What’s Next? - How to Detach After You Burn the Cape *Level Up Lesson*
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I’ve burned the cape with my relatives. I’m not a modern-day Mammy. I won’t accept drama or dysfunction. They made several attempts to guilt-trip me and I still remain consistent. Call me the Statue of Liberty because I’m standing on business. 🤣🗽
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I agree. The black men in my family I love them, but moved away from them and I do not live anywhere near a black community. I date out and don't care about black men. I do not have any black female friends who date or are married to black men either. Like many black ladies, I will soon be moving overseas to start a new life for myself, and I will never look back or come back. 🚶🏽♀️🧳🌏✈️
I burned the cape and buried the ashes in the ground.😊
Keep it up!
I'm proud of you 😊
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Sorry for coming back with a second comment, but I meant to include this in my original comment: Ladies, please explore hobbies and positive habits. It’s great to have other things to be excited or passionate about that are not related to race, race relations, colorism, etc. Today, I ran 10 miles in prep for the first half marathon I’m running in two weeks. I practice my guitar on Sundays, and my daughter and I have started painting together. Getting to know yourself and your likes/dislikes, talents, and aspirations is fun, and something we miss out on when we get trapped in the struggle cycle.
I take pole fitness, aerial silks, and lyra classes once a week. Have been doing so for almost 3 years and I am getting gooodddd lol. I am also a plant mom and have gotten into rehabing plants to enhance my skills. Having your own hobbies that you do on a regular basis fills your schedule and you heart for sure. I have to MAKE time to date and socialize because I have not made those things a necessity in my daily schedule.
Good luck. I run a 10k 2 weeks ago. Im planning on running a couple more in the future
🤨 "struggle cycle"?? 😒
Chrissie couldn't change the world on her own, but she did change many lives. Acceptance is necessary but don't ever underestimate your impact Chrissie you raised me. If I didn't find you at 19, I would still been chasing black male approval. I'd still live vicariously through the Kardashians. I'd still deny hating my hair texture amongst so many other things. I'm about to finish Law school and I want to live a life full of peace and happiness. Chrissie also your intelligence and your strength as a dark skinned girl. You don't usually come across such a self assured representation of a black woman. You taught me I could be that way ❤
Funny and sad at the same time 😂❤🎉
Facts...I remember carrying so much emotional weight as a teenager and I would vent to people who just thought I was carrying the world on my back. Finding like-minded Black women spaces like Chrissie's channel, was the best thing that ever happened to me. The wealth of knowledge and advice received, I would PAY just to ensure that all the other little Black girls have it. I have well rounded understanding of this world so hardly anything shakes my core now. From a caterpillar to a butterfly, I have gradually reached to a point where I focus on me and my happiness . I have completed my medical degree and I'm ready for my next chapter :)
@@cygnetlake8017 God bless you ❤️
@@pronoms blessings to you as well :)
Everybody got to focus on themselves regardless of race. Black community is doomed cause we are so far gone. A lot of bw are so hard headed, sometimes I want to knock some sense into them.
Chrissie is 100% correct. Black women listen up. Summer is quickly approaching and in addition to burning the cape is taking this summer to get your mind right, your money right, your US passport, and your body right. If you live in a black community, then you need to do everything in your power to MOVE OUT and find yourself a nice place in a NON BLACK neighborhood so you can have some peace and safety. Change your environment and you will see how much better you will feel. If you can travel then do it. Don't be afraid to get out of your comfort zone and start dating out and experience the beautiful diversity of men.
YOU CHANGE YOUR ENVIRONMENT AND YOU CHANGE YOUR LIFE🤷🏿♀️
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It’s funny because the things you listed just kinda naturally happened in my life 😂
You spoke nothing, but facts. I recently moved to my first luxury apartment. Girl! I feel CHEATED! Y'all never told me it was this good.
Outside of the obvious benefits (animities, cleanliness, interior design), it's the energy. It's so much more peaceful and calm. My stress level has gone down by a noticeable amount. The people are so much nicer and more civil. Especially men. For example, the only time I ever open the front door is when I'm not around a man. If there is a man, 100% of the time, he opens the door for me. It doesn't matter if they have their hands full. They rather put the stuff on the ground, just to open the door for me. It's little things like that, that make a huge difference in the quality of my life.
@@KDbelieves I’m in my second month of living in my high rise luxury building and everything you said is spot on!😘🥰 I’ve decided i deserve to live this way.
I burned my cape with BM and pickme BW. I don't waste my time nor energy explaining anything to them anymore. They dont listen nor care. Im not about to keep getting called bitter, angy and hater. I'll let them have it. ❤
Im so tired of the trauma bond and focusing on BM. I want bw to just focus on us and what we have going on.
Every second….passing minutes…lol, it’s gives the ammo, we can’t say we don’t care for them and talk about them at the same time!
Chrissie, did you see how so many black women ( mostly Pro-Black Plantation Black Women) were crying about the black athlete who was with WW? So sad. Those were the black women who were still obsessed with black men and felt that the only men for them were black men😞
There are so many other races of nonblack men who are great guys and would make great boyfriends husbands and fathers for black women. As a black lady, I hate to see black women thinking that they are stuck and trapped and beholden to black men when we are not. You are right Chrissie we as black women need to stop being emotional and burn the cape and move forward🦸🏿♀️
This video is so timely. I had to reset my algorithm on tt because it was filled with "why athletes don't want bw.
@lowkey3047
I refuse to allow myself to be obsessed with a group of men who have clearly stated that they do not want me. Too many men of other ethnic groups for me as a black lady to choose from☺️
@@lowkey3047I don't live in America like the rest of you
But I have a friend who lives there in California and also as a bff who is one of the coaches in NBA
The man said something that catches my attention about
How black men when they are Rich they go for white or light skinned women. But when they are broke they go for black women
This proceeds the narrative that black women are meant for poor lifestyle but white or light women are for luxious, and rich lifestyle.... 😢 this is sad
@@micahrose7566
True. It's the same in Brazil. The black soccer player like Pele` all have non black girlfriends and wives🤷🏿♀️
I see both sides. I get being indifferent, however it's normal to have a reaction to this. If most celeb bw always dated out, bm would feel the same. However complaining about won't change their choices. It just isn't a good look.
Lots of good points but one that really resonated with me is limiting social media and getting outside. Limiting the amount of time I spend on RUclips is what I need to focus on.
Having an essential/ non-WFH profession helps A LOT with this
I remove myself by leaving a job that is toxic. Also not being around family members that purposely sabotage others with bad advice/opinions.
Yep, people will hate and sabotage you for no reason at all (actually, because they are jealous and bitter). Smwholeheadhard.
Chrissie I am an etiquette consultant that has been watching your videos for almost 3 years and I love them! I own a finishing school that has finally started gaining black charm school girls and I love it because I get to teach them lessons outside of the culture. Right now they're learning about image, presentation, navigating other cultures and health & wellness, but in the future they will learn about dating, lifestyle, and even how to navigate (and deal with jealousy) in spaces as a feminine, prissy black women. Their parents love me and so do the girls and YOU encouraged me to try my best to get more black girls because it was hard at first lol. You would love these girls. They're so polite and proper!
Wow, I love to hear this! Thank you for your work and thanks for sharing🌹
Black women got Bryan Mcknights show in Detroit cancelled. It's working! We finally burned the cape!
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Thank you for this post. It confirmed my thoughts. This is literally the most selfish I've ever been in life, and I struggled at first. Months lately, I feel so proud of myself. I had a moment and was like, "I'm not here to save anyone but myself." Best decision I made.
I'm struggling with this rn. I need to learn how to be selfish
@smilemajik8189 I separated myself from anything or anybody that asked me to over commit without giving me direct benefits... including my job and family. It was necessary.
@@lishallure4030 thank you x
Trust
You’re not selfish. You’re taking care of yourself and putting you first. Putting like to gaslight us by using the world “selfish”. Nope we just living our lives in a healthy manner. While on the plane they even tell us to put our oxygen mask on before we attempt try to help someone else.
I’ve emotionally detached by deactivating my social media completely, I’m taking a detox, when I return I will have a completely different relationship with it. The effects of being chronically online make you fearful you don’t experience real life. I’m using all the resources I have to complete this nursing program by next year. My life is mine. I don’t need the online vultures to tell me how to live or the trends to tell me what my interests should be.
Wow just learned something from you now!
RUclips is social media
Love your profile picture. Very pretty 😊
This video is 100% exactly what I needed to hear right now. I listened to this video in the car driving home in the rain. A rainbow actually appeared in the sky. I took this as confirmation that this was a much-needed message for me.
I have been pondering on this very topic for about two years. I was heavy into the divestment information and groups from around 2015 until maybe 2021 or 2022. I was always reading, discussing, debating, in Facebook groups, on live calls, trying to educate friends, etc. At some point, I realized a lot of people weren’t using this information to level up, but to sit around and share sad sob stories, or to discuss openly and loudly to get attention and attempt to make BM jealous or upset. I noticed many weren’t using the information to actually level up. I saw people still making the same dumb mistakes or living the same lives as they were before they were “divested”.
I also started to notice the efforts to keep BW perpetually riled up. Not only from big corporations or content creators, but even from friends. Always sharing articles, memes or reposting status updates about something crazy a dusty said or did. Trying to keep people constantly outraged and emotional. I had some personal friends do this, especially when they sensed me pulling away and not entertaining that stuff anymore.
I left social media and cut ties with several people about two years ago. I’m done with the foolery and nonsense. I’m trying to be more intentional about the images and messages I let in from now on. I don’t even consume much divested content anymore. I feel like I’ve learned the lessons, now it’s time to put them in action. I want to actually spend time *being* divested instead of talking about divestment.
I’m about to re-listen to this and take extensive notes.
Thanks for sharing! I can so relate 🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿 I've learned enough; it's time to put my lessons into action. I'm no longer talking about divestment; I want to live life being divested. That's how I also feel about self help generally. I've spent years healing, learning, engaging with trauma off- and online and now, it's time for ease and peace and joy in my life ✨️♥️🙏
I've burned the cape years ago for the males lol didn't take too long y'all indoctrinated me since highschool s/o to BWE. But I've slowly come to the realization I gotta do the same for the women as well. I blocked my sister going on month 8 now. I only see her at family functions from now on and I feel great. She not begging for money, groceries for her multiple kids, asking me to drop everything to go pick them up or drop them off somewhere etc. I still love her and we amicable but I need to put my mental health first. I should've done it years earlier. 🙌🏿
I've never once babysat a kid in my adult life lol. I don't have kids of my own, so I don't play that. Only kids I "care" for are the kids I teach -- that's a job with consistent pay, benefits, & they go home.
Im here for positive discussions on how BW can do better for ourselves. Can we explore careers, talk about starting over in life, moving to other states, whatever so long as it uplifts us. There is more to life than men.
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Yes this 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
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Chrissie there was no one like you, all the way from South Africa 🇿🇦. There are so many similar themes and overlapping toxicity in our urban communities as well. Colourism is also extremely prevalent, thank you for touching us all over the world ❤. What a voice, I support this evolution and new chapter. We are choosing solutions now.
Black ladies all over the world are waking up and that is a good thing
Reigning in from UK 🇬🇧
No wonder. There has been an outpouring of misogynoir from SA men against women from other African countries. Like how on earth are you hating on your fellow black women because of low self esteem?
Mntase!!
@@chanettelaing4664same
I’ve reached this stage and have never been happier and more carefree. This video was needed to help push more black women forward. Thank you for sharing this part of your journey with us. ❤️
I burnt my cape after reading the comments on IG and after I had bm cuss me out online and bw too
I think we also need to realize, on top of what you said which I agree with, is that nobody has ever dealt with the issues that we have endured as black women. No one. I didn’t say people don’t struggle, I’m saying our struggle is specifically unique and we are the first in our bloodline to have these opportunities to even unpack all this stuff. I think about how we have internet and online jobs yet my soul is TIRED from so many battles seen and unseen. We don’t give ourselves enough credit. Yes keep your foot on your own Neck, but I’m learning how to be gentle with myself when no one in this world ever has, and it is tough. But I’m getting results. Love us ❤
Healthy boundaries ✨
Yes & they should be normalized 😊
…Avoiding online movements …
I resonate with that gem.
Ladies live YOUR LIFE unapologetically. Chrissis we love and appreciate your content.❤ We are right there with you, we’re not looking back…let’s go to the next level.🎉❤
How I emotionally detached from dysfunction: A lot of us have malignant shame, but pride and ego can prevent us from seeing how shame-based our thinking and therefore decision-making really is. Chrissie talks about low self-esteem and I think a lot of it springs from that. Started meditation, faced the shame and replaced it with empathy and indifference. It made it much easier to distance myself from people and ideas that kept me suffering
I laughed so loud when you said ugly people calling other folks ugly. I done gave up and went on back to Daisy’s world. I created this world long-time ago to escape these humans here on Earth. I'm tied! Not tired tied! It's getting worse in these streets.
I've always noticed the ugliest, most disheveled looking men go online to mock Black women and to tell them why they don't have a man. Many look homeless. Maybe that's why they're so angry.
Great video Chrissie. As usual, you gave a great commentary. Black ladies like me who have long divested from the community and black men. Some black women will live and die on the plantation soaking in a tube of the delusion of black love and Black family and this whole fake black utopia. The world is bigger than what we have been taught to believe in. We as black women with passports who are traveling and looking forward will be the winners👰🏿♀️🤵🏻♂️💖🚶🏽♀️🧳🌏✈️
Chrissie you have truly helped me over the years and i realized that Black men are the same whether they from the United States of America or they from South Africa call them out on their BS and they will play the victim 🙄. I truly appreciate your content thank you very much.
Yup, just as we shouldn’t make excuses for ourselves when it comes to making wise decisions we shouldn’t excuse the males of the whole diaspora
True, I agree 💯
This video is not about black men
Thank god for Chrissie helping me navigate these confusing 20s years 😩❤️
Ladies a real life example of this is I have a friend who was heavy into the decentering men content on tiktok. I mean the extremist aspect of decentering men. Not all, but most of her conversations with me were about men being awful. I decided to put some distance between she and I because I did not want that energy to impact my spirit. I actually don’t have any social media except RUclips currently as a means of detoxing from it all. Men are not perfect and are very different from women. They indeed come with their challenges. We all know that, however I have a great partner. This same friend is now dating and admitted to me that she actually wants what I have with my partner in her own life. Even when she was claiming to decenter men, her thoughts were mostly on men just from a negative vantage point. The same is true now but now with the desire to partner. Some of these women aren’t ever truly decentering men either way. My point is this: Chrissie’s video is basically saying not to tether yourself to any online ideologies or people for that matter because we don’t know what’s TRULY in anyone’s heart or their CURRENT purpose for a a particular belief system. What if I had adopted my friend’s outlook and ruined my relationship because influence is subtle. Be discerning ladies. Great video Chrissie!
That’s what happened to me, We had our own issues but the influence I had was not positive. I thought I was doing something right by bringing them along in my journey because it was the best thing that happened to me but it ended up backfiring because of their projections being disguised as “game” or “concern”. I kept my distance from them ever since but I now know better to trust myself and discern what’s being said.
Funny, now that I think about it, they didn’t really have all those concerns until I got with a decent man.
The main reason I slowed down on watching your videos is because I completely detached from our current culture. I completely let go! I still love to support you but I’m no longer concerned with “what do you bring to the table”, baby mama drama, Cheesecake Factory etc. I’m out of the loop unless I somehow stumble across it. And even then I rarely engage.
I learned what I had to learn from you during the pandemic and MOVED ON. No need to dwell. It’s unhealthy.
You really helped our community ❤ Thank you!
I agree, that’s where my mentality is now
Same!! I almost forgot she was still around. It feels so good not to be in the loop.
@@jessyy340 yes!
I feel like I been doing a lot of this stuff just as an introvert. I really be on my own reality 😆
All Facts! I’ve been commenting on BWE channels that BW should to practice “Indifference” for years! So glad to hear it here. It really is the only way for us. Center ourselves above everyone else.
I don't think it's necessary for BW to be part of a movement to level up. What we need to do as individuals is to make better decisions for ourselves. Ladies, please stop worrying about who BM are dating. I've learned a lot from this channel, and I like the fact that Chrissie's content is evolving instead of being stuck on the same topics like some other platforms. I had to sadly accept that some of my BW friends are still mentally stuck and don't want to move forward.
Congratulations to all of the BW, particularly the ones here who are young enough to start families. I just turned 55 and I won’t be giving birth to any more children but the idea that so many of you are working so hard on yourselves makes me so proud. Good luck and God Bless all of you in your endeavors. 😀
Chrissie’s channel is one of the best level-up channels for Black women regardless of shade. She’s the only one with any real strategy. I’ve stopped trying to convert other BW into divestors. I’m more focused on myself and I'm no longer trying to save this "community." I have too many friends who are BM worshipers and it’s exhausting. All my friends who exclusively date BM are sleeping with the same ones or going through drama. My new strategy is to try and make friends with international people of all races and hang out with a more intelligent group of people. Once you step outside the Black community, you’ll clearly see its lack of intellect and morals compared to other groups.
So true that's why I get shocked when ppl say that this a victim mentality colorism channel with no solutions. I'm like like "NOW I KNOW YOU KNOW THAT'S A BOLDFACE LIE"
I agree with burning the cape, but are you really saying that black people aren’t intelligent?
Not you worshiping other races 😂😂 Stop caping for them as well.
I liked your last statement a lot.👍🏼
Soooo true!
I think that BW as a collective need to accept that the community is a lost cause. We should get the education and training we need to make better money so we can move out of the "hoods" to safer areas. We need to stop being SJWs for everyone else and put our well being 1st. We should concentrate on health and fitness and leave toxic people (including family members) behind.
You change my life, all the way from 🇰🇪...and thats all am going to say because this is too emotional. Exactly 4yrs ago i watched your first video and now here I am, on the other side...You're an icon in my books, a Goddess.
My interactions with most black men just haven’t been good. I have an older cousin who’s like a brother and is a wonderful man. My two best friends I’ve known since high school are good people. That’s about it. The men in my family are abusive, users, and self centered. The black men who approach me in real life want something from me. Sometimes it’s money or resources they should be earning on their own. They’ll try to holla even though I’m married and clearly wearing my ring. They don’t respect me or any other women. I’m not dealing with that anymore.
Even the “good ones” I know have shown very vitriolic anti black woman sentiment
Same I think because I don’t get on with the black men in my family i don’t even care much for most of them like that anymore in real life 💯
@@ClayMastah344 exactly
I love this. Now that we have the knowledge it’s time to move forward and move differently. Take control of your life and lifestyle. Design your life the way you want it. Your life is your canvas. It’s summer time ladies and it’s full of sunshine, shea butter, goals and yes men. Have some fun!!!!
I know I have reached this stage bc I would see certain trending topics online and be like "oh we still having this discussion about a subject that has been dissected a thousand times? " or I would be like "oh wow these people are still emotionally invested huh?". The most recent topic being things like the NFL draft. But then I see a good number of women say it's 2024 and we don't care; and THAT makes me super happy :)
This is so Timely!!
Thank you for this. I've been feeling the exact same way. I am so tired of all the trauma, pain & suffering. Lets move on to higher vibrational things that make us better and happier ❤❤
14:50 I needed this to hear this in terms of toxic ppl in my life that don't understand or respect my growth... We tend to think that because someone has been in your life for a long time, we can't just cut them off..YES WE SURE CAN!
I did a similar thing. I removed my videos and I stopped talking about black men and colorism. Do I still stand by everything I said? Absolutely but its time to move on. I made my point and I don't need to deal with the Black Community's backwards way of thinking. Other black women are starting to get the message as well. I see more and more black women like me, happy and dating men regardless of race. Black women are starting to wake up. We can't save everybody but a change is happening.
The truth is that there is no such thing as the “black community “ I’m glad that I never fit in . I always lived in my own world
I love the picture of the sister with the Afro burning the cape.
Between the Kendrick/Drake beefs, Brian McKnight getting cancelled, DJVlad getting cancelled finally and Chrissie dropping a video...this is has been a great weekend for content ☺️
clicked sooo fast omg
You are very cute omg😊
Let discuss the long term plans after mastering the great escape and burning the cape.🔥
Ladies we are creating a new consensus, therefore, for the ladies who studied and did their homework and later passed their exams , we can now create a new curriculum (future content) on sharing fresh , fun life hacks on our new found, black women’s peace, fulfillment and sovereignty away from blackistian. ✨
I’m ready LET’s DO THIS…🎉🎉🎉
Awesome video! We need ti transcend & not walk around so angry!
I started watching your channel in 2017 and all I want to say is Thank you Chrissie. You have made such an impact in my life. As a dark skin black woman, I’ve been working hard to not see myself as victim and I’ve been working on curating a life that is beautiful for me. I detached myself from blackistan years ago and I’m so glad! I can’t wait to watch your level up content ❤. Love from 🇿🇦
I started crocheting as a hobby, mediation and exercise. I also started minding my business and asking myself "is this my business?" I noticed there's a whole lot of stuff that's truly not my business.
9 years is a long time and I think it’s really symbolic for you! 9 in numerology represents the ending of cycles and transformation!
I just want to thank you! I found you when I was a young adult struggling with my own low self esteem and dealing with the toxicity and devaluation that is consistently being pushed on us dark skin girls. You were very INSPIRING AND UPLIFTING! So just know that the work you’ve done has been POSITIVE and dare i say LIFE SAVING. Can’t imagine the woman I would be right now without your content.
Please continue making level up and life strategy content. It really hit hard when you mentioned watching content that doesn’t match your reality. Starting to currant my feed to my other interest and leaving ppl where they are at is a blessing. Thank you for your video❤
Side note: The left side of your thumbnail looks like a great cover for a book. If I saw that on kindle, I would've bought it in a heartbeat!
I feel like i needed to see this …. I have moved from the black community since like 2022 but i find myself still telling black women to date out , im done talking and time for me to really 100% leave it behind
AVOID MOVEMENTS OF ANY KIND
FACTS
I love the advice at 6:22! That’s me with Pinterest. It’s just all of my fashion, beauty and self-care stuff 😂 and of course, food ☺️
Your best video yet!!!🔥🔥
Love you Chrissie ❤ and your content 🫶🏾
Thank you for this! & more level up lessons please!
I never wore a cape never saw the point trying to save males
Thank you, Chrissie! 🥰
I’ve been slowly burning it with family. I just learned that in my family after 25 is old. Now some men think this way but to hear BW deadass equate 25, 33, 35, and beyond equivalent to 55+ is diabolical. Like my aunties really want you to dig down because you’re too old for this and that. Seeing 20s-30s BW concede to it in my family is deathly. I suggested something different instead of a tired ass dinner where we consistently ask each other how the food is. They fell out-it’s not like I suggested a club, bar, or lounge. Yet somehow the options are only a club if you’re under 24 and a restaurant if you beyond 30. Time to leave the nest frfr.
I needed to hear this. Thanks Chrissie ❤
I’ve been missing your videos!
Preach ❤ Nice video
As I elevate, I recognize toxic and negative people that are determined to remain stuck and I distance or completely remove myself and as you said, Chrissie, a lot of the issues that plague black community don’t apply to me directly so I’m just less invested
Yessss I’m excited for the DDS content
All these suggestions are spot on. Great video💗
Thank you for your videos ❤️❤️
You're communicating growth. You've grown and it's a wonderful thing. Stagnant people don't understand that.
Healing and wellness journeys are so worth it ❤
Chrissie big fan love you always ❤💯
You are absolutely correct sister! We need our own space ❤ Thank you
It was sooo many great points in this video!
much love chrissie
Finally the first comment! Love your content!!❤
Thank you for sharing your growth. Those struggle and dysfunction topics were starting to give me too much anxiety. Let's talk about what is possible for us.
Thank you for sharing this. I’ve been going through some changes & needed the support. I don’t have anyone and been on an emotional rollercoaster. I tried to have community with other BLK people especially BLK women but never came into fruition. Sigh. It is what it is.
Yes🙌🏾 thank you, I’ve recently been following Wedding and Bride pages, there are millions of people who are happy and in healthy relationships.
The images keep me focused on my goals and any negativity, imagery, commentary that does not align with my future goals are blocked.
We become what we consume🙏🏾 Find physical and virtual pages that only align with your dreams👑
Thank you for this video! I’ve tried to explain the whole “don’t join movements” thing for years but you have articulated it much better than I could.
Girl, Chrissie, you did your part, its okay to bow out gracefully from conversations that you just simply out grew, you are human!
I am thankful for your channel, you were the only source of validation for my pain and racial and community trauma, you healed me and made a difference in my life forever and now i am confident enough to go towards my own purpose which is also content creation.
Just know you impacted the people God intended for you to impact. And all the people stuck on stupid dont matter. Its part of the journey to shift focus on other things/ topics/ people that need your help.
Part of my detachment as you spoke of in the beginning was to stop watching your videos once i was able to accept the reality of what things are. We are black women but before the social labels we are just souls on a journey to inner peace and happiness.
Thank you Chrissie for healing parts of me a therapist never could, i’ll always be grateful for you. 🥹❤
I’m glad you are putting yourself first: the world is crazy
I’m love Chrissy’s channel. I burned my cape many years ago and haven’t looked back since! The “obligation” to serve blackistan has been destroyed! I went as far as moving states and starting over in a new environment. Loving and living life on my terms❤
I just left the military and this is perfect timing. 👩🍳 💋 lalalalalove this
Your video is resonating with me because after hearing so drama that has been going on in these RUclips spaces. I decided that today, I will be listening to high-vibrational videos. As you said, we have to concentrate on what is our reality. Trying to go along with what is trending or going along with movements will eventually destroy anyone's peace of mind. The most simple thing to do is remove yourself from toxic environments and people; and most definitely the black community. I am concentrating on getting my finances and credit right. I have my retirement to look forward to in a few years; I don't have time for toxicity.
This is amazing change is just part of growth . Another thing dsbw can do is interact with higher class women from other cultures who do not have blk men or mxd people around them it teaches you how to UNDERSTAND social structures. We are the only people in the ‘blk community’ they under-educate when it come social stratification which is easy for them since this is something we tend to be uncomfortable with but avoiding those environments stunts your growth and makes you soo vulnerable and easy to use…
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Chrissie is deep
Thanks for another banger Chrissie! This is going to be a hard pill to swallow but it must be done for peace of mind
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This is sound advice Chrissie I needed today thankyou❤️
Thankyou chrissie don’t stop speaking about colorism or leveling up I support you whole heartedly you changed my life because of you I loved my dark skin 4c hair because of you I learned how to set boundaries prioritize myself, because of you I stopped hating myself, because you I stopped the whole egalitarian marriage beliefs because of you I went more traditional and accepted that I did not non black men and not feeling guilty about it. Because you of I feel so confident and assured Thankyou. Will always be a subscriber and fan.
On another note thank you for this.
Once again, thank you Chrissie!!
yessss I can't wait for more level up content that is what got me hooked
This video has given me food for thought. Thank you
Proud of you Chrissie! Thank you for your transparency, you are saying what needs to be said! Take good care❤️
The content I'm here for! So glad to see evolved topics. Thanks and more, please.