MY EX HUSBAND IS BITTER AND DOESN'T WANT TO COPARENT
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- Опубликовано: 5 июл 2024
- Hey, everyone in today's video I'm talking about my brisk walk to Walgreens to get my kids' easter basket stuffers. No, just because I have received my taxes I bought a car. I'm still hustling to make more money to support paying a lower car note and car insurance while working a 9-5. I also purchased my first washer and dryer after never owning my own. That was an income tax purchase too, boo. Then I discuss how I fell asleep before discussing my co-parenting relationship with my ex-husband. He's being called bitter because he has joint custody and does not want to see our kids the only 2 weekends out of the month he is court-appointed to. That's unfortunate for our kids, but you can't make a bitter ex-husband/father active in communication for the children's sake. I am new to getting the hang of vlogging. But I have been asked to open up and share the behind-the-scenes of my life with those who find it intriguing. So as I get more into vlogging my videos will get better I promise. Love you for watching and for all the love and support too!
In this video
0:00 start
1:01 easter basket & living room closet
2:04 TikTok pants and talk reflection
8:50 My washer & dryer
10:37 Late-night vent on being a single mom
14:08 Bathroom chat about why he bitter
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Keep it moving, baby girl. A washer and dryer is a major accomplishment. Don't carry other folks' ignorance into your future. I'm going to retire in a few years, but I remember being made fun of. I also grew up one day from broke. Believe me, it does get much better. Your blessings will come.
Youve come a long way in your life and your ex husband is upset at your progress. Keep doing you and being great!!! God got you❤
Thank you so much!! I appreciate the love and your kind words. 🥹❤️
I will be doing more vlog style videos for those of you who want a little bit more content on my life in general. I hope you enjoyed this video as well! 🥰
Didn't he cheat? Sooo he mad cause he thought u was gonna sit around and cry I guess. My ex once asked me and I quote " isn't it hard for you? " I'm like nope easier since you left! So in my mind he wanted me to struggle. But I always did better without him. He always cause issues and took money away from the house, so I never really understood the question
Now you can wash your garments in the privacy of your own unit. God provides all the time sis ❤
Yes! Thank you so much! You’re right about God’s blessings.
Felt everything you said 100%. Give it to God and do what’s best for you and yours. Because at the end of the day every dog gets his day and that’s real! Keep being the best of mom to your babies and they’ll see it all
Linda thank you so much for sharing your complete journey. I am experiencing the same. He refuses to get our daughter to spend time with him, i don't know what he told is family but they stop checking on her as well, he hasn't paid her child support since last year. I was considering getting full custody as well for our daughter because of all he's doing but i am so tired or feel so uncomfortable of having to bring the court to try and fix matters but nothing is changing. I am so confused, scared and frustrated of how to move forward.
Laundry tips that I've gathered from professionals:
1. Use less detergent. I like detergent sheets or powder detergent which is cheaper anyway (why pay for water?) and I follow the instructions for the amount instead of eyeballing. Usually you need less than you think.
2. Don't use scent boosters or fabric softener. Instead, use a bit of white vinegar as a clothes rinse (no your clothes will NOT smell). Using less detergent and vinegar as fabric softener will help keep your washer from getting gunk inside that stinks and makes it run less efficiently. If you watch videos on YT from washer and dryer maintenance people, they will give you the low down on how to get the best use of your appliances.
3. Use reusable silicone dryer jacks or wool dryer balls instead of buying dryer sheets over and over. These one time purchases can be used literally forever. And save you thousands over time.
Thank you so much! I had to screenshot this. 🤗🤗🤗
You’re awesome and amazing ❤❤❤❤❤ you got this!! ALL THIS!!!!! 😊😊😊😊😊
Awe thank you so much! 🥹 I appreciate you!
I 2nd this!!!!💪🏽❤️💯
She definitely got this💪🏾🥰🙏🏾❤️❤️❤️
That’s the most beautiful washer and dryer, what a blessing
Thank you so much! 🥰
So happy and proud of you my girl! Don’t allow anyone to make you feel less than. God got you and your babies!! 🤎🙏🏽
Congratulations 🙌🏽 Nothing better than a washer and dryer in your own apartment!!!!! I wish we could put them in mine but they won't allow us.
Congrats on your washer and dryer!! 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
Thank you!! 😊I appreciate it! 🥹❤️
Linda girl!!! I'm so proud of you!!!! You are sooo refreshingly real...I enjoy seeing you grateful for your blessings.
The sounds of your little one in the backround having fun is soo cute to me.
Thank you so much!! I appreciate the love and support from you. 🤗🥹❤️
Congratulations!!! I feel that washer and dryer!! You did yo' big one, and that mam prolly mad sitting in some jeans that got a lil mildew smell to em😂😂
hi linda 🤗
rest when you need to, no matter what time of day or night. you will have that much more energy when you need it.
thank God for the good, the bad and everything in between because ALL things work together for the good of those who love the Lord. tfs
I’m so proud of you and how far you’ve come! I pray that God continues to cover and bless you and your children as you all continue shining and growing! What I can say is kids always remember who was and who wasn’t there and he will r egret his decisions one day when it’s too late
Thank you so much! I deeply appreciate the love and gentle reminder. 🥹❤️🤗
Keep pushing forward and praying 🙏🏽 God will take care of you and your kids, thats the top priority 🙏🏽you will be fine, testimony after testimony how God is going to bless you more than you know 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽💕
Catching up on all your vlogs, I'm glad you got your washer and dryer
Yay! Thank you so much too! 🤗❤️
If your ex truly loved y’all kids then he would be there for them and treat and love them the way that a real Father does. Since he obviously doesn’t truly understand the word “love” and how go really show it towards himself or anyone else, let God take care of him. You continue to do your best towards, God, yourself, your family, and others and let me tell you, God will always make a way for you, no matter what. Never stop trusting and believing in that. When you need to go somewhere, and you need someone to watch the kids for you, just arrange for someone that you can trust to watch the kids for you and you got out and enjoy life. You are a beautiful person both inside and out with a lot to offer to offer this world and don’t ever let anyone ever stop you from pursuing your goals, dreams, aspirations, none of that. God has many more blessings in store for you, hun. Just wait on him, and as they flow in, just raise your hands up to the Heavens above, and THANK HIM with your whole heart and soul. For what God has for you, not no man on this earth, nor the Devil himself will ever be able to take away. So, you keep pushing forward and knowing that your battles are already won, in the mighty name of Jesus 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
You’re such an inspiration to me. You give me hope that I can get out of this misery.
I love your realness and sense of humor lol! You got this sis! You’re doing an amazing job❤
Thank you so much!! I appreciate you! 🥹❤️
Congrats girl so proud of you keep pushing God got you❤
Congratulations on your washer and dryer! That’s a huge accomplishment.
Thank you so much! 🤗❤️
You will make it❤❤❤ God got you
I am happy for you and enjoy your blessings.
Thank you oh so much!! ❤️
Linda you are very blessed and a strong woman🙏🏽🤗 keep going gods got you!!
Your apartment is so nice and well deserved
Thank you so much! 🥹❤️
So proud of you!!!💕
Thank you oh so much! 🤗❤️
keep pushing! 💕🙏🏾
Thank you! ❤️❤️❤️
We keep it pushing ❤❤❤❤❤
Thats awesome! Being independent is hard but well worth it! Im engaged but i still have my independence, cause you never know!
I definitely agree and thank you so much! I wouldn’t trade my independence for anything right now. 😉
Congrats on your washer dryer!
Thank you so much! 🤗
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Your amazing.! God got you my sister in Christ. ❤❤🙏🏽🙏🏽
Thank you oh so much! 🥰 To God be the glory.
@@LindaLynn93 Amen!🙏🏽
Girl, speak positivity into your life. Do what's best for you and your children. .F*ck Him! Your Ex husband will be alright!
Thank you for the gentle reminder and for the love and support. 🥹❤️
You are doing the damn thing. Congratulations baby.
Thank you so much! 🥹❤️
❤❤ keep up the good work 🎉 stay focused.
Thank you, I sure will. ❤️
I remember using the washing board to wash clothes in the tub every week. Hang dry.
Whew! Thinking about it makes me get choked up. 😫
Do you have a Dollar Tree in your area?! ..they have everything for the low low ❤️
We do, I just have to Uber to get back and forth from there. I’m going to check the one out near by for sure. 😉
Have a great week 🙂
You too my girl! 🤗😉
Your an amazing mom
Awe thank you! 🥹
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Thanks so much for watching! ❤️
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Thank you for watching! ❤️
Linda we bout the same weight im 5'2" and 178 and i look bigger than you. I got fat arms and the more weight i lose the more flabby and wrinkle i get. My girls look so deflated.
Oh and im way older than you and this my 1st store bought washer and dryer. I always had used. Girl those experiences are gonna have you the goat by the time your 50 and all those dusties that was talkn crap will be jealous bcus you will have more power and knowledge in your pinkey than they have in their entire body. So kudos sis and pat yourself on the back bcus you're keeping one foot in front of the other.
That sperm donor gotta justify his bs br God so do you. He's a grown male that hasnt become a man yet and all his actions are seeds he sowed so he gotta reap that empty harvest.
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Thank you so much for watching! 🤗❤️
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Putting your ex-husband on blast for the entire world to see? Who's bitter? LOL
Idiotic and illogical take. She's a vlogger who has been making videos about her life for over 10 years. This is part of her life, is it not? So how is she "bitter" for sharing aspects of her life, when she's BEEN doing that for years? And why should she exclude this aspect of her life over concerns about "putting her ex-husband on blast for the entire world to see"? Their relationship was very clearly already acrimonious long before she ever spoke about it on RUclips, and if what she says is true about him (we only have one side of the story, so I'm emphasizing "IF"), then he's certainly doing his darndest to make her life difficult in the worst way possible - involving their children. If she feels as if that's an aspect of her life that she wants to share, then that's her prerogative. She owes him nothing.
Thank you! I couldn’t have said it better.
Also it's therapy! And from what I'm gathering he's always blasting her in public! People sometimes need to be exposed!