Using Condoms While Married, Taking Birth Control, Scared of Becoming a Parent & Hypersexual People

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  • Опубликовано: 5 июл 2024
  • In this video, I talk about my experience of why I and my ex-husband used condoms while married and before. I explain the fear of being a parent. Operating in masculine energy before and as a wife while working to provide and help pay bills. I talk about why birth control has always been a shameful option. I was also shamed for my weight gain that had come from taking birth control. I touched on the timeline of cheating when my ex-husband and I were no longer using condoms. The fight for your life if you catch yeast infections or an STD (I never had an STD.) I also slightly touch on being hypersexual and how many women shame others for being that way. Lastly, I mention popular beauty influencer Arnell. She's catching a lot of heat on TikTok and other social media platforms for opening up about having a baby, and becoming a single mom, and only after a month of being loved bomb.
    Intro: 0:00
    1:55 Why We Used Condoms
    3:33 His Mama Hated Me
    4:44 The Condom Badit Cheating Raw
    7:24 Birth Control Weight Gain
    8:15 Scared of Becoming a Parent
    9:05 People Talking About Arnell
    10:50 Many Women Are Hypersexual
    12:42 Carry Your Own Condoms
    13:41 The Gettichi Gottchies
    14:52 The Conclusion
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Комментарии • 32

  • @LindaLynn93
    @LindaLynn93  2 месяца назад +16

    Thank yall so much for stopping by! I want to continue to bring conversations that folks rather have on podcasts on over to my channel from time to time. I appreciate the love, support, and constructive criticism. As always you are appreciated. ❤

  • @Nevaeh1
    @Nevaeh1 2 месяца назад +12

    I made a decision at 24 that I was gonna stop going out sad over relationships, situationships, or men who just weren't that into me. I knew the only way I was gonna stop going out sad was if I just chose to be single and stay to myself.

  • @Prettygirltings
    @Prettygirltings 2 месяца назад +25

    You may be in you're 30s with a baby face but the robe in the kitchen with a word is giving auntie. I love it and im loving these conversations. Its real talk 🔥🔥

    • @LindaLynn93
      @LindaLynn93  2 месяца назад +6

      Awe thank you oh so much! I deeply appreciate your message. 🤗🥹❤️

  • @tyronaalston3708
    @tyronaalston3708 2 месяца назад +14

    I am loving these conversations. This is so real on so many levels.

    • @LindaLynn93
      @LindaLynn93  2 месяца назад +2

      Thank you so much for stopping by for these types of conversations as well. You are appreciated. ❤️

  • @Lovely_Diva
    @Lovely_Diva 2 месяца назад +4

    You have made some really good points👍Protecting yourself is very important because some men are deceitful.

  • @GIMJ84
    @GIMJ84 2 месяца назад +2

    I'm married, we now have 2 kids who I totally adore BUT I am not having anymore, I'm happy with my two. We use protection, I'm not on birth control because that really doesn't agree with my body, stopped taking that when I was 21 and I'm 39 now.
    Just because you are married does not mean you can not use protection but if I found myself having to use protection to avoid catching a disease from a cheating husband then nothing is going down between us except separation because I can't be having his kids and he's putting my sexual health at risk like that, I have kids to take care of, to be there for and I couldnt tolerate that blatant display of low regard for me, my health and our kids, he'd be out of the door fast.

  • @MsMonique
    @MsMonique 2 месяца назад +6

    Linda girl your wise beyond your years sis wow!!

    • @LindaLynn93
      @LindaLynn93  2 месяца назад

      Thank you so much! 🥹❤️

  • @wheresierraat
    @wheresierraat 2 месяца назад +9

    Linda, you are speaking nothing but the truth. People need to protect themselves, EVEN in relationships. Especially, if they know or suspect their partner is cheating. Use protection! I knew a married woman who remained faithful to her lying, cheating husband. But, she did not use protection with him. That man gave her HIV. Unfortunately, that can be the consequence.

    • @LindaLynn93
      @LindaLynn93  2 месяца назад +3

      Thank you so much! I agree. The conversation isn’t had enough in a way it doesn’t come off as insulating or degrading these days. I’m so glad you enjoyed and understand my point of view. ❤️🥹❤️

  • @natural_niky
    @natural_niky 2 месяца назад +5

    I’m first . Watching you at work. 1:13

    • @LindaLynn93
      @LindaLynn93  2 месяца назад +1

      Yay! Thank you so much for stopping on by while on the clock. 🤗😉❤️

  • @Meinschatz4L
    @Meinschatz4L Месяц назад

    As they should. Thanks for speaking on this

    • @LindaLynn93
      @LindaLynn93  Месяц назад

      You’re so welcome and thank you for watching!

  • @rachelk4914
    @rachelk4914 2 месяца назад

    Great conversation ❤

  • @user-nj1rn3qq2p
    @user-nj1rn3qq2p 2 месяца назад +1

    Been wanting to know for years why use them if you been married for long what’s the point to get married

  • @ExclusiveBarbie94
    @ExclusiveBarbie94 2 месяца назад +3

    Have a great week 🙂

    • @LindaLynn93
      @LindaLynn93  2 месяца назад +1

      You too, boo! ❤️🥰

  • @Favourite49
    @Favourite49 2 месяца назад +4

    Im all in Linda

    • @LindaLynn93
      @LindaLynn93  2 месяца назад

      Awe thank you so much for stopping by too! 🤗🥹

  • @tbev58
    @tbev58 2 месяца назад +3

    If you like that meat pistol😂

    • @LindaLynn93
      @LindaLynn93  2 месяца назад

      Yeah, that pow pow bang bang ‼️ 😂

  • @olilumgbalu5653
    @olilumgbalu5653 Месяц назад +1

    Your ex-husband was so scared of getting you pregnant, he immediately got a different woman pregnant at the same time...make it make sense. Also, you kept saying "real life prunes"...I think you meant "real life pruDes", lol. I might make a t-shirt that says that.

    • @LindaLynn93
      @LindaLynn93  Месяц назад +1

      Right! I just shake my head whenever I think about it. 🤣 That would be a fire t-shirt too!

  • @LolaSemone
    @LolaSemone 2 месяца назад

    Why was he scared of getting you pregnant?

    • @LindaLynn93
      @LindaLynn93  2 месяца назад

      He didn’t think he could financially support me and kid because at the time I wasn’t working from home.

  • @minimumtiara
    @minimumtiara 2 месяца назад

    I clicked on this video because you looked like Michelle Obama in the thumbnail photo.

    • @LindaLynn93
      @LindaLynn93  2 месяца назад

      Aww I thank you! I do get told that I favor her.