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  • Опубликовано: 22 янв 2025

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  • @TiffanyTV
    @TiffanyTV  Год назад +4

    good newwws! In addition to the physical deck, I’ve just dropped a digital copy of my “i’m listening self-love deck” journal … perfect for anyone outside of the U.S. or anyone who wants to have it on their phone.. find both here: www.tiffanylaibhen.com/shop

  • @ChastitySmith
    @ChastitySmith Год назад +124

    God really led me to this channel, I relate so much to these topics.

  • @KellyAileen
    @KellyAileen Год назад +28

    There are so many of us in the comments relating to EVERYTHING Tiffany is saying! So many of us on a similar journey but feeling so alone at the same time! Seeing everyone in the comments is so comforting! Then you Tiffany and thank you everyone in the comments.

  • @wellsaid7192
    @wellsaid7192 Год назад +26

    Focus on building up your “emotional resilience” when you’re going through anxiety or depression. Remember, you’re not alone.
    Joy and sadness can’t resides in the same place. So do the things that bring you joy every single day. I hope this helps someone.

  • @Niyarg
    @Niyarg Год назад +29

    I’ve literally had these symptoms and reactions..can’t think straight, dizzy, get overwhelmed, even in moments when I logically know everything is ok…there’s still a feeling of unease and worry

    • @nadinemode1451
      @nadinemode1451 Год назад +3

      You describing me now.... it's so overwhelming that I'm shaking... literally

    • @Niyarg
      @Niyarg Год назад +2

      @@nadinemode1451 will say a prayer for you right now mama. We got this

  • @jamievarts
    @jamievarts Год назад +47

    I needed this so much !! I need to reflect and dive in more into myself. My anxiety is based off of past trauma. And I need to challenge that and heal

    • @TiffanyTV
      @TiffanyTV  Год назад +3

      you got this mamas. slow + steady

  • @hendsharef
    @hendsharef Год назад +20

    I recently discovered your channel and I love it so much. You really go deep into these topics and they hit home for me often as a mom, as someone who has struggled with crippling my entire life. You are separate from all the other content on here because you’re not yelling at us to SHOW UP AS THAT GIRL lmao without any context or understanding of how anxiety shows up for people and how they deal with it. So much content on here is well intentioned but ends up making people feel bad about themselves because they can’t implement a certain mindset due to deeper issues they deal with. That is definitely not the case here. Please keep being exactly you! ❤

    • @TiffanyTV
      @TiffanyTV  Год назад +2

      I felt every word of this to the core + it’s funny because I spoke on this exact thing in tomorrows video lol… the feeling of being yelled at via content with no real direction of how to not only look good, but to actually heal. I’m glad you resonate + thank you for these beautiful words 🤎🙏🏾

  • @alkelangaspard
    @alkelangaspard Год назад +2

    Ouuu “Emotions don’t just disappear, they go somewhere.” WOW I didn’t know this. For so long I’ve been trying to erase my emotions, it’s no wonder things would get worse, when I try to ignore them. It’s about learning to manage them and go through them healthily. ❤Appreciate you sharing your wisdom with us, this is a game changer. Thank you!

  • @Muvaaaking
    @Muvaaaking Год назад +2

    Tiffanys is like my second therapist, girl you are amazing! she a light at the end of a dark tunnel. so glad i found her channel. she inspires my creativity on my own channnel as well and inspires me to make content.

  • @itsrickele
    @itsrickele 6 месяцев назад

    the intro got me. This is not who I am. I am just operating off of "getting money" when I've been putting off my passion for a long time. Its the fear of failing.

  • @vickie1st
    @vickie1st Год назад +5

    I'm working on myself in a number of ways. It's crazy how things happen, I watched a couple of your videos yesterday. And, last night I was talking to my husband about wanting to have more control on how I allow my day to go when something happens to throw me off. Taking a minute to move your body, shake your arms dance if you choose to when you know that dancing makes you feel better is so true .Your words are so peacefully given compassion and with direct guidance so thank you and may your light continue to shine bright.

    • @TiffanyTV
      @TiffanyTV  Год назад

      thank you so much for this heartfelt feedback… received sis 🤎

  • @Genesis_dot_com
    @Genesis_dot_com Год назад +2

    You have no idea the warmth I felt seeing this video in my suggested videos. I’m so happy everytime your videos come across 💖

  • @natalielagunas9037
    @natalielagunas9037 Год назад +1

    Not me crying omw to work 🥲 you’re right. We need community. & you’ll know if you have the right community when youre venting about your struggles and they hold space for you ♥️

  • @aaliyahsymoneee
    @aaliyahsymoneee Год назад +5

    The line in the dirt analogy was so powerful and encouraging for me. It’s difficult not bearing fruit from the seeds you plant immediately and the process takes so much patience and consistency. I didn’t know that I needed this kind of validation to continue the path of conscious choice. Much love, thank you🩷

    • @TiffanyTV
      @TiffanyTV  Год назад +1

      whew. it’s the hardest part… to keep pushing yourself past the point you typically give up on.. but so so worth it!

  • @shanilynyae
    @shanilynyae Год назад +3

    I can’t help but cry 😢 it’s like you get me. Thank you for these type of videos .. This is for me

    • @TiffanyTV
      @TiffanyTV  Год назад +1

      you are not alone love 🫂🤎

  • @sandysomar1132
    @sandysomar1132 Год назад +2

    I'm so glad to have found your channel. I can relate so much. Thank you for sharing with us.

  • @heynurseletschat
    @heynurseletschat Год назад +3

    This is golden sis. Your channel is a clear sign of divine alignment. Continued blessings on your journey 🩷✨🙏🏾

    • @TiffanyTV
      @TiffanyTV  Год назад

      🥹 received love! I’m happy you’re here 🫂

  • @veronicavail777
    @veronicavail777 11 месяцев назад

    omg the way u just put it made me have a lightbulb moment. we are not the events or anything that happens, we get so attached to emoitons behind events it becomes a part of our identity, but we can easily shift that through this awareness

  • @tc5386
    @tc5386 Год назад +2

    This was so good. Very well explained and thought out. Thank you 🫶🏽

  • @breyalee9093
    @breyalee9093 Год назад +1

    I am so grateful for this knowledge. Your love and wisdom. I truly thank God. I needed this today 🖤🖤Thank you

  • @dawnanderson5611
    @dawnanderson5611 Год назад +3

    I am thankful and grateful to have found your channel 🙏🏾

    • @TiffanyTV
      @TiffanyTV  Год назад +1

      I’m grateful that you’re here 🫂🤎

  • @rynasty777
    @rynasty777 Год назад +1

    I love this videoooo! I was wondering if you ever ended up making a video on anxiety vs. intuition? I struggle figuring that out a lot and it ends up making me feel more anxious. My intuition is very strong and it has predicted some very accurate, specific and traumatic events so whenever I get the slightest feeling I'm like oop something bad is gonna happen! lol

  • @LatriceAnderson-uj8zr
    @LatriceAnderson-uj8zr Год назад +1

    YES my HEAVENLY FATHER directed me to your channel & it feels so good & very positive for me Thank u Tiffany

  • @myacarrington1495
    @myacarrington1495 Год назад

    Everything you say really relate to this so much. Anxiety really be kicking me . And this is exactly how I feel.

  • @sasgirl26
    @sasgirl26 Год назад

    I have not felt so seen before. I truly thank you from the deepest part of my heart. I have so much hope in me now 💗✨💖🥰

  • @Oakmille
    @Oakmille 10 месяцев назад

    I’m so happy you decided to make these videos. I feel like all of the videos in this series have been things I needed to hear to help me strengthen my ability to persevere through lifelong anxiety. I really appreciate you.

    • @TiffanyTV
      @TiffanyTV  10 месяцев назад

      this is the reason I do it mama… thank you for sharing 😌🤎

  • @Botho_Nchidzi
    @Botho_Nchidzi Год назад +3

    Mam! These videos are gems. Thank you for sharing your journey ❤

    • @TiffanyTV
      @TiffanyTV  Год назад

      you’re so welcome love! 🤎

  • @melaninmonai
    @melaninmonai Год назад +1

    Girl you be hitting real good with your videos, new subscriber here and I’m loving it !!! Thank you thank you 🫶🏾

    • @TiffanyTV
      @TiffanyTV  Год назад

      😌 you are so welcome love!

  • @AntigonesWay
    @AntigonesWay Год назад +2

    Boy oh boy did I need this. Thank you Tiffany!! 🙏🏾
    I’ve been bingeing on all of your videos. ♥️♥️♥️
    This is so transparent and helpful as well as relatable.

    • @TiffanyTV
      @TiffanyTV  Год назад +1

      you are so welcome love 🤎

  • @nadinemode1451
    @nadinemode1451 Год назад +5

    You back😭 i missed you on youtube. Your videos, your contents are so meaningful. This video.... everything you are describing IS ME!!!! I always ask myself why i'm different why can't i enjoy the moments? Thank you for the tips and steps. I will applied them and get back at you like i always do. Much love

    • @TiffanyTV
      @TiffanyTV  Год назад +2

      Hi my love!! slowly getting back.. but i’m so glad it speaks to you. i’ve missed you all so much 🤎

  • @jzhhxh9128
    @jzhhxh9128 Год назад +1

    Great tips for managing anxiety and living a more fulfilling life!

  • @Novalee_Love
    @Novalee_Love Год назад

    So greatful to have found ur channel. I have been looking for a someone to watch/liatein to that doesnt sound like a yelling motivational vedio.
    I lobe that fact thaf your so real and vulnerable, i can resonate and have felt this way for a while. Aill be 34 and i need to heal and be the woman of my vesion. ❤ peace to you

  • @yasmineyaisrael595
    @yasmineyaisrael595 Год назад +1

    I love you ❤❤ thank you so much because almost all of your videos resonates with me

  • @mirandaalaine
    @mirandaalaine Год назад

    God led me here. You are speaking to my soul in so many ways. Thank you.

  • @stylesbykbella
    @stylesbykbella Год назад +1

    This has been me lately I can't shake back away from this anxiety and worry! always been an introvert and private!

  • @mohreena
    @mohreena Год назад

    just found this channel today and its the right time..aint going no where away from it

  • @brittanniadias
    @brittanniadias Год назад +4

    "Say hi to the camera :D" "no..." killed me😭😭😭 but great video mama❤️

  • @girlwithpearls
    @girlwithpearls 8 месяцев назад

    First time seeing your channel! Much needed for me. I struggle with anxiety and self limiting beliefs

  • @FairyGlamMuva
    @FairyGlamMuva Год назад +1

    OK, this video was absolutely for me. Thank you for this wake-up call❤

    • @TiffanyTV
      @TiffanyTV  Год назад +1

      you’re so welcome mamas 🤎🤎

  • @queen_b3349
    @queen_b3349 Год назад

    You’re such a blessing, thank you for these videos. You give me some place to start! ❤

  • @myrnaj4502
    @myrnaj4502 Год назад +2

    Yess I'm here for the dope content. And I've missed you so much love ❤️.

    • @TiffanyTV
      @TiffanyTV  Год назад +1

      thank you my love! content from the soul 😌🫶🏾

  • @thetorietour
    @thetorietour 10 месяцев назад

    I love your Instagram but just came across this page today and am literally watching your videos while I work because whew the way I needed them today! Thank you for your wisdom, transparency and light! ❤️✨

    • @TiffanyTV
      @TiffanyTV  9 месяцев назад +1

      welcome to the good stuff… I love IG but we get deep over here. enjoy mama 🥰

  • @VALEROSEMUSIC
    @VALEROSEMUSIC Год назад

    currently binge watching your videos, just found your channel. New subscriber 🥰 Love your content!

  • @mickhalnelson
    @mickhalnelson Год назад +2

    Tiffany! Welcome back love and thank you for this. As a mom and wife I feel like you spoke to my soul. Love this ♥️

  • @Maumau21
    @Maumau21 Год назад

    Thank you this was very very helpful. I thank God because you said everything I am experiencing

  • @massoshxt
    @massoshxt Год назад

    coming across your page was a blessing in disguise more so an answered prayerv, my god if only you knew !!

    • @TiffanyTV
      @TiffanyTV  Год назад

      🥹sending you a big hug mama 🫂🤎 I’m happy you’re here

  • @AnikeNightly
    @AnikeNightly Год назад

    this was so good 🤍 such an elegant and smart woman love you’re content

  • @allyjoyce
    @allyjoyce Год назад +2

    Tiffany, I am so grateful and happy that I found your channel today. A lot of what you say resonates with me so much. The trauma, anxiety, depression has affected my identity since I was a teenager (I’m 34 now!) and wow, thank you so much for creating videos that help so many. You’re amazing. From Alice, New Zealand 💖

  • @poohsiepayne4473
    @poohsiepayne4473 Год назад

    Thanks needed to hear this I felt like you talking directly to me

  • @gistnikki
    @gistnikki Год назад

    Your channel has inspired me so much. I’m
    In a place right now hat I feel stagnant at 51. I’ve lost so much because of health issues and have made so many rational choices. I’ve dealt with heart issues and last year breast cancer. I lost my business in 2014 because of genetic heart issues. Out of work for 7 years, decided I wasn’t going to do hair anymore, so I allow my license to expire. And got a regular job as a debt collector. I’m at a place right now, I hate where I’m at and I feel I should be happy and doing more.

  • @serena259
    @serena259 Год назад

    You are so wise. Thank you for sharing your journey.

  • @maleenajave
    @maleenajave Год назад +1

    I definitely needed to hear this, thank you so much for sharing ❤️

    • @TiffanyTV
      @TiffanyTV  Год назад

      you’re so welcome love 🤎🤎

  • @amandamusgraves3405
    @amandamusgraves3405 Год назад

    I absolutely love your channel and look forward to your videos so much! You are so well spoken and knowledgeable and you inspire me so much because you remind me so much of who I am now and who I wish to be, being drawn to you let me know I am exactly on the path I need to be, bless you ❤

  • @iamdejmonet
    @iamdejmonet Год назад

    Hi, I’m new here and I love your channel! This is the 9th video I’ve watched and everything is so intentional and on point !! I also love your intro🩷🩷

  • @bethanydelact2205
    @bethanydelact2205 Год назад +1

    This video was everything, thank you! Also, please do a video comparing anxiety and intuition.

  • @ENGLISHIPHOPCampos
    @ENGLISHIPHOPCampos Год назад +1

    I've been nice , and able to know about you , , feel good with your energy . I'learned a lot with you .

  • @eeahdesigns4236
    @eeahdesigns4236 Год назад

    You hit it on the nail for me. I wasn't aware that I was operating out of this.

  • @latonyamedia615
    @latonyamedia615 Год назад

    Tiffany, wow! I am so glad I found your IG and now YT, I really have felt for so long its just me. Everything you've described about you is how I have felt since I can remember. In recent years and with the help of my children I am relearning myself, who I am and not who I think I'm supposed to be and the anxiety is real and I did not know that I was experiencing it. Interesting thing was noticing that I had less anxious with some strangers than with people that I have known my whole life. Anyway bless you for your for creating this space and sharing your vulnerability.🥰

    • @TiffanyTV
      @TiffanyTV  Год назад

      I’ve learned it doesn’t matter how long you’ve known someone, when you meet “your” people/person, the connection will instantly be stronger + feel lighter.

    • @TiffanyTV
      @TiffanyTV  Год назад

      also, thank you for those beautiful words 🤎

  • @Callmerose555
    @Callmerose555 Год назад

    So glad I came across your channel😅 these talks give me life and resonate so much ❤

  • @jessicaxsmith1
    @jessicaxsmith1 5 месяцев назад

    Needed to watch this ❤ thank you

  • @heyyouthere551
    @heyyouthere551 Год назад +1

    I swear the moment I got diagnosed with anxiety there was a lightbulb and then I felt the most naked I ever felt lmao. It was like ohhhh this isn’t who I am? Then… who.. am I😭

  • @vanessanoel_
    @vanessanoel_ Год назад

    I really relate to you and love your channel!

  • @TheCynthia28
    @TheCynthia28 Год назад

    Wow I needed this ❤

  • @tricemaybrows8916
    @tricemaybrows8916 Год назад

    Thank you for this! ❤

  • @roddiboi87
    @roddiboi87 Год назад

    absolutely needed this! thank you so much!

  • @Glowithmacy
    @Glowithmacy Год назад +1

    Thank you for this.

  • @custodiooliveira7698
    @custodiooliveira7698 Год назад +2

    Thank you for my help me .with good idea .

  • @munyeka813
    @munyeka813 Год назад

    You’re so lovely. Thank you for your videos ❤

    • @TiffanyTV
      @TiffanyTV  Год назад

      thank you so much love 🙏🏾🤎

  • @jess_18
    @jess_18 Год назад

    Speaking my heart

  • @jess_18
    @jess_18 Год назад +1

    You are going to make me cry

  • @jannesisarabia8596
    @jannesisarabia8596 Год назад +2

    Is there a group chat where we can all get in? It gets lonely sometimes

    • @TiffanyTV
      @TiffanyTV  Год назад

      I’m working on it love! Are you on IG? I’m considering starting a channel over there

  • @twonrichpo
    @twonrichpo Год назад

    Dope vibe sis. Good presentation n words

  • @frugalchic4794
    @frugalchic4794 Год назад

    I love your tops do you have a storefront link?

    • @TiffanyTV
      @TiffanyTV  Год назад

      thank youu! just added my link tree to the caption 🤎

  • @ilovenikkij
    @ilovenikkij Год назад

    ❤ Love your channel can you please do a video about anxiety versus intuition

    • @TiffanyTV
      @TiffanyTV  Год назад

      I’m working on it love 🙏🏾🤎

  • @sugarbrown6161
    @sugarbrown6161 Год назад

    Thank you, mamas, for this. Thank you for the advice and the exercises. This means a lot. You just don't know.

    • @TiffanyTV
      @TiffanyTV  Год назад

      you are so so welcome love 🤎

  • @cheriamor
    @cheriamor Год назад

    Great video. ❤

  • @Mandaxolove
    @Mandaxolove Год назад

    You are amazing

  • @baconkaryn
    @baconkaryn Год назад

    ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @34missgreen
    @34missgreen Год назад

    🤎🤎🤎🤎🤎🤎🤎🤎🤎🤎🤎🤎🤎🤎🤎

  • @deadivina111
    @deadivina111 Год назад

    It is chemical. Stress hormones leave the body a certain amount of feet. Anxiety is contagious!

  • @jess_18
    @jess_18 Год назад

    Its not you - thank you Soulsister - Diva (a la Sheryl Lee Ralph)

  • @BiancaIngram
    @BiancaIngram Год назад +4

    Girrrlll are we the same person?! You said every word I’ve been thinking and feeling for some time now. We need to set up a date or something cuzzzz I feel like u get me ❤❤

    • @TiffanyTV
      @TiffanyTV  Год назад

      lol so many of us are going through this.. it’s time for us to heallll 🙏🏾

  • @LadyVBlessed
    @LadyVBlessed Год назад +2

    This is so good and a great way to understand the underlying causes for the “dark moments”. Thank you for your transparency and choosing to show up for you. 💜🫂

    • @TiffanyTV
      @TiffanyTV  Год назад +1

      🫂 thank you love… this work is literally called shadow work… to bring light to those dark moments/ dark things hiding inside of us

  • @nailah.zakiya
    @nailah.zakiya Год назад

    Just came across your IG. This video was definitely needed ❤🫶🏾