This is an awesome reply. I couldn’t find anyone willing to wait (not even make out). Or would just try to play me. Prayed a Saint Anthony Novena to intercede for me in Heaven. And found the one❤ on the same day I started the novena! (Asked for Gods will to be done. If it means for me to be single the rest of my life. so be it. whatever can lead the most souls to God) Didn’t want to ask for signs but when I looked at his Even had the same badge number. Same 4 numbers completely different departments. He’s my bestfriend. And we’re engaged now.
@@johnymatt7476 🤣 no. But that’s some sacrileges Santeria stuff you’re thinking about. Not even Catholic. That’s Idolizing. Relaying on a Statue and not God.
Bone of my bone, flesh of my flesh, badge number of my badge number? Ah, the sweet, loving, providential humor of God… That is so cute. May God bless your marriage!
I prayed. He answered. Not straight away … it took time & tears. But he answered & I’m happy & grateful beyond words. Never loose faith. Christ is Lord ❤
In a sense, yes. But in another sense, no. After all, a woman who is a psychopath may say yes to a man. Or two people can like each other and then figure out they are not compatible and don’t want to marry. Assuming the person attracted to you is compatible with you and you with her, then just marry them. At the end of the day, somewhere deep down we will know if we want to spend the rest of our lives with a person
The 'trick' is to find a complementary, not to be confused with complimentary-someone who notices & speaks about your virtues and abilities, but someone who can help and increase them as you can theirs. There are multiple such combinations but do not discard the one you have committed because you think another would be better-- in marriage the two become one. Tearing apart that union destroys a significant part of each of them, and they no longer have the original potential.
Great advice. Only missing part is once you have stuff going for you, you also need the confidence to talk to girls and woo them over. I’m a pilot and girls still don’t seem to care about that. Part of the problem is I’m not going up to girls myself 😂.
Serious question how would god let you know? How could you be sure god is communicating with you and how exactly does god communicate with people? Please I’m 100% serious would love to know.
@@WhoreallyknowsHonestly, God communicate with each one of us differently, in a way that we can understand. Sometimes it's through the Bible or what someone else says, other times through too many "coincidences" , etc. The closer you get to God, the more you will be able to understand when He speaks to you, because you will become more attentive to His voice.
@@melraymprod so you are using the term “communicating” or “speaks” but what you’re really describing are intuitions and interpretations of patterns in your life. Not god actually speaking to you directly.
@@melraymprod it’s fine if you like to believe that. The problem is that in your original post you used the word “know” the words believe and know are very different.
I got married at 19.I've been married for over 20 years.Who knows what this guy is talking about?I didn't have nothing.We should just walk to the movies and walk to circle.K find a girl who loves Jesus.That's what you need to do
Please use spaces after periods. Where did he say make money get women? He said a man ought to think about what they have to offer. The wrong question is wondering what the other person has to offer me. Because it is a completely ego centric view.
The fact that you call her foolish.... clearly breaking up with you was the right choice. The best men say please Lord, take this away if it's not right and thank you for everything.
@CoquelicotCottage yes. I definitely dodged a bullet. Men love while women are in business. I don't doubt you have many men who thank God daily you left. Based upon your red flag usage, you sound like a double stacked magazine. 🔫
Well clearly asking that is the wrong question. Marriage has nothing to do with what youre getting from her, and everything to do with what youre offering her and whether you want to enter into the covenant relationship of self sacrifice for her. How do you know you can serve this woman how she needs, such that she would become a saint because of the sacrifices youre about to make for her. Thats the right question.
Basically it is right what he says, but i wonder who he's talkin to? Right now, given the harsh discrimination against white men, i think all the "work harder" and "humble yourself" - stuff completely out of place. If you humble yourself whilst the other side hasnt provided anything of value their whole life but is given the right to behave like a king, then you just enslave yourself and sure as hell wont produce any off spring.
@emma_luce_0623 a lot are and better than the women. 80% of divorces are initiated by women. ( fewer virgins than male virgins for sure) hypergamy is inate with all women. My advice, stop choosing the bad boys.
Jordan Peterson is very wise. But he sounds so angsty all the time. I suppose it’s with good reason since there’s a lot of “stupid” ideologies out there. But still, just a tad bit off putting, despite me agreeing with what he’s saying lol
So you just marry the first girl that gives you a chance… how does anyone take this seriously? What if multiple girls are willing? Do you just marry them all 😂😂😂
Exactly, this is a moronic answer. And as for putting 'a suit on buddy' does he mean a suit like the awful one he's wearing here ? How does anyone take this man seriously ?
@@FriendofSaintJoseph that's why annulments and divorce are up in the Catholic Church. Yup. God really delivered the Grace to be married to those people.
Life is a gamble. You want to play it safe? Nothing is safer than sitting in basement avoiding the adventure of life. Great men never did the safe thing. Great men do the adventurous thing. Marriage isn't for your benefit. It is for the mutual benefit of the spouses and the children the are begotten from that union. It isn't safe, and the divorce laws make it even more unsafe. (The government has been trying to destroy the family for a long time, and have finally convinced young men that not having a family is the better choice.) Marriage is an act of rebellion. Yes, marriage has severe disadvantages to men. The state has made marriage difficult so that people stop getting married.
Jordan Peterson is so ignorant on modern dating. Most women are undeserving of a man yet they will always have options available. Men should absolutely be more selective instead of saying “I’m lucky someone likes me”
I think this advice is great for women as well.
This is an awesome reply.
I couldn’t find anyone willing to wait (not even make out). Or would just try to play me.
Prayed a Saint Anthony Novena to intercede for me in Heaven.
And found the one❤ on the same day I started the novena! (Asked for Gods will to be done. If it means for me to be single the rest of my life. so be it. whatever can lead the most souls to God)
Didn’t want to ask for signs but when I looked at his Even had the same badge number. Same 4 numbers completely different departments.
He’s my bestfriend. And we’re engaged now.
Did you flip St. Anthony's statue upside down? Lol😂
@@johnymatt7476 🤣 no.
But that’s some sacrileges Santeria stuff you’re thinking about. Not even Catholic. That’s Idolizing. Relaying on a Statue and not God.
Bone of my bone, flesh of my flesh, badge number of my badge number? Ah, the sweet, loving, providential humor of God… That is so cute. May God bless your marriage!
@@dymphnatherese2595 Thank you so much 🙏
Because she says "yes" 😅😅 love him ❤️
BRILLIANT answer!
I believe in having standards. There are many abusive people out there.
I prayed. He answered. Not straight away … it took time & tears. But he answered & I’m happy & grateful beyond words. Never loose faith.
Christ is Lord ❤
In a sense, yes. But in another sense, no. After all, a woman who is a psychopath may say yes to a man. Or two people can like each other and then figure out they are not compatible and don’t want to marry. Assuming the person attracted to you is compatible with you and you with her, then just marry them. At the end of the day, somewhere deep down we will know if we want to spend the rest of our lives with a person
The 'trick' is to find a complementary, not to be confused with complimentary-someone who notices & speaks about your virtues and abilities, but someone who can help and increase them as you can theirs. There are multiple such combinations but do not discard the one you have committed because you think another would be better-- in marriage the two become one. Tearing apart that union destroys a significant part of each of them, and they no longer have the original potential.
Great advice. Only missing part is once you have stuff going for you, you also need the confidence to talk to girls and woo them over. I’m a pilot and girls still don’t seem to care about that. Part of the problem is I’m not going up to girls myself 😂.
And join this into putting Christ first and foremost.
God will let you know.
Serious question how would god let you know? How could you be sure god is communicating with you and how exactly does god communicate with people? Please I’m 100% serious would love to know.
@@WhoreallyknowsHonestly, God communicate with each one of us differently, in a way that we can understand. Sometimes it's through the Bible or what someone else says, other times through too many "coincidences" , etc. The closer you get to God, the more you will be able to understand when He speaks to you, because you will become more attentive to His voice.
@@melraymprod so you are using the term “communicating” or “speaks” but what you’re really describing are intuitions and interpretations of patterns in your life. Not god actually speaking to you directly.
@@Whoreallyknows It still comes from Him. Not everyone has the blessing of hearing His voice directly, but that it still how he speaks to us.
@@melraymprod it’s fine if you like to believe that. The problem is that in your original post you used the word “know” the words believe and know are very different.
That cut to Trump was the best
what's the background music song name?
Exactly
Wow..people think woman are complicated. He’s right, it’s that simple. She says YES.
Great advice.
I got married at 19.I've been married for over 20 years.Who knows what this guy is talking about?I didn't have nothing.We should just walk to the movies and walk to circle.K find a girl who loves Jesus.That's what you need to do
Please use spaces after periods.
Where did he say make money get women? He said a man ought to think about what they have to offer. The wrong question is wondering what the other person has to offer me. Because it is a completely ego centric view.
She foolishly let me go. I'm okay with her loss. Lord thank you for the pain and growth from loss.
The fact that you call her foolish.... clearly breaking up with you was the right choice.
The best men say please Lord, take this away if it's not right and thank you for everything.
"Her loss" "she foolishly" -- I have a feeling that she dodged a bullet. 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩
@@rebn8346 She actually did me a favor.
@@CoquelicotCottage So only women can know their worth? #hoeflation
@CoquelicotCottage yes. I definitely dodged a bullet. Men love while women are in business. I don't doubt you have many men who thank God daily you left. Based upon your red flag usage, you sound like a double stacked magazine. 🔫
Well clearly asking that is the wrong question. Marriage has nothing to do with what youre getting from her, and everything to do with what youre offering her and whether you want to enter into the covenant relationship of self sacrifice for her. How do you know you can serve this woman how she needs, such that she would become a saint because of the sacrifices youre about to make for her. Thats the right question.
I had the "one". And i foolishly let her get away.
Go get her❤
Your foolishly not doing anything about it either 😮😊
Basically it is right what he says, but i wonder who he's talkin to? Right now, given the harsh discrimination against white men, i think all the "work harder" and "humble yourself" - stuff completely out of place. If you humble yourself whilst the other side hasnt provided anything of value their whole life but is given the right to behave like a king, then you just enslave yourself and sure as hell wont produce any off spring.
And yet it's more random than we'd like to admit.
🤵
Thursday could edit this better
When you have to ask someone else if that person is the one, then pretty much your sorryAZ isn't the one🙄
I don't think the advice is good. Female virtue is at an all time low and sinking. Choose wisely but be content in celibacy and chastity.
So true. We must prepare to live our entire lives celibate. If you meet a good woman, marry. But it’s not good to have such expectations.
Well, the men aren't so great either
@@emma_luce_0623 ☝️🤓 “excuse me I have an original take”
@emma_luce_0623 a lot are and better than the women. 80% of divorces are initiated by women. ( fewer virgins than male virgins for sure) hypergamy is inate with all women. My advice, stop choosing the bad boys.
Jordan Peterson is very wise. But he sounds so angsty all the time. I suppose it’s with good reason since there’s a lot of “stupid” ideologies out there. But still, just a tad bit off putting, despite me agreeing with what he’s saying lol
So you just marry the first girl that gives you a chance… how does anyone take this seriously? What if multiple girls are willing? Do you just marry them all 😂😂😂
That's why God gave us the free will of choice
@@jeremydavie4484 true, but I guess Jordan doesn’t believe in free will when it comes to marriage
Jordan loved Tammy all his life since they were kids.
Peterson is a coomer
Exactly, this is a moronic answer. And as for putting 'a suit on buddy' does he mean a suit like the awful one he's wearing here ? How does anyone take this man seriously ?
You dont know. It is all a huge gamble, especially if you're Catholic.
This is an absurd take.
If you are Catholic, you know God gives you the graces you need in the Sacrament of Marriage.
@@FriendofSaintJoseph that's why annulments and divorce are up in the Catholic Church. Yup. God really delivered the Grace to be married to those people.
@@reverendcoffinsotherson5807 Annulments mean the marriage didn't exist, what it shows is people don't understand the meaning of marriage anymore
@@maten146 and the Catholic Church hands them out like candy, with a 90 percent approval for said annulment.
Life is a gamble. You want to play it safe? Nothing is safer than sitting in basement avoiding the adventure of life.
Great men never did the safe thing. Great men do the adventurous thing.
Marriage isn't for your benefit. It is for the mutual benefit of the spouses and the children the are begotten from that union. It isn't safe, and the divorce laws make it even more unsafe. (The government has been trying to destroy the family for a long time, and have finally convinced young men that not having a family is the better choice.)
Marriage is an act of rebellion. Yes, marriage has severe disadvantages to men. The state has made marriage difficult so that people stop getting married.
Jordan Peterson is so ignorant on modern dating. Most women are undeserving of a man yet they will always have options available. Men should absolutely be more selective instead of saying “I’m lucky someone likes me”
You really think this is a topic that can be summarized and reduced to 3 sentences?! You know as well as Jordan Peterson that isn't true