I have a Crush on someone about 4-5 years, she’s still talking with me, she enjoys but i don’t think i look like something If my face was better i’m pretty sure we we’re couples with her
here's the timestamps for those in a hurry: 0:24, crack a joke 1:16, remember to say thank you 1:50, share a little secret 2:33, give them compliments 3:19, ask them questions great video btw! your videos help us a lot in many different areas, keep it up! ❤️
You see your crush coming. You are scared. I MAKE MYSELF LOOK BIG. You raise your arms above your head and assume a more threatening posture. You successfully scare away your crush, in a display of dominance. WAIT NO I DIDN'T MEAN TO DO THAT. Too bad, you succeeded.
Usually myself doesn’t do much… Although I found a girl who I really really like because she sees me for who I am and I’m afraid to ruin our friendship:(
@@jake_24.if u ask her out make sure that she’s fine with it even if she doesn’t like u back by telling her something like « i want to tell u something but promise me we will still be friends after it » or if u didn’t say that ask her if u can still be friends
@@christiancollongues5248 I don’t think I’m gonna ask her out for now but I got her number today :) I didn’t have it because we recently met and I was scared to ask
I have a question. How do males and females bond with each other? I don't see how men and women can bond (especially romantically) with each other. Men and women think very differently from each other. Women can build incredible friendships and become very close to each other in a way men can't bond, and science shows that women can bond very well with each other. Generally, women are even more social than men are. After something bad happens, a woman quickly rushes to talk to all of her female friends to get support, whereas a man can isolate himself and grief alone. Women tend to be more emotionally intelligent, more caring, more empathic, more compassionate, more affectionate, more loyal, more nurturing, more understanding, more sympathetic, more sensitive, more kind-hearted, more peaceful, more calmer, more gentle, more expressive, more intuitive, and more outward than men are, and thus bond more with other women in a special way that they can’t with men. Men, on the other hand, are not that emotional, and thus can’t bond with other men in a special way. Women are more comfortable being around with other women than they are with men. They have a type of bond that usually men with women won’t really have, or with men and men. Also, girls that are friends touch each other in ways that guys just don’t.
Quick bonus one: When they seem to have some sort of issue or look uncomfortable (not around you). Always ask in the most romantic tone you can possibly gather: "Are you ok?", that shows that you care about them, and you are there if they are feeling down. If they say yeah, or don't worry about it. Respond with: "Are you sure?" With a bit more concern, if they open up, then yeah, listen. If they don't reassure them just one more time. "Are you absolutely sure you're ok? I don't like people, especially ones I know very well, to be sad." This will show that they are not just "That person you see every day" or "That person that you sit next to in Math class" They are something more, they mean something to you.
I mean The start up conversation is about you pitching yourself to them and why they should be w/ you Leading it to a future meet The instigator is meant to do most of the talking However, if she asked you nothing about yourself That's not a good sign my friend Just don't act desperate and chase her, that will completely kill any chances
0:00 intro 0:24 1、crack a joke 1:15 2、remember to say thank you 1:50 3、share a little secret 2:32 4、give them compliments 3:19 5、ask them questions 3:53 outro
@@LosiDriver7223damn I’m sorry, I can’t even imagine that suspense bc I’m going through it in person. I feel a bit played and like I wish he’d be straight up. He has a gf but he keeps flirting with me and being super physically affectionate and has even said some suspicious things
yknow i kinda feel the same. She was my childhood friend whom I haven’t seen since I was 9 and we just started chatting online last october. Although she told me that she already has a crush, i still developed feelings for her. i might consider it normal cuz i am still on my early teens and stuff happens Although I must say that I’ve only fully accepted my attraction towards her weeks after; it strengthened when we met irl just before December. And then we talked less, and much less until I felt lonely. She was just really busy at school but I kept overthinking that it was my fault. what’s more is that we mainly communicate online because we live in different cities And them I was told that she was bi and she likes her best friend (whom i don’t know). My chest grew heavier and heavier and I knew i had to vent/release all my feelings and thoughts one day; i overthink frequently too then. A few days ago in a group chat, she finally knew about my feelings and (as expected since last year) she said no and ends up leaving the gc; she was also quite busy that weekend. I blamed myself again that I might’ve upset her. edit: i feel better now, though i am currently giving her some space
@@creativeflame_ They might actually just have a crush on you. This however doesn't mean that they don't love their partner. Their partner might even be informed about it. Or even enabling it. They as a couple might have clear boundaries on what is ok and not. And the person that is hitting on you might not be unfaithful at all. Or they can be a cheating bastard. Or you might read more into it than reality. There are many possibilities. But one thing is for certain. In a relationship, if it's a friendship, coworker, lover, or what ever else, you have to respect the boundaries set. If their interaction towards you makes you uncomfortable you should be clear on your boundaries. "You have a flirtatiously way of talking to me. Since you have a partner, that kind of attention makes me uncomfortable" They might deflect or makes excuses. They might say their partner knows. They might say many things. But if they are not considerate of your boundaries then they don't respect you. And there is always the right time and place for this kind of talk. A party or right after they flirted with you might not be the right moment.
I've been where you are rn and now I am the person in a (kind of draining, long and not the happiest) relationship... it's been a rollercoaster of feelings for me, like I don't want to suddenly hurt my partner (especially because we already hurt each other in the past), but I also don't want my crush to feel played- I'm serious about him. But thing is, I can't even be sure if he really likes me back lmao. So, I've been giving myself lots of headaches overanalyzing everything and trying to not be unfair to anyone, but also to think about myself and my happiness :/
Yes! Especially because of her voice but the colour's also make me feel more calm. Maybe it's because I like quiet voice's and pastel colour's. Thank you Phych2Go!
@@Psych2go I feel like I should tell you this story that happened to me, though you might not read it. The story: So a few days ago my crush rejected me 😭 I was literally so heartbroken that I didn’t talk to anyone the rest of that day. But two days later, when I entered my school classroom, I sit in my seat. I glance to the person next to me, named Kaito. And I immediately fell in love with him somehow. I never speak to him because I’m always afraid. But the next day, I was struggling with my project that was due soon and he offered to help me with it. I just nodded, STILL afraid to say anything. He sat a bit closer and started helping me. My old crush, named Masato, looked like he was going to murder Kaito 😭- but looks like someones jealous! 😂
Ooh how to say you have a crush on someone is to be like “do you have a crush on someone” (they will likely soon ask you if you do, when they do, say:) “yeah” (if they ask who say :) “somebody you know really well” (they’ll ask who :) “you know them better than anybody” eventually they will either reveal that they r stalking someone OR realise that you like them! (It works... it may be awkward tho)
Of course the most important thing to do around your crush is be yourself. If they don't think your good enough then maybe they aren't the one. But you know your perfect.
What do i do when im friends with my crush cuz like idk if shes joking or flirting and like i dont wanna ruin the friendship by telling her and getting rejected
I’ll never get over how cute the animations are ❤ even if I don’t relate to every video topic discussed I always learn something new so thanks Psych2go!
God Bless you! Always remember that Jesus died for you and took the punishment for our sins on the cross! If you turn away from your evil and trust ONLY in Him, you will be saved from death for your sin and have eternal life and happiness that will never go away, and you will never experience evil or pain or sadness ever again!
The first time I saw my crush, I rushed straight to them and gave em a BIG hug and said “I like you” quietly, I let them be after. I liked em, but they didn’t back, we’re good friends now, and hopefully soon, we could take it to the next level. I had no regrets of making that choice, and I wasn’t even scared confronting them. 😊
@@Psych2go Hi, Im a fan of This channel.Watching and listening while working..I prefer this channel than radio..I hope i can work with you if you need extra animator..Im 11 yrs experienced animator for tv series and feature films..
These videos get recommended to me everytime I have a crush, then when I lose feelings, psych2go disappears off the face of the earth, and now that i have a new crush, they are magically back again. Its like youtube knows my feelings. Scary
Talk about things you love and let your passion come through in that conversation. It doesn't matter what you're into and whether it's considered cool or not, when you let your passion shine through in conversation you become instantly more charismatic and attractive.
I disagree. I'm seen as unattractive whenever I talk about things nobody else is interested in. Chased off a lot of girls talking about Star Wars or Smash Brothers when they didn't care about either series. It's not like I didn't let them talk, either. They just thought I was boring and didn't bother talking to me again. Now if I had a charming face and had a deeper voice, what you're saying could be true. Sadly I have neither.
@@msacharacterdrawings4439 I wouldn't call them jerks for that. If they aren't interested, it is what it is. I'm sure it's a me problem most likely, if *most* women seriously don't care about what I have to say.
I did all of these unintentionally when I first met my boyfriend and continued to. He liked me more and more each time we hung out. So these things do work
It’s just like the garden and the butterfly mentality. Don’t chase after the butterfly because it will always fly away. But instead, build yourself a beautiful garden and improve it every day to attract the most beautiful butterfly. And if it doesn’t work, at least you have a beautiful garden.
I've had many crushes before in the past but they always liked me for my cynical sense of humor right on the spot. It always worked with girls for me. But otherwise they liked me because of how nice of a person I can be towards them as well as support. I had one situationship that ended sour that I had feelings for that I couldn't work out. And I went through emotional pain for a few months to get over two girls I thought were my friends but only used me. I love giving girls as friends compliments so they're appreciated! That's what boosts my self esteem and helped me to talk to girls again. I made a new female friend recently and she started to be there for me and appreciates our friendship.
By that I mean you're doing a great job at making friends that are the opposite gender to you (in your case girl's and in my case boy's) and i've alway's had trouble with that since people around me either made fun of me or we just drifted apart so I think of that as a big accomplishment (sorry I didn't say this sooner because I was in a rush and why this is so long because you might have mixed emotions by not knowing if I actually mean it or said it to make you feel better about yourself I kind of meant both and I should stop sorry)
I really don't know why I clicked on this video right after getting rejected, but it doesn't matter. Someday I'll figure it out. At least I think we can keep being friends. Truth is like a blackbird... let it free, even if it will leave to fly among the clouds.
I can confirm this ive been asking my best friend a lot of questions since the day we met which was a few years ago and each passing year our bond became stronger❤
I think im pretty lucky, for what i've heard, most people get nervous and blush while talking to their crush, while I just blush and get nervous when my friends tease me about it I don't have trouble talking to him so It'll be easy to try these tips Thanks for the video btw!
Just like Abed said in Community "The truth is lots of girls like me because, let's face it, I'm pretty adorable, and, uh, my aloofness unconsciously reminds them of their fathers, so... I'm more used to them approaching me." (That's how I would feel if I was trying to change or have a girlfriend.)
It’s hard to do smalltalk with people because my personality is pretty plane and the only thing I can talk to people about are politics, news and gossip.
It's funny that I keep watching these videos but still get silent when I try to confess my feelings. Like it feels like someone or something took my voice.
The same thing happens to me, I just feel like I can't talk to them about it at all, like I try but no sound comes out, it kinda feels like someone is choking me or something...Do you find yourself not being able to breathe too or is that just a me thing?
@@Psych2go Im still in school, andthat approach may not be as helpful. There is some complexity and they dont like me back, they could tell their friends who would tell their friends and the whole schoo would know the deal.
Here’s a hard truth that most of you will have to accept: The vast majority of crushes are one sided - either you will have a crush on someone or someone will have a crush on you. And unless you’re a physically attractive woman, or a really extroverted guy they won’t ever reciprocate. Took me over 10 years to realise this.
I had a crush on a friend for the longest time. I’ve known her for years. I wouldn’t even call her a crush, I just love her, simple as that. We have an amazing friendship and I hope I get the balls to tell her one of these days. I know it’s corny, but if want to find someone, you have to know them. Wanting to be with someone because on the surface because they are attractive isn’t love, it’s infatuation. This is what I think is the key to a healthy relationship. Of course I’m just a rando on the internet who isn’t in a relationship and you don’t necessarily have to love someone on a deeper level to be in a healthy relationship but I think it’s a good foundation for a truly good relationship. Take my words with a grain of salt, I really don’t know if what I’m saying is stupid as hell lol
me and my crush laugh our brains out. he’s _literally_ the one guy I actually have fun with. UPDATE SINCE YOU PEOPLE ASKING.. I moved, never got to see him again. he’s actually really ugly too, idk what I saw in him. also, I got rejected, but we stayed friends. ..before I moved.
@@Psych2go I know I'm not the original commenter, but I was wondering if you could make more videos about self harm. Like 5 ways to stop helping you from self harming.
I have a crush and I've actually done all of these things with her. With Valentine's day coming up it's making me super nervous to make any more advances though
Ty for this! Me and my crush used to be friends but things got uhm….more bumpy than we expected. I hope this will help me become closer to them again (hopefully)!
Hi. Thanks for this. I've been a big fan of you for a long time, I like psychology, I like Brits, I learn lots of English jokes and humour all the time especially from Tom Scott... I have a little secret crush. I think we're both shy to each other and both care for each other in some way, but we almost never talk to each other in person, and, pretty awkward! Butterflies in the stomach make it so nervous for a talk, you don't know what's gonna happen next, and you overthink ahead. It's been a year already, and all I know is about myself! 😅
I don’t have a crush, but I do this to all my friends, it makes our relationship last longer and I genuinely like to see them smile. They’ll say something about their day or what they’ve accomplished, and sometimes I don’t really know how to reply to that, but I’ll ask questions to just keep them talking! I’m really talkative when it comes to talking about myself, so the tip is always to let the person speak first before you do
Watching your videos are just like a daily habit for me now Really love your voice and way of speaking, feels so calm and so satisfying to just listen to them.
Timestamps 1). Crack a joke 0:24 2). Remember to say thank you 1:16 3). Share a little secret 1:50 4). Give them compliments 2:33 5). Ask them questions 3:19 Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice. 💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙
My crush has been the most kind person ever! ❤I am trusting you and I think I might tell him my feelings. Thank you for the video! ❤My biggest fear is that he rejects me tho.. so it might take so time! But, these suggestions has boosted my mood here. Thanks so much!! :D
I only talked to her once so far, but it was the best day I've had in a while. I made a few jokes snd she laughed, but no one got anyone's number, and when we passed by each other in school, it's kinda awkward so we don't say anything to me. I think she's the same as me, in the fact that I'm not that good with the opposite gender
Yep like I had a crush on someone 4 years ago but so much time has passed now my crush on them is basically non existent. And I like ask myself- why did I even like them exactly?
There was a girl "She's my crush" That time I had a dream come true. we never spoke or knew each other. Inside my dream:At that dream I was talking to her. When I was at school I forget to take my phone then she came up and give the phone to me. So that was the first conversation we had
What do I do in this situation. I’m in school and have a crush. I sit right next to them in a class but I’m WAY to scared to say anything. (I’m a guy)Everyday I just try saying hi when I see them but I get to nervous thinking that she will think of me as weird and annoying. What should I do and how do I overcome that feeling.
And a word of wisdom: if they ain't interested in being your friend at the very least, they definitely ain't interested in being your girlfriend. Happy flirting everyone ☺️
Could someone advise me what to do? My crush has been my girl best friend since 5 years, I don't know if she just wants to be my friend or something more, I don't know what to do and how to take this forward. We short talk almost everyday but these days it keeps on getting awkward because I don't know what to do, pls help
@@Messi-uu3oxDoes she talk about liking other people or anything? If she does certain things like that you may just be a "best friend" if not you should just take the leap and tell her your feelings in a causal way.
Thanks a bunch! I have been stuck in the “best friend, try again” loop for 4 years. I’m going to try some of these tips. Like this video y’all so more people can see this!
2:33 Ladies, we should keep this in mind. Apparently guys get a shockingly low amount of compliments. So let's try to compliment them on little things :)
As a young boy in middle school I still get a LOT and I mean a LOT of compliments from this girl who has a crush on me. Also my best friend tries to hide her flirts. What should I tell her?
@Am_._ yea I get very little compliments I'm in 9th now I get very less compliments from my parents and others.im an introvert and I am a top scorer in my school. I don't respect myself and I'm very introverted.maye that's why
hi Psych2Go, i have a crush on someone, and after watching your videos about crushes, i found that this person shows signs of both possibilities: that they like me, or that they don’t feel the same way. i am confused af because i don’t understand what their actions mean. one minute they’re flirting with me, getting close with me, showing psychological signs that they’re into me. but at the same time, they ignore my texts, i’m the one who always start a convo or plan to do things with them, and it’s really one-sided. in your opinion, how should i handle this situation? 😔
I swear almost every girl I've met in a while has asked just random mundane questions, and this truly gives me an answer. There's a low chance any of them liked me, but hey, makes me feel better.
Confidence is hard to build up Discipline yourself Work on your body and mind This will build confidence and focus Practice by talking to a lot of people The only way to truly build confidence is to throw yourself in the water
Great video. I'll definitely try using creative jokes to get my feelings across. Being 100% direct never helped me because I am either too nervous or my proposal is too boring. Jokes definitely lighten the mood, even the slightly-cringy ones. I'm probably going to let the women do the approaching, though. I've always had a bad eye when it comes to this. Normally I like women who want nothing to do with me, so I get embarrassed or disappointed. It's hard for me to convince myself to approach any girl after repeatedly looking like a fool trying.
I only talked to mine because I was too nervous to get up and draw an image that reflects a word as a end of term game, she offered to go instead since I was just sitting there frozen in place like wth is happening.
I already know that my crush has a crush on me. I mean, he told a BUNCH of people already. But im afraid he is losing feelings for me. So this really helped!
If the thought is in the back of your head that you will say something wrong, say something crazyly confident and roll with it. If it works, great for u! If it does not, try a joke, or a compliment next time. The trick to being confident to your crush is put aside all the negeitivity and be optimistic. Dont know if this helps, but i hope it does! My over confidence boosted me to the max, but consider other than just looks when coming to a crush. Hope this helps!
@@historymacrh I believe that it's not about luck. You should know more about that person, talk to them, make them feel valid, make them feel like they're really special, because later on they will appreciate your kindness and love. That's the point where you and that person love starts. Hope it helps, and also follow those tip up😉
When I'm stressed sometimes I put on a Psyc2go video related to why I'm stressed. Idk who is the narrator in these videos but her voice is so calming. I feel relaxed when I'm watching psyc2go
Imma just share my story- So I met this new guy at school and I didn't think much of it until I- I began liking him. oh well- and I think he likes me too. Comparing how he treats others and me is a real difference. To others, he would keep a distance or try and block them from getting close. But for me, he would try getting closer and subtly touch me while trying to make me laugh. For others, he would talk to them sometimes, but for me he won't stop talking- Honestly, I can't tell if thats just his way of showing that he likes me or he doesn't like talking to those people. And, I made a gift for his late birthday but he keeps denying my gift while I think- blushing- Anyways, tomorrow I'll sneak the gift into his bag with my bestie. Oh yeah, his name is Harmon and uh if you're reading this Harmon, JUST TAKE MY GIFT- Yall please give likes my finger is sore-
What do you do when you have a crush on someone? Do you talk to them or wait for them to approach you?
Wait for them to approach me!
It’s almost always better to approach them and build a sort of friendship to see if they like you back or not
I've been approaching them the past few days I think their getting the hint
I have a Crush on someone about 4-5 years, she’s still talking with me, she enjoys but i don’t think i look like something
If my face was better i’m pretty sure we we’re couples with her
Would love to see if they will approach you back!
here's the timestamps for those in a hurry:
0:24, crack a joke
1:16, remember to say thank you
1:50, share a little secret
2:33, give them compliments
3:19, ask them questions
great video btw! your videos help us a lot in many different areas, keep it up! ❤️
Thank you for your timestamps!
Thank you :)
Thanks!
These are very helpful
Thank you!
You’re the best! Thank you 😊
You see your crush coming.
You are scared.
I MAKE MYSELF LOOK BIG.
You raise your arms above your head and assume a more threatening posture.
You successfully scare away your crush, in a display of dominance.
WAIT NO I DIDN'T MEAN TO DO THAT.
Too bad, you succeeded.
Isn't that what you do when you see a bear!
@@Psych2go Maybe you have a crush on a bear. I'm not judging. Okay, maybe I'm judging.
@@Psych2go it was probably the Charmin mom bear
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I think the best way to get your crush attracted to you is to be yourself. Doesn't matter if your childish or mature, just be yourself!
your right
Usually myself doesn’t do much…
Although I found a girl who I really really like because she sees me for who I am and I’m afraid to ruin our friendship:(
@@jake_24.if u ask her out make sure that she’s fine with it even if she doesn’t like u back by telling her something like « i want to tell u something but promise me we will still be friends after it » or if u didn’t say that ask her if u can still be friends
@@christiancollongues5248 I don’t think I’m gonna ask her out for now but I got her number today :)
I didn’t have it because we recently met and I was scared to ask
I have a question. How do males and females bond with each other? I don't see how men and women can bond (especially romantically) with each other. Men and women think very differently from each other.
Women can build incredible friendships and become very close to each other in a way men can't bond, and science shows that women can bond very well with each other. Generally, women are even more social than men are. After something bad happens, a woman quickly rushes to talk to all of her female friends to get support, whereas a man can isolate himself and grief alone.
Women tend to be more emotionally intelligent, more caring, more empathic, more compassionate, more affectionate, more loyal, more nurturing, more understanding, more sympathetic, more sensitive, more kind-hearted, more peaceful, more calmer, more gentle, more expressive, more intuitive, and more outward than men are, and thus bond more with other women in a special way that they can’t with men. Men, on the other hand, are not that emotional, and thus can’t bond with other men in a special way.
Women are more comfortable being around with other women than they are with men. They have a type of bond that usually men with women won’t really have, or with men and men. Also, girls that are friends touch each other in ways that guys just don’t.
Quick bonus one:
When they seem to have some sort of issue or look uncomfortable (not around you).
Always ask in the most romantic tone you can possibly gather:
"Are you ok?", that shows that you care about them, and you are there if they are feeling down.
If they say yeah, or don't worry about it. Respond with:
"Are you sure?" With a bit more concern, if they open up, then yeah, listen.
If they don't reassure them just one more time.
"Are you absolutely sure you're ok? I don't like people, especially ones I know very well, to be sad."
This will show that they are not just "That person you see every day" or "That person that you sit next to in Math class"
They are something more, they mean something to you.
i'ma use this thankyou
When you ask everything about them and their interests and they never ask you anything back 😭💀💀💀
I mean
The start up conversation is about you pitching yourself to them and why they should be w/ you
Leading it to a future meet
The instigator is meant to do most of the talking
However, if she asked you nothing about yourself
That's not a good sign my friend
Just don't act desperate and chase her, that will completely kill any chances
It hurts I feel you 🥺
SAME HERE HOW CAN I SAY HIM MY INTERESTS-
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That has happen to me😢
0:00 intro
0:24 1、crack a joke
1:15 2、remember to say thank you
1:50 3、share a little secret
2:32 4、give them compliments
3:19 5、ask them questions
3:53 outro
This channel has been SUPER helpful to my problems. Keep up the good work!
thank you so much
Like all i need is 30 second explanations
Video idea: how to tell if someone is crushing on you or not while they are already in a relationship bc it’s _definitely_ a thing
I'm currently living this right now. And that fact that all of our communication is online atm doesn't help the matter.
@@LosiDriver7223damn I’m sorry, I can’t even imagine that suspense bc I’m going through it in person. I feel a bit played and like I wish he’d be straight up. He has a gf but he keeps flirting with me and being super physically affectionate and has even said some suspicious things
yknow i kinda feel the same. She was my childhood friend whom I haven’t seen since I was 9 and we just started chatting online last october. Although she told me that she already has a crush, i still developed feelings for her. i might consider it normal cuz i am still on my early teens and stuff happens
Although I must say that I’ve only fully accepted my attraction towards her weeks after; it strengthened when we met irl just before December.
And then we talked less, and much less until I felt lonely. She was just really busy at school but I kept overthinking that it was my fault. what’s more is that we mainly communicate online because we live in different cities
And them I was told that she was bi and she likes her best friend (whom i don’t know). My chest grew heavier and heavier and I knew i had to vent/release all my feelings and thoughts one day; i overthink frequently too then.
A few days ago in a group chat, she finally knew about my feelings and (as expected since last year) she said no and ends up leaving the gc; she was also quite busy that weekend. I blamed myself again that I might’ve upset her.
edit: i feel better now, though i am currently giving her some space
@@creativeflame_ They might actually just have a crush on you. This however doesn't mean that they don't love their partner. Their partner might even be informed about it. Or even enabling it.
They as a couple might have clear boundaries on what is ok and not. And the person that is hitting on you might not be unfaithful at all.
Or they can be a cheating bastard.
Or you might read more into it than reality.
There are many possibilities.
But one thing is for certain.
In a relationship, if it's a friendship, coworker, lover, or what ever else, you have to respect the boundaries set. If their interaction towards you makes you uncomfortable you should be clear on your boundaries.
"You have a flirtatiously way of talking to me. Since you have a partner, that kind of attention makes me uncomfortable"
They might deflect or makes excuses. They might say their partner knows. They might say many things.
But if they are not considerate of your boundaries then they don't respect you.
And there is always the right time and place for this kind of talk. A party or right after they flirted with you might not be the right moment.
I've been where you are rn and now I am the person in a (kind of draining, long and not the happiest) relationship... it's been a rollercoaster of feelings for me, like I don't want to suddenly hurt my partner (especially because we already hurt each other in the past), but I also don't want my crush to feel played- I'm serious about him. But thing is, I can't even be sure if he really likes me back lmao. So, I've been giving myself lots of headaches overanalyzing everything and trying to not be unfair to anyone, but also to think about myself and my happiness :/
ive only seen my crush for a day and im already watching thousands of videos like this 😭
It do be like that, good luck
Real
same💀
update pls 😋
Same here@@talkto.myself
There's absolutely NOTHING wrong with feeling nervous. 🙋 Sometimes we care too much or we're overthinking etc.
Next time will be easier. 🙏
I love this.. late-night cafe vibe your videos have.
They're really.. comfy? Hugging? Y'know, the feeling when you're very comfy and warmed.
Glad you like them!
Yes! Especially because of her voice but the colour's also make me feel more calm. Maybe it's because I like quiet voice's and pastel colour's. Thank you Phych2Go!
Yess ❤ they always post the best informative videos 😊
@@Psych2go I feel like I should tell you this story that happened to me, though you might not read it. The story: So a few days ago my crush rejected me 😭 I was literally so heartbroken that I didn’t talk to anyone the rest of that day. But two days later, when I entered my school classroom, I sit in my seat. I glance to the person next to me, named Kaito. And I immediately fell in love with him somehow. I never speak to him because I’m always afraid. But the next day, I was struggling with my project that was due soon and he offered to help me with it. I just nodded, STILL afraid to say anything. He sat a bit closer and started helping me. My old crush, named Masato, looked like he was going to murder Kaito 😭- but looks like someones jealous! 😂
No wonder I'm single😢 I treat everyone like that 😅
Unlike most, i feared rejection and i was too late to confess and my crush has a bf now. Devastating... Good video and i adore the artstyle!
10 likes and I will ask her out
one more
There ya go buddy, im your 10th like, good luck man, let me know what me liking your comment pyts you through, we need an update.
Bet lemme text her
@@MrBlaze8xyz lemme know how it goes
Bro
Ooh how to say you have a crush on someone is to be like “do you have a crush on someone” (they will likely soon ask you if you do, when they do, say:) “yeah” (if they ask who say :) “somebody you know really well” (they’ll ask who :) “you know them better than anybody” eventually they will either reveal that they r stalking someone OR realise that you like them! (It works... it may be awkward tho)
i don't even have a crush but i love watching these videos lolol
It could be useful for you when you have a crush!
@@Psych2go hehe truee!
Samee
Same
Same
Of course the most important thing to do around your crush is be yourself. If they don't think your good enough then maybe they aren't the one. But you know your perfect.
What do i do when im friends with my crush cuz like idk if shes joking or flirting and like i dont wanna ruin the friendship by telling her and getting rejected
@@Impo8816 Try ur chance bro psychology says if u crush on someone and tell it he/she %81 loves back u
Not me, psychology
I’ll never get over how cute the animations are ❤ even if I don’t relate to every video topic discussed I always learn something new so thanks Psych2go!
God Bless you! Always remember that Jesus died for you and took the punishment for our sins on the cross! If you turn away from your evil and trust ONLY in Him, you will be saved from death for your sin and have eternal life and happiness that will never go away, and you will never experience evil or pain or sadness ever again!
@Isakay Yik ?
No, sorry. I'll remain in Buddhism.
Or no religion at all for that matter.
Me too
The first time I saw my crush, I rushed straight to them and gave em a BIG hug and said “I like you” quietly, I let them be after. I liked em, but they didn’t back, we’re good friends now, and hopefully soon, we could take it to the next level.
I had no regrets of making that choice, and I wasn’t even scared confronting them. 😊
And to think I see almost everyone struggling to say their feelings. 😢
It’s okay, when you’re ready, go for it. 😊
1. Make a joke
2. Say thank you
3. Share a secret
4. Compliment them
5. Ask Questions
you always cheer my up. if im sad, happy, or have butterflies from a cute dude. my day always becomes 10 times better❤️❤️❤️
Thank you for your sweet message!
@@Psych2go Hi, Im a fan of This channel.Watching and listening while working..I prefer this channel than radio..I hope i can work with you if you need extra animator..Im 11 yrs experienced animator for tv series and feature films..
These videos get recommended to me everytime I have a crush, then when I lose feelings, psych2go disappears off the face of the earth, and now that i have a new crush, they are magically back again. Its like youtube knows my feelings. Scary
Thank you. This helps all of us who struggle socially and just nice to watch
Talk about things you love and let your passion come through in that conversation. It doesn't matter what you're into and whether it's considered cool or not, when you let your passion shine through in conversation you become instantly more charismatic and attractive.
I disagree. I'm seen as unattractive whenever I talk about things nobody else is interested in. Chased off a lot of girls talking about Star Wars or Smash Brothers when they didn't care about either series. It's not like I didn't let them talk, either. They just thought I was boring and didn't bother talking to me again.
Now if I had a charming face and had a deeper voice, what you're saying could be true. Sadly I have neither.
@@DeRez19 don’t worry. If they don’t see how special you are, then they’re jerks. Don’t let them make you downhearted
@@msacharacterdrawings4439 I wouldn't call them jerks for that. If they aren't interested, it is what it is. I'm sure it's a me problem most likely, if *most* women seriously don't care about what I have to say.
@@DeRez19 yeah, sorry, I didn’t mean it like that
@@msacharacterdrawings4439 It's all good 👍
I did all of these unintentionally when I first met my boyfriend and continued to. He liked me more and more each time we hung out. So these things do work
It’s just like the garden and the butterfly mentality. Don’t chase after the butterfly because it will always fly away. But instead, build yourself a beautiful garden and improve it every day to attract the most beautiful butterfly. And if it doesn’t work, at least you have a beautiful garden.
I've had many crushes before in the past but they always liked me for my cynical sense of humor right on the spot. It always worked with girls for me. But otherwise they liked me because of how nice of a person I can be towards them as well as support. I had one situationship that ended sour that I had feelings for that I couldn't work out. And I went through emotional pain for a few months to get over two girls I thought were my friends but only used me. I love giving girls as friends compliments so they're appreciated! That's what boosts my self esteem and helped me to talk to girls again. I made a new female friend recently and she started to be there for me and appreciates our friendship.
Youre doing a great job
By that I mean you're doing a great job at making friends that are the opposite gender to you (in your case girl's and in my case boy's) and i've alway's had trouble with that since people around me either made fun of me or we just drifted apart so I think of that as a big accomplishment (sorry I didn't say this sooner because I was in a rush and why this is so long because you might have mixed emotions by not knowing if I actually mean it or said it to make you feel better about yourself I kind of meant both and I should stop sorry)
The little piano in the back really eased this video and made it feel so casual and natural- lovely!!
I really don't know why I clicked on this video right after getting rejected, but it doesn't matter. Someday I'll figure it out. At least I think we can keep being friends. Truth is like a blackbird... let it free, even if it will leave to fly among the clouds.
I’ve watched several of these crush-themed videos & this is actually the most helpful! Thanks!💖🥰
I can confirm this ive been asking my best friend a lot of questions since the day we met which was a few years ago and each passing year our bond became stronger❤
I think im pretty lucky, for what i've heard, most people get nervous and blush while talking to their crush, while I just blush and get nervous when my friends tease me about it
I don't have trouble talking to him so It'll be easy to try these tips
Thanks for the video btw!
I've never had a crush before so I'll save this for later!
That sounds good! Maybe someone has a crush on you?
Just like Abed said in Community "The truth is lots of girls like me because, let's face it, I'm pretty adorable, and, uh, my aloofness unconsciously reminds them of their fathers, so... I'm more used to them approaching me." (That's how I would feel if I was trying to change or have a girlfriend.)
It’s hard to do smalltalk with people because my personality is pretty plane and the only thing I can talk to people about are politics, news and gossip.
These are all great ideas, besides the fact that my brain stops working when I’m around them and can’t remember anything u told me
It's funny that I keep watching these videos but still get silent when I try to confess my feelings.
Like it feels like someone or something took my voice.
I'm sure that isn't the case! Have you tried the old fashion way? Just be direct and tell them you like them?
@@Psych2go I am trying, it's just that I suddenly am not able to talk or something like that.
The same thing happens to me, I just feel like I can't talk to them about it at all, like I try but no sound comes out, it kinda feels like someone is choking me or something...Do you find yourself not being able to breathe too or is that just a me thing?
@@apersonorsomething8705 yes! Exactly like this!
@@Psych2go Im still in school, andthat approach may not be as helpful. There is some complexity and they dont like me back, they could tell their friends who would tell their friends and the whole schoo would know the deal.
Here’s a hard truth that most of you will have to accept:
The vast majority of crushes are one sided - either you will have a crush on someone or someone will have a crush on you. And unless you’re a physically attractive woman, or a really extroverted guy they won’t ever reciprocate. Took me over 10 years to realise this.
Well shit
im screwed
Yea..no 😭
I had a crush on a friend for the longest time. I’ve known her for years. I wouldn’t even call her a crush, I just love her, simple as that. We have an amazing friendship and I hope I get the balls to tell her one of these days.
I know it’s corny, but if want to find someone, you have to know them. Wanting to be with someone because on the surface because they are attractive isn’t love, it’s infatuation. This is what I think is the key to a healthy relationship. Of course I’m just a rando on the internet who isn’t in a relationship and you don’t necessarily have to love someone on a deeper level to be in a healthy relationship but I think it’s a good foundation for a truly good relationship. Take my words with a grain of salt, I really don’t know if what I’m saying is stupid as hell lol
Well my crushes cousin goes to the same school and is in the same year and they said hiiiii so I always have a backup
me and my crush laugh our brains out. he’s _literally_ the one guy I actually have fun with.
UPDATE SINCE YOU PEOPLE ASKING..
I moved, never got to see him again. he’s actually really ugly too, idk what I saw in him. also, I got rejected, but we stayed friends. ..before I moved.
Remember.
Honestly same bro
Same, same tho
it's been 8 months can we get an update-- did you do anything abt the crush
Yes bro give an update
I confessed once to my crush, now we're the bestest of friends.
When giving compliments make sure to do it on something you know they care about, nails, hair, clothes... Etc!
I've done this with a few of my crushes, only to later find out that they're already in relationships. There's always another one, though!
Y'all are literally my advice for everything lol
What other advice would you like to hear from us?
Amazing pfp
@@Psych2go I know I'm not the original commenter, but I was wondering if you could make more videos about self harm. Like 5 ways to stop helping you from self harming.
@@Psych2go hello I also know I'm not the original commenter but could you possibly give advice on what to do if your crush is dating someone?
ikr same 😅
THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR THIS
Of course! What did you learn from this video?
THE ART SYLE OMG
What about if he has another crush, he knows that you like him, and he says that he wants to date later. 💀😭😳
I have a crush and I've actually done all of these things with her. With Valentine's day coming up it's making me super nervous to make any more advances though
Ty for this! Me and my crush used to be friends but things got uhm….more bumpy than we expected. I hope this will help me become closer to them again (hopefully)!
Hi. Thanks for this. I've been a big fan of you for a long time, I like psychology, I like Brits, I learn lots of English jokes and humour all the time especially from Tom Scott... I have a little secret crush. I think we're both shy to each other and both care for each other in some way, but we almost never talk to each other in person, and, pretty awkward!
Butterflies in the stomach make it so nervous for a talk, you don't know what's gonna happen next, and you overthink ahead. It's been a year already, and all I know is about myself! 😅
From being friend to become my crush and then my love that's my story of unconditional love for him.
I don’t have a crush, but I do this to all my friends, it makes our relationship last longer and I genuinely like to see them smile. They’ll say something about their day or what they’ve accomplished, and sometimes I don’t really know how to reply to that, but I’ll ask questions to just keep them talking!
I’m really talkative when it comes to talking about myself, so the tip is always to let the person speak first before you do
Blah blah blah blah blah
@@MexicanCrusaderok geez 💀
My only problem is that all five of these things I do to everyone, especially asking questions, I'm the curious type
Watching your videos are just like a daily habit for me now
Really love your voice and way of speaking, feels so calm and so satisfying to just listen to them.
Timestamps
1). Crack a joke 0:24
2). Remember to say thank you 1:16
3). Share a little secret 1:50
4). Give them compliments 2:33
5). Ask them questions 3:19
Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice. 💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙
My crush has been the most kind person ever! ❤I am trusting you and I think I might tell him my feelings. Thank you for the video! ❤My biggest fear is that he rejects me tho.. so it might take so time! But, these suggestions has boosted my mood here. Thanks so much!! :D
Best psych2go voice actor for sure
I only talked to her once so far, but it was the best day I've had in a while. I made a few jokes snd she laughed, but no one got anyone's number, and when we passed by each other in school, it's kinda awkward so we don't say anything to me. I think she's the same as me, in the fact that I'm not that good with the opposite gender
This channel has really helped the past few weeks. Been going through some confusing times.
Samw
imagine someone like me watching a video that gives me advice on what to say YET haven't talked to their current crush in 4-5 years💀💀
Yep like I had a crush on someone 4 years ago but so much time has passed now my crush on them is basically non existent. And I like ask myself- why did I even like them exactly?
There was a girl "She's my crush"
That time I had a dream come true.
we never spoke or knew each other.
Inside my dream:At that dream I was talking to her. When I was at school
I forget to take my phone then she came up and give the phone to me.
So that was the first conversation we had
me being really good friends with my crush:
Those 5 things may but nothing works as well as the ultimate technique
"Will you go out with me"
That is true! Does it work for you when you are direct with your approach?
This is like if you roll anything below a nat 20 it’s a fail
What do I do in this situation. I’m in school and have a crush. I sit right next to them in a class but I’m WAY to scared to say anything. (I’m a guy)Everyday I just try saying hi when I see them but I get to nervous thinking that she will think of me as weird and annoying. What should I do and how do I overcome that feeling.
Don't be afraid said hi and good morning to her or you can ask some questions related to note or lecture
And a word of wisdom: if they ain't interested in being your friend at the very least, they definitely ain't interested in being your girlfriend. Happy flirting everyone ☺️
Could someone advise me what to do?
My crush has been my girl best friend since 5 years, I don't know if she just wants to be my friend or something more, I don't know what to do and how to take this forward. We short talk almost everyday but these days it keeps on getting awkward because I don't know what to do, pls help
@@Messi-uu3oxDoes she talk about liking other people or anything? If she does certain things like that you may just be a "best friend" if not you should just take the leap and tell her your feelings in a causal way.
Thanks a bunch! I have been stuck in the “best friend, try again” loop for 4 years. I’m going to try some of these tips. Like this video y’all so more people can see this!
How often should you ask them questions? I don’t want to be a bother…
2:33 Ladies, we should keep this in mind. Apparently guys get a shockingly low amount of compliments. So let's try to compliment them on little things :)
As a young boy in middle school I still get a LOT and I mean a LOT of compliments from this girl who has a crush on me. Also my best friend tries to hide her flirts. What should I tell her?
@Am_._ yea I get very little compliments I'm in 9th now I get very less compliments from my parents and others.im an introvert and I am a top scorer in my school. I don't respect myself and I'm very introverted.maye that's why
hi Psych2Go, i have a crush on someone, and after watching your videos about crushes, i found that this person shows signs of both possibilities: that they like me, or that they don’t feel the same way. i am confused af because i don’t understand what their actions mean. one minute they’re flirting with me, getting close with me, showing psychological signs that they’re into me. but at the same time, they ignore my texts, i’m the one who always start a convo or plan to do things with them, and it’s really one-sided. in your opinion, how should i handle this situation? 😔
Be direct
0:28 me thinking he was abt to say “WHEN DEEZ NUTS ON YOUR FACE”😂😂😂
I just want to know, if you talk about another person with your crush and try to get them jealous what will that do to your bond?
I swear almost every girl I've met in a while has asked just random mundane questions, and this truly gives me an answer. There's a low chance any of them liked me, but hey, makes me feel better.
When you already do all of these things because you are a close friend with your crush.😏
“It’s also a simple way to tell someone, I appreciate you”
My crush who straight up says “I appreciate you” to me:
bruh that’s what the kitchen manager says to the volunteers where i work 😂😂😂
I probably don't have the confidence to do these but they are still helpful!
Confidence takes time to build up! I believe in you that you'll be able to overcome all this
@@Psych2go that means a lot! I have a lot of social anxiety
Confidence is hard to build up
Discipline yourself
Work on your body and mind
This will build confidence and focus
Practice by talking to a lot of people
The only way to truly build confidence is to throw yourself in the water
Same i deal you
I talked to my crush for like 10 seconds right before the bel rang, and like 5 minutes later I was still shaking at lunch. She's such an angel 😅
ppl watching this your not alone, there are 1.1m other ppl that watched this and we're all rooting for ourselves and each other! we got this!
Great video. I'll definitely try using creative jokes to get my feelings across. Being 100% direct never helped me because I am either too nervous or my proposal is too boring. Jokes definitely lighten the mood, even the slightly-cringy ones.
I'm probably going to let the women do the approaching, though. I've always had a bad eye when it comes to this. Normally I like women who want nothing to do with me, so I get embarrassed or disappointed. It's hard for me to convince myself to approach any girl after repeatedly looking like a fool trying.
Me right here who never talked to my crush 👁👄👁
Exactly! Why it's gotta be so difficult!!!!
It's a sign 😉💖
I only talked to mine because I was too nervous to get up and draw an image that reflects a word as a end of term game, she offered to go instead since I was just sitting there frozen in place like wth is happening.
My crush asked me if I’m a lesbian, and I told him I’m bisexual …he’s so shocked😂
The joke put me into crisis mode 😵💫
For Christmas, ima ask Santa for a sunflower-psi plush
Ask and you shall receive.
Me after working so hard to make sure my crush thinks I don’t like her 😭🙏
Why? :o
@@natanielmaciejewski5645 I was scared of rejection
me too 😅
How do I undo months of hiding my feelings?!
Why did I do this?! 😫
People don’t normally find my dark humor attractive…
It's dark humour what do you expect 💀
I mean😬
I think dark Humor is just better😂
Same too@@Gewehier
Well some people like me, do.
The timing of this was on point :D
Glad to hear! Are you planning to confess to your crush?
@@Psych2go I am ! I hope it turns out well :)
I already know that my crush has a crush on me. I mean, he told a BUNCH of people already. But im afraid he is losing feelings for me. So this really helped!
So what is now finally
If the thought is in the back of your head that you will say something wrong, say something crazyly confident and roll with it. If it works, great for u! If it does not, try a joke, or a compliment next time. The trick to being confident to your crush is put aside all the negeitivity and be optimistic. Dont know if this helps, but i hope it does! My over confidence boosted me to the max, but consider other than just looks when coming to a crush. Hope this helps!
I didn't know that those tips you're explaining are my normal things!😮 Now I know why my crush liked me back!😁
amazing! how's the relationship going?
@@Psych2go It's going well, and we're still counting!
You're lucky
@@historymacrh I believe that it's not about luck. You should know more about that person, talk to them, make them feel valid, make them feel like they're really special, because later on they will appreciate your kindness and love. That's the point where you and that person love starts. Hope it helps, and also follow those tip up😉
@@shimmyeahhh5584 noo thats not quite what i mean i tried everything compliment telling her direct being there for her yet she doesn't like me
Currently trying to figure out if my friend is in love with me
Did any of these signs help answer your question?
Dang.
0:29 Is it bad that I thought of a deez nuts joke?
Yes and no ... I guess
No bc I did to
No cuz I did too😭
Y E S
When I'm stressed sometimes I put on a Psyc2go video related to why I'm stressed. Idk who is the narrator in these videos but her voice is so calming. I feel relaxed when I'm watching psyc2go
I want my crush to like me back so badly but I'm scared, I never talk to them like ever. I'm not sure if this will work but thank you for the advice.
Is it just me that never gets awkward while talking or hanging around there crush?
The Wendy joke didn't go well in my head 💀
fr, for a sec I actually thought they were going to say wendeez nuts… Id have died laughing.
Meanwhile imagine someone having a bad humor and is already being ignored by their crush 😂😂
Imma just share my story-
So I met this new guy at school and I didn't think much of it until I- I began liking him. oh well- and I think he likes me too. Comparing how he treats others and me is a real difference. To others, he would keep a distance or try and block them from getting close. But for me, he would try getting closer and subtly touch me while trying to make me laugh. For others, he would talk to them sometimes, but for me he won't stop talking- Honestly, I can't tell if thats just his way of showing that he likes me or he doesn't like talking to those people. And, I made a gift for his late birthday but he keeps denying my gift while I think- blushing- Anyways, tomorrow I'll sneak the gift into his bag with my bestie. Oh yeah, his name is Harmon and uh if you're reading this Harmon, JUST TAKE MY GIFT-
Yall please give likes my finger is sore-
What if you have a crush on someone you’ve never talked to…
Middle schoolers watching this:😊
1:50 they want to kill me
I have a dark side that is violent and chaotic
I thought it said compliment autistic skills 😭 3:12
Why does this have no reply’s this is funny as shit
@@ESTER11123 hehe 😔
Don't give me that.
Don't give me hope.
Your videos relates me instead of her :(
I don't have a crush...
But still watching coz I want to learn psychology.