Agree. In my situation my ex claimed sobriety but he was drinking the whole time and still drinks 13 years later. I realize everyone is different, I am not trying to compare. But, the experience never leaves you!
It was my step dad and he was so mean so cruel..absolutely terrified us all but especially the step kids. Alcohol involves everyone around. Even the dog
PK wants her to be sensitive over his sobriety when he’s been a drunk mess for most of their marriage and an absent father and an absent husband. Completely mocking her over her PTSD. This guy sucks.
Maybe he wasn’t mocking PTSD. He was probably tired of her drama and thought she was using the PTSD issue as an excuse for all her bad behavior, instead of what it really applied to.
🙌He’s a class act A hole. What happened is - she grew up and evolved into a healthy person, launched by her PTSD and therapy whereas PK is a narcissist using alcoholism to escape the fundamental root to his problem aka NPD. The fact that this is how he sees his wife who spent how many years revolving her life around him and raising kids and him (who’s a whiny bratty spoiled baby man), is despicable. He doesn’t value her as an individual no matter how awesome of a woman she’s evolving into. He can’t see her. He doesn’t value her. She’s trapped in a character role he’s invented in his sick mind and he can’t stand the fact that she’s self-differentiated from his BS to become her most authentic self aka heal. When he says “he hasn’t changed at all” that’s the biggest narcissistic personality disorder red flag. Healthy people evolve, grow and mature.
@@v2807 He did express his feelings but some people will always struggle with the facts that they don't really know these people they just get to see a fraction of their lives on an edited tv show. They always have something else to complain about. He said that there's part of the PTSD that he understands but there's a confusing part that he doesn't because it's mix with the high maintenance part. How much clearer must he be? Just like she probably doesn't get what he is going through with the sobriety.
As someone with history of family members/friends with drug/alcohol abuse, when they are in a sober moment they really expect you to forget all that happened the same way they have. The difference is, they were high/drunk during all of that, they were having a good time, we were not. We remember and had to deal with it all, they didn't. It's very traumatising
and I say F that. The trauma they cause when messed up doesn't go away because they stopped the drug. They need to face the harm they caused, but god forbid we call them out. LOL
How he just brushed over his DUIs (plural) that Dorit went through with him shows how he’s still in the stage of denial. He wants to blame Dorit so bad for all his problems. He doesn’t care what he put her and the kids through.
Or how he won't acknowledge her PTSD as a "real illness" or even try to "work a program " to learn about THAT but has the gall to hold himself all high n mighty cuz he's newly sober. Psssshhhh......
The fact that he doesn’t listen to MO’s feedback and is so rude to him is oissing me off. Mo seems to have a better, deeper perspective while PK is stuck on deflecting and pinning everything on Dorit. He needs to grow up. He still looks like a drunk just look at his eyes.
PK, try a 4th step, some self-awareness and honesty about your actual part in things, and maybe you'll realize Dorit wasn't all that bad. Someone successful in sobriety often has their ego deflated. You've got a ways to go. Just keep coming...
It’s great that he’s sober, but he thinks that he’s the victim in all of this. What about his wife and children? Where is the self awareness?! He has a lot of work to do!
pk, you were "annoyed" by dorit's PTSD. sobriety is a gift and one that you fight for, you should be so very proud of that. but can that allow you to be empathetic towards the mother of your children's PTSD battle?
I agree with you that he can hopefully have a better understanding of her struggle. But when all of that was going on he was deep in addiction. He didn’t have the capability to support her. Nor did she.
He's very thin skinned. You have a younger wife who hadn't prior been exposed to the pits of business and the bad ways middle aged men deal with their own demons. I'm sure there was residual fallout from his older bad dealings. Dorit has stuck up for him on tv with Camille's accusations. I'm sure he sold her a dream of security and consistency, to which he did not live up to and surely his excuse was that he has dealt with hiccups magnitudes worse. She's actually a good wife in that she wants to create consistency for her children and skip the partying. Expecting her to toe the line on the way out of the relationship too, it just screams insecurity.
This is patriarchy, narcissism and misogyny on “FULL BLOWN” display! I don’t even like Dorit but he makes me have sympathy for her…he has NO accountability!
As someone who has loved Addicts both family and previous partners, addicts always dismiss the pain and trauma they caused their loved ones. Sometimes they block it out so they can heal,more often than not its because selfishness,victim hood and addiction go hand in hand. He wasn't the only person effected by his addiction.He needs to accept his disease hurt her and he shouldn't judge how she heals herself and speaking about it to friends is a great start.
Dorit understands your dieses P K like you understand her PTSD after having a gun in her face she probably feels the same as you do about her when you dismissed what she went through no sympathy
gee you tube commenters love throwing the word narcissist around. Makes them feel smart. The fact theyre using it to defend Dorit is the laughable part. The ironic part.
@@pollymidgley670 whats very clear is they are both to blame for being too self absorbed to be there for each other in any unconditional way. Theyre keeping score on who did what.
Garcelle needs get a storyline literally all she does is sit on the sidelines poking & bitching about the other womens storyline. when she is not race baiting for high ground. when she is not word policing the white women. we see who is obsessed with skin color & its not the white ones.
You can't be a full blown recovered addict. Addiction is a mindset you can never drink again and still be an alcoholic. If you can't say I am an alcoholic I always will be but I have been sober for... You are being dishonest. The moment you become complacent in your recovery is the moment you relapse.
Exactly and he's a dry drunk! Same behavior hanging in bars and clubs! Not taking responsibility and accountability! Judging Dorit after he abandoned her after the break in and ptsd! He's never been a present father to his children and he's still lying! He was recently bankrupt when they met and the million he owed in gambling debts didn'tgo through the bankruptcyshe helped pay that,, she was a fashion designer and jet setter but he wanted her to quit and have children and shedid, now he blames her for changing! This is why you never give up your life for a Man!
@@ginag8723we call it a dry drunk, even though my parents and husband were mainly addicts of drugs ,my husband was not an addict when I met him I made sure! Depicted it up after pain meds
I'm more impressed with Mo and his comments about the influence of the show on relationships and people changing. PK seems to be hurt by Dorits portrail of him on the show. His perspective is less objective than Mos' .
Youre easily impressed by men. But have a whole bunch of smoke as the urban kids say- for other women but have all this grace and compassion for random men
I think PK doesn’t acknowledge that being drunk, being an alcoholic means that during the bad times your perspective is warped. What people might see or experience as the family member or friend of someone going through that is very different to what he might see or perceive was happening at the time. He seems to dismiss her view a lot on the show and if they’re ever gonna get through this and be friends, he really needs to acknowledge her heartache. She is grieving (if they really are getting divorced ). She’s lost her friend and her husband. It’s a lot to handle, especially when you’ve got young kids as well. Also to say that he hasn’t changed … everyone changes, especially when huge things happen to you. He should not expect Dorit to be the same, for better or worse. He will absolutely have changed on the inside, even if it’s not showing so much on the outside.
He's just a dry drunk but he's still hanging out at bars with mo so it won't be long unfortunately and he's nit taking accountability so he's not even following the steps, Dorit is a much better person then he is and can do a lot better!
@@fififirestone3787I'm betting you didn't hang out nightly in bars and clubs in the first couple years of sobriety either!but he does! My parents and husband were addicts and alcoholics! It sucks when they don't realize the trtrauma they put you through and to then abandon Dorit after everything is kinda sick! She's going to be better off though honestly
How would you know how she’s changed? You were drunk throughout the marriage!! You talk about your disease, why did you bully her when she had a gun to her head?? You changed to a different mean bully. You’ve never had a gun to your head and your heartless when you had no empathy for Doritos PTSD.
You know what? They’re not the only ones. Jax tended to want to be single when his friends were. Or, when he broke up with Stassi he wanted the Toms to be single too. He tried really hard to break up the Toms relationships, and he succeeded with Sandoval, didn’t he? Crazy and so childish!
Good for PK… he wasn’t very compassionate about her PTSD. Maybe that’s part of the reason they’re separated the lack of empathy on both of their parts. 🤷🏻♀️
PK just said it plain and clear. He has NOT changed. People are supposed to grow and change. Mo said it. Dorit has changed because she is making her own money and doesn't feel the need to bow down to PK anymore. The way they talk to each other is awful. Their kids seem intelligent, kind and are so beautiful! Prayers up for them navigating better for their sakes!
Its very clear they are BOTH to blame for the marriage failing. They are keeping score of who did what. They are both so self absorbed they cant see past their own sufferance. They cant see their share of the blame. I think theres been a lack of empathy & comforting from both parties. You cant get past that. Cause marriage is all about unconditional support. You shouldnt even have to ask for it. They both keep asking.
Dorit let it all go to her head,she got worse after she had her hand in LVP leaving the show,she's acting out because there was talk of her getting sacked
I glad Dorit is finally not being so surfaced with everything however, Dorit needs to also take some accountability. The way she used to speak to PK on camera was dismissive and demeaning.
Keep up the good work PK. We all have a past, I'm glad you are on a positive path now. I'm not addressing Dorit's or your behavior before you got sober, just praising you for pulling your act together.
Like seriously, you wouldn't think he is talking about his wife. This is a mob boss giving an insubordinate member their "walking papers." Calm yet deadly.
@@Hennermint what a weird analogy. has literally no bearing to what he is saying. did you even listen? Like how she claims she helped him thorugh things that happened before he was with her? how she has changed since doing the show? how he compliments her as a mother. but heres you talking mob bosses for some bizarre reason. for cheap likes
@@scooter2501 Oh no, you would think the ball of slime comment I am responding to would give you some context? This clip is a snappy counter to Dorit's narrative. But there's no heartbreak here. She's changed and not upholding the narrative anymore; therefore he's done with her. Not a husband who is mourning a relationship he cherished. This is a cold, calculated dismantling of her perspective.
@@Hennermint No its literaly HIS perspective. when I see her empathize with hsi perspective you can talk. But she never does. They are both doing the same thing & ist cause theyre both self absorbed. I actually believe they sincerely both think its the others fault. I also have no doubt she has changed. Fame & money does that. It doesnt even matter what way the point is she is not what he fell in love with anymore. Now the good no longer outweighs the bad. He watches the show & she is calling him an alcoholic every 5 minutes. To demean him. To blame him.
@@scooter2501 Oh wow, I can talk when you say I can talk? Exactly what trophy are you winning policing people’s commentary? The guy has gotten a couple episodes in to the season and is trying to cut down her claims. He’s doing it with Garcelle too. It’s great you see so much genuine intention from the guy, now go pat yourself on the back for that. Self absorbed? Everything you have argued is the counter to that. The guy is leaving her, clearly indicating he’s changing it up. Dorit was a pick me and he loved that about her. Not necessarily her, per se. He’s annoyed she isn’t flying the flag on the way out.
If Dorit wasn’t with PK when he incurred the massive gambling debt or went bankrupt, she certainly had to deal with the aftermath. And she lived with him while he was struggling with his addiction.
She was with him when he found out the million in gambling debts that wasn't allowed to go in his bankruptcy and she's absolutely had to live with his terrible credit so the house isn't even in there name!
As someone in recovery I had to LISTEN to what I put people thru and make AMMENDS not say they don’t “understand addiction” … seems like he has ALOT of work to do lol
@@scooter2501excuses. Excuses. Excuses. But all this vitriol for Kyle richards for galivanting around with one woman! God knows what Mauricio has done!
lol please thats not how it works. plus it was 15 years ago. plus where does he say he is proud? he is just talking about devastating events in his life that he had to rcover from
3:29 With all the vices he claims to have, it is also very shameless to blame his wife for lack of support when most likely she has been the one who has financially supported the marriage in addition to raising 2 children. it would be best to keep quiet.
I really appreciate PK speaking out like this about sobriety - I’m struggling with sobriety myself right now and the more people who speak out the better, so much respect for him to open up about it. ❤
Sry but PK is 💯 not a role model. He’s a sham. Your problems are real, his problems are Narcissistic Personality Disorder disguised as the drinking problem he’s scapegoated his lack onto - instead of ever working on himself to be a healthy person which requires accountability. Never ever has an alcoholic recovered when they are still blaming others. I’m proud of your journey. You got this. Stay strong.
10+ years in, the best suggestion I can give you is to ask for help. It's there for you. It was the hardest thing for me to do, but becoming a part of a recovery community really made all the difference. All the best...❤
I have PTSD and it is hard to live with and to support someone with the disorder. Dorit is oversensitive anyway, constantly making herself the victim. Always pushing her feelings above everyone else's. Same every show.
What does “all that money” have to do have to do with the wives keeping a husband or their husbands cheating on them or everyone dealing with their own issues? Grow up. Ppl like you seem to believe money solves everything or gives someone a perfect life. Please stay in your struggle. Your statement seems very superficial.
Wow PK has the biggest victim complex! No empathy for Dorit but poor baby PK has had it hard but look how great he is now 🙄 get him off the screen, loving single Dorit!
He was there for her, maybe not the whole time, regardless his flaws, don't blame the people who got tired and drained after time for being the one who is responsible for a lot of things, they (men) too are human. Taking care of someone who has high expectation/ maintenance, as a lover and as a taker at the same time it's not an easy task, especially when you have your own issue. It's not fair for us (women) to judge. .. And I agree with some of what PK is saying; People don't completely change as a person. You adapt to the changes as we grow together in terms of (time, condition & situation) not the core value, you'll never change that. So either you are in, to work on it or you can choose to throw it all away. And that is your choice to decide. if you chose either way, no one is to blame.
Mauricio we also know you've been cheating for a very long time! You're just showing it now! Get a divorce so kyle can move on and stop walking in that house if you're going to leave her alone!
PK hurt about “full blown alcoholic” comment but quite easily says she has completely changed, and insinuating the end of their marriage is all on her. Alcoholism obviously without a doubt does affect a marriage, he’s not taking any accountability here. It’s disappointing because he came across as a nice guy on the show
What show were you watching? He's always been a prick and Dorits had to apologize for his behavior a lot over the years! She's defended him in indefensible situations too! He on the other hand abandoned her and the kids after the break in and ptsd! It was a one sided marriage and she clearly loved him for real and he just loves himself
Yes, Dorit has changed. She has become a better person and a stronger woman. She has matured and is not that superficial anymore. But she is not happy.
Pk , dorit didn’t have an addiction she would never understand. Don’t knock her she will never truly understand until she goes through it . She has stood by your side.?please give her grace because of her trama with the with the robbery.
PK and Doritt have changed and their relationship has been impacted by their change. PK was Doritt's Sugar Daddy husband and all she had to do was look good while working on her hobbies. Now PK is broke and Dorrit has income and celebrity from being on the RHOBH. This has messed with PK's ego and coupled with PK's drinking and Dorrit's boosted ego the 2 aren:t getting a long and are no longer ying and yang in a positive way and the 2 need to divorce and be thankful for their 2 children and for the good times that they had! culated PK
Alcoholism is unfortunately something I know a lot about. Yes it’s very cunning disease and PK is no different to anyone else who’s an alcoholic. Also a person who is getting sober, who’s supposedly working a program does not go on TV boasting about their sobriety, but especially voicing negative toward the mother of his children This is something people working a program do not do. He’s got a lot of humbling to do.
“Dorit’s lack of understanding of my alcoholism” Kinda like your lack of understanding of PTSD, PK! He may be sober but he still has the personality of an alcoholic. Not taking accountability. You may be sober PK but you need to work on your narcissism. It’s not just about not drinking. Viewers have not forgotten that PK did in fact get a DUI when married. He did in fact file bankruptcy when married. He did in fact tell his wife that he should come before the children. Dorit should change. Everyone should change as life goes on. She has grown. PK doesn’t change, he still behaves like a petulant child. Sounds like Dorit was willing to walk away from the show to save her marriage but PK knew he wasn’t going to work it out.
PK and Mauricio are dating. The timing of Mauricio and Kyle's separation and PK's coming right behind him to part from Dorit makes sense now. I think PK's alcoholism led to the hostage/robbery at the home. He needs money. PK was reckless in his judgment. When PK was driving drunk, he lost me as a fan. However, he is accurate that alcoholism is a disease. The DUI driver who hit me head-on came to court late and drunk, and I believe it was a mid-day trial, the judge jailed him. PK has to be in long-term treatment. He should avoid environments that consist of alcohol.
He sounds like he feels betrayed and he’s definitely frustrated with it all. And Dorit is blindsided that HE left her, so she’s being shady. I’m wondering if there’s something else going on, and I don’t mean infidelity!
He’s taking NO ACCOUNTABILITY for what he AND his addiction put her thru …. Part of the steps of AA / NA are making AMMENDS and NOT BLAMING PEOPLE FOR WHAT YOU DID while drunk / high …. Seems like he’s a dry drunk tbh so sad. He could’ve came out and apologized to her. He can’t let his PRIDE GOOOO …………. so sad actually he didn’t learn anything
Why do I like these guys more than their wives. I understand Dorit’s anger and maybe even rage, but I think she was seeing red and wanted to destroy P.K. by sharing that the things that the things that he felt most shame and self hatred are reasons why he drank. It really is disappointing. I’d love to see these newly single guys on their own show.
So his illness/alcoholism is cunning and sophisticated?! He says alcoholism is a a symptom not a cause?! Alcoholism IS the cause of a lot of strife and trauma. What exactly is he blaming his alcoholism on?
Alcoholism starts because people have a mental illness or have a emotional trauma that they cannot heal or they don’t know how to heal and so that nagging negative belief system is constantly poking at them and they use alcohol or drugs to numb the pain it always stems from something mental or emotional, or a combination of both it doesn’t matter which one came first. The drinking just ends up causing pain because the behavior of being “damaged “ in some way rears its ugly head every time by either being numb and checking out not holding things together or being an abusive by lashing out
Truly happy for PK! She was spending every dime on those ugly designer clothes, make up artists…. There is no down to earth with that woman! It’s all surface!
I want to like PK and I think at his core he is a good person… but this interview really just shows how little he wants to actually take responsibility and how much blame he wants to shift toward Dorit. Everyone and their grandmother has an opinion on Dorit… and clearly so does PK… but never ever have I gotten the impression that she didn’t absolutely adore him and want to make things work. She’s been desperate to and frankly PK does not seem able to receive & digest any of the scrutiny he rightfully deserves and constantly minimizes the effects of his problems on the relationship. He is holding Dorit to a far higher standard than he holds himself and must have expected Dorit to just hold that line the entire time they were together… everyone has their limit. Sadly, some people simply do not have the ability to acknowledge and truly own their flaws and ultimately give the people around them the sincere apologies they deserve.. along with the actual hard work of working to fix it. It is so much more common than people realize. Frankly for all the BS Mauricio has done, he sounds a lot more receptive and frank about relationships than I’d expect.. but also when your own relationship isn’t the focus it’s easier. Anyway, Dorit is clearly very upset and hurt over all of this and finding her way through it …and while I know PK is going through his own journey, the tone of conversation here and what I’ve noticed is that he really doesn’t seem all that upset… and that is the most glaring red flag to me. I’m not saying he has to break down and cry but none of what he said gave me the impression of a concerned or caring husband or father. His one compliment toward Dorit was that, “she’s become more beautiful”…🙄 … how superficial and flat. Meanwhile he tries to imply that he’s been o this emotional journey of growth but simultaneously, “hasn’t changed at all”. Something doesn’t exactly add up there. Perhaps he truly has always been this way, genuinely has not changed, and what has changed is their family and Dorit’s willingness to go along with it. It’s cold, but he very well might care more about himself than Dorit or his family… in times of healing that may be necessary but if he’s allegedly been sober for a year.. I would not still expect that. Some people are just wired that way and you can’t change them no matter how hard you try.
PK good for you…..that is the beauty of recovery….Redemption….when we take the steps in AA. We will always be recovering until we die. Dec 4th I celebrated 39 years sober! Through the Grace and Mercy of a very loving God! You truly are the epitome of the Faith, Hope, and Courage the foundation of recovery!
If you haven’t been around a raving alcoholic, you don’t know how traumatizing it is for the rest of the family.
AGREE 1000%
Agree. In my situation my ex claimed sobriety but he was drinking the whole time and still drinks 13 years later. I realize everyone is different, I am not trying to compare. But, the experience never leaves you!
It was my step dad and he was so mean so cruel..absolutely terrified us all but especially the step kids. Alcohol involves everyone around. Even the dog
It's torture!
It destroys families
PK wants her to be sensitive over his sobriety when he’s been a drunk mess for most of their marriage and an absent father and an absent husband. Completely mocking her over her PTSD. This guy sucks.
calling dorit's illness annoying and obnoxious, now complaining that he isn't getting sympathy
Yes!
@@Jennacavanaugh69 Exactly!
How do you know all of these details? Never heard either of them say all of these details
@@Samira_m84 Have you not watched the show??
He sure seems to be upset over her lack of empathy but doesn’t remember openly mocking her PTSD. This guy sucks.
Maybe he wasn’t mocking PTSD. He was probably tired of her drama and thought she was using the PTSD issue as an excuse for all her bad behavior, instead of what it really applied to.
@@v2807no
🙌He’s a class act A hole. What happened is - she grew up and evolved into a healthy person,
launched by her PTSD and therapy whereas PK is a narcissist using alcoholism to escape the fundamental root to his problem aka NPD. The fact that this is how he sees his wife who spent how many years revolving her life around him and raising kids and him (who’s a whiny bratty spoiled baby man), is despicable. He doesn’t value her as an individual no matter how awesome of a woman she’s evolving into. He can’t see her. He doesn’t value her. She’s trapped in a character role he’s invented in his sick mind and he can’t stand the fact that she’s self-differentiated from his BS to become her most authentic self aka heal. When he says “he hasn’t changed at all” that’s the biggest narcissistic personality disorder red flag. Healthy people evolve, grow and mature.
@@v2807
He did express his feelings but some people will always struggle with the facts that they don't really know these people they just get to see a fraction of their lives on an edited tv show. They always have something else to complain about. He said that there's part of the PTSD that he understands but there's a confusing part that he doesn't because it's mix with the high maintenance part. How much clearer must he be? Just like she probably doesn't get what he is going through with the sobriety.
@v2807 i agree totally! Well said and I think she set up that robbery. Who would leave a phone after robbing someone bahahaha she is so fake
The way PK takes zero accountability for the end of their marriage.
I think he’s angry that she exposed his problem, so he’s not showing much sympathy for her.
We don't live in their home. PK and Dorit know the truth about when their marriage begins failing. Dorit is a handful.
As someone with history of family members/friends with drug/alcohol abuse, when they are in a sober moment they really expect you to forget all that happened the same way they have. The difference is, they were high/drunk during all of that, they were having a good time, we were not. We remember and had to deal with it all, they didn't. It's very traumatising
Exactly
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I agree and sometimes it’s like a salt on an open wound when the person you love, has hurt you, but gets to forget that they hurt you.
and I say F that. The trauma they cause when messed up doesn't go away because they stopped the drug. They need to face the harm they caused, but god forbid we call them out. LOL
This is completely accurate, thank you for sharing 🙏🏼
PK is so rude! Telling mo to stop interrupting lol they are both in the interview. He is so entitled vile man
How he just brushed over his DUIs (plural) that Dorit went through with him shows how he’s still in the stage of denial. He wants to blame Dorit so bad for all his problems. He doesn’t care what he put her and the kids through.
Yes he'd rather blame her than the alcohol
Or how he won't acknowledge her PTSD as a "real illness" or even try to "work a program " to learn about THAT but has the gall to hold himself all high n mighty cuz he's newly sober. Psssshhhh......
Most men don’t. Very self centered
Pk I'm 70 years old..been sober 40 years ..stop crying..
PK is just as long winded as Dorit
😮
Omg facts
True but hes talking about serious issues and has t really gotten to have a say. W re to explantion
I found it interesting
Dorit supported you through your alcoholism and then your sober journey…and now she doesn’t get it? Diabolical behavior, what bs
If he was an alcoholic for majority of the relationship then kudos to Dorit for sticking by her husband. It couldn’t of been easy.
The fact that he doesn’t listen to MO’s feedback and is so rude to him is oissing me off. Mo seems to have a better, deeper perspective while PK is stuck on deflecting and pinning everything on Dorit. He needs to grow up. He still looks like a drunk just look at his eyes.
Yep. He's a dry drunk. Someone no longer but drinking but acting like he is.
He’s basically a jerk
PK is the definition of a narcissist.
He is a virgo. Most of the are narcissist😊
Ooof… now I really know why Dorit needs to move on.
She always deserved better…..and younger. 😏…and hotter.
I lost a lot of respect for PK watching this - Nasty vibes I’m getting!
PK you’re not a victim. Dorit can do 100 x better than you.
omg a waste of tv
Yes💯
He shushes Mauricio like he shushes his wife. Full recovery ? Hmmm not.
You shush a wife?
@ no. lol. I just meant how he treats his wife.
PK, try a 4th step, some self-awareness and honesty about your actual part in things, and maybe you'll realize Dorit wasn't all that bad. Someone successful in sobriety often has their ego deflated. You've got a ways to go. Just keep coming...
I agree❤
Pk, just be honest and take responsibility for your acts,Dorit doesn't have to put up with you,she is a smart lady,and that goes for Mauricio also.
Right? C'mon PK
It’s great that he’s sober, but he thinks that he’s the victim in all of this. What about his wife and children? Where is the self awareness?! He has a lot of work to do!
Wow. PK sounds like he is over Dorit. I am waiting for the divorce announcement. Hard to turn back now.
pk, you were "annoyed" by dorit's PTSD. sobriety is a gift and one that you fight for, you should be so very proud of that. but can that allow you to be empathetic towards the mother of your children's PTSD battle?
I agree with you that he can hopefully have a better understanding of her struggle. But when all of that was going on he was deep in addiction. He didn’t have the capability to support her. Nor did she.
He's a very arrogant SOB and there are a lot of people like him in AA.
He is a true man child. He’s putting her down at every chance. you’re not looking good PK.
He’s oblivious of the impact he’s had on his family. Maybe he should practice forgiveness instead of sitting there like a pompous jerk.
PK sounds so arrogant. Gross. Lacking class altogether.
dude.... does he not remember how he was with Dorit's trauma?
No bloody trauma it was all bullshit
All I saw was a couple of dudes trying to cover their future asses.
He's very thin skinned. You have a younger wife who hadn't prior been exposed to the pits of business and the bad ways middle aged men deal with their own demons. I'm sure there was residual fallout from his older bad dealings. Dorit has stuck up for him on tv with Camille's accusations. I'm sure he sold her a dream of security and consistency, to which he did not live up to and surely his excuse was that he has dealt with hiccups magnitudes worse. She's actually a good wife in that she wants to create consistency for her children and skip the partying. Expecting her to toe the line on the way out of the relationship too, it just screams insecurity.
This is patriarchy, narcissism and misogyny on “FULL BLOWN” display! I don’t even like Dorit but he makes me have sympathy for her…he has NO accountability!
As someone who has loved Addicts both family and previous partners, addicts always dismiss the pain and trauma they caused their loved ones. Sometimes they block it out so they can heal,more often than not its because selfishness,victim hood and addiction go hand in hand. He wasn't the only person effected by his addiction.He needs to accept his disease hurt her and he shouldn't judge how she heals herself and speaking about it to friends is a great start.
They always move on especially with couples. The man always moves on to find a different woman in his "healed state".
Straight FACTS!!
Dorit understands your dieses P K like you understand her PTSD after having a gun in her face she probably feels the same as you do about her when you dismissed what she went through no sympathy
Yes, I was thinking that he really did dismiss her.
THIS!!!
Such a valid point!!
He never dismissed what she went through
Why does Dorit have to give PK grace for when he was drinking but he doesn't have to give her grace for when her PTSD was making her miserable?
PK acting like a victim
Like most addicts do! He's a dry drunk He's not working steps at all
I believe Garcell. PK was behind the break in. He needed money. He was over the Marriage. He's a True Narcissist. Me, Me, me.
gee you tube commenters love throwing the word narcissist around. Makes them feel smart. The fact theyre using it to defend Dorit is the laughable part. The ironic part.
Sorry but so is she 🤷♀️
@@pollymidgley670 whats very clear is they are both to blame for being too self absorbed to be there for each other in any unconditional way. Theyre keeping score on who did what.
oh gosh, you were all the way by his side, weren't you?
Garcelle needs get a storyline literally all she does is sit on the sidelines poking & bitching about the other womens storyline. when she is not race baiting for high ground. when she is not word policing the white women. we see who is obsessed with skin color & its not the white ones.
Selfish and self centered, whether sober or not.
His lack of humility and accountability spell "FULL BLOWN" relapse.. work the steps you arrogant fool...i havn't changed ....clearly
He's not working recovery steps. Step 4 is accepting your mistakes. Step 5 is Amends
You can't be a full blown recovered addict. Addiction is a mindset you can never drink again and still be an alcoholic. If you can't say I am an alcoholic I always will be but I have been sober for... You are being dishonest. The moment you become complacent in your recovery is the moment you relapse.
In our family we call it a non-drinking alcoholic, because you're right, it never leaves you.
@ginag8723 absolutely.
Exactly and he's a dry drunk! Same behavior hanging in bars and clubs! Not taking responsibility and accountability! Judging Dorit after he abandoned her after the break in and ptsd! He's never been a present father to his children and he's still lying! He was recently bankrupt when they met and the million he owed in gambling debts didn'tgo through the bankruptcyshe helped pay that,, she was a fashion designer and jet setter but he wanted her to quit and have children and shedid, now he blames her for changing! This is why you never give up your life for a Man!
@@ginag8723we call it a dry drunk, even though my parents and husband were mainly addicts of drugs ,my husband was not an addict when I met him I made sure! Depicted it up after pain meds
I'm more impressed with Mo and his comments about the influence of the show on relationships and people changing. PK seems to be hurt by Dorits portrail of him on the show. His perspective is less objective than Mos' .
Youre easily impressed by men. But have a whole bunch of smoke as the urban kids say- for other women but have all this grace and compassion for random men
@@chayo4537 quite a statement from someone who doesn't know me or my beliefs. Obviously, you aren't psychic 🙄
PK is with that BS! Zero accountability 🙄
I think PK doesn’t acknowledge that being drunk, being an alcoholic means that during the bad times your perspective is warped. What people might see or experience as the family member or friend of someone going through that is very different to what he might see or perceive was happening at the time. He seems to dismiss her view a lot on the show and if they’re ever gonna get through this and be friends, he really needs to acknowledge her heartache. She is grieving (if they really are getting divorced ). She’s lost her friend and her husband. It’s a lot to handle, especially when you’ve got young kids as well.
Also to say that he hasn’t changed … everyone changes, especially when huge things happen to you. He should not expect Dorit to be the same, for better or worse. He will absolutely have changed on the inside, even if it’s not showing so much on the outside.
Extremely well said!!
@@joysmall Thank you 🙏🏾
@@nmart1n I wish I could have articulated my thoughts as well as you did. Well done.
The fact that he didnt take accountability for his alcoholic behaviour through the marriage makes me questioning his sobriety.
The fact that he said he has "full blown sobriety" has me questioning him. We don't say that in the rooms. We live One Day At A Time.
He's just a dry drunk but he's still hanging out at bars with mo so it won't be long unfortunately and he's nit taking accountability so he's not even following the steps, Dorit is a much better person then he is and can do a lot better!
@@fififirestone3787I'm betting you didn't hang out nightly in bars and clubs in the first couple years of sobriety either!but he does! My parents and husband were addicts and alcoholics! It sucks when they don't realize the trtrauma they put you through and to then abandon Dorit after everything is kinda sick! She's going to be better off though honestly
@@joannegrieco8523 I think she will definitely be better off without him.
How would you know how she’s changed? You were drunk throughout the marriage!! You talk about your disease, why did you bully her when she had a gun to her head?? You changed to a different mean bully. You’ve never had a gun to your head and your heartless when you had no empathy for Doritos PTSD.
PK is so full of himself. Geez
Dorit- you dodged a huge bullet. Your new happy life is awaiting! Get lots of therapy!
PK definitely wants a divorce
i would care more if they asked PK about his years of gambling debts, scams, and home that’s now in pre-foreclosure…
During a divorce when children are involved, NO ONE should be saying anything negative about the other parent🤫🤐🤐🤐
It’s so convenient that as soon as Moe was single PK had enough, two old Frat boys acting 20 again lol.
You know what? They’re not the only ones. Jax tended to want to be single when his friends were. Or, when he broke up with Stassi he wanted the Toms to be single too. He tried really hard to break up the Toms relationships, and he succeeded with Sandoval, didn’t he? Crazy and so childish!
Good for PK… he wasn’t very compassionate about her PTSD. Maybe that’s part of the reason they’re separated the lack of empathy on both of their parts. 🤷🏻♀️
I agree!
maybe - as much as I like Dorit, she seems very high maintenance (just designer clothes etc) - turn off for any man
@ I can see that…
PK just said it plain and clear. He has NOT changed. People are supposed to grow and change. Mo said it. Dorit has changed because she is making her own money and doesn't feel the need to bow down to PK anymore. The way they talk to each other is awful. Their kids seem intelligent, kind and are so beautiful! Prayers up for them navigating better for their sakes!
P.K. congratulations on your hard work.
Its very clear they are BOTH to blame for the marriage failing. They are keeping score of who did what. They are both so self absorbed they cant see past their own sufferance. They cant see their share of the blame. I think theres been a lack of empathy & comforting from both parties. You cant get past that. Cause marriage is all about unconditional support. You shouldnt even have to ask for it. They both keep asking.
Dorit let it all go to her head,she got worse after she had her hand in LVP leaving the show,she's acting out because there was talk of her getting sacked
I glad Dorit is finally not being so surfaced with everything however, Dorit needs to also take some accountability. The way she used to speak to PK on camera was dismissive and demeaning.
Bull
He's not the kindest, most empathetic person he thinks he is. He appears to be self absorbed and in denial re his part in their marriage breakdown.
Keep up the good work PK. We all have a past, I'm glad you are on a positive path now. I'm not addressing Dorit's or your behavior before you got sober, just praising you for pulling your act together.
Amen🙏🏻✝️❣️
get this ball of slime off Bravo, thanks!
Like seriously, you wouldn't think he is talking about his wife. This is a mob boss giving an insubordinate member their "walking papers." Calm yet deadly.
@@Hennermint what a weird analogy. has literally no bearing to what he is saying. did you even listen? Like how she claims she helped him thorugh things that happened before he was with her? how she has changed since doing the show? how he compliments her as a mother. but heres you talking mob bosses for some bizarre reason. for cheap likes
@@scooter2501 Oh no, you would think the ball of slime comment I am responding to would give you some context? This clip is a snappy counter to Dorit's narrative. But there's no heartbreak here. She's changed and not upholding the narrative anymore; therefore he's done with her. Not a husband who is mourning a relationship he cherished. This is a cold, calculated dismantling of her perspective.
@@Hennermint No its literaly HIS perspective. when I see her empathize with hsi perspective you can talk. But she never does. They are both doing the same thing & ist cause theyre both self absorbed. I actually believe they sincerely both think its the others fault. I also have no doubt she has changed. Fame & money does that. It doesnt even matter what way the point is she is not what he fell in love with anymore. Now the good no longer outweighs the bad. He watches the show & she is calling him an alcoholic every 5 minutes. To demean him. To blame him.
@@scooter2501 Oh wow, I can talk when you say I can talk? Exactly what trophy are you winning policing people’s commentary? The guy has gotten a couple episodes in to the season and is trying to cut down her claims. He’s doing it with Garcelle too. It’s great you see so much genuine intention from the guy, now go pat yourself on the back for that. Self absorbed? Everything you have argued is the counter to that. The guy is leaving her, clearly indicating he’s changing it up. Dorit was a pick me and he loved that about her. Not necessarily her, per se. He’s annoyed she isn’t flying the flag on the way out.
No PK we're all team dorit here.
She used the guy in a major way !
pK caused her ptsd with his fake robbery. He’s a scammer
If Dorit wasn’t with PK when he incurred the massive gambling debt or went bankrupt, she certainly had to deal with the aftermath. And she lived with him while he was struggling with his addiction.
She was with him when he found out the million in gambling debts that wasn't allowed to go in his bankruptcy and she's absolutely had to live with his terrible credit so the house isn't even in there name!
As someone in recovery I had to LISTEN to what I put people thru and make AMMENDS not say they don’t “understand addiction” … seems like he has ALOT of work to do lol
Mauricio sucking up to Kyle 🙄
cause he dumped her so he doesnt want her trashing him. he has a new woman
@@scooter2501excuses. Excuses. Excuses. But all this vitriol for Kyle richards for galivanting around with one woman! God knows what Mauricio has done!
Most honesty I have seen come from this franchise.
You're easily impressed like a shlep
Filing for bankruptcy isn't anything to be proud of! Taxpayers are now paying your bills.
Depends on which kind of bankruptcy you file for.
He's not PROUD of his bankruptcy, it can happen to anyone,, businesses fail for different reasons,, no one would be proud....
I don’t hear him saying he’s proud of it. He simply said he went through it before he knew her.
lol please thats not how it works. plus it was 15 years ago. plus where does he say he is proud? he is just talking about devastating events in his life that he had to rcover from
@@Tquin55 Was replying to comments suggesting PK was proud....
Where does PK get all the money???
Maybe he gets it from an ex husband like nearly everyone else on the show.
😂
From managing Boy George and he gets a percentage of his media fees, he also gets paid for podcasts and housewives some.
What money are you talking about unless you handled his bank account or something, are you?😂
He also has successful businesses ....
3:29 With all the vices he claims to have, it is also very shameless to blame his wife for lack of support when most likely she has been the one who has financially supported the marriage in addition to raising 2 children. it would be best to keep quiet.
I really appreciate PK speaking out like this about sobriety - I’m struggling with sobriety myself right now and the more people who speak out the better, so much respect for him to open up about it. ❤
All the best to you! Stay strong! You can do it! Merry Christmas
Sry but PK is 💯 not a role model. He’s a sham. Your problems are real, his problems are Narcissistic Personality Disorder disguised as the drinking problem he’s scapegoated his lack onto - instead of ever working on himself to be a healthy person which requires accountability.
Never ever has an alcoholic recovered when they are still blaming others.
I’m proud of your journey. You got this. Stay strong.
Believe in yourself, the life you DESERVE, it gets less difficult but you can do it ❤
10+ years in, the best suggestion I can give you is to ask for help. It's there for you. It was the hardest thing for me to do, but becoming a part of a recovery community really made all the difference. All the best...❤
I have PTSD and it is hard to live with and to support someone with the disorder. Dorit is oversensitive anyway, constantly making herself the victim. Always pushing her feelings above everyone else's. Same every show.
all that money in Beverly Hills and not one of them has a husband, how sad is that?
What does “all that money” have to do have to do with the wives keeping a husband or their husbands cheating on them or everyone dealing with their own issues? Grow up. Ppl like you seem to believe money solves everything or gives someone a perfect life. Please stay in your struggle. Your statement seems very superficial.
I’d rather be alone
They chased away the only person with a solid marriage, LVP.
Who gives a damn about a man?! 😂 and attaching a man to a woman- at that? Whats up with you brainwashed weirdos?
Wow PK has the biggest victim complex! No empathy for Dorit but poor baby PK has had it hard but look how great he is now 🙄 get him off the screen, loving single Dorit!
PK can't do better. He's addicted to lying.
He was there for her, maybe not the whole time, regardless his flaws, don't blame the people who got tired and drained after time for being the one who is responsible for a lot of things, they (men) too are human. Taking care of someone who has high expectation/ maintenance, as a lover and as a taker at the same time it's not an easy task, especially when you have your own issue. It's not fair for us (women) to judge.
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And I agree with some of what PK is saying; People don't completely change as a person. You adapt to the changes as we grow together in terms of (time, condition & situation) not the core value, you'll never change that. So either you are in, to work on it or you can choose to throw it all away. And that is your choice to decide. if you chose either way, no one is to blame.
Youre reminding us of how men are human but men have to remember that you're a human as a woman.
Mauricio we also know you've been cheating for a very long time! You're just showing it now! Get a divorce so kyle can move on and stop walking in that house if you're going to leave her alone!
PK hurt about “full blown alcoholic” comment but quite easily says she has completely changed, and insinuating the end of their marriage is all on her. Alcoholism obviously without a doubt does affect a marriage, he’s not taking any accountability here. It’s disappointing because he came across as a nice guy on the show
What show were you watching? He's always been a prick and Dorits had to apologize for his behavior a lot over the years! She's defended him in indefensible situations too! He on the other hand abandoned her and the kids after the break in and ptsd! It was a one sided marriage and she clearly loved him for real and he just loves himself
Yes, Dorit has changed. She has become a better person and a stronger woman. She has matured and is not that superficial anymore. But she is not happy.
Part of the stages is making amends. Hope PK will get there.
Pk , dorit didn’t have an addiction she would never understand. Don’t knock her she will never truly understand until she goes through it . She has stood by your side.?please give her grace because of her trama with the with the robbery.
Mauricio and Dorit would make a phenomenally compatible couple - had they met in another world.
I always liked PL, he has a funny sense of humor, love from the UK
He looks so much better.looks like he lost some weight going through that divorce....
PK and Doritt have changed and their relationship has been impacted by their change. PK was Doritt's Sugar Daddy husband and all she had to do was look good while working on her hobbies. Now PK is broke and Dorrit has income and celebrity from being on the RHOBH. This has messed with PK's ego and coupled with PK's drinking and Dorrit's boosted ego the 2 aren:t getting a long and are no longer ying and yang in a positive way and the 2 need to divorce and be thankful for their 2 children and for the good times that they had!
culated PK
Alcoholism is unfortunately something I know a lot about. Yes it’s very cunning disease and PK is no different to anyone else who’s an alcoholic. Also a person who is getting sober, who’s supposedly working a program does not go on TV boasting about their sobriety, but especially voicing negative toward the mother of his children This is something people working a program do not do. He’s got a lot of humbling to do.
“Dorit’s lack of understanding of my alcoholism”
Kinda like your lack of understanding of PTSD, PK!
He may be sober but he still has the personality of an alcoholic. Not taking accountability. You may be sober PK but you need to work on your narcissism. It’s not just about not drinking.
Viewers have not forgotten that PK did in fact get a DUI when married. He did in fact file bankruptcy when married. He did in fact tell his wife that he should come before the children.
Dorit should change. Everyone should change as life goes on. She has grown. PK doesn’t change, he still behaves like a petulant child. Sounds like Dorit was willing to walk away from the show to save her marriage but PK knew he wasn’t going to work it out.
No one would know who you are PK, without your wife, and now that we know you? We don’t give a flying F!
To be honest that’s true of all on reality TV.
He was an agent and he still is.
PK and Mauricio are dating. The timing of Mauricio and Kyle's separation and PK's coming right behind him to part from Dorit makes sense now. I think PK's alcoholism led to the hostage/robbery at the home. He needs money. PK was reckless in his judgment.
When PK was driving drunk, he lost me as a fan. However, he is accurate that alcoholism is a disease. The DUI driver who hit me head-on came to court late and drunk, and I believe it was a mid-day trial, the judge jailed him. PK has to be in long-term treatment. He should avoid environments that consist of alcohol.
He sounds like he feels betrayed and he’s definitely frustrated with it all. And Dorit is blindsided that HE left her, so she’s being shady. I’m wondering if there’s something else going on, and I don’t mean infidelity!
He’s taking NO ACCOUNTABILITY for what he AND his addiction put her thru …. Part of the steps of AA / NA are making AMMENDS and NOT BLAMING PEOPLE FOR WHAT YOU DID while drunk / high …. Seems like he’s a dry drunk tbh so sad. He could’ve came out and apologized to her. He can’t let his PRIDE GOOOO …………. so sad actually he didn’t learn anything
Dorit loves a drama.
Why do I like these guys more than their wives.
I understand Dorit’s anger and maybe even rage, but I think she was seeing red and wanted to destroy P.K. by sharing that the things that the things that he felt most shame and self hatred are reasons why he drank. It really is disappointing.
I’d love to see these newly single guys on their own show.
Dorit said in the aftershow that his lowest lows were before they met. When was this filmed?
Not for nothing but PK look a lil fine on here. Stay sober baby!
So his illness/alcoholism is cunning and sophisticated?! He says alcoholism is a a symptom not a cause?! Alcoholism IS the cause of a lot of strife and trauma. What exactly is he blaming his alcoholism on?
Alcoholism starts because people have a mental illness or have a emotional trauma that they cannot heal or they don’t know how to heal and so that nagging negative belief system is constantly poking at them and they use alcohol or drugs to numb the pain it always stems from something mental or emotional, or a combination of both it doesn’t matter which one came first. The drinking just ends up causing pain because the behavior of being “damaged “ in some way rears its ugly head every time by either being numb and checking out not holding things together or being an abusive by lashing out
Thanks guys!!❤❤
PK is a nasty little man. Dorit will be fine, she's strong and i wish her all the best.
I find this couple Dorit and her husband to be really the most insincere of all of them just don’t believe them
Truly happy for PK!
She was spending every dime on those ugly designer clothes, make up artists….
There is no down to earth with that woman! It’s all surface!
I find PK really interesting to listen to
Dorit is playing the victim for the cameras. She is no saint. And seems to be very materialistic
I was not in their marriage so I’m not going to judge
Oh but he certainly had no empathy for her PTSD. Piece of crap, she's better off
He sounds just like an alcoholic ( and I know ) It’s everyone else. He hasn't taken any responsibility. He’s always been arrogant and remains so.
I want to like PK and I think at his core he is a good person… but this interview really just shows how little he wants to actually take responsibility and how much blame he wants to shift toward Dorit. Everyone and their grandmother has an opinion on Dorit… and clearly so does PK… but never ever have I gotten the impression that she didn’t absolutely adore him and want to make things work. She’s been desperate to and frankly PK does not seem able to receive & digest any of the scrutiny he rightfully deserves and constantly minimizes the effects of his problems on the relationship. He is holding Dorit to a far higher standard than he holds himself and must have expected Dorit to just hold that line the entire time they were together… everyone has their limit. Sadly, some people simply do not have the ability to acknowledge and truly own their flaws and ultimately give the people around them the sincere apologies they deserve.. along with the actual hard work of working to fix it.
It is so much more common than people realize. Frankly for all the BS Mauricio has done, he sounds a lot more receptive and frank about relationships than I’d expect.. but also when your own relationship isn’t the focus it’s easier.
Anyway, Dorit is clearly very upset and hurt over all of this and finding her way through it …and while I know PK is going through his own journey, the tone of conversation here and what I’ve noticed is that he really doesn’t seem all that upset… and that is the most glaring red flag to me. I’m not saying he has to break down and cry but none of what he said gave me the impression of a concerned or caring husband or father. His one compliment toward Dorit was that, “she’s become more beautiful”…🙄 … how superficial and flat. Meanwhile he tries to imply that he’s been o this emotional journey of growth but simultaneously, “hasn’t changed at all”. Something doesn’t exactly add up there. Perhaps he truly has always been this way, genuinely has not changed, and what has changed is their family and Dorit’s willingness to go along with it.
It’s cold, but he very well might care more about himself than Dorit or his family… in times of healing that may be necessary but if he’s allegedly been sober for a year.. I would not still expect that. Some people are just wired that way and you can’t change them no matter how hard you try.
@@word42069 Well said!
@@word42069 Well said!
PK good for you…..that is the beauty of recovery….Redemption….when we take the steps in AA. We will always be recovering until we die. Dec 4th I celebrated 39 years sober! Through the Grace and Mercy of a very loving God! You truly are the epitome of the Faith, Hope, and Courage the foundation of recovery!