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Комментарии • 111

  • @shanayatrivedi4447
    @shanayatrivedi4447 3 года назад +83

    who else love victoria and her content.

  • @SamElle
    @SamElle 3 года назад +98

    YES TO THERAPY!!! I literally rave about therapy to EVERYONE hahah. I'm all for taking care of your emotional and mental health

    • @victoriabrowne
      @victoriabrowne  3 года назад +8

      hahahah I love this energy Sam ❤️ I feel the same!

  • @tl5872
    @tl5872 3 года назад +61

    Thank you so much for normalizing so many things. It gives so many people including me the bravery to do things that we never had the courage to do before

    • @victoriabrowne
      @victoriabrowne  3 года назад +5

      of course! will always be here for that ❤️

  • @hannahreeves6300
    @hannahreeves6300 3 года назад +34

    I love how vulnerable you were in this video. Applause to you. I understand where everything was coming from.
    I have never been one that suffers from anxiety, so this kind of opens up a lot of things that I kind of never really knew before. I love your positivity!

    • @victoriabrowne
      @victoriabrowne  3 года назад +3

      aw thanks Hannah this really does mean a lot to me ❤️ I appreciate you!

  • @syd.debruler.1509
    @syd.debruler.1509 3 года назад +29

    I feel like I need a therapist but I’m too afraid to ask my parents because I feel like they will feel that I don’t need it because I put on a face all the time acting like everything‘s ok, maybe I’m just overreacting but I’ve had a lot of mental breakdowns lately and it’s hard but I’m getting through it.

    • @lilystegall844
      @lilystegall844 3 года назад +5

      If you feel like you need some help, by all means ask for it! We all need help sometimes, and I feel as though your parents should understand and respect that! You are very valid!!☺️☺️

    • @mariathielen7581
      @mariathielen7581 3 года назад +3

      For a long time I felt exactly the same way!! But literally everyone can benefit from therapy, you don't have to wait until you're in a mental health crisis. I finally built up the courage to talk to my parents and they were fully supportive of the idea. Now I am going and it's been great! I encourage you to talk to your parents about it.

    • @scarletrose1072
      @scarletrose1072 3 года назад +3

      I know this struggle

    • @madds14
      @madds14 3 года назад

      I had 4 anxiety attacks this week it sucks :/

  • @samanthaharris194
    @samanthaharris194 3 года назад +21

    Thank you, Victoria! I feel so much more secure when people stop acting like therapy is something bad and signs of weakness. Your video helped me a lot, so thank you for normalizing it and making clear, that it‘s very helpful and that you should take the opportunity to get professional help when you need it.

  • @Juliana-bv8sl
    @Juliana-bv8sl 3 года назад +3

    i am not against therapy AT ALL and i've actually been considering asking my parents if i could go (but we're low on money and i've also just been too scared lol) but now my dad has forced me to go to therapy and there's something about being forced into it that just makes me dislike it so so much and ya, i just needed to put this out somewhere :)

  • @shortenedhistory
    @shortenedhistory 3 года назад +1

    You're honestly so valid- thank you for your content and advice about everything! I recently funished a run of CBT (Cognative Behavioural Therapy) in regards to my anxiety, and it was real scary going at first- but it definitely has helped me!

  • @madiihunt
    @madiihunt 3 года назад +18

    there's such a weird stigma on therapy, so thank you for this

  • @kywaloft2841
    @kywaloft2841 3 года назад +7

    I am so glad you feel better! I also go to therapy btw. Good job for being so strong and helping everyone be so brave!

    • @victoriabrowne
      @victoriabrowne  3 года назад +1

      therapy twins! :)

    • @kywaloft2841
      @kywaloft2841 3 года назад +1

      @@victoriabrowne 😁 lol and I also play volleyball forgot to mention, you are my idol! 🥺😁🏐

  • @MargaretElizabethLLC
    @MargaretElizabethLLC 3 года назад +13

    Yes yes yes don’t even have to get more than one second in to comment! Therapy is so so so helpful and there is such a huge stigma, one that I’ve experienced myself. I went to therapy for the first time in June and I wish I had gone so much sooner. It is so helpful to talk to someone and have them ask the important questions, and cry sometimes. You are amazing and I so appreciate you bringing light to these important things surrounding mental health. Sending light and positivity your way! You continue to inspire me to really face my anxiety and eating disorder head on!

    • @victoriabrowne
      @victoriabrowne  3 года назад +3

      thanks so much Margaret I appreciate this comment big time girl! Totally agree and so glad you also find it helpful and want to de-stigmatize the experience. ❤️

    • @EmThrives
      @EmThrives 3 года назад +1

      I am so glad you go to therapy! It's helped me so much in my life

    • @MargaretElizabethLLC
      @MargaretElizabethLLC 3 года назад

      @@victoriabrowne 💖💖💖 absolutely I think everyone would benefit from going to therapy!

  • @aislinnsmith6831
    @aislinnsmith6831 3 года назад +18

    omg your literally my idol in body positivity AND volleyball drills. i aspire to be like you

    • @victoriabrowne
      @victoriabrowne  3 года назад +3

      thank you for the kind comment Aislinn! ❤️

  • @awesomeenbyperson714
    @awesomeenbyperson714 3 года назад +1

    I’m so proud of you for going to therapy and being a role model for people going through things thank you so much 😊 I love your content

    • @victoriabrowne
      @victoriabrowne  3 года назад

      that you kitty crafty girl ❤️

    • @awesomeenbyperson714
      @awesomeenbyperson714 3 года назад

      @@victoriabrowne thanks 💜💜my mom is really trying to get the process to move faster for me to get a therapist I love your content it has inspired me to ask for help

  • @yuwunee
    @yuwunee 3 года назад

    thank you so much for normalizing all of this! i had my first session a week ago and i am so glad i went, actually you’re the one who gave me strength to ask for help so thank you so much :)

  • @radzhoops
    @radzhoops 3 года назад +4

    Just saw your Ted talk for the first time because a student (actually 3 separate students) of mine shared it for a health assignment, so that’s why I’m checking out more about your RUclips channel. Just wanted to let you know that you are making a positive impact on many people by being so transparent regarding your challenges with your mental health. Thanks!

  • @alisonhoffman204
    @alisonhoffman204 3 года назад

    thank you Vic, this really helped me. I’ve been thinking about starting therapy recently for a lot of reasons. It was nice to hear about your experience including what you talk about and the possibility of taking medication.

  • @carlieciresa9647
    @carlieciresa9647 3 года назад

    Your such a understanding person and you help so much thank you Vic💓

  • @andrewbosch7960
    @andrewbosch7960 3 года назад +5

    OMG I honesty love therapy I can't stress enough how important it is to take care of you mental health. I have been going for 2 years because I have a problem where I think bad things are my fault and just therapy for PTSD from being a kid but I am always here for you your videos help me so much 💖💖

  • @scoobydoobydoo8069
    @scoobydoobydoo8069 3 года назад +1

    I get really stressed about volleyball because I’m a starter on a 1’s team and I started having asthma attacks and an old injury started hurting again, so I hate practices now. I get jittery and nervous before practice which makes it hard to breathe, which makes me have attacks, which makes me even more stressed. Just wondering some tips? I’ve tried a couple breathing exercises but I’m worried that I’m just overthinking it

  • @jennamckaye6252
    @jennamckaye6252 3 года назад +3

    Therapy makes a huge difference. Thank you, Victoria for encouraging young people and being an awesome role model. 💜💪

  • @madds14
    @madds14 3 года назад +1

    I went to therapy for 8ish months but I stopped bc I didn't trust my therapist and that made it unhelpful. So I didn't want to waste my parents money. I might have to go back to get on meds bc currently my ADHD is acting up so badly that I can't read anymore. Which ofc is making my anxiety and depression worse. Which affects my eating disorder. Which affects my OCD. So really I'm just a mess.

    • @kirose3201
      @kirose3201 3 года назад

      Finding a good therapist for you can take some time! Keep looking! 💕

  • @kateelisabeth5010
    @kateelisabeth5010 3 года назад +1

    My first therapy session is this Thursday and I’m supper scared, this video helped a lot!

  • @Silasroemer
    @Silasroemer 3 года назад +4

    I love and appreciate that you find therapy helpful. I've tried it multiple times and it doesn't help for me. I don't trust a random person to hear me cry about my traumas. Like yes, I understand how people would find it beneficial and healing, but it wasn't the case for me

    • @victoriabrowne
      @victoriabrowne  3 года назад +1

      Hmm I'm sorry that it wasn't helpful for you! Everyone is different ❤️

  • @EmThrives
    @EmThrives 3 года назад +2

    Thank you so much for sharing such meaningful, vulnerable content. I feel like people like you are so necessary in this world. Thank you for using your voice to make the world a better place.

  • @brietorres19
    @brietorres19 3 года назад

    1:17 WEEEE thats me driving lol i feel you vic

  • @paulhetherington3854
    @paulhetherington3854 2 года назад

    Sorry, I only do - Pt rehab. Jeez, just lok att - the word men - tal. Men' - much experience = never. Spartan!
    THer'-- This person.

  • @segatasanshiro21
    @segatasanshiro21 3 года назад +5

    You da best Vic 💕

  • @Sarah-ty5ev
    @Sarah-ty5ev 3 года назад +1

    Every single person can benefit from therapy. I have been going for the past year, and it has completely changed my life!

  • @stefanbruwer2516
    @stefanbruwer2516 3 года назад

    I really want to go to therapy but i dont think i need to. I dont think ill gain much from it. I feel stupid for considering it. I definitely wouldnt want my family knowing about it. Im sorry idek why i searched this video 2 comment😅
    Im okey

  • @itsnembus
    @itsnembus 3 года назад +1

    I just signed up for therapy through my doctor legit yesterday. I'm nervous to meet my therapist but I know it will help me a lot. I don't have anything diagnosed but sometimes people just need help, small or big! Thank you so much for this video! It's made me feel so much better and more prepared for my session!

  • @bellamcnamara6533
    @bellamcnamara6533 3 года назад +1

    I’m starting to go to open gyms for club. I’ve been playing since 7th but am trying out for the 16s team. I feel like I’m not good enough.

    • @jojofoeshow22
      @jojofoeshow22 3 года назад +3

      Get that “I’m not good enough” vibe out of your head. It’s not worth your time. I’m in the same boat as you and what helps me is that I tell myself “you are good enough” “practice is going to be amazing” etc. while smiling in the mirror everyday before practice even if I’m having a mental breakdown about it! This is such a small step but it has helped me so stinking much! You got this! I believe in you!

  • @anandmunkh-orgil8071
    @anandmunkh-orgil8071 3 года назад

    Can you please do more volleyball game reaction videos?

  • @sydneylamar3341
    @sydneylamar3341 3 года назад +3

    hey vic we love you sooooooooo much 💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕 i am a 12u volleyball player from nc and im not trying to be cocky but i am pretty elite and I was wondering if you see this what are some tips for such a young age 💕💕💕💕💕💕

    • @victoriabrowne
      @victoriabrowne  3 года назад

      hmmm try to work with the best coaches possible while you are young and moldable! :)

    • @sydneylamar3341
      @sydneylamar3341 3 года назад

      @@victoriabrowne thank youuu sooo much!

  • @jordynfones8944
    @jordynfones8944 3 года назад +3

    YESSSS. You posted this right as I was in the middle of therapy. 🙏🏻 THE best decision I’ve made.

    • @victoriabrowne
      @victoriabrowne  3 года назад +1

      in the middle?!! get back there girl!! hahaha

    • @jordynfones8944
      @jordynfones8944 3 года назад

      Hahahaha I meant that I saw it when I got out but it was posted when I was in it 😂😂

    • @EmThrives
      @EmThrives 3 года назад

      Yesss!

  • @KateHardy-
    @KateHardy- 3 года назад

    how do i ask my parents to take me to therapy ?

  • @Cookie-kg8pu
    @Cookie-kg8pu 3 года назад +4

    Hai

  • @ayahhizam4821
    @ayahhizam4821 3 года назад +1

    Hello Victoria garrick! You probably wont see this but you are an amazing person who has an amazing personality! You are always so positive and you are my biggest idol! I wanted to start playing volleyball when I found your video on RUclips and I just started to love watching your videos and podcasts on spotify! And virtual hugs to anyone who needs it or is just having a bad day! Love yall!❤❤❤❤

    • @victoriabrowne
      @victoriabrowne  3 года назад

      thank you so much Ayah!! I definitely DO see this :) appreciate your support for my channel and the pod!

  • @Ayod2k7
    @Ayod2k7 3 года назад +3

    😚😚😜😝😚

  • @milkers3605
    @milkers3605 3 года назад

    Free therapy?

  • @anthonyp8466
    @anthonyp8466 3 года назад

    Hi

  • @zuzannaochwat1906
    @zuzannaochwat1906 3 года назад

    Hello. I am a volleyball player and I would like to consider becoming a Libero. Can you make some videos with more mental, form, and other tips for Libero’s?

  • @scarletrose1072
    @scarletrose1072 3 года назад

    My mom is scared of me going to therapy and denies I want or need it even when I told her I wanted to go

  • @welcome3343
    @welcome3343 3 года назад +1

    What therapy is like ? Is it like talking to a psychologist doctor?

  • @ashleydeabler1768
    @ashleydeabler1768 3 года назад

    Can you do a video talking about ur mental health journey ?and the pressures with volleyball!!! I’m dealing with that with swim and it’s rlly hard🥺🥺

  • @laneyfright9045
    @laneyfright9045 3 года назад

    hey, I love you videos I hope you feel better and I got a question to ask I know this is probably related to the video but does the height really matter if you can jump about 7 feet high long or longer? because my door is 8 feet long and I can jump that high with an approach run and without and my name is Fatimah and I am a girl who is 5'1 in middle school

  • @jenard5061
    @jenard5061 3 года назад

    Can you do a haikyuu reaction??.....love your videos ❤️❤️❤️

  • @froggy8814
    @froggy8814 3 года назад

    Love you SO much Victoria!!! I’m so grateful for you

  • @marialegrand9694
    @marialegrand9694 3 года назад

    thank you for making this video victoria, i love your content and you! you make me feel so much better about myself:)))

  • @kelsiek8221
    @kelsiek8221 3 года назад

    i’m a high school volleyball player and i’d love to know your most recommended volleyball shoes!!

  • @blahblahblah8243
    @blahblahblah8243 3 года назад

    I'm so happy because I started my anxiety meds today and I was so scared to ask for help but I think I will finally feel better soon

  • @lillyholmgren4028
    @lillyholmgren4028 3 года назад

    Thank you so much for saving me I love you! Also you are so gorgeous!!❤️❤️❤️

  • @averygaming8707
    @averygaming8707 3 года назад +1

    I's so glad you went to therapy! We support you in everyway

  • @nicolesabolchic6798
    @nicolesabolchic6798 3 года назад

    I was going to watch this when you uploaded, but I thought I should wait until after practice when I was all showerd, ready for bed, and nice and settled ahahha

  • @samuelgilmore3653
    @samuelgilmore3653 3 года назад

    This was really helpful to me because a lot of times i'm scared to face the anxiety that I have and its nice to know that I have this whole community by my side!

  • @rachelbrenzel3853
    @rachelbrenzel3853 3 года назад

    i literally love therapy like i talk about my stuff all the time but talking to a person who specializes in it is so good because they can explain why and how to cope with it

  • @cruzn0216
    @cruzn0216 3 года назад

    Victoria, you should collab with coach donnie!!

  • @sofiaa.4038
    @sofiaa.4038 3 года назад

    i love the fact that vic is so open about mental health and personal stuff, it makes me so happy her channel is such a safe space 🤍

  • @Kimi-dk7if
    @Kimi-dk7if 3 года назад

    anyone else who reeeally needed this without knowing it?

  • @Maya-og4mi
    @Maya-og4mi 3 года назад +1

    ❤️

  • @l34h6
    @l34h6 Год назад

    The dots of blood give me tryphobia but it’s also oddly satisfying

  • @cadiec4829
    @cadiec4829 3 года назад +1

    💚💚

  • @elianastarbuck
    @elianastarbuck 3 года назад

    Thanks for being so open. I finally sat my parents down do talk about my anxiety and depression so they are putting me in therapy again because I wanted to. Thank you for making me feel normal:)

  • @ProfessorPhily
    @ProfessorPhily 3 года назад

    Why in your volleyball games you don’t wear a different colour jersey your the libero

    • @victoriabrowne
      @victoriabrowne  3 года назад

      I do! you might have been watching a game from freshman year when I was a DS

  • @RDiniz-qs5sz
    @RDiniz-qs5sz 3 года назад

    React to haikyuu

  • @valdirpunca4579
    @valdirpunca4579 3 года назад

    Amei ❤❤

  • @kyleetriska4877
    @kyleetriska4877 3 года назад +3

    Hiii what grade did you start playing club volleyball if you did play club

  • @zoomie5682
    @zoomie5682 3 года назад +2

    I been waiting for her to post a new video, I love your videos