I NEVER HAD AN ORGASM UNTIL I DIVORCED

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  • Опубликовано: 5 июл 2024
  • Hey, my baby! In this video, I am talking about my experience with not experiencing an orgasm until after I divorced. I wanted to talk to you about this topic because many women get shamed for being sexually intuned with their bodies, especially after the age of 30 and even after having kids. I believe that even if you aren't sexually active you should know your body and still be aligned with your sexual health, needs, and desires. I share all my unfiltered thoughts with you and hope you enjoy this video!
    0:00 intro
    1:07 How The Topic Hit Me
    2:35 Having Kids Doesn't Equal Good Sex
    5:23 Saying No To Going Pound Town
    7:06 Know Your Kinks Ladies
    7:42 Married To A Man With Trash Sex
    8:30 Settling for Mundan Sex
    8:45 I Didn't Know My Body In My 20s
    9:30 Getting Shame for Being Sexually Confident
    10:55 Don't Do Me
    11:40 Tell Him His Sex Trash
    12:35 Don't Settle for Poor Sex
    13:26 The Conclusion
    My website for all things motivating and though-provoking www.shesfoundstrength.com
    My email lindapatrick1993@gmail.com
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Комментарии • 57

  • @LindaLynn93
    @LindaLynn93  3 месяца назад +22

    Hey, my baby! I’m here to share my truth in another raw unfiltered video. Let me know your thoughts. As always thank you so much for watching. ❤️

  • @TKOCHAE
    @TKOCHAE 3 месяца назад +17

    Girl you better talk!!! I'm a woman of a certain age and I had my first child at 15 turning 16. Never had one. Had my second baby at 22. NEVER HAD ONE. Nayun one of them gave me one. I was in my mid 40's when I got one "LORD REST HIS SOUL"

    • @marleyhill34
      @marleyhill34 3 месяца назад +3

      This makes me sad. I'm incredibly lucky then. I had foreplay and masturbation from the age of 13. I had penetrative sex at 19. I was raised in a two-parent household and both my parents were super ( still are) independent so I always had the mindset of knowing how to get everything myself...even if a man is around. I was teaching the men...in sex, in home maintenance, in finance, in gardening, in emotional intelligence. My teaching days are over. I just give helpful hints and directions and leave them to it now...and go and get mine for me!!

    • @mamat1213
      @mamat1213 3 месяца назад +1

      Wow… tyfs girl! U give some of us hope lmao❤

  • @caramellatte4516
    @caramellatte4516 3 месяца назад +29

    More grown folks talk. Yesss. Let's go!!!👍🏾👍🏾

    • @LindaLynn93
      @LindaLynn93  3 месяца назад +1

      I will definitely have more topics on the way. Thank you so much for watching! 🤗🤗🤗

  • @reservechicbaby
    @reservechicbaby 3 месяца назад +6

    Hallelujah! As, once you experience it for the first time, it truly will change your life forever. There’s about nothing wrongful with you speaking up about it. More power to you, QUEEN 👸🏽

  • @cuteykyles
    @cuteykyles 3 месяца назад +9

    I'm here for the late night after dark convo. You spoke facts. Ladies, SPEAK UPPPP!!! So your mate can know what you want and like.

  • @marleyhill34
    @marleyhill34 3 месяца назад +9

    I'm so confused. I'm 42 and I've been reading about how to have an orgasm as a woman since the 90s in Cosmopolitan magazine. Yet women my age and younger with marriages and children never had a orgsam? I had my first vibrator at 19 during my degree.. Cause my boyfriend was long distance and I definitely needed a stress reliever! Also it's my body to figure out. So glad i did instead of waiting for a man to do me right... Most of the men i was teaching them! Even the older ones think their body is like the man they watch in a porno. Lol! It most definitely is not.

    • @ToniaAlex13
      @ToniaAlex13 3 месяца назад +1

      I remember reading those magazines in the 2000s. I always believe in exploring your own body. How do we expect someone to do it all for us when we are afraid of our body...

    • @marleyhill34
      @marleyhill34 3 месяца назад

      @@ToniaAlex13 I dunno... I like to read so if someone has a problem, I read about it. I was with a man 10 years older than me and he couldn't get hard. He kept touching his penis vigorously. ( like he was alone watching porn). I had read about penis problems on a german website. I tried what I read. So I told him to stop and got him to lie on his back and told him not to touch his penis and concentrate on his breathing and to tilt his pelvis ( pilates/Yoga class!) in time with his breathing. Once he had done that for a few minutes then I gave him a penis massage avoiding the tip/head. Presto he got hard....Even men do not know their own body. This man exercised a lot too. He had a 6 pack and I have a chubby belly! Lol! Anyway, trust and believe I'm always going to get mine cause most men always get theirs as long as they can get hard.

  • @symonelee7632
    @symonelee7632 3 месяца назад +9

    OMG Linda, you are on point with this one. I’m loving these late night conversations. Keep them coming. 😊😊

    • @LindaLynn93
      @LindaLynn93  3 месяца назад

      Thank you! Will do for sure! 🤗❤️

  • @kristenbujold8267
    @kristenbujold8267 21 день назад

    Married at 18 and two consecutive children I was not to interested in sex and faked the orgasm I knew I was supposed to have. I faked for 15 years and didn't have my first of many until I was divorced. My ex left me for my "best friend". Twenty years later and I couldn't be sorrier. He was and still is a very good person. I wish I hadn't given him away.

  • @KeishaAuNaturale
    @KeishaAuNaturale 3 месяца назад +3

    Sis, I ain't ever been talked through it until post divorce and I LOVED it! Affirmations and all lol. But I've been abstinent for a while now 😂. My next man better be ready to talk to me nice tho!

  • @ryannbrewer4233
    @ryannbrewer4233 3 месяца назад +1

    I felt every word of this !!!!

  • @ExclusiveBarbie94
    @ExclusiveBarbie94 3 месяца назад +10

    Happy Wednesday and I'm loving these videos 😊

    • @LindaLynn93
      @LindaLynn93  3 месяца назад +1

      Yay! Thank you! I will definitely keep them coming.

    • @LindaLynn93
      @LindaLynn93  3 месяца назад +1

      🤗🤗🤗

  • @ToniaAlex13
    @ToniaAlex13 3 месяца назад +2

    Preach. I was watching a reality show recently and my fave stated she never had one too until divorce, they were married for over 10 years. I honestly couldn't imagine that for me and hope i never experience that

    • @marleyhill34
      @marleyhill34 3 месяца назад +2

      Gave myself my first one so no man is going to have to be around me without one. Lol! Sir if you can't give me something that I can't get myself..please step back and get out of my way!!

  • @RoseGold79
    @RoseGold79 3 месяца назад

    Girl, you had me hollering! Tell it! Love the late night conversations!

    • @LindaLynn93
      @LindaLynn93  2 месяца назад

      😂 Thank you so much for watching! ❤️

  • @charnelle1226
    @charnelle1226 3 месяца назад +7

    So I’m not the only one 😮 I thought it but you said it out your mouth thanks Linda

    • @LindaLynn93
      @LindaLynn93  3 месяца назад +1

      Aye! I’m so glad I opened up about this topic. 😏❤️

  • @LyntonyaB.
    @LyntonyaB. 3 месяца назад

    another real conversation 💯 ♥️

  • @MsRouge2000
    @MsRouge2000 3 месяца назад +1

    Girl yes!!! For the grown folks!!!!❤❤❤❤

  • @Janays
    @Janays 3 месяца назад

    Hey girl, loving these grown woman videos😀

  • @tyronaalston3708
    @tyronaalston3708 3 месяца назад +11

    Hey Linda! I am loving this series. Straight,Raw and Unfiltered 🤎👑

    • @LindaLynn93
      @LindaLynn93  3 месяца назад +1

      Thank you so much for watching! I will definitely keep these videos coming. 🤗❤️

  • @rachelk4914
    @rachelk4914 3 месяца назад +1

    Thanks for speaking on it ❤

    • @LindaLynn93
      @LindaLynn93  3 месяца назад

      Thank you so much for watching! ❤️

  • @maximel77
    @maximel77 3 месяца назад

    Great video!

  • @Eveningbreeze721
    @Eveningbreeze721 3 месяца назад +2

    I was just thinking about this! I was washing dishes the other day thinking about how much my husband enjoys me and happy I don't have to be acting like a circus freak for him to get there 😂 I've been with those types.

  • @ShantaCS
    @ShantaCS 3 месяца назад +2

    Linda this video was hilarious😂 but you kept it 💯

  • @smilesallround
    @smilesallround 3 месяца назад

    I love your videos. Real life lessons that also make you laugh 😂

  • @daisyflower1545
    @daisyflower1545 3 месяца назад

    OMG you are hilarious 😂😂😂😂😂 I was laughing all through watching this

    • @LindaLynn93
      @LindaLynn93  2 месяца назад

      Thank you so much for watching too! 🤗😂❤️

  • @judyjetson8542
    @judyjetson8542 3 месяца назад +1

    I would rather pay all my own bills than have a headache like that!

  • @tanishataylor6732
    @tanishataylor6732 3 месяца назад +3

    🦎 tongue 🤪👅 You said a word!! Preach ❤

  • @lilbitofnel
    @lilbitofnel 3 месяца назад

    Girl say that!!! 🗣️🗣️🗣️

  • @theprincessdivam7695
    @theprincessdivam7695 2 месяца назад

    Tell the truth!!!

  • @femininemysticmagick6341
    @femininemysticmagick6341 3 месяца назад +1

    Watch Mr. Stroke Genius. I feel like he really is teaching men how to do it

  • @shadaewilliams4737
    @shadaewilliams4737 3 месяца назад +2

    👀👀👀 ok!

    • @LindaLynn93
      @LindaLynn93  3 месяца назад +1

      Thank you so much for watching! 😉❤️

  • @aquafina6544
    @aquafina6544 3 месяца назад +3

    I love the grown folk talk lil sis. I'm happy for you. However your peak is in your 40s...lawd I miss my 40s and my ex. He was errting in the bedroom. We fit and he was teachable. He shitted on me after 13yrs. When love left so did the comparability.

    • @ToniaAlex13
      @ToniaAlex13 3 месяца назад

      Peak starts at 35 for most women

    • @marleyhill34
      @marleyhill34 3 месяца назад

      @@ToniaAlex13 I don't know. I'm 42 and still eating men younger than me. Lol! I told a guy at work in his early 20s that I went to a kink/fetish event and his face was a picture. He said, "is that for middle-aged old people who don't like normal sex?" I wound him up and said yes. Lol! If I was bad I would have said his mom and dad too. Lol!

  • @ShantaCS
    @ShantaCS 3 месяца назад +3

    🤭🤭🤭speak on it