Why Men STRUGGLE To Be Masculine YET Women Find it Easy To be Feminine
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There needs to be a ragnarock for society to reset to traditionalism which will eventually happen bcoz history tells us matriarchal societies collapse quickly.
Karl Nord but now the situation is different Karl. We don’t live in a jungle anymore. If a significant number of men bail(which is happening) the society will collapse.Matriarchal structures don’t work out.
This is a really good video bro, thanks
Yet another gem from Rich... yeah modern women are so feminine they can't even boil an egg. How you gonna look after kids if you cant even cook a meal, isnt that essence of feminity?
Miss me with that nonsense...
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To be honest, a majority of women don’t seem feminine to me today.
Thats why theres sooo many single moms lol
We are out their gents. Yes I'm not perfect but I'm bloody greatful to my hubby it's been a major 11 Yr learning curve for me. The only time I try to realy let go of my masculine energy is the gym!
true alpha ? are u guys whatching to much " teen wolf"
@@renansilva5418 jajajajajaajajhahaha good one
@Kay I dated a woman from Slovakia she was incredible and extremely feminine Wich was made her so beautiful
It's easy to be feminine. It's natural. Becoming a man is work. Masculinity needs to be nurtured and developed. That's why masculinity is in crisis, most of us aren't prepared to do the work. Life has become too easy.
Manhood is a journey not a destination
Great comment dude
Somewhat. We used to have rites of passage in the tribe, that solidified your manhood. Without things like that men go on being lost and not knowing the importance of being a man.
Not sure all women find being feminine easy tbh not these days
That's modern day feminism. Feminizing men and masculinizing women.
@@Mbrace818 I guess that's why so many men accuse extreme feminists of being lesbians
100%. Women are forced to hold down a job while also raising kids which biologically men aren't able to do! We are doing both things at once
@@natashak8946" Forced" how about choose to have a job. Just like you chose to have children knowing full well of the complications & struggles involved.
@@timallen643 Society forces women to have a job... as we all know it is getting more and more expensive and many times you have to have a dual income to raise kids and to own a property. But, women especially in the early stages of the kids life is having to raise them as men don't have the same maternal/ biological abilities. In a perfect society men would work and women and the community would raise the child. So all in all women are helping men financially but are not helping women due to biology
Well being masculine has a lot of requirements that require a strong will and character:
-Discipline
-Stoic
-Confident
-Tough
-Ambitious
-Logical
-Decisive
-Competitive
-Self reliant etc.
These traits aren't always pleasant and often need a lot of cultivating by a male role model, however unfortunately we currently live in a time where many men lack this and therefore have become lost
Those are literally the traits that feminism and social media calls "Toxic masculinity". Smfh, feminism is cancer
Maybe you noticed that's turning around.
Sad but true..but lets learn how be high value men
Everyone knows how to take care of babies or yourself but not everyone knows how to build an empire. Thats why men struggle and women don't.
Look at all the fatherless boys, that’s why.
Very true. A generation of men abandoned their sons. This is why there are so many weak men in society today. And their wives are leaving those men more often every day.
@GT Talks We were not specifically talking about you.
There is more to it than that. A whole generation of men told their kids to "listen to your mother". 20 years latter they complained when their kids turned into soy boys. I had a father and he didn't teach me anything useful. He was a beta male that let his wife run the household.
@@miamitrancemissions6425 GT Talks makes an excellent point! Most fathers don't know how to raise their sons. Mine didn't. I don't respect him as a man and I don't want to be like him. He was only good as a financial provider. Nothing else.
@GT Talks my dad was a cop. Lead from the front. Feared among many. He was everything that I'm not cause he never taught me on how to be like him. Wasn't at the house most of the time cause of the nature of his job so I guess I kinda grew up without a father.
"You want someone to be a compliment to your life. You want a woman to compliment your life, not be the focus of it"
That's a very important message a lot of people don't understand
I used to care about a lot of things when it came to relationships and family. Now at 50, I don't care about any of those things anymore. Sadly, I learned this lesson the hard way. Love and loyalty from a woman is just an illusion. When you start caring about those things you brutally set yourself up to get fucked. So I have learned how to protect myself by separating myself from that lie and that illusion.
Hear... hear...
True words !
Yes but too late , you already gave the best of you to all that. @ 50 not much left but atleat you have peace of mind.
50 is not that old. It's never too late to see the truth.
Relationships are just transactions. Love is a trap.
I agree with everything you say, both my mom and dad messed me up but I will say somethings I’ve done to myself. I was raised in a Christian household. It’s a Good way to become a weakling. When bullies wanted to bully me I couldn’t fight back because I was told not to or else. I was scared of my parents and was always told to obey and shut up. I never really had a voice, no confidence, always walked with my head down at 6’4. My dad was not a dad and my mom was crazy at times hitting or yelling. I was never taught how to be a man and think for myself. I’m 23 years old and have mental and emotional baggage. Its hard to let it go but I have to at some point and build a life for myself. I like your vides, keep up the good work.
You should take some boxing classes. Like Jordan Peterson says, be dangerous. That doesn't mean go out and be a monster but be capable of being a monster if needed.
Men don't struggle to be masculine, they struggle to stand out against other men, while women don't need to be on top to be noticed that much, so they can relax more. But the moment you don't care about relationships and women, you don't have to struggle anymore, everything becomes easy.
That's a great point.
So true a woman can be average and still desired but a man who is average is invisible to most women
@@truthbearer7891 An ugly chick can have more option than an average guy
@@maxiver808 Modern-day men just don't know how to attract and pick up women
How do you do that?
I see a lot of women in my life encouraged and given excuses for their behavior.
Meanwhile, men are told to stop being themselves, tone it down, and conform.
It's no wonder why this is a thing.
Men in today's society I feel are reprimanded for any form of masculine behavior fighting back, being too rough, speaking up, taking risk instead of playing it safe in life ect. I think it has caused men to think that being an overly nice, compliant person who plays it safe and lets his woman run over him is masculine.
Me too movement in workplace doesnt help either
JOIN THE MILITARY. It might be the last place where having that 'fire in your belly' is pretty much a requirement.
@@commercio3564 That's what I was thinking? But the west is falling fast too.
They play too much videogames and dont climb trees any more...
Or catch a fish with their hands in order to eat sth.
THE MALE BRAIN WILL NOT DEVELOP PROPERLY in a single mother household
Thanks Rich for all of the free content. Life has been hard for me over the past 4 years but this content has kept me going and growing. I’ve gone from being hopeless to wanting to better myself.
Hang in there buddy... ✊🏽
Strange Mercy keep fighting you never know what is around the corner & hard work always tends to pay off
Same!
@EntrepreneursinCars. My husband and I, and our 10 year old son, live in Canada. We have been married for close to 15 years, and every day I have the mindset that I put my husband first and I do my best to please him. I also value myself and I take great care with my appearance every day. I'd say we have a great partnership. We are not the same, but we compliment each other and I appreciate him so much. I have encountered many female friends over the years that think this kind of a marriage is ludicrous, but that's ok, we don't seek anyone's approval. We are raising our 10 year old son and I wholeheartedly agree with your dojo comment. My son has been at the dojo since he was 4 years old and it encourages masculinity, which seems to be devalued in today's society. I really like your channel and I was wondering if you have a video on what to look for in a woman? My son will be dating in a few short years and I would like to prepare.
@@JoshuaKnierim thank you Josh. I appreciate you taking the time to answer and for your recommendations. Off to watch some videos and order some books. Have a great day.
@@AM.Boxing that's very kind of you to say, thank you. I wish more women would wake up and see what a partnership is really about.
@Pranav Kapoor that's very nice of you to say, thank you so much. And I agree with you very much. I also wish you a great life.
@ thanks, that is very nice of you to say. I appreciate it. And yes, my husband values me, as I value him. I myself was raised with a great father and mother and they are still together over 50 years later. I had very good role models and have tried to model myself after them the best I could. It is very sad that society devalues men in this way., but I am going to make sure that our son values himself, and we are teaching him that a woman can be an excellent partner and compliment him. Hopefully he finds someone like that, but if not, it would be better to be alone.
@@Turk3yFilms that's very kind of you and I agree with you, I also wish there were a lot more women that acted in this manner, today's society has really devalued men and it's very wrong.
I grew up without a positive masculine force in my life and I wasn't able to stop being a beta until about last year when I opened my eyes. Your videos are really awesome and they speak to things I had to learn the hard way! Listen to this dude!
I really need advice on this because like you grew up beta, how do I implement that into a relationship.
@@eugeneroushe5524 find ways to refine your l boundaries between aggression and assertion. The wim Hoff method and ice baths work for me to help get started. Sitting in an ice bath cuts through all the bullshit real fast. This guys videos do a great job of reaffirming staying in your frame.
You were lied to, women want successful men with soemthing going on, I've never been more attractive to women than when I am doing cool shit at arms length.
Early in the video you mentioned how in the old days men had to acquire certain survival skills or perish.
A few generations ago, men conquered the environment. There isn't a place on the face of the Earth than men haven't been able to put a stake in the ground and establish themselves. All the machinery we've invented has made the day to day chore of living easy, at least in more developed countries (where Feminism has taken hold). Most importantly, we have made the environment SAFE. You walk out of your house, you're not worried about getting mauled by a bear or eaten by a pack of wolves.
As a consequence, women are no longer afraid, and have embraced the illusion of "independence" - but I'm not going to go in that direction here.
As a consequence, men haven't needed to acquire those basic survival skills anymore - which makes them vulnerable to manipulation. A man lives much better when he can defend himself, can work with other men to get work done, and has competencies that are in demand that benefit himself and/or others. Without those skills, a man is easily lost, depressed, can be used by others without even realizing it's happening (or if he does realize it, doesn't know how to combat it or extricate himself from the situation). This tendency of men in current society where they no longer have fathers to teach them at least some of these basic skills has led to men being lost, to the degradation of our freedoms, and to the degradation of society itself.
Channels like this one are valuable because they help to fill in that gap of knowledge men instinctively know they need to be able to make it in this world. Pointing to resources like Dojos give men direction they can follow to acquire that necessary knowledge.
Keep up the good work!
Protection was part of the trade off. If they dont want the trade, then I don't have to give up the goods.
Men have to prove their masculinity, women just have to be. How is this a difficult concept to understand?
what if the woman's ugly? can she 'just be' then? ;)
pete meads obviously you have never seen an ugly girls tinder or bumble yes they just have to be
@@petemeads1773 You would be surprised. A 5 out of 10 woman has tons of options. A 5 out of 10 guy ROFL no very few. I have read article of women that were at best a soft 4 having over 100 partners.
THE MALE BRAIN WILL NOT DEVELOP PROPERLY in a single mother household
I'm a guy. That's a design flaw I think. How has this worked so long?
Rich, as a young man about to graduate college, my internships in the corporate world have shown how feminine the work environment is. The corporate accounting firm I've worked at featured almost exclusively female or beta/gay men employees, with only the head-honcho partner being of a masculine personality. I question if I made a mistake by not entering a trade where masculine men aren't discriminated against.
Save your disposable income and learn to invest - build up a portfolio and be en-route to being your own boss? That is what I am doing (also accountant)..
I have a degree in Mechanical Engineering. I left the corporate world 15 years ago for the same reasons. I now work as a union carpenter. I'm very happy i did. I can barely be myself at work in construction. We even have PC bullshit in that profession. I could never make it in the corporate world today. Almost everything I talk about (or am interested in) is offensive!
Damn, I'm in the same scenario. I'm questioning whether my choice to be in a female dominated field (health) is good. I find it hard to practice being masculine, I always have to be kind and nice. I'm worried this is going to cause an identity crisis in me in the future. Women will also hold power over me and make me feel emasculated. How can I grow as a man to become attractive to women in such an environment. I'm also contemplating going into the trades, I just don't know if I will have more success there, even if it is a more masculine field dominated by men.
If you havnt already, you should do a video on dealing with critics and those who try to bring you back down when you start making positive changes.
My best friend of 10+ years told me he didnt like the person Im becoming and called me highly toxic and not fun. This is because I became red pilled and finally started to not care what others think and live my authentic life and make my own decisions.
Its funny how you would think your best friend would always be supportive but how quickly it can change once you start going your own way. Btw, this friend plays video games all day, has no job now, still lives in his parents basement, and is a blue pill white knight. It hurts Im not gonna lie but I need to stand strong and not let him bring me back down.
Masculinity is a reward based on the choices and style of life you choose to live. Most men don't choose masculinity subconsciously. Most men choose insecurity and laziness which are not masculine.
... and lack good fathers as a role modell,
growing up with emotional incest by their mother treating them as their partner surrogates...
Growing up without a father and being told that my masculinity is toxic , talk about your feelings....... blah blah blah . I have trouble connecting with other guys , keeping a job and finding something in common . When it comes to women i only attract the fat single mom . I also have suspicion that i have aspergers. Im at the point where i just dont care anymore.
There's nothing wrong with talking about your feelings. Just don't talk about any sort of anxiety or struggle to women and expect them to see you as more than a pity case. Talk to the barman, talk to guys, or women a little older that are just friends and going to remain so.
Keeping a job is not a sign of masculinity, it's a sign of conformity. Ditch the greasy pole and strike out on your own.
An interesting factoid I came across is that women, as a whole, find 80% of men to be "below average." Mathematically impossible to us men, but it makes perfect sense to women.
@Pulimuli In that case, I suppose I won the reproductive lottery, for my genes have been passed to the next generation. Time to celebrate!
That’s the Pareto principle and it applies to nearly everything. 20% of the salesmen make 80% of the sales, 20% of your actions drive 80% of your results, 20% of men attract 80% of women, etc
THE MALE BRAIN WILL NOT DEVELOP PROPERLY in a single mother household
Every single one!
Every single one of masculine men had a strong father figure in some shape or form. This doesnt't mean that they had a good or perfect father but rather a father who displayed masculine behavioural patterns within the framework of relationship with the son in question, his mother and his brothers and sisters. All weak men follow a similiar pattern.
They had no father or they had a weak or passive /submissive father along with dominant and bossy mother figure.
Weak men who don't have that foundation would theoretically need to put themselves out there, get out in the world and take risks. Then, if it clicks for them, they will develop their masculinity on their own. Either that or their confidence will be completely shattered once they get out of their comfort zone and due to great disadvantages they fail miserably in life.
Beware....Odds are heavily against you. It takes true courage for that but if you succeed, you will gain masculine confidence more authentic and powerful than those who learned it from their father because it was actually based on your own courage and leap of faith.
The general decline in mens' hormone levels is a factor
MQ
This could definitely be a factor. My partner is a doctor who specialized in bioidentical hormone therapy and he said about 80% of males walking around have too much estrogen.
i think woman also have less estrogen n progesterone.
it isnt a gender but a human issue .
mainly for modern feeding patterns
I'm curious to what degree 'healthy foods' contribute to this? Less saturated fat and cholesterol also means less testosterone.
This is nuts, and I never really thought about it. The only reason I decided to get tested was because I was overseas exposed to high levels of cortisol, and Adrenaline dumps. My Adrenal glans are shot. So I go and get tested thinking I was going to be normal. My test came back at 300. The normal levels for a healthy male my age is suppose to be anywhere from 750 to 900. I'm sure my diet didn't help.
WHATS UP MY BROTHER FROM ANOTHER COUNTRY...GREETINGS FROM ECUADOR. LOVE YOUR POST
Its interesting how people react to all of the information you provide. They just can't except how we work. And instantly attack you. I had a guy yes a guy loose it on me for using the word female.
"One medium iced coffee "..that broke red pill RUclips fourth wall for me.
Hahaha damn right
I like my coffee jet black and double large extra hot.
Masculine men do!
I like my coffee like i like my women - ermm i don't like coffee
@SeanPrestonFed it's a joke snowflake. You know those little quips we used to use in the pre-joke world.
Wait, women find it easy to be feminine? Isn't half the problem with dating, nowadays, that women don't know how to be feminine? Hypergamy is just one of tons of facets of Femininity just like wanting to provide for women is just one facet of Masculinity. Sure, women are naturally hypergamous but that's not any different from how men naturally want to provide for women. That doesn't mean women have an easy time being feminine any more than men have an easy time being masculine.
"that women don't know how to be feminine? " No, it is a woman's nature to be feminine. Western society has been actively nurturing females away from being feminine.
They know how, they choose not to. Just watch the women that supposedly don't know how under the right conditions. They'll turn it on like a switch when it benefits them to.
@@tagert1975 FACTS!
@Davo Rebo Until reality smacks them in the face......
I agree. Women don't learn how to be feminine naturally.
Thank you very much for answering my request! Btw; This name is German and can be translated to: tea stain
Being masculine is an active process, being feminine is a passive process ... even when it comes down to the 'business'
I think many men just internalized the message from their moms and teachers that masculine tendencies are bad. They need to suppress them to be "good" guys.
Which masculine tendencies do you mean, that you have Been told, would question you being a "good guy"?
@@gwb9044 aggression, competition, drive to win, pursuing females, risk taking, stoicism, and so on. Guys are criticized and punished for displaying these behaviors that women find unsettling. As a dad I had to push back on my wife's anxieties about the things my sons were innately inclined to do. Some women don't understand that males are not females with a penis.
women- Do whats right for you girl
Men- You do whats right
Thanks for the video I personally am struggling to be masculine and this society is encouraging men to be more feminine.
He didn't really answer the question. As a 56 year old man who has been around the block a few times, I would suggest watching a few John Wayne movies. I would recommend, The Green Berets, watch John Wayne win the Vietnam War.
Really just ask yourself, what would John Wayne do?
If you act like John Wayne in 2020 you would be in prison
The shit hit the fan for me when the master at my dojo died 2 years ago. I find myself constantly looking for another father figure.
Believe in yourself.
Dont stop training
extremely well said. It's a shame that many Dad's are out bringing in so much money to support a family that he has no time to spend raising his boy.
Rich!!!!! DO THE WORK!!!! LEARN TO NOT LOSE YOUR WALLET AND FOLLOW THE EASY ROAD TO CONVENIENCE. Love you man. You started me on my new path a few years ago. My son and I will never look back!
I date women and I’m always the more
masculine one and man is ALL this shit spot on!
Less emphasis needs to be placed on strength through muscle aquisition and becoming like some MMA fighter and more emphasis needs to be placed on having a strong mind and being well learned. Plenty of guys on the way to the gym are passed over by guys going to the library. This is not to say that excerceise is not important but todays excessive gym afficionados are often single and too in love with getting ripped. The overall message here is high quality and should be heeded.
Being raised by a single mom causes many issues for men learning healthy boundaries. Boundaries are a Masculine trait.
There are many cultural reasons which contribute to this:
(1) Christianity as it has been presented in Catholic and even Protestant churches. Jesus is portrayed as not only a crucified christ but a castrated crucified christ, and his monumentally slow, cruel, torturous death has been a representative symbol of Western Civilization (often outright ignoring his resurrection). The real historical Jesus was not a victim and was not like this, nonetheless, he is presented as such. Consequently, many churches are full of people who merely pretend that they do not have a sexuality.
(2) Elementary education. We are all indoctrinated within a program which encourages males to develop masculine traits in favor of words and abstract computations. You can have the best of both worlds in this regard, you can be learned in literature and mathematics while also being able to do construction, electrical work, building, etc. but our education system doesn't care about kids nearly enough to even think about doing this. Males are also treated in our education system as if though we are effectively defective girls.
(3) Being feminine is just inherently easier. Why you see more effeminate males than you do masculine females, there isn't really even a corresponding counterpart masculine word for effeminate ("butch" comes close). Female sexuality is just easier. Guys go really fast, and women are slow. It is inherently much easier to increase the momentum of something not moving than it is to stop/reverse the momentum once it is going fast. All women have to do is lay down and they don't have to keep any desire ablaze, whereas men have to get themselves into a frame of mind where it's possible for them to have an erection, and to stay in that frame of mind consistently, while also being able to just turn their erections off if the females don't like it. Females can become more feminine virtually overnight by just wearing makeup and looking a certain way (they can work out but they don't have to build muscle). Becoming more masculine (especially if you are effeminate) requires much work and unlearning.
Femininity comes not only from make up like masculinity comes not only from muscles.
Its a behaviour and a mindset, both to be learned and foremost UNDERSTOOD, to be effective and complementary.
Speaking for myself, it took some time to understand it's ok to say 'no'. And that you are not a jerk for not committing to a bad deal because society or culture that you were fed pushes you to. I guess what I'm saying is - it's ok to be you. To call bullshit on the awful adages you hear that are designed to cripple you. You have a right to be HAPPY and to enjoy YOUR life. You don't exist to just feed the whims and expectations of someone.
because it takes next to nothing to be a woman as long as you've got the looks; not to mention the easiness with which you navigate socially and gain experience as a result; unless the man is a prince, a 23 yo woman that hasn't been leashed her whole life will be light years ahead of a 23 yo guy due to the ease in both experience and requirement
it's easy to follow, be submissive, take care of your appearance and be respectful- it's easy for a man to lead when the woman is not combative and respectful.
it's easy to be submissive and follow and
9:50. Answers the self posed question.
Gee Dude. That really hit home. I figured that out early on, but it still impacted me fully. I was 8 years old when my mum remarried and I used to see my mum a emasculate my step-dad constantly.
When I eventually got to know my actual Dad I realised I realised he was masculine, as well as begging a gentleman. knew how too get along with men well.
Unfortunately it was too late by the time I realised and so my stepfathers influence was strongly linked into my personality.
This has caused me to come across as non exact masculine a lot of the time and so so a lot of time guys don't know how to really relate to me as well as they do with their mates.
Now the question is, how can this ever be 'Fixed'? One way, is your videos, I think.
But, we really need something more, like boot camps style. Yes?
And on another point. It doesn't always happen that way as my ex married your typical bloke type and that rubbed off onto my son which is not too bad. He also catches up with me fairly regularly.
my wife loves the fact im masculine and I like the fact shes feminine It works perfect were together 19 years and we have our gender roles at home and everything works in harmony young men are getting a raw deal these days poor fuckers . like your channel hello from ireland
Most western women don't understand gender roles
Because at the core of masculinity is agression and that is not allowed in this society.
Even my female roommate is like an alpha male. She was making $8k a month with her business in puerto rico. I'm just a simple warehouse worker. I can't compete with that.
😂
Thanks, Rich. I had involved in boxing for a relatively long time. Yet, I quitted it. Now your speech has encouraged me to take up MMA even though I hit the gym already. The both the better.
See the Federalist article (Aug 19th) about falling marriage rates. It is infuriating the assumptions they make.
Great truth bombs Rich, keep them coming..Stand firm, quietly confident, Be Your Own Man, get good Game..Peace
I did not survive nigh fatal diseases, extended epidemics, prolonged suffering, complicated grief and interpersonal abuse simply to have my life put in unwarranted jeopardy in pursuit of being a 'Masculine Hero' while defending some stranger woman. Society doesn't care about me, why should I bother, let alone risk my life to save strangers?
That comment about Dojo's, and manhood, is one of the most accurate statements ever!!!
being feminine doestn require ANY skill
they can just relax ,have fun and act like a child
Women be themselves so should we
That’s immature femininity. Just like men, we have to learn to control our emotions and our actions.
That beard is gold...simply gold
He who increaseth knowledge increaseth sorrow...yet it is worth it !
It's almost as if men are expected to be masculine, it is expected of me to be masculine, but I don't care, I wanna be myself, I don't feel like myself being the strong provider for women or whatever, I don't wanna live for someone who depends on me and is needy, I just want to be with someone on equal grounds with me, like, splitting the bill on a first date is a good start, being expected to pay for everything myself is stupid.
My divorce mediator told me my ex was jealous of me. Hypergamy at its finest.
This message just had to be delivered in a wifebeater. Lol. Dude.
“ yes cheers , thanks” in masculine voice. Learn kids learn !👏👍😎
got one of those wallets , the unit loses stickiness and eventually cards do fall out, bit of a warning i lost 2 cards without my knowledge when i pulled the wallet out and the cards simply slipped out and i did not know until much later
good points ! Societal conditioning thru media, schools and movies is a big culprit as well. seek out like minded people!
Great speech! Alot good information in this video for young guys.
Please listen to this guy, its the truth. Dont realise this when its too late and your in your 40s and beyond.
Thank you for the video, Rich.
When you mentioned dojos, I didn't hear Aikido among the martial-art types, lol. Aikido takes a lot of derision, in social media. But I believe your hypothesis holds, even with aikido. As one advances in the art, whatever it may be, the beta behavior tends to die off and the alpha Behavior grows more. Excellent observation.
Keep up the good work.
Super valuable Video! Thanks
Thanks for the video!
A woman posted a thread on Twitter asking other women what they rated themselves. I didn't see one rate themselves below a 7. There was one - and I am not kidding - was one of the most unattractive women I have ever seen; bulging forehead, overweight, pallid and unhealthy looking. I mean she was a 2. She rated herself an 8.
And there's the problem ALL women perceive themselves much higher value than they are. It's a self sufficient delusion.
Before I even watch the video: Because being masculine has been outlawed?
Thank you for all your help to our male community brother!!!
Axel
What if you have a father in the house and he’s a beta? Seeing him cowering in front of my mother, made me resentful. And I don’t deal with confrontation with women well. I’m quick to kick them to the curb.
Most guys today have NO father
Watch Rebel Without A Cause.
Hey Rich do you think you could make a video for the younger men out there chasing excellence. - what skills to develop from the time you are 18-30, skills or knowledge etc... could make a list of about 5?
Rich has done this 10x over & has a playlist of videos for this on his channel already.
Do the work, check his channel
Ordered the wallet for my boyfriend after watching your video. I cant wait to give it to him! Thanks Richard Cooper for the recommendation!
Now he can put all his other girlfriends numbers in it. Smart
You're right about the Dojo, although I had been connected with the red pill sphere for like 2 years, it wasn't until I began Bjj that my "natural" alpha me appeared from my inner, inner body. Martial arts are definitely not only sport, or not only violence, it is a fucking life style which meets the Alpha we have in us
Awesome, gotta give that a try some day.
@@anonymity11 yes you do! Inf act, I think everyone should give it a try!
Masculinity comes down to self control. Femininity is running on emotions pretty much. Go figure which is natural and which requires discipline.
By far the best information on RUclips
Always says it how it really is. Hard to find nowadays
While I don't agree with the SMV stuff etc (too simplistic models of reality), I absolutely agree with the joining of dojo for accepting and finding one's masculinity. Another great benefit of martial arts is healing -- serious illnesses fade away.
5:35 - Aristotle Onassis and Jackie Kennedy
Ric Ocasek and Paulina Porizkova.
@@starguy2718 My God, YES!!!
Credit to Rich For his well presented answer. He talks from experience, his content valuable to guys here. Don’t get angry at women, get smart, listen and learn
This was articulated very well. 💯
The uphill battle is not all tragic and hopeless though. Because women can never be happy without a man while men can enjoy solitude for a number of years if not forever.
What does masculine even mean to red pill guys? I’ve trained in martial arts for over a decade and i know a ton of quiet introverted guys who don’t make much money that would kick most youtube red pill guys ass. Is that masculine?
Don’t let another man or woman define who you are and how you live your life. Seeking self improvement is always good and you should never let anyone mistreat you man or woman.
But these labels and men defining what a “real man” is has got to stop. Just be happy with yourself. I wish you all the best.
quiet, introverted, broke =/= lack of masculinity.
Glizzy God But that same person could whip your ass are you the one lacking masculinity? A millionaire could look at your bank account and think you’re broke. So are you less masculine?
Beating people up is just bullying. Having ethics, morals, being capable, skilled, a degree of stoicism, and the motivation to get things done. These factors make a man.
Not all in huge degrees, but in a healthy balance.
Sasquatch 2099 But who are you define the degrees? And what kind of ethics or morals? What things need to get done to and how often to reach man status?
Who is the judge? It’s just ridiculous. There is no scale there is no ratings system.
And to let other men decide what that scale is for you for your life makes no sense.
Be happy with YOURSELF. Because that’s the person who you should be listening to on what kind of person you want to be.
Sasquatch 2099 And no some women and men like a guy who can kick people’s ass and see that as manly.
So if they have a youtube channel and they have over a hundred thousand followers is that the man standard now?
I better hurry up and watch this one before it gets taken down
Difference is what brings equality. Ying / yang.
I wish modern GPS tracked devices had a 'Bond' option with the retro tracker ping.
Splendidly honest video. Love it.
I always found it odd that people confuse "equality" between men and women with us being identical. We're not identical, obviously, we're very different.
Ideally, a developed country would create the conditions where men and women have similar financial opportunities despite their different preferences.
Having similar opportunities is equality, that doesn't mean that both sexes can give birth.
The guy asking this question is probably around 20 years old, doesn't realize that the tables turn once the mid 30s hits.
And what about the decade or decade and a half between?
Just submit to a good deal of your finite life being garbage?
It’s an uphill battle but manageable if approached well.
Be fair. Women are struggling to be masculine, too.
One Medium I’ve Coffee huh.
I highly recommend the iced coffee with chocolate flavour added in.
My god is it delicious and alerting.
Women say men can only do one thing at a time. This guy orders at Mc Donald's, drives, drinks and speaks for a video on RUclips, all at the same time. What a beast ;).
Nice wallet share. I use Allet Wallet, super thin, and they have some RFID models.
Awesome wallet
9:52 Sage
But so fuxxed up
There is a lot of truth to this commentary. Really appreciate all that is said here. Society makes men Beta males and doesn't help men to become Masculine men. So for now we have to keep listening to red pill content like these and don't get married to women who don't put you as a priority or help you towards your goals or purpose in life. There is a need for strong men and for Kings. Went through hell after almost being killed 6 times now and now run 4 companies. So for me and the community that I'm looking to build, it is important for men to embrace obstacles because it is making you a stronger man.
I haven't met a feminine woman for years
Awesome. , dude, THANKS. !!!
I don't struggle to be anything, my good brother, certainly not to be masculine. I just be myself & I'm plenty masculine enough. I take the point though. Maybe just semantics. My life has an arc to it, like a quest or journey in a movie or novel. Obstacles I've had to overcome, wisdom gained, goals & milestones reached, soul searching, building mental, emotional, & physical strength, sharpness, toughness, & balance, discovering my strengths, my purpose in life, seeking meaning, etc. I don't think of that as struggling to be masculine. I think of it as being a man & throwing myself into the great adventure that is life.