exactly, and if she comes back, have a bit of dignity and don't go back out with her. if she was immature enough to just ghost you, then can you imagine what she would be like in a relationship.
A girl did this to me quite recently. First she was all about me and we had amazing times together, but after 2 months of dating she became distant and flaked on me a couple of times when we were supposed to meet again. Even though this made me very sad, I kept my cool and responded with respect, but I guess it's time for a little silence now. I'm not very positive that she will come back to me, but to be honest, I don't even care anymore. I think it's extremely childish and disrespectful to make excuses and to keep the other in a "leash" by not telling what's going on. I'm going to find someone who appreciates me and my time by not acting like an idiot.
Am confused myself This girl I truly liked and she liked me even more on the first date Surprisingly enough her first date was her B Day ! Ya I acted a little needy or pushy at certain instances But she had a heart of GOLD she never let me down and would always get back to me Not initiate a contact though and only reply to my message in a timely manner and sometimes IMMEDIATELY Now I knew this girl was extremely busy she was only 21 working 12 hours a day on feet in a foreign country, she didn’t even has a desk and sometimes she would work over 7 days in a row with no day off ! And before u asked she worked in a hotel as clients relations staff, she literally explained to me her job involving doing EVERYTHING and ANYTHING she is asked for and was on her what’s app with clients most of the time, I even seen that with my own eyes when I went once to pick her up work, she was surrounded with clients like a humming bee in the hotel reception Second date she hugged me extremely excited to see me and kissed me on the cheek, and on our date things were good, but then she started talking in a weird way saying so far I haven’t found the right man on tinder and I tried everything WTF ! I don’t like a kind guy, I like a charismatic guy etc, so far I could tell I was amazing with her on that date we even sat together, it sure what happened on that date for her to give me this weird passive sense weird talk in the middle of the evening !!! It’s NOT like I farted or anything at the middle of the date wth then she has all the right to simply bail !… After 48 hours I messaged her saying thanks for the nice evening She said yea it was a nice evening After 2 days I said hey what r u doing on 24 august She replied: work I was like 🤔 Then I said when r u having ur day off She went dark I said am planning to take u somewhere amazing She asked: where One word answer again ! 🙄🤔 I said to the theme park She went dark And since then on chat whenever I say hi how was ur day She would reply reply nicely RIGHT AWAY !! But when I asked on her day off or to meet I won’t get a response Anyone knows what on earth that means ?! Fun fact: that night I acted really amazing on the second date, even said hi to her friend and was a gentleman, just not sure why she made such a weird statement at the end of the date ! Or was she simply after a free dinner, and if it was the case why would she hug me and kiss when I picked her up ! I failed to see and REAL issues in the second date I swear, is she playing hard to get or what ?! Am so damn confused !!…..
Alot of you guys in the comment section are missing the point, and well, alot of these dating gurus aren't really always the best at explaining the MOST important thing of all. Loss is normal, but keep in mind that neediness is a BIG flaw that needs to be addressed on your own. And you have to take a good look at yourselves before you go on saying "fuck her, if she comes back she's GONE", don't lie to yourselves, men. We screwed up too because we may have pushed too hard or whatever because of the issues that WE ALSO have. Get real, boys. Hit the gym. Fix your finances. Adopt a great diet. Read a book. Spend time with folks that care about you. Help others. Make goals.
How in the fuck am I supposed to talk to 3 or 4 different women at all times, when I can't even get one to text me back or agree to chill with me? That is the worst "tip" I've ever heard in my life.
No matter how tempting it is do not respond to her when she goes cold!! If she actually does like you she WILL come back, but you’ll ruin any chance of that if you start messaging her constantly asking what happened. It’s a shit test
This so true. Dealing with one right now. Though am tempted to go and talk to her but I just have to refrain myself. She's telling friends that am acting like princess by not talking to her meanwhile she's been the one putting walls between us
She wants to be able to do or say whatever she feels like without any negative consequence for her, for her behavior. Somehow it's your fault for taking issue with her stiff arming you.
@@bronhanrylghan2712 I disagree and I think what am doing is right. I've been subscribe to karma RUclips channel and when this video came up in affirmation to my decision I was very happy though somehow sad at the same time because I really like her but just have to know when to draw the line. It's a long story between us and she was always looking forward to seeing me and even calling me at crazy hour of the night when am on night shift and when she supposed to be sleeping and We spent hours talking on phone. incident happened during the brief time we were together and I know I wasn't in the wrong so am glad am doing the right thing since this video confirm it.
Maybe expect her to grow up & meet you halfway, rather than enabling & encouraging her to treat you like shite, randomly? A woman who would treat a guy like this w/o even talking to them or giving them an opportunity to deal with or correct whatever isn't working anymore is more of a little girl than a grown woman & isn't ready for a real relationship, anyway. If women deserve to be treated well & fairly by men (& obviously they do), than men deserve to be treated well & fairly by women, too
This happened to me more than once. On exactly one occasion the woman came back 2 years later and admitted she got scared and ran away. A month or so later she told someone else in my presence she didn't want kids. I lost interest in her, then. Just keep it moving with women like this. Not worth it.
The point of no return. It’s obviously a waste of time chasing a dead relationship, move on, and that’s folks. As for chasing other women Annabella, I don’t think so, as it’s not as simple as you remarked.
I took this girl on tinder on a date, we had dinner, caught a movie but she seemed distant and the car ride back was so quiet and awkward because I didn't know how to handle that situation 😂 I texted her that night saying it was nice to meet u and we should hang out again. She said it was nice meeting you too. After that we didn't text and I didn't bother reaching out to her again. You win some and you lose some fellas, keep it movin. The movie was good as fuck tho 😂
I've realized they're testing you how much you wanted them, before going dark. No one plays this game unless they're done, imo. Human nature is fucked up :) Our evolutionary codes dictates us when choosing a partner. Even if you're the most desirable men every day of the week, but you show weakness 1 time, you're done. There's no going back.
Ok so let's say you apply the no contact rule and it worked and she initiated contact with you and soon asks why you suddenly stopped talking with her, what is the best answer to that? Just say that I was busy or is there a better response? I would imagine this question would usually come out whether she is testing you or just wondering since you were constantly messaging her before she started acting cold.
I hate this feeling! She wanted space and I give it her and then she called me and texted me herself after 2 days saying she misses me. I tried to get her to talk and she became cold and told me we ain’t really together but then when I tried to clarify she states she doesn’t know if we are together anymore because talking to me has become awkward. She has become very cold towards my feelings and rants saying you have said and done a lot to me and I’m not going to sit here telling you I want you or have long conversations with you. I have a feeling she is being pursued by other men and they have got into her head as she’s always had sexual urges to be promiscuous. Please help people as I’m going to ask for space this time as she’s literally kicking me to the curb whenever I try show emotion. First day of the argument she went and posted a picture titled CRUSH and then hi on a selfie on her public Snapchat account and when I questioned her she denied it stating it’s just a filter! God bless anyone who is dealing with this
Is this apply to crushes ? Because i had a huge crush on this girl in my workplace and we were having good times for a wahile and then suddenly she goes cold on me . She rarely chat with me . I just wondering . DId I do something wrong ?
Not to jump on a woman bashing bandwagon, but this is so true. That's why the only thing you can do when she does try to get back on your radar is move on and not reply. The video leaves out 2 key pieces of information. She ghosted you because she's more attracted to another guy, and when she's done blowing him or wants something different, or if he moves on from her, that's when she will reach back out to you, because you're "always there." The second key piece is that 90% of them do hit you up when you go no contact, that 10% being someone you've dated on and off for years (at one point if it's not working they will stop). Which leads to the why - why talk to 3 or 4 girls? Because this will undoubtedly happen with at least 2 of them, and the 3rd or 4th won't do it to you because you've likely been paying more attention to the first 2. Unlike guys, women are more perceptive to when they are or are not a priority. If they think they aren't the priority, then they want you because they feel compelled to "date up" and not "date down." The whole game is such a psycho fuck of women standing in their own way because they're obsessed with the idea of feeling special and struggling to get the best guy or the most challenging guy, instead of realizing that they're likely leaving behind an interested dude for a head case. Where guys fuck up - where I have historically fucked up - is by prioritizing women and dating over the other, far more important, aspects of your life. Until a woman is calling you multiple times a week or trying her best to impress you or remember the things you care about, then she really doesn't like you the way you might think she does. Every other interaction is her just playing the stupid game.
Majority of women now playing head games or cheating on you or just using you for what you have without earing anything from you so move on find something better watch out for golddiggers and.players and cheaters liars
christopher Taylor you men started with this playing games crap. women play games because they want to defend themselves. if all men would get their shit together and not just think about sex and cheating, the world would look better
If a woman goes quite or ignore you during the relationship. Just move on. If she comes back. That's your decision to take her back. But dont be a fool to take her back while she left the first time. Focus on yourself go out with your friends . if you are a guy call a call girl. Go to the club. Man. Just focus on you. Life is too short to be to worrying about a woman that left out of your life for another dude. Im like this. If she's gone before don't take her back . because she'll do it again. Just remember that.
2:03 - I'm actually surprised to hear that. Talk to 3-4 women at a time? I think you need to have a good skill to balance all that and what's been said in conversations. Have to be careful with not crossing names, words, etc to other conversations by accident.
Let's get this straight, the lady texted me first. I responded and never heard back. I am not wasting anymore time. Yes, I knew ahead of time that I SHOULD HAVE WAITED 24 HOURS......SO STUPID THOUGH. If I have to go through games, I'd rather be single. I want a lady, NOT A GIRL.
I attempted suicide cause my ex girlfriend left me 2 months ago. My friends and family reached out to her when I was going through the crisis. She blocked them all. The other for the first time I contacted her and my number is still blocked. All I want is to atleast be her friend or be quadral and it hurts so much. After all I've done for her. It hurts that she doesn't consider me
She’s a fucking witch man, not worth anything. I know that the pain is unbearable, but it just proves how much of a disgusting person she is. We’re here with you!
"put the ball in her court... " that's really a clear way to put it because rationally we all can grasp that once you put the ball in her court, it's in HER court. Thanks again.
I been talking to this girl & we've been talking for 5 months I gave her my phone number & we both live in Cali I haven't met her yet but I'm thinking that she's gonna meet me in real life maybe on the weekend I still like her & have feelings for her but she's going thru a lot right now & I'm praying for her right now but if is not gonna workout for me in 2019 then I'll move on & do what I have to do but if she likes me & have feelings for me & if she follow her heart & I'm Following mine anything is possible so I'm hoping for the best I got one last chance at finding love again & hopefully meet someone that I don't know I'm crossing both of my fingers & I hope this works in the up coming year
How can you have feelings for someone you’ve never met? And also 5 months is wayyyyy too long to be talking to someone without planning on meeting them. Lemme burst your bubbles, it’s not gonna work bro that’s just the bottom line. You saying she’s going through a lot right now is just your way of trying to justify the reason why she’s probably not putting out to seeing you or agreeing to dates ( if you’ve summoned up the balls to ask her out ) she’s most probably just using you for comfort and a shoulder to cry on whilst some other Asshole is dicking her down when she wants so I’ll advice you not to waste your time brother and don’t put all your eggs in one basket just in case this girl blows you off. Go and talk to other girls
How does this rule work for girls in LTRs who show me interest & then ghost me? But I know she wants me to message her first because she feels guilty talking to me so just stalks me online apps waiting for me to message...how do I deal with that? I refuse to message this girl for 5 months due to her ignoring my last 2 invites & I was waiting for her to contact me but she hasn't....yet she still checks my social media. what is her issue?
verveblack she’s trying to manipulate you and from the sound of things you’re acting weak and you’re coming from a scarcity mindset “I was waiting for her to message me” that’s what a needy person will say. So you didn’t pull back because you felt like you’re worthy of her time, you pulled back because you thought it would solve your problem. She’s checking your social media on purpose just to fuck with your head and make you go crazy and eventually message her and from the sound of things it’s working so far. So the best thing you can do is fucking delete her number and go and talk to other girls very simple as that. Now I know you’re probably too weak to do such thing but either you do that or you message her and she’ll never respect you ever again and you lose her
If she goes cold on you, buy her ice cream! Or maybe hot chocolate. Or both. Because if she takes hot chocolate, you get ice cream. Or if she takes the ice cream, you get hot chocolate.
Personally I think if a girl goes cold on you she isn't worth it. Sod her if she comes back. Sick of this bullsh*t. Just say it during the first date not in a message a week later before the 2nd date.
I just got a message from a woman I was about to have a second date with. She said I don't have enough drive for her and she said it was nice meeting you but I don't want to see you again. Me is confused especially after the hug she gave me at the end of the first date. Time to move on I think. I have no time for such women. Life is too short. I replied with okay nice meeting you good luck in finding the right man and maybes you are right, and I have now blocked her. I had two women do this to me now. Getting really fed up with it. Think I will just give up and not bother.
Okay girls if you want to get cold and want to leave, its okay with me but after love making is done. I am sure after that you will be addicted to me unless you will find better performer than me 🤣🤣
@@Mr.Meme1885 yeh, it’s rather tragic just how many guys have such low self esteem that they’ll put themselves through the wringer in the hope she’ll throw a few bread crumbs their way. Anyone who values themselves won’t allow that to happen.
I hope you did nothing. Chances are she's not that interested.. I bet you're not even talking to her now are you? Even if you're not.. it's all good man. You saved yourself a headache or even a heartache
What do you do when she goes cold, but has not told you to keep off? Just end it and move on, dont get strung alone like a fool. Have values and standards, communicate them and don't be afraid to stick to them. Respect yourself as a man and dont ever become subservient to a woman and her games
Now after 3 yr suddenly all these stuffs are happening to me ......😧😧😧.she loves me so much but suddenly she is silent and doesn't want to talk with me much.....
Let it go man. It's a heartache waiting to happen. Focus on becoming a better version of yourself.. instead of worrying about letting her down, worry about letting yourself down. You do deserve better! .. stay strong
The Yellow Van Yeh I thought that. I don’t like the way this video portrays guys as thick-skinned, unemotional oafs who just casually chase after multiple women and somehow don’t get affected by rejection. It also portrays women in a negative light and trivialises the act of ghosting, which is by no means something that all women do. To me it feels like a tacky and superficial video that perpetuates gender stereotypes.
But at the same time you should always be meeting other women. There's really nothing that special about women especially ones that are ghosting you. She does not respect you enough to reply, find one that does.
@@jehriasean6379 Logically that makes perfect sense. Emotionally, it's not that simple. Everyone deals with rejection in different ways, but it can be really painful, especially if it's someone you genuinely had feelings for. This 'brush yourself off and get out there and meet other women' thing is fine, but some people need time to reflect on what happened, and recover from it.
Exactly what happened to me so she posted this weird post on fb when I asked bout it she sad a male friend of her hurt her and that's post is for him I sad what happend but she didn't want to tell me I insisted he u know what she sad let's break up hhhhh
hey guys, my crush and I was texting for last 6 months but I began to notice that I do kickstart texting all the time. so I decided to go no contact for last 36 days and there's no response from her end. shud I continue no contact? how long shud I wait? i can't believe this bitch can't just say " hi " thinking of the times I had helped her ...sucks !! Guys, please help me here
Dont do anything, she doesn't deserve you
exactly, and if she comes back, have a bit of dignity and don't go back out with her.
if she was immature enough to just ghost you, then can you imagine what she would be like in a relationship.
@@stuarthanna3650 well said
haha yes because all men are perfect and never do anything wrong, i dont think you deserve her.
But then I'm back at square one
Go back to Rosie Palm and her five daughters. Much more practical.
if she ever does contact you again, which is rare, ignore her like she did to you. its only fair.
A girl did this to me quite recently. First she was all about me and we had amazing times together, but after 2 months of dating she became distant and flaked on me a couple of times when we were supposed to meet again. Even though this made me very sad, I kept my cool and responded with respect, but I guess it's time for a little silence now. I'm not very positive that she will come back to me, but to be honest, I don't even care anymore. I think it's extremely childish and disrespectful to make excuses and to keep the other in a "leash" by not telling what's going on. I'm going to find someone who appreciates me and my time by not acting like an idiot.
Well said
@Alex Ramos no time for shit test
This is EXACTLY what happened to me, just a few weeks ago.
i hate to be. . . like a dick and all, but if you didn't care, why are you watching the video.
Am confused myself
This girl I truly liked and she liked me even more on the first date
Surprisingly enough her first date was her B Day !
Ya I acted a little needy or pushy at certain instances
But she had a heart of GOLD she never let me down and would always get back to me
Not initiate a contact though and only reply to my message in a timely manner and sometimes IMMEDIATELY
Now I knew this girl was extremely busy she was only 21 working 12 hours a day on feet in a foreign country, she didn’t even has a desk and sometimes she would work over 7 days in a row with no day off ! And before u asked she worked in a hotel as clients relations staff, she literally explained to me her job involving doing EVERYTHING and ANYTHING she is asked for and was on her what’s app with clients most of the time, I even seen that with my own eyes when I went once to pick her up work, she was surrounded with clients like a humming bee in the hotel reception
Second date she hugged me extremely excited to see me and kissed me on the cheek, and on our date things were good, but then she started talking in a weird way saying so far I haven’t found the right man on tinder and I tried everything WTF ! I don’t like a kind guy, I like a charismatic guy etc, so far I could tell I was amazing with her on that date we even sat together, it sure what happened on that date for her to give me this weird passive sense weird talk in the middle of the evening !!! It’s NOT like I farted or anything at the middle of the date wth then she has all the right to simply bail !…
After 48 hours I messaged her saying thanks for the nice evening
She said yea it was a nice evening
After 2 days I said hey what r u doing on 24 august
She replied: work
I was like 🤔
Then I said when r u having ur day off
She went dark
I said am planning to take u somewhere amazing
She asked: where
One word answer again ! 🙄🤔
I said to the theme park
She went dark
And since then on chat whenever I say hi how was ur day
She would reply reply nicely RIGHT AWAY !!
But when I asked on her day off or to meet
I won’t get a response
Anyone knows what on earth that means ?!
Fun fact: that night I acted really amazing on the second date, even said hi to her friend and was a gentleman, just not sure why she made such a weird statement at the end of the date ! Or was she simply after a free dinner, and if it was the case why would she hug me and kiss when I picked her up ! I failed to see and REAL issues in the second date I swear, is she playing hard to get or what ?! Am so damn confused !!…..
Alot of you guys in the comment section are missing the point, and well, alot of these dating gurus aren't really always the best at explaining the MOST important thing of all. Loss is normal, but keep in mind that neediness is a BIG flaw that needs to be addressed on your own. And you have to take a good look at yourselves before you go on saying "fuck her, if she comes back she's GONE", don't lie to yourselves, men. We screwed up too because we may have pushed too hard or whatever because of the issues that WE ALSO have. Get real, boys.
Hit the gym.
Fix your finances.
Adopt a great diet.
Read a book.
Spend time with folks that care about you.
Help others.
Make goals.
just move on and leave her to it, she is not showing maturity, or genuine interest.
Just block her and move on. You’ll be surprise how easy it is to forget these type of people. Don’t waste your time.
How in the fuck am I supposed to talk to 3 or 4 different women at all times, when I can't even get one to text me back or agree to chill with me? That is the worst "tip" I've ever heard in my life.
No matter how tempting it is do not respond to her when she goes cold!! If she actually does like you she WILL come back, but you’ll ruin any chance of that if you start messaging her constantly asking what happened. It’s a shit test
“The change will be genuine” yeah sure it will...people who play games like going hot and cold are rarely genuine
If she’s cold she’s playing hard to get or not interested all depends on if you value her enough to try and push through
I did and now we're single
@@davidmichaels362I get he means not doing no contact
This so true. Dealing with one right now. Though am tempted to go and talk to her but I just have to refrain myself. She's telling friends that am acting like princess by not talking to her meanwhile she's been the one putting walls between us
She wants to be able to do or say whatever she feels like without any negative consequence for her, for her behavior.
Somehow it's your fault for taking issue with her stiff arming you.
@@bronhanrylghan2712 I disagree and I think what am doing is right. I've been subscribe to karma RUclips channel and when this video came up in affirmation to my decision I was very happy though somehow sad at the same time because I really like her but just have to know when to draw the line. It's a long story between us and she was always looking forward to seeing me and even calling me at crazy hour of the night when am on night shift and when she supposed to be sleeping and We spent hours talking on phone. incident happened during the brief time we were together and I know I wasn't in the wrong so am glad am doing the right thing since this video confirm it.
@@benny1978ben Best wishes to you & she, than.
better to be single
Hahaaaa😂😂😂
It’s all about the game, and how you play it.
Hahahah
Maybe expect her to grow up & meet you halfway, rather than enabling & encouraging her to treat you like shite, randomly?
A woman who would treat a guy like this w/o even talking to them or giving them an opportunity to deal with or correct whatever isn't working anymore is more of a little girl than a grown woman & isn't ready for a real relationship, anyway.
If women deserve to be treated well & fairly by men (& obviously they do), than men deserve to be treated well & fairly by women, too
This happened to me more than once. On exactly one occasion the woman came back 2 years later and admitted she got scared and ran away. A month or so later she told someone else in my presence she didn't want kids. I lost interest in her, then. Just keep it moving with women like this. Not worth it.
The point of no return. It’s obviously a waste of time chasing a dead relationship, move on, and that’s folks. As for chasing other women Annabella, I don’t think so, as it’s not as simple as you remarked.
Nothing go on with your daily routine and let her kick rocks.
I took this girl on tinder on a date, we had dinner, caught a movie but she seemed distant and the car ride back was so quiet and awkward because I didn't know how to handle that situation 😂 I texted her that night saying it was nice to meet u and we should hang out again. She said it was nice meeting you too. After that we didn't text and I didn't bother reaching out to her again. You win some and you lose some fellas, keep it movin. The movie was good as fuck tho 😂
What movie was it man
Darnel F. Glad you enjoyed the movie💪🏻🙏🏻
What movie
I've realized they're testing you how much you wanted them, before going dark. No one plays this game unless they're done, imo.
Human nature is fucked up :) Our evolutionary codes dictates us when choosing a partner. Even if you're the most desirable men every day of the week, but you show weakness 1 time, you're done. There's no going back.
Ok so let's say you apply the no contact rule and it worked and she initiated contact with you and soon asks why you suddenly stopped talking with her, what is the best answer to that? Just say that I was busy or is there a better response? I would imagine this question would usually come out whether she is testing you or just wondering since you were constantly messaging her before she started acting cold.
Or maybe you just tell her the truth about why you went no contact and let her know how you really think of the relationship.
Tell her the truth. You get respect how you give it.
Just tell her you felt she needed space to figure out what was important to her. Or you thought she needed space. Just be honest
It means her feelings have changed you should move on
Easier said than done
Only the English would make a RUclips video about dating and shoot it in a noisy pub :D aaaah gotta love them
The pub is our natural habitat haha
what if she unfollowed me for no reason and I want to step back but it's almost Christmas break and I want to confront her about it what should I do?
I followed the no contact rule and she hasn’t messaged me for 6 months :/
Respect the dead
I hate this feeling! She wanted space and I give it her and then she called me and texted me herself after 2 days saying she misses me.
I tried to get her to talk and she became cold and told me we ain’t really together but then when I tried to clarify she states she doesn’t know if we are together anymore because talking to me has become awkward.
She has become very cold towards my feelings and rants saying you have said and done a lot to me and I’m not going to sit here telling you I want you or have long conversations with you. I have a feeling she is being pursued by other men and they have got into her head as she’s always had sexual urges to be promiscuous. Please help people as I’m going to ask for space this time as she’s literally kicking me to the curb whenever I try show emotion. First day of the argument she went and posted a picture titled CRUSH and then hi on a selfie on her public Snapchat account and when I questioned her she denied it stating it’s just a filter!
God bless anyone who is dealing with this
You guys are amazing, you guys gave me lots of hope , thank you so much , so classy too
1:59 wait the advice this guy gives completely contradicts what she said just a second earlier… no contact to start talking immediately?? Huh?!!
How can I have abundance mentality when I'm stuck in quarantine?
Thank you guys for this so much! 💜💜🙏🏼
Is this apply to crushes ? Because i had a huge crush on this girl in my workplace and we were having good times for a wahile and then suddenly she goes cold on me . She rarely chat with me . I just wondering . DId I do something wrong ?
Sammmeeee man😑
Impunity definition: Exemption from punishment or freedom from the injurious consequences of an action. This is the definition of women.
Not to jump on a woman bashing bandwagon, but this is so true. That's why the only thing you can do when she does try to get back on your radar is move on and not reply. The video leaves out 2 key pieces of information. She ghosted you because she's more attracted to another guy, and when she's done blowing him or wants something different, or if he moves on from her, that's when she will reach back out to you, because you're "always there." The second key piece is that 90% of them do hit you up when you go no contact, that 10% being someone you've dated on and off for years (at one point if it's not working they will stop). Which leads to the why - why talk to 3 or 4 girls? Because this will undoubtedly happen with at least 2 of them, and the 3rd or 4th won't do it to you because you've likely been paying more attention to the first 2. Unlike guys, women are more perceptive to when they are or are not a priority. If they think they aren't the priority, then they want you because they feel compelled to "date up" and not "date down." The whole game is such a psycho fuck of women standing in their own way because they're obsessed with the idea of feeling special and struggling to get the best guy or the most challenging guy, instead of realizing that they're likely leaving behind an interested dude for a head case. Where guys fuck up - where I have historically fucked up - is by prioritizing women and dating over the other, far more important, aspects of your life. Until a woman is calling you multiple times a week or trying her best to impress you or remember the things you care about, then she really doesn't like you the way you might think she does. Every other interaction is her just playing the stupid game.
Does it apply to long distance relationships?
??
I was used a rebound. She was only single 1 month, pursued me like crazy, we done the deed then she disappeared.
Most likely back to her ex lol
Majority of women now playing head games or cheating on you or just using you for what you have without earing anything from you so move on find something better watch out for golddiggers and.players and cheaters liars
christopher Taylor lmao smart man try explaining that to the rest of the idiots.
@@EricJA921 who ever disliked this comment are idiots just saying for what it is about now
christopher Taylor you men started with this playing games crap. women play games because they want to defend themselves. if all men would get their shit together and not just think about sex and cheating, the world would look better
Good advice, thanks
If a woman goes quite or ignore you during the relationship. Just move on. If she comes back. That's your decision to take her back. But dont be a fool to take her back while she left the first time. Focus on yourself go out with your friends . if you are a guy call a call girl. Go to the club. Man. Just focus on you. Life is too short to be to worrying about a woman that left out of your life for another dude. Im like this. If she's gone before don't take her back . because she'll do it again. Just remember that.
Thanks for this tips 👍👍👌👌🙏🙏
Welcome 😊
Treat people as they treat you.It's that simple.No mumbo jumbo is necessary.Life is very very short.
How long should no contact zone be
2:03 - I'm actually surprised to hear that. Talk to 3-4 women at a time? I think you need to have a good skill to balance all that and what's been said in conversations. Have to be careful with not crossing names, words, etc to other conversations by accident.
When a girl goes cold on you it's time to call 911 , she's probably dead .
what if i do something wrong? should i apologize first before no contact rule
Talk to 3 or more at the same time always back fires for me. Wouldn't recommend that to everyone.
great advice
Very good videos guys!!!!!
Why there’s so much noise in the background
If another guy is sniffing about it's not good to go no contact and leave the way open. This happened to me.
This is so true
and in this way, we affirm the rude behavior of ghosting. got it.
These are simple and effective tips
Let's get this straight, the lady texted me first. I responded and never heard back. I am not wasting anymore time. Yes, I knew ahead of time that I SHOULD HAVE WAITED 24 HOURS......SO STUPID THOUGH. If I have to go through games, I'd rather be single. I want a lady, NOT A GIRL.
I attempted suicide cause my ex girlfriend left me 2 months ago. My friends and family reached out to her when I was going through the crisis. She blocked them all. The other for the first time I contacted her and my number is still blocked. All I want is to atleast be her friend or be quadral and it hurts so much. After all I've done for her. It hurts that she doesn't consider me
Manolo19990 Pluas FUCK THAT BITCH
She’s a fucking witch man, not worth anything. I know that the pain is unbearable, but it just proves how much of a disgusting person she is. We’re here with you!
"put the ball in her court... " that's really a clear way to put it because rationally we all can grasp that once you put the ball in her court, it's in HER court. Thanks again.
Thanks for the comment!
I been talking to this girl & we've been talking for 5 months I gave her my phone number & we both live in Cali I haven't met her yet but I'm thinking that she's gonna meet me in real life maybe on the weekend I still like her & have feelings for her but she's going thru a lot right now & I'm praying for her right now but if is not gonna workout for me in 2019 then I'll move on & do what I have to do but if she likes me & have feelings for me & if she follow her heart & I'm Following mine anything is possible so I'm hoping for the best I got one last chance at finding love again & hopefully meet someone that I don't know I'm crossing both of my fingers & I hope this works in the up coming year
How can you have feelings for someone you’ve never met? And also 5 months is wayyyyy too long to be talking to someone without planning on meeting them. Lemme burst your bubbles, it’s not gonna work bro that’s just the bottom line. You saying she’s going through a lot right now is just your way of trying to justify the reason why she’s probably not putting out to seeing you or agreeing to dates ( if you’ve summoned up the balls to ask her out ) she’s most probably just using you for comfort and a shoulder to cry on whilst some other Asshole is dicking her down when she wants so I’ll advice you not to waste your time brother and don’t put all your eggs in one basket just in case this girl blows you off. Go and talk to other girls
Thank you
How does this rule work for girls in LTRs who show me interest & then ghost me? But I know she wants me to message her first because she feels guilty talking to me so just stalks me online apps waiting for me to message...how do I deal with that? I refuse to message this girl for 5 months due to her ignoring my last 2 invites & I was waiting for her to contact me but she hasn't....yet she still checks my social media. what is her issue?
verveblack she’s trying to manipulate you and from the sound of things you’re acting weak and you’re coming from a scarcity mindset “I was waiting for her to message me” that’s what a needy person will say. So you didn’t pull back because you felt like you’re worthy of her time, you pulled back because you thought it would solve your problem. She’s checking your social media on purpose just to fuck with your head and make you go crazy and eventually message her and from the sound of things it’s working so far. So the best thing you can do is fucking delete her number and go and talk to other girls very simple as that. Now I know you’re probably too weak to do such thing but either you do that or you message her and she’ll never respect you ever again and you lose her
If she goes cold on you, buy her ice cream! Or maybe hot chocolate. Or both. Because if she takes hot chocolate, you get ice cream. Or if she takes the ice cream, you get hot chocolate.
Damn.. I think I've just about given up on woman and relations at this point
What if they died?
Goes cold gets wiped. Make no contact at all.
Personally I think if a girl goes cold on you she isn't worth it. Sod her if she comes back. Sick of this bullsh*t. Just say it during the first date not in a message a week later before the 2nd date.
I think all girls are same. Cold frigid statue
Good stuff!!
I just got a message from a woman I was about to have a second date with. She said I don't have enough drive for her and she said it was nice meeting you but I don't want to see you again. Me is confused especially after the hug she gave me at the end of the first date. Time to move on I think. I have no time for such women. Life is too short. I replied with okay nice meeting you good luck in finding the right man and maybes you are right, and I have now blocked her.
I had two women do this to me now. Getting really fed up with it. Think I will just give up and not bother.
Run
Okay girls if you want to get cold and want to leave, its okay with me but after love making is done. I am sure after that you will be addicted to me unless you will find better performer than me 🤣🤣
Yes 😂😂😂
Had I watched this video b4, she'd b with me up to date,I rushed things when she went cold and now we r single
Very nice 👍
You do nothing. You walk away and find someone who doesn’t do this.
*What to do when a girl goes cold on you? Become colder.*
Yep, just block her. Life is too short to waste on someone who plays games
@@michaelangel25 Absolutely!
@@Mr.Meme1885 yeh, it’s rather tragic just how many guys have such low self esteem that they’ll put themselves through the wringer in the hope she’ll throw a few bread crumbs their way. Anyone who values themselves won’t allow that to happen.
@@michaelangel25 Exactly! A foolish man doesn't value himself, but a wise man does.
Become colder 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Hmmm🤔 so what should I do if I got left on read
I hope you did nothing. Chances are she's not that interested.. I bet you're not even talking to her now are you? Even if you're not.. it's all good man. You saved yourself a headache or even a heartache
Y’all right
Can i just give her a blanket
Loved u both
Hi Anne 🌹 I don't have a friend like you.you are expression queen🌹❤️
Shit is weird lol, everyday its like a different person not worth the time.
I really needed this with this girl i know now thats not talking to me #handy
What do you do when she goes cold, but has not told you to keep off? Just end it and move on, dont get strung alone like a fool. Have values and standards, communicate them and don't be afraid to stick to them. Respect yourself as a man and dont ever become subservient to a woman and her games
Are you guys at the party
Now after 3 yr suddenly all these stuffs are happening to me ......😧😧😧.she loves me so much but suddenly she is silent and doesn't want to talk with me much.....
Let it go man. It's a heartache waiting to happen. Focus on becoming a better version of yourself.. instead of worrying about letting her down, worry about letting yourself down. You do deserve better! .. stay strong
Talk to many women and work on bettering ur life. If she's meant for u she will return. Hope all's well
Thanks 👉you
If a girl gets cold because of your disrespectful behaviour and you do a no contact rule you guys all think she will contact you again?
2:46 don't let her know it sucked for you. Ok, so she'll keep doing that shit. Right.
So you have to ignore your own feelings. How's that genuine?
The Yellow Van Yeh I thought that. I don’t like the way this video portrays guys as thick-skinned, unemotional oafs who just casually chase after multiple women and somehow don’t get affected by rejection. It also portrays women in a negative light and trivialises the act of ghosting, which is by no means something that all women do. To me it feels like a tacky and superficial video that perpetuates gender stereotypes.
It is true though when dealing with humans it's not always pretty.
But at the same time you should always be meeting other women. There's really nothing that special about women especially ones that are ghosting you. She does not respect you enough to reply, find one that does.
@@jehriasean6379 Logically that makes perfect sense. Emotionally, it's not that simple. Everyone deals with rejection in different ways, but it can be really painful, especially if it's someone you genuinely had feelings for. This 'brush yourself off and get out there and meet other women' thing is fine, but some people need time to reflect on what happened, and recover from it.
I think it gets easier the more that it happens.
Thousands reason why that’s sick
Hahaha we both are doing the no contact with each other bc we suck at communication
Too much background noise.
then only reason people do it is to make you crave the more!! Think a junkie that can no longer get a hold on their pusher...
Exactly what happened to me so she posted this weird post on fb when I asked bout it she sad a male friend of her hurt her and that's post is for him I sad what happend but she didn't want to tell me I insisted he u know what she sad let's break up hhhhh
Cheers guys 🤘🏼
Ignoring a serious girlfriend's shitty behaviour is just a way of saying it's ok to treat me like shit in the future and I won't do anything about it.
Time to leave the funeral home
Killed his wife because she had a cold, might as well she was getting old - words of wisdom
This is simp behaviour and advice...if a woman goes cold on you cut her out of your life, keep moving forward and never look back.
hey guys, my crush and I was texting for last 6 months but I began to notice that I do kickstart texting all the time. so I decided to go no contact for last 36 days and there's no response from her end. shud I continue no contact? how long shud I wait? i can't believe this bitch can't just say " hi " thinking of the times I had helped her ...sucks !!
Guys, please help me here
slim shady when you cut contact, she thinks you’re not interested. Tell her how you feel
Just move on and find someone else who makes time for you
Imagine when Annabela gets hot
She acts like she wants space and then she reaches out.....
Woman are crazy 😂
If she does not want to come. You can come
Ignore her and dont show any emotions.