Narcissists create their own karma. Many aging narcissists end up alone at the end of their life. They have alienated SO many people in their lifetime… even their own children.
That's so true my narcissist husband abandoned all 4 of his children two wife's ! I'm very hurt and so angry I want revenge I feel so stupid I didn't see it !I hope I heal 21 years of this I'll I did was give and give us took and took!
My ex threatened “You will end up alone(after I clean you out)” In the end she did not clean me out and she is all alone I have a wonderful life. Karma works every time
The only revenge that I know to work effectively against the narcissists is to first discard them as in cutting ties or rejecting them before they get a chance of doing anything harmful to your life, then moving on to live your best life. That's the only revenge that truly works.
@@lorenamackey218 I did exactly what you guys did... Radio silence. They tried blowing up my other phone line and I didn't even listen to the messages. "Cut them off without a word" was the video that inspired me. Now did I plan on this? No. I just knew it was time instinctively
I don’t want revenge, I just want to heal . He’s dead to me , invisible, he no longer exists in my mind . I want to move forward alone . I’m not ready to be in another relationship with any one . I’m happy alone , my adult children and my grandchildren are my life xxx
AMEN! Revenge is Mine saieth the Lord. Let it be His. I figure the narc has to face himself one day or another - the image will be more devastating to him than any revenge of mine ever could be. I just have to move forward. My destination didn't change because he put roadblocks in my path. Fortunately God gave me the intelligence to figure out how to get over, under, around or through them. Thank you, Andrew, for being a huge step beyond those roadblocks for me!
They need no help from us. Wash, rinse, repeat. They will eventually self destruct. But sadly, (and not surprisingly), it will always be someone else's fault. The best revenge is living and loving. Be happy they are shitting on someone else now☮️
the best revenge is no revenge… they don't deserve our energy… karma will serve them sooner or later… I feel sick at a thought of how a narcissistic person is experienced by other people around him… .in front of others he is an angel behind four walls he is a personified evil… thank you Andrew for another great video 🙏… love & light 💫😇🙏
They will get there on revenge.... h*** is Karma!!! So glad you are doing so good.... I will be there one day soon.... there is that beautiful smile again.... have a great afternoon and enjoy your time in the pool. And thank you so your powerful words..
Agreed, why seek revenge on a narcissist who is already miserable? Focus on yourself, and reaching your fullest potential, it's way more fun and rewarding, and is actually what hurts the narc more than anything. Wise words as always, Andrew, thank you!
That’s simply not enough. When Jesus an the angels casted the devil out of heaven they threw his horrible ass out of heaven they didn’t wait for him to leave…. Forces evil are not to be played with but are to be dealt with accordingly. That part
@@cheekslord1222 Christ's name is Yeshua, not Jesus, look it up. And one should stand up to evil, but pursuing revenge on a narcissist is a waste of time that may just ensnare you in further complications.
@@andre1987eph I don't need to acknowledge anything to a narcissist, just cut them off, because that's all they deserve. And people don't "owe" each other anything, but to manipulate and try to control others is not the will of God. Remember that, Andre.
You are 100% right! It’s sad in a way? The lies, lies have to be covered with more lies. Thank you so very much. You are right! I’m being blessed just by listening to your channel.🙏🏻
One way to teach is to show others they can trust you, cause you're the one who tells the truth. And I agree one should not seek revenge. Let the narcissist show who he is. Most people eventually will understand. Trust people.
I was curious what you were gna say and you said exactly what I was expecting you to say. Good job Andrew! These narcissists are already miserable people and let's not forget. "What you sow is what you reap, they will get theirs in due time".
There is no need to get your hands dirty with loser they are already so miserable because their life is about nothing they can't experience joy, happiness, peace, and love and that for itself is karma...there is nothing else to add.God bless everyone
My dad (my first narcissist) would tell me that I was stupid over and over again. My revenge is I studied. I graduated with honors in elementary, in high school, and in college. Proving a narcissist wrong is one of the best revenge and motivation.
You are one of the most incredibly articulate you tubers who captures the personal hell of being with a narcissist. You label their behaviors clearly. After 23 years with someone who was insidiously evil, It is beautiful that you encourage the high road. However the high road is an alternative to the low road of vengeance. I think of the relationship as a cult of 2. I have read and read, listened and listened, but no one talks about how your soul is sucked out little by little. You look back and none of it was real. You have good advice. Like you, I would like to inform young people of some concrete behaviors we have all experienced, Thanks for you channel.
before i pressed play i said "Take my power back! they can't stand that"... I'm 2 years 6 months sober i have the jekyll and hyde with the drink and it kept me stuck in the in the narcissist supply and i started to understand their insane thinking when (they beng the ex and his family.) thought that my sobriety was a very dangerous thing for everyone! alcoholism is insane! Empaths and alcohol is the worst if you have an addiction, the narc had fun once but now he dont, he didn't know me he never knew me i didn't know myself but i'm loving myself now and it is whole wide worlds apart from them now whole planets away from my ex and his lot, my cup is overflowing in a different kind of way and they are without my supply.
You are right…I really did love him…I brought love…he did not. As an empath, this has been one of the most difficult things for me, my husband is a narcissist
After having narcs in my life and learning What narcissism is, I can spot a narc a mile away. I have been surrounded by narcissism my whole life! It started with my mother and ex-husband and even some bosses. I thought it was a weak person ,but the reality was I was an empath and I couldn’t understand how people could be so evil for no reason. I will never let another narc in my life! I feel free!🙃
That’s right, the best revenge is to live a life beyond the narcissistic fog. Proves how insignificant the narcissist is. That’s the worst they can feel, insignificant.
You feel so much better by not trying to hurt anyone else...even the narcissist. Karma. The energy you intentionally put out there you will receive in return. Let the universe take care of the narcissist. Thank you, Andrew!
This is such a horrible mental illness, that each state in the USA, should make it mandatory to pass a law to incorporate Narcissism 101 in ALL public schools!!!!! Especially, seeing how it's mental abuse is so devastating. .to the human race.
There was a period of time where I was so angry I did try to take revenge on my ex narc. But it made it worse for me and I saw myself stooping to the low levels of him and his low grade supply. I looked at myself in the mirror and saw someone more in pain not satisfied. So, you are right, Andrew! The best revenge against them is to just ignore and give them no recognition while I better myself and my life. Although it’s hard not to think about all the damage that’s done to me by my ex narc, I make a great deal of effort every day to be thankful for the positive things in my life. 🙏
Thank you Andrew! 💜💜💜 Another important topic exposed! Yes. They already are as miserable as anyone could be. The one thing I am having trouble with right now, after 15 years of really, really, horrible abuse...all aspects inclusive...is not revenge, but getting over the pity I feel for him...that is what is hurting me right now...it never had to be this way..I will let this go, I am working through it. This too shall pass. But as far as revenge goes, there is Justice, Karma, and Truth. These are energies that are designed by the Creator to take care of Judgment. Once you let go energetically, i.e. forgive and forget about them, the Judgment trio can go to work. They are way better at it than we are...that is their job. We are here to LOVE. To learn discernment without judgment. To be the best Creators we can be! Carry on beautiful Empaths! Let your light shine!
@@tootienottoofruitie1726 Yes, this is true for those who have not done their shadow work. If one still attaches emotionally to others.... Emotional attachment is a FEAR issue.
My ex is hanging out with bunch of low elements. Drug addicts and alcoholic. He would never be comfortable in his owe skin. He IS not allowed to come to my house. A mad empath is not a pretty sight. My best revenge is going forward with my life and be happy. Yes, Andrew. I keep the focus on myself. Grateful I found your video. This is the time we know who our true friends are. Namaste 🙏
Andrew you are awesome for making everything I've been through make sense. It's devastating, and at the same time refreshing knowing it was not me, the whole entire time, he damn sure tried to make me think it was. God bless you!! ♥️
Thank you Andrew. I thought I could squeeze back in and try to hurt him, (this was a long time ago. ) I discovered I didn’t really care. I thought he was a joke and not worth my time or thoughts, ever again. I must say I was lucky, we run in different circles. I was careful to keep him away from my people and I didn’t like his and avoided them, out of mistrust for most people. Turns out I was right. I was still needing healing and Andrew helped me tremendously. I love your heart and thank my Lord for you often Andrew
I have lost myself to so many narcisists in my life and am not willing to do it any longer. The best way to start living your best life is to leave all of the narcisists behind and move on without any second thought about them. Healing for me means not forcing anything and doing only the things which feel authentic for you and bring you peace. Thank you Andrew❤
I considered getting revenge on my ex narcissist, I could make him lose his job, house, kids, basically everything. Then I thought to myself, I would be just like him. I decided he's a pathetic little b**** and he will mess up anything good that comes his way. Thank you for all the great videos!!!
That's actually the best revenge. They want you to react and want the drama. They see how they really don't matter that much when you have the gasoline to light them up and you don't.
The only revenge that actually is an injury to the narc: 1. Complete no contact. They no longer exist. 2. Pursue your dreams and enjoy life without them. Aka they no longer exist. 3. Revenge doesn't matter to you whatsoever bc youre not a narcissist. HG Tudor and Professor Sam Vaknin, 2 psychopath narcissists, teach these are the only ways to "win".
I am currently staying away from an insanity. But I'd be lying to you if I didn't tell you that it warms my heart to hear self-professed narcs like those admit that it causes the classic NARC INJURY. That being said, this time it's about ME instead of them for once!
The narcissist is punished with himself, and I don't feel the need to. He is a person who is not doing well. and it does no one any good. He doesn't have feelings, but he plays them to get love, which unfortunately he can't give. I need people who are real, can really love, who can put themselves in the shoes of others. I don't need the laughing fake fool, but someone who holds my hand even in bad situations in life. Thanks to you
This is so true . They just cannot take in the beauty around us. Even on holidays. They are constantly doing something.. never ever interacting with us like a normal functioning adult. They are like little kids in a grown up body.which they actually are .
Revenge to a narcissist is just another form of supply. It proves to them that they are still able to control your thoughts and that they are still in your head. So forget it. What narcissists hate most is indifference and being ignored. Their worst nightmare is not mattering to other people. So ignore them and move on. Don't let them occupy any space whatsoever in your mind. Confine them to history.
I appreciate these videos so much Andrew. Thank you for making them. I am still struggling with my divorce after three years. I was married 10 years to the narcissist, and three beautiful kids with her. I am sure she will answer to the most high one day. I am thankful I understand now people operate in this manner and will protect myself moving forward. God bless you, and keep up the good work. Namaste.
Thank u for this video, this explains the narcissist I was with. It was the first time in my life to experience such treatment. It's depressing and draining. Thank God I found ppl like u who explains this sickness properly.
I find my self again after a few months. When I was in that relationshit i lost myself en became someone i don’t want to be. I was controling his phone, i was upset all the time and very unhappy. I became an ugly person bc he did blameshifting all the time and make me crazy. So i defend myself! I was aware i lost myself and new i was a lovely, kind person before him. I am myself again and that is the best revenge.
When I say my prayers at night, I always ask God to bless my ex and open his heart so that he can know the happiness that a healthy, happy human being deserves. It pains me to pray for him after all the pain but I don’t want to wish bad things for him….by doing that, I’m no better than he is
Big hugs. Big hugs. I can’t ever thank you enough for this.You know there’s times when we need to take someone and turn them around facing forward because they don’t see which way they’re facing. Man I thank you so much. It’s like the cage is opened and someone leads us out. Wow. Yeah.
Out of all of the videos that I've searched for and found after just exiting out of a relationship with a narcissist, this is by far the the best and most insightful advice I've heard. I can tell you've been through what I've been through. Thank you! I'm so appreciative! 🙏
Andrew, you are so generous! And so right! Call it “karma”, the “Golden Rule” …I say, “Revenge is mine, says the Lord.” …. Forgiveness is what puts a great distance between you and anyone who has hurt you in any way. It’s in the Lord’s Prayer. I know it’s easier to forgive when you hear, “I’m sorry.” But for the sake of your own self do it. I have to re-do it. As best as I can, I keep forgiving…to help myself and to show respect the One Whose love is true. I believe God forgets our wrongs. We can do what is necessary on our part to be free. Maybe it’s ’cause we need to steer away from falling for another round of narc abuse that we do NOT forget! What do you think ? ❤ to all!
Agreed! I just want to heal and move on. The most beautiful gift (revenge, i guess) will be finally getting to be completely indifferent to him. It happens in tiny moments as i heal, cannot wait until it's more robustly in place... Indifference is freedom.
I love your videos. I love you. I love your humanity. I am writing you a longer message. It will take time. At 64 years, I finally discovered on the same day 8/28/22 that I am an Empath, and my ex wife/girlfriend/ex girlfriend is Narcissist. I am healing. I am not healed. I am learning. I have hooked up with some great people on Facebook. Remember my name. Soon I will write you. You won't be amazed. Thank you for your videos. How I would love to speak with you. Please keep teaching and sharing.
Sleep abuse. That's how I found out about narcissism. I was so fricking tired !! It didn't matter how much I begged him to let me sleep, he'd use different excuses night after night. I moved into the spare bedroom but he would SLAM the door open to wake me up, stand there all smiles and happy like a little kid on Christmas, among so many other things. Anyway, that's what got me researching about what tf his problem was with me sleeping. It turns out that I'd been dealing with this type my whole life and now they're all gone!
::deep breath:: I went from feeling all of the emotions of hurt and anger, to feeling a renewed sense of energy and a purified sense of joy to look ahead and begin chartering my best life…my own life… thank you for sharing yourself with all of us 🙏
Getting revenge on a narcissist isn’t worth it because they will never be happy. Or satisfied. That’s karma enough. You live your best life without them. Don’t be as soulless as them
Hi Andrew, I'm new to your channel and thank you for your messages. Your thoughts have certainly resonated. My "revenge" came while I was in the relationship and I had to unfortunately call the authorities and send him to jail. He missed some important family events while he was incarcerated and spent his 50th birthday in a cell. Being an empath, can you believe I actually felt guilty about that even though it was because he broke the law and he had also assaulted me and choked me to the point of me nearly dying. I'm moving forward with my life now as you say and thank you for your messages. They help me and I'm sure many others to validate the mess that many of us have gone through with these disordered individuals.
The best revenge is live your life the best you can, be happy , improve daily! Be grateful for being out of their control!! Be happy!!! You deserve the best !!! You deserve it all!!
Saying NO! to them is priceless. He tried to tell me this wasn't the really him after 5 yrs of abuse. I almost laughed out loud a truly sick person, no demon! I am a Scorpio we r the Phoenix! 🦂
Thank you for everything Andrew ❤️ I left precisely 1 year ago from a 1,5 year relationship and from then until today I watch your wonderful videos, I still need them and Dr. Ramani and Dr Les Carter (absolutely wonderful too) at 02:40 The first time I google what might be wrong, I wrote "why is a good person treated badly" that was 3 months into the relationship.
When I didn’t know what was going on with him he always told me I was so strong he had no idea how mentally strong I was. I would never take revenge I would rather walk away and never have someone like that in my life. I’ve read a lot what happens to them in the end. They grow old like we all do. I’ve now lost half of my late 30’s but they are alone becuz everyone leaves. Isn’t that ironic. After someone leaves someone like that they stay to themselves until they understand it all. And I’ve known about this for 14 months and I’m still learning. Learning is all about healing and getting more in tune with oneself. That’s the most important thing for you. Respect yourself now that you know exactly what this mental illness means and how to spot it 100% so it never happens again!!!!
I never understood "they saw your light and wanted it, to steal it," until today. My narc is my sister, and many times she repeats something i've said, as if they were her ideas/statements. Twice she even quoted me *to me,* instead of to someone else. I dont call her out on it because its *the least* of a narc's sneaky, decietful behaviors. So you're right, there must be something in an empath that they want/love instead of hate (i used to think they only hated us).
Revenge is moving on and proving the narcissist wrong
Completely correct ☀️💯
Facts
Walking away HAPPY
Narcissists create their own karma. Many aging narcissists end up alone at the end of their life. They have alienated SO many people in their lifetime… even their own children.
Completely correct.. the aging narcissist is not a pretty sight to see
That's so true my narcissist husband abandoned all 4 of his children two wife's ! I'm very hurt and so angry I want revenge I feel so stupid I didn't see it !I hope I heal 21 years of this I'll I did was give and give us took and took!
Some of.them end up skipping off into the sunset
We all end up alone. Your spouse dies, your children marry and move away and start their own families. Why do you think they call them widows.
My ex threatened “You will end up alone(after I clean you out)”
In the end she did not clean me out and she is all alone
I have a wonderful life.
Karma works every time
Revenge is a dish best served silent.
No contact is your revenge as well as being the best thing for us....it is your victory.
YES DC 🙌☀️💯
Silence!!
I will never understand why certain people are narcissists. I am an Empath. I just can’t fathom it. I can’t.
"Vengeance is Mine saith the Lord"
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The only revenge that I know to work effectively against the narcissists is to first discard them as in cutting ties or rejecting them before they get a chance of doing anything harmful to your life, then moving on to live your best life. That's the only revenge that truly works.
Moving forward everyday 💪🙌❤️
I did the same as you. I finally got strong enough to discard him first and it feels good.
I discarded him when he was at work and I feel so much happier now.
That’s exactly what I did
@@lorenamackey218 I did exactly what you guys did... Radio silence. They tried blowing up my other phone line and I didn't even listen to the messages. "Cut them off without a word" was the video that inspired me. Now did I plan on this? No. I just knew it was time instinctively
I don’t want revenge, I just want to heal . He’s dead to me , invisible, he no longer exists in my mind . I want to move forward alone . I’m not ready to be in another relationship with any one . I’m happy alone , my adult children and my grandchildren are my life xxx
This is beautiful Julie.. ☀️🙌
Bless up
No new relationship for me either. I think it will be awhile before I can trust any man again, sad to say.
@@kristinej.4182 they destroyed themselves in the end anyway karma bites hard xxx
Amen. 🙏
AMEN!
Revenge is Mine saieth the Lord.
Let it be His.
I figure the narc has to face himself one day or another - the image will be more devastating to him than any revenge of mine ever could be.
I just have to move forward. My destination didn't change because he put roadblocks in my path. Fortunately God gave me the intelligence to figure out how to get over, under, around or through them.
Thank you, Andrew, for being a huge step beyond those roadblocks for me!
Revenge is not something that leads to anything good. The only revenge is to let go and move on 🙏❤️🙏
Completely true 🙏🙌💯
Amen
Amen
They need no help from us. Wash, rinse, repeat. They will eventually self destruct. But sadly, (and not surprisingly), it will always be someone else's fault. The best revenge is living and loving. Be happy they are shitting on someone else now☮️
Absolutely true. We shouldn’t carry any bad baggage around that effects our future
the best revenge is no revenge… they don't deserve our energy… karma will serve them sooner or later… I feel sick at a thought of how a narcissistic person is experienced by other people around him… .in front of others he is an angel behind four walls he is a personified evil… thank you Andrew for another great video 🙏… love & light 💫😇🙏
Thank you Nives .. you are amazing ☀️🙌🙏
They will get there on revenge.... h*** is Karma!!! So glad you are doing so good.... I will be there one day soon.... there is that beautiful smile again.... have a great afternoon and enjoy your time in the pool. And thank you so your powerful words..
Agreed, why seek revenge on a narcissist who is already miserable? Focus on yourself, and reaching your fullest potential, it's way more fun and rewarding, and is actually what hurts the narc more than anything. Wise words as always, Andrew, thank you!
Thank you Kira 🙏🙌☀️
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That’s simply not enough. When Jesus an the angels casted the devil out of heaven they threw his horrible ass out of heaven they didn’t wait for him to leave…. Forces evil are not to be played with but are to be dealt with accordingly. That part
@@cheekslord1222 Christ's name is Yeshua, not Jesus, look it up. And one should stand up to evil, but pursuing revenge on a narcissist is a waste of time that may just ensnare you in further complications.
@@andre1987eph I don't need to acknowledge anything to a narcissist, just cut them off, because that's all they deserve. And people don't "owe" each other anything, but to manipulate and try to control others is not the will of God. Remember that, Andre.
Your best revenge is Just moving forward and living your best Life! Andrew; I must say ; You look very Handsome . Thank you for your words
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I wished them well and changed my number. Never looked back since.
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This Bully is a Narc!! As a matter of fact every Bully is a Narc!!
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You are 100% right! It’s sad in a way? The lies, lies have to be covered with more lies. Thank you so very much. You are right! I’m being blessed just by listening to your channel.🙏🏻
Thank you 🙏
Oh yes they lie or tell partial truths
Contradictions!
@@KoolT Omitting information is one of their favorite manipulation tactics.
Me too
One way to teach is to show others they can trust you, cause you're the one who tells the truth. And I agree one should not seek revenge. Let the narcissist show who he is. Most people eventually will understand. Trust people.
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I was curious what you were gna say and you said exactly what I was expecting you to say. Good job Andrew! These narcissists are already miserable people and let's not forget. "What you sow is what you reap, they will get theirs in due time".
Thank you Alice.. I appreciate your honesty and sharing this ..🙌☀️🙏
Amen
There is no need to get your hands dirty with loser they are already so miserable because their life is about nothing they can't experience joy, happiness, peace, and love and that for itself is karma...there is nothing else to add.God bless everyone
Amen 🙏 thank you Giuseppe 🙌
My dad (my first narcissist) would tell me that I was stupid over and over again. My revenge is I studied. I graduated with honors in elementary, in high school, and in college. Proving a narcissist wrong is one of the best revenge and motivation.
Revenge is not something I ever want. Forgiveness is all I can muster.😢
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I tell myself the best revenge on a narcissist is not being in their life. And them knowing that I know who they are.
Exactly 💯
Every video you make chips away a little darkness that has been left behind by the Narc. Thanks ❤️
Welcome 🙏
Revenge is removing them from our life for good
Yes 🙌
You are one of the most incredibly articulate you tubers who captures the personal hell of being with a narcissist. You label their behaviors clearly. After 23 years with someone who was insidiously evil, It is beautiful that you encourage the high road. However the high road is an alternative to the low road of vengeance. I think of the relationship as a cult of 2. I have read and read, listened and listened, but no one talks about how your soul is sucked out little by little. You look back and none of it was real. You have good advice. Like you, I would like to inform young people of some concrete behaviors we have all experienced, Thanks for you channel.
before i pressed play i said "Take my power back! they can't stand that"... I'm 2 years 6 months sober i have the jekyll and hyde with the drink and it kept me stuck in the in the narcissist supply and i started to understand their insane thinking when (they beng the ex and his family.) thought that my sobriety was a very dangerous thing for everyone! alcoholism is insane! Empaths and alcohol is the worst if you have an addiction, the narc had fun once but now he dont, he didn't know me he never knew me i didn't know myself but i'm loving myself now and it is whole wide worlds apart from them now whole planets away from my ex and his lot, my cup is overflowing in a different kind of way and they are without my supply.
Thank you for sharing 🙌🙏💪
You are right…I really did love him…I brought love…he did not. As an empath, this has been one of the most difficult things for me, my husband is a narcissist
I understand completely.. 🙏☀️🙌💯
After having narcs in my life and learning What narcissism is, I can spot a narc a mile away. I have been surrounded by narcissism my whole life! It started with my mother and ex-husband and even some bosses. I thought it was a weak person ,but the reality was I was an empath and I couldn’t understand how people could be so evil for no reason. I will never let another narc in my life! I feel free!🙃
Well said.. thank You Jill ☀️💯💯
They are their own karma...
Being a narcissist is a karma itself...
Thx for your videos 💖
Welcome 🙏 thank you 🙌☀️
I often feel that narcissist wants to turn us into the monster they are 🙏
So much to offer Father and Lord Jesus and Lord Holy Spirit!
Amen 🙏
That’s right, the best revenge is to live a life beyond the narcissistic fog. Proves how insignificant the narcissist is. That’s the worst they can feel, insignificant.
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You feel so much better by not trying to hurt anyone else...even the narcissist. Karma. The energy you intentionally put out there you will receive in return. Let the universe take care of the narcissist. Thank you, Andrew!
Thank you 🙏
Andrew you are spot on, thank you.
This is such a horrible mental illness, that each state in the USA, should make it mandatory to pass a law to incorporate Narcissism 101 in ALL public schools!!!!! Especially, seeing how it's mental abuse is so devastating. .to the human race.
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Again, I am sitting here, listening, smiling, thinking, "Andrew is right" - 🙂❤
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Thank you! ❤Annie
There was a period of time where I was so angry I did try to take revenge on my ex narc. But it made it worse for me and I saw myself stooping to the low levels of him and his low grade supply. I looked at myself in the mirror and saw someone more in pain not satisfied. So, you are right, Andrew! The best revenge against them is to just ignore and give them no recognition while I better myself and my life. Although it’s hard not to think about all the damage that’s done to me by my ex narc, I make a great deal of effort every day to be thankful for the positive things in my life. 🙏
Take the high road..always 🙏🙏🙏
@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone Will do. Thank you!
It feeeeeeeeeeeels so good to see them lonely,broke old and ugly
Thank you Andrew! 💜💜💜
Another important topic exposed!
Yes. They already are as miserable as anyone could be. The one thing I am having trouble with right now, after 15 years of really, really, horrible abuse...all aspects inclusive...is not revenge, but getting over the pity I feel for him...that is what is hurting me right now...it never had to be this way..I will let this go, I am working through it. This too shall pass.
But as far as revenge goes, there is Justice, Karma, and Truth. These are energies that are designed by the Creator to take care of Judgment. Once you let go energetically, i.e. forgive and forget about them, the Judgment trio can go to work. They are way better at it than we are...that is their job.
We are here to LOVE. To learn discernment without judgment. To be the best Creators we can be!
Carry on beautiful Empaths! Let your light shine!
Beautiful reply thank you Linda☀️🙏🙌
IMO... feelings of any sort twords the narc is a trap
@@tootienottoofruitie1726 Yes, this is true for those who have not done their shadow work. If one still attaches emotionally to others.... Emotional attachment is a FEAR issue.
You're right!! They don't deserve our revenge. We've wasted enough of our time and energy ...... 🌬
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The narcissist creates their own exposure. The truth always comes out.
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My ex is hanging out with bunch of low elements. Drug addicts and alcoholic. He would never be comfortable in his owe skin. He IS not allowed to come to my house. A mad empath is not a pretty sight. My best revenge is going forward with my life and be happy. Yes, Andrew. I keep the focus on myself. Grateful I found your video. This is the time we know who our true friends are. Namaste 🙏
Andrew you are awesome for making everything I've been through make sense. It's devastating, and at the same time refreshing knowing it was not me, the whole entire time, he damn sure tried to make me think it was. God bless you!! ♥️
Hi Angela.. it was not you.. 🙏🙌☀️
Actually, is doing for a while. Hope every survivor is doing too. Blessed.
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Thank you Andrew. I thought I could squeeze back in and try to hurt him, (this was a long time ago. ) I discovered I didn’t really care. I thought he was a joke and not worth my time or thoughts, ever again.
I must say I was lucky, we run in different circles. I was careful to keep him away from my people and I didn’t like his and avoided them, out of mistrust for most people. Turns out I was right. I was still needing healing and Andrew helped me tremendously.
I love your heart and thank my Lord for you often Andrew
I have lost myself to so many narcisists in my life and am not willing to do it any longer. The best way to start living your best life is to leave all of the narcisists behind and move on without any second thought about them. Healing for me means not forcing anything and doing only the things which feel authentic for you and bring you peace. Thank you Andrew❤
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I considered getting revenge on my ex narcissist, I could make him lose his job, house, kids, basically everything. Then I thought to myself, I would be just like him. I decided he's a pathetic little b**** and he will mess up anything good that comes his way.
Thank you for all the great videos!!!
Beautiful insight.. thank you for sharing this.. 🙏🙌☀️
It feels soooooooo good to see them struggling lonely and miserable i feel sooooo good
That's actually the best revenge. They want you to react and want the drama. They see how they really don't matter that much when you have the gasoline to light them up and you don't.
The only revenge that actually is an injury to the narc:
1. Complete no contact. They no longer exist.
2. Pursue your dreams and enjoy life without them. Aka they no longer exist.
3. Revenge doesn't matter to you whatsoever bc youre not a narcissist.
HG Tudor and Professor Sam Vaknin, 2 psychopath narcissists, teach these are the only ways to "win".
I am currently staying away from an insanity. But I'd be lying to you if I didn't tell you that it warms my heart to hear self-professed narcs like those admit that it causes the classic NARC INJURY. That being said, this time it's about ME instead of them for once!
He made me question myself to think im the Narc x
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The narcissist is punished with himself, and I don't feel the need to. He is a person who is not doing well. and it does no one any good. He doesn't have feelings, but he plays them to get love, which unfortunately he can't give. I need people who are real, can really love, who can put themselves in the shoes of others. I don't need the laughing fake fool, but someone who holds my hand even in bad situations in life. Thanks to you
Welcome Sabine 🙌🙏☀️
I love your videos. They have given me so much hope! God bless you always. 🙏 💖🙌
This is so true . They just cannot take in the beauty around us. Even on holidays. They are constantly doing something.. never ever interacting with us like a normal functioning adult. They are like little kids in a grown up body.which they actually are .
Completely correct 💯💯
The best revenge is losing you & knowing they can never have you back.✌🏻
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Revenge to a narcissist is just another form of supply. It proves to them that they are still able to control your thoughts and that they are still in your head. So forget it.
What narcissists hate most is indifference and being ignored. Their worst nightmare is not mattering to other people. So ignore them and move on. Don't let them occupy any space whatsoever in your mind. Confine them to history.
Excellent insight thank you 🙏
I appreciate these videos so much Andrew. Thank you for making them. I am still struggling with my divorce after three years. I was married 10 years to the narcissist, and three beautiful kids with her. I am sure she will answer to the most high one day. I am thankful I understand now people operate in this manner and will protect myself moving forward. God bless you, and keep up the good work. Namaste.
Thank you London.. I appreciate your kindness and support.. stay strong 💯🙌☀️
The Dr Jekyl Mr Hyde analogy is extremely accurate.
Thank u for this video, this explains the narcissist I was with. It was the first time in my life to experience such treatment. It's depressing and draining. Thank God I found ppl like u who explains this sickness properly.
Will do. Blessed.
I find my self again after a few months. When I was in that relationshit i lost myself en became someone i don’t want to be. I was controling his phone, i was upset all the time and very unhappy. I became an ugly person bc he did blameshifting all the time and make me crazy. So i defend myself! I was aware i lost myself and new i was a lovely, kind person before him. I am myself again and that is the best revenge.
K M.. that is the best revenge ☀️🙌🙏
When I say my prayers at night, I always ask God to bless my ex and open his heart so that he can know the happiness that a healthy, happy human being deserves. It pains me to pray for him after all the pain but I don’t want to wish bad things for him….by doing that, I’m no better than he is
Not doing anything vengeful towards the Narcissists. The Lord Jesus Christ & Karma will eventually get them back for their atrocious behavior. And and u eloquently stated: they usually do it to themselves in the end. SI & Protective Orders will help keep me & my lil family's safety intact.🙏🏼💯💯 We all go through anger stages on the healing path. I'm no exception. As for being like them & acting the way THEY act? No. Excellent vid Andrew, looking gorgeous as always in neon green! 💚💚💚 ©️
May the Lord bless you and keep you and give you peace.
Thank you Ronni 🙏☀️💯
Living my best life and being the best supply they lost is their karma
Completely true 🙏🙌💯
So happy to find your channel!!! This video is on point!!!!!! Wooooow
Welcome SWEETMA4LIFE.. I appreciate your kindness and being here ☀️🙌🙏
Big hugs. Big hugs. I can’t ever thank you enough for this.You know there’s times when we need to take someone and turn them around facing forward because they don’t see which way they’re facing. Man I thank you so much. It’s like the cage is opened and someone leads us out. Wow. Yeah.
I am grateful to be able to share my experiences and insight with you always 🙌🙏☀️💯❤️
Out of all of the videos that I've searched for and found after just exiting out of a relationship with a narcissist, this is by far the the best and most insightful advice I've heard. I can tell you've been through what I've been through. Thank you! I'm so appreciative! 🙏
Thank you Corina.. I appreciate your kindness and am grateful to be able to share my experiences and insight with you 💪🙏☀️
We have to “Let Go And Let God” …That is the best way.
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You reap what you sow, 5,10,15 years from now god does not forget. They will get their karma! Hang tight and find peace and comfort in knowing that
Thank you for sharing this ☀️
What if u discard them first?
Andrew, you are so generous! And so right! Call it “karma”, the “Golden Rule” …I say, “Revenge is mine, says the Lord.” …. Forgiveness is what puts a great distance between you and anyone who has hurt you in any way. It’s in the Lord’s Prayer. I know it’s easier to forgive when you hear, “I’m sorry.” But for the sake of your own self do it. I have to re-do it. As best as I can, I keep forgiving…to help myself and to show respect the One Whose love is true. I believe God forgets our wrongs. We can do what is necessary on our part to be free. Maybe it’s ’cause we need to steer away from falling for another round of narc abuse that we do NOT forget! What do you think ? ❤ to all!
Revenge is not the answer. Moving on and working on yourself is the best thing you can ever do ❤❤❤
I want peace. They’ve caused enough drama. I refuse to take on their shame.
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Thank you so much brother. Your advice are precious and priceless.
Agreed! I just want to heal and move on. The most beautiful gift (revenge, i guess) will be finally getting to be completely indifferent to him. It happens in tiny moments as i heal, cannot wait until it's more robustly in place... Indifference is freedom.
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BE STRONG ENOUGH TO BE KIND
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It seemed like every holiday that came around she’d start a fight. That’s crazy ugh
I love your videos. I love you. I love your humanity. I am writing you a longer message. It will take time. At 64 years, I finally discovered on the same day 8/28/22 that I am an Empath, and my ex wife/girlfriend/ex girlfriend is Narcissist. I am healing. I am not healed. I am learning. I have hooked up with some great people on Facebook.
Remember my name. Soon I will write you. You won't be amazed. Thank you for your videos. How I would love to speak with you. Please keep teaching and sharing.
Sleep abuse.
That's how I found out about narcissism. I was so fricking tired !!
It didn't matter how much I begged him to let me sleep, he'd use different excuses night after night. I moved into the spare bedroom but he would SLAM the door open to wake me up, stand there all smiles and happy like a little kid on Christmas, among so many other things.
Anyway, that's what got me researching about what tf his problem was with me sleeping.
It turns out that I'd been dealing with this type my whole life and now they're all gone!
Thank you Beverly for this.. Time to rest up ..🙌
Oh, I totally understand this! Being so whatever l exhausted and never getting the very little sleep and still being demanded of more and more.
I do not wish revenge…..i just want to be free, to heal, to love, to not have nightmares. My goal today is just to keep breathing, God willing….
If we try to get revenge then we are just as bad as they are. Our revenge is walking away standing tall and moving on
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I didn’t try to get revenge on the narcissists or the flying monkeys but karma is taking them down one by one! It took awhile but it’s happening.
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Exactly bless up
God Bless you 🙏🏼😎
Thank you Andrew.... :)
Last minute of your video "Andrew is right - Focus on me and not on the narcissist..." education is key 👩🎓
::deep breath:: I went from feeling all of the emotions of hurt and anger, to feeling a renewed sense of energy and a purified sense of joy to look ahead and begin chartering my best life…my own life… thank you for sharing yourself with all of us 🙏
Welcome 🙏🙌
Getting revenge on a narcissist isn’t worth it because they will never be happy. Or satisfied. That’s karma enough. You live your best life without them. Don’t be as soulless as them
I was sad, didn't get chance to be mean, but I think that's better, they will have no reason to mention me
🎉💯Andrew… when your out of the relationship, you realized they contributed nothing but BS out of their mouth.
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I understand and it’s OK with me.
Totally agree.. but he's stuck in my head at times
Continue on the path 🙌💯🙏
Hi Andrew, I'm new to your channel and thank you for your messages. Your thoughts have certainly resonated. My "revenge" came while I was in the relationship and I had to unfortunately call the authorities and send him to jail. He missed some important family events while he was incarcerated and spent his 50th birthday in a cell. Being an empath, can you believe I actually felt guilty about that even though it was because he broke the law and he had also assaulted me and choked me to the point of me nearly dying. I'm moving forward with my life now as you say and thank you for your messages. They help me and I'm sure many others to validate the mess that many of us have gone through with these disordered individuals.
Thank you K Max.. I appreciate your kindness and sharing this..🙌☀️
Thanks Andrew 🙏 This video is the one I needed to watch today 👊
The best revenge is live your life the best you can, be happy , improve daily! Be grateful for being out of their control!! Be happy!!! You deserve the best !!! You deserve it all!!
Yes we do 🙏🙌
Best revenge is creating an educational channel like this
So true
Saying NO! to them is priceless. He tried to tell me this wasn't the really him after 5 yrs of abuse. I almost laughed out loud a truly sick person, no demon! I am a Scorpio we r the Phoenix! 🦂
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Thank you for everything Andrew ❤️ I left precisely 1 year ago from a 1,5 year relationship and from then until today I watch your wonderful videos, I still need them and Dr. Ramani and Dr Les Carter (absolutely wonderful too) at 02:40 The first time I google what might be wrong, I wrote "why is a good person treated badly" that was 3 months into the relationship.
When I didn’t know what was going on with him he always told me I was so strong he had no idea how mentally strong I was. I would never take revenge I would rather walk away and never have someone like that in my life. I’ve read a lot what happens to them in the end. They grow old like we all do. I’ve now lost half of my late 30’s but they are alone becuz everyone leaves. Isn’t that ironic. After someone leaves someone like that they stay to themselves until they understand it all. And I’ve known about this for 14 months and I’m still learning. Learning is all about healing and getting more in tune with oneself. That’s the most important thing for you. Respect yourself now that you know exactly what this mental illness means and how to spot it 100% so it never happens again!!!!
Exactly.. beautiful insight.. thank you Emma..💯💪🙌🙏💪
Andy , Thank you 😊 We so need light shinning on this issue more now than ever! You're a blessing.
Thank you .. I appreciate your kindness Dianna 💯☀️
Oh my word... I am so here right now!
Process everything Samantha.. embrace your emotions.. and let them go
yes no more eggshells
My anxiety and sleep behaviors are getting better without him
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Yes. Omission is what grieved me the most all that and the secrecy
I never understood "they saw your light and wanted it, to steal it," until today. My narc is my sister, and many times she repeats something i've said, as if they were her ideas/statements. Twice she even quoted me *to me,* instead of to someone else. I dont call her out on it because its *the least* of a narc's sneaky, decietful behaviors. So you're right, there must be something in an empath that they want/love instead of hate (i used to think they only hated us).
Great insight.. i thank you for sharing this.. 🙌☀️
@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone Thank YOU for your channel/videos.