I agree. I would like to add, that many women also remain unmarried for following reasons: 1. The men are lazy bums and do not go out and earn. Most young men now-a-days sit at home watching video games and doing nonsense. No sense of husband-hood and fatherhood. So father cannot marry his daughter to such imbeciles who cannot even stand on his own two feet. So the real men have also become less available. And women have to wait way longer to find a man who is financially stable. 2. The presence of taking dowry from the bride. A hindu ritual that has taken its roots in muslim households. Unless the woman comes with an expensive car, a sofa set, fridge and what not, she does not get the chance to get married. Again prevalence of men who do not have any ounce of gheera and shame. So she spends her years earning for herself so that she can afford to present all this dowry to a man and his shameless household so that they would accept her. Not the fault of the woman. 3. Families having no sons to take care of them. So obviously when the parents have gotten old and there is no son to provide for them. The daughter has to pick up going to job and earn bread and butter for the family. Many daughters do not get married for this purpose. Or their parents do not let them get married by rejecting good proposals so that she feeds them. 4. Men who are useless and either do not provide for his wife and children or provide so less, that the basic living expenses like bills and school fee cannot be paid. Then the woman has to step up to share the burden of earning in this day and age of inflation, to maintain a household. So instead of men taking part-time jobs with their main job, the wife has to work to contribute. Ofcourse this would lead to problems in some cases due to inferiority complex of the man (though he does not put effort to earn a good living) or to wife being exhausted from being both a homemaker and a provider. 5. Men do not land good jobs these days because they do not study harder. When I was studying, I saw the boys around me, not giving a care in the world about studying or learning a skill. They would just pass with basic and minimum scores. Ofcourse, in the long run this will lead the companies to hire more qualified people either kafir men or educated and qualified women. We need to make our brothers do better and be better men if we want our women to return to their duties and place as homemakers and loving obedient wives. Sheikh should address these real life world problems too. Otherwise our men would turn worse and worse and so will our women.Jazak Allahu khairan akhi.
Agree with points except last one. Who cares about a degree, because a man can work hard and make average money without a degree. A degree is never a necessity. Women have to stop being so materialistic in wanting a salary more than that of a warehouse worker, construction worker etc.
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I agree. I would like to add, that many women also remain unmarried for following reasons:
1. The men are lazy bums and do not go out and earn. Most young men now-a-days sit at home watching video games and doing nonsense. No sense of husband-hood and fatherhood. So father cannot marry his daughter to such imbeciles who cannot even stand on his own two feet. So the real men have also become less available. And women have to wait way longer to find a man who is financially stable.
2. The presence of taking dowry from the bride. A hindu ritual that has taken its roots in muslim households. Unless the woman comes with an expensive car, a sofa set, fridge and what not, she does not get the chance to get married. Again prevalence of men who do not have any ounce of gheera and shame. So she spends her years earning for herself so that she can afford to present all this dowry to a man and his shameless household so that they would accept her. Not the fault of the woman.
3. Families having no sons to take care of them. So obviously when the parents have gotten old and there is no son to provide for them. The daughter has to pick up going to job and earn bread and butter for the family. Many daughters do not get married for this purpose. Or their parents do not let them get married by rejecting good proposals so that she feeds them.
4. Men who are useless and either do not provide for his wife and children or provide so less, that the basic living expenses like bills and school fee cannot be paid. Then the woman has to step up to share the burden of earning in this day and age of inflation, to maintain a household. So instead of men taking part-time jobs with their main job, the wife has to work to contribute. Ofcourse this would lead to problems in some cases due to inferiority complex of the man (though he does not put effort to earn a good living) or to wife being exhausted from being both a homemaker and a provider.
5. Men do not land good jobs these days because they do not study harder. When I was studying, I saw the boys around me, not giving a care in the world about studying or learning a skill. They would just pass with basic and minimum scores. Ofcourse, in the long run this will lead the companies to hire more qualified people either kafir men or educated and qualified women.
We need to make our brothers do better and be better men if we want our women to return to their duties and place as homemakers and loving obedient wives.
Sheikh should address these real life world problems too. Otherwise our men would turn worse and worse and so will our women.Jazak Allahu khairan akhi.
Wa iyaakum. Interesting points. May Allah make things easy for all the Muslims male and female.
Agree with points except last one. Who cares about a degree, because a man can work hard and make average money without a degree. A degree is never a necessity. Women have to stop being so materialistic in wanting a salary more than that of a warehouse worker, construction worker etc.
You agree, but then proceed to put the blame on the men lol
Should add more poins:
6. Women asking for too much mahr
7. They want a 6+ foot tall guy, handsome
8. He needs to earn unrealistic amount of money
Women are hypergamous. Lack of female education increases her femininity and obedience.
Where are they? I can't find a religious one. I live in Bangladesh 😢
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