5 Things To Say To Your Crush To Make Them Like You

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  • Looking for ways to make your crush like you? Check out this list of 5 things to say to your crush to make them like you! Whether you're starting to feel shy around your crush or just don't know what to say, this video will help!
    Not sure if your crush actually likes you? Watch our video on the psychological ways to tell if your crush likes you: • 6 Psychological Ways T...
    Writer: Stela Kosic
    Script Editor: Rida Batool
    Script Manager: Kelly Soong
    Voice: Amanda Silvera ( / amandasilvera )
    Animator: sarimopi
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  • @YumiTsui
    @YumiTsui 2 года назад +5313

    What do you do when you have a crush on someone? Do you talk to them or wait for them to approach you?

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  2 года назад +2354

      Wait for them to approach me!

    • @khanhhuynh5434
      @khanhhuynh5434 2 года назад +1084

      It’s almost always better to approach them and build a sort of friendship to see if they like you back or not

    • @yceycaylo6741
      @yceycaylo6741 2 года назад +378

      I've been approaching them the past few days I think their getting the hint

    • @giga8379
      @giga8379 2 года назад +161

      I have a Crush on someone about 4-5 years, she’s still talking with me, she enjoys but i don’t think i look like something
      If my face was better i’m pretty sure we we’re couples with her

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  2 года назад +245

      Would love to see if they will approach you back!

  • @shaded076
    @shaded076 2 года назад +3444

    here's the timestamps for those in a hurry:
    0:24, crack a joke
    1:16, remember to say thank you
    1:50, share a little secret
    2:33, give them compliments
    3:19, ask them questions
    great video btw! your videos help us a lot in many different areas, keep it up! ❤️

  • @muthumarimuthumari759
    @muthumarimuthumari759 Месяц назад +3042

    It’s surprising how people are only scratching the surface and don’t take the time to read Flirtosphere Seduction. Go out of the rabbit hole guys

    • @esperina1
      @esperina1 Месяц назад

      1k likes I will tell him that I like him

  • @MrBlaze8xyz
    @MrBlaze8xyz 5 месяцев назад +1745

    10 likes and I will ask her out

    • @ShadowShinobiGX
      @ShadowShinobiGX 2 месяца назад +94

      one more

    • @SirBiscut2470
      @SirBiscut2470 2 месяца назад +108

      There ya go buddy, im your 10th like, good luck man, let me know what me liking your comment pyts you through, we need an update.

    • @MrBlaze8xyz
      @MrBlaze8xyz 2 месяца назад +85

      Bet lemme text her

    • @SirBiscut2470
      @SirBiscut2470 2 месяца назад +37

      @@MrBlaze8xyz lemme know how it goes

    • @MrBlaze8xyz
      @MrBlaze8xyz 2 месяца назад +83

      Bro

  • @NemFX
    @NemFX 2 года назад +1397

    You see your crush coming.
    You are scared.
    I MAKE MYSELF LOOK BIG.
    You raise your arms above your head and assume a more threatening posture.
    You successfully scare away your crush, in a display of dominance.
    WAIT NO I DIDN'T MEAN TO DO THAT.
    Too bad, you succeeded.

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  2 года назад +323

      Isn't that what you do when you see a bear!

    • @NemFX
      @NemFX 2 года назад +150

      @@Psych2go Maybe you have a crush on a bear. I'm not judging. Okay, maybe I'm judging.

    • @Foxolion
      @Foxolion 2 года назад +52

      ​@@Psych2go it was probably the Charmin mom bear

    • @BisharpnearOhio
      @BisharpnearOhio Год назад +27

      Task failed successfully

    • @amongusgaming123
      @amongusgaming123 Год назад +8

      ​@@NemFX😳

  • @heraexp3
    @heraexp3 2 года назад +2252

    i don't even have a crush but i love watching these videos lolol

  • @roaringwater6519
    @roaringwater6519 2 года назад +1115

    When you ask everything about them and their interests and they never ask you anything back 😭💀💀💀

    • @studiooftheoldwind137
      @studiooftheoldwind137 2 года назад +80

      I mean
      The start up conversation is about you pitching yourself to them and why they should be w/ you
      Leading it to a future meet
      The instigator is meant to do most of the talking
      However, if she asked you nothing about yourself
      That's not a good sign my friend
      Just don't act desperate and chase her, that will completely kill any chances

    • @smithdave712
      @smithdave712 2 года назад +28

      It hurts I feel you 🥺

    • @nelleplayz4441
      @nelleplayz4441 Год назад +16

      SAME HERE HOW CAN I SAY HIM MY INTERESTS-

    • @Death_Strand1ng
      @Death_Strand1ng Год назад +2

      😢

    • @stackja78
      @stackja78 Год назад +1

      That has happen to me😢

  • @wonysheart
    @wonysheart 6 месяцев назад +70

    ive only seen my crush for a day and im already watching thousands of videos like this 😭

    • @KetsutuoRD94
      @KetsutuoRD94 5 месяцев назад

      It do be like that, good luck

    • @QuinyCat
      @QuinyCat 5 месяцев назад

      Real

    • @talkto.myself
      @talkto.myself 5 месяцев назад +2

      update pls 😋

    • @Akagami_Haruta
      @Akagami_Haruta 5 месяцев назад

      Same here​@@talkto.myself

    • @ColetteChihota
      @ColetteChihota 13 дней назад +1

      @wonysheart we both like each other but I don't know how to ykkk do anything🙇‍♀️🤦‍♀️😭

  • @GabrielleGayleOfficial
    @GabrielleGayleOfficial Год назад +15

    1. Make a joke
    2. Say thank you
    3. Share a secret
    4. Compliment them
    5. Ask Questions

  • @itzolive3738
    @itzolive3738 Год назад +10

    These videos get recommended to me everytime I have a crush, then when I lose feelings, psych2go disappears off the face of the earth, and now that i have a new crush, they are magically back again. Its like youtube knows my feelings. Scary

  • @piramidasukcesu9417
    @piramidasukcesu9417 2 года назад +807

    I love this.. late-night cafe vibe your videos have.
    They're really.. comfy? Hugging? Y'know, the feeling when you're very comfy and warmed.

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  2 года назад +117

      Glad you like them!

    • @rauaish8665
      @rauaish8665 2 года назад +29

      Yes! Especially because of her voice but the colour's also make me feel more calm. Maybe it's because I like quiet voice's and pastel colour's. Thank you Phych2Go!

    • @khalilahd.
      @khalilahd. 2 года назад +9

      Yess ❤ they always post the best informative videos 😊

    • @MinakoNezukosoldersis
      @MinakoNezukosoldersis 2 года назад +7

      @@Psych2go I feel like I should tell you this story that happened to me, though you might not read it. The story: So a few days ago my crush rejected me 😭 I was literally so heartbroken that I didn’t talk to anyone the rest of that day. But two days later, when I entered my school classroom, I sit in my seat. I glance to the person next to me, named Kaito. And I immediately fell in love with him somehow. I never speak to him because I’m always afraid. But the next day, I was struggling with my project that was due soon and he offered to help me with it. I just nodded, STILL afraid to say anything. He sat a bit closer and started helping me. My old crush, named Masato, looked like he was going to murder Kaito 😭- but looks like someones jealous! 😂

    • @Willambam
      @Willambam Год назад +3

      No wonder I'm single😢 I treat everyone like that 😅

  • @TrueMaximumOutput
    @TrueMaximumOutput Год назад +150

    Quick bonus one:
    When they seem to have some sort of issue or look uncomfortable (not around you).
    Always ask in the most romantic tone you can possibly gather:
    "Are you ok?", that shows that you care about them, and you are there if they are feeling down.
    If they say yeah, or don't worry about it. Respond with:
    "Are you sure?" With a bit more concern, if they open up, then yeah, listen.
    If they don't reassure them just one more time.
    "Are you absolutely sure you're ok? I don't like people, especially ones I know very well, to be sad."
    This will show that they are not just "That person you see every day" or "That person that you sit next to in Math class"
    They are something more, they mean something to you.

    • @agatha_6a
      @agatha_6a Год назад +8

      i'ma use this thankyou

  • @creativeflame_
    @creativeflame_ 2 года назад +311

    Video idea: how to tell if someone is crushing on you or not while they are already in a relationship bc it’s _definitely_ a thing

    • @LosiDriver7223
      @LosiDriver7223 2 года назад +24

      I'm currently living this right now. And that fact that all of our communication is online atm doesn't help the matter.

    • @creativeflame_
      @creativeflame_ 2 года назад +8

      @@LosiDriver7223damn I’m sorry, I can’t even imagine that suspense bc I’m going through it in person. I feel a bit played and like I wish he’d be straight up. He has a gf but he keeps flirting with me and being super physically affectionate and has even said some suspicious things

    • @brixenlang3207
      @brixenlang3207 2 года назад +7

      yknow i kinda feel the same. She was my childhood friend whom I haven’t seen since I was 9 and we just started chatting online last october. Although she told me that she already has a crush, i still developed feelings for her. i might consider it normal cuz i am still on my early teens and stuff happens
      Although I must say that I’ve only fully accepted my attraction towards her weeks after; it strengthened when we met irl just before December.
      And then we talked less, and much less until I felt lonely. She was just really busy at school but I kept overthinking that it was my fault. what’s more is that we mainly communicate online because we live in different cities
      And them I was told that she was bi and she likes her best friend (whom i don’t know). My chest grew heavier and heavier and I knew i had to vent/release all my feelings and thoughts one day; i overthink frequently too then.
      A few days ago in a group chat, she finally knew about my feelings and (as expected since last year) she said no and ends up leaving the gc; she was also quite busy that weekend. I blamed myself again that I might’ve upset her.
      edit: i feel better now, though i am currently giving her some space

    • @xyro88
      @xyro88 2 года назад +8

      @@creativeflame_ They might actually just have a crush on you. This however doesn't mean that they don't love their partner. Their partner might even be informed about it. Or even enabling it.
      They as a couple might have clear boundaries on what is ok and not. And the person that is hitting on you might not be unfaithful at all.
      Or they can be a cheating bastard.
      Or you might read more into it than reality.
      There are many possibilities.
      But one thing is for certain.
      In a relationship, if it's a friendship, coworker, lover, or what ever else, you have to respect the boundaries set. If their interaction towards you makes you uncomfortable you should be clear on your boundaries.
      "You have a flirtatiously way of talking to me. Since you have a partner, that kind of attention makes me uncomfortable"
      They might deflect or makes excuses. They might say their partner knows. They might say many things.
      But if they are not considerate of your boundaries then they don't respect you.
      And there is always the right time and place for this kind of talk. A party or right after they flirted with you might not be the right moment.

    • @Hel_P
      @Hel_P Год назад +3

      I've been where you are rn and now I am the person in a (kind of draining, long and not the happiest) relationship... it's been a rollercoaster of feelings for me, like I don't want to suddenly hurt my partner (especially because we already hurt each other in the past), but I also don't want my crush to feel played- I'm serious about him. But thing is, I can't even be sure if he really likes me back lmao. So, I've been giving myself lots of headaches overanalyzing everything and trying to not be unfair to anyone, but also to think about myself and my happiness :/

  • @i_luvSky
    @i_luvSky Год назад +9

    The first time I saw my crush, I rushed straight to them and gave em a BIG hug and said “I like you” quietly, I let them be after. I liked em, but they didn’t back, we’re good friends now, and hopefully soon, we could take it to the next level.
    I had no regrets of making that choice, and I wasn’t even scared confronting them. 😊

    • @i_luvSky
      @i_luvSky Год назад +2

      And to think I see almost everyone struggling to say their feelings. 😢
      It’s okay, when you’re ready, go for it. 😊

  • @iihoneybea629
    @iihoneybea629 Год назад +7

    Ooh how to say you have a crush on someone is to be like “do you have a crush on someone” (they will likely soon ask you if you do, when they do, say:) “yeah” (if they ask who say :) “somebody you know really well” (they’ll ask who :) “you know them better than anybody” eventually they will either reveal that they r stalking someone OR realise that you like them! (It works... it may be awkward tho)

  • @psych2gomandarin
    @psych2gomandarin 2 года назад +268

    0:00 intro
    0:24 1、crack a joke
    1:15 2、remember to say thank you
    1:50 3、share a little secret
    2:32 4、give them compliments
    3:19 5、ask them questions
    3:53 outro

    • @Shanniqua-Yexelle
      @Shanniqua-Yexelle Год назад +1

      This channel has been SUPER helpful to my problems. Keep up the good work!

    • @ironpenguingg
      @ironpenguingg 8 месяцев назад +1

      thank you so much
      Like all i need is 30 second explanations

  • @britneydavid6211
    @britneydavid6211 Год назад +572

    I think the best way to get your crush attracted to you is to be yourself. Doesn't matter if your childish or mature, just be yourself!

    • @samoasanta
      @samoasanta Год назад +9

      your right

    • @jake_24.
      @jake_24. Год назад +22

      Usually myself doesn’t do much…
      Although I found a girl who I really really like because she sees me for who I am and I’m afraid to ruin our friendship:(

    • @christiancollongues5248
      @christiancollongues5248 Год назад +9

      @@jake_24.if u ask her out make sure that she’s fine with it even if she doesn’t like u back by telling her something like « i want to tell u something but promise me we will still be friends after it » or if u didn’t say that ask her if u can still be friends

    • @jake_24.
      @jake_24. Год назад

      @@christiancollongues5248 I don’t think I’m gonna ask her out for now but I got her number today :)
      I didn’t have it because we recently met and I was scared to ask

    • @icysnow57cold64
      @icysnow57cold64 Год назад +4

      I have a question. How do males and females bond with each other? I don't see how men and women can bond (especially romantically) with each other. Men and women think very differently from each other.
      Women can build incredible friendships and become very close to each other in a way men can't bond, and science shows that women can bond very well with each other. Generally, women are even more social than men are. After something bad happens, a woman quickly rushes to talk to all of her female friends to get support, whereas a man can isolate himself and grief alone.
      Women tend to be more emotionally intelligent, more caring, more empathic, more compassionate, more affectionate, more loyal, more nurturing, more understanding, more sympathetic, more sensitive, more kind-hearted, more peaceful, more calmer, more gentle, more expressive, more intuitive, and more outward than men are, and thus bond more with other women in a special way that they can’t with men. Men, on the other hand, are not that emotional, and thus can’t bond with other men in a special way.
      Women are more comfortable being around with other women than they are with men. They have a type of bond that usually men with women won’t really have, or with men and men. Also, girls that are friends touch each other in ways that guys just don’t.

  • @khalilahd.
    @khalilahd. 2 года назад +183

    I’ll never get over how cute the animations are ❤ even if I don’t relate to every video topic discussed I always learn something new so thanks Psych2go!

    • @isakayyik966
      @isakayyik966 2 года назад +2

      God Bless you! Always remember that Jesus died for you and took the punishment for our sins on the cross! If you turn away from your evil and trust ONLY in Him, you will be saved from death for your sin and have eternal life and happiness that will never go away, and you will never experience evil or pain or sadness ever again!

    • @TheSecondLaughingSoldier
      @TheSecondLaughingSoldier Год назад +1

      ​@Isakay Yik ?
      No, sorry. I'll remain in Buddhism.
      Or no religion at all for that matter.

    • @Lazy12-vd9lu
      @Lazy12-vd9lu Год назад

      Me too

  • @TimeaMcEvoy
    @TimeaMcEvoy 2 месяца назад +179

    150 likes then ill confess to my crush

    • @Wanwann_Lieh
      @Wanwann_Lieh Месяц назад +4

      Just tell them bro

    • @Wanwann_Lieh
      @Wanwann_Lieh Месяц назад +4

      B4 its to late...

    • @Quantaflux
      @Quantaflux Месяц назад

      Sometimes you need a little push​@@Wanwann_Lieh

    • @GratefulPerson1234
      @GratefulPerson1234 Месяц назад +3

      What tells you that u'll see him tomorrow.
      Just go

    • @Wanwann_Lieh
      @Wanwann_Lieh Месяц назад +3

      @@GratefulPerson1234 yeaaa

  • @8ZAID1
    @8ZAID1 Месяц назад +3

    I instantly clicked on the video once I saw the title

  • @sirdenchik
    @sirdenchik Год назад +37

    Unlike most, i feared rejection and i was too late to confess and my crush has a bf now. Devastating... Good video and i adore the artstyle!

    • @Beepboophehe
      @Beepboophehe 2 месяца назад

      That's not rlly UNlike most tho

  • @brain_respect_and_freedom
    @brain_respect_and_freedom 2 года назад +128

    There's absolutely NOTHING wrong with feeling nervous. 🙋 Sometimes we care too much or we're overthinking etc.
    Next time will be easier. 🙏

  • @isaiahvoss
    @isaiahvoss 2 года назад +46

    I've had many crushes before in the past but they always liked me for my cynical sense of humor right on the spot. It always worked with girls for me. But otherwise they liked me because of how nice of a person I can be towards them as well as support. I had one situationship that ended sour that I had feelings for that I couldn't work out. And I went through emotional pain for a few months to get over two girls I thought were my friends but only used me. I love giving girls as friends compliments so they're appreciated! That's what boosts my self esteem and helped me to talk to girls again. I made a new female friend recently and she started to be there for me and appreciates our friendship.

    • @rauaish8665
      @rauaish8665 2 года назад +4

      Youre doing a great job

    • @rauaish8665
      @rauaish8665 2 года назад +3

      By that I mean you're doing a great job at making friends that are the opposite gender to you (in your case girl's and in my case boy's) and i've alway's had trouble with that since people around me either made fun of me or we just drifted apart so I think of that as a big accomplishment (sorry I didn't say this sooner because I was in a rush and why this is so long because you might have mixed emotions by not knowing if I actually mean it or said it to make you feel better about yourself I kind of meant both and I should stop sorry)

  • @InstaTubeReels
    @InstaTubeReels Год назад +2

    It’s hard to do smalltalk with people because my personality is pretty plane and the only thing I can talk to people about are politics, news and gossip.

  • @emilyniauhueyningmoe2894
    @emilyniauhueyningmoe2894 Год назад +2

    I don’t have a crush, but I do this to all my friends, it makes our relationship last longer and I genuinely like to see them smile. They’ll say something about their day or what they’ve accomplished, and sometimes I don’t really know how to reply to that, but I’ll ask questions to just keep them talking!
    I’m really talkative when it comes to talking about myself, so the tip is always to let the person speak first before you do

  • @X4nd3r_R0ckz
    @X4nd3r_R0ckz 2 года назад +47

    I've never had a crush before so I'll save this for later!

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  2 года назад +20

      That sounds good! Maybe someone has a crush on you?

  • @rikuvivi
    @rikuvivi 2 года назад +94

    Of course the most important thing to do around your crush is be yourself. If they don't think your good enough then maybe they aren't the one. But you know your perfect.

    • @Impo8816
      @Impo8816 10 месяцев назад +1

      What do i do when im friends with my crush cuz like idk if shes joking or flirting and like i dont wanna ruin the friendship by telling her and getting rejected

    • @gulinambarcoglu856
      @gulinambarcoglu856 5 месяцев назад

      ​@@Impo8816 Try ur chance bro psychology says if u crush on someone and tell it he/she %81 loves back u

    • @gulinambarcoglu856
      @gulinambarcoglu856 5 месяцев назад

      Not me, psychology

  • @isoisdead
    @isoisdead 2 года назад +86

    Y'all are literally my advice for everything lol

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  2 года назад +22

      What other advice would you like to hear from us?

    • @eilon6765
      @eilon6765 2 года назад +1

      Amazing pfp

    • @thatpersonvirginia
      @thatpersonvirginia Год назад +1

      @@Psych2go I know I'm not the original commenter, but I was wondering if you could make more videos about self harm. Like 5 ways to stop helping you from self harming.

    • @the_irl_sophie_hatter_
      @the_irl_sophie_hatter_ Год назад +1

      ​@@Psych2go hello I also know I'm not the original commenter but could you possibly give advice on what to do if your crush is dating someone?

    • @Death_Strand1ng
      @Death_Strand1ng Год назад

      ikr same 😅

  • @steevydeevy
    @steevydeevy 19 дней назад +1

    idk why but i find her voice soothing and relaxing

  • @stickfigure4975
    @stickfigure4975 7 месяцев назад +5

    It’s just like the garden and the butterfly mentality. Don’t chase after the butterfly because it will always fly away. But instead, build yourself a beautiful garden and improve it every day to attract the most beautiful butterfly. And if it doesn’t work, at least you have a beautiful garden.

  • @stephaniepeterson5337
    @stephaniepeterson5337 2 года назад +104

    you always cheer my up. if im sad, happy, or have butterflies from a cute dude. my day always becomes 10 times better❤️❤️❤️

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  2 года назад +26

      Thank you for your sweet message!

    • @goateye2668
      @goateye2668 2 года назад +4

      @@Psych2go ​ Hi, Im a fan of This channel.Watching and listening while working..I prefer this channel than radio..I hope i can work with you if you need extra animator..Im 11 yrs experienced animator for tv series and feature films..

  • @carlosforlen8205
    @carlosforlen8205 2 года назад +39

    Thank you. This helps all of us who struggle socially and just nice to watch

  • @NotKennethMcCormick
    @NotKennethMcCormick Год назад +13

    I think im pretty lucky, for what i've heard, most people get nervous and blush while talking to their crush, while I just blush and get nervous when my friends tease me about it
    I don't have trouble talking to him so It'll be easy to try these tips
    Thanks for the video btw!

  • @kairinaminemix
    @kairinaminemix Год назад +4

    I did all of these unintentionally when I first met my boyfriend and continued to. He liked me more and more each time we hung out. So these things do work

  • @elsabug6769
    @elsabug6769 Год назад +8

    I’ve watched several of these crush-themed videos & this is actually the most helpful! Thanks!💖🥰

  • @ProbablyHeavensDoor
    @ProbablyHeavensDoor 2 года назад +8

    The little piano in the back really eased this video and made it feel so casual and natural- lovely!!

  • @TakeBackYourMind997
    @TakeBackYourMind997 2 года назад +65

    Talk about things you love and let your passion come through in that conversation. It doesn't matter what you're into and whether it's considered cool or not, when you let your passion shine through in conversation you become instantly more charismatic and attractive.

    • @TheBestLoser1
      @TheBestLoser1 2 года назад +3

      I disagree. I'm seen as unattractive whenever I talk about things nobody else is interested in. Chased off a lot of girls talking about Star Wars or Smash Brothers when they didn't care about either series. It's not like I didn't let them talk, either. They just thought I was boring and didn't bother talking to me again.
      Now if I had a charming face and had a deeper voice, what you're saying could be true. Sadly I have neither.

    • @msacharacterdrawings4439
      @msacharacterdrawings4439 Год назад +3

      @@TheBestLoser1 don’t worry. If they don’t see how special you are, then they’re jerks. Don’t let them make you downhearted

    • @TheBestLoser1
      @TheBestLoser1 Год назад +4

      @@msacharacterdrawings4439 I wouldn't call them jerks for that. If they aren't interested, it is what it is. I'm sure it's a me problem most likely, if *most* women seriously don't care about what I have to say.

    • @msacharacterdrawings4439
      @msacharacterdrawings4439 Год назад +2

      @@TheBestLoser1 yeah, sorry, I didn’t mean it like that

    • @TheBestLoser1
      @TheBestLoser1 Год назад +1

      @@msacharacterdrawings4439 It's all good 👍

  • @CressNT
    @CressNT 2 года назад +6

    I really don't know why I clicked on this video right after getting rejected, but it doesn't matter. Someday I'll figure it out. At least I think we can keep being friends. Truth is like a blackbird... let it free, even if it will leave to fly among the clouds.

  • @ZingaMadinga
    @ZingaMadinga 2 дня назад

    It might be no accident that youtube recommended this to me. i just like watching these kinds of videos. it's not even like I need romantic advice right now, but still.

  • @IreneLee-b2b
    @IreneLee-b2b Месяц назад +1

    Thanks for giving the tips!! My friend did the first one to her crush and now they are dating!!

  • @isaiahvoss
    @isaiahvoss 2 года назад +20

    Just like Abed said in Community "The truth is lots of girls like me because, let's face it, I'm pretty adorable, and, uh, my aloofness unconsciously reminds them of their fathers, so... I'm more used to them approaching me." (That's how I would feel if I was trying to change or have a girlfriend.)

  • @tisoyowens724
    @tisoyowens724 2 года назад +51

    THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR THIS

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  2 года назад +7

      Of course! What did you learn from this video?

  • @vincentryker8012
    @vincentryker8012 2 года назад +53

    It's funny that I keep watching these videos but still get silent when I try to confess my feelings.
    Like it feels like someone or something took my voice.

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  2 года назад +16

      I'm sure that isn't the case! Have you tried the old fashion way? Just be direct and tell them you like them?

    • @vincentryker8012
      @vincentryker8012 2 года назад +2

      @@Psych2go I am trying, it's just that I suddenly am not able to talk or something like that.

    • @apersonorsomething8705
      @apersonorsomething8705 2 года назад +4

      The same thing happens to me, I just feel like I can't talk to them about it at all, like I try but no sound comes out, it kinda feels like someone is choking me or something...Do you find yourself not being able to breathe too or is that just a me thing?

    • @vincentryker8012
      @vincentryker8012 2 года назад +4

      @@apersonorsomething8705 yes! Exactly like this!

    • @spareacc5941
      @spareacc5941 Год назад +1

      @@Psych2go Im still in school, andthat approach may not be as helpful. There is some complexity and they dont like me back, they could tell their friends who would tell their friends and the whole schoo would know the deal.

  • @SlappleBattles
    @SlappleBattles 16 дней назад +1

    I have a pickup line:
    Earth starts with EAR
    Jupiter starts with JUP
    and the Universe starts with
    U N I
    Meaning: it starts with U (you) N (and) I

  • @LemonJam-xr6xx
    @LemonJam-xr6xx 11 месяцев назад +1

    These are all great ideas, besides the fact that my brain stops working when I’m around them and can’t remember anything u told me

  • @watermelonspeech
    @watermelonspeech 2 года назад +119

    me and my crush laugh our brains out. he’s _literally_ the one guy I actually have fun with.
    UPDATE SINCE YOU PEOPLE ASKING..
    I moved, never got to see him again. he’s actually really ugly too, idk what I saw in him. also, I got rejected, but we stayed friends. ..before I moved.

  • @axstr0m1
    @axstr0m1 Год назад +9

    Ty for this! Me and my crush used to be friends but things got uhm….more bumpy than we expected. I hope this will help me become closer to them again (hopefully)!

  • @Kofira_Vy_Xen
    @Kofira_Vy_Xen Год назад +8

    I can confirm this ive been asking my best friend a lot of questions since the day we met which was a few years ago and each passing year our bond became stronger❤

  • @CLOVER2188
    @CLOVER2188 18 дней назад +2

    The thing is, im to scared to even talk to my crush. Like i can be around them, but i feel like talking is a little scary. 😅

  • @Worms.in.the.earth.
    @Worms.in.the.earth. Год назад +1

    me being really good friends with my crush:

  • @jwanie366
    @jwanie366 2 года назад +7

    I've done this with a few of my crushes, only to later find out that they're already in relationships. There's always another one, though!

  • @herstechz9645
    @herstechz9645 2 года назад +6

    Watching your videos are just like a daily habit for me now
    Really love your voice and way of speaking, feels so calm and so satisfying to just listen to them.

  • @camhamsshow
    @camhamsshow 2 года назад +8

    I have a crush and I've actually done all of these things with her. With Valentine's day coming up it's making me super nervous to make any more advances though

  • @FranciscoMwaura-r1o
    @FranciscoMwaura-r1o Месяц назад +1

    I took my chance and I was rejected what a way to start a new year

  • @constancialazarra3172
    @constancialazarra3172 9 месяцев назад +1

    I confessed once to my crush, now we're the bestest of friends.

  • @legendaryiguess
    @legendaryiguess 2 года назад +5

    This channel has really helped the past few weeks. Been going through some confusing times.

  • @stephenaviaspace5056
    @stephenaviaspace5056 2 года назад +4

    Hi. Thanks for this. I've been a big fan of you for a long time, I like psychology, I like Brits, I learn lots of English jokes and humour all the time especially from Tom Scott... I have a little secret crush. I think we're both shy to each other and both care for each other in some way, but we almost never talk to each other in person, and, pretty awkward!
    Butterflies in the stomach make it so nervous for a talk, you don't know what's gonna happen next, and you overthink ahead. It's been a year already, and all I know is about myself! 😅

  • @ehmwhy
    @ehmwhy 2 года назад +202

    Here’s a hard truth that most of you will have to accept:
    The vast majority of crushes are one sided - either you will have a crush on someone or someone will have a crush on you. And unless you’re a physically attractive woman, or a really extroverted guy they won’t ever reciprocate. Took me over 10 years to realise this.

    • @RaqiiCat
      @RaqiiCat Год назад +31

      Well shit

    • @Owen-ur8wn
      @Owen-ur8wn Год назад +18

      im screwed

    • @teencrisis4750
      @teencrisis4750 Год назад +14

      Yea..no 😭

    • @JavierEscuella1911
      @JavierEscuella1911 Год назад +34

      I had a crush on a friend for the longest time. I’ve known her for years. I wouldn’t even call her a crush, I just love her, simple as that. We have an amazing friendship and I hope I get the balls to tell her one of these days.
      I know it’s corny, but if want to find someone, you have to know them. Wanting to be with someone because on the surface because they are attractive isn’t love, it’s infatuation. This is what I think is the key to a healthy relationship. Of course I’m just a rando on the internet who isn’t in a relationship and you don’t necessarily have to love someone on a deeper level to be in a healthy relationship but I think it’s a good foundation for a truly good relationship. Take my words with a grain of salt, I really don’t know if what I’m saying is stupid as hell lol

    • @the_finkledinkle
      @the_finkledinkle Год назад +3

      Well my crushes cousin goes to the same school and is in the same year and they said hiiiii so I always have a backup

  • @NeverEverWatchThis
    @NeverEverWatchThis Год назад +1

    Thanks a bunch! I have been stuck in the “best friend, try again” loop for 4 years. I’m going to try some of these tips. Like this video y’all so more people can see this!

  • @unasworld8168
    @unasworld8168 8 месяцев назад +1

    My crush has been the most kind person ever! ❤I am trusting you and I think I might tell him my feelings. Thank you for the video! ❤My biggest fear is that he rejects me tho.. so it might take so time! But, these suggestions has boosted my mood here. Thanks so much!! :D

  • @A55a551n
    @A55a551n 2 года назад +8

    Timestamps
    1). Crack a joke 0:24
    2). Remember to say thank you 1:16
    3). Share a little secret 1:50
    4). Give them compliments 2:33
    5). Ask them questions 3:19
    Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice. 💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙

  • @KifuruHeriko
    @KifuruHeriko 2 года назад +9

    My only problem is that all five of these things I do to everyone, especially asking questions, I'm the curious type

  • @arvinmedina4841
    @arvinmedina4841 Год назад +10

    0:29 Is it bad that I thought of a deez nuts joke?

  • @mhumhumheo
    @mhumhumheo 4 месяца назад

    i think that the sound is too low to hear clearly😍,but , this video is great in general, thanks!

  • @RobinsonSURIN-o1t
    @RobinsonSURIN-o1t Месяц назад +1

    Thank you Psych2 Go.😊

  • @TheUglyDuckling997
    @TheUglyDuckling997 2 года назад +7

    Those 5 things may but nothing works as well as the ultimate technique
    "Will you go out with me"

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  2 года назад +6

      That is true! Does it work for you when you are direct with your approach?

    • @DeterminedBlade
      @DeterminedBlade 3 месяца назад

      This is like if you roll anything below a nat 20 it’s a fail

  • @diegovillanueva5237
    @diegovillanueva5237 Год назад +6

    imagine someone like me watching a video that gives me advice on what to say YET haven't talked to their current crush in 4-5 years💀💀

    • @swiftie1300
      @swiftie1300 Год назад

      Yep like I had a crush on someone 4 years ago but so much time has passed now my crush on them is basically non existent. And I like ask myself- why did I even like them exactly?

  • @idkmyuser6854
    @idkmyuser6854 2 года назад +7

    I probably don't have the confidence to do these but they are still helpful!

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  2 года назад +5

      Confidence takes time to build up! I believe in you that you'll be able to overcome all this

    • @idkmyuser6854
      @idkmyuser6854 2 года назад +1

      @@Psych2go that means a lot! I have a lot of social anxiety

    • @studiooftheoldwind137
      @studiooftheoldwind137 2 года назад

      Confidence is hard to build up
      Discipline yourself
      Work on your body and mind
      This will build confidence and focus
      Practice by talking to a lot of people
      The only way to truly build confidence is to throw yourself in the water

    • @zumbawithkelli6931
      @zumbawithkelli6931 Год назад

      Same i deal you

  • @CrovelAnimation
    @CrovelAnimation Год назад

    When I'm stressed sometimes I put on a Psyc2go video related to why I'm stressed. Idk who is the narrator in these videos but her voice is so calming. I feel relaxed when I'm watching psyc2go

  • @UrosG
    @UrosG 2 месяца назад

    I started liking someone and after watching this video i realized SHE IS USING THESE TRICKS AND THEY WORKKKKKK

  • @_quixote
    @_quixote 2 года назад +6

    I only talked to her once so far, but it was the best day I've had in a while. I made a few jokes snd she laughed, but no one got anyone's number, and when we passed by each other in school, it's kinda awkward so we don't say anything to me. I think she's the same as me, in the fact that I'm not that good with the opposite gender

  • @wajdemohamed4779
    @wajdemohamed4779 2 года назад +4

    The timing of this was on point :D

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  2 года назад +3

      Glad to hear! Are you planning to confess to your crush?

    • @wajdemohamed4779
      @wajdemohamed4779 2 года назад +2

      @@Psych2go I am ! I hope it turns out well :)

  • @StangeGirly00
    @StangeGirly00 Год назад +37

    People don’t normally find my dark humor attractive…

    • @stickfigure4975
      @stickfigure4975 7 месяцев назад +9

      It's dark humour what do you expect 💀

    • @Skieboos
      @Skieboos 5 месяцев назад +3

      I mean😬

    • @Gewehier
      @Gewehier 5 месяцев назад +6

      I think dark Humor is just better😂

    • @Akagami_Haruta
      @Akagami_Haruta 5 месяцев назад +1

      Same too​@@Gewehier

    • @IlijaJukic-z3i
      @IlijaJukic-z3i 2 месяца назад +2

      Well some people like me, do.

  • @ΕΛΕΥΘΕΡΙΑΑΝΤΑΒΑΛΗ
    @ΕΛΕΥΘΕΡΙΑΑΝΤΑΒΑΛΗ 10 месяцев назад

    I say to him > every time he sneeze just to hear a thank u or show that i care

  • @Shax_Gaming822
    @Shax_Gaming822 2 месяца назад

    tbh this channel is better than my parents

  • @elliehagman5658
    @elliehagman5658 2 года назад +6

    When you already do all of these things because you are a close friend with your crush.😏

  • @YourFavoriteBlueHedgehog
    @YourFavoriteBlueHedgehog 9 месяцев назад +17

    Me after working so hard to make sure my crush thinks I don’t like her 😭🙏

  • @shimmyeahhh5584
    @shimmyeahhh5584 2 года назад +5

    I didn't know that those tips you're explaining are my normal things!😮 Now I know why my crush liked me back!😁

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  2 года назад +5

      amazing! how's the relationship going?

    • @shimmyeahhh5584
      @shimmyeahhh5584 2 года назад +1

      @@Psych2go It's going well, and we're still counting!

    • @historymacrh
      @historymacrh 2 года назад

      You're lucky

    • @shimmyeahhh5584
      @shimmyeahhh5584 2 года назад +3

      @@historymacrh I believe that it's not about luck. You should know more about that person, talk to them, make them feel valid, make them feel like they're really special, because later on they will appreciate your kindness and love. That's the point where you and that person love starts. Hope it helps, and also follow those tip up😉

    • @historymacrh
      @historymacrh 2 года назад +1

      @@shimmyeahhh5584 noo thats not quite what i mean i tried everything compliment telling her direct being there for her yet she doesn't like me

  • @nickfu8364
    @nickfu8364 Год назад +2

    This really helps!! I always struggle when my crush comes :3

  • @bryanwells4063
    @bryanwells4063 Месяц назад

    I've solved the feeling of butterflies by not having crushes anymore. I can "like" a girl physically, but I've realized this holds very little actual meaning. If i like a girls personality, or their smile, this holds deeper meaning for me. This transitions my feeling from "liking someone" (which is platonic) to "being interested". But i don't think of it as a crush. They are an option now, someone i can get to know better and try to be friends with. As i learn more, i might start to be more interested. So far, had a few crushes, only one learned about it, pretty much rejected me, and I've never had a girlfriend. Currently have 1 girl in somewhat interested in, but there's a pretty big cultural difference. Only 18 years old right now, but time is ticking. My old boss was 35 and told me he was contemplating whether he should settle for someone who was already married once or just excepting living by himself because he was still single and it was too late for him. Definitely have time but don't want to end up like that. Also don't want to deal with a "crazy girl" so I'm being really picky. If i date someone I'm doing it with the intention of eventually marrying her. Just wanted to share my experience so far. 😊

  • @callmeyssaa
    @callmeyssaa Год назад +13

    Me right here who never talked to my crush 👁👄👁

    • @swiftie1300
      @swiftie1300 Год назад +3

      Exactly! Why it's gotta be so difficult!!!!

    • @natanielmaciejewski5645
      @natanielmaciejewski5645 6 месяцев назад

      It's a sign 😉💖

    • @CASA-dy4vs
      @CASA-dy4vs 4 месяца назад +1

      I only talked to mine because I was too nervous to get up and draw an image that reflects a word as a end of term game, she offered to go instead since I was just sitting there frozen in place like wth is happening.

  • @Am_._
    @Am_._ 2 года назад +8

    2:33 Ladies, we should keep this in mind. Apparently guys get a shockingly low amount of compliments. So let's try to compliment them on little things :)

    • @MewGaming-dw5pe
      @MewGaming-dw5pe 4 месяца назад

      As a young boy in middle school I still get a LOT and I mean a LOT of compliments from this girl who has a crush on me. Also my best friend tries to hide her flirts. What should I tell her?

    • @dabaconrblx441
      @dabaconrblx441 4 месяца назад

      @Am_._ yea I get very little compliments I'm in 9th now I get very less compliments from my parents and others.im an introvert and I am a top scorer in my school. I don't respect myself and I'm very introverted.maye that's why

  • @SPADECARD
    @SPADECARD Год назад +12

    “It’s also a simple way to tell someone, I appreciate you”
    My crush who straight up says “I appreciate you” to me:

    • @imawakemymindisalive13
      @imawakemymindisalive13 Год назад +4

      bruh that’s what the kitchen manager says to the volunteers where i work 😂😂😂

  • @AyeLuri-v7y
    @AyeLuri-v7y Месяц назад +1

    I hv a crush on someone i wish he crush on me too and i always watch ur video ur videos helps me everything 😊🎉❤

  • @undertaledoge
    @undertaledoge Год назад

    Just watching this video, even though i dont have a crush, makes me happy. I was smiling through the whole thing.

  • @Bitter_Beauty_Music
    @Bitter_Beauty_Music 2 года назад +29

    And a word of wisdom: if they ain't interested in being your friend at the very least, they definitely ain't interested in being your girlfriend. Happy flirting everyone ☺️

    • @Messi-uu3ox
      @Messi-uu3ox Год назад

      Could someone advise me what to do?
      My crush has been my girl best friend since 5 years, I don't know if she just wants to be my friend or something more, I don't know what to do and how to take this forward. We short talk almost everyday but these days it keeps on getting awkward because I don't know what to do, pls help

    • @frogoyes7611
      @frogoyes7611 Год назад +1

      ​@@Messi-uu3oxDoes she talk about liking other people or anything? If she does certain things like that you may just be a "best friend" if not you should just take the leap and tell her your feelings in a causal way.

  • @pushypapi
    @pushypapi 2 года назад +5

    hi Psych2Go, i have a crush on someone, and after watching your videos about crushes, i found that this person shows signs of both possibilities: that they like me, or that they don’t feel the same way. i am confused af because i don’t understand what their actions mean. one minute they’re flirting with me, getting close with me, showing psychological signs that they’re into me. but at the same time, they ignore my texts, i’m the one who always start a convo or plan to do things with them, and it’s really one-sided. in your opinion, how should i handle this situation? 😔

  • @Pixelatetech
    @Pixelatetech Год назад +8

    1:50 they want to kill me

  • @Memee_master
    @Memee_master 7 месяцев назад +2

    I feel bad for being brave and saying that i like my crush but actually now i know my crush like me

  • @saidviveros5212
    @saidviveros5212 Год назад +1

    Me, who doesn't has a crush: Yeah I'll see this video

  • @Random_person0229
    @Random_person0229 Год назад +4

    Middle schoolers watching this:😊

  • @ValHanuman
    @ValHanuman Год назад +5

    What do I do in this situation. I’m in school and have a crush. I sit right next to them in a class but I’m WAY to scared to say anything. (I’m a guy)Everyday I just try saying hi when I see them but I get to nervous thinking that she will think of me as weird and annoying. What should I do and how do I overcome that feeling.

    • @bts4life707
      @bts4life707 Год назад

      Don't be afraid said hi and good morning to her or you can ask some questions related to note or lecture

  • @wlfpup6072
    @wlfpup6072 Год назад +5

    What about if he has another crush, he knows that you like him, and he says that he wants to date later. 💀😭😳

  • @IIIArtistixIII
    @IIIArtistixIII 6 месяцев назад

    GUYS!! LISTEN!!! You can use these methods, but it’s more important to say it from the heart.

  • @Antiantiantisociety
    @Antiantiantisociety Год назад

    Thank you I feel so much more confident about talking to my crush now hopefully she likes it.

  • @jackyjackazz
    @jackyjackazz 2 года назад +6

    Currently trying to figure out if my friend is in love with me

  • @WolfTwep
    @WolfTwep 9 месяцев назад +3

    3:30 the last Time I Asked my crush Questions
    I got called as an Insecure Person😢

  • @grace.sprickerhoff
    @grace.sprickerhoff 8 месяцев назад +10

    I thought it said compliment autistic skills 😭 3:12

    • @ESTER11123
      @ESTER11123 5 месяцев назад +1

      Why does this have no reply’s this is funny as shit

    • @grace.sprickerhoff
      @grace.sprickerhoff 5 месяцев назад

      @@ESTER11123 hehe 😔

  • @anhfw
    @anhfw Год назад

    I had a crush on this guy, and we started talking as friends and I suddenly stopped to feel something for him for some reason????? and the same moment y stopped liking him HE GAVE ME ALL THE REASONS THAT HE LIKED ME😫😫 so i wanna like him back to see what happens!! he’s seems like a nice guy:)

  • @kanikahalder3586
    @kanikahalder3586 5 месяцев назад +1

    I don't have a crush...
    But still watching coz I want to learn psychology.