He meant that on the basis of reality. A God mother is a social construct and at the end of the day she is just a friend. However All those things she did for her makes her a great friend
She’s not just a friend. She has been there for her friend when she couldn’t provide for her child. She loves that child. Like a lot of people wish to have that
It’s one thing helping and another thing mentally thinking someone else’s child is yours something is mentally off and for you people to agree yall either the types that’ll let anybody step up for yall child as long as their providing or yall are just weird
@@Babysuggs-holy the problem here as I see it is the mother changed the boundaries unilaterally and didn’t update the godmother. Because the mother found a boyfriend, the godmother is demoted to just a friend. All fine, but could have been done more gracefully and not like a user. The friend no knows what type of woman the mother is: a loser that removes blessings from her child’s life🤣
Sis in the glasses I feel like she holding A LOT OF INFO back to not embarrass the mom. That’s why she ONLY shows up for the kid and not for the mom AT ALL. #IYKYK
You know what, I think Karamo said you are really just the friend to help the God Mother move on. Sometimes, he says things on the low. The God Mother has done more than enough.
THIS is the comment I was looking for, 'cause I've definitely been there. I fell ALL THE WAY back, got married, had my own kids, now they say I'm acting funny!!🤣🤣🤣 I got tired of being put on the back burner until some exorbitant expense or need arose...
@@Shay-33 Sometimes it's not even jealousy specifically. It's insecurities which is the root cause of jealousy. I think the mom is insecure to be honest.
@@nychellewhite and she also said, they decided how she would be disciplined and how they would raise her TOGETHER!! so to stop out of the blue and then say she’s overstepping is honestly wild. I would have understood more of the moms side if the friend never said that she let her be involved as if she was an actual parent.
Exactly cause they cant bond? If you trust someone to make them your child god mother shouldn't you want them to treat yours like her own so she got a man and switching up simple... the god mom should just let her go and when and if that man leave her she wouldn't be able to run back to me AT ALL.
That , what a Godmom is support, to do is take care care of your child when you are not able I believed the mother . was getting jealous of the bond that the Godmother was trying to create. I had a Godmother , I hardly even know who is she anymore or I'll recognize my family isn't close to them like they once were.
no godmother overstepped her boundaries as god mom she isn’t the MOM of the child so there needs to be clear and obvious boundaries so that child does not grow up confused
I don’t think the best friend meant any harm. I personally would back up and keep my opinion about the child to myself. She has made it clear her and her boyfriend got it.
@amandabarrett2472 I don't think the friend meant to be overbearing. When you step into a vital role like helping your friend who's a single parent with their child, it can be easy to step into that parental role depending on how much you're helping. I believe the friend really thought she was helping, and was just hurt that she allowed a man to step into that role that isn't the girl's father or isn't guaranteed to stick around
NGL, this is the type of problem most people WISH to have: someone caring about them too much. The mom probably feels overwhelmed because she's dealing with so much that any type of help feels like an attack. The friend seems like a beautiful person, being the VILLAGE that baby needs in her life. They just need a girls day together and hug it out. I like them and wish them the absolute best of luck❤❤
@@dayciajtalk88person from the hood here🙋🏽♀️that’s where you fall short. Just because you can’t understand them through their accent does not mean they aren’t well spoken. Mama in the black and white is very well spoken, just not many can understand her accent, and not for someone who’s from the hood. Just a young woman in general. It’s hard to conjure up bigger words when u crying and sad. She did it with ease
Yeah, the girl was definitely down with the coparenting God mom when she was struggling and now she got a man and wanna downplay their relationship. She was your baby daddy sis😂
THIS IS IT RIGHT HERE , and I think the mom brings random men around that’s why when he asked what she over steps with the mom automatically mentioned who she chooses to date and have around as a “father figure” just having that baby around anybody
This is why people don't have a village anymore. If the village helps it's an issue, if the village doesn't help it's an issue. There is no winning. That's why I don't involve myself with people children.
Amen. The way step-fathers (the bad ones) behave sometimes, I don't blame Naiya for asking questions about this new 'stranger" in the baby's life. I think she's being a fantastic god-mother. 😊
I agree-She’s hurt. It’s like adopting a child and the biological parent comes back and takes the child. Which is their right but doesn’t dismiss the feelings the god mom has.
Yes she is, When that man leaves her bestfriend that girl going to come running back asking for help. The baby father isn't in the picture at all. She tryna ng to have another man as stepdaddy to that baby.
You can't have a friend help raise your baby for years and then be surprised that she feels a motherly connection. She's financially involved, involved in disciplining the child. I feel like the line has been crossed for a long time. If she and her boyfriend don't work out, she's going to go right back to having her friend play a huge role in the child's life. They're both good people though.
@@Meemooooi I peeped...that's why I get weird vibes from the Godmother...she needs her own baby...she wants one, for sure! 💩, I even went so far as to think Godmommy might be in love with the mom...but then again the homelessness would have been her chance, unless she knows FOR SURE she doesn't rock that way....too much left out for me to know what to think. I do know that I'm just commenting to give my opinion and give my boo Karamo more traction, but end of the day (and the beginning) it's up to THEM to figure out how much godmomming is too much and/or how much raising/schooling has happened in a year..lol If she wanted to help help..she would have kept that money from the shoot and all those matching outfits she had made (unless she made them herself, then yikes🥰🥰) and helped that lady do something to give her and her baby shelter. Just my unwarranted opinion..lol
simple cause they both agreed to it and I don't like how Karamo aint address the friend used her honestly cause soon as the man leave she gone miss her friend fr .
I don’t think it’s about that …when you’re in that position you’ll understand how it is …they feel like they can come & step on your toes & as a mother that’s not a good feeling ! 🤷🏽♀️
@@Itsme_breenaw the mother gave her the privilege to co parent with her. When she got a boyfriend then it changed. She wasn't stepping on nobody toes. Don't ask people to be a active parent and give them permission to discipline if you don't want that. She don't have a problem asking her friend for help
@@domaniquehuckaby6224neither of these women are wrong for feeling the way they do. It’s counter productive to call someone fake and pick a side because both of them present really good arguments. If anything, it’s devastating to see two good friends fall out like that.
Karamo boopie, you missing the part where she’s saying her friend put her in that parent position and basically made her the stand in baby daddy and suddenly it was snatched away so she’s not wrong for feeling that way. Of course she’s hurt, she was a parent to the child too. Clearly she wasn’t JUST a godmom. I hope they figure it out because children need a village and the friend is a very good one. Also, I see nothing wrong with the baby and god mom having pictures together. We’re black and that’s not unusual for us. Our close friends are our family. It’s no different than an aunt and niece having photos together especially if they are really close. But now that we know she was the baby daddy, it’s even more understandable. I don’t like how the friend tried to skip over the fact that they had this dynamic. She knew the friend wasnt just some obsessive friend who didn’t know her place. She gave her the part. She played in her face w/ that but they still both seem like nice girls.
Can't relate to any one being that close to me or my child. Never had a relationship like that with any aunt or God mom. And nobody is taking a photoshoot with my baby if I'm not in the picture
I agree. Karamo was wrong to say you're just a friend. Friends are chosen family and sometimes support more than your blood relatives. It was a clumsy comment, and the friend was immediately hurt . Who wouldn't want a friend to love their child like that? Be invested and genuinely care. Even more so when Karamo could see the friend was hurt, he didn't try to resolve it before closing out the segment. Smh
This is wild. Both of these young ladies need to take a step back and look at this through a different lens. When I divorced my daughter's father, she was 4 years old. The woman he got involved with fell in love with our daughter. She didn't have children of her own. She was supportive and always loving. After 5 years, her father and the woman broke up, but she continued to spend time with my daughter. We became closer and friends. We didn't hang out together, but I trusted her. She bought clothing, took her on cruises and places that I couldn't afford to take her at the time as a single parent. I didn't feel offended or jealous. I was so thankful to have someone who loved my child and exposed her to so many wonderful experiences. I found love again and remarried. I didn't cut off their relationship. There is enough love to go around. My daughter is an adult now, with children of her own. She loves me, her father, the woman she refers to as her godmother, and her stepfather. Love can be a beautiful thing when we all work together in a healthy way❤❤❤
Don't ask me for my opinions and give me permission on your child's upbringing and then when you get a man take it away and then give it back when the man does you dirty It will take a while for the friend to forgive her but while the other friend is in that relationship she cannot be friends with her as she'll blame the boyfriend for the wedge in the friendship They just need space and maybe find eachother in a few years
Right they skipped over that they was agreement she didn't oversteps no boundaries the girl got a new man and dont need her anymore so just go find more people with big hearts like yours cause she'd never hear from me again 💯
As a ACTIVE & REAL God Mommy. I’ve been in my God daughters life since she came out. It’s HARD to accept certain things or want things to be done our way. Especially when you feel like the second mom. As much as we love our God babies & want the best for them, we have to learn & know when to take a step back. Give grace & let the bio parents be parents. They’re gonna make mistakes, it won’t always be perfect but nobody has a rule book on parenting.
@@Caljay213 God forbid anything happens to you (the mom or dad) the child goes to the God parent(s). Essentially the God parent(s) should be as active as the parents. It would be asinine for a child to go to a person they don’t even know. To answer your question, I don’t babysit, I parent with her bio parents. Us personally, we have a schedule. She’s with me every other week or every weekend depending on the month. Even my parents are her God-grandparents. She knows her “GiGi” is her second mom & you can’t tell her any different. She’s only 3 but she calls me on Wednesdays & says “Lani go to GiGi house on Friday” lol.
It's a blessing when a friend loves your kid like that. You have a second mother for your child in case anything happens to you. THAT IS A BLESSING!!!!
Girl bye! Once you make that child her godmother wtf you thought?! Baby if my child god mother doesn’t go hard behind my child I don’t want her! Sis, don’t help her out no more!
Hopefully her and this dude works out, because she sacrificed her friend, and most of all, her help for him. The friend was getting a little overzealous, but that tells me that the mother was fine with her taking that role before the man came along. That type of involvement doesn’t just happen overnight.
Doing photos with just her and the baby is normal in families where the support system is strong, there are fs pics of me and my auntie dressing alike when I was a kid. it doesn't mean she was trying to steal me from my mom lol
@maggiesamson337 That was my big takeaway from this lowkey, that baby will never be wanting for love or support. She got people fighting over who gets to be there for her the most 🥹
A godmother is a woman who is a godparent, or someone who promises to help raise a child, usually in a religious context. In the Christian tradition, a godmother is present at a child's baptism and promises to raise the child as Christian. She may also offer mentorship or legal guardianship if needed.
Unpopular opinion but I dont think thebfriend was wrong. Youbwas in a bad place and you put her in a parent role to help her out and then snatch it away when she got a man.
I mean, the mom got in a better place, whether the man got her there or not is irrelevant. I understand it will take some time to step down from that parent role when been put in it for a period of time, but the Godmom has to. She cannot replace the mother forever, especially when the mom is now functioning and presents. It's disrespectful to the parent, and will be confusing for the child
She was wrong. A God Parents are suppose to help GOD FORBID SOMETHING HAPPEN TO THE PARENTS. Mother is STILL ALIVE. She takes the baby for pictures WITHOUT TELLING THE MOTHER. She needs her OWN CHILD AND LIFE PERIODTTT. I WOULD BE SCARED SHE WOULD DO SOMETHING OR KIDNAP MY BABY.😢
Exactly! She stepped up and helped her with the most important aspect of her life when she was struggling, her child. That’s type of support is priceless. That gave her time to get her stuff together. She chose to meet a man during that time, and that’s her business. But the support she gave her and wants to give with her baby is more than enough. It’s not her responsibility to house her. Her help with the child gave the mom support mentally, emotionally and physically. I don’t think at this point it’s so much about the friendship to her, it’s about the relationship and bond she made with the child. And she’s probably feeling unappreciated and will step back. And friend will come running again when she hit another rough spot. B/c obviously her family isn’t that involved if she’s homeless and struggling with a child. But it’s not right or fair to use a person when you want and use your child as a pawn for that help. Then take the baby away after the relationship and bond is there. She knows that girl wants nothing but the best for her child. She wants to prioritize this man she’s likely shacking with to create a “family.”When this girl has been like an aunt, a god mother and been there for the baby, helped her raise the child. That’s why it’s always complicated when forming relationships and bonds with other ppl kids. B/c at the end of the day they can and will come in and out of your life based on what you can do or won’t do for them. She’s not worried about the best decision for her daughter. I do the think the friend needs to take a step back sometimes but I also think the mom needs to show appreciation. o
I feel like this,don’t ask me to be your child’s godparent if my opinion and efforts aren’t needed. There’s more to being a godparent than buying the child things smh. She seems like she has nothing but the best intentions for the child so what’s the problem?
Seems like the friend was doing a lil much but she loves that baby like it's her own. I see both of their point of view but the friend is definitely gonna fall back........ My Godmom does a lot for me.....her and my mom has a great relationship. My mom picked the best person to be godmother. It's a blessing to have two mothers.
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What the friend was doing with her god daughter was amazing. I would love for someone to love and take care of my child as much as I do. Godparents are literally 2nd parents. I get having boundaries, but saying she’s just a friend is absolutely insane.
When the GM said the first time she met the baby the baby was with their other mutual friend who had come over to do her hair and she later saw the mom at the beauty store instantly knew she was in the right. That girl used her and the love she had for the baby as a life line when she was struggling and never complained about boundaries for multiple years, now that she stable and in a good place all of a sudden she wants to revoke the privileges she was more than happy and relieved to give the GM.
The fact that she scheduled a photo shoot and left the mom out is giving creep vibes. Clearly Naiya doesn't understand the assignment. Does she think she is the "Dad."
You're responding to everyone's comment let people have their own opinion. 2nd, if my friend who's the mother of my godchild can't afford to come I'll pay for all of us not leave her out@nicoleraheem1195
5:23 karamo wrong at this time. That godmother is correct tho! You cannot reward bad behavior... if something happens to you, what are the god parents job? And shes there supporting you and advising...
@@finessebyrobb9286 I literally just wrote a whole post about this on Facebook. If you don't see us being friends for the long run do not ask me to be that child's God Mom. Also what's the point of me being a godmom if I can't have quality time with the child? Also the comments on Reddit that I've read about being a god mom from white people is completely different than what I've read on this thread. White people understand that the Godparent will take guardianship of the child once the parents die. They do understand that it's stemming from a religious background and they understand the legalities of being a godparent. Black people are like oh that's The hand That rocks the cradle. She's overstepping her boundaries. She's doing too much. And I'm not saying it's a white on black thing I just think people got a different definition of what it means to be a godparent. I kind of think that the mother might feel insecure about her parenting skills when it comes to the God Mom doing the most for the God child and that's probably what makes her uncomfortable
I don't think she should be the Godmother because the mother doesn't know how to handle another woman being a better mother than she is. The godmother probably makes the mother feel insecure about her parenting skills. So, The God mom just just be a friend and thats it. I wouldn't ask about that child, I wouldn't want to babysit that child, I don't have any input about how you raise your child, I might come to your child birthday because you invited me but I'm not going to just pop up with gifts. Any little special thing she does for that child is going to be taken wrong. It's going to come off as if she overstepping her boundaries. But if the mother was to die, god forbid, is she can trust her daughter with the God Mom the god mom is still going to have to do the same as she's doing now and that's build a bond with that child and nurture her.
@@auntkera I guess it's rare to treat other people's kids like your own nowadays. I grew up differently. When my mom went to prison for three years, my aunty took me in. My cousins were basically my sisters for three years. We all got the same whooping, same foods, same quality clothing, same chores - no issues. As for me, I don't whoop children,but you will stand in that corner and reflect on what you did, but I really think people's love is so conditional that love and trust is non-existent.
No, that’s too much. I can never let my friend feel like she’s another parent. Nor would I want to play parent to my friend’s child. Why are we discussing disciplinary actions? No ma’am.
@@ZariaZen there’s a difference between being support and acting as a 2nd parent. It’s my job to parent. It’s your job to be supportive of my parenting choices. Not sitting down discussing how to parent/discipline or taking my child to photo shoots for mom and me photos. That’s not crazy to you?!
I think the god mom raised the baby more than the bio mom, she's not attached to the mom she's attached to the baby. It's a little to far to bash her and tell her to step away from the baby who she stepped up for when the mom wasn't in the best place, i feel there's things the god mom didn't say outta respect for the mom but there's definitely deeper issues than a 15 minute segment on a show.
Obviously she (mom) don’t understand what “Godmother”means. She’s doing just what Godmother is supposed to do and that’s care for the child at all times, especially when the mom is homeless and experiencing lack. The mom needs to be careful with men around her child especially these days.
That part right there. Because to me it sounds like she's being isolated from the only person that looked out for them by this man. So when things go sour she will have no one to turn to. Predators do it all the time
I would honestly step back they got it like she said . But I hope she don’t try and bring her back forward if she and the boyfriend ever break up cause it would be a no
Soo here’s the thing… maybe I do to much as a godmother but if my Bestfriend didn’t have a husband and asked me to help raise/discipline my goddaughter I’m going to take it just as seriously as she did
i don’t know her sign but from one capricorn to another the friend givesss a capricorn, we receive a inch and take a mile! she didn’t mean no harm, we just cherish and and do the most for the ones we love!
I feel so bad for the godmother it takes a real active godmother to understand. We live in a damn if you damn if you don’t world! I definitely hopes she finds peace in the situation without it impacting baby girl you can tell she loves her deeply ☹️
She is a horrible Godmother. Playing dress up, photoshoots without the other parents permission, and pretending to be the Mother......is not being a Godmother. A Godmother has two functions. Raising the child if the parents die, and to raise the child like the parents would have. Naiya has zero respect for the parent. She needs the title stripped.
@@shawn6986 in this generation of godparents you barely get half of what that girl is showing dead or alive. As a godmother myself I see nothing wrong with what she has done I get matching outfits, plan photo shoots etc for my girls all the time. I owe it to them not their parents once I was selected.
One thing I think would benefit this episode is for the two young ladies to separately write out: What does it mean to be a god mom. What are you not willing to do. What do you need from me when things are good, bad, and beyond bad. Clarity around the roles and expectations. Some god moms spoil and smother and are the moms right hand, while others only come through in times of strive and crisis. Some are in between. It also feels like mom is learning to find her voice and it will be an adjustment for everyone. This child is truly blessed to have the circle of support. In terms of the photo-shoot, it was a miss for mom to not be invited. In terms of boundaries- it’s a huge pivot to all of a sudden feel like you not wanted when times are good. I hope they can find a balance:
It sure seems it is going to be a tough adjustment for the Godmother, but it is a necessary adjustment that needs to happen. I am glad Mom gave Godmother her flowers, but boundaries MUST be established regardless.
i feel like karamo shut her out tbh, " your just a friend" was wild she was put in a postion of being a co parent when she aint had it now the man in ya life the friend the problem?? fall back dont go running back to this great lady who took her time to take care of her baby
Some parent hate when they kids getting love that they parents can’t give atm . I can tell you rn I raised my bestfriends child period . I helped BOTH parents , his father & mother . I would be considered his God mother but I never had to ask shit cos they knew I loved him like my own . He is now with his father & it’s two completely situations but bless that friend for stepping up , cos I can tell you rn . I don’t know one person who would step in or up for my child like I did for my bestfriends child . There aren’t many people who will . I’m happy they did this 🫶🏼
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She’s playing the role of a godmother. If she wanted to find a half a$$ Godmama she should’ve picked one 😂. Me and my godmama are closer than my mom but that’s because she was there for me more emotionally than my mom. It had nothing to do with her doing her job as a god parent, it was due to my moms actions (prioritizing men all my childhood) that we’re so close to this day
The godmother kind of weird! Don’t get me wrong she is doing great! But this is obsessive behavior! She seems like the type that will go behind her back and try to get custody of her child!
Mother ain't that good either if we being honest she didn't have a problem before she got with he man so it look like she only needed her for that period
@@Wheresnay You can’t judge her off what, someone who displays some kind of delusional behavior, says! The delulu friend didn’t have nothing bad to say about this woman, besides she had a problem with her not disciplining her child enough ! WEIRD BEHAVIOR?! No?
So now that the bio mom is on her feet and has a “new man” now all of a sudden the God Mother is overstepping boundaries. But the mother didn’t have a problem with the God Mother before this new boyfriend came about.😏
Now let me get this tf right. 1. You made her a God mother & didn't ask her 1st. 2. You NEVER established any boundaries in the beginning. 3. You used her while it was mfn convenient for you financially. 4. She helped you raise your child when she's not the childs father or your man. 5. Did you ever thank her ? And establish boundaries once you got w. Your man. And yes she does owe it to her she damn near raised that mfn child w.her🙄. 6. You never really wanted her to be the God mother.She knew if something happend to her , she would be reliable. 7. I hope she drops you like a bad habit... And to the child....Well she's not her mom she'll be alright...JUST AN OBSERVATION FROM THE INFO GIVEN 🤷🏾♀️✌🏽❗️
I know exactly how Godmom/ friend feels. My heart hurts for her. (I've been through that, as well.) Find peace and step in on tye important moments to create the great, unforgettable memories ✨️ ❤.
This is sweet …my God mom hasn’t given me anything or pays any attention to me. Being a God mom is huge role …she’s a sweet person. I wish her the best
If she was secure in her motherhood she wouldn’t be bothered or jealous by her friend. Shes mad because she has a friend that cares about her child? I’m so damn confused. She doesn’t want her friend saying shxt because she calls her out on her bs. If it was me I would end that friendship. Karamo missed the mark on this one.
It seems to me she might have been playing God Mom since Mom is a part of that title. I don't see the photo shoot is weird I see her spending quality time with her God child.
@@nicoleraheem1195 I agree and dont it was only weird to me bc she didnt extend the invite to the actual mom and didnt help her much when she was homeless which will automatically impact her godchild.
As far as disciplining her? Sis is acting like she’s babygirl’s father 😂😂🤦🏽♀️ She’s not the Godmother she’s the other mother!! She really feels like that’s her child too. She is taken that role literal. I would definitely watch out for her. It’s giving a lil delulu!!!
You wanting to make your own mistakes but you’re going to protect your baby because you love her. This is ridiculous because loving your child sometimes means allowing people to step in and HELP! Being a godmother does not mean you take care of a grown person who is demanding to do her own thing. If you’re trying to grow and get out of poverty then you don’t isolate from your main support… login be all over the place and not making sense 🤦🏾♀️😅😢😤
Saying she’s just a friend when she’s financially helped her raise a kid is wild it’s okay she won’t help no more
This one☝️now that she has this new boyfriend now the friend is a problem.😏
Nawl I think she'll help on her own terms
He meant that on the basis of reality. A God mother is a social construct and at the end of the day she is just a friend. However All those things she did for her makes her a great friend
@@tyentbonto5641 regardless won’t be happening no more maybe a little but definitely not at the same level
@@rhodiahicks4459 she is just a friend that doesn't change with financial assistance. Status shouldn't have a price on it....
She’s not just a friend. She has been there for her friend when she couldn’t provide for her child. She loves that child. Like a lot of people wish to have that
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It’s one thing helping and another thing mentally thinking someone else’s child is yours something is mentally off and for you people to agree yall either the types that’ll let anybody step up for yall child as long as their providing or yall are just weird
She is an auntie/god mama. She’s good for the child! They just need to understand each other. And respect boundaries
Exactly 💯
I agree 100%.
Any woman that separates a child from her mama it's not good for a child! #unity
@@Babysuggs-holy the problem here as I see it is the mother changed the boundaries unilaterally and didn’t update the godmother. Because the mother found a boyfriend, the godmother is demoted to just a friend. All fine, but could have been done more gracefully and not like a user. The friend no knows what type of woman the mother is: a loser that removes blessings from her child’s life🤣
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That’s definitely the last time the friend will help her😂 don’t ask her for NONE, ask your man
Good! She doesn't need a "friend" that doesn't respect her boundaries. Bye Felicia!🫡
@@EmmanuelLewis2there’s no boundaries when she single and needs help tho
@@paolaree8004 Yes, there are still boundaries. You can't control people just because you're helping them. That's what friends are for.
To help someone doesn’t mean that you have to interfere and control every aspect of their lives
@@EmmanuelLewis2exactly
Sis in the glasses I feel like she holding A LOT OF INFO back to not embarrass the mom. That’s why she ONLY shows up for the kid and not for the mom AT ALL. #IYKYK
That’s definitely what it gave
You know what, I think Karamo said you are really just the friend to help the God Mother move on. Sometimes, he says things on the low. The God Mother has done more than enough.
THIS is the comment I was looking for, 'cause I've definitely been there. I fell ALL THE WAY back, got married, had my own kids, now they say I'm acting funny!!🤣🤣🤣
I got tired of being put on the back burner until some exorbitant expense or need arose...
That’s what I was thinking too💯.
@@carlamichelle46 the gaslighting is INSANE.
They ALWAYS act funny when they get a "man"....BUT always come back when" the man" leaves or do them dirty 💯
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That’s why I don’t have friends anymore. Either that or lowkey jealous/shady 😢
Amen to that
@@Shay-33
Sometimes it's not even jealousy specifically. It's insecurities which is the root cause of jealousy. I think the mom is insecure to be honest.
Yet, her “friend” was homeless and she did nothing!
She literally said we were raised her together. That’s all I needed to hear.
❤❤
that mf part
I’ve also help my friends raise their children, but I don’t overstep, and I click on their child’s parent whatsoever it’s creepy
@@nychellewhite and she also said, they decided how she would be disciplined and how they would raise her TOGETHER!! so to stop out of the blue and then say she’s overstepping is honestly wild. I would have understood more of the moms side if the friend never said that she let her be involved as if she was an actual parent.
It’s giving very much Robyn/Whitney, sis.
I’m on the Godmom’s side! The mom was with it as long as it benefited her then switched up! I’m not feeling that! The Godmom was a blessing!
Yes bc what the child do with the godmother is them bonding
Exactly cause they cant bond? If you trust someone to make them your child god mother shouldn't you want them to treat yours like her own so she got a man and switching up simple... the god mom should just let her go and when and if that man leave her she wouldn't be able to run back to me AT ALL.
That , what a Godmom is support, to do is take care care of your child when you are not able I believed the mother . was getting jealous of the bond that the Godmother was trying to create. I had a Godmother , I hardly even know who is she anymore or I'll recognize my family isn't close to them like they once were.
facts!
no godmother overstepped her boundaries as god mom she isn’t the MOM of the child so there needs to be clear and obvious boundaries so that child does not grow up confused
I don’t think the best friend meant any harm. I personally would back up and keep my opinion about the child to myself. She has made it clear her and her boyfriend got it.
She needs to accept what they mean by God mother and not Mother God
@amandabarrett2472 I don't think the friend meant to be overbearing. When you step into a vital role like helping your friend who's a single parent with their child, it can be easy to step into that parental role depending on how much you're helping. I believe the friend really thought she was helping, and was just hurt that she allowed a man to step into that role that isn't the girl's father or isn't guaranteed to stick around
Hopefully the boyfriend stays around!
@@amandabarrett2472facts!
right and even though she clearly don’t. That’s her problem 🤷🏽♀️
I absolutely love both of their outfits! So cute and classy!
I'm surprised Karamo didn't say anything about it. He always compliments cute outfits
@@nicoleraheem1195He did! He said they both look pretty & cute 😊
Classy.. Haven't heard that in awhile
@@nicoleraheem1195 he did at 2:27
@@coco.charrnel Me too! It’s different!
It’s a blessing for this baby to have 2 beautiful women love on her and protect her.
NGL, this is the type of problem most people WISH to have: someone caring about them too much. The mom probably feels overwhelmed because she's dealing with so much that any type of help feels like an attack. The friend seems like a beautiful person, being the VILLAGE that baby needs in her life. They just need a girls day together and hug it out. I like them and wish them the absolute best of luck❤❤
😂😂😂😂 right! Let me have this problem, please.
The best friend is going to make a great mommy one day . When the time is right , God is going to BLESS YOU WITH YOUR OWN❤
I just want to point out how WELL SPOKEN these women are! They express themselves and communicate extremely well! We need more of this
Well spoken? 😅 Ma'am, I honestly don't hear it but hey different perspectives
Well spoken smh you must be from the hood because I don’t understand anything their saying!!!
@@kellylako1349 If you focus on the actual words they're saying rather than their dialect, you'll see that they communicate effectively.
@@dayciajtalk88person from the hood here🙋🏽♀️that’s where you fall short. Just because you can’t understand them through their accent does not mean they aren’t well spoken. Mama in the black and white is very well spoken, just not many can understand her accent, and not for someone who’s from the hood. Just a young woman in general. It’s hard to conjure up bigger words when u crying and sad. She did it with ease
Saying "umm" multiple times, "seemed," and "s-express" is not well spoken. Sorry.
Yeah, the girl was definitely down with the coparenting God mom when she was struggling and now she got a man and wanna downplay their relationship. She was your baby daddy sis😂
This ‼️
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EXACTLY
I literally was thinking they were in a relationship at first 😂
THIS IS IT RIGHT HERE , and I think the mom brings random men around that’s why when he asked what she over steps with the mom automatically mentioned who she chooses to date and have around as a “father figure” just having that baby around anybody
This is why people don't have a village anymore. If the village helps it's an issue, if the village doesn't help it's an issue. There is no winning. That's why I don't involve myself with people children.
Yessss! Then they try to hurt you with kids ... crazy...
Amen. The way step-fathers (the bad ones) behave sometimes, I don't blame Naiya for asking questions about this new 'stranger" in the baby's life. I think she's being a fantastic god-mother. 😊
Same. My child doesn't have God parents
I have a feeling she gonna take a huge step back after this 😭.
Yup she sure will
I agree-She’s hurt. It’s like adopting a child and the biological parent comes back and takes the child. Which is their right but doesn’t dismiss the feelings the god mom has.
I would if that were me
Yes she is, When that man leaves her bestfriend that girl going to come running back asking for help. The baby father isn't in the picture at all. She tryna ng to have another man as stepdaddy to that baby.
Don’t blame her
You can't have a friend help raise your baby for years and then be surprised that she feels a motherly connection. She's financially involved, involved in disciplining the child. I feel like the line has been crossed for a long time. If she and her boyfriend don't work out, she's going to go right back to having her friend play a huge role in the child's life. They're both good people though.
The baby is 1...😊
@@Dvorah__X they were talking about the baby acting up at school 🤨 wtf
@@Meemooooi I peeped...that's why I get weird vibes from the Godmother...she needs her own baby...she wants one, for sure! 💩, I even went so far as to think Godmommy might be in love with the mom...but then again the homelessness would have been her chance, unless she knows FOR SURE she doesn't rock that way....too much left out for me to know what to think. I do know that I'm just commenting to give my opinion and give my boo Karamo more traction, but end of the day (and the beginning) it's up to THEM to figure out how much godmomming is too much and/or how much raising/schooling has happened in a year..lol
If she wanted to help help..she would have kept that money from the shoot and all those matching outfits she had made (unless she made them herself, then yikes🥰🥰) and helped that lady do something to give her and her baby shelter. Just my unwarranted opinion..lol
Makes me wonder just what kind of friends they were
I wish my kids had a god mama this consistent!
Facts!!!💯
THIS!
No, she’s overstepping a lot
As a God mother myself, she is the perfect God mother for this little girl and she is a great friend.
Come be my kids GOD mom you a good GOD mother
She want her own baby. I don't know what's going on with that, but she deserves a child. She look like she ready ❤
How can someone look ready to have a child????
@@anissagr523something called baby fever…💁🏽♀️
@@anissagr523 by acting like a parent to someone else’s child. This girl clearly is happily helping raise her friend’s child, no doubt she wants one.
Definitely not ENOUGH to go off of
@@amandabarrett2472 might not be but if she found happiness raising her friend’s child, I hope she’s able to have a family of her own in the future❤️
Both of their outfit ate and left no crumbs 🔥🔥😍
Ik righttt I’m glad somone mentioned it💜
I was wondering if anybody else saw how well dressed these two young women are
Moral of the story: stop helping people! She's good now and now she don't need her
simple cause they both agreed to it and I don't like how Karamo aint address the friend used her honestly cause soon as the man leave she gone miss her friend fr .
No you help people until they are good
I don’t think it’s about that …when you’re in that position you’ll understand how it is …they feel like they can come & step on your toes & as a mother that’s not a good feeling ! 🤷🏽♀️
Don’t run to help others because when it’s you…they ain’t coming
@@Itsme_breenaw the mother gave her the privilege to co parent with her. When she got a boyfriend then it changed. She wasn't stepping on nobody toes. Don't ask people to be a active parent and give them permission to discipline if you don't want that. She don't have a problem asking her friend for help
The friend was not trying to hear all that. She is about to be distant
She needs to step back for a min and get hold of her emotions and boundaries.
@@EmmanuelLewis2 very true. I just hope she does that and not become bitter.
Y’all delusional, she needs to step back because real is recognizing fake and she doesn’t deserve that💯
@@domaniquehuckaby6224 no need to be delusional. Nobody is taking a side.
@@domaniquehuckaby6224neither of these women are wrong for feeling the way they do. It’s counter productive to call someone fake and pick a side because both of them present really good arguments. If anything, it’s devastating to see two good friends fall out like that.
when you make your mistakes don't come running back to her.
@@evilsaint771 you know it’s coming. I hope there’s an update. 🙄
Karamo boopie, you missing the part where she’s saying her friend put her in that parent position and basically made her the stand in baby daddy and suddenly it was snatched away so she’s not wrong for feeling that way. Of course she’s hurt, she was a parent to the child too. Clearly she wasn’t JUST a godmom. I hope they figure it out because children need a village and the friend is a very good one. Also, I see nothing wrong with the baby and god mom having pictures together. We’re black and that’s not unusual for us. Our close friends are our family. It’s no different than an aunt and niece having photos together especially if they are really close. But now that we know she was the baby daddy, it’s even more understandable. I don’t like how the friend tried to skip over the fact that they had this dynamic. She knew the friend wasnt just some obsessive friend who didn’t know her place. She gave her the part. She played in her face w/ that but they still both seem like nice girls.
Facts.
Can't relate to any one being that close to me or my child. Never had a relationship like that with any aunt or God mom. And nobody is taking a photoshoot with my baby if I'm not in the picture
@@Caljay213 Okk..Sorry to hear that.
Wonderfully said !! ❤
I agree. Karamo was wrong to say you're just a friend. Friends are chosen family and sometimes support more than your blood relatives. It was a clumsy comment, and the friend was immediately hurt . Who wouldn't want a friend to love their child like that?
Be invested and genuinely care. Even more so when Karamo could see the friend was hurt, he didn't try to resolve it before closing out the segment. Smh
some ppl just want a God Mother because they know the person is financially stable , it don’t really be about love Fr .
Very true...and sad.
This is wild. Both of these young ladies need to take a step back and look at this through a different lens. When I divorced my daughter's father, she was 4 years old. The woman he got involved with fell in love with our daughter. She didn't have children of her own. She was supportive and always loving.
After 5 years, her father and the woman broke up, but she continued to spend time with my daughter. We became closer and friends. We didn't hang out together, but I trusted her. She bought clothing, took her on cruises and places that I couldn't afford to take her at the time as a single parent. I didn't feel offended or jealous. I was so thankful to have someone who loved my child and exposed her to so many wonderful experiences.
I found love again and remarried. I didn't cut off their relationship. There is enough love to go around.
My daughter is an adult now, with children of her own. She loves me, her father, the woman she refers to as her godmother, and her stepfather. Love can be a beautiful thing when we all work together in a healthy way❤❤❤
That's so amazing fr!!! ❤❤✨🙌🏽
Amen, what a beautiful testimony. When God says a child will be loved, it will be so! Wow!
Watch soon as the mom breakup with the boyfriend she going to be mad with her friend for ghosting her and the baby.
When he bounce keep that same energy
Exactly!
Exactly
That part!
Oh yeah
Yes!
Don't ask me for my opinions and give me permission on your child's upbringing and then when you get a man take it away and then give it back when the man does you dirty
It will take a while for the friend to forgive her but while the other friend is in that relationship she cannot be friends with her as she'll blame the boyfriend for the wedge in the friendship
They just need space and maybe find eachother in a few years
Right they skipped over that they was agreement she didn't oversteps no boundaries the girl got a new man and dont need her anymore so just go find more people with big hearts like yours cause she'd never hear from me again 💯
I agree
Idc what anybody say she used this girl and now she got a man she don’t need her anymore.💯
Right, and the godmother is definitely holding something back about her
As a ACTIVE & REAL God Mommy. I’ve been in my God daughters life since she came out. It’s HARD to accept certain things or want things to be done our way. Especially when you feel like the second mom. As much as we love our God babies & want the best for them, we have to learn & know when to take a step back. Give grace & let the bio parents be parents. They’re gonna make mistakes, it won’t always be perfect but nobody has a rule book on parenting.
What exactly are God moms supposed to do? I never had a real one. Do you babysit a lot?
@@Caljay213 God forbid anything happens to you (the mom or dad) the child goes to the God parent(s). Essentially the God parent(s) should be as active as the parents. It would be asinine for a child to go to a person they don’t even know. To answer your question, I don’t babysit, I parent with her bio parents. Us personally, we have a schedule. She’s with me every other week or every weekend depending on the month. Even my parents are her God-grandparents. She knows her “GiGi” is her second mom & you can’t tell her any different. She’s only 3 but she calls me on Wednesdays & says “Lani go to GiGi house on Friday” lol.
I just love both of their styles! So girly and classy
It's a blessing when a friend loves your kid like that. You have a second mother for your child in case anything happens to you. THAT IS A BLESSING!!!!
She is a terrible Godmother
After situation like this, then later she is going to accuse her friend of not being there for her and dauther.
😂😂 friendship is always complicated
Yea
NO NO way this episode was too dammm fast lmaooo. The God mother was really mothering -😊wow
Right there need to be a part to I feel like the godmother is holding back how she really feels.
Girl bye! Once you make that child her godmother wtf you thought?! Baby if my child god mother doesn’t go hard behind my child I don’t want her! Sis, don’t help her out no more!
...period
Journey and her mom is blessed to have a loving Godmother/friend in their life❤
She won’t after this. Any self-respecting person would take a major step back.
I felt her hurt and her shutting down. I think she’s done and will walk away.
Hopefully her and this dude works out, because she sacrificed her friend, and most of all, her help for him. The friend was getting a little overzealous, but that tells me that the mother was fine with her taking that role before the man came along. That type of involvement doesn’t just happen overnight.
Girl I’ll step so back yall won’t remember me ever being there
But, I'm sure the baby girl loves Naiya and is going to miss her presence.😔
Yea but momma's going to have to explain that @@angelacleveland75
Doing photos with just her and the baby is normal in families where the support system is strong, there are fs pics of me and my auntie dressing alike when I was a kid. it doesn't mean she was trying to steal me from my mom lol
Exactly 💯🤣
Exactly! I agree!
And the mom knew, but didn’t have the money. I’m blessed to have had a village to raise me.
EXACTLY!😂😂💯
@maggiesamson337 That was my big takeaway from this lowkey, that baby will never be wanting for love or support. She got people fighting over who gets to be there for her the most 🥹
A godmother is a woman who is a godparent, or someone who promises to help raise a child, usually in a religious context. In the Christian tradition, a godmother is present at a child's baptism and promises to raise the child as Christian. She may also offer mentorship or legal guardianship if needed.
6:00 God Mama is about to fall all the way back …
Unpopular opinion but I dont think thebfriend was wrong. Youbwas in a bad place and you put her in a parent role to help her out and then snatch it away when she got a man.
I mean, the mom got in a better place, whether the man got her there or not is irrelevant. I understand it will take some time to step down from that parent role when been put in it for a period of time, but the Godmom has to. She cannot replace the mother forever, especially when the mom is now functioning and presents.
It's disrespectful to the parent, and will be confusing for the child
She was wrong. A God Parents are suppose to help GOD FORBID SOMETHING HAPPEN TO THE PARENTS. Mother is STILL ALIVE. She takes the baby for pictures WITHOUT TELLING THE MOTHER. She needs her OWN CHILD AND LIFE PERIODTTT. I WOULD BE SCARED SHE WOULD DO SOMETHING OR KIDNAP MY BABY.😢
I agree with the Godmom as well
Exactly! She stepped up and helped her with the most important aspect of her life when she was struggling, her child. That’s type of support is priceless. That gave her time to get her stuff together. She chose to meet a man during that time, and that’s her business. But the support she gave her and wants to give with her baby is more than enough. It’s not her responsibility to house her. Her help with the child gave the mom support mentally, emotionally and physically. I don’t think at this point it’s so much about the friendship to her, it’s about the relationship and bond she made with the child. And she’s probably feeling unappreciated and will step back. And friend will come running again when she hit another rough spot. B/c obviously her family isn’t that involved if she’s homeless and struggling with a child. But it’s not right or fair to use a person when you want and use your child as a pawn for that help. Then take the baby away after the relationship and bond is there. She knows that girl wants nothing but the best for her child.
She wants to prioritize this man she’s likely shacking with to create a “family.”When this girl has been like an aunt, a god mother and been there for the baby, helped her raise the child. That’s why it’s always complicated when forming relationships and bonds with other ppl kids. B/c at the end of the day they can and will come in and out of your life based on what you can do or won’t do for them. She’s not worried about the best decision for her daughter. I do the think the friend needs to take a step back sometimes but I also think the mom needs to show appreciation. o
I have a question though. What if she got married. Do you think she should still have that level of involvement?
I WISHHHHHH I had a supporter like this, to care so much for my baby and protecting her. I have a feeling she’s gonna fall way back after this.
I feel like this,don’t ask me to be your child’s godparent if my opinion and efforts aren’t needed. There’s more to being a godparent than buying the child things smh. She seems like she has nothing but the best intentions for the child so what’s the problem?
Seems like the friend was doing a lil much but she loves that baby like it's her own. I see both of their point of view but the friend is definitely
gonna fall back........ My Godmom does a lot for me.....her and my mom has a great relationship. My mom picked the best person to be godmother. It's a blessing to have two mothers.
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Naiya is gonna stop overstepping those boundaries that Mya is mad about and Mya is gonna be sick as shit because she won’t have that support anymore
I see y’all never had a village because some of these comments are wild.
What the friend was doing with her god daughter was amazing. I would love for someone to love and take care of my child as much as I do. Godparents are literally 2nd parents. I get having boundaries, but saying she’s just a friend is absolutely insane.
When the GM said the first time she met the baby the baby was with their other mutual friend who had come over to do her hair and she later saw the mom at the beauty store instantly knew she was in the right. That girl used her and the love she had for the baby as a life line when she was struggling and never complained about boundaries for multiple years, now that she stable and in a good place all of a sudden she wants to revoke the privileges she was more than happy and relieved to give the GM.
The fact that she scheduled a photo shoot and left the mom out is giving creep vibes. Clearly Naiya doesn't understand the assignment. Does she think she is the "Dad."
The mom said that she didn't have the money to go....
So how is the creepy apparently she couldn't make it.
You're responding to everyone's comment let people have their own opinion. 2nd, if my friend who's the mother of my godchild can't afford to come I'll pay for all of us not leave her out@nicoleraheem1195
Sounds like the friend doesn't care she was homeless or broke
Honestly as a mother if the God mom took my child on a photoshoot I would not be mad for what she is the mother if I die like whattttt
THIS 🎯
5:23 karamo wrong at this time. That godmother is correct tho! You cannot reward bad behavior... if something happens to you, what are the god parents job? And shes there supporting you and advising...
She was wrong for not inviting her mom to the photo shoot.
Absolutely omg
What’s wrong with a godmother photoshoot? Don’t tell me I’m the godmother if I can’t take pictures with your daughter
The mom said she didn't have the money to go...
The mom said she didn't have the money yet to go so apparently she knew about it.
@@finessebyrobb9286
I literally just wrote a whole post about this on Facebook.
If you don't see us being friends for the long run do not ask me to be that child's God Mom.
Also what's the point of me being a godmom if I can't have quality time with the child?
Also the comments on Reddit that I've read about being a god mom from white people is completely different than what I've read on this thread.
White people understand that the Godparent will take guardianship of the child once the parents die.
They do understand that it's stemming from a religious background and they understand the legalities of being a godparent.
Black people are like oh that's The hand That rocks the cradle.
She's overstepping her boundaries.
She's doing too much.
And I'm not saying it's a white on black thing I just think people got a different definition of what it means to be a godparent.
I kind of think that the mother might feel insecure about her parenting skills when it comes to the God Mom doing the most for the God child and that's probably what makes her uncomfortable
I don't think she should be the Godmother because the mother doesn't know how to handle another woman being a better mother than she is. The godmother probably makes the mother feel insecure about her parenting skills. So, The God mom just just be a friend and thats it. I wouldn't ask about that child, I wouldn't want to babysit that child, I don't have any input about how you raise your child, I might come to your child birthday because you invited me but I'm not going to just pop up with gifts. Any little special thing she does for that child is going to be taken wrong. It's going to come off as if she overstepping her boundaries. But if the mother was to die, god forbid, is she can trust her daughter with the God Mom the god mom is still going to have to do the same as she's doing now and that's build a bond with that child and nurture her.
Thank you 👏🏾
@@auntkera
I guess it's rare to treat other people's kids like your own nowadays. I grew up differently. When my mom went to prison for three years, my aunty took me in. My cousins were basically my sisters for three years. We all got the same whooping, same foods, same quality clothing, same chores - no issues. As for me, I don't whoop children,but you will stand in that corner and reflect on what you did, but I really think people's love is so conditional that love and trust is non-existent.
@@nicoleraheem1195 So true!
No, that’s too much. I can never let my friend feel like she’s another parent. Nor would I want to play parent to my friend’s child. Why are we discussing disciplinary actions? No ma’am.
Exactly
It should be like that, that’s what wrong with society now. There is no sense of community
@@ZariaZenit's a western thing
@@helpkelp3595exactly
@@ZariaZen there’s a difference between being support and acting as a 2nd parent. It’s my job to parent. It’s your job to be supportive of my parenting choices. Not sitting down discussing how to parent/discipline or taking my child to photo shoots for mom and me photos. That’s not crazy to you?!
Once the man is gone, she'll be back. Once she does, don't let her in. And take it as a lesson, people will use you until they have no use for you.
I think the god mom raised the baby more than the bio mom, she's not attached to the mom she's attached to the baby. It's a little to far to bash her and tell her to step away from the baby who she stepped up for when the mom wasn't in the best place, i feel there's things the god mom didn't say outta respect for the mom but there's definitely deeper issues than a 15 minute segment on a show.
Exactly
Sis said “cause where did he even come from???” 😂😂😂 nawh fr. Okay let’s keep watching
Obviously she (mom) don’t understand what “Godmother”means. She’s doing just what Godmother is supposed to do and that’s care for the child at all times, especially when the mom is homeless and experiencing lack. The mom needs to be careful with men around her child especially these days.
Right
That part right there. Because to me it sounds like she's being isolated from the only person that looked out for them by this man. So when things go sour she will have no one to turn to. Predators do it all the time
Im a God mom to my cousin kid & my cousin definitely calls me her BD. So I don’t see a problem I would just fall back tbh
I would honestly step back they got it like she said . But I hope she don’t try and bring her back forward if she and the boyfriend ever break up cause it would be a no
A big NO
U know she will
Soo here’s the thing… maybe I do to much as a godmother but if my Bestfriend didn’t have a husband and asked me to help raise/discipline my goddaughter I’m going to take it just as seriously as she did
i don’t know her sign but from one capricorn to another the friend givesss a capricorn, we receive a inch and take a mile! she didn’t mean no harm, we just cherish and and do the most for the ones we love!
I was thinking the same thing… I felt her HARD
I guarantee the godmother takes care of that. Child and mother doesn’t do shit for her and now she feels away. The mother is out of order.
I feel so bad for the godmother it takes a real active godmother to understand. We live in a damn if you damn if you don’t world! I definitely hopes she finds peace in the situation without it impacting baby girl you can tell she loves her deeply ☹️
She is a horrible Godmother. Playing dress up, photoshoots without the other parents permission, and pretending to be the Mother......is not being a Godmother. A Godmother has two functions. Raising the child if the parents die, and to raise the child like the parents would have. Naiya has zero respect for the parent. She needs the title stripped.
@@shawn6986 in this generation of godparents you barely get half of what that girl is showing dead or alive. As a godmother myself I see nothing wrong with what she has done I get matching outfits, plan photo shoots etc for my girls all the time. I owe it to them not their parents once I was selected.
@@thatgirlnajj You arenot a Godparent then, just acting like a silly Aunt
GIRL IF U READING THIS COMMENT. STEP ALL THE WAY BACK FROM THAT GIRL AND HER FAMILY .
One thing I think would benefit this episode is for the two young ladies to separately write out: What does it mean to be a god mom. What are you not willing to do. What do you need from me when things are good, bad, and beyond bad. Clarity around the roles and expectations. Some god moms spoil and smother and are the moms right hand, while others only come through in times of strive and crisis. Some are in between. It also feels like mom is learning to find her voice and it will be an adjustment for everyone. This child is truly blessed to have the circle of support. In terms of the photo-shoot, it was a miss for mom to not be invited. In terms of boundaries- it’s a huge pivot to all of a sudden feel like you not wanted when times are good. I hope they can find a balance:
It sure seems it is going to be a tough adjustment for the Godmother, but it is a necessary adjustment that needs to happen. I am glad Mom gave Godmother her flowers, but boundaries MUST be established regardless.
I think she’s embodied the role of a godmother. It definitely takes a village!
I wish I had such a friend, treating my daughter like literally hers 🎉🎉❤
i feel like karamo shut her out tbh, " your just a friend" was wild she was put in a postion of being a co parent when she aint had it now the man in ya life the friend the problem?? fall back dont go running back to this great lady who took her time to take care of her baby
I think the best friend means well, however the parenting lines are blurred.
Off topic that pair of glasses on Karmo makes him look.. different 😭
Definitely do😂
What are we watching Clueless? AS IF! 😂
Some parent hate when they kids getting love that they parents can’t give atm . I can tell you rn I raised my bestfriends child period . I helped BOTH parents , his father & mother . I would be considered his God mother but I never had to ask shit cos they knew I loved him like my own . He is now with his father & it’s two completely situations but bless that friend for stepping up , cos I can tell you rn . I don’t know one person who would step in or up for my child like I did for my bestfriends child . There aren’t many people who will . I’m happy they did this 🫶🏼
Boundaries.
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I'm inspired.
Please spill some sugar about the bi-weekly stuff you mentioned.
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< I know that woman(Christina Ann Tucker)
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How can someone get connection to that woman y'all speaking bout !!?
She’s playing the role of a godmother. If she wanted to find a half a$$ Godmama she should’ve picked one 😂. Me and my godmama are closer than my mom but that’s because she was there for me more emotionally than my mom. It had nothing to do with her doing her job as a god parent, it was due to my moms actions (prioritizing men all my childhood) that we’re so close to this day
The godmother kind of weird! Don’t get me wrong she is doing great! But this is obsessive behavior! She seems like the type that will go behind her back and try to get custody of her child!
YES!!!!
That’s exactly what I thought! I wouldn’t trust her
@@TalissaRenee 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Mother ain't that good either if we being honest she didn't have a problem before she got with he man so it look like she only needed her for that period
@@Wheresnay You can’t judge her off what, someone who displays some kind of delusional behavior, says! The delulu friend didn’t have nothing bad to say about this woman, besides she had a problem with her not disciplining her child enough !
WEIRD BEHAVIOR?! No?
It is always a blessing when someone helps out. Especially when kids is involved.
So now that the bio mom is on her feet and has a “new man” now all of a sudden the God Mother is overstepping boundaries. But the mother didn’t have a problem with the God Mother before this new boyfriend came about.😏
The friend is obsessed
Now let me get this tf right.
1. You made her a God mother & didn't ask her 1st.
2. You NEVER established any boundaries in the beginning.
3. You used her while it was mfn convenient for you financially.
4. She helped you raise your child when she's not the childs father or your man.
5. Did you ever thank her ? And establish boundaries once you got w. Your man. And yes she does owe it to her she damn near raised that mfn child w.her🙄.
6. You never really wanted her to be the God mother.She knew if something happend to her , she would be reliable.
7. I hope she drops you like a bad habit... And to the child....Well she's not her mom she'll be alright...JUST AN OBSERVATION FROM THE INFO GIVEN 🤷🏾♀️✌🏽❗️
The best friend def needed a reminder that now that mom is on her feet it's time to take a step back, that's it that's all.
I know exactly how Godmom/ friend feels. My heart hurts for her. (I've been through that, as well.)
Find peace and step in on tye important moments to create the great, unforgettable memories ✨️ ❤.
Sis take her role seriously.... i love that about her
This is sweet …my God mom hasn’t given me anything or pays any attention to me. Being a God mom is huge role …she’s a sweet person. I wish her the best
I can get with the friend asking where is the boundary is! She didn’t know!
She just has to respect the boundaries
If she was secure in her motherhood she wouldn’t be bothered or jealous by her friend. Shes mad because she has a friend that cares about her child? I’m so damn confused. She doesn’t want her friend saying shxt because she calls her out on her bs. If it was me I would end that friendship. Karamo missed the mark on this one.
She wanted to play mom bc the photoshoot was just weird
It seems to me she might have been playing God Mom since Mom is a part of that title. I don't see the photo shoot is weird I see her spending quality time with her God child.
@@nicoleraheem1195 I agree and dont it was only weird to me bc she didnt extend the invite to the actual mom and didnt help her much when she was homeless which will automatically impact her godchild.
Nothing weird about that. That’s what godparents do when the mother fall short. I’ll fall back and let her have her baby
@@nicoleraheem1195same I loved my godmother
@@nicoleraheem1195I agree!
As far as disciplining her? Sis is acting like she’s babygirl’s father 😂😂🤦🏽♀️ She’s not the Godmother she’s the other mother!! She really feels like that’s her child too. She is taken that role literal. I would definitely watch out for her. It’s giving a lil delulu!!!
I don't see anything wrong with it. It's not hard to love and care for a child, yours or another.
😂😂😂😂😂
@@nicoleraheem1195 you’re the living definition of a Godmom! Baby girl is blessed to have you!
I said the same thing... Weirdo kidnapper vibes for sure.
I definitely find this weird!
Girl come be my kids god mommy lol matter fact come be my god mommy 🤣🤣 you are perfect
"Just a friend" oh noooo
You wanting to make your own mistakes but you’re going to protect your baby because you love her. This is ridiculous because loving your child sometimes means allowing people to step in and HELP! Being a godmother does not mean you take care of a grown person who is demanding to do her own thing. If you’re trying to grow and get out of poverty then you don’t isolate from your main support… login be all over the place and not making sense 🤦🏾♀️😅😢😤
A lot of people would kill to have a village to help them with their kids
Nah I disagree Karamo, it takes a village. She just needs to understand her place in that baby’s life.