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  • Опубликовано: 18 ноя 2024
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    Tommy Davidson is a legendary comic with a trans son. I did not intend to talk a lot about that-the man is on tour with Katt Williams. I’d planned to talk about comedy and we did that but somehow we kept coming back to talking about his trans son. It’s a very honest conversation.
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    Key Moments:
    2:19 - On Tour with Katt Williams
    8:13 - Tommy Loves Being On The Road
    11:29 - Tommy's Trans Son
    14:44 - Tommy Understood The Trans Community Growing Up
    22:08 - Everyone is Embracing the LGBTQ+ Community
    27:54 - Live and Let Live
    30:30 - Tommy's Thoughts On Dave Chappelle's Comedy

Комментарии • 145

  • @deborahbrown1753
    @deborahbrown1753 Месяц назад +24

    Tommy Davidson
    have always been a stand up truth teller and thats why I respect him 💯

  • @MsNiesh1984
    @MsNiesh1984 22 дня назад +8

    He didn’t let him speak! This man was dropping real life nuggets for today’s people/world and he kept cutting him off!! Everything doesn’t need a response, learn to listen!! He missed so much bcuz he wouldn’t let him SPEAK! 😩 I Love Tommy aka Varnel Hill😭 🤷🏽‍♀️☺️ #Iykyk

  • @alethalovato3300
    @alethalovato3300 Месяц назад +29

    It's called unconditional love! The greatest emotion a parent can bestow on their child. This has my total respect.

  • @GlennDGrace
    @GlennDGrace Месяц назад +93

    If there wasn’t already enough reason to love this guy besides his comedic genius….. ❤❤❤

  • @dsantamaria713
    @dsantamaria713 Месяц назад +56

    I knew my kid was Trans from the time he was three..
    He told me, Mom, I'm not a girl!
    I've been fine with it since then, and he's the absolute BEST!!!
    Doesn't every Parent want to see their kids happy and well?
    All it takes is love and understanding...
    ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

    • @oophorror2251
      @oophorror2251 Месяц назад +7

      My friend is FtM trans. He regrets getting the surgery and wishes he’d just stayed a lesbian. I say that with respect. One can be trans without altering one’s body. Respectfully.

    • @mintygrey
      @mintygrey 11 дней назад

      ​@oophorror2251 good for your friend. I don't like strawberries. Just so you know, some people choose not to eat strawberries. You don't have to eat strawberries. Respectfully.

  • @sarahtiferet9025
    @sarahtiferet9025 Месяц назад +32

    I've always loved and admired Tommy Davidson . He's funny AF , highly intelligent and a deep dude His humor helped lighten some very tough chapters in my life. After this interview in particular =not only do I appreciate his talent, but i have the utmost respect . Much appreciation to the interviewer too, great questions= Peace .

  • @calvinpeterson-x8v
    @calvinpeterson-x8v Месяц назад +8

    God bless you Tommy and your daughter. Love and let live ALWAYS !!!

  • @m1thomas1
    @m1thomas1 Месяц назад +77

    I understand and agree with Tommy. I support anyone who comes out as who they really are. I just expect some grace from them to allow me time to make the pivot mentally and emotionally. When you've known a person as a certain gender for all of their lives, your mind doesn't shift overnight just because they came out. I understand that they may have a lot of penned up anger because they've had to hide who they are for so long. After they come out, their attitude is this is who I am accept it. But just like they want grace and understanding, they should extend the same to their loved ones.

    • @crnkmnky
      @crnkmnky Месяц назад +7

      True.

    • @MichaelEllegard-dz1yd
      @MichaelEllegard-dz1yd Месяц назад +2

      What about a murderer or rapist coming out as " who they really are"? Same opinion?

    • @olliet9986
      @olliet9986 Месяц назад +10

      ​@MichaelEllegard-dz1yd I'm lost on the point you are trying to make here? Are you comparing a murderer or rapist to someone who is Trans?

    • @jais7693
      @jais7693 Месяц назад +6

      Very reasonable. In many glbt support groups, we are often reminded that as long as it took us to come to terms with ourselves and become comfortable, we need to give that same grace to others. Most of us aren't bothered by the wrong pronouns or the "right" letters. We're all human and just appreciate the effort.

    • @piadaniels7748
      @piadaniels7748 Месяц назад +1

      Well said

  • @robingirlwonder5067
    @robingirlwonder5067 Месяц назад +8

    I bring this point up in my public speaking quite often... we transition as trans people but our families and friends have to also transition... transition in part is learning something new that changes us as person. So we have to be patient especially when we see that others are trying to understand.

  • @wnnfrhrw4452
    @wnnfrhrw4452 Месяц назад +5

    "You cannot revolt against a people whose values you share." - Dr. Amos N. Wilson

  • @rooseveltwilliams3272
    @rooseveltwilliams3272 Месяц назад +19

    He is filled with pain, I can see it in his face and hear it in his voice.

    • @hoodiehoo461
      @hoodiehoo461 Месяц назад

      Chyle u don't see shit. Yall miserable broken mfs need to heal

  • @MikeMike28-c2v
    @MikeMike28-c2v Месяц назад +34

    I’m apart of the LGBTQIA community “for those that struggle with all the letters 😂” and I was always taught to see others as people first. If you are unsure about someone’s pronouns simply ask them how they would like to be addressed. As for parents it is an adjustment period especially if your child transitions, but like Tommy said it’s a learned behavior. As long as the effort is there that’s all that matters

  • @fireandgrace222
    @fireandgrace222 Месяц назад +4

    I love this. I am a 60 year old proud mother of a transgender child now 38 years old. I knew from the teenage years. We are not our flesh, our bodies .. we are spiritual beings & the spirit inside my baby is dominantly female. We all have masculine & feminine energy inside of us controlled by hormones. Too much estrogen puts you in female energy & too much testosterone puts you in male energy. I am also a 40 year healthcare nurse & have studied extensively on this. God bless us all every spirit.... All energy is still God breathed . Like it or not .. I have always loved and respected your energy & authenticity Tommy Davison & even more now. God bless you

  • @tonyrossbackinthedaymusicv3107
    @tonyrossbackinthedaymusicv3107 Месяц назад +16

    This interview was so good, i didn't want it to end wow

  • @peace4102
    @peace4102 Месяц назад +15

    You have to give the parents grace to respond to new space the child is in as well. The respect & understanding has to be on both sides outside of agreement

  • @anywhoo
    @anywhoo Месяц назад +13

    if the interviewer cld get out of his own way and just allow TD to speak THIS. would hv been such a viral moment

  • @bigh116
    @bigh116 Месяц назад +25

    I think instead of sitting there looking confused change the subject so this could have ended differently. Just my opinion. You had a legend on here

    • @Maegan-h7t
      @Maegan-h7t Месяц назад +5

      Became really hard to hear after a while, 10 questions? I must have missed because seems like the whole interview was about Tommy’s adult child. Rude behavior for sure.

  • @bigh116
    @bigh116 Месяц назад +21

    This man very intelligent nice interview

  • @edithhardy5759
    @edithhardy5759 Месяц назад +22

    Love your kids, you can love your child if they are sitting in prison for murder, your can stick by and love your family if they are Trans, LBQ or what ever alphabet.

  • @Helloitsme0923
    @Helloitsme0923 Месяц назад +14

    As a child of Jehovah, my job is to love others as Jehovah loves me.. It’s not for me to judge, it’s not for me to mistreat.. I’m to love and show GRACE.. PERIOD…

    • @Wyneajohnson20
      @Wyneajohnson20 Месяц назад +4

      Yes, you are supposed to love your child regardless and never mistreat them. But you don't love the sin. Tell them the truth about how God already made them the way he intended them to be and that God does not agree with them living there life like that. Even if they don't change their way of thinking, you have done your part as a parent and told them the truth. Just continue to love and pray for them.

    • @sammiwright4169
      @sammiwright4169 Месяц назад +2

      Jehovah does not condone any practices of immorality or homosexuality. However, He is a merciful and loving God who reads the hearts of mankind. He teaches us that He is a God of justice. We are to leave the judging to Him.

    • @renewashington791
      @renewashington791 Месяц назад +2

      👍🏽 Agree. As True Christians serving the True God Jehovah, we’re NOT to judge people By Their **Appearance**. In whatever way they show up, as Long as they have EARS 👂our Responsibility is to TeLL them about the Good News of God’s Kingdom and HOW that Kingdom will Serve to HEAL God’s people. Jehovah Reads and Examines our HEARTS ♥️ so as to determine whether or not we’re Inclined to be TEACHABLE and if we’re Willing to Imitate his Son Jesus Christ in being Obedient and Serving him Whole SouLed.

    • @Helloitsme0923
      @Helloitsme0923 Месяц назад

      @@renewashington791 Yes… Yes..♥️♥️♥️

    • @JerubbaalgodSlayer
      @JerubbaalgodSlayer 29 дней назад

      With much respect I don’t know where you all got your theology. It clearly states in scriptures such as *John 7:24, 1 Corinthians 6:3,* that we do judge. *2 Timothy 4:8, Hebrews 12:23, 1 Peter 2:23,* calls God the righteous Judge. We are supposed to be like Him. What about the book of Judges in the Bible. What about all the Prophets of the Bible that God sent to judge Israel for worshipping other gods? We do not condemn anyone, *John 3:17,* but we as the body of Christ we *do* judge and love, but do not condemn. Judging righteously according to the Bible does not negate one from being a child of God, it actually makes us more like Him.
      🇨🇦

  • @Wilibear1
    @Wilibear1 Месяц назад +11

    As an old gay white dude I have so much love and respect for Tommy and his way of thinking and how he treats people,he’s a truly good man.I’ve always liked him but this interview is a perfect example of how much easier it would be if were all a bit more like him
    Really enjoyable episode

  • @hanshawybloc
    @hanshawybloc Месяц назад +3

    Toure the greatest federal agent that ever lived that's a fact

  • @therenegaderev469
    @therenegaderev469 Месяц назад +13

    We are made of both male and female why is it so hard for people to understand that no matter what you look like or appear to be one may be dominating the other mentally and internally.

  • @joannemcgriff2016
    @joannemcgriff2016 Месяц назад +2

    That's right Tommy! I just told my trans male cousin that he has to accept that there is a learning curve for everyone. Just because he wants us all to fall in line with a decision to change who he is right now- That's not how life works Love Tommy!

  • @MikeMike28-c2v
    @MikeMike28-c2v Месяц назад +18

    It’s all about giving each other grace and trying. As a member of the LGBTQIA community I appreciated effort over total understanding of my lifestyle because everyone in your life won’t understand it. That’s ok. But the effort from those I love is what really mattered. We are all PEOPLE at the end of the day.

    • @mechellejonesmfj
      @mechellejonesmfj 24 дня назад

      I went out with my grandchildren the other day much to their amusment. I think I'd just about caught up with the LGBGT acronym. I read the comments and I'm now lost again as you've added more letters QIA I can guess at Q but have no idea what the IA bit means. I'm asking respectfully what is does IA mean please🙈😅?

    • @MzzMoBetta
      @MzzMoBetta 24 дня назад

      @@mechellejonesmfjQ=Queer I=Intersex A=Asexual

    • @MikeMike28-c2v
      @MikeMike28-c2v 9 дней назад

      @ lol all this stuff is confusing to me at times too so i get it…the I is for intersex and the A is asexual. I honestly had to look them up to be sure.

  • @vccvcc9694
    @vccvcc9694 Месяц назад +9

    YOU CAN SEE AND FEEL THE PAIN IN HIS EYES AND VOICE….. THIS IS PAINFUL AND SADDENING AS WELL AS PURE MADNESS 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢

  • @airlives1702
    @airlives1702 Месяц назад +5

    Wow Toure you couldn’t understand the illustration of the tiger?!😳

    • @joannemcgriff2016
      @joannemcgriff2016 Месяц назад +2

      Yeah he was having some difficulty understanding it. The analogy was spot on! You gotta love Tommy!

  • @jcjackson4446
    @jcjackson4446 Месяц назад +6

    Hey , man Tommy brought up a very valid point. You just kind of skipped over it and he kind like tried to get into it and you skipped over it again. But what he said was huge, Is incorrect. If all those black comedians or actors pull their resources to help the black communities and to bring the black culture to what it was supposed to be like everybody else does with their culture, those people could make a difference, And most of them don't. See that it will make a difference to where you see it, there's an impact to where you see it developing into something bigger something better something that we always wanted it to be. That's what I heard Tommy saying you skipped over it. But actually it should be the actual subject of your topic on a maybe a different video but you should definitely address that because it's so true. I've often said that everybody in America.They help each other in their cultures. .Like I said Asians, latinos Indians, they all help their own. They all hire their own. They don't often hire black people.Or maybe they're just fit some little quota for government tax purposes of whatever. When ever black people get in a position of power and wealth, if they hire all of their own guess what happens? They get attacked. Why are they always getting attacked? Now? You got this crooked mayor down there. Yeah, and you see him surrounded by black men and he is doing something. 'crooked, but he at least he hired his own people. Now if we could just get good honest Black men to hire their own people. Black people would lift black people up. We wouldn't be in this position, but we've been trained not to lift each other up. We've been trained to depend on the white man for whatever we get and go through. And the ones of us that break out and make our own thing. We've also been trained to not really give back to our community. We really sterotype our own also. It make you start to wonder.Are there any black groups of substance who are straight up and honest And can lead the black people in America that can lead bkqcj people to a better productive future...... Before all or most end up breedung out.

  • @bettyA7598
    @bettyA7598 Месяц назад +1

    I love this guy, Tommy Davidson ❤️

  • @obsessionlovely3380
    @obsessionlovely3380 Месяц назад +1

    🗣️What an amazing interview with the 🗣️ICONICALLY, FUNNY KING TOMMY DAVIDSON👑😻😍🥰❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @tishsmiddy71
    @tishsmiddy71 Месяц назад +1

    You’re a great actor, comedian and I love you❤

  • @ot7888
    @ot7888 Месяц назад

    I have never adapted to his comedy, but love him as an actor and respect him more now for understanding, you have to let people live their own life.

  • @knowthyself903
    @knowthyself903 23 дня назад +1

    When you don't know your history and continue to refer to Black people as second-class citizens, it reflects a deeper issue with self-identity. Understanding the past is crucial to comprehending our present. Our history did not begin with slavery. While some of our ancestors were enslaved, this is not the entirety of our story. It's essential to study and reflect on our history to avoid accepting false narratives. Ignoring these truths can lead to psychological problems, heartache, and pain in the long run.
    Key Facts:
    1. Historical Misrepresentation: Referring to Black people as second-class citizens ignores the rich and diverse history that predates slavery.
    2. Importance of Self-Identity: Understanding and embracing one's history is vital for a strong sense of self-identity.
    3. Psychological Impact: Accepting false narratives and ignoring historical truths can lead to long-term psychological issues and emotional distress.
    Sometimes, you have to rock the boat to gain a better understanding and reclaim the influence over your children. This is part of being a parent. It's not about accepting their bad behavior; it's about showing them that you love them while making it clear that certain actions are wrong. We cannot continue to tolerate bad behavior in our community. We must be accountable for our actions and those of our children, teaching them the importance of responsibility and proper conduct.

  • @MrSolonolo
    @MrSolonolo Месяц назад +1

    I love the quote : " LGBT whatever you want to be” Thank you very much. Furthermore, if we think about it, introducing large doses of testosterone to the system during transition might naturally explain the tendency to apply force as a means of getting one's way. Also something which is very logical and which we are all now learning to become accustomed to. And, come on folks, we know that a trans-man is a man and a trans-woman is a woman and neither are natural men or women. All of these can and do exist in the same space.

  • @tysonb3568
    @tysonb3568 Месяц назад +21

    Marlon Wayans also....
    Trans child.
    Good for them.

  • @pro_noir
    @pro_noir 21 день назад

    great interview ❤

  • @sammiwright4169
    @sammiwright4169 Месяц назад +4

    Tommie is right in his thinking. God created male and female. PERIOD. Due to imperfection and the influence of the demons, people have alienated themselves from God and choose to do what is contrary to God's written law. They may feel the way they feel and deeply believe that they are not what God created them to be, but it is impossible for God to lie or have an error in Judgment. He is perfect in His thinking and His way of doing things will always be perfect. We are the ones who have been born in sin and inherited imperfection. Thus, causes us to sin and have a wayward way of thinking. We are exactly who God created us to be and that is MALE AND FEMALE. There is NO other acceptance by God. He is Holy and pure. However, He is the ultimate Judge and forgiver of sins by those who desire to please Him and do what is right in His eyes.

    • @beblessed2791
      @beblessed2791 Месяц назад

      Thanks for that one... Amen

    • @renewashington791
      @renewashington791 Месяц назад +1

      YES!! 👏🏽 👏🏽 I couldn’t have stated it better myself 😊 There’s NO NEED for ANY of us to be in Confusion or Not In Agreement with what Jehovah BLessed us to be (either FemaLe or MaLe). God KNEW us even whiLe we were forming in our Mother’s womb.

  • @Angela-pi6zc
    @Angela-pi6zc Месяц назад +15

    Live and let live!🎉

  • @evonza4858
    @evonza4858 11 дней назад

    YOU are supposed to love your child regardless 😉👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @LinuxHurts
    @LinuxHurts Месяц назад +4

    This guy is a poor interviewer--did you invite Tommy to speak or did you invite him to hear you speak? Christ...

  • @mzwisdom7504
    @mzwisdom7504 Месяц назад +8

    LIVE AND LET LIVE. ASE'O

  • @jrod3260
    @jrod3260 Месяц назад

    Not to take away from this great interview,but Bruce Lee, is still remembered. 👍😎👍

  • @knowthyself903
    @knowthyself903 23 дня назад

    When we accept bad behaviors, even though we know they're harmful, it often stems from a desire to make everyone feel accepted, especially our children. However, tolerating such behaviors can lead to heartache and pain. We might put on a brave face, pretending it doesn't bother us, but this facade can indicate underlying psychological issues. People often need counseling to address these problems. This isn't disrespectful-it's the truth.
    Key Facts About Psychological Issues Masking Behind Happiness:
    1. Emotional Suppression: People often hide their true feelings, pretending to be happy when they are actually experiencing negative emotions like sadness or frustration².
    2. Social Pressure: Societal expectations and the desire to fit in can compel individuals to project an image of constant happiness, even when they are struggling internally².
    3. Mental Health Conditions: Conditions such as anxiety and depression can lead individuals to mask their symptoms to avoid stigma and judgment³.
    4. Smiling Depression: This term describes individuals who appear happy on the outside but are dealing with depression internally⁴.
    Addressing these issues through counseling and support is crucial for genuine well-being and happiness.

  • @marcusscranton
    @marcusscranton Месяц назад +7

    I this 🎉
    Is great to go into a conversation without preconceptions of what someone would say 😅😂
    Thanks King for demonstrating What pure Love Looks, Sounds Like.
    I’m saying, I heard you say, Loud and Clear; I Loved my Daughter prior to her decision to make a change to her Body not yours.
    Best answer a Human (King) could give was, I Loved Her prior why would I Stop🎉🎉
    We need to hear more of that, what Pure Love looks like.
    I also heard u say u Love yourself which allows you to Love everyone 🎉🎉
    I’ll end with this;
    Love overcomes what we may think is an emotional transition simply because, we’ve never heard what was spoken before.
    Or we were Taught they’re going to Hell😢
    The only skin I fit in is my own and I Love being in my Skin 🎉❤
    Love Being in your’s🎉❤

  • @thestranger2830
    @thestranger2830 Месяц назад

    ❤I want to see Tommy back on tv or movies❤ or at least write book❤ i enjoyed this interview ❤❤

  • @marquelfields870
    @marquelfields870 Месяц назад

    Toure is definitely legendary
    Hw he aint ben in my algorithm 🤔

  • @CMustaine-ky5hv
    @CMustaine-ky5hv Месяц назад

    Hey Tommy!You’re beautiful.I’ll always remember our date at Disneyland years and years ago my friend

  • @zgizellecozart9746
    @zgizellecozart9746 Месяц назад +1

    🙋🏾‍♀️ A conversation we need to talk about everyone in the world don’t want to be a parent because because most people have this perception, that if you a woman or a man, you’re supposed to have children and be a parent or especially, if you wanted you just supposed to be a mother, which that is not true and if you’re not a mother you look that like something is mentally wrong with you because you don’t have children and it’s because you didn’t wanna have children not because any medical reason you just chose not to be your mother it doesn’t make you less of a female and it doesn’t make you a bad human being, and it doesn’t mean that you have psychological issues or you’re not fit. That’s why you don’t have children what it is with a lot of women like me you deliberately choose not to have children not to be a mother it’s just a choice. It doesn’t make you less of a woman less of a human being, and it needs to be talked about and the reason why I’m saying this is because some of these comments I’m getting because of my first comment, saying I am so happy I chose not to have children to have a grand children in this jacked up world and they come out funny and some of your people took what I said a totally different way. .An for a long time it has been a myth, and I don’t know where this myth came from but the myth is you supposed to be a parent everyone supposed to have children. And women who choose, deliberately not to have children are found upon called all type of names we selfish something is wrong with us. We probably would’ve made made bad parents, so it was good. We didn’t have any all type of weird thinking, which none of those have anything to do with a woman or a man deliberately choosing not to be a parent because they don’t want to deal with that 98 or 80% responsibility that goes along with the being a parent if you want to be a positive. And have positive children and they just want to have the freedom to do whatever they want to do .And so many people have a problem with my comment about me not wanting to have children .so let me set the record straight. I knew I didn’t want children at 14 that had nothing to do with me being fit to have children I’m new at age 14. I did not want to have children growing up seeing and hearing the horror stories, my mother, head of being the oldest of 20 children and her mother making her responsible for all of those children my grandmother had my mother at age 14 then she had my mother sister at 16 and the rest of her children was by her second husband my mother, being the oldest was the mother basically I see my aunts my uncles having children and being lousy parents I see my first generation of cousins having children at 13 and 14 not enjoying their childhood because they were parents and I seen I establish at 17 having children is 85% stressful if you want to be a productive parent and have productive children grow into human beings there’s a lot you had to deal with this choices. You have to make because you have children you don’t have freedom you don’t have free will because everything is it should be about your children.. and I wanted my free will my freedom to do what I want to be who I won’t go away. I want not to answer to anyone if I chose to have no children it’s all about you if I don’t want to cook I don’t want to eat I don’t have to I just wanna eat if I don’t want to take a shower with these are examples if I don’t want to babe I don’t have to because all I have is me my time is spent on me I can get up take my shower will go wherever I want to go. I don’t have to think no worries About anything babysitters who’s going to harm my child doctors appointments, book, braces, shots, what school my children gonna go to pay for college Pampa, close paying a full for children. All I had was me and that’s what I wanted my choice. It had nothing to do with psychological, and nothing like that and there’s a lot of women out here who are children , free happy. Now a circumstance came up in my life at age 33 where I had a choice. My best friend was murdered. No one wanted to take her children because her children came from abuse, because my best friend Moore, who was murdered the father abuse the children, so nobody wanted to take them so family friends asked me if I take if I would take them because they knew I had a loving heart and I took my children my God children and I raise them. I got them psychological help. I change my whole life, so everything I didn’t want to do that have to do with having children I end up doing and I did well and I did it with love and my three babies all our graduates to doctors one lawyer. And I never threw it in their face. I took them as a favor. I took them raise them because I love them they my babies and they love me they they appreciate me. They love me so much and I them have one grandbaby and I’m 61.. so miss me with all these negative comments about my choice and implying all type of weird ass stuff. The weird stuff is this dude and his Trini chow and you parents who having children coming out naturally one way, and then they say they wanna be something else, so they just say they something else y’all are the weirdos with psychological issues cause that’s weird. You both the sun and your son want to be the mother a female you both the female and she want to be a man but that’s your business I don’t have any weird children. My children are normal My babies are normal..
    Nothing is wrong with a woman or man not wanted to be a parent that’s normal. Nothing is wrong with that. It has nothing to do with you being unfit, psychological damage broken don’t have enough money you have a Lotta educated men and women who just don’t want to be parents, a lot of you and these comments are making it seem like all just because I said I don’t want I never wanted to have children and I’m happy something is wrong no the fuck everything is great that’s my right and there’s a lot of us women out here who do not have children don’t want no children see old doctors who don’t wanna be in a parrot Yeah I need to stop. This just shows me from some of the comments how psychologically trauma y’all are y’all got some issues who think just because a person choose not to be a parent. It Hass to be that the person wasn’t fit so that’s why they chose not to have children. Something is wrong with you if you think that and I’m done with this shit, I said what the f I said i’m done with it, and I will not be replying to any foolishness. Nothing I’m going to smoke my ganja now.🥰

  • @groovegroove2968
    @groovegroove2968 18 дней назад

    I wish the interviewer would just let Tommy speak.

  • @frankguzman4739
    @frankguzman4739 Месяц назад

    I think Tommy got mixed up with the songs .... Rock The Boat - The Hughes Corporation and To Each His Own - Faith Hope and Charity. .. both, good songs. Great interview btw ...

  • @jcjackson4446
    @jcjackson4446 Месяц назад +2

    What are you guys talking about. The latch key kid phase did not start until the eighties. It may have been happening with some kids in the 70's but it wasn't a common thing. On the East Coast or the West Coast, I'm 63 years old. And I remember dudes that's not how it was going. I mean, I was a foster kid and my foster mother was always home. During the day time she worked at night as a nurse, but she was always home during the daytime. She got home at 7 o'clock in the morning and she cooked breakfast and she made us lunch when we came home from school when we used to still come home from school and then there was always dinner and then she went to work at 1130 at night and then her husband watched us. Because he drove a cab during the day. And I grew up on the East Coast and I grew up in a pretty dominantly black neighborhood and there was no latch key kids ever when I was growing up. By time that stuff started happening. Like I said, I was like already over. Eighteen.
    The only people who were doing that kind of stuff were people who wasn't even working they were on welfare.
    running around leaving their kids at home Over in the projects.
    Because the boom of single motherhood started happening in the 70s, late 70s and 80s and on, til this day. And most women that had a lot of children and were not married was on welfare.They was not even working.
    But then you had those single. supermoms.And they were not common and they were the mom's that didn't get on welfare.They went out and worked and had to leave their kids during certain times but those women were not common. Tommy was born in 1963. At that time we were still in the era of illegitimacy when kids were born unwed mothers. Latch key didn't start to the eighties. And even then it was predominantly with single mothers.

    • @forthetasteofblood
      @forthetasteofblood Месяц назад +5

      @jcjackson4446 Just because you (and some in your neighborhood) didn't experience it doesn't mean it wasn't a thing. I am gen x and also grew up on the East Coast, in a predominantly black neighborhood, and the majority of us were born and raised in 2 parent households and the majority of us were latch key kids. The reason being is because the majority parents worked full time jobs and worked the same or similar hours.

  • @Sheelz88
    @Sheelz88 Месяц назад +6

    Mr. Davidson seems to be a very thoughtful and well-meaning person. It's clear that he's ardently trying to navigate the world with empathy. However, it's very clear that he's still coming to terms with having a trans son.
    He's right that grace should be given to those who are still trying to grasp the concept of gender identity--particularly those of their loved ones. But, regardless, there's something to be said for actually doing the work toward understanding and acceptance. I don't think it means you get an endless pass to accidentally dead-name or misgender someone.

    • @bxxxxc
      @bxxxxc Месяц назад +5

      Well said, I'm sure it's an entirely different animal being a parent of a trans individual rather than being a friend, sibling or child of one. The idea of gender being binary is so unconsciously ingrained in our culture that even the most accepting of parents probably experience some level of trauma when a child they raised develops an identity different than the one they've always seen. Adjusting your perception doesn't happen overnight. Much respect to Tommy

  • @DeediLee
    @DeediLee Месяц назад +3

    Hmmm he may have had someone behind his back in hollyweird watchin his child. Im just sayin we'll never know. Its plenty of celebs with rainbow kids think about it🤔

  • @jsyon2282
    @jsyon2282 Месяц назад +2

    All I want from the trans community is to be completely honest when they are dating & asked were u born a male or female.

  • @greymatters7039
    @greymatters7039 Месяц назад

    Boosie needs to watch this and come to terms with his daughter’s personhood. It’s NOT a choice. It’s not going to change.

  • @1AEROSOL.1PUFF
    @1AEROSOL.1PUFF Месяц назад

    WHERE DO I FIND THE KATT T SHIRT 👕?

  • @DarrylCUR
    @DarrylCUR Месяц назад +3

    Gosh. This interview was so cringe. Especially Tommy's commitment to biological and evolutionary essentialism. I hope you both can read more journal articles, books, and talk to more TGNC people to better understand this topic. The New School has a few talks on RUclips. There was a NPR podcast series called Tested. Duke University has free articles from their Transgender Studies Quarterly. Andrea Long Chu has works. Please! There is also something here about colonization that has to be unraveled. It touches everything.

  • @InheritedInsanity73
    @InheritedInsanity73 Месяц назад +2

    Toure is trying his best to bait Tommy....very distasteful

  • @jesusisgoat8656
    @jesusisgoat8656 Месяц назад +2

    It's okay to say "her" mister Tommy. You don't have to go against your standards to show her your love. My son respects the hell out of me because I refuse to call his partner the gender she wants to be called. Some of us just won't budge. It's not because we hate anyone. Quite the opposite.

  • @Nanbebe7
    @Nanbebe7 Месяц назад

    People are way too concerned what people they do not even know are doing in their beds. 😂

  • @brenology
    @brenology 22 дня назад

    I got lost at the end…. It’s like Trump started talking 🤣

  • @SOI-wl2lo
    @SOI-wl2lo Месяц назад +1

    Katt is honestly wild for putting TD on his line up 😫😫😅

  • @yvonnecato3848
    @yvonnecato3848 12 дней назад

    I like the questions. He is trying to defend his child. I like the tiger analogy in regards to how he deals with situations. I understand that when his child came to him he was not prepared but he had no choice.
    You may never know that it could be a case where you would have done the same thing in his time if he had the opportunity.; and not that necessarily but wanting to go against the grain about something but it would not have worked or he was not brave enough.
    Like for instance jumping a white man in defence.
    Just saying.
    I feel his pain though which I thinks he is masking.

  • @efrenojeda949
    @efrenojeda949 4 дня назад

    Gotta stop the background music

  • @LyndaHemsley
    @LyndaHemsley Месяц назад +2

    We are as christian’s commanded by our Lord and Savior to LOVE EVERYONE BUT HATE THE SIN!

  • @tonymckinney1355
    @tonymckinney1355 Месяц назад +16

    People dont find it weird that all of a sudden most of these Hollywood entertainer kids are gay or trans. This is ridiculous

    • @AnneMcGillicuddy
      @AnneMcGillicuddy Месяц назад +2

      What are the odds?🤔

    • @nothx512
      @nothx512 Месяц назад +2

      It's what gets them sponsors....I doubt if they disagree with the lifestyle or want it to remain private they'll be getting interviews

    • @djcoolcliff
      @djcoolcliff Месяц назад +2

      I was thinking the same thing! It’s a benefit to being this way seems to me too!

    • @kerenjeanne3556
      @kerenjeanne3556 Месяц назад +3

      The enemy of our eternal souls need a bigger platform to normalize and encourage wrong. The enemy KNOWS we dont understand God is on His way back and TIME (as we know it) is about to end. The enemy of souls want as many people to go with him when time ends.

    • @Andtheyworkout
      @Andtheyworkout Месяц назад

      “Most of these Hollywood entertainer kids are gay or trans”?
      Really, most? Or just more than you’re comfortable with?

  • @nothx512
    @nothx512 Месяц назад +1

    I doubt Tommy Lee would've got an interview if he had a different opinion in regards to this personal matter

  • @tr.completefaith6722
    @tr.completefaith6722 Месяц назад

    Society still adjusting to blacks yes lord.

  • @zgizellecozart9746
    @zgizellecozart9746 Месяц назад +1

    🙋🏾‍♀️😳😳 this shit is crazy. What are the stars children being taunts I’m so glad I’m child free. I chose to be child free of all the headaches and trauma and crap that y’all parents go through raising children having children to worry, about .you Gotta be a certain type of this and that not to have navigation affected on your children and hop and 🙏🏾🙏🏾 yo children list an be batter then yoo or don't follow your mistakes in lif.Havein children is so much more not abt you but abt yo children your not free do as u want when u want or how you want
    I’m so happy 🥰🥰 and still happy I have no children to have grand children and grandchildren in this world dumb stupid lost then turned out generations to start thinking funny because I’m a tell y'all something they would not be alive and I would be alive💯.

    • @crnkmnky
      @crnkmnky Месяц назад

      What even is this comment? 😑

    • @SunyattaAmen
      @SunyattaAmen Месяц назад +4

      Agreed. I am also glad you are child-free. 😅

    • @zgizellecozart9746
      @zgizellecozart9746 Месяц назад

      @SunyattaAmen but don't get it twisted, I raised my best friend who was murdered 3 children and 3 of them graduate from college 2doctors 1lawyers married normal marriage, And they all have a healthy mental. I got them psychological help when they were young. For all three of beautiful human beings, and I did then that proud of my an my CHILDREN 👏🏾 . FROM A WOMEN WHO NEVER WANT CHILDREN NO FUNNY CHILDREN💯

    • @scibear9944
      @scibear9944 Месяц назад +1

      ​@@crnkmnkyIKR? I thought i was having a stroke trying to read all that😂😂😂

    • @scibear9944
      @scibear9944 Месяц назад +1

      Respect to you for recognizing that you're not fit to be a parent. So many folks have kids and shouldn't.
      That being said, I get the impression (correct me if I'm wrong) that you somehow think you're better than folks with kids for being childless. I'm childless too, but I don't think I'm better than folks who choose to have children. Takes all kinds to make the world go round.

  • @rymccu4837
    @rymccu4837 Месяц назад

    Interesting

  • @TheOrdinal81
    @TheOrdinal81 Месяц назад +5

    Wait just because you're black means you understand gay? I don't...

    • @dmurray3653
      @dmurray3653 Месяц назад +2

      And it's okay, we're not suppose to understand any and everything no matter what it might be.

    • @iluvmyboba
      @iluvmyboba Месяц назад +3

      I truly don't know why people compare the two. One has ABSOLUTELY nothing to do with the other. One day you don't say, "I'm white now, accept it."

    • @TheOrdinal81
      @TheOrdinal81 Месяц назад +2

      @iluvmyboba right what does backdoor
      Have to do with ones race?

    • @scibear9944
      @scibear9944 Месяц назад

      Please..black folks (all racial minorities, really) SHOULD have some understanding of what it's like to be LGBT because both groups have been persecuted by the bigotry of society at large just because of who they are. This is why black homophobes are hypocrites, as are racist lgbt folks. Instead of fighting each other over stupid sht, we need to stand together and fight the real enemy.
      It's not that difficult.

    • @kerenjeanne3556
      @kerenjeanne3556 Месяц назад +2

      Zakly. I hate when they equate me with something God calls an abomination. Also, I cannot hide my color.

  • @gerardgreen538
    @gerardgreen538 Месяц назад

    David it’s doesn’t have nothing to do with the church or religion but it is a sin I don’t hate gayes or transgender but your salvation matters where your soul is going after life on earth matters

  • @nero3134
    @nero3134 7 дней назад

    Accepting this nonsense is more damaging than anything. Guide them towards God not away.

  • @aaronauger7602
    @aaronauger7602 29 дней назад

    SORRY...YOU DON'T UNDERSTAND IT...READ YOUR BIBLE MAN

  • @smokesolid8927
    @smokesolid8927 25 дней назад

    Like I understand u try get deep but I wanna laugh man

  • @Kayla_Giirrl
    @Kayla_Giirrl Месяц назад +4

    Sick.🤦🏽‍♀️ Its no way i would raise my kid in Hollywood! And keep them out of social media. This is abnormal and they are trying to push this on Black ppl.

  • @oliverv291
    @oliverv291 Месяц назад

    When Tore going to come out..

    • @crystalpinkston1718
      @crystalpinkston1718 Месяц назад +2

      Since he's been married to the same person since 2005, why would this be necessary?

  • @blackraintv2551
    @blackraintv2551 Месяц назад

    I'll say it I AIN'T WITH IT u will have to deal with the trials and tribulations of life I'm not playing imaginary with u that's why children are confused now

  • @tonymckinney1355
    @tonymckinney1355 Месяц назад +2

    Tommy is gay himself

    • @cassandradenise3037
      @cassandradenise3037 Месяц назад

      Just because he accepts his child the way that he is or choose to be he's considered gay himself? 🙄🤦🏽‍♀️.. I guess Beyonce is gay too, because she accepts her mother in law who's gay as well. They say kids say the darnest things, but it seems like the adults do as well.

  • @rooseveltwilliams3272
    @rooseveltwilliams3272 Месяц назад +1

    It's the gossip about the children, that hurts the parents. The parents want grandchildren not granddykes nor grand sissies.

    • @scibear9944
      @scibear9944 Месяц назад

      Spoken like a true edumacated man🙄

  • @debrasloan5541
    @debrasloan5541 Месяц назад +1

    I agree love your child , but don’t love the wrong homosexuality is against God yes God loves you but he will not except the SIN of homosexuality

  • @jamelstokely4323
    @jamelstokely4323 Месяц назад

    Why do all y'all kids come out weird

    • @Damidas
      @Damidas Месяц назад +1

      the agenda

  • @edmundjarveaux3763
    @edmundjarveaux3763 Месяц назад +1

    GOD IS NOT AN INCOMPETENT CREATOR!!!!!....AND EVERY SOUL HE CREATED WAS INTENDED TO BE AS HE CREATED THEM MALE AND FEMALE!!! MAN KIND HAS CREATED DOUBT OF HIS CREATION WITHIN THEIR OWN MIND AND EXCUSES ARE MANIFESTED BECAUSE TRUTH IS EMBEDDED WITHIN EACH CREATIONS ESSENCE!
    GOD NOT MAKE ANY MISTAKES AND HE DOES NOT NEED HELP KNOWING WHO HE CREATED!

  • @jamielunes1841
    @jamielunes1841 28 дней назад

    Interesting