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I just just walk away and take care of myself and move on. Self love is the best medicine you can't force love it has to be two ways. If he wishes to leave, let go.❤
Thank you Brody such great godly wisdom! Yes, I have forgiven him and God has forgiven me and now I feel content with where God has me.😊 My Ex and I are now friends and we are respectful of each other. I have learned to go to God first and He keeps me calm and I go straight to his Spoken word and I have great support as well. I've been smiling a lot more by doing some new activities for fun!😁
For those who don't have an hour to spare I can summarise in one sentence: "Treat 'em mean, treat 'em keen". All my female friends treat their partners like sh*t - but they're still together 30+ years (and counting) whereas I have been loving, kind, empathetic, don't try to control a man and guess what - every man has abandoned me! So what my friends are doing IS WHAT WORKS, ladies - trust me on that. Live YOUR life, do what YOU want, don't be available to him - make him work for your attention, that way he will value you.
They key is the balance. High value masculine men don't want a doormat but they don't want a b*tch either. What they want is a Queen who is feminine and kind but also knows her worth and is willing to walk away it isn't being honored.
I refuse to treat anyone like sh*t. If my man cheats and leaves, so be it. I don't care anymore. I'm so tired of catering to people until I break. And I'm not going to date again if this one leaves. I'm done. I'll focus on my kids and die alone.
Same. I have a healthy self-concept but I will still be kind and supportive to my partner, that’s called maturity. Not sure why that doesn’t work 🤷🏻♀️. Bottom line… men are weird and it’s all a stupid game.
33:44 Brother, thanks a lot for this. As a lone wolf I really need a human -specially awakened men- to share this stuff with me. For 5 years I never thought it would happen, this is a new world to me now & it’s scary af but for real, what if this is really a soulmate..? The only thing that brought me to this person was God. I shake, I’m scared because idk where this will lead to & my last relationship with my Twinflame destroyed my heart to the point of Death. After 5 years of celibacy and non-stop inner work, Sacred divine partnership is the only thing I strive for & know I deserve. It’s so comfortable to hear you re-assuring this to me right now. I moved country and haven’t shared much with my closest brothers in the world; honored to watch your channel. Softening, clarifying. Divine confirmation and I’m truly grateful. “Put yourself there one more time”. Let’s gooo ❤
I guess I am doing the right thing, because we have a amazing relationship, he is a amazing man, and we just have a good friendship and and a loving relationship, he is a pastor and I am a pastor well, he is the best man I have ever met in my life, I am soooooooo blessed! I am a white woman and he is black, and this is the best relationship I have ever had, BLESSED!
My question- How do I attract better quality men? I needed this tonight. Im so tired of disappointment. Tired of people who think nothing of hurting me or letting me down. I just don’t understand, I know I’m a high value woman… they know im a high value. They certainly know they’re replaceable- that there’s plenty of (possibly better) men who would want a shot with me. But as soon as I give them any love or affection, show them any of my feminine vulnerability, it seems they think they “got me” and they can be as shitty or flaky as they want, and I’ll still be there -kind and loving, like nothing happened. I’m done being nice. I’d rather not have these low value guys come crawling back. So I don’t want to keep attracting them … but can’t seem to find any men on my level.
I'm in a long distance relationship and he pulled back his affection for two weeks after telling me he loved me. I went his speed. After giving him some affection the other day and it not even being commented on, I've decided that I'm going to pull back, not be around as much, and give myself my love instead of him. It hurts a lot, but I am NOT going to chase him this time around. I'll turn my pain into anger and use that energy for my creativity. Maybe he doesn't deserve me after all.
Thank you, hopefully you'll read this comment: I very much appreciate your videos with tips to women. I just wanted to say: Men too really need help and guidance from good healed masculine men. There is a lot of trashy toxic and/or confusing guidance for men out there by wounded and/or confused masculine men, really detrimental actually. Please consider also providing support to men here on RUclips and online. Men need to come together with healthy masculine men. Thanks again for your work and support.
I married a boy who had to be in his feminine because his mother is very controlling and enmeshes herself into her sons’ lives. I therefore found myself taking care of a boy who couldn’t reciprocate and only cared about himself. After 5 years of not being valued, I packed up the kids and left. This forced my husband to start making changes or else he’s returning to his mother, and I’m getting a refund for a figuratively broken toy.
Like so many women you married a 'man-child' - a man so emotionally damaged by his parent(s) that it's left him with mommy or daddy issues where he's constantly trying to please them no matter how old he gets. Sadly you will never be the No.1 woman in his life. Get out, make a life for yourself and the children, keep him at a distance (but friendly for your children's sake) and one day (probably when his parents are deceased) he will deal with his sh*t.
Best reading on relations men and women is Men are from Mars and Women from Venus by John Gray teaches the BIOLOGY and Hormones that make us men women energys how to comunicate with each other he is probably one of the first to teach about Femanine energy and Masculan
Very good info. Can't believe I am eveb watching this stuff at 43 years old, but the last time i was single i was 22. It's a bit different this time around lol. I just stay in my lane and work on myself ❤
I’m receiving mixed signals from him, He said he is not 100% into me and He doesn’t said I love you. But He said that he will be devastated without me, he plans a future for us, he worries about my health, he put me as the beneficiary off all his financial affairs, and he said that he deeply cares about me. However when I said I love you he looks to me and said “I’m getting there” or just he stayed quiet. When I’m with him he is very affectionate, but when we are apart he is very dry and I feel him distant. I feel that I’m the one carrying up the relationship and attending to his needs and he is not totally devoted to me. I don’t know how to interpret his words or behaviors and I don’t know for how long I can continue this relationship. Should I end the relationship or continue trying to gain his love and devotion?
No he doesn’t provide for me financially at all. But he put me a beneficiary that way if something happens to him I will inherit all his savings and money. I don’t want that ! I don’t consider that a demonstration of love. I want him to be able to tell me that he loves me
I am having a difficult time of breakup without face to face conversation. I feel I deserve that the least. I’m letting him go but I need this. Why am I acting this way?
I feel the same. But what this video is saying is that this anxious energy is being picked up by him. So we need to find a feminine group so that the anxious energy can be released in that group.
If u r getting more goodlooking, how r u doing that?... ..with what method r u using ...to become more goodlooking?..hair colour eyebrows, teeth,..hair...?ehat...?
The heck it’s just no that I’ve been realizing what my current boyfriend who’s very emotionally stable is saying. He’s been calling me Queen a lot and I’m like….huh? lol I’ve been applying all these things unknowingly.
What do you do when you forgave even poured your heart out to try express feeling thoughts, but he still don't talk to me much anymore, it's going on 8mths, he tells me he loves me and want us to be together.
You are investing in looking good though!! It costs a lot for woman to look their best which i dont think men realise or appreciate. Good quality makeup, clothes, lingerie, habdbags, shoes- this stuff is all expensive and an investment!
Well, how do you let go of someone that you met online and now owes you money. He had said that he's gonna pay you if you help him get a package that has the money to pay you back. But there is no way to get the package from the transit company that keeps asking for money in order to deliver the package.
I need help please can anyone help me. My narcissistic husband left me after 27yrs he has left the city we lived in, left me all alone to struggle, he also left me homeless ( im still trying to find somewhere to live ). I was a good Godly wife i am a born again christian, im still so in love with my husband and miss him so very much. I dont have any friends or family my husband isolated me from them all.. i have suicidal thoughts as i just dont know what to do.. 😢😢😢
Is there is a place for homeless people where you can sleep at night & a place where you can get food ? Also a social department or a family doctor you had go ASAP ask for antidepressants. Whatever you know or you feel you are more desperate for , start there . The place that give food or a place to sleep tell them you are depressed & you have suicidal thoughts beg them for there help if there is no other choice left . Good luck beloved .
Im so sorry. I can only say I am praying for you. I don’t think you want him back though… living with a narcissist is living hell. I will pray for God to protect you, may He also help you find the stability and love you need and deserve.
Ur not in love with him..u are trauma bonded. U got great advice, go to some women shelter in ur area.maybe u can talk to some social worker? Pls stay away from him..blessings 💫@@Karenmccaff
To the ladies here, someone achieve something with this detachment style? It's seems: sit that, do nothing and pray someone come to you. Very weird thing
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I put all my focus on myself, ask myself what do I need and want. And how can I give myself that. So far by doing that, he keeps pursuing ❤
That's admirable but you can't do that if you live together, can you?
I just just walk away and take care of myself and move on. Self love is the best medicine you can't force love it has to be two ways. If he wishes to leave, let go.❤
Right, buh bya ! Don't let the door hit ya in the arse😂
@Inyourdreamzalways43 you sound like a bitter person sad for you. Bitterness eats at your heart.
@@Lillyofthevalley59 no bitterness here ..dont feel sad for me 😀if they wanna go let em Gooooooo I don't try to keep anyone who doesn't want to stay .
@Inyourdreamzalways43 if this karmic you deserve it if this DM the message was for karmic not you.
@@Lillyofthevalley59 guess it's for a karmic
Thank you Brody such great godly wisdom! Yes, I have forgiven him and God has forgiven me and now I feel content with where God has me.😊
My Ex and I are now friends and we are respectful of each other. I have learned to go to God first and He keeps me calm and I go straight to his Spoken word and I have great support as well. I've been smiling a lot more by doing some new activities for fun!😁
For those who don't have an hour to spare I can summarise in one sentence: "Treat 'em mean, treat 'em keen". All my female friends treat their partners like sh*t - but they're still together 30+ years (and counting) whereas I have been loving, kind, empathetic, don't try to control a man and guess what - every man has abandoned me! So what my friends are doing IS WHAT WORKS, ladies - trust me on that. Live YOUR life, do what YOU want, don't be available to him - make him work for your attention, that way he will value you.
They key is the balance. High value masculine men don't want a doormat but they don't want a b*tch either. What they want is a Queen who is feminine and kind but also knows her worth and is willing to walk away it isn't being honored.
I refuse to treat anyone like sh*t. If my man cheats and leaves, so be it. I don't care anymore. I'm so tired of catering to people until I break. And I'm not going to date again if this one leaves. I'm done. I'll focus on my kids and die alone.
Same here!! It's the most odd of behavior.
So many of my friends treat their husband's like 💩 have it all... 😮
@@vicksta8875I know all my friends treat their partners like crap and have it all..... greetings from San Francisco....🍩☕🌁🌺
Same. I have a healthy self-concept but I will still be kind and supportive to my partner, that’s called maturity. Not sure why that doesn’t work 🤷🏻♀️. Bottom line… men are weird and it’s all a stupid game.
Powerful about forgiveness & surrender 🙏. I love when you share Biblical principles. It makes you stand out from other relationship coaching. ☺️
33:44 Brother, thanks a lot for this. As a lone wolf I really need a human -specially awakened men- to share this stuff with me. For 5 years I never thought it would happen, this is a new world to me now & it’s scary af but for real, what if this is really a soulmate..? The only thing that brought me to this person was God. I shake, I’m scared because idk where this will lead to & my last relationship with my Twinflame destroyed my heart to the point of Death.
After 5 years of celibacy and non-stop inner work, Sacred divine partnership is the only thing I strive for & know I deserve. It’s so comfortable to hear you re-assuring this to me right now. I moved country and haven’t shared much with my closest brothers in the world; honored to watch your channel. Softening, clarifying. Divine confirmation and I’m truly grateful. “Put yourself there one more time”. Let’s gooo ❤
PS: I’m a Latina, I volunteer for Spanish translation 🙌 💣 (de verdad).
I guess I am doing the right thing, because we have a amazing relationship, he is a amazing man, and we just have a good friendship and and a loving relationship, he is a pastor and I am a pastor well, he is the best man I have ever met in my life, I am soooooooo blessed! I am a white woman and he is black, and this is the best relationship I have ever had, BLESSED!
My question- How do I attract better quality men? I needed this tonight. Im so tired of disappointment. Tired of people who think nothing of hurting me or letting me down. I just don’t understand, I know I’m a high value woman… they know im a high value. They certainly know they’re replaceable- that there’s plenty of (possibly better) men who would want a shot with me. But as soon as I give them any love or affection, show them any of my feminine vulnerability, it seems they think they “got me” and they can be as shitty or flaky as they want, and I’ll still be there -kind and loving, like nothing happened. I’m done being nice. I’d rather not have these low value guys come crawling back. So I don’t want to keep attracting them … but can’t seem to find any men on my level.
I'm in a long distance relationship and he pulled back his affection for two weeks after telling me he loved me. I went his speed. After giving him some affection the other day and it not even being commented on, I've decided that I'm going to pull back, not be around as much, and give myself my love instead of him. It hurts a lot, but I am NOT going to chase him this time around. I'll turn my pain into anger and use that energy for my creativity. Maybe he doesn't deserve me after all.
Thank you, hopefully you'll read this comment: I very much appreciate your videos with tips to women.
I just wanted to say: Men too really need help and guidance from good healed masculine men. There is a lot of trashy toxic and/or confusing guidance for men out there by wounded and/or confused masculine men, really detrimental actually. Please consider also providing support to men here on RUclips and online. Men need to come together with healthy masculine men. Thanks again for your work and support.
Self love is required!
I married a boy who had to be in his feminine because his mother is very controlling and enmeshes herself into her sons’ lives. I therefore found myself taking care of a boy who couldn’t reciprocate and only cared about himself. After 5 years of not being valued, I packed up the kids and left. This forced my husband to start making changes or else he’s returning to his mother, and I’m getting a refund for a figuratively broken toy.
How did you not know any of that about him (or his mom) until after you married him and had kids with him??🤔🤔
Like so many women you married a 'man-child' - a man so emotionally damaged by his parent(s) that it's left him with mommy or daddy issues where he's constantly trying to please them no matter how old he gets. Sadly you will never be the No.1 woman in his life. Get out, make a life for yourself and the children, keep him at a distance (but friendly for your children's sake) and one day (probably when his parents are deceased) he will deal with his sh*t.
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I surrender to God almighty , the one and only creator 🙏🏼🕊️ Serenity now 😉 cheers George Constanza from Seinfeld
Forgiveness does NOT resolve the problem
You can forgive and tell him to kick rocks/best of luck if the behavior doesn't change
Queen = high value
This is so important, and as simple as listening and being honest. The ability to distill a situation to its simplest form.
I work on myself when this happens .
I really enjoy your videos. Thank you so much
You're very welcome!
Best reading on relations men and women is Men are from Mars and Women from Venus by John Gray teaches the BIOLOGY and Hormones that make us men women energys how to comunicate with each other he is probably one of the first to teach about Femanine energy and Masculan
I believe in a man to love value and honor me As a woman ❤😂🎉😢😮
Does it work in long distance relationship?❤
Letting go of the attachment ....
So if two people dont see eye to eye 👀 set your sights elsewhere
This is lovely and helpful - I love the trust in god piece of it.
Very good info. Can't believe I am eveb watching this stuff at 43 years old, but the last time i was single i was 22. It's a bit different this time around lol. I just stay in my lane and work on myself ❤
Glad you enjoyed it!
This actually was really good! My favorite was scream in a pillow & serenity prayer, great advice. 😂🙌
Great and glad it was helpful! :)
Wow a fantastically helpful video 🙏
God bless you for your advise and for inclufing God. He guides us…
So good and beautiful advices🎉
Thanks Brodie.. I will try that..
I think a lot of this difference could be mitigated if two people come in who are emotionally aware and mature
I’m receiving mixed signals from him, He said he is not 100% into me and He doesn’t said I love you. But He said that he will be devastated without me, he plans a future for us, he worries about my health, he put me as the beneficiary off all his financial affairs, and he said that he deeply cares about me. However when I said I love you he looks to me and said “I’m getting there” or just he stayed quiet. When I’m with him he is very affectionate, but when we are apart he is very dry and I feel him distant. I feel that I’m the one carrying up the relationship and attending to his needs and he is not totally devoted to me. I don’t know how to interpret his words or behaviors and I don’t know for how long I can continue this relationship. Should I end the relationship or continue trying to gain his love and devotion?
Is his providing for you financially his male way of expressing his love?
No he doesn’t provide for me financially at all. But he put me a beneficiary that way if something happens to him I will inherit all his savings and money. I don’t want that ! I don’t consider that a demonstration of love. I want him to be able to tell me that he loves me
I understand Even if he thinks so and it's not your way of saying love, it won't feel good.
He is not that In to you. Use your energy on yourself. Do not chase him.
Fasting and prayer, dear. Ask God if this man is for you.
Great video, I like it a lot 😊 "So bye bye, marker"😄
Love this. Thank you
I am having a difficult time of breakup without face to face conversation. I feel I deserve that the least. I’m letting him go but I need this. Why am I acting this way?
I feel the same. But what this video is saying is that this anxious energy is being picked up by him. So we need to find a feminine group so that the anxious energy can be released in that group.
You don't need a conversation from him, if he can't do that he is low quality so stop digging a hole and let it be.
If u r getting more goodlooking, how r u doing that?... ..with what method r u using ...to become more goodlooking?..hair colour eyebrows, teeth,..hair...?ehat...?
Just self care I guess, nothing particular ;)
What do you talk about on a first date, 68 years old
I do enjoy this!
Thanks!
You're welcome and thank YOU, glad you're enjoying the videos!
So powerful, I thank you. Namaste🙏🏻
You are so welcome!
The heck it’s just no that I’ve been realizing what my current boyfriend who’s very emotionally stable is saying. He’s been calling me Queen a lot and I’m like….huh? lol
I’ve been applying all these things unknowingly.
Thank you, thank you, thank you!!!!!!!!
Welcome and glad you enjoyed it!
What do you do when you forgave even poured your heart out to try express feeling thoughts, but he still don't talk to me much anymore, it's going on 8mths, he tells me he loves me and want us to be together.
I really appreciate this…
Welcome!
I prefer to workout miles cycling... What happens when it's a long distance relationship?
When I find out he is married and I am love with him
Something’s been telling me I should scream into a pillow lately so this really resonated! 🙂🙃
Thank you🥰🥰
Welcome! :)
You are investing in looking good though!! It costs a lot for woman to look their best which i dont think men realise or appreciate. Good quality makeup, clothes, lingerie, habdbags, shoes- this stuff is all expensive and an investment!
Wish this worked for me, but must not have been doing it right all along😂😏
Well, how do you let go of someone that you met online and now owes you money. He had said that he's gonna pay you if you help him get a package that has the money to pay you back. But there is no way to get the package from the transit company that keeps asking for money in order to deliver the package.
Sorry but sounds like a scam. Never give someone money.
It’s harder when you are hooked on someone but I guess let go and let god ❤everyone is not for you period
Title should be different? I’m still waiting for the message per the title….🧐
I need help please can anyone help me. My narcissistic husband left me after 27yrs he has left the city we lived in, left me all alone to struggle, he also left me homeless ( im still trying to find somewhere to live ). I was a good Godly wife i am a born again christian, im still so in love with my husband and miss him so very much. I dont have any friends or family my husband isolated me from them all.. i have suicidal thoughts as i just dont know what to do.. 😢😢😢
Are you from the USA ?
Is there is a place for homeless people where you can sleep at night & a place where you can get food ? Also a social department or a family doctor you had go ASAP ask for antidepressants. Whatever you know or you feel you are more desperate for , start there . The place that give food or a place to sleep tell them you are depressed & you have suicidal thoughts beg them for there help if there is no other choice left .
Good luck beloved .
Im so sorry. I can only say I am praying for you. I don’t think you want him back though… living with a narcissist is living hell. I will pray for God to protect you, may He also help you find the stability and love you need and deserve.
@@mits619 Thank you. Im so broken & lonely 😭
Ur not in love with him..u are trauma bonded. U got great advice, go to some women shelter in ur area.maybe u can talk to some social worker? Pls stay away from him..blessings 💫@@Karenmccaff
30:34
He keeps going hot and cold on me 🙄 it’s been six months, we work together and he hasn’t stepped up. So frustrating 😣
My last relationship only lasted because I would forgive him. Can you forgive a narco enough?
R u using a handsome filter or r there any face meldings going on in the vid, urs with anothers? Or did u just become more good looking?
To the ladies here, someone achieve something with this detachment style? It's seems: sit that, do nothing and pray someone come to you. Very weird thing
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Normally, I like your videos, but this one fell flat
Could you elaborate a bit more? Would love to hear what the difference was for you
And if you don’t believe in God ? lol 😂😂😂😂😂
Thanks!