflict by accepting that the other didn’t match expectation. It’s a form of respect for the other being different, instead of pushing to change or fighting to demonstrate whose right or wrong. Number 8 I had to listen a few times, but I still don’t understand what you mean.
I’m I’m a moment of peace and calm, 2 people have been removed from my life very recently, left a huge void but needs must , only forward never back the restless march of life is always a beautiful struggle for clarity and inner peace and lots of people fall behind me and are forgotten left to their own lives
I've watched a lot of these Sigma male videos by several different creators but I must say this is the only one I score 100% on. A little frightening actually but it's all true.
I disagree with everything in this video 1. ignoring idiots is not a dark trait 2. being silent is is a dark trait 3. making logical decisions is not a dark trait 4. Manipulating people with logic evidence and truth is not a dark trait 5. doesn't make sense and is not a sigma trait 6. taking extreme measures to accomplish goals is not a dark trait, in fact should be admired 7. not trusting people who have dark traits, is not a dark trait 8. doesn't make sense and is not a sigma trait
never thought that my personality will be told and exactly explained in detail by other humans.. creepy and amazing at the same time, after 30yrs of existence.. i think i can safely say "so im a sigma.."
I forgive for my own piece of mind. However...you are correct. I do not forget. Just because I forgive does not imply anything else. Everyone makes genuine mistakes...most of these will get ignored. If the mistake continues but elevates each time...those are not mistakes. This is when the silent treatment you talked about is applied...lol
i am between jobs right now after 15 years (waiting to start training for a new one right now) and you just described me and my entire summer perfectly. The lofty expectations, over- self criticism, while trying to tune out others, while planning my grand new plans…damn. It actually really helped me to see this thank you
I never could wrap my head around forgiveness. I'm trying to forgive my sister that I cut out of my life but I can't. This video may explain this behaviour for me. Thank You.
I try to be patient with people and if there is a way to not attribute to malice what can be explained by ignorance I try to find a way forward in the name of something bigger. But sometimes I simply cannot.
It’s not a social act it’s having full control of your emotions And it comes from a hard young life It’s a gift and a curse I’ve lived with it my entire life And I always thought I was different
I disagree with everything in this video 1. ignoring idiots is not a dark trait 2. being silent is is a dark trait 3. making logical decisions is not a dark trait 4. Manipulating people with logic evidence and truth is not a dark trait 5. doesn't make sense and is not a sigma trait 6. taking extreme measures to accomplish goals is not a dark trait, in fact should be admired 7. not trusting people who have dark traits is not a dark trait 8. doesn't make sense and is not a sigma trait
This describes me surprisingly well. In my quest for answers and self-discovery I only recently discovered that I may be what is known as a "sigma male". I for sure possess 7 out of 8 of these traits. The 4th trait, subconsciously and subtly manipulate others, I'll need to ponder and reflect on more. I'm not sure I would classify or call all these traits "dark" per say. Depending on how these tendencies or traits are used by an individual, I suppose they could be good or bad (I guess I associate dark with bad?). I do not perceive myself as someone with bad intentions. But I can be hard and extremism when pushed or when it's necessary. I'm a protector by nature. I will protect not only myself, but others who are in need.
I feel like you explained me in my current form. A few small differences, but very accurate. I feel. I don't like to give myself titles like this, but I feel like you were explaining me.
The not responding one has to do with the consideration of ALL outcomes. As a sigma myself, I'm internally torn between all the outcomes and deciding which action to take. Meanwhile, my facial expression shows absolutely no reflection of what is happening inside. In the end, not responding or taking action, letting things go by is the easiest way to deal with things as it causes little to no consequence. Ofcourse this is in a normal situation, not one that actually requires action.
For a while I thought sigma was a made up characteristic or trait.. but when I look back as far as high school upto now in my late 50's there almost isn't any outline that doesn't fit my personality.. it's very reassuring to pin point why I carried myself the way I did and do for all these years not know why until recently within the past year thanks to educational formats such as this one.. Thanks a million... I feel very powerful knowing that there is a definition to my otherwise seemingly misunderstood personality... It all makes perfect sense now.. WOW!! And Amen!
Per my mother's reminiscences, I exhibited sigma traits as early as 4. Such as: stoicism, immense curiosity, dislike of group-things/play in kindergarten, aloofness, self-reliance, liking of being/playing by myself, unforgiving, and resourcefulness. So I think that it's at least partially innate and maybe even genetic, because my father was a sigma - for sure.
Great video and very insightful. Funny as I thought the same in your interpretation of what it means to be a sigma . That is to say perhaps some traits in psychopathy, the branch of psychology that differentiates between psychopathic and sociopathic traits? Only, if conflated to a national level or even global, I would describe myself as a idealistic meritocratic, yet pragmatic western liberal democracy 😊
100% SPOT ON THE ONLY DIFFERENCE IS I AM FEMALE ..SIGMA NOT MALE ..SIGMA IE YOUR BRILLIANT EXPLANATION FROM MY POINT VIEW THEIR IS NO DEFERENCE IN YOUR EXCELLENT ANALYSIS .OF SIGMA TRAITS ..WELL DONE ❤️
I dunno about "using silence as a weapon" per-se, I just go into "cant be bothered with you anymore" mode. Thankfully, getting rid of useless people with the "bye-bye" switch is a great gift.
@@gideonbigwi2233 I've regretted some decisions a little because over time, and retrospective, and that backwards-analysis thing where you replay an event, you may realize that you now see things you didn't at the time. (Like the other person's perspective) but at that point, it's too late. You realize you're prob better off anyway, and you say "ok, learned something there.." and just move on.
@@turbofreek The "pesterers" can be the WORST. I finally realized that you can explain something PERFECTLY, with every ounce of detail, fact and logic, and they simply can't grasp what you're saying, no matter how well laid out it is. It's not worth the hassle. You're singing to a dead audience. I have a go-to memory for a lot of things, and I made the mistake of explaining to a pathological liar how their lies were lies. What a lost cause. Now, when I encounter one, I just say "Uh huh..oh, really? Ok" cause you know you'll get nowhere getting into it, disproving etc. I used to think people would/could analyze their behavior (removing pathology from the equation - just general shittiness) and conclude why I bounced, cause I would and could analyze a situation. They can't and don't, they just wonder why because their brains only go so far. (Sorry- shoulda rented a lecture hall for that one..)
I found the silent treatment drove many people insane. I did that to the woman I married. I realized that this was also destructive. I married this empathic woman. After the last one I did, as I realized she was hurting so much, she didn't deserve that from a mate that I chose and she chose to accept. I even told her I wouldn't anymore. It is a good weapon gents, but apply with wisdom based on your relationship with them. I'm glad I didn't do anymore as she would die within a few years. I can't imagine if i missed one more day not hearing from her.
My family and friends feel if they violate my boundaries they'll simply never hear from me again. Some of them have actually told me they're afraid of this whenever they talk to me. I have to reassure them they've never been close to that point, but yeah, it's there.
Heard about the term Sigma male today and have looked into it as requested... and i burst into tears. I thought i was a bloody weirdo due to the way my brain functions. Its so uplifting knowing other peoples brains work the same spaggy way
I'm glad to listen to a true definition and example of just who I am at my core. I've always been like this yet it was leary striving to word it. I'd rather show you than tell you. I am Sigma born.
I used to get told alot when I was little go away adults are talking so on and so on I would hide around the corner and hear all the secrets. I was a quiet kid kept to myself at home. Whenever I talked they would always say it was stupid or I didn't know anything. So I listened, I observed the world around me and how my family interacted. After my father hit me the last time I knocked him out cold then went away for a year and actually got to have some kind of childhood. After graduation I joined the military and behold my family talked shit about me the whole time. See I was the scapegoat,black sheep, and new term I've learned the truth teller. My family is full of narcissistic me being me a very logical thinking person whenever they would come at me I'd would just throw facts at them and they couldn't keep up, they would end up getting mad and then try to make me look like the bad person. There all afraid to talk to me know I have so much dirt on them that they don't want exposed Going on 4 years now with no contact from them and one year no contact from the ex and it is great. They have no idea what I have planned at all.
Totally agree, I know & loved one personally..totally spot on in your assessment. Too much mental drama for life, love & yrue purpose...let sigmas live & go.
good video, i got sort of surprised when i came across this term sigma male and videos appearing here and there, most of those i seen and heard were spot on in terms of behaviourism, same as this one i'd obviously add few comments in general some of those things i am not very proud of like pretending that other people dont exist, so yes, i am aiming for this balance you are mentioning here as well. nice one.
“I won’t be wronged. I won’t be insulted. I won’t be laid a hand on. I don’t do these things to other people and I require the same from them.” - John Wayne
Being a Sigma is one of thise things you don't get to choose. It's what you do with it that defines you. It can be a gift for great goodness, or terrible badness. For me I had always wanted to be as useful as I could because I liked helping people. It wasn't until a select few made it their life's goal to see me when I'm mad. Like, really mad. Because they couldn't understand why all their attempts had failed. Each one increasing in pettiness and severeness. It's quite honestly gotten out of control just for one guy. I don't like having to do bad things. Yet they come so easily to me. The social ghosting is the nicer version of getting rid of somebody. Because I feel there's a part of me that would have no problems in literally getting rid of somebody. Silence has also come very easily to me. It's not so much a conscious reaction as it is a defense mechanism. It's to shut out the bullshit I was seeing in front of me as these people kept trying and trying and trying. This is the stage where I still believe you could be a decent person, just before cutting the person out. So if you've been cut out, you must analyze yourself. Because I didn't just do it for no fucking reason. I don't look at some people because I can't stand looking at them because of how I've seen them through my own eyes. It's easier to walk away than to feed in to what is only trying to cause negative emotions. If I can't physically remove myself from you, I will shut you out one way or another. Being cold and calculated has come with the territory. Without being able to have made these types of decisions, it greatly reduces chances of survival. If you can't think rationally when shit gets real, then you'll find yourself in just as bad of a situation as everyone else. These are often the best kinds of decisions for making deep personal progress, but may have negatively intended effects because of how cold these decisions sometimes have to be. The subconscious manipulation is also part if the territory. I only use it when it is imperative to get a point of reason across. When people consciously try to make bad decisions, I try to persuade them based on my own knowledge why it may not be a good idea. This kind of ties in with being cold and calculating. It's also another thing that just naturally comes easy as a result of the condition. Being naturally assured of one's self is naturally assuring to others. Which also naturally draws them towards you. It's unconscious manipulation because of the overwhelming positive aura that draws people in. The light in the darkness attracting all who seek it. Grandiosity comes as a side effect of being so assured of myself. Knowing my own abilities and my achievements up to this point. I believe I am great because there has been nothing telling me otherwise. I was never the best at any one thing. But I was always the best at everything I ever put any effort into even if that effort was the first time doing it. It's not a sense of self importance, that I think I'm better than everyone else. It's because I know my achievements are all above what an average person could achieve. It's hard not to think highly of yourself when it's right in front if your face how great you really are. I come from humble beginnings, so I don't relish in this fact. I enjoy the recognition, I just don't allow it to define me. I do it for the satisfaction of knowing I did something good. My abilities are too beneficial to be wasted on bad things or not using them at all. The "mania" outbursts come from a deep and overwhelming emotion on a subject that has been a repressed topic of discussion. It's that extra sauce on top to really drive the point home that it was unwise to set off down this path. Extreme measures to accomplish goals stems from all those attempts at trying to ruin me. When all you wanted in life was to get away from this shitty life and it just keeps trying to suck you back in, you would also stop at nothing to get the fuck away from it. I may be winning the war. But every battle has been hard fought and lost along the way. I'm no stranger to losing or to loss. I've been losing my whole life. In doing so has taught me determination in never giving up. Which makes even the smallest victories a great achievement. Never forgetting the people who have wronged me... Where do I begin? For me, I don't like holding grudges. I can look past small infractions and write them off as accidents. It's not until a pattern emerges in those infractions when it becomes a problem. The more frequent or severe the infraction, the less I want to forget. Because looking past these bahaviors is what has ultimately led me down this path I currently find myself walking. Never forget what they did lest you find yourself falling back into the arms of ill-intent. And certainly never forgive them. Because it's not an accident if you would continue to do it. Then it becomes accidentally on purpose. A behavior I've become all to familiar with. Being dangerously hard on myself is a way to keep motivated. When you lose focus on the goal when everything around you only wants to see you fail, even the slightest misstep can lead to disaster. It's not an intended feature. But it does serve a purpose in personal growth. If you don't have the drive to keep pushing even when all hope seems lost, then you will surely become stagnated and death follows close behind. It was always having that internal motivation to keep going that has kept me alive. Every part of my life has made me what I am. It was me and only me who has seen it through to where I am. When you're the only person left in your corner cheering you on, any amount of doubt will lead to failure. Which is often in the worst degree. It has always been do or die. So you learn to get shit done and not complain about it. I don't wish the life I've had on anyone. I'm just the 1 in however many millions that have endured similar lives that hasn't been corrupted by it. And I owe that to the values I wanted to set for myself and my determination in upholding those values. I know that deep down I'm not a good person. I just sometimes do good things. This is a condition I didn't ask for, but now graciously embrace. Given my disposition and how I ended up, I AM proud of having it. It's not something to be taken lightly. But when it's used for good is overwhelmingly good. It's pride in having a power that can do great things for the greater good. Since not many people anymore share the same perspective. I am who I am for a reason. A reason I can't argue. All I can do is follow what it brings me and be prepared for anything as I've always been
I disagree with everything in this video 1. ignoring idiots is not a dark trait 2. being silent is is a dark trait 3. making logical decisions is not a dark trait 4. Manipulating people with logic evidence and truth is not a dark trait 5. doesn't make sense and is not a sigma trait 6. taking extreme measures to accomplish goals is not a dark trait, in fact should be admired 7. not trusting people who have dark traits, is not a dark trait 8. doesn't make sense and is not a sigma trait
I am a sigma male. INFJ Sigma empath. Never in my life, have I Ever had about Grandiosity. That's not in our personality. Cutting people dead yes, But we always have given to my chance first. Becoming very focused on my Goals yes. Almost to the point of obsession. But I've never lost Reality . I'm always extremely aware of my surroundings.
I'm a sigma male, as in I fit 95% of what a sigma is right down to the color clothing I like. "They can pretend like you don’t exist." Yup, we do this. If you cross my line - you are done. I'll walk right by you like you are invisible. I could care less. I've actually been accused of being the "first" human without emotions by someone who I cut off. Nope, you're just a waste of my time and we don't like wasting time. If you waste our time, you're gone.
Bro I have commented this a lot of time not all sigmas are the same we do have some similarities but each person and each sigma is different and believe me I have met some pretty dark egotistical sycophant sigmas
most of the time when people think Im egotistical, I try to consider the source before being immediately put off by such an assessment. Most of the time those who say this, are quite mediocre and have nothing remotely interesting or worth talking about when it comes to them. eg: they arent where I am in life, they never worked hard for anything, and it then begins to be translated as envious hate. I gracefully still give them respect, but the dark side of me will throttle these motherfuckers if they ever step to me. None of them ever do, being the chicken shit low value people they are. #sigmathefuckon
I was not even a minute in when this video got straight to the point with the disappearing act...I had a quick laugh with that. I prefer seeing through people that are no longer there. It is immediate, simple, and meets my needs without the fallout. But just because you don't give your enemy your attention, doesn't mean you ignore their moves.
I disagree with everything in this video 1. ignoring idiots is not a dark trait 2. being silent is is a dark trait 3. making logical decisions is not a dark trait 4. Manipulating people with logic evidence and truth is not a dark trait 5. doesn't make sense and is not a sigma trait 6. taking extreme measures to accomplish goals is not a dark trait, in fact should be admired 7. not trusting people who have dark traits, is not a dark trait 8. doesn't make sense and is not a sigma trait
@@bradwasson2357 When someone believes poison is good for you, and I influence some one with facts, evidence and truth, so they believe that poison is not good for you, I have manipulated someone, for their own good. Do you see manipulation can be good? Every lawyer manipulates people, a jury is manipulated by 2 lawyers. If you are innocent and a lawyer manipulates the jury to have an innocent verdict, That is not a dark trait. Now you understand manipulation is NOT A DARK TRAIT
As a sigma male, I’ve always lived by forgive but never forget, those who forget tend to let history repeat itself. I’m openly silent with everyone excluding family (immediate). People are afraid of what they don’t know or understand that’s what makes us very dangerous.
I'm a Vampire, Does that mean I'm a also a Sigma Male? When a person is pretending in the first person (That means they are stereotyping themselves.) Unless the person is a Monster like Hitler, they are better than this junk. Look, diagnosing someone with a personality disorder or providing a comprehensive analysis of their personality based on historical information can be challenging and speculative. And thats using real science. A person might be something, but whatever it is, it's not "Sigma Male". There is no such thing. I like to pretend I have Magical Powers, But I know there are no Harry Potters.
🎯 Key Takeaways for quick navigation: 00:00 🕴️ Introduction to Sigma Males and their Dark Traits - Sigma males are stoic, humble, and uninterested in fitting into society. - Sigmas may possess traits associated with Machiavellianism, a part of the Dark Triad. 00:54 👻 Ignoring as a Defense Mechanism - Sigma males enact a social "vanishing act" if slighted or disrespected. - Offenders might become "invisible" to them, showing their capacity to sever connections. 01:46 🤫 Using Silence Strategically - Sigma males use silence as a tool of influence and boundary-setting. - Silence is employed to signal that certain behaviors or remarks are unacceptable. 02:39 🤖 Cold and Logical Decision Making - Sigma males make decisions based onlogic rather than emotion. - They assess their environment and social situations meticulously. 03:33 💭 Subconscious Manipulation - Sometimes, Sigma males might manipulate people subconsciously. - This tendency is linked with the "Sigma Matrix" concept, suggesting subconscious influence on reality. 04:56 🌟 Episodes of Grandiosity - Sigma males might exhibit symptoms similar to mania, causing intense focus. - Such episodes can empower them but might also cause them to overlook daily activities. 05:55 🚀 Extreme Measures for Goals - Sigma males are prepared to take significant risks to achieve their goals. - Their willingness to endure pain or practice extraordinary patience can be both commendable and risky. 06:47 📖 Unforgiving Memory - Sigma males remember those who have wronged them. - They might outwardly forgive but trust doesn't fully return. 07:45 🤔 Self-Critical Nature - They rely on personal accomplishments for self-affirmation. - They might suffer from Imposter Syndrome, causing them to doubt their achievements but also driving them to strive harder. 09:10 🎥 Video Closing - Invitation for viewers to comment, like, and subscribe for more content. - Promotes more videos on sigma males. Made with HARPA AI
I disagree with everything in this video 1. ignoring idiots is not a dark trait 2. being silent is is a dark trait 3. making logical decisions is not a dark trait 4. Manipulating people with logic evidence and truth is not a dark trait 5. doesn't make sense and is not a sigma trait 6. taking extreme measures to accomplish goals is not a dark trait, in fact should be admired 7. not trusting people who have dark traits, is not a dark trait 8. doesn't make sense and is not a sigma trait
Being a sigma effects the people around me and that care for me,and for that I am sorry,my friends and loved ones have always justified my actions. They know we are not weird or strange. Thankyou
Dang... Listening to this video, I get to see myself in very accurate descriptions. Im a lone wolf at heart and love my solitude. Interacting with ppl drain my energy . ppl who wrong me, I might forgive... But will never forget, and eventually will ghost them.
I bought 2 books for myself as a Christmas present 2023. Niccolo Machiavelli - The Prince Marcus Aurelius - Meditations One book gives me insight into my enemy, the other one gives me insight to a different way of Life, if I so choose that path. The question to be asked is. Which book is which?
At first, with my social awkwardness, I will give a person the benefit of the doubt. Screw me over once - which I do on purpose to see how a person acts when giving a lot of trust - my trust is removed and I may never trust at that level again. It leaves me open to be hurt, but people tend to show their true colors when presented with an opportunity carte blanch. Plus my late Sister told me one terrifying thing I do is become emotionally disassociated. I shut down to protect myself emotionally. I don't know if that describes me as Sigma, but I guess it's difficult to know when picking up pieces from a violent and rough childhood decades later.
Number 7 haunts me, these days most people live with one foot on each side of acceptable societal behavior. Therefore most people have displayed asshole behavior, entitlement to special treatment for “good deeds/volunteering.”I have witnessed this countless times within my sons sporting activities. I have no problem confronting them about this, and therefore I am demonized. The list of adults that will step on your child in order to have their child “succeed” is way too long! Integrity and a sense of fairness is out the window, scheming and swindling is the new normal. I won’t participate, I only hope that my children won’t suffer because of my morals!
Just explain it to them each and every day. The best method or view that I can say is like having your food stolen from another person while sitting on the same table. Giving them the “Sigma stare” and questioning their actions and majority of these people will self victimizing themselves and demonizing. In due time your sons will learn but of course they will need to experience it before truly understanding. You’ll be there to guide your sons . 💪🏽
"Integrity and a sense of fairness is out the window, scheming and swindling is the new normal." THIS is our Achilles heel. We, as a subgroup, are fair, honest, reliable, truthful, ethical, and having integrity to a fault. I only have sigma friends (only a couple) and known a few in my lifetime, and they are and were ALL the pinnacle of honesty, integrity, reliability, and truthfulness - unlike the rest of humanity... Thankfully, we, as a group, are hyper well informed, smart as a whip, creative, and tough, so we can and do ignore the rest of humanity who - let's be honest - are subpar as I came to realize late in my life... Our isolation from them is self protection and self-preservation. We have a saying - translated from another language - "if you fall into the pigs' slop, you'll be eaten by the pigs".
This is a wall I hit in therapy a long time ago. I was raised with very strict rules of manners, common courtesy, respect, etc. Typical real old fashioned, southern country shit. So living in a city now where 99% of people are self absorbed, oblivious narcissists triggers me to no end. I'll cut people out and ignore people very easily, but strangers? I'm absolutely confrontational if they cross me or show they're lack of basic common courtesy. That can be as simple as the dumbass who leaves their cart in the middle of the grocery aisle and walks 30 feet away. Have the shit you mentioned when it comes to child sports, I don't even think it's "scheming and swindling" half the time; these assholes are just inherently selfish cunts and it doesn't cross their mind who they're fucking over. That mentality is something I don't tolerate or forgive.
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Spot on..
I have, Every day I get to see it. Your spot on with you clips.
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Spot on.
Sigma characteristics are all indicative of very intelligent people navigating their way through a world dominated by idiots and their leaders.
How is cutting bad/toxic people off a "dark trait"? It brings more light to my life than anything else.
Perhaps whencurting off blood ties it can be seen as a bad thing, such as an abusive father
@@PJxBuchwild how is cutting off an abusive father a bad thing?
@@DoubleplusUngoodthinkful Cutting off an abusive father isn't a bad thing but the public perception of someone who wouldn't necessarily be positive.
@@PJxBuchwild I'm not sure how that would be the case, or why anyone would care about "public perception" if one is not a public figure.
Its bad for the person you cut off and good for you.
The Sigma Silence can be illustrated by the phrase "You are dead to me."
So true. I've cut off every friend I've had after they've disappointed me and have gotten to the point where I don't even bother making "real" friends anymore because I don't see the point in spending the time on a relationship that I know will end in disappointment. It gets lonely but I would rather be alone than betrayed again.
I've used the silent treatment to make a LOUD statement and it was weird how it greatly affected my brainwashed coworkers.
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These things are true
@@alistairmckay4368it helps to be this way.
I am 49 and have the same feelings towards other people.
I chose solitude over acceptance
Most Sigma videos seem to stroke ego's the right way, but this clip is by far the most comprehensively accurate I have seen. My entire life that no one could explain, ever, until now. Thank you, OP.
I always knew what I was. People used to think it was antisocial disorder when I was younger. Truth is, I can so easily read people and the vast majority disgust me.
@@chriswegman738THANK YOU!
Possibly the best comment here, yes!!
Never harm a sigma you want to keep in your life. Being dead to someone is powerfully painful.
I have erased a few people in my life and it was brutal for them. But they hurt me in a way that took earning my trust and using it against me.
Yup. If you are a close friend I don't need to be told to respect you and have your back and I expect nothing less in return.
Only a narc blocks people that way...... Eventually its just out of fear, every doctor knows that...
@@pleun315 Why should I care what you or anyone thinks? Its my life. I don't want people in it that make it less enjoyable.
Betrayal is the unforgivable sin
@@runyunhyde4373 if you can forgive the other, you also forgive yourself. If you dont, well.... that karma will come back and back untill you learn its not about them. They reflect something back........
These videos are like looking into a mirror. I have never been able to describe why I do what I do, but now I have a better understanding of myself. At first I thought that I was ill, now I know that I am just wired differently. I think that I can be myself instead of trying to fit what are called "societal norms".
You are I'll minded if you listen to any of this nonsense. Sigma males are fake
It's lowkey been therapeutic for me. Why haven't I heard of this until a couple weeks ago?!
It's what gamma males aspire to be, so they can dismiss their social ineptitude, as voluntary solitude.
its better to be yourself, as societal norms arent designed to benefit you as an individual, but rather society as a whole. society doesnt care about your well-being - so why should you waste effort trying to embed yourself into it’s norms?
@@hau5muzeek Society has become a bunch of lost sheep in support of evil apex leaders. The ways of the world are like a web for getting trapped in.
I am 100% a Sigma male....and proud of it.
It explains a lot ,right.
Likewise my colleague.
A true sigma male never reveals to others that he is a sigma male, you are now a beta male.
@@meyerfire21a true arrogant low self esteem douche brings people down that are looking for support.
You are the beta cuck.
Well a Sigma doesn't accept he's one.
Absolutely true on everything. We always playing high stakes game, hence we walk trough life on a very sharp blade. We are cold and dangerous but also very kind and gentle, giving people what they have given them by double ❤
Well said my Sigma brother.
you are not a sigma. real sigmas don't claim to be sigmas. and if you get triggered by my comment you are proving my point.
@@marvinromero9299 ... hey Sigma, you are manifesting manipulative and less than honest behaviour. We are all here Sigmas my brother, attracted by this content where we recognise ourselves and others, we respect people here. Fake humblenes is for beta's and alpha's. This place on youtube, this channel is our place to meet as you know we don't have much places in outside world where we meet other Sigmas... so we are here. And be sure in one thing, there is no perfect Sigma, some of us are stronger in one thing and weaker in another. We acknowladge these weaknesses to ourselves and to our brothers Sigma's and striving to become better. We know who we are here and there is no place for fake humbleness. This is what we are. Bless you brother !
@@keithwatkins8416 ... blessings to you brother 🙏
Sigma males only excist in the little ego.... Your doctor knows that, its just an illusion ........a fake label
Nothing wrong with anyone being quietly confident and moving forward. Rules of action in both normal life and work situations are very often similar. Subscribed to your channel a while ago and agree with most of this release. Keep up the good work which initially led me to having a good look into myself and confirming im on the right track. Cheers from OZ
After 57 years I'm finally understanding myself
Forgiveness is definitely my weakest trait. Recklessness will not be tolerated
Forgiveness is a strength of character, allowing us to move on from a hurt
@@Steve-sz8ynForgiveness is given, you have revealed yourself, a sigma will remember.
Truth!
I use to withhold forgiveness begrudgingly but I realized that I don't want someone to withhold forgiveness from me. It works both ways. Can't hold people to a different standard than we do for ourselves
I came across this channel by chance, never knew what a Sigma even was, but after watching a few of these videos I was left with the realization that these videos have described a certain character pretty well spot on...
I didn't understand who I was until I learned about Sigma. I feel like I have a place outside the walls of social city now.
you are not a sigma. real sigmas don't claim to be sigmas. and if you get triggered by my comment you are proving my point.
So I can't realise what I am without judgment, either? I'm not triggered by your comment, but it sounds like you're gatekeeping a categorically sectioned set of traits and saying if it triggers me, you get to feel validated in your comment. You must be an Alpha. So I'll just continue to never fit in anywhere and continue the path of solitude.
@@buzzjennings a real sigma wouldn't even respond to my comment
@@mrmale9985 No one in this comment section is a real sigma, including me. why would anyone want to be one, anyway? they are losers.
Defenetly agree with your comment
#5, Burnout: I had a couple of serious burnout seasons in my 20's & 30's.
It's an easy trap to fall into because, "*I* can get it done!!"
Well, another video and another round of introspection for me. I am currently not in agreement with the grandiosity trait, but I will dig a bit further into my psyche for examples.
I just recently had another incident of cutting those out who wronged me and couldn’t be trusted. A former employee whom I supervised for several years had a death in the immediate family. When working, I would make an appearance at services as a sign of respect. Now retired, I felt absolutely no obligation or desire to attend anything. I felt it was heartless, but absolutely more authentic and honest on my part than to attend and put on a “play nice” front with him and his cronies whom I did battle with on a daily basis while working. I wasn’t afraid of attending, but absolutely not interested in being dishonest with myself.
Again, I wish I had known and understood myself as being different years earlier. I can only imagine how much different life would have been if I had fully embraced and harnessed my sigma manhood. Wow, what an even better ride it could have been!
Ironically, you claim to not agree with......grandiosity.
LOL!!!!!!
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Ouch! Ok, you may be right on that one. But since another sigma trait is not letting others opinions of you bother you, well then, there’s that. 😁 (intended in good fun!). Thanks for the insight in pointing out the irony!
@@markl.6716Is disagreeing with someone's opinion grandiosity?
I never understood a lot of things about my behaviour and thought pattern till I heard about sigma males..This video helped me a lot. 90% of the video is correct and describes me and my attitude. Thank you
Same here. I've been called a narcissist, bipolar all sorts of crap. Turns out I'm just hard-core. Sigma INFJ. Literally rarest of the rare.
@@stevenopolis23yes you are special. So very special. I'm sure you no self work to do.
This sigma bullshit is dangerous. Tricking a buncha incels with personality disorders into believing they are superior to other humans. Ego driven.
100% of this video is fake. It is just for you to watch and for the person who made it to get likes that's it. Sigma males are fake
I disagree with everything in this video
1. ignoring idiots is not a dark trait
2. being silent is is a dark trait
3. making logical decisions is not a dark trait
4. Manipulating people with logic evidence and truth is not a dark trait
5. doesn't make sense and is not a sigma trait
6. taking extreme measures to accomplish goals is not a dark trait, in fact should be admired
7. not trusting people who have dark traits, is not a dark trait
8. doesn't make sense and is not a sigma trait
I'm a SIGMA INTP and it is not easy to be it. My thoughts are so much, all time I must seperate what is right for me and what not.
Keep ur information for urself
Even some of my best friends have had a year of silence from me , one lived just across the driveway from me , he stepped over the line and I didn't even acknowledge him for over a year,, while that relationship is mostly mended I have not forgotten what he did, and never will,
Although I talk to and get along with him now, I still haven't forgotten or really forgiven a conflict I had with my own brother from almost 20 fucking years ago.
@@Swearengen1980 its taken me over 40 years to get past what my brother put me through,, I understand,,
@@hugokappes4077 That sucks. Mine didn't put me "through" anything really. Until this whole Sigma thing came around, I just assumed I was a petty asshole LOL. Older brother, he got divorced, moved home and if he wanted to go out for drinks and bullshit, I went. Every time. When the situation was reversed and my divorce came, not one single time did he return the favor. Something I think most people would forgive and forget.
Dont confuse my kindness for weakness
I am kind to everyone, but if you wrong me, my niceness is not what you will remember about me
Trust me
That's completely me hahaha
Very eloquent use of words. Thanks for your effort making this video.
My pleasure, thanks!!!
I never knew why I acted this way. I always thought that something was wrong with me. This information helps me understand what I’m going through and why.
I had people say to me, “it’s unhealthy to hold a grudge with someone”, I’d tell that it takes to much energy to hold a grudge on someone, that when I’m done with someone I basically forget they even exist”. It’s hard to understand unless you’re a true sigma but it’s just something that comes naturally to me. They think I’m BSing them, until I tell them that they could be laying on the ground dying, and I’d just step over them and keep walking. It’s weird but that’s the way I am if I’m done.
This is sooo recognizable for me about myself.. I've always felt 'being wired differently' therefor often been misunderstood.
Dude my name is vinny too 😎✌️
@@vincentleoni6334👊
I’ve never verbally told someone that they a dead to me, but I do mentally write them off. They don’t exist in my world. I also never ever forget a wrong. No slight will go unpunished.
Finally. Much needed balance of all the adulating/overidealizing videos of this male subspecies.
Now I understand why I've always felt like I wasn't doing enough.. never heard if imposter syndrome. Thank you for taking a weight off my shoulders because I'm tired.
'You'll forget this today but I'll remember it tomorrow' saying of a true sigma head breaker
For sure
Excellent video, AG. Regarding grandiosity, the sigma man, by nature, has little to no ego. Ego is friction, necessary to move forward in life. For me, I have used grandiosity as an uncomfortable, voluntary friction to put myself into in order to motivate myself forward in a situation or goal, in lieu of ego. 👍🏻
That moving forward is very important.
Funny thing is.....sigma males only excist in the ego, its just an illusion, a fake label.... Your doctor knows that 🙏
I am understanding myself better through these videos, they are much appreciated and seem to hit the nail on the head. Thanks and please keep it up🍺
Very good. I recognize all but number 8 in my life. Number one: the cold side. I think is also meant to avoid conflict by accepting that the other didn’t match expectation. It’s a form of respect for the other being different, instead of pushing to change or fighting to demonstrate whose right or wrong. Number 8 I had to listen a few times, but I still don’t understand what you mean.
I’m I’m a moment of peace and calm, 2 people have been removed from my life very recently, left a huge void but needs must , only forward never back the restless march of life is always a beautiful struggle for clarity and inner peace and lots of people fall behind me and are forgotten left to their own lives
Excellent. Incredibly perceptive. You know me better than my mother. Thank you. 👏👏👏
I've watched a lot of these Sigma male videos by several different creators but I must say this is the only one I score 100% on. A little frightening actually but it's all true.
I disagree with everything in this video
1. ignoring idiots is not a dark trait
2. being silent is is a dark trait
3. making logical decisions is not a dark trait
4. Manipulating people with logic evidence and truth is not a dark trait
5. doesn't make sense and is not a sigma trait
6. taking extreme measures to accomplish goals is not a dark trait, in fact should be admired
7. not trusting people who have dark traits, is not a dark trait
8. doesn't make sense and is not a sigma trait
@@Brian-gx7yx you kinda sound butt hurt
never thought that my personality will be told and exactly explained in detail by other humans.. creepy and amazing at the same time, after 30yrs of existence.. i think i can safely say "so im a sigma.."
you are not a sigma. real sigmas don't claim to be sigmas. and if you get triggered by my comment you are proving my point.
@ak Those were my exact thoughts as a 23 Yr old
@@marvinromero9299lol attention seeking certainly isn’t a good view, fellow human
@@marvinromero9299 like i care😆
@@ak-uu8nl It seems you do. Another man would have ignored my comment.
I forgive for my own piece of mind. However...you are correct. I do not forget. Just because I forgive does not imply anything else. Everyone makes genuine mistakes...most of these will get ignored. If the mistake continues but elevates each time...those are not mistakes. This is when the silent treatment you talked about is applied...lol
Great analysis. Enjoyed it.❤
Thank you!
Im 54 yrs old ive never looked into the difference of male groups. Glad i finally did explains so much,
Spectacular video. Imposter syndrome was something I didn’t know anything about and it made so much sense. The whole video describes me to me. Amazing
Spot On.
i am between jobs right now after 15 years (waiting to start training for a new one right now) and you just described me and my entire summer perfectly. The lofty expectations, over- self criticism, while trying to tune out others, while planning my grand new plans…damn. It actually really helped me to see this thank you
Good luck in your new career👍💯
This was very accurate! Sigma brothers unite
I never could wrap my head around forgiveness. I'm trying to forgive my sister that I cut out of my life but I can't. This video may explain this behaviour for me. Thank You.
I try to be patient with people and if there is a way to not attribute to malice what can be explained by ignorance I try to find a way forward in the name of something bigger. But sometimes I simply cannot.
I don’t know who is behind this masterpiece but it is the best one yet 🎉🎉
Appreciate it!
Bravo. Great episode. Thanks.
It’s not a social act it’s having full control of your emotions
And it comes from a hard young life
It’s a gift and a curse
I’ve lived with it my entire life
And I always thought I was different
I disagree with everything in this video
1. ignoring idiots is not a dark trait
2. being silent is is a dark trait
3. making logical decisions is not a dark trait
4. Manipulating people with logic evidence and truth is not a dark trait
5. doesn't make sense and is not a sigma trait
6. taking extreme measures to accomplish goals is not a dark trait, in fact should be admired
7. not trusting people who have dark traits is not a dark trait
8. doesn't make sense and is not a sigma trait
This describes me surprisingly well. In my quest for answers and self-discovery I only recently discovered that I may be what is known as a "sigma male". I for sure possess 7 out of 8 of these traits. The 4th trait, subconsciously and subtly manipulate others, I'll need to ponder and reflect on more. I'm not sure I would classify or call all these traits "dark" per say. Depending on how these tendencies or traits are used by an individual, I suppose they could be good or bad (I guess I associate dark with bad?). I do not perceive myself as someone with bad intentions. But I can be hard and extremism when pushed or when it's necessary. I'm a protector by nature. I will protect not only myself, but others who are in need.
I feel like you explained me in my current form. A few small differences, but very accurate. I feel. I don't like to give myself titles like this, but I feel like you were explaining me.
Spot on!
The not responding one has to do with the consideration of ALL outcomes. As a sigma myself, I'm internally torn between all the outcomes and deciding which action to take. Meanwhile, my facial expression shows absolutely no reflection of what is happening inside. In the end, not responding or taking action, letting things go by is the easiest way to deal with things as it causes little to no consequence. Ofcourse this is in a normal situation, not one that actually requires action.
real sigmas don't claim to be sigmas. and if you get triggered by my comment you are proving my point.
Mind if I ask how old you are?
@@marvinromero9299 sigmas only excist in the ego...... Its an illusion, a fake label.....your doctor knows that
@@marvinromero9299Nice canned response. Do you plan on spamming the comment section with it forever?
@@marvinromero9299tru😅😂
Not gonna lie. For the longest time I thought I was a psycho. Glad there are others with the same mindset
My comment is clearly positive...I can absolutely relate to the dialogue 4 thumbs up 💯😁
For a while I thought sigma was a made up characteristic or trait.. but when I look back as far as high school upto now in my late 50's there almost isn't any outline that doesn't fit my personality.. it's very reassuring to pin point why I carried myself the way I did and do for all these years not know why until recently within the past year thanks to educational formats such as this one.. Thanks a million... I feel very powerful knowing that there is a definition to my otherwise seemingly misunderstood personality... It all makes perfect sense now.. WOW!! And Amen!
Per my mother's reminiscences, I exhibited sigma traits as early as 4. Such as: stoicism, immense curiosity, dislike of group-things/play in kindergarten, aloofness, self-reliance, liking of being/playing by myself, unforgiving, and resourcefulness.
So I think that it's at least partially innate and maybe even genetic, because my father was a sigma - for sure.
Awesome well done
Thanks😊
Spot on as always
The unconscious manipulation bit hit hard! I thought i was nuts😧
Thank you 🙏
But, how to control it?🤔
Great video and very insightful. Funny as I thought the same in your interpretation of what it means to be a sigma . That is to say perhaps some traits in psychopathy, the branch of psychology that differentiates between psychopathic and sociopathic traits? Only, if conflated to a national level or even global, I would describe myself as a idealistic meritocratic, yet pragmatic western liberal democracy 😊
It all sounds right to me
Thank you for helping me understand myself better 🙏
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100% SPOT ON THE ONLY DIFFERENCE IS I AM FEMALE ..SIGMA NOT MALE ..SIGMA IE YOUR BRILLIANT EXPLANATION FROM MY POINT VIEW THEIR IS NO DEFERENCE IN YOUR EXCELLENT ANALYSIS .OF SIGMA TRAITS ..WELL DONE ❤️
Definitely spot on. I swear if someone crosses or disrespects me one time I can never forgive. I can move on but that’s it. The rat is true as well.
I dunno about "using silence as a weapon" per-se, I just go into "cant be bothered with you anymore" mode. Thankfully, getting rid of useless people with the "bye-bye" switch is a great gift.
😍that point there! it's just like cutting a string. Sometimes we can even regret later (a long time tho) but can't admit it or let it cloud our mind.
you worded it correctly,just cut strings o words needed. words just add turmoil and we aint about that at all
@@gideonbigwi2233 I've regretted some decisions a little because over time, and retrospective, and that backwards-analysis thing where you replay an event, you may realize that you now see things you didn't at the time. (Like the other person's perspective) but at that point, it's too late. You realize you're prob better off anyway, and you say "ok, learned something there.." and just move on.
@@turbofreek The "pesterers" can be the WORST. I finally realized that you can explain something PERFECTLY, with every ounce of detail, fact and logic, and they simply can't grasp what you're saying, no matter how well laid out it is. It's not worth the hassle. You're singing to a dead audience. I have a go-to memory for a lot of things, and I made the mistake of explaining to a pathological liar how their lies were lies. What a lost cause. Now, when I encounter one, I just say "Uh huh..oh, really? Ok" cause you know you'll get nowhere getting into it, disproving etc. I used to think people would/could analyze their behavior (removing pathology from the equation - just general shittiness) and conclude why I bounced, cause I would and could analyze a situation. They can't and don't, they just wonder why because their brains only go so far. (Sorry- shoulda rented a lecture hall for that one..)
@@gideonbigwi2233 and thanks for the compliment, 'preciate it.
Number 7.Yes I always Forgive But I Do Not Forget.The Trust Is Gone.Yes I am A Sigma Male.❤
I found the silent treatment drove many people insane. I did that to the woman I married. I realized that this was also destructive. I married this empathic woman. After the last one I did, as I realized she was hurting so much, she didn't deserve that from a mate that I chose and she chose to accept. I even told her I wouldn't anymore.
It is a good weapon gents, but apply with wisdom based on your relationship with them.
I'm glad I didn't do anymore as she would die within a few years. I can't imagine if i missed one more day not hearing from her.
I see myself in a lot of these scenarios that you lined out
My family and friends feel if they violate my boundaries they'll simply never hear from me again. Some of them have actually told me they're afraid of this whenever they talk to me. I have to reassure them they've never been close to that point, but yeah, it's there.
Heard about the term Sigma male today and have looked into it as requested... and i burst into tears. I thought i was a bloody weirdo due to the way my brain functions. Its so uplifting knowing other peoples brains work the same spaggy way
Forgiving is too often taken as permission to do it again, somewhere down the road.
I'm glad to listen to a true definition and example of just who I am at my core. I've always been like this yet it was leary striving to word it. I'd rather show you than tell you. I am Sigma born.
Silence is the best weapon against idiots 🗿
Always learning more about myself after I learned I am a Sigma male.thank you
I used to get told alot when I was little go away adults are talking so on and so on I would hide around the corner and hear all the secrets. I was a quiet kid kept to myself at home. Whenever I talked they would always say it was stupid or I didn't know anything. So I listened, I observed the world around me and how my family interacted. After my father hit me the last time I knocked him out cold then went away for a year and actually got to have some kind of childhood. After graduation I joined the military and behold my family talked shit about me the whole time. See I was the scapegoat,black sheep, and new term I've learned the truth teller. My family is full of narcissistic me being me a very logical thinking person whenever they would come at me I'd would just throw facts at them and they couldn't keep up, they would end up getting mad and then try to make me look like the bad person. There all afraid to talk to me know I have so much dirt on them that they don't want exposed Going on 4 years now with no contact from them and one year no contact from the ex and it is great. They have no idea what I have planned at all.
Totally agree, I know & loved one personally..totally spot on in your assessment. Too much mental drama for life, love & yrue purpose...let sigmas live & go.
Right on the money!
On point
good video, i got sort of surprised when i came across this term sigma male and videos appearing here and there,
most of those i seen and heard were spot on in terms of behaviourism, same as this one
i'd obviously add few comments
in general some of those things i am not very proud of like pretending that other people dont exist, so yes, i am aiming for this balance you are mentioning here as well. nice one.
Thank you for your cogent analysis. I fall neatly thus and appreciate your opinion.
“I won’t be wronged. I won’t be insulted. I won’t be laid a hand on. I don’t do these things to other people and I require the same from them.” - John Wayne
Very accurate....
4:30 ish, i tend to "force" manifestations into existence subconsciously. i don't even try sometimes
The more I watch these videos on Sigmas, the more I notice I align with this heavily.
Being a Sigma is one of thise things you don't get to choose. It's what you do with it that defines you. It can be a gift for great goodness, or terrible badness. For me I had always wanted to be as useful as I could because I liked helping people.
It wasn't until a select few made it their life's goal to see me when I'm mad. Like, really mad. Because they couldn't understand why all their attempts had failed. Each one increasing in pettiness and severeness.
It's quite honestly gotten out of control just for one guy.
I don't like having to do bad things. Yet they come so easily to me.
The social ghosting is the nicer version of getting rid of somebody. Because I feel there's a part of me that would have no problems in literally getting rid of somebody.
Silence has also come very easily to me. It's not so much a conscious reaction as it is a defense mechanism. It's to shut out the bullshit I was seeing in front of me as these people kept trying and trying and trying. This is the stage where I still believe you could be a decent person, just before cutting the person out. So if you've been cut out, you must analyze yourself. Because I didn't just do it for no fucking reason. I don't look at some people because I can't stand looking at them because of how I've seen them through my own eyes. It's easier to walk away than to feed in to what is only trying to cause negative emotions. If I can't physically remove myself from you, I will shut you out one way or another.
Being cold and calculated has come with the territory. Without being able to have made these types of decisions, it greatly reduces chances of survival. If you can't think rationally when shit gets real, then you'll find yourself in just as bad of a situation as everyone else. These are often the best kinds of decisions for making deep personal progress, but may have negatively intended effects because of how cold these decisions sometimes have to be.
The subconscious manipulation is also part if the territory. I only use it when it is imperative to get a point of reason across. When people consciously try to make bad decisions, I try to persuade them based on my own knowledge why it may not be a good idea. This kind of ties in with being cold and calculating. It's also another thing that just naturally comes easy as a result of the condition. Being naturally assured of one's self is naturally assuring to others. Which also naturally draws them towards you. It's unconscious manipulation because of the overwhelming positive aura that draws people in. The light in the darkness attracting all who seek it.
Grandiosity comes as a side effect of being so assured of myself. Knowing my own abilities and my achievements up to this point. I believe I am great because there has been nothing telling me otherwise. I was never the best at any one thing. But I was always the best at everything I ever put any effort into even if that effort was the first time doing it. It's not a sense of self importance, that I think I'm better than everyone else. It's because I know my achievements are all above what an average person could achieve. It's hard not to think highly of yourself when it's right in front if your face how great you really are. I come from humble beginnings, so I don't relish in this fact. I enjoy the recognition, I just don't allow it to define me. I do it for the satisfaction of knowing I did something good. My abilities are too beneficial to be wasted on bad things or not using them at all. The "mania" outbursts come from a deep and overwhelming emotion on a subject that has been a repressed topic of discussion. It's that extra sauce on top to really drive the point home that it was unwise to set off down this path.
Extreme measures to accomplish goals stems from all those attempts at trying to ruin me. When all you wanted in life was to get away from this shitty life and it just keeps trying to suck you back in, you would also stop at nothing to get the fuck away from it. I may be winning the war. But every battle has been hard fought and lost along the way. I'm no stranger to losing or to loss. I've been losing my whole life. In doing so has taught me determination in never giving up. Which makes even the smallest victories a great achievement.
Never forgetting the people who have wronged me... Where do I begin? For me, I don't like holding grudges. I can look past small infractions and write them off as accidents. It's not until a pattern emerges in those infractions when it becomes a problem. The more frequent or severe the infraction, the less I want to forget. Because looking past these bahaviors is what has ultimately led me down this path I currently find myself walking. Never forget what they did lest you find yourself falling back into the arms of ill-intent. And certainly never forgive them. Because it's not an accident if you would continue to do it. Then it becomes accidentally on purpose. A behavior I've become all to familiar with.
Being dangerously hard on myself is a way to keep motivated. When you lose focus on the goal when everything around you only wants to see you fail, even the slightest misstep can lead to disaster. It's not an intended feature. But it does serve a purpose in personal growth. If you don't have the drive to keep pushing even when all hope seems lost, then you will surely become stagnated and death follows close behind. It was always having that internal motivation to keep going that has kept me alive.
Every part of my life has made me what I am. It was me and only me who has seen it through to where I am. When you're the only person left in your corner cheering you on, any amount of doubt will lead to failure. Which is often in the worst degree. It has always been do or die. So you learn to get shit done and not complain about it. I don't wish the life I've had on anyone. I'm just the 1 in however many millions that have endured similar lives that hasn't been corrupted by it. And I owe that to the values I wanted to set for myself and my determination in upholding those values.
I know that deep down I'm not a good person. I just sometimes do good things. This is a condition I didn't ask for, but now graciously embrace. Given my disposition and how I ended up, I AM proud of having it. It's not something to be taken lightly. But when it's used for good is overwhelmingly good. It's pride in having a power that can do great things for the greater good. Since not many people anymore share the same perspective.
I am who I am for a reason. A reason I can't argue. All I can do is follow what it brings me and be prepared for anything as I've always been
I disagree with everything in this video
1. ignoring idiots is not a dark trait
2. being silent is is a dark trait
3. making logical decisions is not a dark trait
4. Manipulating people with logic evidence and truth is not a dark trait
5. doesn't make sense and is not a sigma trait
6. taking extreme measures to accomplish goals is not a dark trait, in fact should be admired
7. not trusting people who have dark traits, is not a dark trait
8. doesn't make sense and is not a sigma trait
I am a sigma male. INFJ Sigma empath. Never in my life, have I Ever had about
Grandiosity. That's not in our personality. Cutting people dead yes, But we always have given to my chance first. Becoming very focused on my Goals yes. Almost to the point of obsession. But I've never lost Reality . I'm always extremely aware of my surroundings.
To be able to finally understand yourself
I'm a sigma male, as in I fit 95% of what a sigma is right down to the color clothing I like. "They can pretend like you don’t exist." Yup, we do this. If you cross my line - you are done. I'll walk right by you like you are invisible. I could care less. I've actually been accused of being the "first" human without emotions by someone who I cut off. Nope, you're just a waste of my time and we don't like wasting time. If you waste our time, you're gone.
Reflecting at the end of the day is extremely important.
7:07. 7-O'clock Flight LAX.
Or 7 O'clock News.
My friend is that personality..
Bro I have commented this a lot of time not all sigmas are the same we do have some similarities but each person and each sigma is different and believe me I have met some pretty dark egotistical sycophant sigmas
I question the "always of high intelligence" and analytical thing too. There's just no "one size fits all" container.
most of the time when people think Im egotistical, I try to consider the source before being immediately put off by such an assessment. Most of the time those who say this, are quite mediocre and have nothing remotely interesting or worth talking about when it comes to them. eg: they arent where I am in life, they never worked hard for anything, and it then begins to be translated as envious hate. I gracefully still give them respect, but the dark side of me will throttle these motherfuckers if they ever step to me. None of them ever do, being the chicken shit low value people they are. #sigmathefuckon
Most people who say they are sigma's are idiots
I was not even a minute in when this video got straight to the point with the disappearing act...I had a quick laugh with that. I prefer seeing through people that are no longer there. It is immediate, simple, and meets my needs without the fallout. But just because you don't give your enemy your attention, doesn't mean you ignore their moves.
I disagree with everything in this video
1. ignoring idiots is not a dark trait
2. being silent is is a dark trait
3. making logical decisions is not a dark trait
4. Manipulating people with logic evidence and truth is not a dark trait
5. doesn't make sense and is not a sigma trait
6. taking extreme measures to accomplish goals is not a dark trait, in fact should be admired
7. not trusting people who have dark traits, is not a dark trait
8. doesn't make sense and is not a sigma trait
@Brian-gx7yx manipulating is absolutely a dark trait. At the very least if you gotta agree it is a shit trait
@@Brian-gx7yx you sound like a sociopath.
@@bradwasson2357 When someone believes poison is good for you, and I influence some one with facts, evidence and truth, so they believe that poison is not good for you, I have manipulated someone, for their own good.
Do you see manipulation can be good?
Every lawyer manipulates people, a jury is manipulated by 2 lawyers. If you are innocent and a lawyer manipulates the jury to have an innocent verdict, That is not a dark trait. Now you understand manipulation is NOT A DARK TRAIT
As a sigma male, I’ve always lived by forgive but never forget, those who forget tend to let history repeat itself. I’m openly silent with everyone excluding family (immediate). People are afraid of what they don’t know or understand that’s what makes us very dangerous.
don't show your cards !
forgiveness isnt sigma, i never forgive nor forget.
@@turbofreek do you really forgive if you never forget though?
I'm a Vampire, Does that mean I'm a also a Sigma Male? When a person is pretending in the first person (That means they are stereotyping themselves.) Unless the person is a Monster like Hitler, they are better than this junk. Look, diagnosing someone with a personality disorder or providing a comprehensive analysis of their personality based on historical information can be challenging and speculative. And thats using real science. A person might be something, but whatever it is, it's not "Sigma Male". There is no such thing. I like to pretend I have Magical Powers, But I know there are no Harry Potters.
Dangerous..😂 only narcs are.....
🎯 Key Takeaways for quick navigation:
00:00 🕴️ Introduction to Sigma Males and their Dark Traits
- Sigma males are stoic, humble, and uninterested in fitting into society.
- Sigmas may possess traits associated with Machiavellianism, a part of the Dark Triad.
00:54 👻 Ignoring as a Defense Mechanism
- Sigma males enact a social "vanishing act" if slighted or disrespected.
- Offenders might become "invisible" to them, showing their capacity to sever connections.
01:46 🤫 Using Silence Strategically
- Sigma males use silence as a tool of influence and boundary-setting.
- Silence is employed to signal that certain behaviors or remarks are unacceptable.
02:39 🤖 Cold and Logical Decision Making
- Sigma males make decisions based onlogic rather than emotion.
- They assess their environment and social situations meticulously.
03:33 💭 Subconscious Manipulation
- Sometimes, Sigma males might manipulate people subconsciously.
- This tendency is linked with the "Sigma Matrix" concept, suggesting subconscious influence on reality.
04:56 🌟 Episodes of Grandiosity
- Sigma males might exhibit symptoms similar to mania, causing intense focus.
- Such episodes can empower them but might also cause them to overlook daily activities.
05:55 🚀 Extreme Measures for Goals
- Sigma males are prepared to take significant risks to achieve their goals.
- Their willingness to endure pain or practice extraordinary patience can be both commendable and risky.
06:47 📖 Unforgiving Memory
- Sigma males remember those who have wronged them.
- They might outwardly forgive but trust doesn't fully return.
07:45 🤔 Self-Critical Nature
- They rely on personal accomplishments for self-affirmation.
- They might suffer from Imposter Syndrome, causing them to doubt their achievements but also driving them to strive harder.
09:10 🎥 Video Closing
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I disagree with everything in this video
1. ignoring idiots is not a dark trait
2. being silent is is a dark trait
3. making logical decisions is not a dark trait
4. Manipulating people with logic evidence and truth is not a dark trait
5. doesn't make sense and is not a sigma trait
6. taking extreme measures to accomplish goals is not a dark trait, in fact should be admired
7. not trusting people who have dark traits, is not a dark trait
8. doesn't make sense and is not a sigma trait
Being a sigma effects the people around me and that care for me,and for that I am sorry,my friends and loved ones have always justified my actions. They know we are not weird or strange. Thankyou
Dang... Listening to this video, I get to see myself in very accurate descriptions. Im a lone wolf at heart and love my solitude. Interacting with ppl drain my energy . ppl who wrong me, I might forgive... But will never forget, and eventually will ghost them.
100/100 accurate about me, all those traits was like watching myself in a mirror.👌 straight to the moon🚀🚀🚀
I'd like to believe that a sigma male would never identify as a sigma male.
It’s not a fear of being exposed as a fraud. It’s about the fear of failure, we put success as a benchmark of validation.
I bought 2 books for myself as a Christmas present 2023.
Niccolo Machiavelli - The Prince
Marcus Aurelius - Meditations
One book gives me insight into my enemy, the other one gives me insight to a different way of Life, if I so choose that path.
The question to be asked is. Which book is which?
Any book recommendations?
This stuff is fascinating and I want to read and learn more about who and why I am who I am.
A burst out laughing my head off. When spot on answer. They can pretend like you don’t exist. Is so true I was crying from laughing.
Yep i agree 💯 i was today old(49) when i found out im sigma i wish i found out 20 years ago i may have taken a different path
At first, with my social awkwardness, I will give a person the benefit of the doubt. Screw me over once - which I do on purpose to see how a person acts when giving a lot of trust - my trust is removed and I may never trust at that level again.
It leaves me open to be hurt, but people tend to show their true colors when presented with an opportunity carte blanch.
Plus my late Sister told me one terrifying thing I do is become emotionally disassociated. I shut down to protect myself emotionally.
I don't know if that describes me as Sigma, but I guess it's difficult to know when picking up pieces from a violent and rough childhood decades later.
Number 7 haunts me, these days most people live with one foot on each side of acceptable societal behavior. Therefore most people have displayed asshole behavior, entitlement to special treatment for “good deeds/volunteering.”I have witnessed this countless times within my sons sporting activities. I have no problem confronting them about this, and therefore I am demonized. The list of adults that will step on your child in order to have their child “succeed” is way too long! Integrity and a sense of fairness is out the window, scheming and swindling is the new normal. I won’t participate, I only hope that my children won’t suffer because of my morals!
Just explain it to them each and every day. The best method or view that I can say is like having your food stolen from another person while sitting on the same table. Giving them the “Sigma stare” and questioning their actions and majority of these people will self victimizing themselves and demonizing. In due time your sons will learn but of course they will need to experience it before truly understanding. You’ll be there to guide your sons . 💪🏽
"Integrity and a sense of fairness is out the window, scheming and swindling is the new normal."
THIS is our Achilles heel. We, as a subgroup, are fair, honest, reliable, truthful, ethical, and having integrity to a fault.
I only have sigma friends (only a couple) and known a few in my lifetime, and they are and were ALL the pinnacle of honesty, integrity, reliability, and truthfulness - unlike the rest of humanity...
Thankfully, we, as a group, are hyper well informed, smart as a whip, creative, and tough, so we can and do ignore the rest of humanity who - let's be honest - are subpar as I came to realize late in my life...
Our isolation from them is self protection and self-preservation. We have a saying - translated from another language - "if you fall into the pigs' slop, you'll be eaten by the pigs".
This is a wall I hit in therapy a long time ago. I was raised with very strict rules of manners, common courtesy, respect, etc. Typical real old fashioned, southern country shit. So living in a city now where 99% of people are self absorbed, oblivious narcissists triggers me to no end. I'll cut people out and ignore people very easily, but strangers? I'm absolutely confrontational if they cross me or show they're lack of basic common courtesy. That can be as simple as the dumbass who leaves their cart in the middle of the grocery aisle and walks 30 feet away. Have the shit you mentioned when it comes to child sports, I don't even think it's "scheming and swindling" half the time; these assholes are just inherently selfish cunts and it doesn't cross their mind who they're fucking over. That mentality is something I don't tolerate or forgive.