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  • @BetterLoveMovement
    @BetterLoveMovement 8 месяцев назад +332

    Your telling them right! Women have ALL THE POWER when it comes to sex but refuse to wield it!🙄 Ladies, set your standards and keep them set, period! If he won’t wait, send him packing. Quality feminine women should only have two options in life. First option, happily single with an amazing life. Second option, a healthy masculine man of God! That is all! When you start dabbling with everything in between is when you get into trouble.😑 STOP worrying about the men. Refuse to deal with men who won’t grow up or who won’t meet your standards. It’s really that simple.💯

  • @nikkiamiller5823
    @nikkiamiller5823 8 месяцев назад +95

    Fornication is unacceptable when it comes to kingdom marriages.

    • @antrianewsome2463
      @antrianewsome2463 7 месяцев назад +3

      Periodt! Temperance is a fruit of the Spirit.

  • @sylviasworld9397
    @sylviasworld9397 8 месяцев назад +16

    Sex outside of marraige is a gateway for demons ..... Simple.
    Even if the person is your fiance and the wedding is in 2 days time.
    God blesses the marriage bed , not the boyfriend-girlfriend bed, not the "shacking - up" bed and not the fiance bed. The MARRIAGE BED.
    He has to bless it, because sex is a spiritual gateway, which is why occultic rituals often involve sex of some kind because it is one of the main ways demons enter the body and how they enter lives.
    There is a spiritual exchange.
    Demons need a body to do what they do.
    Do people ever think about the spiritual side of what they are inviting and engaging in when they have sex outside of marriage ?
    It's not just physical and emotional. Even if a person is a virgin until marraige but their fiance isn't, there needs to be deliverance of the person who is or was having sex, from the spirits they may have "acquired" through sex and now have legal right in them.
    They'll just exchange them to their new husband or wife if those demons are not shown the door completely befire the wedding.

    • @sanaimcclain
      @sanaimcclain 8 месяцев назад

      Perfectly said

    • @xiomaras.9260
      @xiomaras.9260 7 месяцев назад

      Thank you for writing this 🙏🏽.

  • @victoriouslee
    @victoriouslee 8 месяцев назад +47

    A woman should come to the relationship with her standards and boundaries and the man as well. Through conversation you will discover if you are aligned or not. I am waiting until marriage. If the man says he will not I will respect his decision and wish him well on his journey and not allow his decision to second guess my decision. Personal responsibility.

  • @KEIHFR
    @KEIHFR 8 месяцев назад +89

    I literally just had a guy try some of the same stuff just like this with me last week. He even had the audacity to send a snipit of Kevin Samuel to telling a lady she shouldn't be abstinent since she has has 2 children. I sent him a bunch of scriptures and told him that he wasn't the man for me. I've been abstinent for years and you weren't the first one to try those tactics.

    • @KEIHFR
      @KEIHFR 8 месяцев назад +8

      ​@@Educatedlame
      It's that I can't keep someone, he clearly wasn't my husband. Point blank period

    • @phizzy123
      @phizzy123 8 месяцев назад +8

      @@Educatedlameyou have made 64 comments and counting on this channel to troll. i pray you get something exciting to do in your life soon so that this stops. may God bless you.

    • @soulsistar2844
      @soulsistar2844 8 месяцев назад +1

      ​@@phizzy123❤😊

    • @KurosakiLuvar01
      @KurosakiLuvar01 8 месяцев назад +6

      That was a whole predator. What in tf??

    • @NinaR478
      @NinaR478 7 месяцев назад

      That’s crazy he even tried it. If a man cannot respect your faith ISSA NO.

  • @mostdefmodest
    @mostdefmodest 8 месяцев назад +258

    I'm currently in a relationship with a man that is 5 yrs older than me and he is supporting me in abstaining from sex...I'm very amazed & thankful for him. I admire him for being supportive & patient.

    • @trueheart8739
      @trueheart8739 8 месяцев назад +19

      That’s wonderful!! Praying for more like him 🙏🏾

    • @JermaineThomas4050
      @JermaineThomas4050 8 месяцев назад +6

      💯

    • @tonyasherrod9042
      @tonyasherrod9042 8 месяцев назад +21

      I've been dating a man who is 9 years older than me. But I was very clear that I was abstaining and if he wasn't down. He needs to move out of the way of my husband. He has stuck it out with me, and I appreciate him respecting my wishes. Tony, yet again on point blank periodod

    • @tonyasherrod9042
      @tonyasherrod9042 8 месяцев назад +11

      Tony, I see why your wife wouldn't want to take on this job. To God be the glory

    • @JermaineThomas4050
      @JermaineThomas4050 8 месяцев назад

      @@tonyasherrod9042 "point blank period" 👕. - TG

  • @mrs.dawnbroylesiii4904
    @mrs.dawnbroylesiii4904 8 месяцев назад +74

    This man is speaking facts, keeping it 100 and speaking the truth. I'll be celebrating my 9th wedding anniversary Feb 14th.

  • @sylviasworld9397
    @sylviasworld9397 8 месяцев назад +16

    Let God's standard around sex be your personal standard.
    God knows EXACTLY why it is so.
    Let no person convince you otherwise.

  • @nanx7062
    @nanx7062 8 месяцев назад +26

    I met a guy and we clicked. We both talked and shared we were both ready to date seriously to find a life partner. Things were going well then I made the mistake of letting my feelings get ahead of me and one thing led to another and we got sexually involved too soon. I know waiting is best and that was my intention but I had a moment of weakness, and I definitely think he was testing me with sex. Because I definitely sensed how it impacted the relationship and I couldn’t get him to take my words seriously after that. He kept being wishy-washy so I told him I’d walk. I probably gave him one too many chances because he clearly made up his mind about me and was not invested in learning about me. When he didn’t treat me well I did walk away cold turkey. I am glad I did because if he is still in that mindset of using the sex test and not open to see other aspects of me then that’s not someone I want. Or I accept he could have also never been that into me to begin with or was always ever about the sex. Either way if a man is using that test or only in it for the sex just walk away the moment you realize that.

  • @MysteryUnfold
    @MysteryUnfold 8 месяцев назад +80

    Ladies, Tony and Sheri wrote “A Woman’s Influence” for a reason. Women set the tone of their relationships by letting men know what they will or won’t tolerate. If every woman had the standard that she was waiting until marriage and actually did it, men would have no choice but to oblige.

    • @ramonaphillipsteach3284
      @ramonaphillipsteach3284 8 месяцев назад +2

      Awesome book!!!

    • @stormyv.8890
      @stormyv.8890 8 месяцев назад +2

      I completely agree.. we women hold the power in the relationship.. they just trick us into thinking we have no power..

    • @MysteryUnfold
      @MysteryUnfold 8 месяцев назад +2

      @@stormyv.8890 and unfortunately women fall for it every time 😞.

  • @THENikiKnight
    @THENikiKnight 8 месяцев назад +66

    My cousin met a man that waited until marriage before sex. Over a year

    • @Educatedlame
      @Educatedlame 8 месяцев назад +11

      Cause he was sleeping wit other women

    • @quanettaanderson3079
      @quanettaanderson3079 8 месяцев назад +17

      Some men have self control, discipline and morals. Sex doesn't rule everyone. You shoukd try it.​@blackrepublicanguy

    • @HampityHamp
      @HampityHamp 8 месяцев назад +8

      @@Educatedlamepeople aren’t ready for that conversation.

    • @sharoncobb9334
      @sharoncobb9334 8 месяцев назад

      lol😂​@@Educatedlame

    • @KurosakiLuvar01
      @KurosakiLuvar01 8 месяцев назад +4

      @@Educatedlameexactly. Trust, he had his playthings and her at the same time.

  • @MersayW
    @MersayW 8 месяцев назад +23

    Women dont know how much power they have.

  • @JermaineThomas4050
    @JermaineThomas4050 8 месяцев назад +60

    One of the first thoughts I had in this video: women are really "the Captain ☸️🏴‍☠️🛳️⚓". 🎬
    A gentleman, a man with "manners and respect 🇯🇲", a decent man, a man with faith and vision will follow your lead. A bunch of pioneer Christian rap and reggae artists made songs in the 1990s - early 2000s about waiting until marriage, a lot of these artists have lived life just like TG. It's worth the wait. A man will wait. Ladies, you mean more to us as men than what society is distracting us with. A good woman is more valuable than cars that depreciate, pornography where it's not real to our body, a few new outfits, a good woman will be there for the marathon. Ladies you are appreciated and more valuable than society may let you know: "you are the Captain".

    • @sdreed212
      @sdreed212 8 месяцев назад +3

      Yassssss!!!!❤

  • @heyyourebeautiful3867
    @heyyourebeautiful3867 8 месяцев назад +16

    I have male friend that is a virgin. He's in this thirties and heavy in the church.

  • @Leelang931
    @Leelang931 8 месяцев назад +35

    A momentary decision could cost you a lifetime of pain. Don’t cheat yourself on what you could have. I’m currently going through the process of abstaining from sex, I went on my first date tonight and I’m hoping for the best, I’m going to continue getting this teaching from Tony, cause he haven’t stirred me wrong.

  • @hallmark4
    @hallmark4 8 месяцев назад +54

    People need to develop an internal locus of control, both men and women. Instead of focusing on what someone else can control we have to focus on what is in our power to control. So for women, shutting it down is within our power. It’s about taking our power as women back instead of giving it to someone who doesn’t appreciate us as a person.

    • @akilahbatyah6505
      @akilahbatyah6505 8 месяцев назад

      💥

    • @darlenebernard4288
      @darlenebernard4288 8 месяцев назад

      I'm thinking in a different fashion, doing it is because God say not to do it unless you are married or lose your life. It's a Bible scripture that we should not be fornication NOR committing adultery or lose your life once Jesus and the Angels rage war on this earth which will be very soon. Everything going on in this world ate Bible prophecies said to happen. Most people don't know it because they don't know the scriptures. Tony is just telling yall in easy way for yall to understand to do what God said for not what man say do.

  • @justicevibes1252
    @justicevibes1252 7 месяцев назад +3

    I just stopped dating altogether. It really helps get rid of the headaches. I don't have to listen to a bunch of lies, someone choosing someone else. I don't have to listen to the disrespect. I walked away and improved my life!! 💯 :)

  • @TheTiaNetwork
    @TheTiaNetwork 8 месяцев назад +21

    Tony know he be standing on business. He does not care about what nobody think. He’s going to speak the truth. 🙌🏾

  • @dawn1852
    @dawn1852 8 месяцев назад +31

    🤣🤣🤣 Tony crack me up with that Blockdt!!

    • @misguidedpearls7456
      @misguidedpearls7456 8 месяцев назад +2

      😂😂😂😂😂its my fav part

    • @dawn1852
      @dawn1852 8 месяцев назад +2

      @@misguidedpearls7456 lol 🤣 yes definitely good comic relief, intertwined with the important messages.

  • @lavonnepatterson1327
    @lavonnepatterson1327 8 месяцев назад +23

    😂😂😂😂😂 This comedy relationship teaching is hilarious! Thank you for the good word!

  • @tarahbruno3793
    @tarahbruno3793 8 месяцев назад +29

    Ladies don’t give up hope! You may be seen as a unicorn for being abstinent in this society, but God sees you ❤and you will be blessed

  • @c.ggraygray4389
    @c.ggraygray4389 8 месяцев назад +17

    I rebuke demons and the devil and all evil in the name of Jesus Christ. Amen

  • @Temwachii
    @Temwachii 8 месяцев назад +22

    I just want to say congratulations on 500k Uncle Tony!!! Wow that’s huge 🎉

  • @TrishC5280
    @TrishC5280 8 месяцев назад +11

    Listen to the message 💯 btw the one Oreo away had me rolling 😆🙃

  • @ShesGottaFastCar
    @ShesGottaFastCar 8 месяцев назад +9

    I was definitely naive!! But NOT no more!! Thank you Jesus! Not Digitally slap someone... LOLOLOL! I feel ya Tony. Imma have to borrow that.

  • @darlenebernard4288
    @darlenebernard4288 8 месяцев назад +19

    Great talk Tony. Everyone need. To accept responsibility for our own behavior.

  • @yasmeensuri
    @yasmeensuri 8 месяцев назад +6

    Rotisserie!! 😂😂😂 love it!!! GET EM TONY!!

  • @aandreahodge
    @aandreahodge 8 месяцев назад +7

    Tony Gaskins you tell the truth God bless you and your wife

  • @mrs.dawnbroylesiii4904
    @mrs.dawnbroylesiii4904 8 месяцев назад +19

    The flesh is weak that's why. It's not an excuse, but you're right we all fall short of the glory God.

  • @MsBrown-hl9pe
    @MsBrown-hl9pe 8 месяцев назад +18

    Please don’t stop blessing us with these life lessons Tony. These RUclips videos help me tremendously in this journey and until I’m at the place where I can join to obtain additional content. Thank you again for what you do! 💕Many Blessings

  • @loulo204
    @loulo204 8 месяцев назад +3

    I met a man and we clicked, there was the attraction and we started talking and he suddenly started stalking about being sexually active and I talked to him straight up and said that I will not be sexually active until marriage we stopped talking and he came back 2x trying to get me into the conversation of being active and with the help of God (that man was very attractive) I shut it down and told him I made my sentiments known and if that wasn’t what he was looking for then I’m not the woman for him. Thank you Tony gaskins, I enjoy and have learned a lot from these videos. I’m extremly introverted but I made it my mission to ask God for guidance and discernment as I start to put myself out there in the dating world I’m 24 and have never dated because of fear but I do want marriage and to create a family and one that is based on Gods principles

  • @portia547
    @portia547 8 месяцев назад +5

    Digitally Slapped 😂. Please put that on a T-Shirt

  • @stacyedwards4319
    @stacyedwards4319 8 месяцев назад +10

    Totally agree. Regardless of his sexual status he’ll wait on you if he knows you the right one. Sometimes, like you said before we may have to walk away to keep our standards even if he’s the one, he’ll make a u-turn and conform. Why you say if you waiting for every light to be green before you leave home, you’ll be stuck at home 😂😂😂 point blank perrriioood!!!

  • @tulip4169
    @tulip4169 8 месяцев назад +11

    We live in an entitled society. That’s why people will have the gall to email another adult telling them what they don’t like as if somebody cares or as if somebody should change something just because they don’t like it. It’s arrogance.

  • @krocker8112
    @krocker8112 8 месяцев назад +10

    TG! Ur the BEST! I appreciate your wisdom always. Thank you so much! But the funny thing is...I thought u was done at the 21 mark, then noticed the video had 20 more minutes to it. Hilarious! I love it!! 😂😂💯💯💪🏽💪🏽

    • @RFonyeaBlackmon
      @RFonyeaBlackmon 7 месяцев назад +1

      That part 😂😂 forgot all about going to see his wife in the dress at the wedding. But he was definitely doing God’s work, because if not he would have stopped.

  • @nicolettebutler5603
    @nicolettebutler5603 8 месяцев назад +3

    Keep pressing towards the mark, Tony G! I continue to receive what you are saying, and I am always looking to grow!

  • @IAmTheQueen87
    @IAmTheQueen87 8 месяцев назад +13

    I’m sorry but I cracked the heck up at “that ol hairy thang” 😂😂😂😂. Tony I am done 😩

  • @BellaKayeLLard
    @BellaKayeLLard 8 месяцев назад +6

    Your obedience is definitely not in vain. We wives understand your message ❤

  • @R0yalBeauty77
    @R0yalBeauty77 8 месяцев назад +3

    My husband was abstaining before we met, so it made it very easy for us to wait until our wedding date to kiss and the wedding night to be intimate.
    Trusted God and the process.

  • @tamaracain6980
    @tamaracain6980 8 месяцев назад +8

    Shouldn't these men worry about themselves as staying celebate and having standards too? I know you are telling women this but men should be told this too. They aren't exempt.

    • @beemonique8466
      @beemonique8466 8 месяцев назад +2

      You're exactly right. All of the rules seems to set for women but there's rules in the Bible for men too. First of all. If the man is the head of the household, he has rules and standards to live by too. Empowering women with these truths and not doing the same with men is not good. It's creating an unhealthy dynamic. Granted, both men and women should be operating in this way. Honestly, they're not.

    • @tamaracain6980
      @tamaracain6980 8 месяцев назад

      @@beemonique8466 I totally agree 💯!

  • @jlee04
    @jlee04 8 месяцев назад +3

    You are absolutely correct Tony!!!!! Keep preaching/teaching your message! "Those who have an ear, let them hear" Your message is necessary!!

  • @reshaundaliv9176
    @reshaundaliv9176 8 месяцев назад +12

    😂😂I be laughing so hard at Tony,,he be telling truth and funny at same time.

  • @londontyler6598
    @londontyler6598 8 месяцев назад +6

    I woke up. That was me. The minute the my vision came back, I walked away without looking back.

  • @katiamervil3143
    @katiamervil3143 8 месяцев назад +2

    I love how Real you keep it Coach. I learn so much ❤

  • @weareallone6148
    @weareallone6148 8 месяцев назад +11

    Thank you, Tony for the Beautiful Guidance! And you got me all cracking up over here!😂😂😂😂😂😂
    Stay Blessed, Tony!🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @ramonaphillipsteach3284
    @ramonaphillipsteach3284 8 месяцев назад +8

    Teach Tony!!! Tell the truth!! Rebuke Satan in the name of Jesus. Godly principles!!!

    • @c.ggraygray4389
      @c.ggraygray4389 8 месяцев назад +2

      Amen. I rebuke satan in the name of Jesus Christ. Amen

  • @aandreahodge
    @aandreahodge 8 месяцев назад +6

    If it’s too hot for you stay out the kitchen

  • @reshaundaliv9176
    @reshaundaliv9176 8 месяцев назад +8

    Amen, I have that on my videos sometimes, people miss the whole message and try to find negative and be messy and ain't learning nothing..

  • @MWisdomWisdom
    @MWisdomWisdom 8 месяцев назад +8

    THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR THESE ViDEOS. MY STANDARDS ARE SET, EVERYTHiNG iS SET. iM KEEPiNG iT THiS WAY && WHOMEVER DOESN'T LiKE iT CAN LEAVE🤞🏽✌🏽.

    • @tarahbruno3793
      @tarahbruno3793 8 месяцев назад +1

      And stay strong!

    • @MWisdomWisdom
      @MWisdomWisdom 8 месяцев назад

      @@tarahbruno3793 Thank you sooo much. You do the same.

  • @ramonaphillipsteach3284
    @ramonaphillipsteach3284 8 месяцев назад +2

    Very true and some of these kind women, emotionally immature, have put themselves and their children in dangerous situations. 🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @JermaineThomas4050
    @JermaineThomas4050 8 месяцев назад +7

    This is a really good video: TG, "lives life". There is some good content in here: family life, social ecosystem of how some of us grew up, the gift of comedy, etc.

  • @YungBreL
    @YungBreL 8 месяцев назад +5

    Thanks for the input. Im actively looking for a new type of contender. My rotation sucks. Im probably doing this every 2 weeks. Because like you said. The sex talk comes that fast.

    • @AKR892
      @AKR892 8 месяцев назад +3

      Same. So exhausting.

  • @JermaineThomas4050
    @JermaineThomas4050 8 месяцев назад +36

    🎯. TG is right about it. Being a man waiting for marriage has caused me rejection. I initially waited until age 22, was slightly active between ages 22 - my early 30s, and now at age 37 have been staying out the way for 5-6 years. Beautiful women who are believers have turned me down and asked those same questions. It hurts, too: 1) I lose a potential wife; 2) she might be about to go lose while chasing "the bad boy" or seeking "to turn a thug into a pastor".

    • @sjtalksandlife
      @sjtalksandlife 8 месяцев назад +11

      That's wonderful that you are abstaining. If they are a true woman of God they shouldn't have a problem with you abstaining..😉

    • @tarahbruno3793
      @tarahbruno3793 8 месяцев назад +13

      Jermaine,I’m a woman of God who’s abstaining and waiting for a marriage too. Don’t be discouraged. I’m seen as a unicorn out here cause men assume I would give it up and they leave cause I don’t.I’m so glad to see men on the same level as me still exist ❤

    • @JermaineThomas4050
      @JermaineThomas4050 8 месяцев назад

      @@sjtalksandlife I appreciate it. I have a few examples of grown women in my social networks who are a decade or 2 older than me who did things the best right way that they could as believers and life is going well for them: married a believer, raising blended family peacefully, building profitable business together, still dating🕴🏾💃🏾🍽️🛂🎟️🎫each other, spending money on each other happily ever after. This lets me know that it is well, I can meet a woman and build happily ever after even though I'm in my upper 30s; it didn't happen early in life like I wanted, but there are enough eligible women on the planet on the same mission.

    • @JermaineThomas4050
      @JermaineThomas4050 8 месяцев назад +1

      @@tarahbruno3793 I appreciate it, Tarah, and I believe you. Intimacy and health status are more serious than motives society has been pushing. It's respectable that a lady respects herself enough to set a bar/a standard for the real thing. You are and are going to be "well and Blessed" as Apostle Leroy Thompson (77 years of age) says about one of his happiest and healthiest fellow men in his church (about 93 years of age) when thet greet each other from time to time. "Well and Blessed": sober minded, joy to the full, seeking value, a witness, a good mother if you desire to be. ❤️❤️

    • @JermaineThomas4050
      @JermaineThomas4050 8 месяцев назад +1

      @@sjtalksandlife I appreciate it. I know that it's possible, I have a few good example people that it worked out for.

  • @KFontLab
    @KFontLab 8 месяцев назад +10

    Great video 🔥
    Men and Women of God are human beings. You can strive to live right and still fall short because we are in this flesh. The goal isn’t to fall short but it happens sometimes.
    Men and Women of God have desires like everyone else.
    An associate of mine (he is married now) but he practiced abstinence for 16 years. He would go out with women and they would be pissed at him for not trying anything.

  • @sdreed212
    @sdreed212 8 месяцев назад +4

    Love hearing you talk “real” about your wife and marriage.

  • @GreenestOne
    @GreenestOne 3 месяца назад +2

    Feels like Tony is the only man on social media giving real world advice to Christian women

  • @SuzanneHarris-dd7it
    @SuzanneHarris-dd7it 8 месяцев назад +3

    Tony, you are hilarious but speaking truth. Love your Tony Talks With Love

  • @CouldonlybeDebs
    @CouldonlybeDebs 8 месяцев назад +3

    Hey Tony, I have a question. Could you please just clarify- would it be best to tell a man you’re abstaining or keep that to yourself? Because I know one time you said it’s not something we should disclose or even entertain the conversation if raised but now I’m not too sure if you’re saying we should.
    Many Thanks 🙏🏾

  • @millicentstollenwerck5239
    @millicentstollenwerck5239 8 месяцев назад +28

    Most women idolized wanting to be married more than we want God, all women don't grow to become a wife. Some of us are meant to be daughter's of God.

    • @mereshabd3257
      @mereshabd3257 7 месяцев назад +1

      This is one of the best lines I have ever read, thanks🙏.

    • @rachelphillips5576
      @rachelphillips5576 6 месяцев назад

      Now that's 💯

  • @MissJourdy
    @MissJourdy 8 месяцев назад +4

    Hi Tony! Thanks for this video. A guy I’m dating has never attempted to get me on my back, but he’s also never given a compliment to me either. Would he not be attracted to me, or maybe just playing it safe?
    Would love any thoughts you have on what he’s showing here? 😅

  • @eyeonthesparrow9745
    @eyeonthesparrow9745 8 месяцев назад +3

    My husband told me when we met that he told himself the next person he would have sex with would be his wife. He said he remained celibate for about 2 years because of that proclamation for himself. He had some dates but he never let them turn into hookups. So he met me and told his mom after 4 months of dating that he is going to marry me. And we got married 1.5 years after meeting. When a man has made up his mind for real for real, he will usually stick with that. He decided I was his wife before we got married and I guess this allowed him to get intimate with me in that way. I had never met a man before him whoever intentionally became celibate for a purpose. He went from literally having hook up sex dealing with one woman at a time, to celibate. HE didn't even lose his virginity til he was 24. We met when he was 34 and I was 35. He was a late bloomer in this regard bc he was soo shy and bashful, and always waited for women to make the moves. I think there was a confidence issue too because he didn't get a lot of encouragement and motivation from his dad growing up, just more criticism and ridicule than anything. I think this spilled over into other aspects of his life over time. We never know how our childhood or upbringing has affected us until we become adults. My husband is a man's man, and not a lady's man.

  • @yolandalcheek462
    @yolandalcheek462 8 месяцев назад +4

    I don't understand why folks can't stay out the bedroom 😂

  • @fefeN777
    @fefeN777 8 месяцев назад +3

    Mr. Gaskins, all I can say is TRUTH, TRUTH, TRUTH--somebody needs to tell it--why not you??!! 🙌🏾 I've been abstaining from sex for the last 8yrs, have fallen short at times over those years to masturbation, but I'm currently striving to crucify my flesh daily b/c I want my body to be kept FULLY pure and holy for my husband at God's appointed time. Keep speaking Truth brother Gaskins and God Bless you all on your walk with God as the Holy Spirit leads you! 🙏🏾

  • @londontyler6598
    @londontyler6598 8 месяцев назад +7

    This conversation was a must and confirmation. I decided to abstain, if a person loves you, tell them no and see.

  • @Cglizz-c4b
    @Cglizz-c4b 8 месяцев назад +2

    Well I was dating a man told him I’m Christian I asked would he be willing to go get tested and show results before sex down line he asked me was I thinking about sex now this was second time and I told him I was minister and not having sex after second time of him talking about sex it turned me off I told him I don’t think it’s gone work and I really liked this guy thought I could be with him

  • @hingreddiniz5835
    @hingreddiniz5835 7 месяцев назад +2

    Had one dude shocked and say " YOUR SLEEPING ALONE" I told him no not alone at all I'm laying down at Jesus feet! I'm a child of the most high God!

  • @funshoogunmuyiwa953
    @funshoogunmuyiwa953 8 месяцев назад

    Thank you so much! I’m so blessed listening to you. I just learned a lot from you through this video. You are just god send and a big confirmation for me. God bless you!

  • @GodDogPassport
    @GodDogPassport 8 месяцев назад +4

    Just like he says the last half of the video is to give himself a chuckle, well 39:23 there’s his chuckle :) “you finna get flamed, you finna get rotisserie” 🔥 😅😂 👏

  • @missyadams3542
    @missyadams3542 8 месяцев назад +4

    Thank God for Jesus, He's a saver forreal! Lawdy.... it's scary out here!! 🤦🏽‍♀️🤣😂🤣

  • @rosamondsomah7340
    @rosamondsomah7340 7 месяцев назад +1

    Everything you said is 💯…You’re GRACED for this mission

  • @DD-mg2se
    @DD-mg2se 8 месяцев назад +2

    Nothing upsets me more than hearing grown hard backs complain about the other gender to do better when better should begin with oneself. Just take what's for you and ride out with it and if it's not then at least you got to learn something. Why would someone wait if they can get it for free or cheaper elsewhere? We need to focus on being the better person instead of depending on others to be better before we can..it starts with YOU..before you can expect someone else to do and be better. Take accountability for your own life. Like Mr Tony always say.."we gotta do better".

    • @nataliet.3023
      @nataliet.3023 8 месяцев назад +1

      💯 💯 Exactly! People need to learn to be the change they want to see in the World.

  • @Shemmise
    @Shemmise 8 месяцев назад +5

    You are hilarious Tony! You make me laugh. I appreciate your wisdom and guidance 💯

  • @happilyhealing2749
    @happilyhealing2749 6 месяцев назад +1

    I get a word, some laughs and inspired every time!
    Folk got way too much time on their hands to email someone to complain😳BAAHLOCKEDDDDD!!! 😂😂😂
    TG we thank you🙏🏽

  • @joyell821
    @joyell821 8 месяцев назад +1

    I don't lime these topics. He talked all thay shit about Ace Metaphor, now Tony is just as suspect.

  • @margarita4me485
    @margarita4me485 8 месяцев назад +4

    Appreciate all of your videos Tony. I’m in the process of watching all of them. However I’m hearing you say there are some “exceptions.”Is it possible we can get a video series for us single and dating over 50? Thank you

  • @aandreahodge
    @aandreahodge 8 месяцев назад +3

    Some people say that want help but really don’t
    That’s probably why you have people want you to change your message to suit them they don’t really want change

  • @corijayy
    @corijayy 8 месяцев назад +19

    11:33 he knows the Bible but he doesn't fear The Most High... If he feared TMH, he wouldn't have gotten himself in the midst of that hollyweird situation. Knowing the Bible does not equate A Man of The Most High. He's still Worldly. And he can work on himself to become less worldly.

  • @MiraclesandMessages333
    @MiraclesandMessages333 8 месяцев назад +4

    In other words Tony is saying 'Winners are not allowed to let losers rewrite history' 😂😂

  • @racquelwilliams8647
    @racquelwilliams8647 8 месяцев назад +5

    PROTECT YOUR PEACE (MENTAL)❤

  • @yolandalcheek462
    @yolandalcheek462 8 месяцев назад +2

    He telling the truth ladies 😢

  • @lavonnepatterson1327
    @lavonnepatterson1327 8 месяцев назад +5

    Digitally slap! 😂😂😂

  • @angelalynn4225
    @angelalynn4225 8 месяцев назад +1

    Amen believe every word

  • @pracs3377
    @pracs3377 8 месяцев назад +3

    I’ve learned that not being sensitive the point where I think everything is directed at me or pertains to me is freeing. I think this has come about because I go to God to test the spirit to show itself approved.
    On the flip side, some messages will hurt because they are true. If it’s true, it should promote growth.
    That’s my take.

  • @ly2833
    @ly2833 8 месяцев назад +3

    Amen Amen and Amen. I commend the man/men who are waiting until marriage. My cousin would say the same about me because she never saw me sleeping with men. There's nothing wrong with waiting on God to bring you your mate. Stay grounded in the things of God. Your life want be perfect, but less stressful. God want give you more than you can bear. Operate in His strength and watch Him do it. God is faithful. Thank you Tony for your obedience to God. Keep sowing His seeds. Abundant blessings.

  • @TheAJX35
    @TheAJX35 8 месяцев назад +4

    We need an abstinence series!!

  • @vinadouglas119
    @vinadouglas119 8 месяцев назад +5

    😂😂😂Keep teaching TG❤

  • @jennifergrant975
    @jennifergrant975 8 месяцев назад +3

    I have made such a huge mistake like the in my relationship and still regretting it

  • @ramonaphillipsteach3284
    @ramonaphillipsteach3284 8 месяцев назад +1

    Lol forget about the wedding. Don’t change nothing!!

  • @LarennPBel
    @LarennPBel 8 месяцев назад +4

    Okay now TONY, U gonna have some of scared with this title. I’m here for it let me watch it and proceed with the good word you will be sharing with us all.

  • @inesmith8431
    @inesmith8431 7 месяцев назад +1

    I am a new follower and I am here to learn!!

  • @justdrea5814
    @justdrea5814 8 месяцев назад +1

    So men have self control just for the idea of keeping a woman he THINKS is his wife? Is this ego driven? I’m just trying to understand?

  • @FamousGirlK
    @FamousGirlK 8 месяцев назад +1

    😂😂😂 I know you be dead serious, but man you have a funny way of expressing things! I love the wise teaching as always!

  • @IvanaGirl
    @IvanaGirl 8 месяцев назад +2

    Single unmarried women are bitter? 👀 that’s rude. It’s not in my power to find somebody it’s not like finding a job. Specially for someone like me who isn’t even trying find somebody to begin with. I’ve been listening to your videos for a while to try and heal from a bad experience not necessarily to find someone, but yea that comment was not very nice. I know plenty of single unmarried women who are the sweetest people I’ve ever met. Feel free to block me if you don’t like me telling you this

    • @krystaldee22
      @krystaldee22 8 месяцев назад +3

      That’s not what he said

    • @IvanaGirl
      @IvanaGirl 8 месяцев назад

      @@krystaldee22yes it is lol

    • @krystaldee22
      @krystaldee22 8 месяцев назад +2

      @@IvanaGirl he said someone was talking about older women who are bitter and single were giving out bad advice. He never said all single women are bitter, he did talk about people that are looking to be offended, which sounds like you.

  • @Visionworld9
    @Visionworld9 8 месяцев назад +2

    So why wait for the women to make the standard???This makes me feel that the women are the true leaders and standard setters.

  • @Realness4sho
    @Realness4sho 7 месяцев назад +1

    😘 Reality Check! 😁✅

  • @staciadavis-5p1cac93
    @staciadavis-5p1cac93 8 месяцев назад +2

    I have been watching your videos for the past few years, and I continue to learn something new every time!

  • @ramonaphillipsteach3284
    @ramonaphillipsteach3284 8 месяцев назад +1

    Lol they email you to turn the comment on😂😂😂😂😂

  • @cikuciku4345
    @cikuciku4345 8 месяцев назад +1

    Am Kenyan🇰🇪 and been following T.G for several months ever since I subscribed, and where I go to church sexual sin is seriously rebuked, because sex before marriage is sin and also it brings separation btn man and God, so when I came across this channel and listened to T.G encouraging sexual abstinence I was like this is a rare man encouraging such, so that's why I have been following him ever since... It's very rare to see a man discouraging sex before marriage especially at this era.

  • @rosehamilton2665
    @rosehamilton2665 8 месяцев назад +3

    Remember it's the last days and the devil using alot of us to create strife and so discord so pay them no mind keep doing what you do and keep thinking of us who look for our mercies and wisdom from your videos blessings always ❤❤❤

  • @pracs3377
    @pracs3377 8 месяцев назад +2

    Mr. Gaskins,
    I do have to say that if you ever need a stenographer I’m in because you speak measured and eloquently while being hilarious at the same time.
    Thank you for your messages! Blessings to you and your family. Safe travels!