It is primarily jealousy and bullying. I have had my RUclips Channel for 5 and a half years, and though I have a long way to go to reach my Silver Play Button, those that criticize me have been few and no guts to persist. Maybe because I grew up in a high crime area of New York City, and I learned I cannot survive by letting the bullies get to me. If someone gets out-of-line with a comment I go right back out them with the reality I perceive from that attack to start with. I have very very rarely heard from them again, and the number of those that try has diminished over time. I thought about making a video on that topic, but it would not have gone well with the algorithm since it is out of line with my normal content, and there is the possibility I could cross some line with YT mgnt as well. I do wish you well, and have hit 'like' on this video.
@PE4Doers well thank you. I agree. I'm sorry you feel held back from posting what you want. Life's short, be happy, and do you! I do commend you. That's a very good way to go about it.
@@taraclarissa Thanks. I know I had the advantage in middle school by being slightly bugger than average which gave me a presence when I wished to use it. However I know other even bigger than me who would not stand up to others the majority of the time. I wish you the best. You remind me of one of my daughters, so I will say to you what I believe. Stand up to them ans ask them to show you when they did better.
@Taraclarissa I think youre pretty rad and that you are solid buddy material. Regarding the critics; I personally keep the following excerpt framed in my office: *It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena, whose face is marred by dust and sweat and blood; who strives valiantly; who errs, who comes short again and again, because there is no effort without error and shortcoming; but who does actually strive to do the deeds; who knows great enthusiasms, the great devotions; who spends himself in a worthy cause; who at the best knows in the end the triumph of high achievement, and who at the worst, if he fails, at least fails while daring greatly, so that his place shall never be with those cold and timid souls who neither know victory nor defeat* -Theodore Roosevelt, Speech @ Sorbonne TR didnt certainly didnt skimp on the word count, but I dont think anyone has resolved the issue better with more sincerity and more clarity.
@_Yep_Yep_ Teddy was a legend. Thank you for sharing! Thanks for the compliment as well. I've always gotten along better with guys because I'm not a catty, gossiping ho* lol. Be real, stay positive, don't let debbie downers get to you, and life will be fine 😊
Hello from the South Pacific! Got this one in my feed, although i'm not sure why: but hello. Don't let the haters get you down, comparison is the thief of joy. Also anyone who is commenting on others with the effect of being mean can't be living a great life. Have fun!
I stumbled upon this vid, haven't seen you before but you seem like a nice person. I like your appearance. Don't change. edit: Greetings from the Netherlands!
I grew up in a part of New York City, where if you took it and not responded, things only got worse. When I am shamelessly hit, I focus on making my response hurt them more. I have found that works for me as a YT creator as well. If someone appears to have a legitimate gripe on something I did or said, I always accept that and thank them for helping me improve. However, that has been less than 5% of those that have negatively commented on my content or me personally. As an aside, when attended a NYC Middle school (which they call Junior High School), and had a serious disagreement with someone (always another guy, of course), I would tell them to meet me after school - only once in a couple dozen challenges did they show up. And in that case he brought three others with him. I then said "Let's go, but one of you will really regret it, since I will not stop pounding on him until I was unconscious." The leader then asked "Who will that be?" and I said "Let's start and one of you will find out." Then they all threw some profanity at me and left. Never give up - Never Surrender, then at least you go down down while standing up.
@joeperkowski Lol. I don't have a problem with ppl. This was mostly a post on how to deal with bitter people. I get an occasional delusional troll that simply wants to fight. I don't know why. Usually, they get pissed or dissappear because I'm not easily offended 😄
@@taraclarissa no I know what u are saying people suck....because they are online they think they can be rude....I deactivated my FakeBook account 2 weeks ago best decision ever - social media can be the devil at times
@@joeperkowski I take frequent breaks from it. That's not fair to you! I totally get it. The funny thing is you know those ppl wouldn't dare say the things they do in person.
It’s hard when you have haters. Hope your feeling better
Thank you. I just make them dissappear lol
@@taraclarissa the power of the internet. Haha
@@taraclarissa what Is Issues your Body Some Dot Dot
@@SalmanAhmed-dv8en I don't understand your comment at all.
@taraclarissa "Of course, I'd love to help with anything you need. Just let me know, and I'll do my best!"
This just turned up in my feed for no reason, and you seem like a regular person.
@Chris-2-of-3 Thank you! I feel pretty normal lol.
It is primarily jealousy and bullying. I have had my RUclips Channel for 5 and a half years, and though I have a long way to go to reach my Silver Play Button, those that criticize me have been few and no guts to persist. Maybe because I grew up in a high crime area of New York City, and I learned I cannot survive by letting the bullies get to me. If someone gets out-of-line with a comment I go right back out them with the reality I perceive from that attack to start with. I have very very rarely heard from them again, and the number of those that try has diminished over time. I thought about making a video on that topic, but it would not have gone well with the algorithm since it is out of line with my normal content, and there is the possibility I could cross some line with YT mgnt as well. I do wish you well, and have hit 'like' on this video.
@PE4Doers well thank you. I agree. I'm sorry you feel held back from posting what you want. Life's short, be happy, and do you! I do commend you. That's a very good way to go about it.
@@taraclarissa Thanks. I know I had the advantage in middle school by being slightly bugger than average which gave me a presence when I wished to use it. However I know other even bigger than me who would not stand up to others the majority of the time.
I wish you the best. You remind me of one of my daughters, so I will say to you what I believe. Stand up to them ans ask them to show you when they did better.
@@PE4Doers That's very kind and thoughtful. Thank you so much!
@@taraclarissa No problem. I also just subscribed to your RUclips Channel.
@@PE4Doers Aw, very much appreciated!!
@Taraclarissa I think youre pretty rad and that you are solid buddy material. Regarding the critics; I personally keep the following excerpt framed in my office:
*It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better.
The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena, whose face is marred by dust and sweat and blood; who strives valiantly; who errs, who
comes short again and again, because there is no effort without error and shortcoming; but who does actually strive to do the deeds; who knows
great enthusiasms, the great devotions; who spends himself in a worthy cause; who at the best knows in the end the triumph of high achievement,
and who at the worst, if he fails, at least fails while daring greatly, so that his place shall never be with those cold and timid souls who neither know
victory nor defeat* -Theodore Roosevelt, Speech @ Sorbonne
TR didnt certainly didnt skimp on the word count, but I dont think anyone has resolved the issue better with more sincerity and more clarity.
@_Yep_Yep_ Teddy was a legend. Thank you for sharing! Thanks for the compliment as well. I've always gotten along better with guys because I'm not a catty, gossiping ho* lol. Be real, stay positive, don't let debbie downers get to you, and life will be fine 😊
Hello from the South Pacific! Got this one in my feed, although i'm not sure why: but hello. Don't let the haters get you down, comparison is the thief of joy. Also anyone who is commenting on others with the effect of being mean can't be living a great life. Have fun!
@SamEEE12 I agree. Thank you! They don't 😊
I stumbled upon this vid, haven't seen you before but you seem like a nice person. I like your appearance. Don't change.
edit: Greetings from the Netherlands!
Lekker kaaskop lekker.
@RolandWolters67 Well thank you! 😊
Love what you had to say.
I am retired and work part-time at Home Depot. The stupidity runs rampant in that place.
@user-yj3sy6zf7u Thank you! Sorry you have to deal with that. Unfortunately, that is the world we live in now.
You're beautiful ! : )
Thank you ❤
I don't hate you. I love you and your BOOBA!
@@corriedebeer799 😄 thanks!
I love your video content! Keep it up!
@TheWeekendYogurt Aw, thank you. I'll do what I can 😊
That's why I got off FB and Instagram
@@rickwascher4730 I don't blame ya!
If Delicious was a person
@arthurmorgan5542 Who, me? Aw gosh, lol. Thanks 😊
@@taraclarissa Yep you! You’re welcome. That may have been too forward. If so, I apologize. You are very Beautiful! Haha
@@arthurmorgan5542 That's very kind. Thank you!
Trying my hardest to focus on your wisdom ,but somehow i seem distracted 😊
@@tonystanton9223 Lol, whoops! 😊
With trolls i just reply "thank you for your kind comment". Seems to confuse them.
@@8bitgamerC64 😆 I like that
Solid advice
@@Kenny-ep2nf Thanks!
@@taraclarissa yep
why not just ignore them, they are looking for a rise/reaction, by giving them a reaction.... they are essentially getting what they want.
@@michaeltaylor4817 That is an option I choose a lot. I must have forgotten to say so in the video.
I grew up in a part of New York City, where if you took it and not responded, things only got worse. When I am shamelessly hit, I focus on making my response hurt them more. I have found that works for me as a YT creator as well. If someone appears to have a legitimate gripe on something I did or said, I always accept that and thank them for helping me improve. However, that has been less than 5% of those that have negatively commented on my content or me personally.
As an aside, when attended a NYC Middle school (which they call Junior High School), and had a serious disagreement with someone (always another guy, of course), I would tell them to meet me after school - only once in a couple dozen challenges did they show up. And in that case he brought three others with him. I then said "Let's go, but one of you will really regret it, since I will not stop pounding on him until I was unconscious." The leader then asked "Who will that be?" and I said "Let's start and one of you will find out." Then they all threw some profanity at me and left. Never give up - Never Surrender, then at least you go down down while standing up.
Why they hate you?
@joeperkowski Lol. I don't have a problem with ppl. This was mostly a post on how to deal with bitter people. I get an occasional delusional troll that simply wants to fight. I don't know why. Usually, they get pissed or dissappear because I'm not easily offended 😄
@@taraclarissa no I know what u are saying people suck....because they are online they think they can be rude....I deactivated my FakeBook account 2 weeks ago best decision ever - social media can be the devil at times
@@joeperkowski I take frequent breaks from it. That's not fair to you! I totally get it. The funny thing is you know those ppl wouldn't dare say the things they do in person.