MY EX HUSBAND IS BITTER AND DOESN'T WANT TO COPARENT

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  • Опубликовано: 5 июл 2024
  • Hey, everyone in today's video I'm talking about my brisk walk to Walgreens to get my kids' easter basket stuffers. No, just because I have received my taxes I bought a car. I'm still hustling to make more money to support paying a lower car note and car insurance while working a 9-5. I also purchased my first washer and dryer after never owning my own. That was an income tax purchase too, boo. Then I discuss how I fell asleep before discussing my co-parenting relationship with my ex-husband. He's being called bitter because he has joint custody and does not want to see our kids the only 2 weekends out of the month he is court-appointed to. That's unfortunate for our kids, but you can't make a bitter ex-husband/father active in communication for the children's sake. I am new to getting the hang of vlogging. But I have been asked to open up and share the behind-the-scenes of my life with those who find it intriguing. So as I get more into vlogging my videos will get better I promise. Love you for watching and for all the love and support too!
    In this video
    0:00 start
    1:01 easter basket & living room closet
    2:04 TikTok pants and talk reflection
    8:50 My washer & dryer
    10:37 Late-night vent on being a single mom
    14:08 Bathroom chat about why he bitter
    My business email address for inquiries lindapatrick1993@gmail.com
    My personal website for motivational and thought-provoking things
    www.shesfoundstrength.com
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Комментарии • 84

  • @belindasanders1719
    @belindasanders1719 3 месяца назад +16

    Keep it moving, baby girl. A washer and dryer is a major accomplishment. Don't carry other folks' ignorance into your future. I'm going to retire in a few years, but I remember being made fun of. I also grew up one day from broke. Believe me, it does get much better. Your blessings will come.

  • @Lovely_Diva
    @Lovely_Diva 3 месяца назад +35

    Youve come a long way in your life and your ex husband is upset at your progress. Keep doing you and being great!!! God got you❤

    • @LindaLynn93
      @LindaLynn93  3 месяца назад +1

      Thank you so much!! I appreciate the love and your kind words. 🥹❤️

  • @LindaLynn93
    @LindaLynn93  3 месяца назад +26

    I will be doing more vlog style videos for those of you who want a little bit more content on my life in general. I hope you enjoyed this video as well! 🥰

  • @brooklynbabe6613
    @brooklynbabe6613 3 месяца назад +12

    Didn't he cheat? Sooo he mad cause he thought u was gonna sit around and cry I guess. My ex once asked me and I quote " isn't it hard for you? " I'm like nope easier since you left! So in my mind he wanted me to struggle. But I always did better without him. He always cause issues and took money away from the house, so I never really understood the question

  • @naturallymenow
    @naturallymenow 3 месяца назад +14

    Now you can wash your garments in the privacy of your own unit. God provides all the time sis ❤

    • @LindaLynn93
      @LindaLynn93  3 месяца назад

      Yes! Thank you so much! You’re right about God’s blessings.

  • @Shes0sweet
    @Shes0sweet 3 месяца назад +9

    Felt everything you said 100%. Give it to God and do what’s best for you and yours. Because at the end of the day every dog gets his day and that’s real! Keep being the best of mom to your babies and they’ll see it all

  • @melmel5345
    @melmel5345 3 месяца назад +4

    Linda thank you so much for sharing your complete journey. I am experiencing the same. He refuses to get our daughter to spend time with him, i don't know what he told is family but they stop checking on her as well, he hasn't paid her child support since last year. I was considering getting full custody as well for our daughter because of all he's doing but i am so tired or feel so uncomfortable of having to bring the court to try and fix matters but nothing is changing. I am so confused, scared and frustrated of how to move forward.

  • @womana1993
    @womana1993 3 месяца назад +2

    Laundry tips that I've gathered from professionals:
    1. Use less detergent. I like detergent sheets or powder detergent which is cheaper anyway (why pay for water?) and I follow the instructions for the amount instead of eyeballing. Usually you need less than you think.
    2. Don't use scent boosters or fabric softener. Instead, use a bit of white vinegar as a clothes rinse (no your clothes will NOT smell). Using less detergent and vinegar as fabric softener will help keep your washer from getting gunk inside that stinks and makes it run less efficiently. If you watch videos on YT from washer and dryer maintenance people, they will give you the low down on how to get the best use of your appliances.
    3. Use reusable silicone dryer jacks or wool dryer balls instead of buying dryer sheets over and over. These one time purchases can be used literally forever. And save you thousands over time.

    • @LindaLynn93
      @LindaLynn93  3 месяца назад +1

      Thank you so much! I had to screenshot this. 🤗🤗🤗

  • @bebepatton4491
    @bebepatton4491 3 месяца назад +17

    You’re awesome and amazing ❤❤❤❤❤ you got this!! ALL THIS!!!!! 😊😊😊😊😊

    • @LindaLynn93
      @LindaLynn93  3 месяца назад +1

      Awe thank you so much! 🥹 I appreciate you!

    • @sweetbrownsuga504
      @sweetbrownsuga504 3 месяца назад +1

      I 2nd this!!!!💪🏽❤️💯

    • @JamieW-gp8mx55
      @JamieW-gp8mx55 3 месяца назад

      She definitely got this💪🏾🥰🙏🏾❤️❤️❤️

  • @antisocialist2244
    @antisocialist2244 3 месяца назад +3

    That’s the most beautiful washer and dryer, what a blessing

  • @BrownSugarNCurls
    @BrownSugarNCurls 3 месяца назад +4

    So happy and proud of you my girl! Don’t allow anyone to make you feel less than. God got you and your babies!! 🤎🙏🏽

  • @kearstenw3855
    @kearstenw3855 3 месяца назад +5

    Congratulations 🙌🏽 Nothing better than a washer and dryer in your own apartment!!!!! I wish we could put them in mine but they won't allow us.

  • @jmilaj
    @jmilaj 3 месяца назад +4

    Congrats on your washer and dryer!! 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

    • @LindaLynn93
      @LindaLynn93  3 месяца назад

      Thank you!! 😊I appreciate it! 🥹❤️

  • @mymiracle79
    @mymiracle79 3 месяца назад +5

    Linda girl!!! I'm so proud of you!!!! You are sooo refreshingly real...I enjoy seeing you grateful for your blessings.

    • @mymiracle79
      @mymiracle79 3 месяца назад

      The sounds of your little one in the backround having fun is soo cute to me.

    • @LindaLynn93
      @LindaLynn93  3 месяца назад

      Thank you so much!! I appreciate the love and support from you. 🤗🥹❤️

  • @cherrymcdaniel
    @cherrymcdaniel 3 месяца назад +1

    Congratulations!!! I feel that washer and dryer!! You did yo' big one, and that mam prolly mad sitting in some jeans that got a lil mildew smell to em😂😂

  • @HealyMeans
    @HealyMeans 3 месяца назад +4

    hi linda 🤗
    rest when you need to, no matter what time of day or night. you will have that much more energy when you need it.
    thank God for the good, the bad and everything in between because ALL things work together for the good of those who love the Lord. tfs

  • @CourtneysScentSociety
    @CourtneysScentSociety 3 месяца назад +4

    I’m so proud of you and how far you’ve come! I pray that God continues to cover and bless you and your children as you all continue shining and growing! What I can say is kids always remember who was and who wasn’t there and he will r egret his decisions one day when it’s too late

    • @LindaLynn93
      @LindaLynn93  3 месяца назад

      Thank you so much! I deeply appreciate the love and gentle reminder. 🥹❤️🤗

  • @helenwiggins9390
    @helenwiggins9390 2 месяца назад

    Keep pushing forward and praying 🙏🏽 God will take care of you and your kids, thats the top priority 🙏🏽you will be fine, testimony after testimony how God is going to bless you more than you know 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽💕

  • @latonyajohnson4239
    @latonyajohnson4239 2 месяца назад +1

    Catching up on all your vlogs, I'm glad you got your washer and dryer

    • @LindaLynn93
      @LindaLynn93  2 месяца назад +1

      Yay! Thank you so much too! 🤗❤️

  • @reservechicbaby
    @reservechicbaby 3 месяца назад +1

    If your ex truly loved y’all kids then he would be there for them and treat and love them the way that a real Father does. Since he obviously doesn’t truly understand the word “love” and how go really show it towards himself or anyone else, let God take care of him. You continue to do your best towards, God, yourself, your family, and others and let me tell you, God will always make a way for you, no matter what. Never stop trusting and believing in that. When you need to go somewhere, and you need someone to watch the kids for you, just arrange for someone that you can trust to watch the kids for you and you got out and enjoy life. You are a beautiful person both inside and out with a lot to offer to offer this world and don’t ever let anyone ever stop you from pursuing your goals, dreams, aspirations, none of that. God has many more blessings in store for you, hun. Just wait on him, and as they flow in, just raise your hands up to the Heavens above, and THANK HIM with your whole heart and soul. For what God has for you, not no man on this earth, nor the Devil himself will ever be able to take away. So, you keep pushing forward and knowing that your battles are already won, in the mighty name of Jesus 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @MsMoore-bj9lq
    @MsMoore-bj9lq 3 месяца назад

    You’re such an inspiration to me. You give me hope that I can get out of this misery.

  • @LadyJay355
    @LadyJay355 3 месяца назад +1

    I love your realness and sense of humor lol! You got this sis! You’re doing an amazing job❤

    • @LindaLynn93
      @LindaLynn93  3 месяца назад

      Thank you so much!! I appreciate you! 🥹❤️

  • @ShantaCS
    @ShantaCS 3 месяца назад +1

    Congrats girl so proud of you keep pushing God got you❤

  • @LolaSemone
    @LolaSemone 2 месяца назад

    Congratulations on your washer and dryer! That’s a huge accomplishment.

    • @LindaLynn93
      @LindaLynn93  2 месяца назад

      Thank you so much! 🤗❤️

  • @annettebunch7984
    @annettebunch7984 3 месяца назад

    You will make it❤❤❤ God got you

  • @markeishacrumbley8747
    @markeishacrumbley8747 3 месяца назад +4

    I am happy for you and enjoy your blessings.

    • @LindaLynn93
      @LindaLynn93  3 месяца назад

      Thank you oh so much!! ❤️

  • @tbev58
    @tbev58 3 месяца назад

    Linda you are very blessed and a strong woman🙏🏽🤗 keep going gods got you!!

  • @Nevaeh1
    @Nevaeh1 3 месяца назад +2

    Your apartment is so nice and well deserved

    • @LindaLynn93
      @LindaLynn93  3 месяца назад +1

      Thank you so much! 🥹❤️

  • @PH-uw7ju
    @PH-uw7ju 3 месяца назад

    So proud of you!!!💕

    • @LindaLynn93
      @LindaLynn93  3 месяца назад

      Thank you oh so much! 🤗❤️

  • @LyntonyaB.
    @LyntonyaB. 3 месяца назад +3

    keep pushing! 💕🙏🏾

    • @LindaLynn93
      @LindaLynn93  3 месяца назад

      Thank you! ❤️❤️❤️

  • @alib180
    @alib180 3 месяца назад

    We keep it pushing ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @brooklynbabe6613
    @brooklynbabe6613 3 месяца назад

    Thats awesome! Being independent is hard but well worth it! Im engaged but i still have my independence, cause you never know!

    • @LindaLynn93
      @LindaLynn93  3 месяца назад

      I definitely agree and thank you so much! I wouldn’t trade my independence for anything right now. 😉

  • @smilesallround
    @smilesallround 3 месяца назад +1

    Congrats on your washer dryer!

  • @gabbymiles5655
    @gabbymiles5655 3 месяца назад

    🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @vetteharrison5641
    @vetteharrison5641 3 месяца назад

    Your amazing.! God got you my sister in Christ. ❤❤🙏🏽🙏🏽

    • @LindaLynn93
      @LindaLynn93  3 месяца назад +1

      Thank you oh so much! 🥰 To God be the glory.

    • @vetteharrison5641
      @vetteharrison5641 3 месяца назад

      @@LindaLynn93 Amen!🙏🏽

  • @sparklememoriez8887
    @sparklememoriez8887 3 месяца назад +1

    Girl, speak positivity into your life. Do what's best for you and your children. .F*ck Him! Your Ex husband will be alright!

    • @LindaLynn93
      @LindaLynn93  3 месяца назад

      Thank you for the gentle reminder and for the love and support. 🥹❤️

  • @newme73
    @newme73 3 месяца назад +1

    You are doing the damn thing. Congratulations baby.

    • @LindaLynn93
      @LindaLynn93  3 месяца назад

      Thank you so much! 🥹❤️

  • @SWEETPEA117
    @SWEETPEA117 3 месяца назад

    ❤❤ keep up the good work 🎉 stay focused.

    • @LindaLynn93
      @LindaLynn93  3 месяца назад

      Thank you, I sure will. ❤️

  • @sherri3069
    @sherri3069 3 месяца назад

    I remember using the washing board to wash clothes in the tub every week. Hang dry.

    • @LindaLynn93
      @LindaLynn93  3 месяца назад +1

      Whew! Thinking about it makes me get choked up. 😫

  • @shadaewilliams4737
    @shadaewilliams4737 3 месяца назад +1

    Do you have a Dollar Tree in your area?! ..they have everything for the low low ❤️

    • @LindaLynn93
      @LindaLynn93  3 месяца назад +1

      We do, I just have to Uber to get back and forth from there. I’m going to check the one out near by for sure. 😉

  • @ExclusiveBarbie94
    @ExclusiveBarbie94 3 месяца назад

    Have a great week 🙂

    • @LindaLynn93
      @LindaLynn93  3 месяца назад +1

      You too my girl! 🤗😉

  • @kearstenw3855
    @kearstenw3855 3 месяца назад

    Your an amazing mom

  • @rachelk4914
    @rachelk4914 3 месяца назад

    ❤❤❤

    • @LindaLynn93
      @LindaLynn93  3 месяца назад

      Thanks so much for watching! ❤️

  • @diannafreeman369
    @diannafreeman369 3 месяца назад

    • @LindaLynn93
      @LindaLynn93  3 месяца назад

      Thank you for watching! ❤️

  • @aquafina6544
    @aquafina6544 3 месяца назад

    Linda we bout the same weight im 5'2" and 178 and i look bigger than you. I got fat arms and the more weight i lose the more flabby and wrinkle i get. My girls look so deflated.
    Oh and im way older than you and this my 1st store bought washer and dryer. I always had used. Girl those experiences are gonna have you the goat by the time your 50 and all those dusties that was talkn crap will be jealous bcus you will have more power and knowledge in your pinkey than they have in their entire body. So kudos sis and pat yourself on the back bcus you're keeping one foot in front of the other.
    That sperm donor gotta justify his bs br God so do you. He's a grown male that hasnt become a man yet and all his actions are seeds he sowed so he gotta reap that empty harvest.

  • @dorthearattereeharden7941
    @dorthearattereeharden7941 3 месяца назад

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤😊😊

    • @LindaLynn93
      @LindaLynn93  3 месяца назад

      Thank you so much for watching! 🤗❤️

  • @gwood3070
    @gwood3070 2 месяца назад

    💪 P R O M O S M

  • @MichaelLesesne
    @MichaelLesesne 3 месяца назад

    Putting your ex-husband on blast for the entire world to see? Who's bitter? LOL

    • @anyaw340
      @anyaw340 3 месяца назад +20

      Idiotic and illogical take. She's a vlogger who has been making videos about her life for over 10 years. This is part of her life, is it not? So how is she "bitter" for sharing aspects of her life, when she's BEEN doing that for years? And why should she exclude this aspect of her life over concerns about "putting her ex-husband on blast for the entire world to see"? Their relationship was very clearly already acrimonious long before she ever spoke about it on RUclips, and if what she says is true about him (we only have one side of the story, so I'm emphasizing "IF"), then he's certainly doing his darndest to make her life difficult in the worst way possible - involving their children. If she feels as if that's an aspect of her life that she wants to share, then that's her prerogative. She owes him nothing.

    • @LindaLynn93
      @LindaLynn93  3 месяца назад +6

      Thank you! I couldn’t have said it better.

    • @brooklynbabe6613
      @brooklynbabe6613 3 месяца назад +3

      Also it's therapy! And from what I'm gathering he's always blasting her in public! People sometimes need to be exposed!