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  • @AsianBoss
    @AsianBoss  Год назад +2

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  • @Ready4theTakeOff
    @Ready4theTakeOff 7 лет назад +20959

    note that being skinny doesn't necessarily mean being healthy

    • @Ruukas9
      @Ruukas9 6 лет назад +1001

      YES,but WHEN you are fat you allways are unhealthy.

    • @bcican7194
      @bcican7194 6 лет назад +593

      That also goes for chubby or fat people. The real healthy body is the fit type.

    • @bcican7194
      @bcican7194 6 лет назад +183

      Also most Asians are skinny or skinny fat, so it's pretty normal.

    • @elishevamillner6870
      @elishevamillner6870 6 лет назад +315

      The "fit" type of body is NOT what a fit body looks like.Its just the most unachievable size for most people so weight loss and work out companies use it to make money because people will always have to keep coming back. If you think about times in history where there has been food shortages the people with supposedly "fit" bodies would have died first because they would have so little fat reserves,thats also part of the reason so few people have that body type. Its called natural selection.
      (sorry i just get really mad with the fitness industry no offence to u personally)

    • @bcican7194
      @bcican7194 6 лет назад +107

      Okay? But it’s better than obesity isn’t it?

  • @user-lv8ul3ed9i
    @user-lv8ul3ed9i 4 года назад +10780

    I like how the Japanese girls actually said “westerners have different bone structure, taller,” etc. they’re not ignorant they’re aware of how their standards are and don’t judge others necessarily.

    • @stingrae919
      @stingrae919 4 года назад +312

      AmandaG182 yeah no, it’s not that us Americans are built differently... we’re just fat.
      Edit: alright, I’m sorry y’all didn’t notice this is a joke. I’m sorry. I guess it wasn’t that good of one, jeez. I know that we are built differently. I can see how this could be perceived as ignorant or insensitive. I apologize.

    • @fairy5189
      @fairy5189 4 года назад +561

      Melody Meloetta remember that Americans are not the only westerners

    • @user-lv8ul3ed9i
      @user-lv8ul3ed9i 4 года назад +273

      Melody Meloetta yeah no Melody actually Asians have smaller frames naturally. Not every American is fat or thin etc. she’s stating the facts about her ethnicity nice try tho

    • @WalterLiddy
      @WalterLiddy 4 года назад +96

      There's no difference in bone structure. Larger people are heavy by a proportionate amount. There's no world in which a 5' tall woman should weigh 83 pounds.

    • @stingrae919
      @stingrae919 4 года назад +3

      Slickfoot that... that was clearly a joke

  • @triky5384
    @triky5384 7 лет назад +12517

    I did not see even one person that could be considered even slightly fat on this video

    • @Kat_Author2021
      @Kat_Author2021 7 лет назад +257

      IKR! I'm chubbier in the stomach than those girls... :(

    • @TheToneBender
      @TheToneBender 6 лет назад +338

      The last one was, but not massively fat. The others are out of their fucking minds.

    • @evad4351
      @evad4351 6 лет назад +512

      Many asians gain fat in their cheeks, I don't think you can evaluate whether she's "fat" when she is wearing a coat.

    • @LissaDIY
      @LissaDIY 6 лет назад +39

      triky5384 tje last one, but in a cute way

    • @femme_fatalist
      @femme_fatalist 6 лет назад +47

      I saw a couple that were not fat per se but kind of "chubby". Like if they lost 5 to 10 kg they'd look fantastic. The other girls looked about average size for Japan, probably 45 to 55 kg depending on height. I'm 162cm and 53kg but I want to lose weight too. I don't wanna be 45kg or less like most of the girls are saying, but I think 47-48kg would be perfect for me.

  • @srinidhimadurai5299
    @srinidhimadurai5299 4 года назад +3954

    when almost no person feels comfortable in their skin, we have failed as a society.

    • @SalmanM190
      @SalmanM190 4 года назад +117

      we've failed society a couple of millennia ago

    • @DomainAspect
      @DomainAspect 4 года назад +73

      I mean feeling comfortable being 500 pounds is a death sentence.

    • @patatislekker145
      @patatislekker145 3 года назад +75

      @@DomainAspect that’s true, I think that the person who wrote this comment meant that even people who are pretty thin still see themselves as fat though.

    • @addy1294
      @addy1294 3 года назад +10

      its not societys fault lol its yours

    • @Moonchild77777
      @Moonchild77777 3 года назад +26

      When that girl said 83 lbs I was like 🙀.

  • @inneedofbeans3385
    @inneedofbeans3385 5 лет назад +6591

    the last girl is so sad, she’s beautiful and you can her weight is hurting her confidence.

    • @marteumar8429
      @marteumar8429 5 лет назад +434

      inneedofbeans it’s not her weight that is hurting her confidence, it’s people.. poor girl

    • @bfbvouabeorbvoaervure963
      @bfbvouabeorbvoaervure963 5 лет назад +27

      inneedofbeans
      Doesn’t change the fact that her weight is unhealthy.

    • @dorisma658
      @dorisma658 5 лет назад +160

      @@bfbvouabeorbvoaervure963 how do you know she is unhealthy? you know her personally?

    • @bfbvouabeorbvoaervure963
      @bfbvouabeorbvoaervure963 5 лет назад +34

      Doris m
      Being overweight is unhealthy. It causes knee issues, among others. Obesity is the second leading cause of cancer.

    • @dorisma658
      @dorisma658 5 лет назад +114

      @@bfbvouabeorbvoaervure963 but she is not that overweight that she would have health problems i think

  • @jesssc402
    @jesssc402 5 лет назад +6961

    “Sometimes, I feel like they are judging me... That’s when I feel hurt.” 😞

    • @poppymoon4122
      @poppymoon4122 5 лет назад +26

      😭😭😭

    • @summergray9481
      @summergray9481 4 года назад +133

      She was on the verge of tears... you catch it right at the end. 😢

    • @randomname7546
      @randomname7546 4 года назад +8

      Well it’s their own fault for not staying healthy

    • @robinolsson7003
      @robinolsson7003 4 года назад +95

      @@randomname7546 She doesn't look unhealthy at all though.

    • @anessamartinez5828
      @anessamartinez5828 4 года назад +48

      Random Name you’re the problem

  • @Abby_Liu
    @Abby_Liu 5 лет назад +7016

    Japanese women: *speaks about body images*
    everyone in this comment section: about to fight everyone who made the last girl feel bad

    • @bltnbros122
      @bltnbros122 5 лет назад +6

      U seem skinny

    • @abnormalgut4014
      @abnormalgut4014 5 лет назад +49

      @@bltnbros122 she looks fine to me

    • @bellejpg
      @bellejpg 5 лет назад +110

      its sad to see people bodyshame ppl for being “fat” or “too skinny”. its gross. “you should eat more/less” “do you have an ed?” its almost like we’re not allowed to be ourselves anymore.

    • @bltnbros122
      @bltnbros122 5 лет назад +14

      @@bellejpg you should see bodybuilders stories also... ''hey bro u should stop a bit, u r getting too huge'' ''do you even lift bro?''...

    • @bellejpg
      @bellejpg 5 лет назад +6

      BLTNBROS YES skhdjsbdbd the gym i go to its all guys who try to impress people on the leg press w only 200 lmao. theyre the same people that have trouble going up the stairs because of all of the heart problems

  • @zetafish7347
    @zetafish7347 4 года назад +1875

    The thing is that they're literally not fat in the slightest.

    • @abdullahbinjahed6900
      @abdullahbinjahed6900 3 года назад +55

      maybe by your standards ... not in Asia those

    • @username692
      @username692 3 года назад +20

      yeah then you come to the states and everyone is like 5'9 and morbidly obese

    • @tacocatt6808
      @tacocatt6808 3 года назад +27

      I wouldn’t have classified any of the women in the video as even “chubby” some of them were “thin” some were “normal weight” but non chubby, never mind fat or obese. I wish they could be allowed to feel healthy, they’re genuinely not overweight

    • @simpingovermypfp4762
      @simpingovermypfp4762 3 года назад +9

      They look normal and healthy

    • @cactusamber1703
      @cactusamber1703 2 года назад +8

      @@abdullahbinjahed6900im asian and they are not, they are just with normal body weight

  • @jordanmchighlander9365
    @jordanmchighlander9365 4 года назад +6149

    "Where did you get your ideas of body weight?"
    Multiple people: Models.
    Me: Height weight charts.

  • @jordansullivan5764
    @jordansullivan5764 6 лет назад +3853

    Huh. It's so interesting that they don't judge westerners by the same standard at all, saying that they look proportionate...but they have such a strict standard for themselves and fellow Japanese people.

    • @maruwan-dono
      @maruwan-dono 5 лет назад +158

      they dont say what they mean usually so u can guess . also in an other video they were talking like westerns are big and thats is one of te reasons japanese do not sit down next to them on trains for example lol :D

    • @lazywagon
      @lazywagon 5 лет назад +43

      It's the same in all south Asian and east Asian countries. Beauty standards are really really strict and especially so for girls.

    • @IRockLikeISaid
      @IRockLikeISaid 5 лет назад +98

      They are being polite.

    • @oneofthosemoments4564
      @oneofthosemoments4564 5 лет назад +45

      @@Angell_Lee really? Most of japanese men i saw on the internet said they prefer western women because they have bigger feminine features, such as breasts or hips.

    • @MrPanzerCatYT
      @MrPanzerCatYT 5 лет назад +3

      They dont want to experience 10830°F of freedom again is why

  • @giovannabeatriz9791
    @giovannabeatriz9791 7 лет назад +3791

    I could literally hear the anguish on the last girl's voice.

    • @darKILLusionnn
      @darKILLusionnn 7 лет назад +502

      Giovanna Beatriz Same. i feel like she was really holding back some tears.

    • @Quanahtorri7
      @Quanahtorri7 7 лет назад +248

      she was the hottest tho

    • @minamina99
      @minamina99 7 лет назад +258

      She seemed to have the best sense of style of the whole bunch, too. She's beautiful and knows how to look good. I'd wish I could tell her that...

    • @tericullen91
      @tericullen91 7 лет назад +140

      I agree, she's so beautiful though :(

    • @bengorillachristiandude6438
      @bengorillachristiandude6438 7 лет назад +17

      So would I

  • @rzya.11
    @rzya.11 3 года назад +443

    the last girl, it looked like she was almost tearing up. its so sad :(
    she is beautiful and has beautiful skin.

  • @luvly7519
    @luvly7519 5 лет назад +9946

    "I skips my meals"
    "I cut off my food"
    There's a difference between a *diet* and *starvation* 😔

    • @blue_cameron
      @blue_cameron 5 лет назад +343

      well its calorie restriction and fasting not really starvation. Starvation would be when organs and stuff are being broken down in the body for fuel rather than fat

    • @は私です彼の名前
      @は私です彼の名前 5 лет назад +272

      Umm, skipping one meal does not translate into "starvation".

    • @percyap4271
      @percyap4271 5 лет назад +84

      @@は私です彼の名前 skipping meals is still bad. It can cause stomach problems (My brother's gf and my cousin had Ulcer because of skipping meals)

    • @percyap4271
      @percyap4271 5 лет назад +34

      @@blue_cameron It's fine if they take small meal for a diet, but skippings meals is bad for the health. It can lead to Ulcer, My cousin skipped meals and she became sick of that.

    • @YskarAlbumLuna
      @YskarAlbumLuna 5 лет назад +40

      You can eat 10kg of vegetables everyday and you'll still lose weight, that's why vegetables are the best diet, you can eat it until you explode and you'll still be skinny af

  • @paperwormscat9760
    @paperwormscat9760 6 лет назад +5132

    The slightly chubby girl in the last minute was honestly the cutest of them all.
    And I find it crazy that all the slim girls thought they were fat.

    • @jazzbollywood
      @jazzbollywood 6 лет назад +61

      She's like a cute teddy bear.

    • @qtfusiondance
      @qtfusiondance 6 лет назад +69

      She’s the only down to earth one

    • @aaronsmith1023
      @aaronsmith1023 5 лет назад +34

      I wouldn't say she was the cutest of them all(I have my favorite), but she was definitely cute and really insightful which made her more attractive.

    • @jasmyne5411
      @jasmyne5411 5 лет назад +16

      It’s just because they have rounder faces. When they look in the mirror they’ll see the roundness and feel like they’re fatter than they are.
      I get that way sometimes so that’s what I’m speaking on :( So I mean don’t think it’s fact what I’m saying lol

    • @prazertv
      @prazertv 5 лет назад +6

      She was not slightly chubby. She was really chubby and definitely no where near being the cutest. Just admit it, you have a fat fetish.

  • @sonjapongratz8935
    @sonjapongratz8935 5 лет назад +2348

    the last girl was really cute and beautiful and that she begins to cry its so heartbreaking ..

    • @TastyQueen
      @TastyQueen 5 лет назад +51

      @@ahabgaddis7277 so what? Better then starving yourself

    • @bltnbros122
      @bltnbros122 5 лет назад

      @Illiterati not true, cause she literally said she wasnt fat in the past...

    • @christabel7718
      @christabel7718 5 лет назад +22

      @@ahabgaddis7277 She's freakin cute and plus she's not fat Japanese girls are skinny but with round faces sometimes they have a chubby face and skinny body or she could be thick but even if she is she's gorgeous af.

    • @User-1939t9
      @User-1939t9 4 года назад +4

      @@bltnbros122 yeah but we mean the kind of fat that affects your health. yes she does have more fat than the people around her but it doesn't look like she's physically affected in anyway. in other words she's still healthy.

    • @colin-kun3611
      @colin-kun3611 4 года назад +3

      Illiterati yeah.. tbh she didn’t look fat to me at all.. compared to the land whales we see in the west.

  • @walkingcorps3x
    @walkingcorps3x 4 года назад +1923

    "But short people that are chubby just look fat"
    Girl I feel you😭😭

    • @charlottesmom
      @charlottesmom 3 года назад +78

      Same here, I'm 5' 3" and every extra pound makes me look huge! Trying hard to get to my goal weight.

    • @walkingcorps3x
      @walkingcorps3x 3 года назад +20

      @@charlottesmom good luck!

    • @bigfootisreal11
      @bigfootisreal11 3 года назад +7

      not everyone

    • @horrorcide13
      @horrorcide13 3 года назад +18

      I try to explain this to people all the time. I keep saying I wish I was taller because I'm definitely chubby but it makes me look more chonky. Not to mention, I have huge boobs so it makes me look so top heavy. T.T

    • @sappy.3xe
      @sappy.3xe 2 года назад +8

      Exactly! I’m 5’0 tall and I KNOW for a fact that if I were taller, my legs would be thinner. My weight at 5’0 makes my legs look fat, but if were 5’7 or something, my legs would be thin. I hate being short.

  • @YL-xd6ou
    @YL-xd6ou 6 лет назад +3834

    this video slowly made me put down my big mac

    • @maudyconcert8304
      @maudyconcert8304 5 лет назад +36

      hahahaha

    • @Anfalmohd9
      @Anfalmohd9 5 лет назад +15

      dedd

    • @ssnthyh3781
      @ssnthyh3781 5 лет назад +131

      *watches the video*
      *but still shoves the big Mac down my throat*

    • @xEnjoyTheMoment
      @xEnjoyTheMoment 5 лет назад +49

      Thanks for mentioning your big Mac. Now I want a burger 🙄

    • @mkna2157
      @mkna2157 5 лет назад +9

      nah i would still eat the big mac just feel a bit shitter for doing so cus im like 45 kg GODDAMN IM 75kg

  • @user-ll8cx9qq6p
    @user-ll8cx9qq6p 7 лет назад +5413

    Imagine how hard it is to be on a diet in Japan.. Their food is fucking amazing

    • @azniscannedrice
      @azniscannedrice 7 лет назад +64

      Imagine how easy it would be to bulk

    • @SkyyPiano
      @SkyyPiano 7 лет назад +278

      Would be hard to bulk, Japanese food is expensive and comes in small portions haha

    • @benadrylcabbagepatch2527
      @benadrylcabbagepatch2527 7 лет назад +409

      Their food does tend to be a lot healthier than western food, though.

    • @nns7353
      @nns7353 7 лет назад +299

      Their food is practically a diet for foreigners😂I went there for 3 weeks with my school and did homestays plus travelled and ate a TON of food cos c'mon need to try everything and when I came back home I had lost 1.5kg xD it was bliss! Their food is a lot lighter and easier to digest even if you eat heaps of it!

    • @kah0ng6992
      @kah0ng6992 7 лет назад +10

      imagine live in korea

  • @dimensionstars97
    @dimensionstars97 7 лет назад +2187

    The last girl was about to cry :(

    • @ouichtan
      @ouichtan 6 лет назад +109

      I think they edited it to let her keep her dignity. I'm certain she was gonna cry. Really sad though as she was beautiful as she was.

    • @abbygriffin9105
      @abbygriffin9105 6 лет назад +63

      I know, right. She was by far the most attractive one, too.

    • @cathwhiskey
      @cathwhiskey 6 лет назад +52

      I thought the exact same thing. This is so sad, she's definitely very beautiful and sophisticated and looked/sounded very smart and educated. Overall, she's the most beautiful and interesting woman in this video.

    • @genericdeveloper3966
      @genericdeveloper3966 5 лет назад

      boo hoo hoo

    • @whiistlingwinds
      @whiistlingwinds 5 лет назад +15

      Saying that "she's the most beautiful, interesting girl in the video" doesn't help the damaging beauty standards that hang over the quality and worthingness of a fruitfil social life in East Asian countries, nor does it give this woman worth or value within herself. Instead of trying to distinguish and prop up her evaluation of her circumstance within womanhood and her reality as the only valid one, realize that (and act accordingly) there is something to push to have empathy for and evolve past in every person that speaks of the real violence inside and outside the construct of (specifically in this context: Eastern Asian) Womanhood. (Or im just high af and feeling ranty atm)

  • @serenalizinnqui8474
    @serenalizinnqui8474 4 года назад +2826

    This is sad. I'm gonna eat my Kit Kat, go for a run, and be happy.

    • @bbbllllmeow4977
      @bbbllllmeow4977 4 года назад +112

      That’s the spirit!

    • @fizz_xs
      @fizz_xs 4 года назад +47

      Yes!! You do you 👏🏻

    • @spongebracket
      @spongebracket 4 года назад +23

      I'm eating as I'm watching this 😅

    • @alexandra-p4b
      @alexandra-p4b 4 года назад +58

      I’m gonna eat Kit Kat without running 😊😊

    • @serenalizinnqui8474
      @serenalizinnqui8474 4 года назад +21

      @@alexandra-p4b That works too! :)

  • @TASHXFILES
    @TASHXFILES 7 лет назад +544

    It seems so nasty to judge that last girl. She seems really hurt by people she thought were her friends.

    • @crazychic210
      @crazychic210 6 лет назад +25

      Asian culture/family tends to be harsher. My mom and sisters tell me I’m fat almost every time i see them. It doesn’t bother me that much anymore since I’m older. It just gets annoying at times. As long as I’m healthy my weight doesn’t bother me.

    • @iloveithere12347
      @iloveithere12347 5 лет назад

      @@crazychic210 you're absolutely beautiful don't listen to them💜💚

  • @giovannanascimentochaves9714
    @giovannanascimentochaves9714 6 лет назад +911

    Health has left this room

    • @nannige4539
      @nannige4539 4 года назад +1

      THIS COMMENT WINS

    • @markleeknow4452
      @markleeknow4452 4 года назад +5

      Marcell Toing very true but related to this video, some girls said height with unhealthy weight proportions

    • @RockSolitude
      @RockSolitude 4 года назад

      coz of the comments section

    • @aaliyahwinrow3941
      @aaliyahwinrow3941 4 года назад +2

      Marcell Toing skinny is NOT healthy. That’s not a good thing. Being in shape is healthy and that can be big or thin, but not skinny.

    • @joshualozada8132
      @joshualozada8132 4 года назад

      Aaliyah Winrow just being chubby or fat is unhealthy but when your skinny you can be healthy or non healthy

  • @snsdsonesoshi
    @snsdsonesoshi 7 лет назад +3380

    "Skinny" does not mean "healthy"

    • @ayshas288
      @ayshas288 7 лет назад

      Helen N tell it Katya!

    • @rosefrance5685
      @rosefrance5685 7 лет назад +14

      Helen N they know what is the healthy skinny

    • @Off_the_clock_astrophysicist
      @Off_the_clock_astrophysicist 6 лет назад +76

      I don't like the use of the word "skinny". I use "thin". Thin IS healthy. When bones are showing, then no, that's no longer healthy. Living in the US, though, I don't feel like that we have to worry about people being too skinny. And to echo Rose France, I do feel like many in the US have lost track of what a healthy weight looks like.

    • @Libellulaire
      @Libellulaire 6 лет назад +5

      no mo
      Different culture, they don't eat burgers and fries daily, but they have things to replace the western junk food. They still fry a lot of their foods, drink a lot of alcohol, smoke, they have ramen, their sweet food is overly sweet, they have their "pan" (bread), etc.. It doesn't change the fact they eat a lot of seafood, vegetables and fruits, but they don't have a perfect diet either. Which is why they still get fat.

    • @aribanahonarukas1641
      @aribanahonarukas1641 6 лет назад +2

      I think it's just an excuse for how pathetic they are it's denying the truth of the desire of being pretty I know everyone wants to be pretty but Japanese people or in general Asian people and their ideal weight are just over the top
      And if all they have is a pretty shell then they should really go search for a life

  • @diba4707
    @diba4707 4 года назад +1481

    I'm ready to fight anyone who has made these girls feel bad about their body

  • @SooLittlePrincess
    @SooLittlePrincess 7 лет назад +1152

    I feel sad for the girl at the end.

    • @Ruukas9
      @Ruukas9 6 лет назад

      Because there are not fat?

    • @adriangabrielquevedo5607
      @adriangabrielquevedo5607 6 лет назад +36

      The worst thing is that she doesn't look bad, in fact, I think she is the most pretty in the video.

    • @lachlananimecat699
      @lachlananimecat699 6 лет назад +1

      @mae Yeah, I do realize that. I deleted my comment.

    • @angelicacasiascantero937
      @angelicacasiascantero937 6 лет назад

      Shes pretty i did to she seemed pretty down about it

  • @ruthgeorges25
    @ruthgeorges25 5 лет назад +613

    the last girl with light brown hair looked seconds away from crying and it broke my heart

  • @fish_toes
    @fish_toes 4 года назад +7982

    That one girl was trying to be so nice about it, calling us "big-boned" like nah, we fat. Don't sugar-coat that fact, we'll eat that, too 🍕🍔🍟

    • @StarOnTheWater
      @StarOnTheWater 4 года назад +328

      SueSheDraws maybe in America. :D Just kidding. But I'm small and thin and still weigh 55kg, which is like 10 kg more than their ideals. With 45 kg I'd look starved and get serious issues.

    • @kitsterangel
      @kitsterangel 4 года назад +427

      We do actually have a different body structure. Idk if it's the bone specifically or that we tend to carry more muscle mass as one girl said but the BMI ranges for Asian people are lower than for white people or black people, so they become overweight at a smaller weight than we do.

    • @Emjay_Music
      @Emjay_Music 4 года назад +15

      Lmaaao

    • @MunthApollo
      @MunthApollo 4 года назад +46

      I found that funny too. I liked when they said westerners have more muscle so the fat looks proportionate. I have very little built muscle and smallish bones. I'm skinny, but boy, could I be healthier!

    • @swerzye4472
      @swerzye4472 4 года назад +66

      “We”? I’m not fat pal

  • @elizabeth4689
    @elizabeth4689 4 года назад +412

    0:32 even her friends were all "girl wtf"

    • @cowhandzhou
      @cowhandzhou 3 года назад +14

      I mean she's like 4'9 - 4'10 with probably the smallest bone structure known to man. sub 90 doesnt sound too crazy.

    • @itotallyagreewithyou6586
      @itotallyagreewithyou6586 3 года назад +59

      @@cowhandzhou just check her BMI. It's dangerously underweight

    • @Yuunarichu
      @Yuunarichu 3 года назад +2

      @@itotallyagreewithyou6586 So up until before quarantine I was like that so I was underweight the entire time? I gained about 15 during quarantine so is that better?

    • @lily-td5vq
      @lily-td5vq 3 года назад +8

      @@cowhandzhou I am 150 cm 45-46 kg and I am healthy maybe she is different but 38 kg is a very little amount

    • @nikkicolex3
      @nikkicolex3 3 года назад +18

      @@cowhandzhou 38kg is the same weight as a girl entering middle school. even if she’s short that’s still too thin.

  • @wildbill7065
    @wildbill7065 5 лет назад +3220

    Girl: I’m 4’12” tall
    Me: So you’re 5’
    Girl: No, I’m 4’12”
    Me: 🤨

    • @penguin-tc1cx
      @penguin-tc1cx 5 лет назад +329

      well they said 152cm and we don’t use feet/inches to measure height... and the person writing subtitles might not be used to it either?

    • @subscribetopewdiepie859
      @subscribetopewdiepie859 5 лет назад +236

      Well theres a thing called a METRIC SYSTEM.

    • @maddieknudsen6736
      @maddieknudsen6736 5 лет назад +20

      Lol 4’12” is 5’ ... 12 inches in a foot

    • @BigUriel
      @BigUriel 5 лет назад +26

      ​@Izzy Jordan Yeah so it's not 4'12" either is it?
      4'12" and 5" is exactly the same height, and slightly more than 152cm.

    • @wellajoysocorin6905
      @wellajoysocorin6905 5 лет назад +10

      my height is probably 151-152, and my weight would be 45-46kg, I'm 13 years old, is that normal?

  • @getmeouttahere3595
    @getmeouttahere3595 7 лет назад +2004

    2:33 that dude with the Nike cap fell in love at first sight lol

  • @SeageSpeaks
    @SeageSpeaks 7 лет назад +1865

    I knew what they would all say. I've had this discussion before. But this video still made me so sad...

    • @abeness
      @abeness 7 лет назад +56

      Seage Speaks, how is it sad? Japanese are way healthier than say Americans who are 40% obese, because society constantly makes excuses for overweight people.

    • @assalane
      @assalane 7 лет назад +100

      both are unhealty

    • @vinni4242
      @vinni4242 7 лет назад +32

      Both beeing too fat and too thin is unhealthy

    • @coffeesticks_03
      @coffeesticks_03 7 лет назад +40

      Compare that to the percentage of Japanese population that is underweight. Being underweight comes with so many health problems. Just because one is more aesthetically pleasing than the other is just an excuse to not deal with the problem.

    • @linkzenos
      @linkzenos 7 лет назад +1

      i agree 100% but to answer your question it is because of their mental image of themselves when will they be happy even if they get to their ideal weight who knows if theyll be truly happy with themselves.

  • @relafen66
    @relafen66 3 года назад +508

    Bro everyone of these girls is a small or tiny in America

    • @mkhodadadi7714
      @mkhodadadi7714 3 года назад +28

      @rue m are sure about EVERY ONE??????

    • @arrrr5859
      @arrrr5859 3 года назад +5

      @@mkhodadadi7714 Pretty much. Overweight and obese people are normal here.

    • @loyalcapricorn1772
      @loyalcapricorn1772 3 года назад +8

      @@mkhodadadi7714 75 percent of US adults are obese…

    • @arrrr5859
      @arrrr5859 3 года назад +10

      @A_29 I’m talking about statistics. America has one of the highest obesity rates. Was not referring to children.

    • @ALYTALyrics
      @ALYTALyrics 3 года назад +1

      Compared to America everything is small to be honest.

  • @ari_jean
    @ari_jean 4 года назад +1524

    Wow I can’t imagine family members criticizing me for gaining weight.
    Usually elder people would always say “omg you’re so skinny! Do you even eat anything?!”
    And Im actually 65kg, which to the Japanese standards is not skinny *at all*

    • @Healingngrowing
      @Healingngrowing 4 года назад +108

      Xenia _ Asian culture, family members are the one criticizing you most, like every single days

    • @Star.gazrrr
      @Star.gazrrr 4 года назад +61

      Yeah, most of us are criticized by our own family for looking chubby.

    • @BoxGirl9
      @BoxGirl9 4 года назад +31

      Depends on height as well, if I was 65kg I’d be overweight

    • @ari_jean
      @ari_jean 4 года назад +16

      Sumayya Im 175cm

    • @BoxGirl9
      @BoxGirl9 4 года назад +28

      Xenia _ well that explains it, I’m 154cm😂

  • @victorfoxtrot4489
    @victorfoxtrot4489 5 лет назад +2184

    Can everybody here give a hug to the girl who's hurt by how people judge her ? And a butter croissant with chocolate milk to everybody in this country.

    • @lolahernandez5453
      @lolahernandez5453 5 лет назад +9

      😂👍

    • @grzyruth9205
      @grzyruth9205 4 года назад +14

      Everybody holds everyone to a certain personal standard, we've all judged people silently.

    • @waasifahsharmin5969
      @waasifahsharmin5969 4 года назад +9

      Idk what country u are in but that sounds yum 😋 so yas please 😆

    • @waasifahsharmin5969
      @waasifahsharmin5969 4 года назад +16

      @Benazir Samoon lactose free alternative milk ofc 😁 no one is excluded!

    • @waasifahsharmin5969
      @waasifahsharmin5969 4 года назад +2

      @Benazir Samoon hm I'm not sure, ask @Victor Foxtrot they are the one handing it out 😁

  • @mfreak1126
    @mfreak1126 7 лет назад +1510

    Body attractiveness is all about proportion, not what your weight is.

    • @danex2206
      @danex2206 5 лет назад +112

      Agree. Even with one having the "ideal weight", if your bone structure is not great, and symmetry is lacking, looking attractive would be hard to achieve. It's all about learning to accept yourself and making the most of what has been given to you.

    • @cloebgn
      @cloebgn 5 лет назад +6

      So true

    • @webprotection3920
      @webprotection3920 5 лет назад +1

      Edit: Mar R, your response is not showing up for me on here. So I will reply that telling people to shut up does not change their actual thoughts and behaviors. It's better for them to tell the truth, so that the reciever knows not to waste their time on that hateful person. And the non-plastic surgery option is to move to a more accepting place. Peace.
      @@danex2206 Or it means get plastic surgery, until I - I mean people - stop having a fatty face with a huge nose. A fat belly with no boobs and an ugly square manly butt. Fat arms and thighs with no hips. I say this, b/c the girls in the video ALL think they are fat BECAUSE others mercilessly attacked them for being "fat". They probably only attracted abusive narcissists and no-boundary creeps too, because nobody nice or decent found then attractive. Mentally unstable men (handsome, average and ugly) tend to pick ugly women with low self esteem and no other options. Self-acceptance is willful ignorance.

    • @ecstasy1114
      @ecstasy1114 5 лет назад +1

      hey junko

    • @flowerene2630
      @flowerene2630 5 лет назад +1

      Junko!

  • @angstylemonsartistiq5648
    @angstylemonsartistiq5648 4 года назад +299

    when the last woman appeared on screen the first time i gasped bc of how beautiful she is and i’m not even kidding.
    someone really needs to tell her instead of judging her i find her so freaking pretty ngl !

    • @hannamadsen
      @hannamadsen 3 года назад

      Which one?

    • @CainM89
      @CainM89 3 года назад +6

      Stop lying

    • @corpmobb4134
      @corpmobb4134 3 года назад +6

      @@CainM89 stfu

    • @CainM89
      @CainM89 3 года назад +4

      @@corpmobb4134 Well, thats your business i dont really care.

    • @corpmobb4134
      @corpmobb4134 3 года назад +4

      @@CainM89 Same with your comment about the last girl.

  • @alleyahvargas8543
    @alleyahvargas8543 7 лет назад +647

    It's so funny how all of them think they are fat when in Latino America you don't want to be skinny or fat you want to be kinda curvy

    • @berrisofi
      @berrisofi 5 лет назад +8

      mia morales what I don’t get it? Your 4’11 and 108 pounds and called skinny?
      I’m a 100 pounds and 5’1 and some people call me fat
      But I have a friend from Puerto Rico and she calls me skinny and even though I’m from Latin America idk why a lady called me chubby

    • @rajdeepdas272
      @rajdeepdas272 5 лет назад +2

      I like curves 😁😁😁

    • @cjcjcjcjcjcj4953
      @cjcjcjcjcjcj4953 5 лет назад +1

      mia morales pfff that’s not too skinny at all, I’m 5’5 and 90 lbs

    • @stayhappy9032
      @stayhappy9032 5 лет назад +31

      Honestly speaking i don't like both standards but Japan standard seems a little more realistic because you can lose weight and be skinny but having big boobs big butt and a small waist is kind of unrealistic or rare to find i think

    • @cjcjcjcjcjcj4953
      @cjcjcjcjcjcj4953 5 лет назад +8

      stay happy yeah you can look like that, at least almost, just if you’re an hourglass, which is genetic bcs is ur bone structure, but in japan u just have to stay skinny which is not impossible

  • @May04bwu
    @May04bwu 6 лет назад +575

    "You might die." - I'm glad she said that! :D

  • @pixie4184
    @pixie4184 7 лет назад +514

    This is so sad. I've struggled with eating disorders before and this is practically the same thing. Obsess over weight, set a goal, eat little amounts, binge (because I'm hungry from not eating enough...this is basically what starts a binge), throw it up, obsess more. With this whole "skinny" Japanese trend women are probably going to hate themselves all their life, and that's a really sad life.

    • @demonking8803
      @demonking8803 5 лет назад

      Haikoo Honestly, yeah. I used to have eating disorders, as well and it’s not fun. I wouldn’t eat and it was hell. Constantly hungry, but chewed gum for flavor to make the hunger subside. I had no reason to lose weight, either. I’ve always been at the healthy weight. Recently, I’ve fallen back. Not exercising much, getting back into swimming, having to march for band on top of that, and only eating one meal per day. That’s my limit. I’m not allowed to eat more or I’ll gain more weight. I’m constantly tired, I get dizzy more than I used to, especially when playing my clarinet. And I know I shouldn’t. I know I’m perfectly fine. I’m healthy (maybe underweight, now), and I constantly get reassurance from my boyfriend. He knows when I fall back and when I’m happy with my weight (though, it’s obvious. He likes to put his hand on my stomach when he holds me and I’ll move it if I’m not happy with my weight), and he tries so hard to let me know I’m not fat. He tries to get me to eat more. I’m glad I’m with him, tbh. Without him, I’d be much worse.
      Luckily, it doesn’t take much for me to be happy with my weight. I’d say about 100 pounds, which I believe is about ten or fifteen pounds underweight for my height. I’ve been trying to exercise more to build muscle. I know I should eat and shouldn’t feel bad, but I can’t help it.
      Sorry for the long reply.

  • @anubis7457
    @anubis7457 3 года назад +191

    Also just fyi, even if a Japanese girl felt thin, she'd have to still say she felt fat, because otherwise she would be seen as conceited. In Japan, you're expected to follow the majority opinion.

    • @Yahhkult
      @Yahhkult 3 года назад +44

      Japan social standards are so strict, there’s literally jokes about how Anime is an escape from their rigid and strict culture.
      Ex: hair in schools and jobs are SO strict like you can only have black hair and you often need to have a birth certificate provided to prove your hair is naturally a different color.
      Hence the meme that anime has a bunch of wild colored hair characters

    • @alicia-hd2cs
      @alicia-hd2cs 3 года назад +5

      Yeah its herd morality to the extreme.

    • @MyNameIsAhalya
      @MyNameIsAhalya 3 года назад +6

      @@Yahhkult really? That's crazy!

  • @nonomalk6586
    @nonomalk6586 5 лет назад +2103

    “Westerners are taller” no some of foreigners are short and we still don’t believe that the ideal weight for us is 45!

    • @Pyrostands
      @Pyrostands 5 лет назад +38

      Nono Malk no our mean height is higher than theirs

    • @henkkahenrik4183
      @henkkahenrik4183 5 лет назад +56

      Ikr. I’m like 155cm guy and weight around 60 kg and always thought i was relatively average...

    • @henkkahenrik4183
      @henkkahenrik4183 5 лет назад +10

      Voltort actually i’m pretty sure even asians are taller than for example i am....😅

    • @nonomalk6586
      @nonomalk6586 5 лет назад +57

      Henkka Henrik yes I hate stereotypes as if all foreigners are white, there are many other races like Turks, Middle Easters, Africans... I don’t know why this Channel only represents foreigners as white!!

    • @nonomalk6586
      @nonomalk6586 5 лет назад +1

      Voltort maybe your talking about white people.

  • @KoreanAnimeFreakx
    @KoreanAnimeFreakx 7 лет назад +334

    no offense put, but the girl wants to be 38kg? that's the weight of my 9 year old sister. i hope countries like korea and japan get taught about how it's important to have a proper diet if you want to lose weight, not just starve yourself.

    • @Noa......
      @Noa...... 5 лет назад +10

      9 years old and 38 kg. 🙄

    • @SG-bh6th
      @SG-bh6th 5 лет назад

      @@Noa...... Yeah..

    • @SG-bh6th
      @SG-bh6th 5 лет назад

      @@Noa...... 83 pounds as a nine year old

    • @honeysuckleASMR
      @honeysuckleASMR 5 лет назад +3

      i was 80 lbs at 9 years old but i was a chubby 9 year old

    • @Hasubanana
      @Hasubanana 5 лет назад +2

      i was 32kg at 9 lol

  • @glitchyy4397
    @glitchyy4397 5 лет назад +1944

    I know this video is two years old now, but being skinny DOES NOT mean your healthy. I only weigh 89lb (very underweight for my age) and have several health problems, a lot of which stem from my weight. I've always been really underweight my whole life, and it really sucks. I have to take several pills a day just to have the vitamins I need to live. I also have to eat at certain times of day to keep from getting sick and needing to go to the hospital. You really don't want those problems..

    • @tacy3823
      @tacy3823 4 года назад +63

      exactly, i'm 157cm and i weight 42kg and it's hell for me. sometimes i feel dizzy just by getting out of bed.

    • @riamendez6840
      @riamendez6840 4 года назад +27

      tacy that’s probably anemia

    • @villainousextremity
      @villainousextremity 4 года назад +31

      I understand how you feel about your situation and I am 160 cm and only 45kg. I don't wanna get skinnier than that because I know it'll be unhealthy and I'm sorry you were in a very bad condition. I hope you will heal now it's been 3 months and honestly you are right. Being skinny DOES NOT equate to be beautiful. Just because someone is more skinnier than mother person, doesn't mean they are prettier or healthier than that person. Being very skinny can also lead to health problems like possible infertility, heart disease, cancer, osteoporosis when u get older, and anemia. What's more important is to be healthy and confident in yourself. That's true beauty.

    • @lumi3951
      @lumi3951 4 года назад +14

      Ikr I'm 169cm/42kg and it sucks, I have different medical conditions so it's hard to tell how much my underweight really affects my body, but I'm very weak

    • @villainousextremity
      @villainousextremity 4 года назад +9

      @@lumi3951 I hope you are doing okay.

  • @Ani1402-c2j
    @Ani1402-c2j 4 года назад +106

    By their standards and considering my weight, I think it would be lovely to roam around the streets of Tokyo looking like an elephant. Quite exotic no?

    • @alicia-hd2cs
      @alicia-hd2cs 3 года назад +3

      Yes it would be wonderful.

  • @olabuczko5589
    @olabuczko5589 7 лет назад +1038

    okay but that blonde overweight woman looks the most sophosticated and beautiful and i dont think her weight is denying it in any way

    • @kakibackup2koujo612
      @kakibackup2koujo612 7 лет назад +25

      Lol what she is has Brown hair does that count as blond in burgerland?

    • @RevəngeGuac
      @RevəngeGuac 7 лет назад +8

      kakibackup2 Koujo "burgerland" looks like it's time to move out of America

    • @WhatsOnTokyo
      @WhatsOnTokyo 7 лет назад +132

      she's in no way overweight. plump at most.

    • @anitahailey753
      @anitahailey753 7 лет назад +73

      Olka HentaiMaster she is not overweight omg she is fine. Overweight is a health term and is not casually used to describe everyone above 110 llbs lmao

    • @jdubz26
      @jdubz26 6 лет назад +4

      C C nah man she fat. You delusional

  • @paris_7373
    @paris_7373 7 лет назад +271

    I watched a lot of videos and I noticed that Asians look perfect when they go out ... Seriously the hair , makeup, & outfit .. Woah.... Not a lot of people dress like this daily in America

    • @leweiwang3209
      @leweiwang3209 6 лет назад +15

      I think in the US/ west. There's a movement of removing the shame of everything. There're both pro and cons as the fear of feeling humiliated could be the drive for us to live healthier & work harder a lot of times.

    • @starlighteuu
      @starlighteuu 6 лет назад +20

      well for japan, appearences mean alot. Apparently just showing up regular work attire in japan for work without all the extra stuff means you aren't prepared or whatever. In america its abit different, they get comfortable and usually don't have time for all that in the morning.

    • @aliciabea1598
      @aliciabea1598 6 лет назад +1

      I thought i was the only one who notice that i like how they dress

    • @Belochan4
      @Belochan4 6 лет назад +11

      When I go out with my japanese friends they are so stylish put make up, fake lashes, colored contact lenses, curled hair. lol and i just wear shirt and jeans.

    • @lonelygirltravels5961
      @lonelygirltravels5961 5 лет назад

      People in the New England area tend to dress up more, even just going to the grocery store.

  • @StarsAroundTheMoon
    @StarsAroundTheMoon 7 лет назад +211

    I'm asian, 152cm and weight 45kgs. People here said that I'm fat all the time. At first time I used to listen to all, calling me fat, until I cut ties severely with those kind of people. I do believe women are beautiful no matter what they look.If you have friends calling you fat, they are not your real friends because people should respect others no matter what they look. I choose to unfriend friends that called me fat immediately and now I'm happy. I 'm still 152 cm, 45 kgs and happy without people calling me fat and told me what to do with my body.

    • @justme8841
      @justme8841 6 лет назад +3

      Well if you are really fat then there is nothing wrong if your friends just say it how it is, with not making of you and still be your friend. Of you are healthy and they call you fat they are really not good friends. Please keep balancing your thoughts.

    • @qtfusiondance
      @qtfusiondance 6 лет назад +8

      My mom is Asian and it’s all she cares about. Money and how fat or skinny I am. She sent me a new jacket for Christmas and I told her I was wearing it in my new photo on FB. So she calls me later and is like “I saw your photo. Looks like you gained weight!!” Literally, that’s it. No “hi how are you?” No “the jacket looks nice” - just goes right in to inform me of the obvious. Seriously wtf. I don’t need this b to tell me I gained weight, I’m not blind! How stupid can you be to think that’s an acceptable form of socializing with someone? You might as well call someone and be like “wow you really look hideous in your new jacket!” Because that’s obviously what anyone who does this crap is really thinking. You don’t care how healthy someone is, you just want them to be pleasing to your eyes. My mom was fatter than me all my life and only drinking vinegar straight made her lose weight, yet she still had to tell me with disgust that I was fat. It is the most self-centered nonsense disguised as encouraging someone to be healthy. If people gave a crap how healthy others were they’d be equally chiding people for eating at McDonald’s, eating potato chips, eating donuts, eating pizza, etc. That’s NOT what people actually care about. They just want to hold you to beauty standards and use “health” as a supporting argument to do so. If I put out a plate of freshly cooked deep fried food at a party, I guarantee you that will be snatched up by every skinny person in the room within minutes without a concern for health. If I see a box of donuts I am usually the last one to touch it while all the skinny people go for it. There’s a reason “pizza party” is the go-to food gathering in America. You’ve never heard of a salad party or a fruit party. Also 99% of adults drink a poison called alcohol and pressure others to drink it with them, rather than chiding others for drinking it. My mom was a violent, abusive alcoholic for my entire childhood, and I have never drunk an ounce of alcohol in my life. Many people will tell you you’re fat but I am probably the only person who has ever told my mom she was an alcoholic!
      And btw the reason I have gained weight is because of chronic hip pain for the past 10.5 months. I hung up the phone and declined further calls from my mom after that. Stop being so superficial and fake, people!

    • @nashidragneel6175
      @nashidragneel6175 6 лет назад

      Im 1.58cm and 47kg im fat ?

    • @florkat3163
      @florkat3163 6 лет назад

      Im 121cm and 44kgs im the fat one here peeps

    • @cristinevalois4938
      @cristinevalois4938 6 лет назад +1

      I'm 155 cm, 18 years old and weighs 46 kg, I attend a check up in our school and our school doctor says that I'm underweight, so I need to gain weight, and these girls just said that 38-40+ kg is the ideal body lol do they even know how BMI works!?

  • @PriusRaj
    @PriusRaj 3 года назад +158

    Meanwhile, I'm Indian American, 5'4", 100 pounds, and I want to weigh 115.
    Being skinny is useless if you're not muscular. It's not about beauty, it's about being able to bring in all your groceries in one trip!

  • @lakshmips2999
    @lakshmips2999 5 лет назад +763

    38 kg??!!! You atleast need to have the strength to protect yourself if someone tries to kidnap you....

    • @curtizjamezjackson111
      @curtizjamezjackson111 5 лет назад +29

      Yeah like you need to have a strong body

    • @morusalba6405
      @morusalba6405 5 лет назад +56

      i don't think normal weight protects you from being kidnapped...

    • @Strawberrysodastar
      @Strawberrysodastar 5 лет назад +37

      @@morusalba6405 no, but to weigh so little probably means that you don't have a lot of muscle mass, considering muscle is heavy. Therefore, you can't really defend yourself from an attacker. its worth mentioning that starving yourself destroys muscle too, without proper nutrients you become _only_ fat and bone, which would be ideal in their culture.

    • @morusalba6405
      @morusalba6405 5 лет назад +20

      @@Strawberrysodastar idk where you live and how kidnapping works there, but if someone tried to kidnap me here they 100% would have guns or something. you'd be better off just staying away from sketchy people/places and run away instead of defending yourself. muscle strength would be useful if you get into a fight with a drunk though.

    • @kzdwt9969
      @kzdwt9969 5 лет назад +4

      @Cerulean Skigh SJAFKDSFJADJFSKJJFJFJ this made me laugh

  • @missk159
    @missk159 7 лет назад +2648

    Sounds like they need better health education classes in schools to create awareness of healthy diets (ie. not starving yourself) and a happy self image

    • @NG_GN
      @NG_GN 7 лет назад +90

      Fatty detected..Japan is constantly ranked among the top on PISA education ranking and also have one of the highest life expectancy but stay mad though

    • @missk159
      @missk159 7 лет назад +150

      Woop din they may have excellent academic scores in math, literacy ect. However as a teacher I value life skills and healthy lifestyles as much as I do academics.
      I'm 43.5 kilos btw ;)

    • @Dominus_Potatus
      @Dominus_Potatus 7 лет назад +31

      Kellie p You just cannot take the word PRIDE out of Japanese.
      They are more conservative than rest of the world.
      Advance in technology but conservative in the way of living.
      At least, that is my impression to the Japanese.
      As a man, i just wonder how they can be so light.

    • @Dominus_Potatus
      @Dominus_Potatus 7 лет назад +7

      Kellie p Oh.. btw they live in thr very efficient way. Limiting the Calories intake is the most efficient way ever (to lose the weight in short time, cannot wait until be bullied)

    • @missk159
      @missk159 7 лет назад +72

      KevinMulia yes, I agree that in order to lose weight, calorie intake must be limited. However as I pointed out, their means of dieting (starving themselves) needs to be addressed

  • @alexandrakaragiwrgi4237
    @alexandrakaragiwrgi4237 4 года назад +228

    This is the mindset that led me to starving myself for days, it's so sad to see it constantly being drilled in the minds of people every day. Your weight is NOT linked to your worth. Work out and eat healthy because you love your body, not because you hate it.

    • @elenaspano5067
      @elenaspano5067 3 года назад +5

      Say it louder girl♥️👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

  • @pavese1379
    @pavese1379 3 года назад +86

    Imagine deliberately wanting to be considerably underweight, this is a completely sick way of thinking

  • @heatcyclone
    @heatcyclone 7 лет назад +451

    I'm Indonesian but I've dated Japanese before and everyone keep saying that I need to lose weight more. I'm considered to be normal in Indonesia (162cm, 47kg) but it seems like the "normal" Japanese weight for my height is 42. I'm totally fine with my body and not doing diet at all, but sometimes it annoyes me when they stop me to eat after 7pm or when I eat sweets.

    • @linkzenos
      @linkzenos 7 лет назад +52

      Stay strong and happy don't let them get to you as long as your healthy :)

    • @AyAReI00
      @AyAReI00 7 лет назад +34

      Megia Astrilistya that HAPPEN to me too, i stop those guys right away, i mean if we are already dating Is cuz You like me, now why force me to loose weight???
      thats not healthy, those types of guys normally try to control You by your insecurities (i know IM talking about my case) but if You like a guy, would You TELL him "ok now You have to loose weight" "or now You have to dye your hair blonde" ... thats rude.

    • @elinope4745
      @elinope4745 7 лет назад +10

      +AyAReI00 men and women are attracted to different things. Men would be unlikely to get mad at their girlfriend for lacking ambition, but would care about weight. Most women would be quite the opposite. Whether you like it or not, figure and shape is very important to physical beauty, and physical beauty is very important to men. To expect men to overcome their nature on what they find beautiful is equivalent to expect women to do the same. Most women have nesting behavior and are looking for a tall man who can provide resources and skills to raise children. Should we expect women not to prefer men who have an above average income? Should we tell women not to short shame men? What about women who are trying to CONTROL men by telling them they must have a job or a car? You might not think these are comparable, but that is because you are cherry picking and making excuses why expectations for one set of attractive qualities is acceptable and another is not. If you want your partner to value you, you should try to remain attractive in the ways that THEY find important, not what you find important. If you can't do that, than you are being selfish, and you are not concerned about how they feel, and that makes you the abusive person of the relationship.

    • @AyAReI00
      @AyAReI00 7 лет назад +13

      Eli Nope i think that You are projecting yourself, i KNOW how world works, i know HOW much guys care about phisical appereance, and most of girls about guys income lol ... that doesnt mean that i can complain about it dude .... look woman can work and but ver stuff yet guys expect them to be pretty but if a girl want that "supposed" Rich guy to be handsome as well You Will call her delisuional xDD
      hey sorry for my bad English

    • @heatcyclone
      @heatcyclone 7 лет назад +10

      Eli Nope If I'm fat thats totally fine but I dont see myself to be overweight. I never be told to lose weight by Indonesian men, but Japanese men told me so, that's why I kind of disturbed first. Now it's totally fine, I never expect anything for my boyfriend and I'm trying my best to be attractive in a ways which make me confortable. after founding that Japanese and Indonesian standards of beauty(?) is different, I try to appriciate both but it's not easy, just for you to know. I hope you get my point.

  • @nb2983
    @nb2983 7 лет назад +725

    If they think they're fat I'm literally a fucking elephant.....

    • @nb2983
      @nb2983 7 лет назад +25

      Quick correction* I am an absolute obese foreigner LOL and I'm still more body positive than those girls..

    • @missrightangles
      @missrightangles 7 лет назад +4

      NarraSae hmHMM gUURRL me is like 62 kg and 1,64 height I'm a mammoet

    • @ugrena7419
      @ugrena7419 7 лет назад +9

      Shit, I'm 6'3" (190.5cm) and 225 lbs (102kg). People already make comments about how tall I am here, but I can't imagine it in Japan. I'd be an entire foot taller (or more) than most of the population. I can't imagine that at all.

    • @amberharrington6841
      @amberharrington6841 7 лет назад +3

      Ugrena I'm 14 and 5'8 I feel like I'd be so awkward 😂😢

    • @mat1413
      @mat1413 7 лет назад +2

      is the air fresher up there?

  • @lizliz378
    @lizliz378 5 лет назад +696

    Japanese women are so pretty. Not the women in dramas nor these ''cute'' girls. Just this normal human beings.

    • @MiroslavWD
      @MiroslavWD 5 лет назад +7

      Betty Li , they are. And they do but just use proper make-up, which is so nice.

    • @jenni3599
      @jenni3599 4 года назад +2

      It's called tones of makeup and often surgery. Japan and Korea are huge for surgery

    • @Mel-hy2ce
      @Mel-hy2ce 4 года назад +7

      Jen Ni isn't it just korea?

    • @jenni3599
      @jenni3599 4 года назад +8

      @@Mel-hy2ce Korea is bigger for surgery, but Japan follows not far behind unfortunately

    • @Mel-hy2ce
      @Mel-hy2ce 4 года назад +3

      Jen Ni oh thx! i don't know why but i thought japan was not really into surgery

  • @おいしいお茶-e7x
    @おいしいお茶-e7x 4 года назад +153

    太ってる人に目が行きがちなせいか、日本人は痩せているって思ったことないかも。

  • @agustinasanchez5755
    @agustinasanchez5755 7 лет назад +60

    i feel bad for the last girl. She's so fucking beautiful and deserves better

  • @chxd2206
    @chxd2206 5 лет назад +400

    Even in African countries, whenever I see my relatives, the first thing they say is you've either gained or lost weight ;/

    • @xxxfairycorpsexxx7592
      @xxxfairycorpsexxx7592 4 года назад +8

      Its really sad it is like that 😔

    • @eden9672
      @eden9672 3 года назад

      Yup 😞 😔

    • @kordact
      @kordact 3 года назад +13

      Not only that, your own family just have to remind you everyday for that

    • @goodra999
      @goodra999 3 года назад +2

      same for fiji indian family, lived with a pinoy family too while renting and the sister always said i look like i lost weight because i was gaining and losing it

    • @iambrunomouse
      @iambrunomouse 3 года назад +1

      True I'm from Nambia

  • @ivann9924
    @ivann9924 5 лет назад +2876

    Japan needs to learn to appreciate *T H I C C*

    • @marteumar8429
      @marteumar8429 5 лет назад +33

      ivan abed a HAHAHHAHAHAHAH

    • @mia578
      @mia578 5 лет назад +25

      i love this comment

    • @strawberryjam6235
      @strawberryjam6235 5 лет назад +16

      YES!! 👏👏👏👏👏

    • @bltnbros122
      @bltnbros122 5 лет назад +201

      Are you conscious that a THICC shape means having an hourglass shape? Thats literally lot harder than just been not fat.

    • @bunnychan3295
      @bunnychan3295 5 лет назад +6

      FRFR

  • @くろのかなた
    @くろのかなた 4 года назад +107

    健康的に痩せるって知識がないから
    怖いんだよな。
    食事抜いたりサプリ飲んだり
    炭水化物抜いてダイエットしたり
    それで拒食症になる人が多いからな。
    もしダイエットするなら
    病院に行って見てもらってから
    健康的に痩せてほしいなって思う。
    健康であればダイエットは
    しなくていいと思う。

    • @鬣犬-y9h
      @鬣犬-y9h 4 года назад +10

      体重も大事だけど、今の若い子は筋肉量と骨量の方が気にした方がいいのでは??
      昼食抜いてる(おそらく拒食症)友人はいつも顔が真っ青で、生理が来ると必ず貧血起こして早退、欠席
      足も手も握ったら骨折しちゃいそうなくらい細くてこっちが心配になる
      今ホントに多いよ、こういう子…
      足が小鹿並の細さ+運動もできないとなると老後は骨粗鬆症確定だろうね

  • @berenicegurrola4108
    @berenicegurrola4108 7 лет назад +215

    The last girl... Break my heart

  • @Gxgh0st
    @Gxgh0st 6 лет назад +84

    THAT LAST GIRL MADE ME SO SAD I WANT TO BE HER FRIEND AND TELL HER HOW BEAUTIFUL SHE IS ALL THE TIME

  • @yunami599
    @yunami599 6 лет назад +550

    Poor Japenese girls - I was living there for a few months and noticed most of them dont have any self-confidence. They are so focused on how others see them, that they have these very unhealthy beauty standarts.
    Funny and ironically (though exactly how they stated in the video) they observed me as a 'model' - being 166 and almost 60 kg back then. It makes absolutely no sense🤷‍♀️

    • @genericdeveloper3966
      @genericdeveloper3966 5 лет назад +36

      Better than over confident Western women

    • @Ice.muffin
      @Ice.muffin 5 лет назад +7

      @@genericdeveloper3966 Oh yeah, definitely.

    • @mylesanderson2861
      @mylesanderson2861 5 лет назад +1

      I suck toes for very long time 😂

    • @idkwhattoputhere7952
      @idkwhattoputhere7952 5 лет назад +129

      Randall Gmail over confident is better than starving yourself

    • @lazydaisy4453
      @lazydaisy4453 5 лет назад +82

      @@genericdeveloper3966 so are you saying that over confident women intimidate you ?

  • @justsomeguywithoutamustach8816
    @justsomeguywithoutamustach8816 4 года назад +114

    0:47
    -So you're like 5 ft tall?
    -Nah man I'm 4'12.

  • @pandemelocoton9685
    @pandemelocoton9685 5 лет назад +880

    Japan: "Westerners are taller, right?"
    My 1,57 ass: Am i a joke to you?

    • @nekozombie
      @nekozombie 4 года назад +23

      are you a girl or a boyo? 1.57 is pretty common for a girl. Also, it depends on the country you're in!

    • @billiemagro8219
      @billiemagro8219 4 года назад +44

      @@nekozombie 1,57 is pretty short (atleast in europe). The average is like 1,70

    • @nekozombie
      @nekozombie 4 года назад +4

      @@billiemagro8219 even for a girl? woah.

    • @billiemagro8219
      @billiemagro8219 4 года назад +27

      @@nekozombie Yes, for girls. I'm 1,57 too and pretty short compared to all the other girls here, but somewhere in Asia I'd look like a tower.

    • @brn9363
      @brn9363 4 года назад +16

      @@billiemagro8219i think 1.57 or 1.58 is average female height in japan.China (especially in the north) and korea are taller.I didnt know this, but it seems northern china average female height is 1.65-1.69

  • @rosphere4332
    @rosphere4332 5 лет назад +423

    Her: "i wanna be 38kg at 5'0!"
    Me and my 50 kg at 5'0: "hold my boba"

    • @DarkCeleste1260
      @DarkCeleste1260 4 года назад +2

      shinku ur skinny

    • @jannat3109
      @jannat3109 3 года назад +1

      Omfg imma exactly same as you we healthy cheers

    • @benreiners9451
      @benreiners9451 3 года назад +16

      @@DarkCeleste1260 Sorry, but 50Kg at 5'0 isn't skinny. It's normal and not too unhealthy, but definitely not skinny. I weigh 51-52Kg at 5'7 as a male and not even I am skinny.

    • @alishabilal5756
      @alishabilal5756 3 года назад +68

      @@benreiners9451 um. idk who you’ve been talking to but that’s underweight for your height. so yeah you probably are very skinny especially as a male

    • @alishabilal5756
      @alishabilal5756 3 года назад +28

      @@benreiners9451 it’s a bmi of around 17.6 which, especially for a guy, is underweight. it’s good you gained weight and i don’t mean to attack you but saying that 51 kg for a 5’7 guy is “normal” just isn’t true.

  • @snputri
    @snputri 7 лет назад +1991

    This is so wrong, idk when were this trend started, that whenever i met someone from past and that person is right away commenting my appearance, like "oh you gained weight" or "oh you look slimmer". Please, at least you can ask "how are you" or anything to open the conversation 😟
    I really don't get why people are so obsess with their own weight and also judge other people's weight.

    • @Humineral
      @Humineral 7 лет назад +35

      Because weight is directly proportional to health.
      Is it wrong for people to say "oh you quit smoking?"

    • @Humineral
      @Humineral 7 лет назад +29

      Yes it is.
      If you get too small you die, If you get too large you die.

    • @YouSillyClown
      @YouSillyClown 7 лет назад +93

      Also it's completely possible to eat healthy and exercise and still be considered "fat" by some standards. I don't think people understand how much genetics has to do with weight, like i've always been pretty skinny even though i don't exercise at all (except bicycling to places when it's warm enough) and my diet isn't that healthy but nobody keeps bugging me about my weight or health every time we meet.

    • @latifa4600
      @latifa4600 7 лет назад +48

      YouSillyClown you are totally right, I have a really slow metabolism while my sister have a quite fast one, we grew up having a really healthy Mediterranean diet, ... but she eats way more than me, still she is skinny while I'm a little bit overnight, but I will never go under diet, I need food to function, what I did was start going to the gym... and I kind like it now, I makes me feel less stressed 😁

    • @conformist
      @conformist 7 лет назад +48

      Dave "Because weight is directly proportional to health."
      I'm not sure about directly propotional, but yeah it's related for sure in some way.
      But people who make comments about someones weight is not referring to the weight and health correlation.
      They're referring to the weight in general. That's why there's people who don't like that comment.
      "Is it wrong for people to say "oh you quit smoking?"
      Weight is not the same thing as having quit smoking is.
      Quitting smoking is almost always a positive thing and something people want to hear, it's something they're proud of.
      But if you say: "oh you gained weight?", it's like you're smearing the obvious negative thing in their face.
      I'm not saying it's not okay to say it, I'm saying it can be rude. I not sure what you really mean by "is it wrong", there's so much that not wrong, but not socially acceptable.
      You can even say you think someone looks ugly as a fucking garbage can, is it wrong of me to say that if I really think so?
      Clearly you can see why it's not always a nice to comment on someones weight.

  • @ゆん-v1p
    @ゆん-v1p 4 года назад +45

    周りから太ったとは言われないけど痩せたら痩せたねとか可愛くなったねって言われるのが嬉しくてダイエットしてるな...結局自分の為もあるけど周りによく見られたいから私は痩せたいんだろうな...

    • @KKanaya-w4r
      @KKanaya-w4r 4 года назад

      優しい人、真面目な人とかって他人からしか与えられない称号?だから、わたしは周りからの評価を気にすることは悪いことじゃないと思います。
      た 他人からの評価に依存しすぎて、他人の言葉で自信を大きく失うようなことにならなければ周りによくみられることが自信に繋がるのならいいことです!(+にだけ繋がればokと言いたい)自分の中だけで自分を評価して自信につなげるのは難しい時もあります。自分は騙せないですから…

  • @AsukaSugimura
    @AsukaSugimura 7 лет назад +158

    im japanese and 155cm and my weight is 52kg my measures are : 83 - 68 - 95 and let me tell you i feel really good in my skin, but as this girls says I also used to think this way, but on the magazine it might look good but on the real life i dont think so. I used to have anorexia nervosa because of thos stupid magazines and my low selfsteem. I live in Argentina and people here likes curves, my bone structure is different from the standard japanese woman so with time I really embraced my whole body. I have insecurities but im grateful I can walk normally and move freely and this is key to accept yourself. (of course if you really dont like something of your body I think plastic surgery can help but ONLY if you do it for yourself )
    so yeah eat healthy meditate a lot and embrace the good and the bad

    • @juancarlosvaldes4538
      @juancarlosvaldes4538 7 лет назад +3

      Hello Tania and you are a beautiful woman!

    • @spirixx7117
      @spirixx7117 6 лет назад

      i'm 155 cm boy 14 years old and 40kg

    • @marianaavila3492
      @marianaavila3492 6 лет назад +6

      The important thing is to be healthy not what people say, so an advice for everyone could be, listen to doctors, not media :)

    • @lsamoa
      @lsamoa 6 лет назад

      Happy for you that you beat your illness and that you are feeling good in your skin now :)

    • @multicolores1
      @multicolores1 5 лет назад

      I am from Argentina but living in Japan,now.
      I am hafu.
      Enjoy Argentina!!!

  • @mynameisinuse6542
    @mynameisinuse6542 5 лет назад +1515

    Omg. Everybody has a clear skin. 🙄

    • @jenie9977
      @jenie9977 5 лет назад +51

      This comment come out of the blue...but you have a point😂

    • @lazydaisy4453
      @lazydaisy4453 5 лет назад +45

      I was thinking the same thing .. they have clear skin + nice smile

    • @ctrlzme.6448
      @ctrlzme.6448 5 лет назад +68

      Their makeup looks so damn natural

    • @Nepty
      @Nepty 5 лет назад +26

      Well they’re adults and most adults don’t experience as much acne

    • @noodles1291
      @noodles1291 5 лет назад +66

      My Name Is In Use I find that East Asian people (Japanese, Korean and Chinese people) have clearer skin than most other groups of people, they usually have a healthy diet and good skincare routines along with really natural looking makeup

  • @proxility8981
    @proxility8981 6 лет назад +967

    yo did anybody else notice the guy in the background at 0:57
    he is looking good

    • @AnimeAngelK
      @AnimeAngelK 5 лет назад +73

      Damn right! thanks for pointing him out. 😻

    • @idekanymore1624
      @idekanymore1624 5 лет назад +11

      Lol yeah

    • @randomrock454
      @randomrock454 5 лет назад +4

      Yeah

    • @zj7666
      @zj7666 5 лет назад +125

      I kinda like those two at 0:30 cool vibes

    • @exowthyou
      @exowthyou 5 лет назад +64

      @@zj7666 they look like idols...wow

  • @kirbysupercalifragilistic7819
    @kirbysupercalifragilistic7819 3 года назад +30

    This made my heart heavy for the women in japan.. theyre so beautiful and look to be in great shape, i cant even begin to imagine how people would call them fat

  • @screamingismyair
    @screamingismyair 7 лет назад +478

    4' 12".... you mean 5' 0? LOL

    • @dhanajon5528
      @dhanajon5528 7 лет назад +2

      Kevin Tran I don't get it.

    • @Kanji101
      @Kanji101 7 лет назад +38

      There's 12 inches in a foot

    • @Soko234
      @Soko234 7 лет назад +11

      Jack Lee yea so it's 5'0

    • @theo7236
      @theo7236 6 лет назад +3

      Beat me to it by a year lol

    • @grooveaissance
      @grooveaissance 6 лет назад +1

      marian tt no it's 4'12

  • @crowe286
    @crowe286 7 лет назад +380

    Building a nation of women with eating disorders. Not one mentioned a healthy alternative. They have the whole concept of beauty & weight completely wrong not to mention self image issues that are alarming.

    • @lawlicht8092
      @lawlicht8092 7 лет назад +31

      Why are you talking about America in a video about Japanese girls?

    • @therobin980
      @therobin980 7 лет назад +2

      Clemens Cave funny

    • @kimia743
      @kimia743 7 лет назад +14

      Yeah because Americans are sooo healthy. I can't even.

    • @therobin980
      @therobin980 7 лет назад +3

      I have 7 husbands many Americans don't have a healthy relationship with food, so do the Korean people in this video.

    • @kimia743
      @kimia743 7 лет назад +11

      the Robin First of all they are Japanese and second eating less food is healthier than eating MacDonalds 24/7

  • @rotg20
    @rotg20 5 лет назад +622

    I'm 153cm and when I had cancer I reached a rock bottom of 39kg...honestly wasn't a very cute look. I'm just fine with being 48 and healthy :3

    • @shishi1103
      @shishi1103 5 лет назад +56

      I truly hope you're doing better now 💙

    • @heyitsc8723
      @heyitsc8723 5 лет назад +38

      honestly, I'm 153cm and 47kg and I don't feel fat at all, that girl that wanted to be 38kg at a similar height is just mind blowing, I hope you're doing okay now ❤

    • @user-px1mk7fj7l
      @user-px1mk7fj7l 5 лет назад +9

      Are you ok now ?? I hope so 🙏

    • @iloveithere12347
      @iloveithere12347 5 лет назад +4

      I hope you're having a beautiful life💜💚

    • @rotg20
      @rotg20 5 лет назад +3

      @@heyitsc8723 Yeah, I think it's a good measurements! and thank you

  • @mikimuu683
    @mikimuu683 4 года назад +162

    153cmで理想が38kgって普通に痩せすぎじゃない?基準がよく分からなくなってくる😂

    • @nanalala8335
      @nanalala8335 4 года назад +14

      漫画じゃあるまいし、そんな子あんまり居ないんじゃないかな?
      そもそも居ても少し痩せすぎかもね、ちょっと心配になるかもw

    • @アイスティー-i4t
      @アイスティー-i4t 4 года назад +18

      痩せすぎだと思いますが、実際そのレベルの子も友達にいます😅身長がかなり高いので少し体重は増えますが同じような感じです、、

    • @ks-eg8gq
      @ks-eg8gq 4 года назад +16

      153センチならやばいくらい痩せすぎにはならない気がする。。
      桐谷美玲は164センチでそのぐらいの体重だから痩せすぎだけど。

    • @koko-n9e6m
      @koko-n9e6m 4 года назад

      私毎日沢山食べてそれくらいですけど筋肉少ないのでそのくらいですし割とそのくらいならいる気します!

    • @user-dm7iv2rj1d
      @user-dm7iv2rj1d 4 года назад +1

      自分165で48なんですけど痩せ型に入りますか?

  • @Ana-wm1pe
    @Ana-wm1pe 7 лет назад +602

    38 kg thats my weight. And i am 14 years old. The doctor keeps on telling me to start gaining more weight

    • @kimhaneul1509
      @kimhaneul1509 7 лет назад +60

      well, how fucking tall are you?

    • @pinkpussy5551
      @pinkpussy5551 7 лет назад +11

      아나 ana I use to weigh 80 pounds when I was 13 and 4'11". Since I had my grow spurt, I have gained more than 50 pounds and around 5'10". I can still eat a damn elephant and not get fat thanks to my metabolism lol.

    • @Claudia-it6ol
      @Claudia-it6ol 7 лет назад +1

      Nerf This!!! are u SERIOUS?

    • @Ana-wm1pe
      @Ana-wm1pe 7 лет назад +4

      Soli Nino I am 4"7 or 139.7 cm tall

    • @allure767
      @allure767 7 лет назад +12

      Well that's because you are short, right?? You have the BMI 20 and that's not skinny at all!!!

  • @hijack69
    @hijack69 7 лет назад +859

    Could you do the same video but with men?

    • @Raphanne
      @Raphanne 7 лет назад +38

      Yes, that would be interesting. I have Japanese male friends and they also want to become skinny. In my country (France) they are already considered very skinny but they tell me they need to be skinnier in Japan because "that's what Japanese women like".

    • @oguzoflaz270
      @oguzoflaz270 7 лет назад +12

      Raphanne wtf does the japananese male have to become a skelet to get laid.

    • @oguzoflaz270
      @oguzoflaz270 7 лет назад +3

      wow that sucks

    • @hessaa1712
      @hessaa1712 7 лет назад

      Hi Jack yeah I was wonder what men may say "-"

    • @xoloitzcuintle8150
      @xoloitzcuintle8150 7 лет назад +1

      Hi Jack Japan is trash..👎👎 !!

  • @allyd-moon2875
    @allyd-moon2875 7 лет назад +344

    Although there isn't much i particularly like about Western culture, one reason i like living in the West is because it is a lot less fussy about physical appearances than ALL of Asia (that i know of, like Bangladesh, Pakistan, Japan, Korea etc). I love Asian culture in general, but their extremely superficial focus on looks is a little too much for me.

    • @glassangel4186
      @glassangel4186 6 лет назад +1

      Ally D-Moon gotta love Australia

    • @SunnySide388
      @SunnySide388 5 лет назад +30

      Ria Rio
      Skin colour is a big deal in both of those places. People fuss about how to not look dark because being dark means you work out in the sun which then means you must be poor and uneducated because you don't have a nice office job. This mentality also applies to the entirety of Asia though.

    • @abx877
      @abx877 5 лет назад

      @@riorio745 yes it is, it's mainly from relatives

    • @fluorescentbubbles6498
      @fluorescentbubbles6498 5 лет назад

      Ria Rio no, literally all my family comment on my weight whenever I see them and if I get a tan they think I look weird... (literally extended family too etc) I hate it!

    • @SirKakalaCh
      @SirKakalaCh 5 лет назад +5

      they have a superficial focus on everything not just looks, Im literally going crazy studying in Japan, reality is nothing near marketing sadly

  • @leeny3952
    @leeny3952 4 года назад +66

    Some people forget there's a difference between being skinny and being healthy

  • @tjppcta4721
    @tjppcta4721 5 лет назад +410

    痩せたい日本人
    ↓↓↓

    • @gorillemon
      @gorillemon 4 года назад +13

      食事制限とかせずに1日10分でいいからスクワット10回3セットだけして欲しい

    • @miylx8396
      @miylx8396 4 года назад

      Hello

    • @Hebi_1412
      @Hebi_1412 3 года назад

      aaaa I can't understand the first kanji

  • @mooncake4371
    @mooncake4371 7 лет назад +486

    Living in Japan right now, and walking around, the girls AND guys here are so petite and thin, I feel like they'll break with just me standing next to them. They look so fragile and weak, and when I'm out and about, I feel like a ginormous whale! It seems that the Japanese aren't so into buff looking guys and toned girls. They just want to be thin.

    • @Nevermorepicker
      @Nevermorepicker 5 лет назад +13

      For the girls I think so, but girls still love macho looking man. Japanese men typically love weak-fragile looking women and if they have superb visual the men would go crazy for her.

    • @Luna-ry8lv
      @Luna-ry8lv 5 лет назад +17

      @@Nevermorepicker honestly Japanese men go crazy for any pretty woman, like other men. An Indian friend of mine, who's quite confident, was quite popular there

    • @BloodyRegrets
      @BloodyRegrets 5 лет назад +1

      When I lived there I was chubby and seen as fat but stronger than all the locals men and women. I was seen as odd.

    • @rryase
      @rryase 5 лет назад +13

      Lol my friend's mom says the men are so skinny their semen will dry up and end the Japanese line. (she's Japanese)

    • @Luna-ry8lv
      @Luna-ry8lv 5 лет назад +3

      @@rryase wtf lol

  • @ailinhernandez5004
    @ailinhernandez5004 6 лет назад +215

    0:27 her friend with the grey jacket in the middle💀💀💀 she even blinked like "wait wha-"

  • @AhnastasiaRose
    @AhnastasiaRose 3 года назад +31

    "Do you think you're fat?"
    They all answered yes almost before he even finished the question. I feel like regardless of weight, women tend to just automatically answer this question with "yes." At least all the women I know.

  • @preciousoh705
    @preciousoh705 5 лет назад +99

    "Have you ever wondered what is considered fat in Japan?"
    My pinky. My pinky is fat in Japan.

  • @daisyxdolly643
    @daisyxdolly643 7 лет назад +60

    Maybe wrong, but I sense the lady at the end of the video wanted to cry.

  • @sarahdell4744
    @sarahdell4744 6 лет назад +149

    These girls are not fat, especially by American standards. They look healthy and a lot of women here wish they could be like these girls. Yes our bone structure is large and most women here are on average between 5' & 6'. I'm 5'6" which is about a foot taller than some of the women on this video.

    • @sarahdell4744
      @sarahdell4744 6 лет назад +4

      *Ria* the proud stan of legendary BTS I stand corrected at half a foot. 😂

    • @alishabanu693
      @alishabanu693 5 лет назад

      -F r a n k i e - R o s e- because society hasn’t told guys that they’re ugly yet 😂😭
      (it’s a joke btw)

  • @ivealwaysbeenswimming9030
    @ivealwaysbeenswimming9030 4 года назад +247

    Update!: In japan there have been “po-charri kisas” which translates as japanese slang for “chubby (girl) cafes” or cosplay restaurants. They embrace girls who are on the chubbier (NOT OBESE) or a bit over the restrictive standard weight. Ofc they don’t discriminate and thin girls can get hired [allegedly]. In a sense, it could be due to the fetishized image of women which is kinda... but at least they are being more accepting of different weights? Idk this is all alleged and I heard it from a secondary source so if you wanna look into it, look it up :). Slowly, the world is changing. (I hope)

    • @kellievanellie
      @kellievanellie 4 года назад +12

      I love this! I think, maybe not if it’s mainly fetish driven but, still... a step in the right direction? Hahaha, I think? Lol. I like the name chubby cafes at least

    • @ArcadianWizard
      @ArcadianWizard 4 года назад +13

      I searched this up and got results for liver cirrhosis

    • @crystalsnow9069
      @crystalsnow9069 3 года назад +6

      They also have school girl cafes, I don‘t think any of this is a good idea

  • @philiparisparimabelle3244
    @philiparisparimabelle3244 5 лет назад +149

    Am I the only one who feel so tall after watching this

    • @bennogb5069
      @bennogb5069 5 лет назад +2

      How tall are you? I felt tall and I ussually dont since im 183cm at 14, while my family is huge.
      My mom is like 184cm and my dad 200, while everybody in my family exept my sisters are taller than me.

    • @natsuki7278
      @natsuki7278 5 лет назад +2

      I'm 18, 150 cm tall (4'11) and I'm the sixth shortest in my class. The shortest girl is just 139 cm (4'7) which surprises me, even though I am used to people being really short. Excuse me if my english is bad 😅

    • @bennogb5069
      @bennogb5069 5 лет назад +1

      @@natsuki7278 The shortest guys in my class are really short too.
      One guy is 4'9 and the other is 4'10 at 15.

    • @Engeneyeoi
      @Engeneyeoi 5 лет назад +1

      I also feel so tall because I am 16 year old and 160cm tall

    • @orange_ruby
      @orange_ruby 4 года назад +2

      Honestlyyy! I'm 162cm and literally everyone I hang out with is between 175~195 lmao

  • @simonriley983
    @simonriley983 7 лет назад +107

    At 6:17 it looked like she was almost about to cry :(

    • @mibella
      @mibella 5 месяцев назад

      Yeah it’s sad… I cry when people judge me too. But I hope she’s able to heal from people’s judgements.

  • @AsianBoss
    @AsianBoss  7 лет назад +1278

    We will be holding a one-off live Q&A session on Tuesday, April 4 from 9pm PDT so make sure to drop by and ask us as many questions as you like. Hope to see you all there!

    • @ProEvoFifa59
      @ProEvoFifa59 7 лет назад +8

      Asian Boss make a video about ideal height

    • @wyass4722
      @wyass4722 7 лет назад

      Asian Boss (sorry for the bad english) I would like to see what Japanese people think about jk (enjo kosai)

    • @wyass4722
      @wyass4722 7 лет назад

      BigBrotherPinkie sort of. enjo kosai is the "compensated date" with school girls. it doesn't happen every time, but most part of them end in sex.... of school girls with adults.

    • @Andrea-cy9pn
      @Andrea-cy9pn 6 лет назад +1

      Asian Boss waw.. I have almost the same height as those girls but in my country where everyone is curvy i look like a skinny little girl which used to annoy me. Now i just accept myself and worry about being healthy. They shouldn't cut down on food. They are pretty the way the are.

    • @shreeabraham
      @shreeabraham 5 лет назад

      Please also make about what Americans think about there obesity

  • @gam4938
    @gam4938 4 года назад +26

    I’m learning Japanese rn and I’m so proud bc I could pick up on some words!

    • @Elfinablacksuit
      @Elfinablacksuit 3 года назад +1

      I can feel you.... Keep going. Most probably now you are very good at Japanese since a year had already passed 😊👍

  • @SpinchBabeeey
    @SpinchBabeeey 5 лет назад +64

    The tallest girl with the black jacket on has a really beautiful face 🥰

  • @whole_milkk
    @whole_milkk 4 года назад +106

    If they’re considered fat, then I’m a whale. 😂😭

  • @marynellebanas4374
    @marynellebanas4374 5 лет назад +234

    I guess this is why Japan has the lowest obesity rate.

    • @karinaadame7360
      @karinaadame7360 4 года назад +22

      Yeah and I always thought it was because of their diet.

    • @joshualozada8132
      @joshualozada8132 4 года назад +21

      Kari Adame Its actually that too. Japanese people are healthy ASF

    • @s.a.8548
      @s.a.8548 4 года назад +9

      Joshua Lozada No working out = Not healthy

    • @traciathome2621
      @traciathome2621 4 года назад +11

      Joshua Lozada sure, the traditional Japanese diet is very healthy, but the young people of japan don’t have time for that with their work schedule. So you eat bento boxes and fast foods a lot. ^-^

    • @Nath-gl7xd
      @Nath-gl7xd 4 года назад +9

      Still, they have a high number of eating disorders if its a common sense skip meals or don’t eat at all to lose weight. I guess that living in a society this judgemental may be one of the reasons why suicide level is so high on japan.

  • @ブルッ
    @ブルッ 4 года назад +220

    これいつの映像だってくらい、化粧が昔っぽいというか濃いというかw

    • @かえる-s9t
      @かえる-s9t 4 года назад +1

      それ

    • @こんぶ-s4g
      @こんぶ-s4g 4 года назад +11

      3年前ってだけでこんなに流行りって変わるんですね笑

  • @123静水丨流深
    @123静水丨流深 7 лет назад +25

    Most girls just have rounded face but their bodys are not fat.

  • @Yvn96
    @Yvn96 5 лет назад +124

    まってこのインタビュアー日本語うますぎてびびった

  • @kokolow_Blade_of_Miquella_04
    @kokolow_Blade_of_Miquella_04 5 лет назад +146

    それ以上痩せないでほしい
    モデルを基準にしないでほしい