She’s right, I left a guy when he started hitting me because I knew it would only get worse. I didn’t tell him I was leaving him I waited until he went to work and packed all my things and left. Best decision.
Did he promise to never do it again? And did he act like a good man other than the hitting? You can go read my recent comment. I’m not trying to troll I’m just looking to relate and understand and feel better about feeling unreasonably guilty for leaving..
@@Yaptoyamomanotme when I left him he came to my workplace and put pictures of himself all over my car and under the door handle he put stuff there and where I put my keys to open the door it was slippery like he put petroleum jelly or something. He stalked me for 2 years begging me to take him back because he said I made him look bad to his family. I didn’t feel bad about leaving him because he threatened to kill me many times. Plus, when he started hitting me I’d hit him back but then he’d hit me even harder back. So I stopped trying to hit him because I didn’t want to die.
@@truth_hunter I’m sorry you had to go through that. It sounds like he wasn’t good in any kind of way. I hope I stop feeling guilty but it just just happened to me like a day ago. He’s extremely upset with me because I called the police because he acted like he was gna do something to me again. I wish the best for you
As Maya Angelou once said, “Believe them when they show you who they are the first time”!…… Run, don’t walk and don’t make excuses for them…… it could very well be the death of you!
I felt that in my soul 😭 reason because I'm 35 and my husband of 7yrs is 61 ,who I think is a narcisse and a bully and a few other things but I love him right 🫣 smh any who "down low". And didn't realize it at the time before the drugs. I had no man, just a friend who was so sweet. He paid for everything anywho 7yrs drugs I was new to it I was set up by a family member "tricked" me into smoking a lace thought it was regular I lost my apartment kids both jobs really good ones got locked up for 4months long story i was innocent of course ❤anywho, I got out after never in my LIFE been to the jail I lost my kids , to someone who got me locked up for personal gain 💔 😪 FLESH AND BLOOD👏👏👏🖕🙌 I was innocent and she kept them, 2 boys at the time was 2 and 4½ things was great until it wasn't a good good life b I was a people pleaser a spread myself thin at time, until i started saying Nope and they would take off work, just to TRY ruin my (IT CAN BE ANY BODY FR )life in anyway possible and they would run over top of me 😢until I got tired of it from Everyone . I started to grow cold and lost myself. I had a lot to lose and lost it over a lie for money. anywho, I was so down, and the (FM)⬅️ family member. Took me out same mom and dad wonderful child hood close close and knew wat I was goin threw. She knew and didn't say anything and I did got addicted it was a feeling I have never felt and wanted more until I lost control. Met my husband showed me his kind side let me do my drugs and all he fell in love never wanted me to leave months go pass an we get married he gave me whatever I wanted I was 26 at the time, not even a month and I was running out the door no shoes,clothes most times and he would chase me and beat me but took it until it felt normal and it was only when he was drinking 😢 so I went back after the 30th time NO lie forgiving him because I depended on him I got lazy and wanted the drugs I got stuck. Finally got it together, after about a yr and he it got worse from losing a baby to being in the hospital,. I have no family 💔 they did me dirty so I stayed thinking it's ok because he love me idk I'm still with him and if he can't have me nobody can.
Demons are very real..alcoholism is a demon..her trying to act crazy....probley turned him on.....thats crazy....im not staying in anymore relationship..my last ex threatened to kill me..I left very fast..😢😢😢
I'm glad you got out of this toxic situation alive. Her story should be a wake up call for women that choose to stay in an abusive relationship. Her man stabbed her 48 times while pregnant with his baby. It will only get worse. The first time a man hits you, LEAVE AND DON'T LOOK BACK!!!!! DON'T TAKE NO ABUSE FROM NOBODY🙏😭
@@sparklesnpizzaz I know that. Those type of men will stalk you and harass you and whoever is close to you. You have to have a plan to get out of that abuse quickly and don't look back.
It's not that we care more about the man then we do our selves is that we cannot believe that they're doing that to us and say that they love us, we're stuck in whirlwind until we can see the truth we're stuck! God help us!
People like him are unhappy with their life and really are suicidal demons love those kind of people because they have a tendency to indulge in drugs and alcohol which allows them to possess you and cause you to act like a lunatic possession is a real thing I've encountered many possessed people if you observe their behavior they all have similar characteristics drugs, alcohol, violence, rage ,suicidal behavior,and seemingly no fear of consequences,
My first husband was abusive physically, took me when he wanted to even that time of the month and I hated him for that. I always fought back but of course I always got the worst end of it. I stayed partly because I wanted my children to grow up with both of their parents, at least that's what I told myself, until one day I realized this was not how I wanted my kids to grow up...thinking it was okay for their parents to fight. My baby was 5 weeks old when I made the decision and I never looked back, never regretted it. I had a girlfriend whose husband stabbed her to death while she was pregnant. By the grace of God, her baby lived but she grew up without her parents. Mama dead, father in jail for life. If you are in an abusive relationship, GET OUT AND DON'T LOOK BACK!!! 19:11
This here! I don’t tolerate any sort of fraternizing. If it doesn’t go well it can ruin your life. I never understand why ppl daily see these kind of things ruining lives for centuries of many stories. Yet get into these types of troubles by men… having their babies when nondersevant ect… over ppl at this point.
My husband's cousin just passes awY from domestic violence he shot her in front of there 4 year old. He never showed he was violent she never had bruises or was never alienated but he was emotionally draining her and financially she finally broke up w/him, none of us never wouldve guessed this. But it's the small things that started to add up you don't know until you educate yourself on what domestic violence is and what can happen even without prior violence .
People are too busy watching shows and television to pay attention to the details. Most are not paying attention enough to care to notice. And these are people we are 'closest' to!
This is the same thing I am going through. He drained me financially and emotionally. Last month he heat me with a backpack full of his staff twice. Threatened to kill me. Dragged me around the room hurt my arm and tried to break my arm. Hurt my chin. It was horror.
@paulinerauwe0085 ... as in, currently? As hard as it is, please try to seek help and resources locally to get out as soon as possible. If a person can express to you that they want to end your life, AND they've already abused you financially, verbally, or physically... they CAN and quite possibly will hurt you in a way that you'll never fully recover from. I can't talk the way I want to cause the platform we are on, but I'm sure you get what I'm trying to say. God Bless you... God wrap your arms around Pauline. Squeeze her & show her what she needs to see Lord, in order to make the wise choices needed to protect her life. Grant her the mental strength and confidence she once had Lord. Embrace her mind, body, and soul-- in your name I pray father, Amen 🙏
Thank you for sharing your experience. I am a DV survivor. The person I was with is in prison 5 consecutive life sentences. I won't get into it further. But I'm grateful to God, I got out in time. It was an "OH! Happy day, moment for me. " I'm still going through, and this was 37 years ago.
Wow! This is a prime example of caring more for a man than you do yourself!! She lied for him and he just didn't care and threw her under the bus after hitting her in the back of the head. This should have been an eye 👁 opening experience!!! Please love ❤️ yourself enough to recognize when someone just doesn't care about you!! Anyone who puts you in danger and allows you to go to jail, does not deserve your love or your loyalty!! You are blessed to be alive!! I pray 🙏 you will never put yourself in harms way again and will leave at the first sign of abuse!!! And I hope this monster will never see the light of day!!! Ladies you have to care more about your safety and well-being as opposed to a man and your abusive relationship!!! Abuse only escalates, it doesn't improve!!!!
I agree 100 percent!!!! More worried about a failed relationship than death itself. It’s hard to feel bad with so many missed opportunities to get away
I normally get upset about these type of comments, but I definitely agree this time. & it wasn’t just a HIT! This man hit her with objects! Bottles, hammers & it took him to stab you?? Like no maam! Hitting isn’t any better but I could probably sympathize more! And my thing is, this was just stupidity period. If this man already jumping on you, why would you hide his keys knowing that wouldn’t do anything but upset him? That’s what kind of makes me look at her funny bc normally bartered women don’t do anything to upset the person. She knew taking the keys would make this man mad. She stayed bc she wanted to! Thinking she could change him, she wasn’t scared to leave. I hate it took this for Her to leave but omg I don’t see what more he could have done after the hammer
She was 19 she was a baby I have a 23-year-old stepdaughter dating an 18-year-old. He's an idiot. She's been with him since he was 15. He's had a child with another girl. He hits on my stepdaughter but my stepdaughter will not leave him. Everyone knows what goes on with Dylan and Bre including the police
That is one way how a lot of them keep it going.Smh... my heart is touched by your story. I'm am so glad you lived to tell it and you are clearly working on the healing process.😢
My sister was beaten repeatedly while pregnant and ended up having my nephew early who was born with with health issues and still suffers development and mental issues. His dad continued to beat my sister even while she was holding him. Its crazy how violent people can get with people they claim they love but the fact that they dont care that their baby is there 😢. I'm so happy she survived and i hope this woman and her daughter go on to live a wonderful life and never ever have to see or speak to that monster again
I'm glad I finished the video for myself instead of going off these comments. This woman literally said at the end of the video, "If I could do it over again, I would testify, but at the time, i hasn't strong enough." All most of the comments jumped to was that the articles said she didn't testify and spoke on his behalf. Please learn to listen and comprehend before two-stepping, sliding and butterflying to comment. To Miss Williams, I pray that you are learning, glowing, and continuously growing from this experience.
Really?! It’s documented in the court records that Wydreka spoke on her boyfriend’s behalf during the proceedings. She willingly did so even though Brandon Williams clearly tried to kill her. Here’s a direct quote: “The victim, Wydreka Williams, did not attend the trial or testify, but she appeared during the Friday hearing on Brandon Williams’ behalf. She told the court that she and the baby are doing fine. Wydreka Williams said the situation is not as it seems. “I know Brandon is not a monster,” she said. “He’s not the monster this court painted him to be.” Wydreka Williams, along with two of Brandon Williams’ family members who spoke to the court, said the defendant has an issue with alcohol and that it alters his typical personality.” So why speak out now? Wydreka hasn’t even gotten counseling for herself yet. Shouldn’t that be the first order of business?
@jenj5152 because when people heal, they're share their story back in truth. There are people who will hear the story and take something from it. Been happen as long as humans have been on earth
@jenj5152 who says everyone's healing comes in the same order? Some folks come to the realization that they should have made a better choice long before they go to counseling. She may not be ready to go to therapy yet because it will require her to really dive into all she's been through. She may not be able to handle that part just yet. Also, she said in the same video that she can talk about it without crying as long as she doesn't think about it. That statement alone tells me she has compartmentalized her trauma in order to be able to survive one day at a time. Showing empathy costs nothing, and it's absolutely free. It's already bad enough that these people who share their real-life experiences on this channel had to endure the things they've gone through. It's even worse when people decide to dissect their experiences because the person's initial decisions don't align with others would've, could've, and should've narratives.
@@bippityboppityboo2u I’ve lived long enough to recognize the signs of a woman who’s not “healed”. 1. There’s literally been no therapy to actually heal. 2. Look at her eyes in the thumbnail. 3. Listen to the details of the story she left out. This “story” needs to be told with honesty and true self reflection, otherwise what’s the point? At this point, if that man got out of jail tomorrow on a technicality, he’d be right back in her head AND bed.
I’m a survivor as well sister and I have never been so happy to be alive and alone I have God and peace Thanks so much for your courage and sharing your journey God bless you and yours🙏❤️
I'm from Louisiana and years ago I knew of a young lady who had moved to Baton Rouge, La. She ended up dating some guy who was abusive. She went to work at a nursing home facility and never returned 😢. The job had a code lock on the gates but he got in . He stabbed her 62 times with a knife. She tried getting away 😭 and some of the elderly residents were there trying and risking their own lives to try and stop him. She ended up dieing and he went to jail. The children were awarded to his family 😢 instead of hers. To this day I still don't understand why
I work in Child Welfare and although he was a perpetrator. He as the father still has rights. They have to allow the father to make a plan due to there not being another parent living.
@@BeyondMezure I know, it's just hard 😪 to understand that part. He was so evil and the Bible speaks that, a bad fruit doesn't fall too far from the tree. Ijs, look how he turned out
Her mentioning him telling his mama if she don’t tell him who his dad is , he’s gonna beat you. I got a strong feeling that anger is towards his mom , & he hates women
Ma'am, you are so, so lucky to have survided, not one but multiple attacks. You were meant to live; let that sink in. I hope you and your daughter thrive and definitely get the counseling that will help you further. God bless you, your cousin, your family and your daughter.❤❤❤
Victim blaming & shaming does *NOT* help. The _"thank God you are still here"_ portion of your comment is the *only* thing of substance about your little comment.
I’m sorry this beautiful sister went through this unnecessary suffering. For the life of me, I can’t relate to DV. I’m over 50, and to this day, I will not tolerate a man’s hands on me. I don’t tolerate abuse… period. 38 years ago, at the age of 18, my so-called boyfriend slapped me. He went to the restroom, and I went to my car. The next time he saw me, it was 5 years later, and he was trying to get me to pull over. It happened to me again when I was in my early 30’s. One of my former boyfriends came to my home on my birthday unannounced, and didn’t want me to go out with friends. He made the mistake of putting his hands on me, and he left my home bleeding. I beat him with my glass blender bowl, my iron, and a can of paint. He went my neighbors home, and they called the police on him. The police rushed to my door to see if I was ok, and I was just fine. The police wanted to make sure I was ok after seeing him, and he laughed. I was 5’8, 160 lbs. and he was 6’4, 210 lbs. I continued to get dressed, and he went to jail. His sister called me the next day to see if I had seen him, and I told them no. When the district attorney called and asked if I wanted to press charges, I agreed to not press charges if he agreed to never contact me again, and he didn’t. Ladies, learn to love yourselves enough to not be willing to be a punching bag, for a coward and a weak man. No real man is going to hit a woman. Stop being desperate to have something in your home, because it has a 3rd leg. They’re not all equal. Learn to pray, and seek God’s guidance for the right person to come into your life, and treat you with love, and respect. A true man is going to value you, encourage you, and help to improve you, not tear you down.
That's what state of mind you been in, in a abusive relationship 😢 so glad you're free from that situation 💗 God saved you, you're a blessing, Stay strong sista
I had a similar situation happened to myself. It was a boyfriend that I had broken up with and I guess he wasn't ready for me to break up with him and so he stabbed me with a butcher knife over 16 times and he left me for dead he thought I was dead but he also after he stabbed me he also raped me in every way possible and sexually violated me in every fantasy that he ever had. And it was horrific I have horrible PTSD to this day from it and I have horrible trust issues with men I trust no man and it takes me an extremely long time to get to know a man before I'll be left alone with them. Ever since then I have never broken up with a man in person I've always done it over the phone and I will probably never do it in person ever again. But I just wanted to tell you that you are such a beautiful girl and you are so articulate and I'm just glad that he didn't take your life I'm so happy that you're here to tell your story. You deserve a nice man who will cherish you.
HE DID WHAT????? MY GOD!!!! If you would like to share your story, I would be happy to have you as a guest on my podcast. These stories should be told.
When a man shows you who and what they REALLY are, RUN - DON'T WALK, it's only going to get worse. I'm sorry that you had to go through that, but I'm glad that you are SAFE AND ALIVE. GOD WILL ALWAYS BE WITH YOU 😢😮
I understand why you stayed and each time you stayed, but what I’m most proud of is your strength in letting go. It might have come after a tragedy and a whole lot of reflecting, but you did it. One day at time your past will get further behind you. Trust me my 😮young sister the more you share your story the lighter you will feel and the more you will surrender. My best advice to anyone is to surrender daily, and acknowledge God and trust him to direct your path. You’re a beautiful young woman with a bright future ahead of you.❤ MANY BLESSINGS 😂😂🙏🏾 And thanks for sharing your truth. #FREEDOM #FREE #DELIVERANCE #TESTIMONY
A lot of times we will spare and protect men and they won't spare and protect us. If they are abusive,there is nothing you do to get them to change. Leave at the first sign. Stop giving monsters the benefit of the doubt. You can't change something in someone you didn't create.
I found your article. It says you spoke on his behalf at his sentencing hearing and said “he’s not a monster and it’s not what it seems”💔💔💔this might be stolkhome syndrome. Please put yourself through counseling
I was in an abusive relationship. I would always call my gf to come get me. And the last call i made to her she said to me, if I like it she loves it. And to not call her anymore if I was going to stay with him. I left and never looked back. So many opportunities to leave. Most women in these situations think its cute its not.
The fact that you were a victim and you think most women think it’s cute is insane. I understand SOME HOOD GHETTO women think it’s cute because they love toxic relationships but I don’t think it’s “MOST” women…. A lot of women are scared and feel ashamed to leave and sometimes it’s cultural and tradition says they can’t leave.
This lady cared more for the man than she did herself and her unborn child. Unbelievably crazy. I hope she truly learned a lesson from all of this. And seeks counseling.
Hugs and prayers from Mississippi young lady. Glad u got out with your life. Thanking God for covering you. U were not just physically abused. Abusers are manipulative, charming, aggressive, charming, great gaslighters, charming and have great reverse psychology skills and did I mention… they are charming? U r right, it be the dhame that keeps us in those toxic and very dangerous and usually fatal relationships. You are blessed. Thanks for sharing your story. You are brave. ❤
Ladies be mindful that if a man is mistreating you don’t continue to deal with him, don’t put him before yourself and definitely don’t have his child. Thank God she made it out of this situation alive.
I'm glad she's ok. If the woman chooses to stay, why should anyone care? It's a waste of time. If you put a man before yourself, then something is wrong with you. If a man hurts me, my first instinct is to want to hurt him back and then leave, not stay and love on him. That's foolish.
I'm so sorry to hear that u endured this, He's an Absolute Diabolical Monster, I'm glad u and ur Bby are doing well.. Prayers to u my sista 🙌🏽🙌🏽 Stay strong💪🏽💪🏽
Please share your business with us so we can support you and your precious little girl. Amen on you being brave enough to share your story and give strength to others. I pray that blessing rain down on you and the baby🙏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
I am so happy that you and your precious baby survived the abuse of this maniac. I am especially happy that he never stabbed you in your stomach. You and your daughter are now safe, happy, and doing well. Keep up the beautiful work you're doing. Blessings to you and your baby. 😊❤
Pleading with all ladies! Please leave quietly while they are gone! After the first red flag make a getaway plan. They will never change! Ive been there and barely escaped but I also stayed and didn't leave after the red flags😢 you have one life dont waste it or loose it over these guys. Love you ladies❤ please love yourselves ❤❤❤
Thank you for your story My x husband tried this with me. I too went to jail 48 hour hold in Mississippi let me tell you this I was so tiny and inexperienced but my cousins from New Orleans taught me how to fight. When I was done with him he was seeking from help from our 3 year old daughter. This man grabbed me by my throat and slammed me on my back WWF style two weeks after having my son. Let’s say he respects the ground I walk on.
Thanks for being brave enough to share your story so it can help others. Growing up around domestic violence is hard to get over. Pease get help. Thanking God that you and your daughter are alive and well. I see nothing but great things coming your way in the future. You are strong. 🙏 for you and family to continue healing. God bless
My you continue to be blessed and covered... 💜 Thanks for sharing your testimony. You could be of great help for someone facing the same circumstances 🙏🏾
May Our Father continue to bless you, and your precious baby🙏...that's was a lot to endure.. This was pure evil.. glad they put him where he belongs...
I’m sorry you ladies had to deal with this .. this was a close friend of mine very loyal always has been to a fault in this situation .. Im sorry Dreka that you had to deal with this.
I hate the negative comments. Thank God this woman alive ❤. Liquor and substance abuse plays a huge role in domestic violence and mental health issues. Also the way you were brought up plays a huge role in domestic violence. She has woman battered syndrome this is why she took so much. Prayers for this young woman and her baby.
This is a remarkable story in a way. It hopefully gives hope for other women to leave this situations. I am thinking of using this video in a class for DVV as a learning tool. Yes, the 1st time will always have many more. Never be embarrassed to get out of this type of situation. We all have the rest of ours to make mistakes and learn as we go. There's nothing like a happy wholesome life. Thank you for your story young lady.
I wish you good success in all you do! Please get counseling to help guide you through the trauma you have experienced so you can have healthy relationships going forward 🙏🏽❤️
She’s right, I left a guy when he started hitting me because I knew it would only get worse. I didn’t tell him I was leaving him I waited until he went to work and packed all my things and left. Best decision.
Did he promise to never do it again? And did he act like a good man other than the hitting? You can go read my recent comment. I’m not trying to troll I’m just looking to relate and understand and feel better about feeling unreasonably guilty for leaving..
@@Yaptoyamomanotme when I left him he came to my workplace and put pictures of himself all over my car and under the door handle he put stuff there and where I put my keys to open the door it was slippery like he put petroleum jelly or something. He stalked me for 2 years begging me to take him back because he said I made him look bad to his family. I didn’t feel bad about leaving him because he threatened to kill me many times. Plus, when he started hitting me I’d hit him back but then he’d hit me even harder back. So I stopped trying to hit him because I didn’t want to die.
Where do you black women find this sychocs, and still put up with them.
Yup
@@truth_hunter I’m sorry you had to go through that. It sounds like he wasn’t good in any kind of way. I hope I stop feeling guilty but it just just happened to me like a day ago. He’s extremely upset with me because I called the police because he acted like he was gna do something to me again. I wish the best for you
Ladies please take heed. Do Not Stay In These Toxic Relationships .
Right very Bad to stay
You the most dumbest person i know
Domestic violence
This would make a great “For My Man” episode
What would have worked is you getting away from him 🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️
As Maya Angelou once said, “Believe them when they show you who they are the first time”!…… Run, don’t walk and don’t make excuses for them…… it could very well be the death of you!
Amen
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I felt that in my soul 😭 reason because I'm 35 and my husband of 7yrs is 61 ,who I think is a narcisse and a bully and a few other things but I love him right 🫣 smh any who "down low". And didn't realize it at the time before the drugs. I had no man, just a friend who was so sweet. He paid for everything anywho 7yrs drugs I was new to it I was set up by a family member "tricked" me into smoking a lace thought it was regular I lost my apartment kids both jobs really good ones got locked up for 4months long story i was innocent of course ❤anywho, I got out after never in my LIFE been to the jail I lost my kids , to someone who got me locked up for personal gain 💔 😪 FLESH AND BLOOD👏👏👏🖕🙌 I was innocent and she kept them, 2 boys at the time was 2 and 4½ things was great until it wasn't a good good life b I was a people pleaser a spread myself thin at time, until i started saying Nope and they would take off work, just to TRY ruin my (IT CAN BE ANY BODY FR )life in anyway possible and they would run over top of me 😢until I got tired of it from Everyone . I started to grow cold and lost myself. I had a lot to lose and lost it over a lie for money. anywho, I was so down, and the (FM)⬅️ family member. Took me out same mom and dad wonderful child hood close close and knew wat I was goin threw. She knew and didn't say anything and I did got addicted it was a feeling I have never felt and wanted more until I lost control. Met my husband showed me his kind side let me do my drugs and all he fell in love never wanted me to leave months go pass an we get married he gave me whatever I wanted I was 26 at the time, not even a month and I was running out the door no shoes,clothes most times and he would chase me and beat me but took it until it felt normal and it was only when he was drinking 😢 so I went back after the 30th time NO lie forgiving him because I depended on him I got lazy and wanted the drugs I got stuck. Finally got it together, after about a yr and he it got worse from losing a baby to being in the hospital,. I have no family 💔 they did me dirty so I stayed thinking it's ok because he love me idk I'm still with him and if he can't have me nobody can.
So right
Amen
Once she described the stabbing, I could not finish this video. She is a living, breathing miracle.
Same and right
when do the juicy details start?
That is what you call a demonic relationship.
Yes.
No, that was a demonic man!
"LIFE IS SPIRITUAL" & "DEMONS ARE REAL"
Demons are very real..alcoholism is a demon..her trying to act crazy....probley turned him on.....thats crazy....im not staying in anymore relationship..my last ex threatened to kill me..I left very fast..😢😢😢
This is what you call Choosing Thugs over Lame guys as women call them 😂😂
I'm glad you got out of this toxic situation alive. Her story should be a wake up call for women that choose to stay in an abusive relationship. Her man stabbed her 48 times while pregnant with his baby. It will only get worse. The first time a man hits you, LEAVE AND DON'T LOOK BACK!!!!! DON'T TAKE NO ABUSE FROM NOBODY🙏😭
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"choose" ... It's not always that simple
@@sparklesnpizzaz I know that. Those type of men will stalk you and harass you and whoever is close to you. You have to have a plan to get out of that abuse quickly and don't look back.
Don't lie for no toxic dog of a man don't
This lady cared more about a man than she did for herself. So happy she survived though.
I said the same thing..kmt
Many women do. Not just this lady.
Exactly!!! Sad
It's not that we care more about the man then we do our selves is that we cannot believe that they're doing that to us and say that they love us, we're stuck in whirlwind until we can see the truth we're stuck! God help us!
She didn't love herself
He is pure evil. Evil doesn’t always have a scary appearance. I hope she seeks counseling because the amount of covering up for him was just shocking.
She has low self esteem
People like him are unhappy with their life and really are suicidal demons love those kind of people because they have a tendency to indulge in drugs and alcohol which allows them to possess you and cause you to act like a lunatic possession is a real thing I've encountered many possessed people if you observe their behavior they all have similar characteristics drugs, alcohol, violence, rage ,suicidal behavior,and seemingly no fear of consequences,
Faacts..
My first husband was abusive physically, took me when he wanted to even that time of the month and I hated him for that. I always fought back but of course I always got the worst end of it. I stayed partly because I wanted my children to grow up with both of their parents, at least that's what I told myself, until one day I realized this was not how I wanted my kids to grow up...thinking it was okay for their parents to fight. My baby was 5 weeks old when I made the decision and I never looked back, never regretted it. I had a girlfriend whose husband stabbed her to death while she was pregnant. By the grace of God, her baby lived but she grew up without her parents. Mama dead, father in jail for life. If you are in an abusive relationship, GET OUT AND DON'T LOOK BACK!!! 19:11
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Don’t ever date boss, landlord, roommates or coworkers. Too close to comfort.
This here! I don’t tolerate any sort of fraternizing. If it doesn’t go well it can ruin your life. I never understand why ppl daily see these kind of things ruining lives for centuries of many stories. Yet get into these types of troubles by men… having their babies when nondersevant ect… over ppl at this point.
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Neighbors is not a good idea either
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@@dawnfinley1166I completely agree!!
My husband's cousin just passes awY from domestic violence he shot her in front of there 4 year old. He never showed he was violent she never had bruises or was never alienated but he was emotionally draining her and financially she finally broke up w/him, none of us never wouldve guessed this. But it's the small things that started to add up you don't know until you educate yourself on what domestic violence is and what can happen even without prior violence .
People are too busy watching shows and television to pay attention to the details.
Most are not paying attention enough to care to notice. And these are people we are 'closest' to!
This is the same thing I am going through. He drained me financially and emotionally. Last month he heat me with a backpack full of his staff twice. Threatened to kill me. Dragged me around the room hurt my arm and tried to break my arm. Hurt my chin. It was horror.
@paulinerauwe0085 ... as in, currently? As hard as it is, please try to seek help and resources locally to get out as soon as possible. If a person can express to you that they want to end your life, AND they've already abused you financially, verbally, or physically... they CAN and quite possibly will hurt you in a way that you'll never fully recover from.
I can't talk the way I want to cause the platform we are on, but I'm sure you get what I'm trying to say.
God Bless you... God wrap your arms around Pauline. Squeeze her & show her what she needs to see Lord, in order to make the wise choices needed to protect her life. Grant her the mental strength and confidence she once had Lord. Embrace her mind, body, and soul-- in your name I pray father, Amen 🙏
Praying for you, I'm so sorry 💔💔💔
@@paulinerauwe0085GET OUT NOW, PLEASE!!?
Thank you for sharing your experience. I am a DV survivor. The person I was with is in prison 5 consecutive life sentences. I won't get into it further. But I'm grateful to God, I got out in time. It was an "OH! Happy day, moment for me. " I'm still going through, and this was 37 years ago.
God blessed you! So happy you got out! No matter what your a fighter
🙏🏿
Wow! This is a prime example of caring more for a man than you do yourself!!
She lied for him and he just didn't care and threw her under the bus after hitting her in the back of the head. This should have been an eye 👁 opening experience!!!
Please love ❤️ yourself enough to recognize when someone just doesn't care about you!! Anyone who puts you in danger and allows you to go to jail, does not deserve your love or your loyalty!!
You are blessed to be alive!! I pray 🙏 you will never put yourself in harms way again and will leave at the first sign of abuse!!! And I hope this monster will never see the light of day!!!
Ladies you have to care more about your safety and well-being as opposed to a man and your abusive relationship!!! Abuse only escalates, it doesn't improve!!!!
Glad you made it out...ladies dont ever allow a man a second chance to mistreat you
She shouldn't have lied about the abuse. When she found out she was pregnant she should have feared for her baby life if not her own.
I agree 100 percent!!!! More worried about a failed relationship than death itself. It’s hard to feel bad with so many missed opportunities to get away
It goes down hill from the first hit. Send them to jail.
Idk why they birth children from abusers anyway.. that’s WILD & so unfair to that child.
I normally get upset about these type of comments, but I definitely agree this time. & it wasn’t just a HIT! This man hit her with objects! Bottles, hammers & it took him to stab you?? Like no maam! Hitting isn’t any better but I could probably sympathize more! And my thing is, this was just stupidity period. If this man already jumping on you, why would you hide his keys knowing that wouldn’t do anything but upset him? That’s what kind of makes me look at her funny bc normally bartered women don’t do anything to upset the person. She knew taking the keys would make this man mad. She stayed bc she wanted to! Thinking she could change him, she wasn’t scared to leave. I hate it took this for
Her to leave but omg I don’t see what more he could have done after the hammer
She was 19 she was a baby I have a 23-year-old stepdaughter dating an 18-year-old. He's an idiot. She's been with him since he was 15. He's had a child with another girl. He hits on my stepdaughter but my stepdaughter will not leave him. Everyone knows what goes on with Dylan and Bre including the police
It is so infuriating that his friends and family defended him 🤦🏽♀️ 😡 I am so glad that she made it out of this!
That is one way how a lot of them keep it going.Smh... my heart is touched by your story. I'm am so glad you lived to tell it and you are clearly working on the healing process.😢
My sister was beaten repeatedly while pregnant and ended up having my nephew early who was born with with health issues and still suffers development and mental issues. His dad continued to beat my sister even while she was holding him. Its crazy how violent people can get with people they claim they love but the fact that they dont care that their baby is there 😢. I'm so happy she survived and i hope this woman and her daughter go on to live a wonderful life and never ever have to see or speak to that monster again
I’m so sorry he did that to you. You are still beautiful! Keep telling your story baby. You will save so many women you could never imagine.
You're a miracle & so is your precious daughter 🤍 stand proud of your fighting spirits! Thank you Father for saving these precious lives 🙏🏼
I don't want to see nothing like this
Jesus!!!!! I had an alcoholic boyfriend and he was a mean drunk! I’m so glad you survived 😘
I'm glad I finished the video for myself instead of going off these comments.
This woman literally said at the end of the video, "If I could do it over again, I would testify, but at the time, i hasn't strong enough." All most of the comments jumped to was that the articles said she didn't testify and spoke on his behalf.
Please learn to listen and comprehend before two-stepping, sliding and butterflying to comment.
To Miss Williams, I pray that you are learning, glowing, and continuously growing from this experience.
Amen 😢😇😇💔✌🏿✌🏿🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Really?! It’s documented in the court records that Wydreka spoke on her boyfriend’s behalf during the proceedings. She willingly did so even though Brandon Williams clearly tried to kill her. Here’s a direct quote: “The victim, Wydreka Williams, did not attend the trial or testify, but she appeared during the Friday hearing on Brandon Williams’ behalf. She told the court that she and the baby are doing fine. Wydreka Williams said the situation is not as it seems.
“I know Brandon is not a monster,” she said. “He’s not the monster this court painted him to be.”
Wydreka Williams, along with two of Brandon Williams’ family members who spoke to the court, said the defendant has an issue with alcohol and that it alters his typical personality.”
So why speak out now? Wydreka hasn’t even gotten counseling for herself yet. Shouldn’t that be the first order of business?
@jenj5152 because when people heal, they're share their story back in truth. There are people who will hear the story and take something from it. Been happen as long as humans have been on earth
@jenj5152 who says everyone's healing comes in the same order? Some folks come to the realization that they should have made a better choice long before they go to counseling. She may not be ready to go to therapy yet because it will require her to really dive into all she's been through. She may not be able to handle that part just yet.
Also, she said in the same video that she can talk about it without crying as long as she doesn't think about it. That statement alone tells me she has compartmentalized her trauma in order to be able to survive one day at a time.
Showing empathy costs nothing, and it's absolutely free. It's already bad enough that these people who share their real-life experiences on this channel had to endure the things they've gone through. It's even worse when people decide to dissect their experiences because the person's initial decisions don't align with others would've, could've, and should've narratives.
@@bippityboppityboo2u I’ve lived long enough to recognize the signs of a woman who’s not “healed”. 1. There’s literally been no therapy to actually heal. 2. Look at her eyes in the thumbnail. 3. Listen to the details of the story she left out. This “story” needs to be told with honesty and true self reflection, otherwise what’s the point? At this point, if that man got out of jail tomorrow on a technicality, he’d be right back in her head AND bed.
I’m a survivor as well sister and I have never been so happy to be alive and alone I have God and peace Thanks so much for your courage and sharing your journey God bless you and yours🙏❤️
This is just terrible, the more I listen. You did NOT deserve this at ALL. He is a monster.
Quit having sick love for somebody instead learn to love yourself. It’s not selfish. It’s self preservation!
Amen
Right
Once you love yourself healthily, then & only then can you love someone else! Take no abuse from anyone period!! ❤
Say it again. Low self esteem lead us to tragedy
I'm from Louisiana and years ago I knew of a young lady who had moved to Baton Rouge, La. She ended up dating some guy who was abusive.
She went to work at a nursing home facility and never returned 😢. The job had a code lock on the gates but he got in . He stabbed her 62 times with a knife.
She tried getting away 😭 and some of the elderly residents were there trying and risking their own lives to try and stop him. She ended up dieing and he went to jail.
The children were awarded to his family 😢 instead of hers.
To this day I still don't understand why
Really heartbreaking to hear😢
What the heck😭😭😭😭
I work in Child Welfare and although he was a perpetrator. He as the father still has rights. They have to allow the father to make a plan due to there not being another parent living.
@@BeyondMezure I know, it's just hard 😪 to understand that part. He was so evil and the Bible speaks that, a bad fruit doesn't fall too far from the tree.
Ijs, look how he turned out
@@BeyondMezuresomeone needs to correct this system. That’s crazy. What if his whole family crazy?
I wish people would learn that you cannot save someone that doesn't want to save themselves. The ONLY person you have the power to save is you!!
Her mentioning him telling his mama if she don’t tell him who his dad is , he’s gonna beat you. I got a strong feeling that anger is towards his mom , & he hates women
What he really wanted too do with his mother he took it out on her.he had issues with his mother.
@@donnaparris477 definitely agree
@@imansherman1766 MMHMM mommy issues Black Norman bates case there.
Yes
Most of the time their anger are turn against their mothers
Ma'am, you are so, so lucky to have survided, not one but multiple attacks. You were meant to live; let that sink in. I hope you and your daughter thrive and definitely get the counseling that will help you further. God bless you, your cousin, your family and your daughter.❤❤❤
God's been watching over you sister!!
Stop asking why did you stay she survived and thats what matters most. Glad your still here.
Amen
It was way to many episodes to have stayed when someone shows you who they are BELIEVE THEM thank God You Are Still here 🙏🏾
You often feel unable to do what you know is right. It's a common dynamic that is common in abusive situations.
Victim blaming & shaming does *NOT* help. The _"thank God you are still here"_ portion of your comment is the *only* thing of substance about your little comment.
@@sunnidaze798 oh sorry I thought I spoke MY OPINION on some else’s story mind YOUR BUSINESS sir!!!
@@pettybetty1958 I didnt even read your response. I said wtf I said. KMA and move on. In *that* order. #dismissed
Not here to judge. God got you. Thanks for tellung your story. You sre definitely a SURVIVOR. 😢🎉
Sending you lots of love and respect. Salute to your strength and courage.
Im so happy and glad that your Baby girl and you survived!!❤ You 2 were meant to be here ❤ thank you for sharing your story. ❤
I’m sorry this beautiful sister went through this unnecessary suffering. For the life of me, I can’t relate to DV. I’m over 50, and to this day, I will not tolerate a man’s hands on me. I don’t tolerate abuse… period. 38 years ago, at the age of 18, my so-called boyfriend slapped me. He went to the restroom, and I went to my car. The next time he saw me, it was 5 years later, and he was trying to get me to pull over.
It happened to me again when I was in my early 30’s. One of my former boyfriends came to my home on my birthday unannounced, and didn’t want me to go out with friends. He made the mistake of putting his hands on me, and he left my home bleeding. I beat him with my glass blender bowl, my iron, and a can of paint. He went my neighbors home, and they called the police on him.
The police rushed to my door to see if I was ok, and I was just fine. The police wanted to make sure I was ok after seeing him, and he laughed. I was 5’8, 160 lbs. and he was 6’4, 210 lbs. I continued to get dressed, and he went to jail. His sister called me the next day to see if I had seen him, and I told them no. When the district attorney called and asked if I wanted to press charges, I agreed to not press charges if he agreed to never contact me again, and he didn’t.
Ladies, learn to love yourselves enough to not be willing to be a punching bag, for a coward and a weak man. No real man is going to hit a woman. Stop being desperate to have something in your home, because it has a 3rd leg. They’re not all equal.
Learn to pray, and seek God’s guidance for the right person to come into your life, and treat you with love, and respect. A true man is going to value you, encourage you, and help to improve you, not tear you down.
dats right miss brandy ya got hands too show dem... oooh not the 3rd leg....LOL
Always press charges. You aren’t the only one he’s going to hurt.
That's what state of mind you been in, in a abusive relationship 😢 so glad you're free from that situation 💗 God saved you, you're a blessing, Stay strong sista
Yes God saved you. Don't get into ungodly relationship sis. Wait on the Lord for a man who loves Jesus and you.
I had a similar situation happened to myself. It was a boyfriend that I had broken up with and I guess he wasn't ready for me to break up with him and so he stabbed me with a butcher knife over 16 times and he left me for dead he thought I was dead but he also after he stabbed me he also raped me in every way possible and sexually violated me in every fantasy that he ever had. And it was horrific I have horrible PTSD to this day from it and I have horrible trust issues with men I trust no man and it takes me an extremely long time to get to know a man before I'll be left alone with them. Ever since then I have never broken up with a man in person I've always done it over the phone and I will probably never do it in person ever again. But I just wanted to tell you that you are such a beautiful girl and you are so articulate and I'm just glad that he didn't take your life I'm so happy that you're here to tell your story. You deserve a nice man who will cherish you.
My dear, you deserve to be loved as well. I pray for peace and happiness for you. May God bless you and keep you.
Oh my goodness
😢 I'm so sorry you went through this.
did he go to jail?
HE DID WHAT????? MY GOD!!!! If you would like to share your story, I would be happy to have you as a guest on my podcast. These stories should be told.
Im so proud of you!! Remember ur amazing and strong! Ive been there! Its so hard. I hope you achieve all ur dreams!! Thanks for sharing!
You are so strong, beautiful and resilient! ❤ much love and respect!!
When a man shows you who and what they REALLY are, RUN - DON'T WALK, it's only going to get worse. I'm sorry that you had to go through that, but I'm glad that you are SAFE AND ALIVE. GOD WILL ALWAYS BE WITH YOU 😢😮
I understand why you stayed and each time you stayed, but what I’m most proud of is your strength in letting go.
It might have come after a tragedy and a whole lot of reflecting, but you did it.
One day at time your past will get further behind you.
Trust me my 😮young sister the more you share your story the lighter you will feel and the more you will surrender. My best advice to anyone is to surrender daily, and acknowledge God and trust him to direct your path. You’re a beautiful young woman with a bright future ahead of you.❤
MANY BLESSINGS 😂😂🙏🏾
And thanks for sharing your truth. #FREEDOM #FREE #DELIVERANCE #TESTIMONY
Damn trying to keep the family together, and being alone. You're life is precious
A lot of times we will spare and protect men and they won't spare and protect us. If they are abusive,there is nothing you do to get them to change. Leave at the first sign. Stop giving monsters the benefit of the doubt. You can't change something in someone you didn't create.
Yes
I found your article. It says you spoke on his behalf at his sentencing hearing and said “he’s not a monster and it’s not what it seems”💔💔💔this might be stolkhome syndrome. Please put yourself through counseling
Ok, I won't listen to this video then
Yup, battered wife syndrome.
Whatever you do, NEVER GO BACK!! NEVER!@
@@SoulSearch11110it’s untrue
Ridiculous
Exactly
Don’t ever tell him you’re leaving. Just leave when the coast is clear and go as far away as possible!
I was in an abusive relationship. I would always call my gf to come get me. And the last call i made to her she said to me, if I like it she loves it. And to not call her anymore if I was going to stay with him. I left and never looked back. So many opportunities to leave. Most women in these situations think its cute its not.
The fact that you were a victim and you think most women think it’s cute is insane. I understand SOME HOOD GHETTO women think it’s cute because they love toxic relationships but I don’t think it’s “MOST” women…. A lot of women are scared and feel ashamed to leave and sometimes it’s cultural and tradition says they can’t leave.
The pain this lady suffered. Cleaned up her own blood. God please protect us women .
This lady cared more for the man than she did herself and her unborn child. Unbelievably crazy. I hope she truly learned a lesson from all of this. And seeks counseling.
I’m sorry that happened to her. Don’t ever let the love someone keep you there. If you are being abused it’s not love.
😢 sending you a Big Hug From California Blessings to you My Dear 💕💕🙏🏽🙏🏾
This bleads my heart too know that a man can do such a thing he deserves too be in prison. 😢
Hugs and prayers from Mississippi young lady. Glad u got out with your life. Thanking God for covering you. U were not just physically abused. Abusers are manipulative, charming, aggressive, charming, great gaslighters, charming and have great reverse psychology skills and did I mention… they are charming? U r right, it be the dhame that keeps us in those toxic and very dangerous and usually fatal relationships. You are blessed. Thanks for sharing your story. You are brave. ❤
Meant shame… not dhame.
Ladies be mindful that if a man is mistreating you don’t continue to deal with him, don’t put him before yourself and definitely don’t have his child. Thank God she made it out of this situation alive.
Amen
You are an incredible woman. Thank you for sharing your story, it WILL help another woman. God bless you and your baby❤
I'm so happy you are still here, you had an angel with you that day.
Peace and blessings to you. ❤❤❤
Ladies your LIFE and HEALTH is way more important than being embarrassed if people know you’re no longer in an abusive relationship!!!
as a dv survivor, no one cares
they really don’t
my life got better when i realized that
They really don't
I'm glad she's ok. If the woman chooses to stay, why should anyone care? It's a waste of time. If you put a man before yourself, then something is wrong with you. If a man hurts me, my first instinct is to want to hurt him back and then leave, not stay and love on him. That's foolish.
So true !!
@@shayemoore i did hurt them back.
and i did leave.
glad you totally missed the point.
it’s cool tho.
I'm so sorry to hear that u endured this, He's an Absolute Diabolical Monster, I'm glad u and ur Bby are doing well.. Prayers to u my sista 🙌🏽🙌🏽 Stay strong💪🏽💪🏽
Please share your business with us so we can support you and your precious little girl. Amen on you being brave enough to share your story and give strength to others. I pray that blessing rain down on you and the baby🙏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
❤ God give you a voice to help others like you 💕 Your a Great Woman of God ❤
I thank God you lived to tell your story. Stay blessed sister. ❤ Going forward, stop protecting those that abuse you.
God bless you sweetheart. I pray you find peace after all this pain🙏🏼
Dayum so glad you're ok now. Abuse is never ok
Yes this so very true and it takes so long afterwards to get yourself back on track 😢😢😢
I am so happy that you and your precious baby survived the abuse of this maniac. I am especially happy that he never stabbed you in your stomach. You and your daughter are now safe, happy, and doing well. Keep up the beautiful work you're doing. Blessings to you and your baby. 😊❤
That’s horrible!! I don’t understand men who put their hands on a woman!!
Pleading with all ladies! Please leave quietly while they are gone! After the first red flag make a getaway plan. They will never change! Ive been there and barely escaped but I also stayed and didn't leave after the red flags😢 you have one life dont waste it or loose it over these guys. Love you ladies❤ please love yourselves ❤❤❤
Your testimony was something so glad you survived
Thank you for sharing your story God bless you and keep you!
I'm so sorry this happened to you but I am proud of your bravery
Thank you for your story My x husband tried this with me. I too went to jail 48 hour hold in Mississippi let me tell you this I was so tiny and inexperienced but my cousins from New Orleans taught me how to fight. When I was done with him he was seeking from help from our 3 year old daughter. This man grabbed me by my throat and slammed me on my back WWF style two weeks after having my son. Let’s say he respects the ground I walk on.
Thanks for being brave enough to share your story so it can help others. Growing up around domestic violence is hard to get over. Pease get help. Thanking God that you and your daughter are alive and well. I see nothing but great things coming your way in the future. You are strong. 🙏 for you and family to continue healing. God bless
I’m so happy you got away, my family didn’t. God bless you and your daughter.
What do you mean yours did not if you don’t mind me asking?
You're a really strong woman! Wish you all the best in your life ❤
May the Lord bless this young lady. ❤
My God😢 when a person show u who u are believe them
I’m so sorry you had to go through that you are so strong. I’m going to pray for you to have a successful business and life.
You strong and blessed and God blessed you even more with baby girl & life for surviving yiu have a purpose your work is not complete
Love don't Love nobody Love been there.❤❤❤❤
Love you. You are wonderful God Bless you🎉
Why the hell are words bleeped out like people cant handle it? Ridiculous. Aside from that, I am so glad you are ok and got away!!!! ❤️
God showed so many signs and he still saved her what an awesome God we have.
Yeah
He knew she was spiritual blind
So Glad GOD saved her
Lmao "god" put her in the situation though lmao
I'm so glad you survived that torment. Continue to share your story so other women can wake up !!!
I’m so sorry anyone chose to hurt you. Thank you for sharing, you are so strong . Sending you love and prayers from Canada. 💕
My God women please love yourself 😢this breaks my heart
Our love cannot change a tigers stripes
Run from anyone toxic learned lessons here. Thank you for sharing 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Yup your testimony will change lives
My you continue to be blessed and covered... 💜 Thanks for sharing your testimony. You could be of great help for someone facing the same circumstances 🙏🏾
Im glad your ok sweetheart ❤❤
Girl! You are so strong and may GOD bless you and your baby! ❤
God bless you and your daughter. God has you in the palm of His hands. You are going to be okay.
Run don't walk. From abuse. God bless u and your family
You are so bold and strong. I am am so glad you and your daughter are safe
May Our Father continue to bless you, and your precious baby🙏...that's was a lot to endure.. This was pure evil.. glad they put him where he belongs...
I’m sorry you ladies had to deal with this .. this was a close friend of mine very loyal always has been to a fault in this situation .. Im sorry Dreka that you had to deal with this.
Bless your heart ❤️❤️
I hate the negative comments. Thank God this woman alive ❤. Liquor and substance abuse plays a huge role in domestic violence and mental health issues. Also the way you were brought up plays a huge role in domestic violence. She has woman battered syndrome this is why she took so much. Prayers for this young woman and her baby.
Sorry for what happened to you...thanks for telling your story!!
This is a remarkable story in a way.
It hopefully gives hope for other women to leave this situations.
I am thinking of using this video in a class for DVV as a learning tool.
Yes, the 1st time will always have many more.
Never be embarrassed to get out of this type of situation.
We all have the rest of ours to make mistakes and learn as we go.
There's nothing like a happy wholesome life.
Thank you for your story young lady.
So sorry to hear you went through so much abuse and suffering. I’m happy you’re no longer in that position.
You are so resilient
I wish you good success in all you do! Please get counseling to help guide you through the trauma you have experienced so you can have healthy relationships going forward 🙏🏽❤️
GOD DEFINITELY HAD YOU COVERED! ❤