The fact that Scott was never able to find another woman despite his attempts speaks volumes about his character... apparently, his member is the only thing of any value he ever had to offer, and this becomes evident in his desperate attempts to get back with the only woman who genuinely loved him.
@bhaminibhanot3028 "his denim clad bulge"😂 lol flashback- this reminds me of reading out the "steamy" bits of Mills&Boons romances with my friends and just SHRIEKING with laughter😂😂
It's even worse when you consider they were BUYING his affection. They were so desperate for another kid that they went this far. Probably assumed he would be a catch and be able to find another woman and have a child quick. Shocked Pikachu face to all of them when they saw OP with a baby. None of it was that they missed HER, it was all about the baby and thinking "Oh she can have kids! She now has worth!"
No duh he wasn’t able to find a woman, once any woman started to entertain him (if that ever even occurred) and asked to go to his place for him to reply “Oh I live with my ex-wife’s parents” they’d be running for the hills, anyone would! He’s nuts!
@@rogueshark23Can you imagine the conversation. "So, what happened to your last relationship? " "Oh, I left her cause she can't have a kid even though we both tried. I live with her parents now cause she got cut off for standing up for herself."
Honestly bullet dodged. Imagine if she and Scott did have a baby? I wouldn't be surprised if he's the type to abandon his kid and wife for being disappointment. At least, Scott has zero rights to her kid.
Few Ironies - 1) if OP had stayed with both the parents and ex - she would never had a baby due to all the stress they put on her 2) Due to parents being such screw ups towards OP, the rest of family love OP more to point they never told parents where she currently nor she had a baby - hence only reason parents only found out is due to ex's own aunt / family living in the same area. 3)Op's Parents being so misogynistic toxic - It ruin ex's chances to find / get a wife, plus eventually ruined his own relationship with his bio-parents 3 years later 4) Op's mother being hypocrite that won't give same grace to OP since whatever fertility issues the mother had was passed down to OP - the only major differences is, OP got IVF and is a willing single parent. 5) Biggest Irony of it all - all 3 baby rabies made sure they will never have a relationship with their bio-grandchild (Parents) nor have any children because no woman is willing to put with the stupidity (ex)
the parents are whole 🤡's for their behavior. OP's whole family are a bunch of misogynists and Scott is definitely one too. It's just really odd that OP's parents took him in. Were they that desperate for a son/grandson?
I mean, i don't find odd that an old couple who never had a son would take in a man they have known for years and was also married to her daughter. Then, once they've separated in such terms... Okey, they picked a side. If she was the assh9le it would have been really nice for them to do that, so from their twisted pov it was all right
“We tried for a really long time for a baby, but even after several months…” - just to say, it can take years to have a baby. It doesn’t always just happen after a few months.
Sometimes the fristration can make it feel like years. But she was just in her 20s. It's unfortunate the husband was influenced by the parents. It was their frustration that could have overwhelmed the husband. Still, he is an adult. He chose to cling to the parents instead of his wife. A lot of coulda woulda shoulda is in that husband's head that's why he turrned desparate in the end.
be careful i made this same comment on a different video and got dogpiled what's more in that vid they'd only been trying for 2 or 3 months. honestly ive never laughed so hard
@@clarissamendoza8322 no... Husband was a selfish poo from the start. Any decent person would immediately call out op parents on they crap and told them too gft
“Instead of giving us space, you bombarded us looking for sympathy.” She should have responded with, “I’m glad to hear you feel that way, because now you can have all the space in the world.” Then hung up
Honestly, the husband is the trashiest person here: 1. a sellout, 2. easily manipulated, 3. clinging to op's parents like a little boy, 4. going to crazy lengths just to have a child (he doesn't even deserve), 5. considering how toxic he is and his stance on adoption, he would despise op's baby and try to replace her asap
@@josearturvilarinhovale8219Unfortunately people like that probably treat adopted kids as “not really there child” It’s sickening but at least a child won’t ever get adopted by freaks like this.
Her parents are fucking weird. They went to him and said we’ll pay for the IVF versus telling her or telling them together as a couple. She looks better cutting them off and for the love of God never let them around your daughter.
Dear Lord, OP's parents are just awful people all-around. It's not her fault that she was born a girl or that she was infertile, so for them to have treated her the way they did and place all the blame on her for not being able to have children pisses me off. I definitely agree with her that they wouldn't have botherd caring about her if she didn't have her baby with her. That just shows their true colors as misogynistic narcissists. And of course, that goes for Scott, too. For a guy his age to allow himself to be brainwashed by OP's parents into leaving her, as well as fall into a drunken stupor all because he couldn't get back with OP, he is just very weak of mind and low on character.
Scott clearly is a winner AHAAHHAHAHA Imagine how any date goes once the divorce topic comes out and Scott give a hint about what happened and how his ex in-laws are still babying him.
"He doesn't like the idea of adopting" Naw, really? the shallow brat of an ex doesn't like the idea of helping children live stable lives? WHAT A SHOCKER!
Infertile just means that it's a whole lot harder for her to conceive a child. People who are sterile can't reproduce at all, but infertile people can reproduce
OP’s parents didn’t think the whole thing through, the end results would’ve been the same either way. Think about it: (1) what would’ve happened if Scott got into another relationship? (2) what would’ve happened if Scott got someone pregnant? If Scott would’ve gotten a new partner, it would’ve been an immediate red flag when she finds out that he’s living with his ex-wife’s parents and his ex-wife is alive and well, they have no child(ren) together, and he has familial support. Let’s say if she bypassed that and gotten pregnant by him, OP’s parents would’ve drove her crazy by overstepping their boundaries and claiming the child to be their grandchild. At that point, Scott’s partner would’ve gave him an ultimatum to either cut them off or she leaves with the child. Scott would’ve cut them off because he got what he wanted and has no reason to keep in contact with them. So in the end, one of them would’ve cut the other off, it just so happens to be OP’s parents to do it first.
As someone who comes from a very fertile maternal gene pool that keeps its viable fertility well into late 40’s (Thank you, Ancestry!) these people perceiving pregnancy in one’s late 30’s as high risk is alien to me. 😐
For some who already had risky pregnancies at younger ages run the risk of having extremely high risks the older they get. Some women are so lucky to not have that issue like the women in your family but that is not the case for many.
That was me as a baby! I was born a month early after being induced because my mom’s bp was going out of control, and was JUST developed enough to dodge the NICU. According to my mom, I sucked down the whole newborn bottle fresh out and immediately started demanding more, much to everyone’s amusement. Suffice to say, little has changed, and I’d much rather be given food than material items, which my family takes full advantage of on birthdays/holidays 😂 I was so ready to come out and get something to eat I was ready to bring my mom down with me if they didn’t let me out right that instant!
0:10 This part had me re-watching to make sure i didn't hear things........OP tried to be the son her parents didn't have? That's really messed up on so many levels.........imagine growing up knowing your parents think you're not good enough cause you're not a boy
I'm sorry OP said it's not EXACTLY her fault she infertile? Oh girl, it's 100% NOT your fault stuff like that happens there's nothing you can do about it
My dad constantly whined that he didn’t have a son because then his name would die with him. I decided to spitefully keep my last name so he could never whine about that again. When I didn’t change my name it infuriated my dad and I enjoy that quite a bit. His last name is so common it is funny and my kids have their dad’s rare hard to say Turkish last name which I honestly don’t want because of how nasty my in-laws have been to me.
Tell your parents if you speak to them again. The reason they had a girl was because of dad, ask them to ask a doctor that. In school biology you learned that. Then, tell them to leave you and your daughter alone.
Scott sounds like he just wants a cookie cutter nuclear family. He doesn't want to be a father, he just wants kids. Probably some sort of "legacy" excuse😂 OP dodged a whole drone strike here
What are the chances if Scott had been attempting to date in the three years OP parents definitely tried getting involved and ruining any that he found
I get the feeling that OPs parents play a big part in Scott not being able to find a new partner. Them brainwashing him into this entitlement, and being so much ‘better’ than OP probably carried over into his dating other women too. Plus I’d imagine it’s probably really weird to be told about how he regularly keeps in touch and stays with his ex wife’s parents. Then there’d probably have to be the explanation of the ex wife. Which probably led to a rant about how she was so selfish for wanting support after finding out about her infertility. Which probably gave A LOT of women the ick. Plus having two in laws tends to suck for a lot of people, having four would be twice as bad, ESPECIALLY if those ‘in laws’ are an ex’s parents, who are obviously terrible people. Don’t get me wrong, I’m definitely not saying he was a “Great guy” who fell in with the wrong crowd, he’s 100% to blame for his actions and he must’ve believed OPs parents to some degree right off the bat to go along with it rather then standing up for OP. He sucks. I just think that OPs parents are like a poison that seems to ruin everyone that gets involved with them. They’re like a bad luck charm, destined to bring misfortune. Maybe they’re cursed lol. And they definitely took advantage of the couples relationship and personal turmoil in trying to deal with the fact that they’d struggle to have kids, to further their hatred of their daughter and get their ‘precious son.’
I love LOVE that she stuck to her plan of IVF and had a baby on her own. She came up with a plan to have a family and they said she was searching for comfort and forcing her presence on them lol 😂
I feel so much for the OP. I have a deadbeat father who is religious and archaic AF and he actually is a parent to my half-brother. To this day, I struggle with the insecurity that he might have tried harder to be a part of my life if I had been born a boy because he is a father to my brother. Admittedly, he's emotionally abusive to my brother and abused his ex-girlfriends which is part of the reason why my parents split up as my mom didn't tolerate that behavior and I absolutely dodged a bullet, but his misogynistic views still hurt. He is slowly digging his own grave though and at this point a huge chunk of his family loathes him including me and we are all betting on the fact my brother will too once he's old enough to understand what is going on (we're 20 years apart and he's still a young kid), and that my father will die with only his wretched wife mourning after him if they're still together at that point as the only women who can tolerate him is a women who's equally toxic. I've actually tried to post my own story on Reddit but I exceeded the word count as adding all the context of the drama is just so much to go over.
It's not your fault it's your parents fault because they ruined her life and they told her husband to leave her because she can't give them grandchildren and that's not right and they should pay for their actions and go to hell for what they have done to her and if you guys can't see that then you guys are delusional and they don't deserve anything for ruined her life and they told her husband to leave her because she can't give them grandchildren and you don't have to apologize for anything it's their fault not hers.
No do not take back your ex or parents. This is a test for you, you need to be strong. Do you want your daughter to go through what tour going through? They will also attack your daughter for not being a boy or turn her against you. If you really want to keep in touch with your parents they can meet you outside never connect with their Grandchild, you will see that they would call you selfish. Stay away you have a child worry about her and her future.
My bfs mom told him he was too mentally ill to have a child and threatened to take a baby from us . We never had kids . I mentioned this as the reason when his brother asked why . Alcoholics will never realize the hurtful things they say over and over . I went off on her because she was bullying our 8 year old niece , making her do complex math problems to calculate “how many grandchildren she could give my mother in law “ did I mention this girl is 8? And this woman is almost 80 because she didn’t have kids til after age 40 mind u . I was literally so livid. Nobody has business telling an eight-year-old to have children at any point in the future anyways let alone your eight-year-old ass who is going to be dead in 10 years. I don’t think women realize the type of impactful statement we take with us for the rest of our lives .
why is it with all these stories that told that when the parents fuck up with the kids and the kids go to therapy Shouldnt be the parents go to therapy ???
This story makes no sense. If the parents had the money to pay Scott, why didn’t they just offer the money for IVF upfront to OP? This sounds like another crazy illogical AI story.
According to your family shouldn’t op’s mothers inability to have more children make her less of a woman than other women who can have multiple children? I don’t agree with the thinking I’m just wondering if their dad thought that about his wife. I’m sure mom would’ve offered to mother op’s husbands baby if she could’ve.
If OP really wanted a new start she should have moved further away than maybe an hour. And then she walked home knowing her parents and ex are a little crazy, and they found out where she lived. A restraining order can only do so much, if she really wants to protect herself and her child she needs real distance, or a least a new home where her ex doesn't know about.
Scott clearly is a winner AHAAHHAHAHA Imagine how any date goes once the divorce topic comes out and Scott give a hint about what happened and how his ex in-laws are still babying him. 16 Reply
I find it weird that the ex husband is constantly with the parents even when he went to go visit a family member in the same street he was still with her parents
Man, the irony that the mother was also given crap by her MIL during her own pregnancy. Someone had the power and opportunity to break this cycle, but more often or not, people get suckered into that perceived position of power, hence why "breaking the cycle of mistreatment" is a lot easier said than done. As for the ex, I hate to say it, but people can be very easily bought over if someone was able to pull the right strings, and given how OP's parents really wanted a son, you need not be a rocket scientist to do the math. As for OP, if she has the finances, I strongly suggest moving away and closing this chapter in her life. There is no way the parents and ex will let this go so easily, and while it hurts to cut ties with the ex in-laws (who are pretty decent people), it's better to start fresh and not have any strings left for these wannabe puppeteers (mainly OP's parents and the ex) to pull at.
I do not think it means what you think it means The word infertile. if you were truly infertile you would have zero children. You may have issues conceiving and carrying to term but that is not infertile. Your use of the word is off-putting.
I wouldn't want Chasity holding or attending to my baby either with her chomo ssa🤢 Chrisean takes her child everywhere with her and I would too with "sisters" like that. I still believe Chrisean and am rooting for her💯
So her parents do act like they care about Scott but in reality they only see him for whatever hanging between his legs, I mean he is Still an trash person as he literally abonded his loving family and wife for shallow prizes
![[FULL STORY] What’s the most entitled thing you’ve ever seen someone do?](/img/1.gif)
The fact that Scott was never able to find another woman despite his attempts speaks volumes about his character... apparently, his member is the only thing of any value he ever had to offer, and this becomes evident in his desperate attempts to get back with the only woman who genuinely loved him.
His 'member'😭💀🙏 using wattpad words I see🤪
@@iamjustagirlintheworldd if you got your comments deleted left and right, you'd probably do the same.
@@iamjustagirlintheworlddI’m dead💀😭
@bhaminibhanot3028 should he refer to it as a "meat tube"
@bhaminibhanot3028 "his denim clad bulge"😂 lol flashback- this reminds me of reading out the "steamy" bits of Mills&Boons romances with my friends and just SHRIEKING with laughter😂😂
Imagine divorcing your wife and then live with her parents 🤮
Imagine being so desperate for a son that you steal your son-in-law from your daughter and His parents. XD
It's even worse when you consider they were BUYING his affection. They were so desperate for another kid that they went this far. Probably assumed he would be a catch and be able to find another woman and have a child quick. Shocked Pikachu face to all of them when they saw OP with a baby. None of it was that they missed HER, it was all about the baby and thinking "Oh she can have kids! She now has worth!"
Nothing better than a leech
Can you say PATHETIC
Imagine his parents go with her 😂
Good... the parents wanted a son and grandkids. Now they'll live the rest of their remaining lifespans knowing they'll never have either.
Because he's obviously firing blanks.
🤣🤣 that is absolutely hysterical and so true. @@rogueshark23
Many parents today behave the same way and this story has a very satisfying ending.
I mean, they do have grandchild, just no access to it.
Nice
No duh he wasn’t able to find a woman, once any woman started to entertain him (if that ever even occurred) and asked to go to his place for him to reply “Oh I live with my ex-wife’s parents” they’d be running for the hills, anyone would! He’s nuts!
No kidding or he said that his ex is infertile and a failure of a woman that'll make any woman not want to be with him.
@@rogueshark23 Yap, I'd be like "welp, I don't want to date a crappy and ungrateful goblin, goodbye"
@@rogueshark23Can you imagine the conversation.
"So, what happened to your last relationship? "
"Oh, I left her cause she can't have a kid even though we both tried. I live with her parents now cause she got cut off for standing up for herself."
His living with his ex's parents is a red flag
I absolutely love how the Ex called her up and just said "You don't understand! You were a disappointment!"
Honestly bullet dodged. Imagine if she and Scott did have a baby? I wouldn't be surprised if he's the type to abandon his kid and wife for being disappointment. At least, Scott has zero rights to her kid.
They didn't stop to consider that the ex was infertile.
Then the parents: “No no you don’t understand, you were being such a downer!!”
hopefully OP gave that Nanny a fucking raise and 5 star rating lol they are not required to deal with that shit and normally not prepared
Depends on the nanny...
Plus being a woman in usa definitely boosts survival skills
Few Ironies -
1) if OP had stayed with both the parents and ex - she would never had a baby due to all the stress they put on her
2) Due to parents being such screw ups towards OP, the rest of family love OP more to point they never told parents where she currently nor she had a baby - hence only reason parents only found out is due to ex's own aunt / family living in the same area.
3)Op's Parents being so misogynistic toxic - It ruin ex's chances to find / get a wife, plus eventually ruined his own relationship with his bio-parents 3 years later
4) Op's mother being hypocrite that won't give same grace to OP since whatever fertility issues the mother had was passed down to OP - the only major differences is, OP got IVF and is a willing single parent.
5) Biggest Irony of it all - all 3 baby rabies made sure they will never have a relationship with their bio-grandchild (Parents) nor have any children because no woman is willing to put with the stupidity (ex)
oh karma you are so beautiful
the parents are whole 🤡's for their behavior. OP's whole family are a bunch of misogynists and Scott is definitely one too. It's just really odd that OP's parents took him in. Were they that desperate for a son/grandson?
Looks like it
I mean, i don't find odd that an old couple who never had a son would take in a man they have known for years and was also married to her daughter. Then, once they've separated in such terms... Okey, they picked a side. If she was the assh9le it would have been really nice for them to do that, so from their twisted pov it was all right
Cause they misogynistic... 🎉
“We tried for a really long time for a baby, but even after several months…” - just to say, it can take years to have a baby. It doesn’t always just happen after a few months.
I was just about to write that too! The average amount of time for most couples is a year. I wish more people knew that.
Sometimes the fristration can make it feel like years. But she was just in her 20s. It's unfortunate the husband was influenced by the parents. It was their frustration that could have overwhelmed the husband. Still, he is an adult. He chose to cling to the parents instead of his wife.
A lot of coulda woulda shoulda is in that husband's head that's why he turrned desparate in the end.
be careful i made this same comment on a different video and got dogpiled what's more in that vid they'd only been trying for 2 or 3 months. honestly ive never laughed so hard
Apparently, her ex was *reeeealy* quick to get "disappointed", lol
@@clarissamendoza8322 no... Husband was a selfish poo from the start.
Any decent person would immediately call out op parents on they crap and told them too gft
“Instead of giving us space, you bombarded us looking for sympathy.” She should have responded with, “I’m glad to hear you feel that way, because now you can have all the space in the world.” Then hung up
...and she was trying for a baby cause THEY wanted in the first place...
Honestly, the husband is the trashiest person here: 1. a sellout, 2. easily manipulated, 3. clinging to op's parents like a little boy, 4. going to crazy lengths just to have a child (he doesn't even deserve), 5. considering how toxic he is and his stance on adoption, he would despise op's baby and try to replace her asap
He claims that all came from a place of disappointment tell him he's not allowed to feel disappointment
That sounds dumb as fuck.
He's the biggest disappointment so he has no room to talk.
Parents gave the husband IVF money and told him not tell their fucking daughter that they know had IVF money, completely played themselves
If Op's parent wanted a son so badly, they could just adopted one.
I think they were too dumb to realize that
@@josearturvilarinhovale8219Unfortunately people like that probably treat adopted kids as “not really there child”
It’s sickening but at least a child won’t ever get adopted by freaks like this.
@@everyonesacritic6054but then why see Scott as a son ?
@@Hi.b. "you don't understand! It's diiiiferent!"
...And other crap clowns like this like to say
@@Lonely_Moth Some people are just weird .
How dare the person who found out that they were infertile make it about herself and not her parents?😂
Honestly the parents could’ve just offered to pay for the IVF and op would’ve probably still been under their thumb, glad she’s not though
The story wouldn't have been dramatic enough if the writer had included that.
@@FrancisBurns true true
“Wasn’t willing to go through with IVF until we could afford it” HM, IS IT A CRIME TO BE FINANCIALLY RESPONSIBLE, LADIES AND GENTLEMEN?
Rooting for OP so hard rn. I'm so proud of her!!!! ❤❤
Scott became the "son" they never had.
And he is as shitty as if they've raised him, too! 😃
F that, i have a daughter and shes sweet. The only trouble i had with her right now is shes already a teenager.
NTA run away from them, they would never change. Prioritize yourself and your child OP
The sheer audacity of those ppl. Proud of OP for living her life the way she sees fit.😊
1. Desperately wants a baby
2. Absolutely against adoption
Conclusion: red flags were flapping high in the air long before the divorce, i guess.
Her parents are fucking weird. They went to him and said we’ll pay for the IVF versus telling her or telling them together as a couple. She looks better cutting them off and for the love of God never let them around your daughter.
The only sign the universe gave was that Scott's dna shouldn't survive and live on.
Dear Lord, OP's parents are just awful people all-around. It's not her fault that she was born a girl or that she was infertile, so for them to have treated her the way they did and place all the blame on her for not being able to have children pisses me off.
I definitely agree with her that they wouldn't have botherd caring about her if she didn't have her baby with her. That just shows their true colors as misogynistic narcissists.
And of course, that goes for Scott, too. For a guy his age to allow himself to be brainwashed by OP's parents into leaving her, as well as fall into a drunken stupor all because he couldn't get back with OP, he is just very weak of mind and low on character.
Scott clearly is a winner AHAAHHAHAHA
Imagine how any date goes once the divorce topic comes out and Scott give a hint about what happened and how his ex in-laws are still babying him.
Willing to bet this is an Indian family
Very cool of the extended family to protect her and her new family like that
"He doesn't like the idea of adopting" Naw, really? the shallow brat of an ex doesn't like the idea of helping children live stable lives? WHAT A SHOCKER!
Why does she call herself infertile when she had a baby through IVF? So weird. She’s not infertile, if anything, he was.
Infertile just means that it's a whole lot harder for her to conceive a child. People who are sterile can't reproduce at all, but infertile people can reproduce
no betrayal is worse than one from your family
That nanny is a real one ❤❤❤ I hope and believe OP will give her a FATASS tip❤❤❤
OP’s parents didn’t think the whole thing through, the end results would’ve been the same either way. Think about it: (1) what would’ve happened if Scott got into another relationship? (2) what would’ve happened if Scott got someone pregnant? If Scott would’ve gotten a new partner, it would’ve been an immediate red flag when she finds out that he’s living with his ex-wife’s parents and his ex-wife is alive and well, they have no child(ren) together, and he has familial support. Let’s say if she bypassed that and gotten pregnant by him, OP’s parents would’ve drove her crazy by overstepping their boundaries and claiming the child to be their grandchild. At that point, Scott’s partner would’ve gave him an ultimatum to either cut them off or she leaves with the child. Scott would’ve cut them off because he got what he wanted and has no reason to keep in contact with them. So in the end, one of them would’ve cut the other off, it just so happens to be OP’s parents to do it first.
Wow the lack of accountability from the "parents" and scott is wild as f
As someone who comes from a very fertile maternal gene pool that keeps its viable fertility well into late 40’s (Thank you, Ancestry!) these people perceiving pregnancy in one’s late 30’s as high risk is alien to me. 😐
It's not even true and has been debunked. The myth was made up by one male doctor who wanted the age of consent lowered to 16.
For some who already had risky pregnancies at younger ages run the risk of having extremely high risks the older they get. Some women are so lucky to not have that issue like the women in your family but that is not the case for many.
That was me as a baby! I was born a month early after being induced because my mom’s bp was going out of control, and was JUST developed enough to dodge the NICU. According to my mom, I sucked down the whole newborn bottle fresh out and immediately started demanding more, much to everyone’s amusement. Suffice to say, little has changed, and I’d much rather be given food than material items, which my family takes full advantage of on birthdays/holidays 😂
I was so ready to come out and get something to eat I was ready to bring my mom down with me if they didn’t let me out right that instant!
0:10 This part had me re-watching to make sure i didn't hear things........OP tried to be the son her parents didn't have? That's really messed up on so many levels.........imagine growing up knowing your parents think you're not good enough cause you're not a boy
I'm sorry OP said it's not EXACTLY her fault she infertile? Oh girl, it's 100% NOT your fault stuff like that happens there's nothing you can do about it
My dad constantly whined that he didn’t have a son because then his name would die with him. I decided to spitefully keep my last name so he could never whine about that again. When I didn’t change my name it infuriated my dad and I enjoy that quite a bit. His last name is so common it is funny and my kids have their dad’s rare hard to say Turkish last name which I honestly don’t want because of how nasty my in-laws have been to me.
You'd be surprised to know just how common this is
U go girl if they don't want you at ur worst they don't deserve u at ur best
Tell your parents if you speak to them again. The reason they had a girl was because of dad, ask them to ask a doctor that. In school biology you learned that. Then, tell them to leave you and your daughter alone.
They would probably be upset with OP for not having a baby boy
OP should have sued her parents
Scott sounds like he just wants a cookie cutter nuclear family. He doesn't want to be a father, he just wants kids. Probably some sort of "legacy" excuse😂 OP dodged a whole drone strike here
I am sort of glad she had a daughter cause can you imagine how crazy the parents would behave if they had a grandson
What are the chances if Scott had been attempting to date in the three years OP parents definitely tried getting involved and ruining any that he found
Infertility is not sterility.
I get the feeling that OPs parents play a big part in Scott not being able to find a new partner.
Them brainwashing him into this entitlement, and being so much ‘better’ than OP probably carried over into his dating other women too. Plus I’d imagine it’s probably really weird to be told about how he regularly keeps in touch and stays with his ex wife’s parents.
Then there’d probably have to be the explanation of the ex wife. Which probably led to a rant about how she was so selfish for wanting support after finding out about her infertility.
Which probably gave A LOT of women the ick. Plus having two in laws tends to suck for a lot of people, having four would be twice as bad, ESPECIALLY if those ‘in laws’ are an ex’s parents, who are obviously terrible people.
Don’t get me wrong, I’m definitely not saying he was a “Great guy” who fell in with the wrong crowd, he’s 100% to blame for his actions and he must’ve believed OPs parents to some degree right off the bat to go along with it rather then standing up for OP. He sucks.
I just think that OPs parents are like a poison that seems to ruin everyone that gets involved with them. They’re like a bad luck charm, destined to bring misfortune. Maybe they’re cursed lol.
And they definitely took advantage of the couples relationship and personal turmoil in trying to deal with the fact that they’d struggle to have kids, to further their hatred of their daughter and get their ‘precious son.’
I love LOVE that she stuck to her plan of IVF and had a baby on her own. She came up with a plan to have a family and they said she was searching for comfort and forcing her presence on them lol 😂
I feel so much for the OP. I have a deadbeat father who is religious and archaic AF and he actually is a parent to my half-brother. To this day, I struggle with the insecurity that he might have tried harder to be a part of my life if I had been born a boy because he is a father to my brother. Admittedly, he's emotionally abusive to my brother and abused his ex-girlfriends which is part of the reason why my parents split up as my mom didn't tolerate that behavior and I absolutely dodged a bullet, but his misogynistic views still hurt. He is slowly digging his own grave though and at this point a huge chunk of his family loathes him including me and we are all betting on the fact my brother will too once he's old enough to understand what is going on (we're 20 years apart and he's still a young kid), and that my father will die with only his wretched wife mourning after him if they're still together at that point as the only women who can tolerate him is a women who's equally toxic. I've actually tried to post my own story on Reddit but I exceeded the word count as adding all the context of the drama is just so much to go over.
Regarding the OP's desire to be a better parent to her daughter than her parents were to her: good thing her parents set the bar so low.
It's not your fault it's your parents fault because they ruined her life and they told her husband to leave her because she can't give them grandchildren and that's not right and they should pay for their actions and go to hell for what they have done to her and if you guys can't see that then you guys are delusional and they don't deserve anything for ruined her life and they told her husband to leave her because she can't give them grandchildren and you don't have to apologize for anything it's their fault not hers.
No do not take back your ex or parents. This is a test for you, you need to be strong. Do you want your daughter to go through what tour going through? They will also attack your daughter for not being a boy or turn her against you. If you really want to keep in touch with your parents they can meet you outside never connect with their Grandchild, you will see that they would call you selfish. Stay away you have a child worry about her and her future.
My bfs mom told him he was too mentally ill to have a child and threatened to take a baby from us . We never had kids . I mentioned this as the reason when his brother asked why . Alcoholics will never realize the hurtful things they say over and over . I went off on her because she was bullying our 8 year old niece , making her do complex math problems to calculate “how many grandchildren she could give my mother in law “ did I mention this girl is 8? And this woman is almost 80 because she didn’t have kids til after age 40 mind u . I was literally so livid. Nobody has business telling an eight-year-old to have children at any point in the future anyways let alone your eight-year-old ass who is going to be dead in 10 years. I don’t think women realize the type of impactful statement we take with us for the rest of our lives .
“Hey op can we ta-“
*cue the sound that iPhones make when you get hung up on*
This is good
AITA for asking for a reassurance?
That nanny is a real one
Scott and the parents are sick.
She should've told her parents that if women are just baby maker's, then her mother needs to plop back in bed, spread eagle, like the broodmare she is
it's obvious that they just saw kid and immediately oh you aren't useless anymore (I'm only on 7th minute of the video)
If OP wasn't such a doormat, the story would've ended on minute 11
OP sounds like shes trying to get closure..
Closure is a thing
closure is for the weak
@@Appricotto Closure is for those who don't want to end up all bitter and disheartened
why is it with all these stories that told that when the parents fuck up with the kids and the kids go to therapy
Shouldnt be the parents go to therapy ???
16:35 the nanny is a saint
This story makes no sense. If the parents had the money to pay Scott, why didn’t they just offer the money for IVF upfront to OP? This sounds like another crazy illogical AI story.
100% it’s sound like an idea for a movie or Netflix show, not a real life story
People sometimes don't make any sense
According to your family shouldn’t op’s mothers inability to have more children make her less of a woman than other women who can have multiple children? I don’t agree with the thinking I’m just wondering if their dad thought that about his wife. I’m sure mom would’ve offered to mother op’s husbands baby if she could’ve.
I missed the part of how she got pregnant, did she go through a clinic?
Yes IVF
@@alexisadams8753 thanks
Don't let them control your life it's not their decision it's your decision.
They know whr OP lives tho. Things with ppl like them might eacalate, thouhh i hope not.
OPs ex-husband and parents are complete toxic AHs!
I Would Never Want a MAN This Weak, Easily Manipulated.
He dumps you for not being able to have a baby,and wants to reconnect because she has a baby.wtf
If OP really wanted a new start she should have moved further away than maybe an hour. And then she walked home knowing her parents and ex are a little crazy, and they found out where she lived. A restraining order can only do so much, if she really wants to protect herself and her child she needs real distance, or a least a new home where her ex doesn't know about.
Please tell me you’re not defending the abusers in this story.
Scott clearly is a winner AHAAHHAHAHA
Imagine how any date goes once the divorce topic comes out and Scott give a hint about what happened and how his ex in-laws are still babying him.
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FOR THEM.... FOR EFFING THEM??? Restraining order.
Imagine being responsible financially and your dumb parents and dumb ex gets mad
The craze/demand for grandkids is stupid
I love this vid
I find it weird that the ex husband is constantly with the parents even when he went to go visit a family member in the same street he was still with her parents
Man, the irony that the mother was also given crap by her MIL during her own pregnancy. Someone had the power and opportunity to break this cycle, but more often or not, people get suckered into that perceived position of power, hence why "breaking the cycle of mistreatment" is a lot easier said than done. As for the ex, I hate to say it, but people can be very easily bought over if someone was able to pull the right strings, and given how OP's parents really wanted a son, you need not be a rocket scientist to do the math.
As for OP, if she has the finances, I strongly suggest moving away and closing this chapter in her life. There is no way the parents and ex will let this go so easily, and while it hurts to cut ties with the ex in-laws (who are pretty decent people), it's better to start fresh and not have any strings left for these wannabe puppeteers (mainly OP's parents and the ex) to pull at.
interesting story
cant wait for my daughter to grow up and give me the news that shes infertile so i can make it about me and then stop speaking to her
I do not think it means what you think it means
The word infertile.
if you were truly infertile you would have zero children.
You may have issues conceiving and carrying to term but that is not infertile.
Your use of the word is off-putting.
'We tried for a very long time' WHAT, I DID NOT WANT TO KNOW THAT
I wouldn't want Chasity holding or attending to my baby either with her chomo ssa🤢 Chrisean takes her child everywhere with her and I would too with "sisters" like that. I still believe Chrisean and am rooting for her💯
bud ive asking you a question i sent you a mail
Cool video 3m gang
Nah i would call my mother by her mother in law name. If you want to act exactly like her you be called her.
So her parents do act like they care about Scott but in reality they only see him for whatever hanging between his legs, I mean he is Still an trash person as he literally abonded his loving family and wife for shallow prizes
She's in the wrong
anyone else turn to this channel when they have nothing good to watch?
What game is this?
Imagine if the baby op had was a boy
Ya'll know some of these stories are fake right?
What ever does not have the exact same meaning as what. There is a difference. And people using it wromg shows the lack of education
nice vid
bro fell on
w vid
love your vids
@@JOAF2024 is bro on the spectrum?
AINT NO WAY YOU JUST SAID THAT 😭😭😭@@TyTrell08
What culture is this story coming from?
are these stories even true?
Always curious to the culture and ethnicity of these stories
Please could you 🙏🙏 get better back ground!!!!! You are trying to read what's going on, it's a big distraction ❤❤
How did you get pregnant if you did not have a husband?
Ivf
One night stand maybe
She paid the doctors to put a baby in her.
anonymous donor bank and IVF
Oh ok
0 views in 43 seconds? bro fe-
nope
They got sniped v_v
@@ZiiiZero what does that mean?
@@0.r0 Meant like you got sniped because you didn't get to finish the comment x)