The worst part of this is that she has to be apologetic and kind to this lunatic because she has to go back to class with him for the rest of the semester. What a nightmare.
on top of that........she also doesnt want to run the risk of him regressing even further and harming her all cause his feel feels got bruised. .............a shitty thing all of us ladies have to go out of our way to be concerned about all cause some guys dont know how to just be fukin normal.
@@Vicieron which sucks because it's resulted in guys who aren't psychopaths getting ghosted when they're rejected instead of a simple "sorry not interested." Getting ghosted hurts so much more. But I blame guys like the one in this video for women having to do that.
Makes me think of all the girls who've had to go back to school with their rapist...1000x worse. Having to see them everyday, laughing and acting normal. What hell it must be. So many schools and universities are evil for doing this
There was no relationship dodged. It was just some random abusive creepy dude with nonsensical expectations and no connections with her except a class project. Nothing close to a relationship to be dodged.
@@SpaceTrashCrash theyre saying there was a potential relationship from the weirdo dude's perspective. on top of everything you said being true, she had a boyfriend...obviously a relationship wasn't actually on the table lol
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@robjoemama2466 That's how women get killed. Can always tell when it's a dude making a comment... men have assaulted and murdered women for much less than a face to face rejection. We have to play the field smart. One wrong move with the wrong psycho can spell death.
The “I thought you meant a boy you were friends with” is absolutely wild, because he either is a master at hopium/gaslighting himself, or more likely, he well understood that she is taken but thought he was such top shit that she had fallen for him despite her relationship. So he just lied about having misunderstood the “boyfriend picking me up” thing to, in his mind, save face and/or even throw in a little jab about her “wrong” behaviour of going to a guy’s house when she’s in a relationship. Bro needs intervention.
It really is crazy how his initial text really was a perfectly good example of how to ask someone out and he immediately becomes captain cringe from 2014
thats either the hallmark of a socio/psychopath or a majorly emotionally unstable individual. going from perfectly normal to batshit insane at the drop of a hat is the biggest red flag of all time, glad the woman got away from this weirdo lol
@@gorb688he is saying that after the girl says that they have a boyfriend, the guy should have said what the commenter said and then move on. He is agreeing that what this guy said was stupid.
@@MamadNobari dude that is the most cringe beta butt-hurt shit I’ve seen in a long time. If I was that girl, I would’ve just showed my boyfriend the text messages and I guarantee you we would both be laughing our ass off.
@@MamadNobariasking someone to pay for food days after you told them it was your treat is already ridiculous regardless of the intent. Being that obtuse abt a pizza of all things is even worse. I can understand if it was like a $50 meal at a restaurant but a pizza? What's next, pay me back for a happy meal?
@@MamadNobari That would be considered very abysmal social etiquette, especially after telling somebody that the food is your “treat” initially…and considering the other details relayed in the text messages showcasing that this guy is being unnecessarily spiteful
Someone at my college the other day paid for me a small cup of coffee for 25 cents because I forgot my wallet and no joke he wanted my number and went out of his way to send a payment request for literally 25 cents.
I had a similar experience in college. After finishing a project with my partner I asked her out. She said that she was “too busy with school, but thanks.” Except I just said “ok, had to try” and moved on with my life, even though I thought it was a bs excuse . At graduation she received some academic award for getting degrees in chemistry AND computer engineering. Then I realized that she really was too busy - and way out of my league
@jdubo1998 guess you missed the part where she had to put another woman down to make OP feel better. But you are right, the "maybe" makes it better. She could have just said the positive former part and left it at that but go off.
I FULLY understand why she didn't want to escalate. I'm a teenage girl. A boy a bit older than me at work (I'm a waitress) messaged me asking if I had been in any relationships, and when I said no he asked if I was a virgin. I just said yes but quickly passively mentioned I liked a girl in my class, hoping he would understand. Instead he asked if I was Bi or Lesbian. When I said Lesbian he asked a slew of questions. Will I ever find the right man? When did I decide to be gay? I just answered very passively, because he knows what way I walk to get home (in the dark, mind you, since my shifts end around 9-10) and it's not worth the risk. He closed out with a charming question that damn near turned me straight: "do you have any slutty friends that are also hot because i'm feening for a girl right now 😜" People like that are deranged. Trying to reason just makes them more mad, and it's not worth your safety.
@@antsy._.artist778if a girl talked to you the same way that guy did would you be into her? It's not rocket science, just avoid all people who talk with slang terms and swear words because they're lowlives, male and female, problem solved.
Him saying "I thought you meant a boy that you were friends with" is the stupidest thing I've seen this week. She straight up told him she has a boyfriend. I don't even know how much in denial you have to be to hear a woman say, "My boyfriend is going to pick me up" and then assume she's not in a relationship.
I don't see her saying anything other than this. What else could be there? - _My boy is picking me up_ - _My sweet potato is picking me up_ - _My dearest is picking me up_ 😕
I think that's his fucked up way of being like "I assumed that cause there's NO WAY you'd have agreed to go to a BOY'S HOUSE IF YOU HAVE A BOYFRIEND, why would you do such a thing".... what a twat
It's even dumber of him thinking he's got a "gotcha" moment of him trying to make her look unfaithful because she's in a house with another guy, who is working with, on a project. his dumbass wouldn't think that even if she wasn't at his house, she would had to work with him regardless if in each other's house or not.
The saddest part of this is that he actually asked her out in a really nice and respectful way. All he had to do was just not act like a complete psycho after getting rejected and the two of them could have still been on good terms.
@@bearwitty9690 who said i was tryna befriend girls im saying girls bring nothing to a friendship the same ways guys can guys can defend you help you out of a bad situation girls cant do that the only reason for a girl is sex or a romantic relationship nothing more they cant back you up or get you out of a bad situation
04:15 It's the Fresh and Fit/Andrew Tate way of thinking - if your girlfriend makes eye contact with another guy she's cheated on you and she "belongs to the streets". It's so pathetic.
8:05 I remember teachers saying like "it's just a group project, you're only working together today, it's not like you're getting married to your partner" I guess this guy wasn't paying attention for that part
If she'd said "I can't work on the project at your house my boyfriend wouldn't like it" he would've started in on how controlling he is, it's just a school project etc etc.
the scariest thing is how respectfully he asked her imo, like if she said yes then this whole psychopathic unveiling wouldn't have been until after they were dating. hope this guy gets better soon
The most wild part about it is that his attempt to ask her out was really quite benign. There wasn't anything wrong with the way he made that approach, and she said thanks that's sweet but I'm in a relationship. That shouldn't have been a confrontation but he sure as fuck turned it into one.
@AntiOfficerBMTNuh uh it’s 10:05pm. Also trying to make fun of them is useless, it’s just a soulless bot or idiotic 5 year old that’s copy and pasting the same thing.
It's such a weird split too, I could sorta get it if it was some restaurant and she asked for much more expensive food, but it's a goddamn delivery pizza, you either split it equally or someone takes the bill in full
uhm actually you ate 7 pieces and I only had 5, that costed 20 dollars that "I" worked for, so uhm yeah, if you could zelle me that 11.67 that would be great, DON'T LEAVE ME ON READ🤓😡
She gave this dude WAY more if her time and energy than he deserves. She didn’t owe him a single explanation past the first “thanks but no” and yet she continued to validate her responses. So much patience; could never be me 😳
I 100% get why she’d be nice to him, especially if she has to go to class and see him every day and he knows that as a part of her schedule. I’d play it safe too, people are just wild.
Absolutely, I was hoping someone else would say this. She doesn't want to start shit with a man she's going to have to see all the time, especially when he already isn't taking rejection well. Colleges are notoriously dogshit at helping in these situations too
Yeah, someone above pointed out how scary it is that his initial ask came across very respectful and polite. If she had said yes she wouldn't have gotten this whole psychopathic unveiling until who knows how long into their date/dates.
@@UndeadSlayer5”Not taking rejection well” isn’t an excuse to take it out on the person rejecting you. Cry into a pillow or something, don’t start going on psychotic rants about the person who rejected you!
@@SchmeppieBoah no i am a believer of if they say no you can carve their eyes out and when they scream for you to stop then you give them the no answer
“You let me buy you a pizza” gives me the same intonation as in FF7 Remake when Jesse was dying slowly and Cloud Strife says “Yeah, you owe me a pizza.” as abruptly as it can be linguistically delivered.
So glad you have these views on this situation, me and my daughter go out and treat males as friends as we would females, for some reason people think because a female is friendly with a male they're up for it, so wrong 🙄
I have a feeling it’s also male loneliness and lacking of compliments coming to play. I remember i was literally struggling not to imagine my entire future with a girl in my class just because she laughed at my joke and called me smart once lol
His obsession with how weird he thinks it is that she is doing a group project with another guy really projects how he would be as a partner. After one dose of this "cringe" I'm already heavily addicted.
@@w0-.x.-0whey man at least you know you want to fix it / should fix it. It’s unhealthy because adults work work with other adults. It’s the real world. It’s humans. She’s not gonna only be talking to vjay owners my guy. There’s men out there. And she’s gonna have to interact with them. Therapy is the best step.
@MamadNobari the 4th law of TD was discovered in the 1900's couple hundread years after Newtpn, around the time pineapple pizza was discovered. It has been tested with many different kinds of pizza, and not a single test contradicted the theorem. This was the first case. NASA and CERN must be looking into this.
For all you out there saying "oh just give a dude a chance! What's the worst that could happen??" These are the kinds of guys we're supposed to just "take a chance" with. Not all men are like this but there's no way to know that ahead of time
"You let me buy you a pizza" is what got me. I hate those type of people who will do something nice for you only if there is something they are getting back from it.
Toxic people push gestures on others that were never appropriate or wanted. This is so they can create a sort of debt in their minds that you owe them for the thing they pushed on you or even did against your wishes. And that debt always just so happens to be the value of "whatever I want from you for as long as I wish." And this will range from everything from anything from noticing you exist to uncomfortable compliments to buying you a super expensive gift (including when you've already rejected them multiple times and have purposely kept your distance from them for weeks) to tracking you down online to send you unwanted messages. It's horrifying.
These kinda guys always view everything as transactional. If they're paying money and not getting something in return then they genuinely do feel betrayed, because then they gave something and got nothing - because doing something out of pure kindness is not on their radar at all.
@@DaShikuXIbuddy if you're in fucking college and you think spending 15 dollars on pizza equals lets go out on a date with a gorl Than your delusional no guy has been taught this even if there were guys who were taught that transaction can equal to getting girls Fucking buying pizza is the like the most brain dead thing you could come up with to get a girl Most guys have common sense no guy should think pizza is a gateway To all their girl problems its just this guys a loser he clearly doesnt have a father figure to teach him common knowledge
@@DaShikuXIthere is no guarantee that's the part most men miss. Kind of like birds who perform for female birds, once they're done dancing, they wait and see if the female bird accepts the courtship. Human males seem to forget the woman's decisions is ultimately up to her
Charlie, it's really comforting to see that influencers like you still have a semblance for how normal irl interactions go and after everything you've seen online still being able to empathize with those caught in these cringe situations. Keep up the good work!
@@FS-qk5uqJonah hill wanted monogomy from a women who wanted herself out there. American culture is so weird man, literally anywhere else where love is still real this isnt an issue
@@benjamindover4731 "Wanted herself out there" She's a model of sportswear, Benjamin. Working adults have business partners of both sexes. No seriously, you can't be this pathetic of a boy to not have friends of opposite sex, Benjamin. You guys are the dudes Charlie clown on and I wish you a speedy recovery from cringe.
It never fails to amaze me how people show their worst sides after being rejected. If they had a moment of self reflection they'd realize that behavior is the reason why they're single
@@Positivity337 No you wont, majority of people in the world arent rich so that just logically cant make sense and being fit isnt changing much either if the person isn't huge on physical appearance. I know dudes who like + sized woman and are as skinny as me. I hope you arent like this dude in the video lmao
I asked a girl out recently, and she told me she had a boyfriend. I apologized, told her I had no idea, and that I wouldn't have asked had I known that. The end. I promise it's not that hard to just move on when you get told no.
its crazy how his first message is a perfect A+ on how to shoot your shot without being weird or trying too hard to sound cool. All he had to do was stop there and take no for an answer.
There is always the possibility that she ends up breaking up with that guy and remembers "that guy I did that project with was cute and respectful, I should hit him up!" It's a long shot, but hey, it could happen! But no, he ruined that.
@@headkicked Even that I don't know about, you should have more self respect than be waiting in a line until she's available. If she's taken, acknowledge that and move on it really isn't difficult
@@keplar7243 he's saying that the option's still there, you should 100% move on. But there's always a possibility later on that you're both single and she hits you up.
I'm 21 and single and not really happy about it but these men make me feel so much better about myself, usually when I ask a girl something and she ignores or rejects you just end it there, i don't understand the idea of pushing and pushing as if that will change anything at all
He could've just said "oh sorry, I forgot you have a boyfriend" after getting rejected, and just deal with a week or two of awkwardness. Instead, he decided to go full nuclear for no reason - she's lucky she has a boyfriend, because she definitely dodged a bullet with this guy.
She clearly led him on - I mean she was a woman existing in his presence. Indecent!! Seriously though, dude sounds unhinged, like he was twisting reality in his head to suit this idea that they were having a romance. Them being in the same group was her "choosing" him. Her coming over to his house to work on a project was a statement of her availability. Her accepting pizza was a date. Her saying the words "my boyfriend" became "a boy who is my friend". The whole thing is scary.
Why would you accept pizza from a normal guy in that instance? You dont think that is wierd at all? "Oh let.m3 buy you a pizza, friendly classmate". So wierd dude, Girls wanna have it all.
@@zegikniet9999is "accepting an offer to share food at someone else's house" where we're getting tripped up here? you've gone to other people's houses, right?
@@zegikniet9999That's literally not weird at all. People sometimes offer things like drinks and food when they're hanging out. It's a part of social etiquette. I once accepted coffee from a classmate of mine after the first conversation I shared with her. Me accepting that coffee wasn't me telling her I was down to fuck, it was simply accepting the offer of coffee and a conversation. You just sound like you don't socialize offline.
I just found your channel today and I am an instant addict! It's like every time I hear these stories I can pinpoint an experience that I've had that is so similar... I haven't always fall in for these horrifying fakes, but I have had these weird experiences where people are so staged and crazy, and they actually think they are God's gift to women.... They shoot their shot without any hesitation.
I stopped going to college classes in person because of a guy like this. He’d wait outside my class (he wasn’t in) to the point where my classmates started to get concerned and walk me.
Dude didn't just bark up the wrong tree he chose the wrong cactus. She said she had a boyfriend, she didn't choose him to be a partner on the project, and yet he still asked her out and got delusional af when she unsurprisingly shot him down. I will never understand that mindset.
see, you're coming at it as women = human. when it gets like this, women aren't human anymore, they're objects to further your own self-worth/power/pleasure/whatever p fucked yea
This was I assume a team school/work project. And he obviously didn't knew her before, so next time he will hopefully know better than to pay everything for a complete stranger. Of course if he don't ask, she won't tell and of course, if she can have attention and free stuff, she won't tell about her boyfriend either. His reaction was inappropriate obviously but next time he'll know better hopefully. When I was young, many, many years ago, I too have been way too nice with a girl expecting something but the girl in question was acting like she was interested, but always had some excuse to never go on a proper date, so after few times, I just stopped and moved on. I didn't act unpleasant or rude, I just moved on and stopped giving that girl any attention other than being polite. But it was in high school, after that one time, I never did it again. But that was many decades ago. The guy should have just moved on.
Literally at the part where she first says "I have a boyfriend", that's the point I apologise profusely, die of embarrassment and then curl up into a ball wishing I'd disappear 😂 I don't get why some people think it's ok, logical or mentally stable to continue pursuing after that.
Because they're snowflake incels who think they're special and don't know how to take rejection, especially from women. They think women are objects to do their bidding, which is why they're incels in the first place.
The most cringe-worthy part is the reveal that she told him way before this interaction (my boyfriend will pick me up). *And he assumed she meant a friend who happened to be a boy.* 😬😬😬
@@user-fg4tn8ot6b Indeed, and also the most scary part. I bet she had to really think it through at how to respond to that 😳 being in the same class and all. I would not trust that guy. It's what true crime shows are made of! 😱
@@user-fg4tn8ot6b Which is super hypocritical since in his opinion she shouldn't hang out with a friend who is a boy if she is already in a relationship. 🤣🤣
As a woman, it’s basically second nature to resort to tip toeing in order to avoid escalation and to try to stay safe. Even with being kind we still face backlash as illustrated by this story. It’s nothing recent
As a woman - can't be overstated how much I've appreciated Charlie gunning for women and pointing out the pathetic self-serving bullshit guys do to get them to do what they want. It's such a welcome change of pace amongst all of the other garbage being spewed out there about how to get and deal with women. It's part of the reason I've been watching you for so long. Seriously, props, Charlie - you rock.
The very first screenshot is kinda smooth and sweet and id like to imagine a better timeline where the guy takes no for an answer and he accepts having a new friend
I legitimately felt scared for her when reading the texts. I’m glad the exchange wasn’t in person because I feel like it’s things like this that turn into stories like the stabbing and killing of the girl last week where she rejected flowers. It’s scary how simply rejecting someone could put you in danger as a woman.
@@TanyaQueen182me personally, I wouldn’t take shit from a loser like this, acting like a fucking toddler, dude is quite likely to be a weak little man that tries to feel strong by being aggressive with women, definitely would be able to take him in a fight. I’m sick of these assholes thinking they’re so high and mighty because they think women are obligated to fuck them 💀
We live a world where it's very smart for a woman to have a firearm on them or at least have some kind of defense. Women aren't safe in this climate, especially. Being confrontational without proper defense could have landed this girl in deep doo-doo. I can't believe she would even go to his house! Incels are very dangerous, and people underplay that big time. They're so delusional and unhinged that they'll throw away everything just to have a mini victory story. He might have even held it against her if she offered to pay for that whole pizza, "like are you calling me broke?!" These young guys have the emotional intelligence of a gnat but yet are super sensitive. You have to be smart when dealing with these nematodes. It just makes me so happy that I'm too disgusting, broken, and old at 31 years old to warrant any attention from them personally.
as a woman i've become accustomed to gently rejecting men who show me the slightest bit of interest out of fear. about 2 months ago i ran away in the middle of the night from a friends house after rejecting a man's advances (i just met him 2 hours before) where he started yelling and raising his fist at me when i said i didn't want to date him, i was terrified. i literally just talked to him and everyone else, no flirting whatsoever. it was nothing but lighthearted convos and banter yet he couldn't handle me saying no, i was super chill about rejecting him too and specified it wasn't personal and that i just didn't want to date. he held back his own fist from hitting me, and that's when i bolted for the door. sadly though i went on a date a few years back where a man bought me $5 worth of dumplings (i offer to pay for but he said it was his treat) and he harassed me for hours on end until i gave in and let him sleep with me (it lasted 30 seconds) but i was scared of being hurt, he was yelling at me a lot too and had at least 50 pounds on me so i couldn't fight back. a lot of men equate time and money (literally 5 dollars) with a woman with sex, it's scary when you know women are killed for rejecting men for such things, this is real and it happens sadly. my friend was assaulted for rejecting a friend of 4 years and just saying no to sex, it's so scary but i'm glad she's okay, he was never charged despite the evidence.
03:33 that's the best part for me. Like buying someone a pizza is a universal contract, where she had to reply: 'Sorry, I cannot accept this pizza. I am already in a relationship.'
You're joking, but if a random stranger of the opposite gender suddenly insists on treating you, that should instantly tell you that they're potentially interested and you should insist on paying your part unless you want to risk such a conversation later on.
@@ser6Ijvolk This wasn't a random stranger though, this was her classmate and project partner who was hosting her at his home. It's fairly common when hosting someone that the host is the one who'll pay for take away. Also insisting on paying your half for something while the other one is insisting on paying for all of it gets really awkward, one of you has to concede first. She offered once, but then he insisted, that's enough
@@lizzyluv96 A college classmate you're randomly grouped with is pretty much a random stranger. Hosting someone for work is different from inviting someone for entertainment. And however awkward insisting on paying your part might be, it's not as awkward as any potential misunderstandings that could result from you letting a stranger treat you.
It's literally just cringe, stop with the fear mongering. You're scared about what actually? This is why we end up with these ridiculous ideas that women should be scared of all men.
@@DM-rc4yu nah man, you won't believe how many women tip toe around people like this guy just so they wouldn't be subjected to that guy's rage. On the other hand, if the woman was also replying with partially aggressive messages like that guy, then people would say that she had it coming (if that guy proceeded to do smth harmful). It's lose lose for women either way
We all have our addictions growing up as well as our guilty pleasures. I have my addictions to junk food and video games that I have been trying to shrug off for years. I am 29 years old and sometimes I can get tempted to this day by those things.
Honestly, even if she wasn't taken, that wouldn't stop her from not being interested in him, you shouldn't accuse someone of supposedly "leaning" on you because they did nice things to you, like shocker, a person did good things to you? couldn't believe it! those are definitely hints of someone liking you that way!
The same guys who complain that the nice guys never win “You let me buy you pizza and didn’t let me into your pussy??? Modern women are something else…”
It’s what nice guys do. They play victim and read into things heavily. They see girls being nice to them when it’s just the two of them as her being interested. Rejection means that it’s everyone else’s fault but his. Pathetic really
yeah like you can tell he thought about this shit a lot@@DereliqueMahBAWLS like you buy friends pizza, but he thinks spending $5 on someone means theyre putting out or some shit. way over thinking it. dudes keeping a list of all the nice things hes done expecting something in return.
Say cringe all you want, but I feel this video is really Charlie using his platform for good. He's spoken so much about growing up viewing women as "other", and inadvertently making girls uncomfortable or objectifying them as a result. He is such a good role model for young people who need to hear that it's lame to go through life only seeing women as possible romantic conquests.
I agree. I hope she never cashapped that asshole back either. Men, you don't get to buy someone food and sex tokens fall out. Don't offer to buy food unless you spell it out that you're trying to pay for sex. A sex worker will charge you 200$ an hour for sex, wtf makes these men think a 20-30$ pizza is worth a lay? If they want and expect sex, hire a sex worker. Stop trying to take advantage of women going about there lives, holy crap.
As a woman i highly value charlies takes on these because it really does feel like hes one of the very few men on social media as an influencer that understands what we go through and takes the time to really talk about WHY we have to be careful with men and how thats not right. His videos just make me feel heard and understood.
a lot of men are incredibly possessive over women like this guy, believing that he's entitled to a girl because she worked on a project with him and ate food he bought
I was boutta disagree. But then I remembered that pretty much every hyper-violent dude is either compensating for some insecurity, or a hyper-narcissist making sure those don't sprout up. Good comment
Goes both ways really. A woman can have a random guy arrested for “raping her” when he was across the street on his phone not even aware of her existence.
I am actually really learning a lot from this. I used to be a very fucked up person but listening to these stories is helping me know exactly how to better myself.
Charlie's definitely changing the way I handle things lol I used to be a careful guy who respects my girl's decision and years went by, I just went to the mentality that "she's obligated to talk to me, to care" and all some goofy shit. But now I know I was very very wrong at that point. Thank you Charlie.
@@EvilDick1995because toxic masculinity *leads* to the line of thinking that guy presented. ‘Women owe you sex if you’re persistent enough’ goes *way* back. If you’ve watched any old black-and-white Romance movie, you know what I’m talking about
Actually, tons of people believe it. There's a whole category of men who are misogynistic and sexual predators in their attempt to appear more "like a real man".@@EvilDick1995
the amount of women who’ve been getting assaulted and sometimes even killed over the past year for rejecting men is getting to be genuinely disturbing so i don’t blame her for being worried
it happens all the time. all it takes is for someone to be a little off in the head or let their emotions get the best of them and the whole situation goes down hill. its sad but it never stops.
LOVE WATCHING CHARLIE AS A CHICK. It's honestly so goddamn cool to know his audience is mostly young men. Even reading these comments I HAVE TO EXPRESS APPRECIATION for the GRAND GRAND majority of guys who clearly agree in thinking this is insane behavior. All you guys made me smile today. Thank you truly to all of you who have commented undesrtanding shit, especially in the replies to comment where women share an experience. You seriously all made my day
@@angrywaffle427all it takes is being respectful. You'll do fine, Champ. Be polite and honest. If it doesn't work out then that's okay too. Just don't be that guy in the texts.
@@monwe8050 what are you 13? Focus more about who you are as a person and less about how you'll look in front of your friends. Keep that up and you'll develop terrible social anxiety
I appreciate Charlie because I didn't know this stuff happened as often as it does. Its insane to me the shear amount of people who have no idea how to communicate with others in the real world. I'm guessing its a vile combination of porn addiction, manosphere stuff, and never actually talking to women that gets most of the guys in this guy's situation. Its next level embarrassing and my sympathy for the women out there having to deal with that scary shit has multiplied 1000 times over. Stay safe out there.
Many thanks to Charlie for recognising that this woman's response was a safety mechanism. We all know fight or flight but fawn is also another instinctive response to a perceived threat - in this case apologising endlessly to reduce the chance of violence.
This made me so anxious, you could tell how pissed that guy was. I hope she's safe. Encountered guys like this before and it's beyond terrifying. There's no 'right' thing to say or do. You just have to hope he doesn't snap and decide to murder you.
I watched a lot of true crime shows when I was growing up in the 90's. The frequency of cases where a guy murdered (and often dismembered) a woman over rejection was disturbing.
@@Heraklianowell obviously not. It wouldn’t be much of an interesting documentary, don’t you think? They make lots of documentaries about murderers, but in this case the motive is rejection 🤷🏻♀️
I wish people could deal with rejection better, just respond like “oh ok, sorry” or something other then going kill mode and getting aggressive for no reason.
This reminds me of a story about me talking to this girl a had a crush on and one day she told me that she idolized serial killers which was an instant turn off, so I stopped like her but she persisted that she own the right of me to like her because she told me a secret and I was like “sorry I don’t wanna be affiliated with someone who thought Jeffery Damher did nothing wrong and whosaw him as your “spirit animal””
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The worst part of this is that she has to be apologetic and kind to this lunatic because she has to go back to class with him for the rest of the semester. What a nightmare.
on top of that........she also doesnt want to run the risk of him regressing even further and harming her all cause his feel feels got bruised. .............a shitty thing all of us ladies have to go out of our way to be concerned about all cause some guys dont know how to just be fukin normal.
@@Vicieronmost guys*
@@Vicieron which sucks because it's resulted in guys who aren't psychopaths getting ghosted when they're rejected instead of a simple "sorry not interested." Getting ghosted hurts so much more. But I blame guys like the one in this video for women having to do that.
Makes me think of all the girls who've had to go back to school with their rapist...1000x worse. Having to see them everyday, laughing and acting normal. What hell it must be. So many schools and universities are evil for doing this
A=B
Imagine getting rejected and immediately giving them a sneak peak at the horrible relationship they've just dodged 😅
There was no relationship dodged. It was just some random abusive creepy dude with nonsensical expectations and no connections with her except a class project. Nothing close to a relationship to be dodged.
@@SpaceTrashCrash theyre saying there was a potential relationship from the weirdo dude's perspective. on top of everything you said being true, she had a boyfriend...obviously a relationship wasn't actually on the table lol
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@@Mr.Lightshine why would he send poeople to hell
@@zaidnava3728same reasons you’re parents/parent would ground you
She should've notified the teacher of this harassment. He should have been suspended for this.
I’m pretty sure it isn’t harassment. Not in school policy (happened to me)
It’ll only work if he’s threatening her or bullying her which he isn’t
In this case she should have confronted him about this face to face. Not through text messaging to make sure your message is clear.
@@robjoemama2466 no way. that could get her killed. and unfortunately, the school would likely not do anything about this.
@robjoemama2466 That's how women get killed. Can always tell when it's a dude making a comment... men have assaulted and murdered women for much less than a face to face rejection. We have to play the field smart. One wrong move with the wrong psycho can spell death.
The “I thought you meant a boy you were friends with” is absolutely wild, because he either is a master at hopium/gaslighting himself, or more likely, he well understood that she is taken but thought he was such top shit that she had fallen for him despite her relationship. So he just lied about having misunderstood the “boyfriend picking me up” thing to, in his mind, save face and/or even throw in a little jab about her “wrong” behaviour of going to a guy’s house when she’s in a relationship. Bro needs intervention.
“Hopium” I’m crying 😭😂
I think you nailed that hypothesis right on the head my guy.
YOU LET ME BUY YOU A PIZZAAAA
It really is crazy how his initial text really was a perfectly good example of how to ask someone out and he immediately becomes captain cringe from 2014
apparently, the proper response--"oh, I'm sorry, no offense meant" is just too hard for today's technically male dudes out there.
thats either the hallmark of a socio/psychopath or a majorly emotionally unstable individual. going from perfectly normal to batshit insane at the drop of a hat is the biggest red flag of all time, glad the woman got away from this weirdo lol
Yeah that was good the way he responded to the fuckin declination that’s the issue
@@CB-vt3mx I don't get this, the response to what?
@@gorb688he is saying that after the girl says that they have a boyfriend, the guy should have said what the commenter said and then move on. He is agreeing that what this guy said was stupid.
This is all extremely cringe, but the "you should pay 2/3s because you ate more" absolutely killed me with second-hand embarrassment.
@@MamadNobari dude that is the most cringe beta butt-hurt shit I’ve seen in a long time. If I was that girl, I would’ve just showed my boyfriend the text messages and I guarantee you we would both be laughing our ass off.
@@MamadNobariasking someone to pay for food days after you told them it was your treat is already ridiculous regardless of the intent. Being that obtuse abt a pizza of all things is even worse. I can understand if it was like a $50 meal at a restaurant but a pizza? What's next, pay me back for a happy meal?
@@MamadNobari That would be considered very abysmal social etiquette, especially after telling somebody that the food is your “treat” initially…and considering the other details relayed in the text messages showcasing that this guy is being unnecessarily spiteful
@@MamadNobariaint no way 💀
Someone at my college the other day paid for me a small cup of coffee for 25 cents because I forgot my wallet and no joke he wanted my number and went out of his way to send a payment request for literally 25 cents.
I had a similar experience in college. After finishing a project with my partner I asked her out. She said that she was “too busy with school, but thanks.” Except I just said “ok, had to try” and moved on with my life, even though I thought it was a bs excuse . At graduation she received some academic award for getting degrees in chemistry AND computer engineering. Then I realized that she really was too busy - and way out of my league
I applaud your humility, stranger
She wasn't out of your league. Don't put yourself down. She's smart. So what? Maybe she's a nightmare girlfriend.
@@racheljames7so because a women is smart she would be a nightmare gf?😂 u sound insecure
@@rubikksu3913Guess you missed the "maybe" part.
@jdubo1998 guess you missed the part where she had to put another woman down to make OP feel better. But you are right, the "maybe" makes it better. She could have just said the positive former part and left it at that but go off.
I FULLY understand why she didn't want to escalate.
I'm a teenage girl. A boy a bit older than me at work (I'm a waitress) messaged me asking if I had been in any relationships, and when I said no he asked if I was a virgin. I just said yes but quickly passively mentioned I liked a girl in my class, hoping he would understand. Instead he asked if I was Bi or Lesbian. When I said Lesbian he asked a slew of questions. Will I ever find the right man? When did I decide to be gay? I just answered very passively, because he knows what way I walk to get home (in the dark, mind you, since my shifts end around 9-10) and it's not worth the risk. He closed out with a charming question that damn near turned me straight: "do you have any slutty friends that are also hot because i'm feening for a girl right now 😜"
People like that are deranged. Trying to reason just makes them more mad, and it's not worth your safety.
I get it. Stay safe
@@scrim2518 still a teenager
@@scrim2518 nope, it's 13+ lmao (and i'm 15)
@@antsy._.artist778if a girl talked to you the same way that guy did would you be into her? It's not rocket science, just avoid all people who talk with slang terms and swear words because they're lowlives, male and female, problem solved.
@@antsy._.artist778 Jesus Christ I so glad i'm not a Gen Z Women lol
Him saying "I thought you meant a boy that you were friends with" is the stupidest thing I've seen this week. She straight up told him she has a boyfriend. I don't even know how much in denial you have to be to hear a woman say, "My boyfriend is going to pick me up" and then assume she's not in a relationship.
Completely delusional. It makes me sick
what was even more stupid has him thinking he was gonna get laid for buying pizza. then i got a pizza ad and had to laugh.
I don't see her saying anything other than this. What else could be there?
- _My boy is picking me up_
- _My sweet potato is picking me up_
- _My dearest is picking me up_
😕
I think that's his fucked up way of being like "I assumed that cause there's NO WAY you'd have agreed to go to a BOY'S HOUSE IF YOU HAVE A BOYFRIEND, why would you do such a thing".... what a twat
It's even dumber of him thinking he's got a "gotcha" moment of him trying to make her look unfaithful because she's in a house with another guy, who is working with, on a project.
his dumbass wouldn't think that even if she wasn't at his house, she would had to work with him regardless if in each other's house or not.
it really saddens me to see how many times she had to apologize despite the fact she did nothing wrong
saddens u to see basic human decency? 🤣 least musty death note fan 😭
@@monwe8050 babygirl watch how musty i can get ❤️
@@monwe8050 elaborate? i dont really see a reason why she had to apologize in the first place.
@@monwe8050thinking that "basic human decency" is having to apologize to the person abusing you 🤣 least musty youtube commenter
@@lemoniphobia go outside touch grass 💀 if u have basic human decency u wouldn't ask such a stupid question🤣🤣
5:47 The "you ate more of the pizza than I did so you should pay for like 2/3rd of that" killed me 🤣🤣
this is absolutely terrifying
her being polite is honestly a safety mesure
The saddest part of this is that he actually asked her out in a really nice and respectful way. All he had to do was just not act like a complete psycho after getting rejected and the two of them could have still been on good terms.
its pointless if there will be no love girls bring nothing to a friendship
@@Positivity337ok jimmy no mates
@@Positivity337found the guy
@@Positivity337ayoo why you trynna befriend 'girls'? 🤨
@@bearwitty9690 who said i was tryna befriend girls im saying girls bring nothing to a friendship the same ways guys can guys can defend you help you out of a bad situation girls cant do that the only reason for a girl is sex or a romantic relationship nothing more they cant back you up or get you out of a bad situation
I absolutely fucking hate watching cringe. But Charlie helps me through it, like a security blanket
i get the second hand cringe so bad man lol
like it physically hurts.
My farts are better than Charlie’s farts
fr
Fact
I come for lines like "he didn't get his winky stinky" 😂
04:15 It's the Fresh and Fit/Andrew Tate way of thinking - if your girlfriend makes eye contact with another guy she's cheated on you and she "belongs to the streets". It's so pathetic.
8:05 I remember teachers saying like "it's just a group project, you're only working together today, it's not like you're getting married to your partner" I guess this guy wasn't paying attention for that part
If she'd said "I can't work on the project at your house my boyfriend wouldn't like it" he would've started in on how controlling he is, it's just a school project etc etc.
There’s no winning fr
If she said she had a bf outright, he’d complain that he wasn’t interested anyway and why did she even bring it up?
True, he’s the real victim of course
Him "Why does your male friend get to decide your actions?"
There is literally no winning with these kinds of guys, they will just make BS up as they go to sound like a victim and try to gaslight women.
the scariest thing is how respectfully he asked her imo, like if she said yes then this whole psychopathic unveiling wouldn't have been until after they were dating. hope this guy gets better soon
My farts are better than Charlie’s farts.
Yeah right the first message was sooo sweet, but as soon as she said "i have a boyfriend" he snaped
@@matiascandia1261 so sad when you see people snape
@@Cj_Dookcringe
@@p-__cringe
The most wild part about it is that his attempt to ask her out was really quite benign. There wasn't anything wrong with the way he made that approach, and she said thanks that's sweet but I'm in a relationship. That shouldn't have been a confrontation but he sure as fuck turned it into one.
He was doing absolutely fine until she said the trigger phrase
Triggered the sleeper agent or sth
That's the problem. There is no way to know a good man from a bad one until the bad one shows his true colors.
It’s only a mask hiding his true self. She sure would’ve dodged a real bullet then
The “Dont leave me on read” is criminal like WHO ARE YOU??
A bigger sin than cringe is enjoying watching cringe. I pray for your safe recovery Charlie
My farts are better than Charlie’s farts 💨
@AntiOfficerBMTNuh uh it’s 10:05pm. Also trying to make fun of them is useless, it’s just a soulless bot or idiotic 5 year old that’s copy and pasting the same thing.
gyat.
O.o
LOL
Listen to Solar Kama Sutra
It's such a weird split too, I could sorta get it if it was some restaurant and she asked for much more expensive food, but it's a goddamn delivery pizza, you either split it equally or someone takes the bill in full
uhm actually you ate 7 pieces and I only had 5, that costed 20 dollars that "I" worked for, so uhm yeah, if you could zelle me that 11.67 that would be great, DON'T LEAVE ME ON READ🤓😡
He really needed that one single dollar
Maybe she ate 2 thirds of the pizza?
imagine offering a guest a pizza and then breathing over their shoulder counting how many pieces they take
She is a SAINT tbh,, he is actually like an extreme satire of “nice guys” to the point where he is terrifying
She has survival instincts.
She gave this dude WAY more if her time and energy than he deserves. She didn’t owe him a single explanation past the first “thanks but no” and yet she continued to validate her responses. So much patience; could never be me 😳
I 100% get why she’d be nice to him, especially if she has to go to class and see him every day and he knows that as a part of her schedule. I’d play it safe too, people are just wild.
Absolutely, I was hoping someone else would say this. She doesn't want to start shit with a man she's going to have to see all the time, especially when he already isn't taking rejection well. Colleges are notoriously dogshit at helping in these situations too
Yup if they're in the same year and major they'll have lots of classes together. Not just this semester.
yea like men have murdered women for less ffs
Could you imagine if she didn't have a boyfriend and said yes to the date? She dodged an absolute nuke there.
Yeah, someone above pointed out how scary it is that his initial ask came across very respectful and polite. If she had said yes she wouldn't have gotten this whole psychopathic unveiling until who knows how long into their date/dates.
@@HexFemboymaybe he just doesn’t take rejection well
@@UndeadSlayer5”Not taking rejection well” isn’t an excuse to take it out on the person rejecting you. Cry into a pillow or something, don’t start going on psychotic rants about the person who rejected you!
@@UndeadSlayer5 well yeah that’s the exact problem, he blew up and started losing his mind because she ain’t want him lmao, psychopath behavior
@@SchmeppieBoah no i am a believer of if they say no you can carve their eyes out and when they scream for you to stop then you give them the no answer
“You let me buy you a pizza” gives me the same intonation as in FF7 Remake when Jesse was dying slowly and Cloud Strife says “Yeah, you owe me a pizza.” as abruptly as it can be linguistically delivered.
So glad you have these views on this situation, me and my daughter go out and treat males as friends as we would females, for some reason people think because a female is friendly with a male they're up for it, so wrong 🙄
I have a feeling it’s also male loneliness and lacking of compliments coming to play. I remember i was literally struggling not to imagine my entire future with a girl in my class just because she laughed at my joke and called me smart once lol
His obsession with how weird he thinks it is that she is doing a group project with another guy really projects how he would be as a partner. After one dose of this "cringe" I'm already heavily addicted.
Yea seems to view women as walking vaginas that become their bf's property afer which any interaction with another man is a threat
He’s definitely the type to not be okay with her working with other men. Or even having one show up on her social media feed.
@@w0-.x.-0whey man at least you know you want to fix it / should fix it. It’s unhealthy because adults work work with other adults. It’s the real world. It’s humans. She’s not gonna only be talking to vjay owners my guy. There’s men out there. And she’s gonna have to interact with them. Therapy is the best step.
@@Booboobooboobpeople like that would never consider therapy. Either cuz of their ego or what it means to them to be in therapy, they wont
Like resorts but being narrated by Charlie can't go wrong lol
The "p***y to pizza transaction" is the 4th law of thermaldynamics. It cannot be violated.
@MamadNobari the 4th law of TD was discovered in the 1900's couple hundread years after Newtpn, around the time pineapple pizza was discovered. It has been tested with many different kinds of pizza, and not a single test contradicted the theorem.
This was the first case. NASA and CERN must be looking into this.
@@MamadNobarii know in America, its called "pizza to p****y transaction" instead, but here in Europa, p****y comes first.
I failed that subject :/
Is that how u get prostitution these days
I've always struggled getting that law.
For all you out there saying "oh just give a dude a chance! What's the worst that could happen??" These are the kinds of guys we're supposed to just "take a chance" with.
Not all men are like this but there's no way to know that ahead of time
Please don't stop making these vids. They are like a sweet nectar to me.
"You let me buy you a pizza" is what got me. I hate those type of people who will do something nice for you only if there is something they are getting back from it.
Jesus Christ condemned such behavior. If only these these dammed heretics had read His Scripture.
My mom
"Miss I inserted my nice guy coupon and you didn't fuck me, I don't think you understand how this works."
Toxic people push gestures on others that were never appropriate or wanted. This is so they can create a sort of debt in their minds that you owe them for the thing they pushed on you or even did against your wishes. And that debt always just so happens to be the value of "whatever I want from you for as long as I wish." And this will range from everything from anything from noticing you exist to uncomfortable compliments to buying you a super expensive gift (including when you've already rejected them multiple times and have purposely kept your distance from them for weeks) to tracking you down online to send you unwanted messages. It's horrifying.
My favorite part was when he said "You let me buy you a pizza" as if he felt the most betrayed by that
who is gonna say no to free pizza lol
These kinda guys always view everything as transactional. If they're paying money and not getting something in return then they genuinely do feel betrayed, because then they gave something and got nothing - because doing something out of pure kindness is not on their radar at all.
@@DaShikuXIbuddy if you're in fucking college and you think spending 15 dollars on pizza equals lets go out on a date with a gorl
Than your delusional no guy has been taught this even if there were guys who were taught that transaction can equal to getting girls
Fucking buying pizza is the like the most brain dead thing you could come up with to get a girl
Most guys have common sense no guy should think pizza is a gateway
To all their girl problems its just this guys a loser he clearly doesnt have a father figure to teach him common knowledge
@@DaShikuXIthere is no guarantee that's the part most men miss. Kind of like birds who perform for female birds, once they're done dancing, they wait and see if the female bird accepts the courtship. Human males seem to forget the woman's decisions is ultimately up to her
Well yeah man, the Pizza-pussy exchange rate has been really screwing guys over recently. Inflation and all that, tctctc. What has the world come to
Charlie, it's really comforting to see that influencers like you still have a semblance for how normal irl interactions go and after everything you've seen online still being able to empathize with those caught in these cringe situations. Keep up the good work!
Based on this convo alone I can tell he would be an increadibly insecure and controlling partner.
Exactly like jonas hill just need to learn therapy speak to disguise his controlling nature
@@FS-qk5uq Jonah aint nothing like this. a dude can have preferences without being controlling. wild take there bud.
@@FS-qk5uqJonah hill wanted monogomy from a women who wanted herself out there. American culture is so weird man, literally anywhere else where love is still real this isnt an issue
@@FS-qk5uqur an absolute clown
@@benjamindover4731 "Wanted herself out there" She's a model of sportswear, Benjamin. Working adults have business partners of both sexes. No seriously, you can't be this pathetic of a boy to not have friends of opposite sex, Benjamin.
You guys are the dudes Charlie clown on and I wish you a speedy recovery from cringe.
It never fails to amaze me how people show their worst sides after being rejected. If they had a moment of self reflection they'd realize that behavior is the reason why they're single
not really there a lot of reasons the main ones if your not rich or fit then you get no one or if you do you will be cheated on and left in the future
You mean financially stable and healthy? Go out more often.
@@tx5855unless you make 6 figures or have the body of an athlete they don't want you or they will leave and fuck another guy that does have all that
@@Positivity337 that's the entry level of the incel mindset.
@@Positivity337 No you wont, majority of people in the world arent rich so that just logically cant make sense and being fit isnt changing much either if the person isn't huge on physical appearance. I know dudes who like + sized woman and are as skinny as me. I hope you arent like this dude in the video lmao
I asked a girl out recently, and she told me she had a boyfriend. I apologized, told her I had no idea, and that I wouldn't have asked had I known that. The end.
I promise it's not that hard to just move on when you get told no.
Exactly, maybe throw a "he's a lucky guy" at her and move on
💀 bro forgot they had a boyfriend
@@adammonsterzero No, I just didn’t know she had one.
@@bobertbopala I assume they mean she said "I have a boyfriend"
@@bobertbopala LMAO that was a typo 💀
It's genuinely scary how instantly manipulative he got. No hesitation whatsoever.
I need you to keep doing these. It makes my work day so much better.
As a woman I love that you use your channel to call out this “nice-guy” rhetoric. You are doing the world a great service.
As a channel I that you love use your call to out rhetoric this "nice-guy". Doing a world the great you are service.
@@DudeMcSky As a regular person, I think you're suffering from a stroke and should call emergency services immediately
Admin, please ban.
@@DudeMcSkyare you Yoda?
"aS a woMAn🤡🤡" stfu literally anyone with common have these takes 🤣
its crazy how his first message is a perfect A+ on how to shoot your shot without being weird or trying too hard to sound cool. All he had to do was stop there and take no for an answer.
Seriously. He was good. Just respond that he’s a lucky guy and he leaves a winner
There is always the possibility that she ends up breaking up with that guy and remembers "that guy I did that project with was cute and respectful, I should hit him up!"
It's a long shot, but hey, it could happen! But no, he ruined that.
@@headkicked Even that I don't know about, you should have more self respect than be waiting in a line until she's available. If she's taken, acknowledge that and move on it really isn't difficult
@@keplar7243you just ruined every tv plot
@@keplar7243 he's saying that the option's still there, you should 100% move on. But there's always a possibility later on that you're both single and she hits you up.
I'm 21 and single and not really happy about it but these men make me feel so much better about myself, usually when I ask a girl something and she ignores or rejects you just end it there, i don't understand the idea of pushing and pushing as if that will change anything at all
Bro thought he was the main character. 💀💀💀
He could've just said "oh sorry, I forgot you have a boyfriend" after getting rejected, and just deal with a week or two of awkwardness. Instead, he decided to go full nuclear for no reason - she's lucky she has a boyfriend, because she definitely dodged a bullet with this guy.
She didn’t dodge a bullet she dodged the full barrage
He got his pizza money back.
She clearly led him on - I mean she was a woman existing in his presence. Indecent!!
Seriously though, dude sounds unhinged, like he was twisting reality in his head to suit this idea that they were having a romance. Them being in the same group was her "choosing" him. Her coming over to his house to work on a project was a statement of her availability. Her accepting pizza was a date. Her saying the words "my boyfriend" became "a boy who is my friend". The whole thing is scary.
You are so right
Why would you accept pizza from a normal guy in that instance? You dont think that is wierd at all? "Oh let.m3 buy you a pizza, friendly classmate". So wierd dude, Girls wanna have it all.
@@zegikniet9999 because it is literally just a pizza.
@@zegikniet9999is "accepting an offer to share food at someone else's house" where we're getting tripped up here? you've gone to other people's houses, right?
@@zegikniet9999That's literally not weird at all. People sometimes offer things like drinks and food when they're hanging out. It's a part of social etiquette. I once accepted coffee from a classmate of mine after the first conversation I shared with her. Me accepting that coffee wasn't me telling her I was down to fuck, it was simply accepting the offer of coffee and a conversation. You just sound like you don't socialize offline.
I just found your channel today and I am an instant addict! It's like every time I hear these stories I can pinpoint an experience that I've had that is so similar... I haven't always fall in for these horrifying fakes, but I have had these weird experiences where people are so staged and crazy, and they actually think they are God's gift to women.... They shoot their shot without any hesitation.
I stopped going to college classes in person because of a guy like this. He’d wait outside my class (he wasn’t in) to the point where my classmates started to get concerned and walk me.
Dude didn't just bark up the wrong tree he chose the wrong cactus. She said she had a boyfriend, she didn't choose him to be a partner on the project, and yet he still asked her out and got delusional af when she unsurprisingly shot him down. I will never understand that mindset.
see, you're coming at it as women = human. when it gets like this, women aren't human anymore, they're objects to further your own self-worth/power/pleasure/whatever
p fucked yea
Average red pill Andrew Tate consumer
@@aidenusmani5882 My thoughts exactly
@@aidenusmani5882zip it up when ur done lil bro
This was I assume a team school/work project. And he obviously didn't knew her before, so next time he will hopefully know better than to pay everything for a complete stranger. Of course if he don't ask, she won't tell and of course, if she can have attention and free stuff, she won't tell about her boyfriend either. His reaction was inappropriate obviously but next time he'll know better hopefully. When I was young, many, many years ago, I too have been way too nice with a girl expecting something but the girl in question was acting like she was interested, but always had some excuse to never go on a proper date, so after few times, I just stopped and moved on. I didn't act unpleasant or rude, I just moved on and stopped giving that girl any attention other than being polite. But it was in high school, after that one time, I never did it again. But that was many decades ago. The guy should have just moved on.
Literally at the part where she first says "I have a boyfriend", that's the point I apologise profusely, die of embarrassment and then curl up into a ball wishing I'd disappear 😂 I don't get why some people think it's ok, logical or mentally stable to continue pursuing after that.
Because they're snowflake incels who think they're special and don't know how to take rejection, especially from women. They think women are objects to do their bidding, which is why they're incels in the first place.
The most cringe-worthy part is the reveal that she told him way before this interaction (my boyfriend will pick me up). *And he assumed she meant a friend who happened to be a boy.* 😬😬😬
@@user-fg4tn8ot6b Indeed, and also the most scary part. I bet she had to really think it through at how to respond to that 😳 being in the same class and all.
I would not trust that guy. It's what true crime shows are made of! 😱
The scary part is in the past creeps were more likely to grab your butt or stalk after that line.
@@user-fg4tn8ot6b Which is super hypocritical since in his opinion she shouldn't hang out with a friend who is a boy if she is already in a relationship. 🤣🤣
I LOVE these kinda videos , you should definitely keep doing them from time to time!!!!
I literally love when you make videos like this do not stop please
As a woman, it’s basically second nature to resort to tip toeing in order to avoid escalation and to try to stay safe. Even with being kind we still face backlash as illustrated by this story. It’s nothing recent
100%
Yeah all bc some idiots don’t know how to take a simple no 🥲
yes like wtf is going on with some people. and there shitty narrow thinking
femicide has only been increasing, i'm not tryna get adventurous with my ablity to live
Damn women are so weak
As a woman - can't be overstated how much I've appreciated Charlie gunning for women and pointing out the pathetic self-serving bullshit guys do to get them to do what they want. It's such a welcome change of pace amongst all of the other garbage being spewed out there about how to get and deal with women. It's part of the reason I've been watching you for so long. Seriously, props, Charlie - you rock.
Agreed. Charlie's real and level headed, it's why I'm here
Man bashing in 2023? Ya, he is so brave.
@@shanegrayson7068man bashing?😂😂more like exposing a delusional entitled weirdo
@@shanegrayson7068 This is a self report. Good work, bud.
@@shanegrayson7068Dude typed ‘Ya’ instead of yes unironically
That guy is a legitimate danger to others with a reaction like that. He needs to be watched.
The very first screenshot is kinda smooth and sweet and id like to imagine a better timeline where the guy takes no for an answer and he accepts having a new friend
I legitimately felt scared for her when reading the texts. I’m glad the exchange wasn’t in person because I feel like it’s things like this that turn into stories like the stabbing and killing of the girl last week where she rejected flowers. It’s scary how simply rejecting someone could put you in danger as a woman.
me too. If a guy acted like that to me, I would absolutely be afraid.
Yeah, I'm a gay dude but I understand why she was being polite and trying to de-escalate the situation as much as she could.
@@TanyaQueen182me personally, I wouldn’t take shit from a loser like this, acting like a fucking toddler, dude is quite likely to be a weak little man that tries to feel strong by being aggressive with women, definitely would be able to take him in a fight. I’m sick of these assholes thinking they’re so high and mighty because they think women are obligated to fuck them 💀
Yea it’s scary to deal with people like that
We live a world where it's very smart for a woman to have a firearm on them or at least have some kind of defense. Women aren't safe in this climate, especially.
Being confrontational without proper defense could have landed this girl in deep doo-doo. I can't believe she would even go to his house! Incels are very dangerous, and people underplay that big time. They're so delusional and unhinged that they'll throw away everything just to have a mini victory story. He might have even held it against her if she offered to pay for that whole pizza, "like are you calling me broke?!"
These young guys have the emotional intelligence of a gnat but yet are super sensitive. You have to be smart when dealing with these nematodes. It just makes me so happy that I'm too disgusting, broken, and old at 31 years old to warrant any attention from them personally.
There’s five steps to quitting an addiction to cringe, sadly, I don’t know them.
My farts are better than Charlie’s farts 💨
Maybe just don’t watch cringe
@@CrewmateComplexXPyou have an amongus pfp in 2023 NO YOU ARE NOT 😂
Im 100% better and cooler then charlie 😃😃
NO WAY, I JUST MET CHARLIE ON MY RUclips! 100% REAL! (OMG HE JUST CAME TO MY HOUSE AT 3 AM!)😱💯
I love when you do these types of videos, more people should be aware that people like this exist. Also you had me rolling 😂
I'm lolling at "Don't leave me on 'Read'" 🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂
Damn it Charlie! You told me you’d never let this get to you again! 3 years of therapy for nothing
My farts are better than Charlie’s farts 💨
Im 100% better and cooler then charlie 😃😃
@@SussyRobloxLordcease your trolling
NO WAY, I JUST MET CHARLIE ON MY RUclips! 100% REAL! (OMG HE JUST CAME TO MY HOUSE AT 3 AM!)😱💯
omg the bot attack
as a woman i've become accustomed to gently rejecting men who show me the slightest bit of interest out of fear. about 2 months ago i ran away in the middle of the night from a friends house after rejecting a man's advances (i just met him 2 hours before) where he started yelling and raising his fist at me when i said i didn't want to date him, i was terrified. i literally just talked to him and everyone else, no flirting whatsoever. it was nothing but lighthearted convos and banter yet he couldn't handle me saying no, i was super chill about rejecting him too and specified it wasn't personal and that i just didn't want to date. he held back his own fist from hitting me, and that's when i bolted for the door.
sadly though i went on a date a few years back where a man bought me $5 worth of dumplings (i offer to pay for but he said it was his treat) and he harassed me for hours on end until i gave in and let him sleep with me (it lasted 30 seconds) but i was scared of being hurt, he was yelling at me a lot too and had at least 50 pounds on me so i couldn't fight back. a lot of men equate time and money (literally 5 dollars) with a woman with sex, it's scary when you know women are killed for rejecting men for such things, this is real and it happens sadly. my friend was assaulted for rejecting a friend of 4 years and just saying no to sex, it's so scary but i'm glad she's okay, he was never charged despite the evidence.
Wow, just wow. The fucking balls on these “men”. From a man I’m sorry you ever had to breathe the same air as these lowlifes.
lol
Actual horrifying stuff. I'm so sorry that these have been your experiences. The world is unbelievably cruel to women.
@@dim4757 and men tf you mean women? women have it easy
@@Positivity337what do u get out of being a troll lol
please never stop these i live for them
youtube thought they could beat me with the adblocker they could not, but i only unblock the ads for youtubers i like, you're one of them.
03:33 that's the best part for me. Like buying someone a pizza is a universal contract, where she had to reply: 'Sorry, I cannot accept this pizza. I am already in a relationship.'
You're joking, but if a random stranger of the opposite gender suddenly insists on treating you, that should instantly tell you that they're potentially interested and you should insist on paying your part unless you want to risk such a conversation later on.
I see your point, this might actually be an issue for some people
@@ser6Ijvolk This wasn't a random stranger though, this was her classmate and project partner who was hosting her at his home. It's fairly common when hosting someone that the host is the one who'll pay for take away. Also insisting on paying your half for something while the other one is insisting on paying for all of it gets really awkward, one of you has to concede first. She offered once, but then he insisted, that's enough
@@lizzyluv96 A college classmate you're randomly grouped with is pretty much a random stranger. Hosting someone for work is different from inviting someone for entertainment. And however awkward insisting on paying your part might be, it's not as awkward as any potential misunderstandings that could result from you letting a stranger treat you.
@@ser6Ijvolkpaying 8€ for a pizza when you've invited someone over is not a romantic sign at all
this isnt just cringe its so scary for women like im scared for her
she was so gentle and nice and I hate how she was treated man... this sucks
Yeah like she has to go back to class with him and that's genuinely scary.
It's literally just cringe, stop with the fear mongering. You're scared about what actually? This is why we end up with these ridiculous ideas that women should be scared of all men.
@@DM-rc4yu Now that I think about it, I get what your saying and agree, but what makes it cringe?
@@DM-rc4yu nah man, you won't believe how many women tip toe around people like this guy just so they wouldn't be subjected to that guy's rage. On the other hand, if the woman was also replying with partially aggressive messages like that guy, then people would say that she had it coming (if that guy proceeded to do smth harmful). It's lose lose for women either way
I couldn’t agree more, interactions between people have become less and less. You made a good point here Ty.
I'm here with you down this rabbit hole. I can;t get enough of this stuff🍿
"You should pay for like 2/3rd of it" is absolutely bonkers
"he wasn't able to get his winky stinky" the bearded bard always expands my vocabulary
The bearded bard is now my favorite of Charlie's titles 😂
We all have our addictions growing up as well as our guilty pleasures. I have my addictions to junk food and video games that I have been trying to shrug off for years. I am 29 years old and sometimes I can get tempted to this day by those things.
This is so sad😔
I hope you get over that addiction 🙏
So many people die from cringe every day
Honestly, even if she wasn't taken, that wouldn't stop her from not being interested in him, you shouldn't accuse someone of supposedly "leaning" on you because they did nice things to you, like shocker, a person did good things to you? couldn't believe it! those are definitely hints of someone liking you that way!
The same guys who complain that the nice guys never win
“You let me buy you pizza and didn’t let me into your pussy??? Modern women are something else…”
people never do nice things for me... probably cus I gots poop for a face
It’s what nice guys do. They play victim and read into things heavily.
They see girls being nice to them when it’s just the two of them as her being interested.
Rejection means that it’s everyone else’s fault but his. Pathetic really
My farts are better than Charlie’s farts
yeah like you can tell he thought about this shit a lot@@DereliqueMahBAWLS
like you buy friends pizza, but he thinks spending $5 on someone means theyre putting out or some shit. way over thinking it.
dudes keeping a list of all the nice things hes done expecting something in return.
Say cringe all you want, but I feel this video is really Charlie using his platform for good. He's spoken so much about growing up viewing women as "other", and inadvertently making girls uncomfortable or objectifying them as a result. He is such a good role model for young people who need to hear that it's lame to go through life only seeing women as possible romantic conquests.
I agree. I hope she never cashapped that asshole back either. Men, you don't get to buy someone food and sex tokens fall out. Don't offer to buy food unless you spell it out that you're trying to pay for sex. A sex worker will charge you 200$ an hour for sex, wtf makes these men think a 20-30$ pizza is worth a lay? If they want and expect sex, hire a sex worker. Stop trying to take advantage of women going about there lives, holy crap.
@@aydadae7337would you believe me if I told you that the smallest percentage of people in the world are paying for pizzas in return for sex
My farts are better than Charlie’s farts
Exactly what I was thinking
@@p-__exactly what I was thinking
I just discovered your channel... I love your videos! You're such an amazing character hahaha
As a woman i highly value charlies takes on these because it really does feel like hes one of the very few men on social media as an influencer that understands what we go through and takes the time to really talk about WHY we have to be careful with men and how thats not right. His videos just make me feel heard and understood.
a lot of men are incredibly possessive over women like this guy, believing that he's entitled to a girl because she worked on a project with him and ate food he bought
Yes, men love women
@@lafireteamplx3400This isn't love.
@@vamp5169 no, i love women tho
That's not what happened at all.
Guy is clearly a madman, but your mischracterization is even more mad.
Waiting for all the, "well actually girls are bad 🤓" comments
Nothing more dangerous than an insecure man. I feel bad for women who have to deal with these goobers on a daily basis
So do I. Be the change you want to see, and speak up where you can. Have a great day man, hope you’re doing well.
I was boutta disagree.
But then I remembered that pretty much every hyper-violent dude is either compensating for some insecurity, or a hyper-narcissist making sure those don't sprout up.
Good comment
Interesting perspective. Just don't push too far with it, could become the second "quiet kid == school shooter" stereotype.
@@nick1752how does feeling bad for women lead to school shooter in your mind
Goes both ways really. A woman can have a random guy arrested for “raping her” when he was across the street on his phone not even aware of her existence.
I am actually really learning a lot from this. I used to be a very fucked up person but listening to these stories is helping me know exactly how to better myself.
thanks for bringing light to things like this Charlie
I think a skill everyone should learn is how to take rejection and still be cool about it afterwards. Be it romantic or even work related.
That's facts.
a female should be talking bout rejection stfu 🤣🤣
No, people should learn how to get their pizza money back.
I was almost expecting Charlie to say he was hooked on Oreos again
he'd rather unlock the magic of cringe
ayo? oreos?
who wouldn't be honestly
Omg, that also happened to me. I don’t why, the body just ask for Oreos for some reason
Oreos are a blissful snack
Please charlie we need more content like this im begging
Charlie's definitely changing the way I handle things lol I used to be a careful guy who respects my girl's decision and years went by, I just went to the mentality that "she's obligated to talk to me, to care" and all some goofy shit. But now I know I was very very wrong at that point. Thank you Charlie.
Glad to see my Cringe dealer back, and working, and giving us all more doses of free cringe. On behalf of all cringe fiends... i thank you.
My farts are better than Charlie’s farts 💨
NO WAY, I JUST MET CHARLIE ON MY RUclips! 100% REAL! (OMG HE JUST CAME TO MY HOUSE AT 3 AM!)😱💯
These bots are in full swing💀
i was having withdrawal symptoms due to lack of cringe
nah keep it dawg
I have recently shaken my cringe addiction again so this is a hard watch.
Masculinity is such a paradox, the more you try to be the less you are.
How does somebody acting like this guy translate to you as trying to be masculine?
you dont know what true masculinity is then
@@EvilDick1995because toxic masculinity *leads* to the line of thinking that guy presented. ‘Women owe you sex if you’re persistent enough’ goes *way* back. If you’ve watched any old black-and-white Romance movie, you know what I’m talking about
@@user-wr9fr7ic2o lol yeah no. Literally no one believes that
Actually, tons of people believe it. There's a whole category of men who are misogynistic and sexual predators in their attempt to appear more "like a real man".@@EvilDick1995
2:07 "you're like a brother to me"
"But I'm your mother, son"
I'm asexual and aromantic and I was accused by nice guys of "flirting" or "clearly being interested"
It's absolutely delusional.
the amount of women who’ve been getting assaulted and sometimes even killed over the past year for rejecting men is getting to be genuinely disturbing so i don’t blame her for being worried
The amount isn't remotely high. Do you live your entire life on reddit??? Loser.
That amount is?
@@MrCmon113Enough to be disturbing.
it happens all the time. all it takes is for someone to be a little off in the head or let their emotions get the best of them and the whole situation goes down hill. its sad but it never stops.
@@MrCmon113you can easily do some research, but you know that question is in bad faith
LOVE WATCHING CHARLIE AS A CHICK. It's honestly so goddamn cool to know his audience is mostly young men. Even reading these comments I HAVE TO EXPRESS APPRECIATION for the GRAND GRAND majority of guys who clearly agree in thinking this is insane behavior. All you guys made me smile today. Thank you truly to all of you who have commented undesrtanding shit, especially in the replies to comment where women share an experience. You seriously all made my day
dw i would never do this to a woman because first i would need to talk to one and thats hard
@@angrywaffle427all it takes is being respectful. You'll do fine, Champ. Be polite and honest. If it doesn't work out then that's okay too. Just don't be that guy in the texts.
@@chmchn be respectful and u'll get dogged on 🤣🤣
@@monwe8050 what are you 13? Focus more about who you are as a person and less about how you'll look in front of your friends.
Keep that up and you'll develop terrible social anxiety
I appreciate Charlie because I didn't know this stuff happened as often as it does. Its insane to me the shear amount of people who have no idea how to communicate with others in the real world. I'm guessing its a vile combination of porn addiction, manosphere stuff, and never actually talking to women that gets most of the guys in this guy's situation. Its next level embarrassing and my sympathy for the women out there having to deal with that scary shit has multiplied 1000 times over. Stay safe out there.
Many thanks to Charlie for recognising that this woman's response was a safety mechanism. We all know fight or flight but fawn is also another instinctive response to a perceived threat - in this case apologising endlessly to reduce the chance of violence.
These are THE BEST of his videos.
This made me so anxious, you could tell how pissed that guy was. I hope she's safe. Encountered guys like this before and it's beyond terrifying. There's no 'right' thing to say or do. You just have to hope he doesn't snap and decide to murder you.
Riiight. Like when did saying no become a death sentence
I watched a lot of true crime shows when I was growing up in the 90's. The frequency of cases where a guy murdered (and often dismembered) a woman over rejection was disturbing.
Plenty of women have been killed for saying no
@AngryReptileKeeper I'm sure it feels like that, cause they don't make documentaries for guys who just moved on and take no for a answer.
@@Heraklianowell obviously not. It wouldn’t be much of an interesting documentary, don’t you think? They make lots of documentaries about murderers, but in this case the motive is rejection 🤷🏻♀️
"You let me buy you a pizza." Ladies and gentlemen, chivalry is not dead.
but maybe it should be
It's not dead but it's in a medically induced coma.
@@squidwardshouse5431And women put it there.
I wish people could deal with rejection better, just respond like “oh ok, sorry” or something other then going kill mode and getting aggressive for no reason.
I love when moist critical does the reading text messages of bad flirting and this was made in my birthday. What a legend
An ad played around 6:02 and when he said "your gonna". The ad said "drop your shorts", it caught me so off guard, lmao
RUclips harassed u
I know its been a while, but im really curious, what was the ad about? lmao
@@luazul_ I had to find it. It's for something called "DUDE Wipes". I guess baby wipes grew up lmao
Oh damn I guess I’m gonna drop my shorts
I've literally been cheated on under the guise of "just studying" and I still wouldn't read into this as deep as he did lmao
skill issue
typical Winston Churchill activities
I’ve been watching recently and I woke up my mom multiple times when watching these absolute gems lmao 🤣💀
This reminds me of a story about me talking to this girl a had a crush on and one day she told me that she idolized serial killers which was an instant turn off, so I stopped like her but she persisted that she own the right of me to like her because she told me a secret and I was like “sorry I don’t wanna be affiliated with someone who thought Jeffery Damher did nothing wrong and whosaw him as your “spirit animal””