In your 30's decluttering, balancing grief and now living alone? Join the club no one wants to be apart of & subscribe here ruclips.net/user/alexalikesvideos?sub_confirmation=1 Watch my declutters here: Sharing anticipatory loss ruclips.net/video/5m3yn1jRSpY/видео.htmlsi=oHhE5lldZ18ARzYV Saying goodbye ruclips.net/video/X9i5c6cZB4M/видео.htmlsi=zFvSQJO1F0-w8zGE Starting a declutter journey after mom's passing ruclips.net/video/FxS63Ahq5Gs/видео.htmlsi=oKy12O8oHKsp5x2W Sentimental declutter with me and self-care ruclips.net/video/F2Nn3__pj9Q/видео.htmlsi=Y7sXaQqbnVkKQCCW Massive makeup declutter with me ruclips.net/video/0mlNDLaIfWg/видео.htmlsi=qZa-05yeY98AyPkN Bathroom declutter with me and bedroom reset ruclips.net/video/DhnWskPwuKo/видео.htmlsi=HPuHSVbSrzcp0-GQ Linen closet declutter with me ruclips.net/video/Rr6hVNe8WMA/видео.htmlsi=1-GsXMyBxyMBtvk5 Medicine cabinet declutter and decluttering mom's makeup ruclips.net/video/LkRtkosVNW8/видео.htmlsi=rSuqtEJoQWYuEZl6 Declutter and rearrange furniture with me ruclips.net/video/JHaqznrwHDg/видео.htmlsi=hFMO9HX2qqtZdttA Tidying and decluttering my apartment ruclips.net/video/pLFh03nGdP8/видео.htmlsi=cvaSeA9wq3SK_0Mb Close declutter part 1 ruclips.net/video/xvaA9lcG6G0/видео.htmlsi=joO1WIWjbv8-oqeF Huge beauty product declutter with me ruclips.net/video/lh01ntI5kbs/видео.htmlsi=xgAUQ2eh8U3ciFDk
Always so nice to see a video form you ❤️they’re always so comforting and this one hits home cause seems we’ve been in a very similar situation. My dad passed 3 months ago and since I was living with him these past 3 years as caretaker, I decided to take over his lease after he passed because keeping the space where we shared so many memories felt like the natural choice- I didn’t want to let go of anything that reminded me of him. I cry most days reminiscing on our memories here, and imagine him walking down the hallway, waving at me as he passes by my room. I miss him so much, and can imagine you feel the same. It’s not easy ❤️
Ah Sarah! Financially speaking and for healing, in my opinion, staying in the same place is the best choice. You get the hard mourning out of your system instead of suppressing it for later. The first few months alone in the apartment were so hard, but the one year mark and the birthdays are painful forever, so I’ve heard. You also grieve the person you were before cancer caretaking, the freedom of health, no worrying and the blissful ignorance before loss. It’s still surreal. If you ever want to talk, I’m all ears ❤️
Thank you!! I’m lucky. I inherited those from my mom and they survived. A few had to be decluttered since they died. But I’ve been thinking of a plant tour 😊 glad to hear you’re interested
I really hope that in the upcomming declutter video, that if you need to discard any clothes that can't be donated, that you'll film while discarding them in the trash, Ideally in a real trash can where we cannot change mind on things that get decluttered like I always do when it's in a dedicated clean bag. Most likely, either I remove things from it few minutes/hours after, or it will sit in the garage forever 🤭
Yes, as I’ve stated in our other exchanges, the trick to that is to take it out when the garbage passes or throw things out somewhere you can’t get hoard them or keep them in the house I.e outdoor garbage bins 😉
@@AlexaLikes I've actually already had few items decluttered this way probably because of you haha I almost wished I wasn't home to hear the garbage truck 🤣 But the next day I was happy it worked 😇
@Math_ilda you can’t get it back once it’s taken away. Glad it worked for you. I’ve already filmed a declutter to post after this video and I might be taking out some trash 😊
In your 30's decluttering, balancing grief and now living alone? Join the club no one wants to be apart of & subscribe here ruclips.net/user/alexalikesvideos?sub_confirmation=1
Watch my declutters here:
Sharing anticipatory loss ruclips.net/video/5m3yn1jRSpY/видео.htmlsi=oHhE5lldZ18ARzYV
Saying goodbye ruclips.net/video/X9i5c6cZB4M/видео.htmlsi=zFvSQJO1F0-w8zGE
Starting a declutter journey after mom's passing ruclips.net/video/FxS63Ahq5Gs/видео.htmlsi=oKy12O8oHKsp5x2W
Sentimental declutter with me and self-care ruclips.net/video/F2Nn3__pj9Q/видео.htmlsi=Y7sXaQqbnVkKQCCW
Massive makeup declutter with me ruclips.net/video/0mlNDLaIfWg/видео.htmlsi=qZa-05yeY98AyPkN
Bathroom declutter with me and bedroom reset ruclips.net/video/DhnWskPwuKo/видео.htmlsi=HPuHSVbSrzcp0-GQ
Linen closet declutter with me ruclips.net/video/Rr6hVNe8WMA/видео.htmlsi=1-GsXMyBxyMBtvk5
Medicine cabinet declutter and decluttering mom's makeup ruclips.net/video/LkRtkosVNW8/видео.htmlsi=rSuqtEJoQWYuEZl6
Declutter and rearrange furniture with me ruclips.net/video/JHaqznrwHDg/видео.htmlsi=hFMO9HX2qqtZdttA
Tidying and decluttering my apartment ruclips.net/video/pLFh03nGdP8/видео.htmlsi=cvaSeA9wq3SK_0Mb
Close declutter part 1 ruclips.net/video/xvaA9lcG6G0/видео.htmlsi=joO1WIWjbv8-oqeF
Huge beauty product declutter with me ruclips.net/video/lh01ntI5kbs/видео.htmlsi=xgAUQ2eh8U3ciFDk
Always so nice to see a video form you ❤️they’re always so comforting and this one hits home cause seems we’ve been in a very similar situation. My dad passed 3 months ago and since I was living with him these past 3 years as caretaker, I decided to take over his lease after he passed because keeping the space where we shared so many memories felt like the natural choice- I didn’t want to let go of anything that reminded me of him. I cry most days reminiscing on our memories here, and imagine him walking down the hallway, waving at me as he passes by my room. I miss him so much, and can imagine you feel the same. It’s not easy ❤️
Ah Sarah! Financially speaking and for healing, in my opinion, staying in the same place is the best choice. You get the hard mourning out of your system instead of suppressing it for later. The first few months alone in the apartment were so hard, but the one year mark and the birthdays are painful forever, so I’ve heard. You also grieve the person you were before cancer caretaking, the freedom of health, no worrying and the blissful ignorance before loss. It’s still surreal. If you ever want to talk, I’m all ears ❤️
I loved your Oxalis plant 😍 it's beautiful
I wish mine would have grown like that, and your Monstera is so big.
A plant collection video will be great
Thank you!! I’m lucky. I inherited those from my mom and they survived. A few had to be decluttered since they died. But I’ve been thinking of a plant tour 😊 glad to hear you’re interested
Love your video. Your kitchen has so much good storage. You have lot to declutter but it'll be fun to watch :))
Yes; lot’s more to go, but it’s getting easier, that’s the good part. The kitchen is deceivingly cluttered. So much hidden clutter. Haha
I really hope that in the upcomming declutter video, that if you need to discard any clothes that can't be donated, that you'll film while discarding them in the trash, Ideally in a real trash can where we cannot change mind on things that get decluttered like I always do when it's in a dedicated clean bag. Most likely, either I remove things from it few minutes/hours after, or it will sit in the garage forever 🤭
Yes, as I’ve stated in our other exchanges, the trick to that is to take it out when the garbage passes or throw things out somewhere you can’t get hoard them or keep them in the house I.e outdoor garbage bins 😉
@@AlexaLikes I've actually already had few items decluttered this way probably because of you haha I almost wished I wasn't home to hear the garbage truck 🤣 But the next day I was happy it worked 😇
@Math_ilda you can’t get it back once it’s taken away. Glad it worked for you. I’ve already filmed a declutter to post after this video and I might be taking out some trash 😊