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5 Things To Say To Your Crush To Make Them Like You

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  • Опубликовано: 7 фев 2023
  • Looking for ways to make your crush like you? Check out this list of 5 things to say to your crush to make them like you! Whether you're starting to feel shy around your crush or just don't know what to say, this video will help!
    Not sure if your crush actually likes you? Watch our video on the psychological ways to tell if your crush likes you: • 6 Psychological Ways T...
    Writer: Stela Kosic
    Script Editor: Rida Batool
    Script Manager: Kelly Soong
    Voice: Amanda Silvera ( / amandasilvera )
    Animator: sarimopi
    RUclips Manager: Cindy Cheong
    REFERENCES:
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Комментарии • 2 тыс.

  • @YumiTsui
    @YumiTsui Год назад +4417

    What do you do when you have a crush on someone? Do you talk to them or wait for them to approach you?

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  Год назад +1950

      Wait for them to approach me!

    • @khanhhuynh5434
      @khanhhuynh5434 Год назад +920

      It’s almost always better to approach them and build a sort of friendship to see if they like you back or not

    • @yceycaylo6741
      @yceycaylo6741 Год назад +325

      I've been approaching them the past few days I think their getting the hint

    • @giga8379
      @giga8379 Год назад +138

      I have a Crush on someone about 4-5 years, she’s still talking with me, she enjoys but i don’t think i look like something
      If my face was better i’m pretty sure we we’re couples with her

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  Год назад +221

      Would love to see if they will approach you back!

  • @NemFX
    @NemFX Год назад +678

    You see your crush coming.
    You are scared.
    I MAKE MYSELF LOOK BIG.
    You raise your arms above your head and assume a more threatening posture.
    You successfully scare away your crush, in a display of dominance.
    WAIT NO I DIDN'T MEAN TO DO THAT.
    Too bad, you succeeded.

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  Год назад +164

      Isn't that what you do when you see a bear!

    • @NemFX
      @NemFX Год назад +79

      @@Psych2go Maybe you have a crush on a bear. I'm not judging. Okay, maybe I'm judging.

    • @Foxolion
      @Foxolion Год назад +28

      ​@@Psych2go it was probably the Charmin mom bear

    • @BisharpnearOhio
      @BisharpnearOhio Год назад +11

      Task failed successfully

    • @amongusgaming123
      @amongusgaming123 Год назад +4

      ​@@NemFX😳

  • @shaded076
    @shaded076 Год назад +3011

    here's the timestamps for those in a hurry:
    0:24, crack a joke
    1:16, remember to say thank you
    1:50, share a little secret
    2:33, give them compliments
    3:19, ask them questions
    great video btw! your videos help us a lot in many different areas, keep it up! ❤️

  • @britneydavid6211
    @britneydavid6211 Год назад +396

    I think the best way to get your crush attracted to you is to be yourself. Doesn't matter if your childish or mature, just be yourself!

    • @samoasanta
      @samoasanta Год назад +3

      your right

    • @jake_24.
      @jake_24. 11 месяцев назад +9

      Usually myself doesn’t do much…
      Although I found a girl who I really really like because she sees me for who I am and I’m afraid to ruin our friendship:(

    • @christiancollongues5248
      @christiancollongues5248 11 месяцев назад +6

      @@jake_24.if u ask her out make sure that she’s fine with it even if she doesn’t like u back by telling her something like « i want to tell u something but promise me we will still be friends after it » or if u didn’t say that ask her if u can still be friends

    • @jake_24.
      @jake_24. 11 месяцев назад

      @@christiancollongues5248 I don’t think I’m gonna ask her out for now but I got her number today :)
      I didn’t have it because we recently met and I was scared to ask

    • @icysnow57cold64
      @icysnow57cold64 10 месяцев назад +2

      I have a question. How do males and females bond with each other? I don't see how men and women can bond (especially romantically) with each other. Men and women think very differently from each other.
      Women can build incredible friendships and become very close to each other in a way men can't bond, and science shows that women can bond very well with each other. Generally, women are even more social than men are. After something bad happens, a woman quickly rushes to talk to all of her female friends to get support, whereas a man can isolate himself and grief alone.
      Women tend to be more emotionally intelligent, more caring, more empathic, more compassionate, more affectionate, more loyal, more nurturing, more understanding, more sympathetic, more sensitive, more kind-hearted, more peaceful, more calmer, more gentle, more expressive, more intuitive, and more outward than men are, and thus bond more with other women in a special way that they can’t with men. Men, on the other hand, are not that emotional, and thus can’t bond with other men in a special way.
      Women are more comfortable being around with other women than they are with men. They have a type of bond that usually men with women won’t really have, or with men and men. Also, girls that are friends touch each other in ways that guys just don’t.

  • @TrueMaximumOutput
    @TrueMaximumOutput Год назад +35

    Quick bonus one:
    When they seem to have some sort of issue or look uncomfortable (not around you).
    Always ask in the most romantic tone you can possibly gather:
    "Are you ok?", that shows that you care about them, and you are there if they are feeling down.
    If they say yeah, or don't worry about it. Respond with:
    "Are you sure?" With a bit more concern, if they open up, then yeah, listen.
    If they don't reassure them just one more time.
    "Are you absolutely sure you're ok? I don't like people, especially ones I know very well, to be sad."
    This will show that they are not just "That person you see every day" or "That person that you sit next to in Math class"
    They are something more, they mean something to you.

    • @agatha_6a
      @agatha_6a Год назад +2

      i'ma use this thankyou

  • @roaringwater6519
    @roaringwater6519 Год назад +775

    When you ask everything about them and their interests and they never ask you anything back 😭💀💀💀

    • @studiooftheoldwind137
      @studiooftheoldwind137 Год назад +51

      I mean
      The start up conversation is about you pitching yourself to them and why they should be w/ you
      Leading it to a future meet
      The instigator is meant to do most of the talking
      However, if she asked you nothing about yourself
      That's not a good sign my friend
      Just don't act desperate and chase her, that will completely kill any chances

    • @smithdave712
      @smithdave712 Год назад +14

      It hurts I feel you 🥺

    • @nelleplayz4441
      @nelleplayz4441 Год назад +8

      SAME HERE HOW CAN I SAY HIM MY INTERESTS-

    • @Human_81
      @Human_81 Год назад +1

      😢

    • @stackja78
      @stackja78 Год назад

      That has happen to me😢

  • @sirdenchik
    @sirdenchik Год назад +27

    Unlike most, i feared rejection and i was too late to confess and my crush has a bf now. Devastating... Good video and i adore the artstyle!

  • @muichirotokito121
    @muichirotokito121 11 месяцев назад +15

    Pov: you and your crush only talk during one class and arent even fully friends yet.

  • @heraexp3
    @heraexp3 Год назад +2079

    i don't even have a crush but i love watching these videos lolol

  • @creativeflame_
    @creativeflame_ Год назад +232

    Video idea: how to tell if someone is crushing on you or not while they are already in a relationship bc it’s _definitely_ a thing

    • @LosiDriver7223
      @LosiDriver7223 Год назад +17

      I'm currently living this right now. And that fact that all of our communication is online atm doesn't help the matter.

    • @creativeflame_
      @creativeflame_ Год назад +4

      @@LosiDriver7223damn I’m sorry, I can’t even imagine that suspense bc I’m going through it in person. I feel a bit played and like I wish he’d be straight up. He has a gf but he keeps flirting with me and being super physically affectionate and has even said some suspicious things

    • @brixenlang3207
      @brixenlang3207 Год назад +5

      yknow i kinda feel the same. She was my childhood friend whom I haven’t seen since I was 9 and we just started chatting online last october. Although she told me that she already has a crush, i still developed feelings for her. i might consider it normal cuz i am still on my early teens and stuff happens
      Although I must say that I’ve only fully accepted my attraction towards her weeks after; it strengthened when we met irl just before December.
      And then we talked less, and much less until I felt lonely. She was just really busy at school but I kept overthinking that it was my fault. what’s more is that we mainly communicate online because we live in different cities
      And them I was told that she was bi and she likes her best friend (whom i don’t know). My chest grew heavier and heavier and I knew i had to vent/release all my feelings and thoughts one day; i overthink frequently too then.
      A few days ago in a group chat, she finally knew about my feelings and (as expected since last year) she said no and ends up leaving the gc; she was also quite busy that weekend. I blamed myself again that I might’ve upset her.
      edit: i feel better now, though i am currently giving her some space

    • @xyro88
      @xyro88 Год назад +4

      @@creativeflame_ They might actually just have a crush on you. This however doesn't mean that they don't love their partner. Their partner might even be informed about it. Or even enabling it.
      They as a couple might have clear boundaries on what is ok and not. And the person that is hitting on you might not be unfaithful at all.
      Or they can be a cheating bastard.
      Or you might read more into it than reality.
      There are many possibilities.
      But one thing is for certain.
      In a relationship, if it's a friendship, coworker, lover, or what ever else, you have to respect the boundaries set. If their interaction towards you makes you uncomfortable you should be clear on your boundaries.
      "You have a flirtatiously way of talking to me. Since you have a partner, that kind of attention makes me uncomfortable"
      They might deflect or makes excuses. They might say their partner knows. They might say many things.
      But if they are not considerate of your boundaries then they don't respect you.
      And there is always the right time and place for this kind of talk. A party or right after they flirted with you might not be the right moment.

    • @Hel_P
      @Hel_P Год назад

      I've been where you are rn and now I am the person in a (kind of draining, long and not the happiest) relationship... it's been a rollercoaster of feelings for me, like I don't want to suddenly hurt my partner (especially because we already hurt each other in the past), but I also don't want my crush to feel played- I'm serious about him. But thing is, I can't even be sure if he really likes me back lmao. So, I've been giving myself lots of headaches overanalyzing everything and trying to not be unfair to anyone, but also to think about myself and my happiness :/

  • @piramidasukcesu9417
    @piramidasukcesu9417 Год назад +757

    I love this.. late-night cafe vibe your videos have.
    They're really.. comfy? Hugging? Y'know, the feeling when you're very comfy and warmed.

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  Год назад +113

      Glad you like them!

    • @rauaish8665
      @rauaish8665 Год назад +27

      Yes! Especially because of her voice but the colour's also make me feel more calm. Maybe it's because I like quiet voice's and pastel colour's. Thank you Phych2Go!

    • @khalilahd.
      @khalilahd. Год назад +9

      Yess ❤ they always post the best informative videos 😊

    • @user-lo9cp3zr7g
      @user-lo9cp3zr7g Год назад +7

      @@Psych2go I feel like I should tell you this story that happened to me, though you might not read it. The story: So a few days ago my crush rejected me 😭 I was literally so heartbroken that I didn’t talk to anyone the rest of that day. But two days later, when I entered my school classroom, I sit in my seat. I glance to the person next to me, named Kaito. And I immediately fell in love with him somehow. I never speak to him because I’m always afraid. But the next day, I was struggling with my project that was due soon and he offered to help me with it. I just nodded, STILL afraid to say anything. He sat a bit closer and started helping me. My old crush, named Masato, looked like he was going to murder Kaito 😭- but looks like someones jealous! 😂

    • @Willambam
      @Willambam Год назад +3

      No wonder I'm single😢 I treat everyone like that 😅

  • @brain_respect_and_freedom
    @brain_respect_and_freedom Год назад +114

    There's absolutely NOTHING wrong with feeling nervous. 🙋 Sometimes we care too much or we're overthinking etc.
    Next time will be easier. 🙏

  • @stickfigure4975
    @stickfigure4975 Месяц назад +1

    It’s just like the garden and the butterfly mentality. Don’t chase after the butterfly because it will always fly away. But instead, build yourself a beautiful garden and improve it every day to attract the most beautiful butterfly. And if it doesn’t work, at least you have a beautiful garden.

  • @GabrielleGayleOfficial
    @GabrielleGayleOfficial Год назад +4

    1. Make a joke
    2. Say thank you
    3. Share a secret
    4. Compliment them
    5. Ask Questions

  • @psych2gomandarin
    @psych2gomandarin Год назад +237

    0:00 intro
    0:24 1、crack a joke
    1:15 2、remember to say thank you
    1:50 3、share a little secret
    2:32 4、give them compliments
    3:19 5、ask them questions
    3:53 outro

    • @Shanniqua-Yexelle
      @Shanniqua-Yexelle Год назад

      This channel has been SUPER helpful to my problems. Keep up the good work!

    • @ironpenguingg
      @ironpenguingg 2 месяца назад

      thank you so much
      Like all i need is 30 second explanations

  • @khalilahd.
    @khalilahd. Год назад +177

    I’ll never get over how cute the animations are ❤ even if I don’t relate to every video topic discussed I always learn something new so thanks Psych2go!

    • @isakayyik966
      @isakayyik966 Год назад +2

      God Bless you! Always remember that Jesus died for you and took the punishment for our sins on the cross! If you turn away from your evil and trust ONLY in Him, you will be saved from death for your sin and have eternal life and happiness that will never go away, and you will never experience evil or pain or sadness ever again!

    • @TheSecondLaughingSoldier
      @TheSecondLaughingSoldier Год назад +1

      ​@Isakay Yik ?
      No, sorry. I'll remain in Buddhism.
      Or no religion at all for that matter.

    • @Lazy12-vd9lu
      @Lazy12-vd9lu 7 месяцев назад

      Me too

  • @StangeGirly00
    @StangeGirly00 Год назад +12

    People don’t normally find my dark humor attractive…

    • @stickfigure4975
      @stickfigure4975 Месяц назад +3

      It's dark humour what do you expect 💀

  • @YourFavoriteBlueHedgehog
    @YourFavoriteBlueHedgehog 3 месяца назад +12

    Me after working so hard to make sure my crush thinks I don’t like her 😭🙏

  • @Char_-
    @Char_- Год назад +81

    Of course the most important thing to do around your crush is be yourself. If they don't think your good enough then maybe they aren't the one. But you know your perfect.

    • @Impo8816
      @Impo8816 4 месяца назад

      What do i do when im friends with my crush cuz like idk if shes joking or flirting and like i dont wanna ruin the friendship by telling her and getting rejected

    • @gulinambarcoglu856
      @gulinambarcoglu856 День назад

      ​@@Impo8816 Try ur chance bro psychology says if u crush on someone and tell it he/she %81 loves back u

    • @gulinambarcoglu856
      @gulinambarcoglu856 День назад

      Not me, psychology

  • @ehmwhy
    @ehmwhy Год назад +195

    Here’s a hard truth that most of you will have to accept:
    The vast majority of crushes are one sided - either you will have a crush on someone or someone will have a crush on you. And unless you’re a physically attractive woman, or a really extroverted guy they won’t ever reciprocate. Took me over 10 years to realise this.

    • @RaqiiCat
      @RaqiiCat Год назад +30

      Well shit

    • @Owen-ur8wn
      @Owen-ur8wn Год назад +17

      im screwed

    • @teencrisis4750
      @teencrisis4750 Год назад +13

      Yea..no 😭

    • @JavierEscuella1911
      @JavierEscuella1911 Год назад +32

      I had a crush on a friend for the longest time. I’ve known her for years. I wouldn’t even call her a crush, I just love her, simple as that. We have an amazing friendship and I hope I get the balls to tell her one of these days.
      I know it’s corny, but if want to find someone, you have to know them. Wanting to be with someone because on the surface because they are attractive isn’t love, it’s infatuation. This is what I think is the key to a healthy relationship. Of course I’m just a rando on the internet who isn’t in a relationship and you don’t necessarily have to love someone on a deeper level to be in a healthy relationship but I think it’s a good foundation for a truly good relationship. Take my words with a grain of salt, I really don’t know if what I’m saying is stupid as hell lol

    • @the_finkledinkle
      @the_finkledinkle Год назад +3

      Well my crushes cousin goes to the same school and is in the same year and they said hiiiii so I always have a backup

  • @axstr0m1
    @axstr0m1 Год назад +8

    Ty for this! Me and my crush used to be friends but things got uhm….more bumpy than we expected. I hope this will help me become closer to them again (hopefully)!

  • @NotKennethMcCormick
    @NotKennethMcCormick Год назад +7

    I think im pretty lucky, for what i've heard, most people get nervous and blush while talking to their crush, while I just blush and get nervous when my friends tease me about it
    I don't have trouble talking to him so It'll be easy to try these tips
    Thanks for the video btw!

  • @stephaniepeterson5337
    @stephaniepeterson5337 Год назад +99

    you always cheer my up. if im sad, happy, or have butterflies from a cute dude. my day always becomes 10 times better❤️❤️❤️

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  Год назад +25

      Thank you for your sweet message!

    • @goateye2668
      @goateye2668 Год назад +4

      @@Psych2go ​ Hi, Im a fan of This channel.Watching and listening while working..I prefer this channel than radio..I hope i can work with you if you need extra animator..Im 11 yrs experienced animator for tv series and feature films..

  • @itzolive3738
    @itzolive3738 9 месяцев назад +1

    These videos get recommended to me everytime I have a crush, then when I lose feelings, psych2go disappears off the face of the earth, and now that i have a new crush, they are magically back again. Its like youtube knows my feelings. Scary

  • @isoisdead
    @isoisdead Год назад +83

    Y'all are literally my advice for everything lol

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  Год назад +22

      What other advice would you like to hear from us?

    • @eilon6765
      @eilon6765 Год назад +1

      Amazing pfp

    • @thatpersonvirginia
      @thatpersonvirginia Год назад +1

      @@Psych2go I know I'm not the original commenter, but I was wondering if you could make more videos about self harm. Like 5 ways to stop helping you from self harming.

    • @the_irl_sophie_hatter_
      @the_irl_sophie_hatter_ Год назад +1

      ​@@Psych2go hello I also know I'm not the original commenter but could you possibly give advice on what to do if your crush is dating someone?

    • @Human_81
      @Human_81 Год назад

      ikr same 😅

  • @c0re_mem8ry-the-retard
    @c0re_mem8ry-the-retard Год назад +17

    "being alone is sad, having your heart broken is worse, but having a lover is the best thing ever"
    I made that quote, I call it "the risk of love"

  • @diegovillanueva5237
    @diegovillanueva5237 Год назад +6

    imagine someone like me watching a video that gives me advice on what to say YET haven't talked to their current crush in 4-5 years💀💀

    • @swiftie1300
      @swiftie1300 8 месяцев назад

      Yep like I had a crush on someone 4 years ago but so much time has passed now my crush on them is basically non existent. And I like ask myself- why did I even like them exactly?

  • @wonysheart
    @wonysheart 23 дня назад +1

    ive only seen my crush for a day and im already watching thousands of videos like this 😭

  • @TakeBackYourMind997
    @TakeBackYourMind997 Год назад +61

    Talk about things you love and let your passion come through in that conversation. It doesn't matter what you're into and whether it's considered cool or not, when you let your passion shine through in conversation you become instantly more charismatic and attractive.

    • @DeRez19
      @DeRez19 Год назад +3

      I disagree. I'm seen as unattractive whenever I talk about things nobody else is interested in. Chased off a lot of girls talking about Star Wars or Smash Brothers when they didn't care about either series. It's not like I didn't let them talk, either. They just thought I was boring and didn't bother talking to me again.
      Now if I had a charming face and had a deeper voice, what you're saying could be true. Sadly I have neither.

    • @msacharacterdrawings4439
      @msacharacterdrawings4439 Год назад +3

      @@DeRez19 don’t worry. If they don’t see how special you are, then they’re jerks. Don’t let them make you downhearted

    • @DeRez19
      @DeRez19 Год назад +3

      @@msacharacterdrawings4439 I wouldn't call them jerks for that. If they aren't interested, it is what it is. I'm sure it's a me problem most likely, if *most* women seriously don't care about what I have to say.

    • @msacharacterdrawings4439
      @msacharacterdrawings4439 Год назад +1

      @@DeRez19 yeah, sorry, I didn’t mean it like that

    • @DeRez19
      @DeRez19 Год назад +1

      @@msacharacterdrawings4439 It's all good 👍

  • @watermelonspeech
    @watermelonspeech Год назад +113

    me and my crush laugh our brains out. he’s _literally_ the one guy I actually have fun with.
    UPDATE SINCE YOU PEOPLE ASKING..
    I moved, never got to see him again. he’s actually really ugly too, idk what I saw in him. also, I got rejected, but we stayed friends. ..before I moved.

  • @SPADECARD
    @SPADECARD Год назад +12

    “It’s also a simple way to tell someone, I appreciate you”
    My crush who straight up says “I appreciate you” to me:

    • @imawakemymindisalive13
      @imawakemymindisalive13 Год назад +3

      bruh that’s what the kitchen manager says to the volunteers where i work 😂😂😂

  • @iihoneybea629
    @iihoneybea629 Год назад +1

    Ooh how to say you have a crush on someone is to be like “do you have a crush on someone” (they will likely soon ask you if you do, when they do, say:) “yeah” (if they ask who say :) “somebody you know really well” (they’ll ask who :) “you know them better than anybody” eventually they will either reveal that they r stalking someone OR realise that you like them! (It works... it may be awkward tho)

  • @vincentryker8012
    @vincentryker8012 Год назад +53

    It's funny that I keep watching these videos but still get silent when I try to confess my feelings.
    Like it feels like someone or something took my voice.

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  Год назад +15

      I'm sure that isn't the case! Have you tried the old fashion way? Just be direct and tell them you like them?

    • @vincentryker8012
      @vincentryker8012 Год назад +2

      @@Psych2go I am trying, it's just that I suddenly am not able to talk or something like that.

    • @apersonorsomething8705
      @apersonorsomething8705 Год назад +4

      The same thing happens to me, I just feel like I can't talk to them about it at all, like I try but no sound comes out, it kinda feels like someone is choking me or something...Do you find yourself not being able to breathe too or is that just a me thing?

    • @vincentryker8012
      @vincentryker8012 Год назад +4

      @@apersonorsomething8705 yes! Exactly like this!

    • @spareacc5941
      @spareacc5941 Год назад +1

      @@Psych2go Im still in school, andthat approach may not be as helpful. There is some complexity and they dont like me back, they could tell their friends who would tell their friends and the whole schoo would know the deal.

  • @carlosforlen8205
    @carlosforlen8205 Год назад +38

    Thank you. This helps all of us who struggle socially and just nice to watch

  • @elsabug6769
    @elsabug6769 11 месяцев назад +8

    I’ve watched several of these crush-themed videos & this is actually the most helpful! Thanks!💖🥰

  • @KofiraVixen
    @KofiraVixen Год назад +7

    I can confirm this ive been asking my best friend a lot of questions since the day we met which was a few years ago and each passing year our bond became stronger❤

  • @isaiahvoss
    @isaiahvoss Год назад +45

    I've had many crushes before in the past but they always liked me for my cynical sense of humor right on the spot. It always worked with girls for me. But otherwise they liked me because of how nice of a person I can be towards them as well as support. I had one situationship that ended sour that I had feelings for that I couldn't work out. And I went through emotional pain for a few months to get over two girls I thought were my friends but only used me. I love giving girls as friends compliments so they're appreciated! That's what boosts my self esteem and helped me to talk to girls again. I made a new female friend recently and she started to be there for me and appreciates our friendship.

    • @rauaish8665
      @rauaish8665 Год назад +4

      Youre doing a great job

    • @rauaish8665
      @rauaish8665 Год назад +3

      By that I mean you're doing a great job at making friends that are the opposite gender to you (in your case girl's and in my case boy's) and i've alway's had trouble with that since people around me either made fun of me or we just drifted apart so I think of that as a big accomplishment (sorry I didn't say this sooner because I was in a rush and why this is so long because you might have mixed emotions by not knowing if I actually mean it or said it to make you feel better about yourself I kind of meant both and I should stop sorry)

  • @tisoyowens724
    @tisoyowens724 Год назад +50

    THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR THIS

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  Год назад +7

      Of course! What did you learn from this video?

  • @arvinmedina4841
    @arvinmedina4841 Год назад +5

    0:29 Is it bad that I thought of a deez nuts joke?

    • @Jbugie
      @Jbugie Год назад

      Yes and no ... I guess

  • @kairinaminemix
    @kairinaminemix 11 месяцев назад +2

    I did all of these unintentionally when I first met my boyfriend and continued to. He liked me more and more each time we hung out. So these things do work

  • @X4nd3r_R0ckz
    @X4nd3r_R0ckz Год назад +43

    I've never had a crush before so I'll save this for later!

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  Год назад +19

      That sounds good! Maybe someone has a crush on you?

  • @isaiahvoss
    @isaiahvoss Год назад +18

    Just like Abed said in Community "The truth is lots of girls like me because, let's face it, I'm pretty adorable, and, uh, my aloofness unconsciously reminds them of their fathers, so... I'm more used to them approaching me." (That's how I would feel if I was trying to change or have a girlfriend.)

  • @ValHanuman
    @ValHanuman Год назад +5

    What do I do in this situation. I’m in school and have a crush. I sit right next to them in a class but I’m WAY to scared to say anything. (I’m a guy)Everyday I just try saying hi when I see them but I get to nervous thinking that she will think of me as weird and annoying. What should I do and how do I overcome that feeling.

    • @bts4life707
      @bts4life707 10 месяцев назад

      Don't be afraid said hi and good morning to her or you can ask some questions related to note or lecture

  • @emilyniauhueyningmoe2894
    @emilyniauhueyningmoe2894 Год назад +1

    I don’t have a crush, but I do this to all my friends, it makes our relationship last longer and I genuinely like to see them smile. They’ll say something about their day or what they’ve accomplished, and sometimes I don’t really know how to reply to that, but I’ll ask questions to just keep them talking!
    I’m really talkative when it comes to talking about myself, so the tip is always to let the person speak first before you do

  • @CressNT
    @CressNT Год назад +6

    I really don't know why I clicked on this video right after getting rejected, but it doesn't matter. Someday I'll figure it out. At least I think we can keep being friends. Truth is like a blackbird... let it free, even if it will leave to fly among the clouds.

  • @ProbablyHeavensDoor
    @ProbablyHeavensDoor Год назад +8

    The little piano in the back really eased this video and made it feel so casual and natural- lovely!!

  • @boitaiapa4930
    @boitaiapa4930 4 месяца назад

    Not being awkward, weird or, nervous is the one thing I'd have to worry about

  • @Cat-mr4oj
    @Cat-mr4oj 2 месяца назад

    When giving compliments make sure to do it on something you know they care about, nails, hair, clothes... Etc!

  • @jwanie366
    @jwanie366 Год назад +7

    I've done this with a few of my crushes, only to later find out that they're already in relationships. There's always another one, though!

  • @camhamsshow
    @camhamsshow Год назад +8

    I have a crush and I've actually done all of these things with her. With Valentine's day coming up it's making me super nervous to make any more advances though

  • @bubbly1414
    @bubbly1414 3 месяца назад

    ppl watching this your not alone, there are 1.1m other ppl that watched this and we're all rooting for ourselves and each other! we got this!

  • @IIIArtistixIII
    @IIIArtistixIII 17 дней назад

    GUYS!! LISTEN!!! You can use these methods, but it’s more important to say it from the heart.

  • @TheUglyDuckling997
    @TheUglyDuckling997 Год назад +7

    Those 5 things may but nothing works as well as the ultimate technique
    "Will you go out with me"

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  Год назад +5

      That is true! Does it work for you when you are direct with your approach?

  • @worm2841
    @worm2841 Год назад +10

    about to see my crush in a few days and I never know what to say to them so this is perfect, thanks :)

  • @SCRAB-d2
    @SCRAB-d2 Год назад +1

    One tip is if you wanna say something but are hesitating to do it or not, say it. It might start conversation that makes them like you more

  • @spicycurry7238
    @spicycurry7238 Год назад

    i love that this video pops on my feed the day after the girl im pursuing tells me she doesnt want a relationship

  • @KifuruHeriko
    @KifuruHeriko Год назад +8

    My only problem is that all five of these things I do to everyone, especially asking questions, I'm the curious type

  • @_quixote
    @_quixote Год назад +6

    I only talked to her once so far, but it was the best day I've had in a while. I made a few jokes snd she laughed, but no one got anyone's number, and when we passed by each other in school, it's kinda awkward so we don't say anything to me. I think she's the same as me, in the fact that I'm not that good with the opposite gender

  • @kajalchoudhary5502
    @kajalchoudhary5502 Год назад

    From being friend to become my crush and then my love that's my story of unconditional love for him.

  • @constancialazarra3172
    @constancialazarra3172 3 месяца назад

    I confessed once to my crush, now we're the bestest of friends.

  • @herstechz9645
    @herstechz9645 Год назад +6

    Watching your videos are just like a daily habit for me now
    Really love your voice and way of speaking, feels so calm and so satisfying to just listen to them.

  • @stephenaviaspace5056
    @stephenaviaspace5056 Год назад +4

    Hi. Thanks for this. I've been a big fan of you for a long time, I like psychology, I like Brits, I learn lots of English jokes and humour all the time especially from Tom Scott... I have a little secret crush. I think we're both shy to each other and both care for each other in some way, but we almost never talk to each other in person, and, pretty awkward!
    Butterflies in the stomach make it so nervous for a talk, you don't know what's gonna happen next, and you overthink ahead. It's been a year already, and all I know is about myself! 😅

  • @i_luvSky
    @i_luvSky 10 месяцев назад

    The first time I saw my crush, I rushed straight to them and gave em a BIG hug and said “I like you” quietly, I let them be after. I liked em, but they didn’t back, we’re good friends now, and hopefully soon, we could take it to the next level.
    I had no regrets of making that choice, and I wasn’t even scared confronting them. 😊

    • @i_luvSky
      @i_luvSky 10 месяцев назад

      And to think I see almost everyone struggling to say their feelings. 😢
      It’s okay, when you’re ready, go for it. 😊

  • @Uareloved5547
    @Uareloved5547 Год назад +1

    I already know that my crush has a crush on me. I mean, he told a BUNCH of people already. But im afraid he is losing feelings for me. So this really helped!

    • @Faraz2810
      @Faraz2810 5 месяцев назад

      So what is now finally

  • @legendaryiguess
    @legendaryiguess Год назад +5

    This channel has really helped the past few weeks. Been going through some confusing times.

  • @Bitter_Beauty_Music
    @Bitter_Beauty_Music Год назад +26

    And a word of wisdom: if they ain't interested in being your friend at the very least, they definitely ain't interested in being your girlfriend. Happy flirting everyone ☺️

    • @Messi-uu3ox
      @Messi-uu3ox Год назад

      Could someone advise me what to do?
      My crush has been my girl best friend since 5 years, I don't know if she just wants to be my friend or something more, I don't know what to do and how to take this forward. We short talk almost everyday but these days it keeps on getting awkward because I don't know what to do, pls help

    • @frogoyes7611
      @frogoyes7611 Год назад +1

      ​@@Messi-uu3oxDoes she talk about liking other people or anything? If she does certain things like that you may just be a "best friend" if not you should just take the leap and tell her your feelings in a causal way.

  • @LemonJam-xr6xx
    @LemonJam-xr6xx 5 месяцев назад +1

    These are all great ideas, besides the fact that my brain stops working when I’m around them and can’t remember anything u told me

  • @nickfu8364
    @nickfu8364 11 месяцев назад +2

    This really helps!! I always struggle when my crush comes :3

  • @flamegamer3424
    @flamegamer3424 Год назад +2

    I had many crushes before and I struggled to have a connection. Now I know I can do it by these tips.

  • @elliehagman5658
    @elliehagman5658 Год назад +6

    When you already do all of these things because you are a close friend with your crush.😏

  • @OsakasFentanylAddiction
    @OsakasFentanylAddiction 11 месяцев назад +1

    It’s hard to do smalltalk with people because my personality is pretty plane and the only thing I can talk to people about are politics, news and gossip.

  • @PrincePoison
    @PrincePoison 10 месяцев назад +1

    Thanks a bunch! I have been stuck in the “best friend, try again” loop for 4 years. I’m going to try some of these tips. Like this video y’all so more people can see this!

  • @pushypapi
    @pushypapi Год назад +5

    hi Psych2Go, i have a crush on someone, and after watching your videos about crushes, i found that this person shows signs of both possibilities: that they like me, or that they don’t feel the same way. i am confused af because i don’t understand what their actions mean. one minute they’re flirting with me, getting close with me, showing psychological signs that they’re into me. but at the same time, they ignore my texts, i’m the one who always start a convo or plan to do things with them, and it’s really one-sided. in your opinion, how should i handle this situation? 😔

  • @idkmyuser6854
    @idkmyuser6854 Год назад +7

    I probably don't have the confidence to do these but they are still helpful!

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  Год назад +4

      Confidence takes time to build up! I believe in you that you'll be able to overcome all this

    • @idkmyuser6854
      @idkmyuser6854 Год назад +1

      @@Psych2go that means a lot! I have a lot of social anxiety

    • @studiooftheoldwind137
      @studiooftheoldwind137 Год назад

      Confidence is hard to build up
      Discipline yourself
      Work on your body and mind
      This will build confidence and focus
      Practice by talking to a lot of people
      The only way to truly build confidence is to throw yourself in the water

    • @zumbawithkelli6931
      @zumbawithkelli6931 Год назад

      Same i deal you

  • @RozeyzYt
    @RozeyzYt 3 месяца назад

    I dont even have a crush but just listening to these videos are so calming ngl

  • @user-vz2lk1ff7t
    @user-vz2lk1ff7t 4 месяца назад

    I say to him > every time he sneeze just to hear a thank u or show that i care

  • @A55a551n
    @A55a551n Год назад +8

    Timestamps
    1). Crack a joke 0:24
    2). Remember to say thank you 1:16
    3). Share a little secret 1:50
    4). Give them compliments 2:33
    5). Ask them questions 3:19
    Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice. 💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙

  • @wajdemohamed4779
    @wajdemohamed4779 Год назад +4

    The timing of this was on point :D

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  Год назад +3

      Glad to hear! Are you planning to confess to your crush?

    • @wajdemohamed4779
      @wajdemohamed4779 Год назад +2

      @@Psych2go I am ! I hope it turns out well :)

  • @Kaellishappy
    @Kaellishappy 9 месяцев назад

    I just wait for the right moment to be in a relationship even with a crush.

  • @Ace0fHeartzX3
    @Ace0fHeartzX3 25 дней назад +1

    I realize now I’m way more delusional than I think I am about them, I’m spending hours watching videos to figure out if they like me back

  • @shadowscar808
    @shadowscar808 Год назад +3

    THIS CAME AT THE PERFECT TIME THANKS PSY

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  Год назад +3

      You're welcome! What are you going through right now?

    • @shadowscar808
      @shadowscar808 Год назад +2

      I really like someone now and I wanna give signs I like them, so this helps a lot :))

  • @DeRez19
    @DeRez19 Год назад +5

    Great video. I'll definitely try using creative jokes to get my feelings across. Being 100% direct never helped me because I am either too nervous or my proposal is too boring. Jokes definitely lighten the mood, even the slightly-cringy ones.
    I'm probably going to let the women do the approaching, though. I've always had a bad eye when it comes to this. Normally I like women who want nothing to do with me, so I get embarrassed or disappointed. It's hard for me to convince myself to approach any girl after repeatedly looking like a fool trying.

  • @bbquinng591
    @bbquinng591 Год назад +1

    THE ART SYLE OMG

  • @unasworld8168
    @unasworld8168 3 месяца назад +1

    My crush has been the most kind person ever! ❤I am trusting you and I think I might tell him my feelings. Thank you for the video! ❤My biggest fear is that he rejects me tho.. so it might take so time! But, these suggestions has boosted my mood here. Thanks so much!! :D

  • @user-ii3jj2hb6n
    @user-ii3jj2hb6n Год назад +5

    My crush asked me if I’m a lesbian, and I told him I’m bisexual …he’s so shocked😂

  • @callmeyssaa
    @callmeyssaa Год назад +8

    Me right here who never talked to my crush 👁👄👁

  • @VaydenMan
    @VaydenMan Год назад

    I swear almost every girl I've met in a while has asked just random mundane questions, and this truly gives me an answer. There's a low chance any of them liked me, but hey, makes me feel better.

  • @redvivius
    @redvivius 9 месяцев назад

    i have lost all hope and this point at finding someone who loves me other than my family

  • @shimmyeahhh5584
    @shimmyeahhh5584 Год назад +5

    I didn't know that those tips you're explaining are my normal things!😮 Now I know why my crush liked me back!😁

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  Год назад +5

      amazing! how's the relationship going?

    • @shimmyeahhh5584
      @shimmyeahhh5584 Год назад +1

      @@Psych2go It's going well, and we're still counting!

    • @historymacrh
      @historymacrh Год назад

      You're lucky

    • @shimmyeahhh5584
      @shimmyeahhh5584 Год назад +3

      @@historymacrh I believe that it's not about luck. You should know more about that person, talk to them, make them feel valid, make them feel like they're really special, because later on they will appreciate your kindness and love. That's the point where you and that person love starts. Hope it helps, and also follow those tip up😉

    • @historymacrh
      @historymacrh Год назад +1

      @@shimmyeahhh5584 noo thats not quite what i mean i tried everything compliment telling her direct being there for her yet she doesn't like me

  • @wlfpup6072
    @wlfpup6072 Год назад +3

    What about if he has another crush, he knows that you like him, and he says that he wants to date later. 💀😭😳

  • @mythologyknowitall3542
    @mythologyknowitall3542 Год назад

    I'm legit writing a checklist on whether I'm doing these things.

  • @Djembedude12
    @Djembedude12 11 месяцев назад

    I talked to my crush for like 10 seconds right before the bel rang, and like 5 minutes later I was still shaking at lunch. She's such an angel 😅

  • @might_guy05
    @might_guy05 Год назад +11

    Meanwhile imagine someone having a bad humor and is already being ignored by their crush 😂😂

  • @theoracle2288
    @theoracle2288 Год назад +5

    The Wendy joke didn't go well in my head 💀

    • @darkspace1350
      @darkspace1350 Год назад

      fr, for a sec I actually thought they were going to say wendeez nuts… Id have died laughing.

  • @Astroo-dc3yz
    @Astroo-dc3yz Год назад +2

    Thanks for the videos Psych2Go! You’ve really helped me and my crush, since we’ve finally turned into BF & GF because of your tips!

  • @masterreece1098
    @masterreece1098 Год назад +2

    Thank you so much for this bro, I remember when my crush rejected me in primary but with these tips I think I could get someone I like to like me back

  • @Haruuuuk
    @Haruuuuk Год назад +3

    The fact that this was the video my bf talked about and how he did it and now i became his gf 🤣

  • @user-co2pc2kp8e
    @user-co2pc2kp8e Год назад +2

    Is it just me that never gets awkward while talking or hanging around there crush?

  • @lorettadavis2195
    @lorettadavis2195 11 месяцев назад

    I say be nice and focus on yourself.

  • @CrovelAnimation
    @CrovelAnimation 9 месяцев назад

    When I'm stressed sometimes I put on a Psyc2go video related to why I'm stressed. Idk who is the narrator in these videos but her voice is so calming. I feel relaxed when I'm watching psyc2go