Both tried. Both really tried to save it, wanting to take a break from a relationship to strengthen a bond with the help of a counselor is trying to save it. That’s why Arizona is there, that’s why she suggested a counselor.
@@juliiouus96 tbh callie tried more harder in the beggining with the Africa thing and kids but at the end Arizona decided to try hard when callie didn't want to anymore
i actually loved this episode, it was so great to see Callie stand up for herself and let Arizona go. I was a huge calzona shipper but their relationship had become so toxic, it was so refreshing to see her choose herself.
lnkamal I agree with you. A part of me hopes that later in the series, they'll get back together. But I think this episode is one of the most realistic and relatable episodes of the series.
7 years later after this comment, I found myself in a pretty similar situation to Callie and this episode hits differently now. 'no matter how hard we try we have to realise, something's just can't be fixed'
Their relationship didn’t become toxic, it was already toxic. Arizona was always a horrible person and Callie was always give and give and doing everything in the best interest of her.
I was so happy for Callie. She finally chose herself. She'd been running behind Arizona and begging Arizona to love her. Callie is choosing to love herself.
@@sydneysykes4312 you sound sick. That’s like kidnapping. Callie is Sophie’s mom and she’s an amazing mom. Giving her to Arizona really shows how messed up the system can be and is because bs like this happens all the time and people like you condone it. Just sick smh
The most touching part about this is that Callie still does love Arizona, but realizes that they are capable of feeling happier -without each other (in a relationship) and therefore just wants the best for her (and herself of course). I think this is BY FAR the hardest scenario of how a relationship ends - when love is still there, but at least one understands that it is not the right think to keep going.
Ending a relationship when love is still there is like one of the hardest thing a person can do but at the same time you know that if you stayed it wasn’t going to work. So you just have to learn to walk away
Sandra Oh, Katherine Heigl and Chandra Wilson were always at the forefront with it came to acting chops, but I felt that Sara Ramirez belonged right up there with them. Such a good actress. Plus, she can sing.
omg ive never seen anyone appreciate Katherine's acting she was soo good with her expressions and all and the rest of them were amazing too. also, Sara's singing gave me goosebumps
Yes! Sandra Oh, Katherine Heigl and Sara Ramirez did an excellent job with their roles! Honorable mentions: Sarah Drew, Kate Walsh and Geena Davis. Current best actress on the show: Chandra Wilson, Caterina Scorsone and Kelly McCleary
I respected Callie's choice in this moment. She does love Arizona....but by loving Arizona she lost the part of herself that was happy. That was passionate about her work. That enjoyed being a mother. She was stuck. And when they took the month to be apart, she found herself again and she didn't want to lose that joy and freedom. I get it.
The best part of Callie is her acting goes above and beyond what most actors do. She tears me up deep inside to the core when she starts breaking out in a sobbing fest!
Man..... I remember originally watching this thinking, "Oh God.... those are not tears of joy" before Callie said anything lol reality is, Arizona put Callie through A LOT. It's understandable that she wanted to be free of her. But I do want them back together!!!!
@@mimiel7938 there's so much lol along with abandoning Callie at the airport to go to Africa, then coming back like nothing happened... after Arizona lost her leg from a plane crash things took an even darker turn... she started mistreating Callie and shutting her out. Then just when they fought their way out of that, Arizona sleeps with some random doctor. Then when they get through that, Callie finds out that while they were separated Arizona slept with an intern which causes a chain reaction that ultimately leads to Callie getting in trouble. Then ultimately it came down to the fact that Callie had been burning both ends of the candle throughout their relationship and just got to the point where she needed to just let it go, phew!
@@braelynandrade356 because she didn't leave Callie FOR Callie. she left for herself, which is fine! she had every right. the issue was waiting to leave her when they've already gotten to the airport and Callie had already dropped everything to go with her, that's one. two, Arizona came back and thought that simply showing her face would be enough to be welcomed back in. Arizona said it herself later on that she bails when things are tough. for me, her going to Africa alone was the best thing for Arizona, hands down. But at the same time that shouldn't eliminate the pain it caused Callie.
@@RedBalloonSky2750 also, every time callie wanted to talk or before the car crash, Arizona questions Callie sexuality like "are you one of those fake lesbians? Just having a vacation in lesbian land" or " i get the gay you"
Sara Ramirez is non binary, they go by "they" and "them" pronouns, so its "actor" (not "actress"). That said, they are phenomenal, and this was all around a great scene.
@@jacquidoucet8308 why actor has though? If non binary folks don’t accept neither female or male nouns, pronouns or adjetives. I think it should be something else rather than actress or actor 🤷🏽♀️🤷♂️
"The last 30 days have taught me so much. And all I wanted when we first came here was to know that we would leave together. But from the minute I sat down, I could feel it. I felt like I was gonna be suffocated. The last several weeks I have laughed more, I have done more, I have enjoyed myself more than not. And I finally feel free. And by being free, I can see now that constantly trying to fix us is the thing that's been killing me slowly. And I don't want to do it anymore, I don't want to fix it for fix us anymore.
As a big Calzona shipper, the first time I watched this, I just couldn't accept this bc all I wanted was for my ship to sail smoothly already! But now nearly three years later...now that I'm in the same shoes as Callie was in...now I understand it's true...that some things just really can't be fixed. No matter how hard you try.
Yes I’m in the exact same boat except my ex is the one pregnant and I’m the one fighting. I honestly realized now that it isn’t worth it I’m losing myself loving her. I spent 4 months trying to fix us that I broke me more. I didn’t accept the calzona thing til I understood it 😭💯
This broke my heart more than anything ever has before. How could two people who loved each other soooo much get to this point. I’m happy that Callie finally realized she needed to love herself after taking care of Arizona for so long. And I’m happy that Arizona realized what she had infront of her that whole time, Callie was soooo good to her. Hopefully they find themselves again and down the line find a little bit of eachother still in their hearts and realize their still in love with eachother, because they were meant to be. ❤️
I was so happy when Callie said all she did here. As usual, Arizona was all about herself and what SHE needs, and what SHE is ready for, and SHE loves Callie. Callie always deserved better. Arizona really put her through the ringer, over and over and over again, always proclaiming at the end tthat the one thing she needs is Arizona when the truth is that she wanted Callie AND she wanted to have her own way whenever and whomever she wanted. Wanted Callie to keep waiting for her. To keep taking her back. So, yeah, bravo Callie!
I cheered Callie on. She was Arizona’s shadow for so long and allowed so many hurtful things to slide because she didn’t want to fail again. Good for you Callie. Kick that biphobic cheating person to the side.
@@torakunoichi especially what was stupid about it all is that Arizona refused to sleep with Callie for the longest time after the accident because she was scared and insecure about her leg but then immediately jumped in the bed with someone she didn’t even know and trusted that person more than she trusted her own wife so yeah
@@bryannadavis1804 not excusing it but I can see why Arizona doesn’t want Callie to touch her: Callie’s the one who had to make the shitty call to cut her leg off A random person doesn’t have the weight of that decision hanging over their heads they’re just some person who can make you feel good and different about yourself Arizona should have NEVER cheated and the shitty thing is Callie tried so hard to be there for her
This break was such a coin toss, either one of them would realize there were other things to be happy about instead of always fighting and trying to fix things. Arizona realized how much she loved her, and all she needed was Callie to be happy, but on the other hand Callie realized she loved her, but it was killing her in the process. I LOVE them together, and i do hope they get back together sometime. As Callie said, "i should be myself for a while, i should love me, and you should love you" its so, so important, they need to learn to love themselves before they love each other again and get back together.
"Maybe instead of loving you so hard, I should be myself for a while. I should love me. And you should love you. And together we love Sofia rather than..."
I loved Calzona right up until the point Arizona did a George and cheated on Callie after everything she had done for her. At that point, all I wanted was for Callie to be happy with someone who deserved her... Which was DEFINITELY not Penny, but still... At least she's happy.
@@braelynandrade356 the difference here is MARRIAGE. Callie had sex with Mark AFTER she broke up with George while they were just dating. And Callie had sex with Mark while she was dating Erica but ... Erica and Callie hadn't had any exclusivity talks at that time. They were DATING. George and Callie were married when he cheated on her. Callie and Arizona were married when Arizona cheated on her. HUGE difference. HUGE.
@@happyaccident105doesn't matter if you're married or dating cheating is still cheating. You don't cheat on the person your with regardless if your married or dating
I’m sorry to say they were never perfect ever since Arizona cheated their relationship has never been the same Callie tried everything to forgive Arizona but Callie will always see Arizona “ as the wife who cheated because I tried to save her life” it’s just mind blowing that Arizona doesn’t realize that if Callie never cut off her leg she would never see Sofia take her first steps, or say her first words. But to me the relationship has never been the same since the accident and when Arizona cheated. And I also respect your opinion
For some reason, I really enjoy watching this episode, despite it being such a sad Calzona episode. My shipper heart hurts, yet still finds room to appreciate it. I think it's because for so many couples on TV we get slow burns, which I love, but we didn't really get that for Calzona they jumped quite quickly into their relationship. I also appreciate the fact that both Arizona and Callie are much more mature in this episode, it really shows.
This is what happens when you push your issues down. You end up feeling trapped in the relationship and like it's a burden. They should have dealt with their issues ages ago rather than rushing things and trying to act like everything is ok until someone does something big like cheat.
I don’t understand why Arizona didn’t go therapy from the beginning ? She definitely needed it, if she did all of this would have been avoided. I’m so happy for Callie, she did nothing but put Arizona first from agreeing to not having children, to agreeing to go Africa then Arizona leaving her at the airport, car crash, losing mark and nearly losing her wife, being emotional abused by her wife then cheated on. Sorry Callie has been through alot and not once did she think about herself.
I really loved Callie and Arizona in the beginning. I did. But after Arizona left Callie over kids and then left her again to go to Africa and then checked out on her emotionally when Mark died and blamed Callie for saving her actual life by removing her leg ... then denied her sex ... then CHEATED on her with a total stranger ... I was kinda over it. The final nail in the coffin for me where this ship is concerned was Arizona taking Callie to court for custody of Sofia and THEN deciding in the end, after she OBLITERATED Callie by taking her child ... that Callie's initial idea of sharing custody of Sofia was the right thing to do. Arizona acted like she was doing Callie some huge favor by letting her take Sofia to New York but it was Callie's idea to begin with. That's how Callie wanted it. They didn't need the courts or Arizona having full custody of Sofia. They should have worked it out together like Callie wanted them to do. Arizona is just really selfish and self-involved. She claimed to be a good man in the storm ... and then avoided Callie over stupid chicken pox because she wanted to stay in the sexy place instead of taking care of her. She eventually caved but it took seeing Mark actually being there for Callie to make her realize that SHE should be there. She's just ... awful in so many ways.
Yes! Thank you! You totally get it! Unlike the lunatics defending Arizona taking custody of Sophia on that clip! Omgosh… I just said basically the same thing you said to those people on that clip. I just can’t even with those people. Arizona is just the worst! Callie is too good for her!
Huzzah!!! Finally they have broken up. I used to like the as a couple, but the last 2 seasons, yeesh! On to greener pastures and new love interests, these two had become the new Crowen.
+gardenhead904 hey how about you shut your punk ass up ok. I have also lost a little calzona hope BUT I SURELY DONT HOPE THEY GO FUCK OTHER PEOPLE. I mean really. Calzona shippers are mourning, thats why we come to this episode. And you had to make your punkass comment like some little punkass. I hate you.
Why is everyone cursing like first of all it was an opinion and I understand people are moarning but the reason I came to watch this is so I can comment that thank god they broke up because after Arizona cheated I hated her couldn’t look at her the same and remember this is my opinion you are aloud to disagree but not to tell me I’m wrong
"i dont wanna do it anymore, i dont wanna fix it or fix us anymore.. maybe instead of loving you so hard .. i should be myself for awhile .. i should love me.." 😔🥺 callie's character is loving person but she gaves up for choosing herself.. callie deserves more.. slow clap for sara ramirez on this scene 👏👏
I know i am 9 years late but i understand Callie 😢 i cried a lot in their journey but this is the reality 💔 they tried so hard .. and i believed Callie deserves better. People all calling her out for acting like she is in the plane crash but the truth is she is just sympathetic towards her partner's feeling ,support and understand her even in her worst days due to PTSD and blaming her for that leg and worst she cheated , her reason is because lauren accepts or likes her for what she is now without realizing that Lauren knows her less than a week and disappear in the morning when she knows that Callie found out about it🤦 gosshhh .. her reasons ? I am not buying it
Back then when I watched this scene I didn’t understand. I was so sad that they broke up. Now that I rewatch it I finally understand. You must love yourself in order to love someone else.
I never liked Arizona and I always thought Callie deserved better... this was honestly such a beautiful moment where Callie finally realized that she was better off without her and I really wish they followed through with it and gave her a better love interest than P*nny lmao
Sometimes the truth has to be said... We all grow and sometimes even growing apart is best for everyone We all should focus on loving ourselves more that's were the healing is ❤ Because sometimes some things are better left broken 👏#Free#unconitionallyloveyou#BebetterDoBetter
According to Shonda, Callie & Arizona will begin relationships with other people in season 12. I think they'll get back together before the shows ends, though ...... at least that's what I hope for!
Eu não entendia pq a callie fez isso... Hoje estando na mesma posição que ela e abrindo mão da pessoa que mais amei na vida. Simplesmente não dá! Tentar consertar algo sozinha é tóxico e te mata aos poucos
If it's really true love then you wouldn't cheat on your partner and emotionally abuse her. Everything Callie does is put Arizona's best interest at heart. Even if the execution isn't perfect, none of it was Callie's fault. Callie did not break Arizona's leg, but she had the best interest at heart because she knew that Arizona's life was more valuable than just be a leg. Callie baby's Arizona for more than a year and in turn she gets emotionally abused. Callie is stressed out, burnt out and used her utmost effort to try and make Arizona happy yet Arizona continues to put Callie through an undeserving hell and cheats not once but 20 times. I understand, Arizona may feel that she doesn't want Callie to keep fixing things when others already see her as enough, but Callie sees Arizona as perfect and wants things better for Arizona - this is the reason Callie baby's her because she thinks of new bond with Arizona as true love.
i am so happy for callie. she finally choose her happiness. their relationship was becoming so toxic since arizona cheated on callie, and i honestly felt so happy for callie, they both deserve someone better for eachothers.
It's like you want a couple to be together and hate the writers for messing things up. But the way the story was going I actually cried of joy with Callie, you deserve better honey. Fuck Arizona P.s. I love the therapist's face. "Dammn"
Oh you all should see the lunatics pulling for Arizona to have custody of Sophia on that clip. I just had to remind them all how awful Arizona has been to Callie from the very beginning of their relationship. She never even wanted kids. Then she wanted to die after she lost her leg… Arizona didn’t think Sophia was worth fighting to live for then. She just wanted to hate on Callie and blame her for her leg, and hate her for not being on the plane, and use that as an excuse for cheating on her. Then go to this crappy therapist who gives them the worst advise and Arizona is all to eager to take what any sane person who really wants to save their marriage knows is crappy advice. There is a reason people tell married people to never go to bed angry at each other. This is that reason. Animosity stews and grows with each silent night. So 30 in a row… That was cruel and wrong of Arizona. And bad advice from a “marriage therapist.” It did give Callie the confidence to stand up for herself…finally! And I give the therapist no credit for that at all. Arizona is the reason their marriage ended and they even had to have joint custody of Sophia to begin with. Then she gets jealous of Callie for moving on with Penny. And takes custody of Sophia. Because she hasn’t hurt Callie enough and just can’t stand to let Callie go in with her life and take her child and be happy. No Arizona has to be selfish once again. I truly cannot stand how Arizona has always treated Callie! Arizona is just a rotten and selfish person.
Arizona loves Sofia and called her her child before she was even born... I agree with a lot of Arizona slander but invalidating her as a mother isn't right. And tbh she deserved to win that custody battle. Sofia was her daughter too, and Callie was trying to make a huge change while assuming Arizona would just lie down and be ok with it.
Arizona loves Sofia and called her her child before she was even born... I agree with a lot of Arizona slander but invalidating her as a mother isn't right. And tbh she deserved to win that custody battle. Sofia was her daughter too, and Callie was trying to make a huge change while assuming Arizona would just lie down and be ok with it.
When the person who tried so hard to save the relationship finally gives up
Both tried. Both really tried to save it, wanting to take a break from a relationship to strengthen a bond with the help of a counselor is trying to save it. That’s why Arizona is there, that’s why she suggested a counselor.
@@juliiouus96 tbh callie tried more harder in the beggining with the Africa thing and kids but at the end Arizona decided to try hard when callie didn't want to anymore
@@juliiouus96 callie gets more points tho cause arizona cheated
Cherizar right
jessicasadlibs arizona didn’t try that hard because when they separated she damn near had a whole other relationship with the intern so bye
But no matter how hard we try, we have to realize some things just can't be fixed..💔
PREACH!
You took the words right out my mouth
You can actually feel the freedom after this words
i actually loved this episode, it was so great to see Callie stand up for herself and let Arizona go. I was a huge calzona shipper but their relationship had become so toxic, it was so refreshing to see her choose herself.
lnkamal
I'm in season 9, and I just spoiled myself. I ship Calzona hard too. Why? 😭😭
lnkamal I agree with you. A part of me hopes that later in the series, they'll get back together. But I think this episode is one of the most realistic and relatable episodes of the series.
7 years later after this comment, I found myself in a pretty similar situation to Callie and this episode hits differently now.
'no matter how hard we try we have to realise, something's just can't be fixed'
Their relationship didn’t become toxic, it was already toxic. Arizona was always a horrible person and Callie was always give and give and doing everything in the best interest of her.
I was so happy for Callie. She finally chose herself. She'd been running behind Arizona and begging Arizona to love her. Callie is choosing to love herself.
Yesss I was sooo happy that she gave up with Arizona becuse Arizona has been dragging callie down and boe shes free
Than they gave her child to Arizona. I never wanted to stop watching a show so fast 🤬
@@TheBible_ as they should’ve
@@sydneysykes4312 you sound sick. That’s like kidnapping. Callie is Sophie’s mom and she’s an amazing mom. Giving her to Arizona really shows how messed up the system can be and is because bs like this happens all the time and people like you condone it. Just sick smh
@@TheBible_ it’s not kidnapping when the child has been LEGALLY adopted and just so we’re clear not all biological parents are good ones
“I can see now that constantly trying to fix us is the thing that’s been killing me, slowly..” 😭😭 felt that 💔
The most touching part about this is that Callie still does love Arizona, but realizes that they are capable of feeling happier -without each other (in a relationship) and therefore just wants the best for her (and herself of course). I think this is BY FAR the hardest scenario of how a relationship ends - when love is still there, but at least one understands that it is not the right think to keep going.
Ending a relationship when love is still there is like one of the hardest thing a person can do but at the same time you know that if you stayed it wasn’t going to work. So you just have to learn to walk away
Ughh Callie’s acting in this scene is so moving
Sandra Oh, Katherine Heigl and Chandra Wilson were always at the forefront with it came to acting chops, but I felt that Sara Ramirez belonged right up there with them. Such a good actress. Plus, she can sing.
So true!!! Those three actresses were the show!
omg ive never seen anyone appreciate Katherine's acting she was soo good with her expressions and all and the rest of them were amazing too. also, Sara's singing gave me goosebumps
@@daisys7255 What? Everyone appreciates Katherine Heigl most of the time
@@confusedhomosapien6231 I've barely seen it
Yes! Sandra Oh, Katherine Heigl and Sara Ramirez did an excellent job with their roles! Honorable mentions: Sarah Drew, Kate Walsh and Geena Davis. Current best actress on the show: Chandra Wilson, Caterina Scorsone and Kelly McCleary
I respected Callie's choice in this moment. She does love Arizona....but by loving Arizona she lost the part of herself that was happy. That was passionate about her work. That enjoyed being a mother. She was stuck. And when they took the month to be apart, she found herself again and she didn't want to lose that joy and freedom. I get it.
Callie has always been my favorite character, she deserves the world and more. She just wants the best for everyone.
Arizona said Callie is her anchor but when you're someone else's anchor YOU end up drowning.
I agree with Callie and understand why she wanted to stay apart. I would like them to work it out,but Callie deserves ,so much better.
The best part of Callie is her acting goes above and beyond what most actors do. She tears me up deep inside to the core when she starts breaking out in a sobbing fest!
Man..... I remember originally watching this thinking, "Oh God.... those are not tears of joy" before Callie said anything lol reality is, Arizona put Callie through A LOT. It's understandable that she wanted to be free of her. But I do want them back together!!!!
I am not up on date in my grey s anatomy ...what did arizona do ?
@@mimiel7938 there's so much lol along with abandoning Callie at the airport to go to Africa, then coming back like nothing happened... after Arizona lost her leg from a plane crash things took an even darker turn... she started mistreating Callie and shutting her out. Then just when they fought their way out of that, Arizona sleeps with some random doctor. Then when they get through that, Callie finds out that while they were separated Arizona slept with an intern which causes a chain reaction that ultimately leads to Callie getting in trouble. Then ultimately it came down to the fact that Callie had been burning both ends of the candle throughout their relationship and just got to the point where she needed to just let it go, phew!
@@RedBalloonSky2750 thank you very much !!!!
@@braelynandrade356 because she didn't leave Callie FOR Callie. she left for herself, which is fine! she had every right. the issue was waiting to leave her when they've already gotten to the airport and Callie had already dropped everything to go with her, that's one. two, Arizona came back and thought that simply showing her face would be enough to be welcomed back in. Arizona said it herself later on that she bails when things are tough. for me, her going to Africa alone was the best thing for Arizona, hands down. But at the same time that shouldn't eliminate the pain it caused Callie.
@@RedBalloonSky2750 also, every time callie wanted to talk or before the car crash,
Arizona questions Callie sexuality like "are you one of those fake lesbians? Just having a vacation in lesbian land" or " i get the gay you"
My goodness Callie can really cry. hope to see her on a movie screen.
This is a movie screen?
@@Noneofurbiznsjsbaauabaaahhsbss 🙄
As much as I cried.... this was so great. Sara Ramirez is such an amazing actress. I felt every tear. Good for Callie for choosing herself.
Sara Ramirez is non binary, they go by "they" and "them" pronouns, so its "actor" (not "actress").
That said, they are phenomenal, and this was all around a great scene.
When she's playing a female character.... she is Callie, not Sara. Seriously, you took time out of your life to write all that?! 😂
@@jacquidoucet8308 why actor has though? If non binary folks don’t accept neither female or male nouns, pronouns or adjetives. I think it should be something else rather than actress or actor 🤷🏽♀️🤷♂️
"The last 30 days have taught me so much. And all I wanted when we first came here was to know that we would leave together. But from the minute I sat down, I could feel it. I felt like I was gonna be suffocated. The last several weeks I have laughed more, I have done more, I have enjoyed myself more than not. And I finally feel free. And by being free, I can see now that constantly trying to fix us is the thing that's been killing me slowly. And I don't want to do it anymore, I don't want to fix it for fix us anymore.
I felt everything that callie was saying and that's why this scene always hit me so hard.
True
I love how at the end Callie goes "welp. I guess I'll just go ahead and leave."
As a big Calzona shipper, the first time I watched this, I just couldn't accept this bc all I wanted was for my ship to sail smoothly already! But now nearly three years later...now that I'm in the same shoes as Callie was in...now I understand it's true...that some things just really can't be fixed. No matter how hard you try.
Yes I’m in the exact same boat except my ex is the one pregnant and I’m the one fighting. I honestly realized now that it isn’t worth it I’m losing myself loving her. I spent 4 months trying to fix us that I broke me more. I didn’t accept the calzona thing til I understood it 😭💯
I think once someone in the relationship cheats, its pretty much over and trying to fix that problem rarely works
This broke my heart more than anything ever has before. How could two people who loved each other soooo much get to this point. I’m happy that Callie finally realized she needed to love herself after taking care of Arizona for so long. And I’m happy that Arizona realized what she had infront of her that whole time, Callie was soooo good to her. Hopefully they find themselves again and down the line find a little bit of eachother still in their hearts and realize their still in love with eachother, because they were meant to be. ❤️
They got to this point when Arizona cheated
Sometimes people bring the worst of each other when they are together.
I was so proud of Callie here. Arizona was self absorbed.
They really love each other to point that they forgot to love themselves. That's the real point of their break up.
I was so happy when Callie said all she did here. As usual, Arizona was all about herself and what SHE needs, and what SHE is ready for, and SHE loves Callie. Callie always deserved better. Arizona really put her through the ringer, over and over and over again, always proclaiming at the end tthat the one thing she needs is Arizona when the truth is that she wanted Callie AND she wanted to have her own way whenever and whomever she wanted. Wanted Callie to keep waiting for her. To keep taking her back. So, yeah, bravo Callie!
I cheered Callie on. She was Arizona’s shadow for so long and allowed so many hurtful things to slide because she didn’t want to fail again. Good for you Callie. Kick that biphobic cheating person to the side.
period
If you truly love someone you would never even CONSIDER cheating on them
@@torakunoichi especially what was stupid about it all is that Arizona refused to sleep with Callie for the longest time after the accident because she was scared and insecure about her leg but then immediately jumped in the bed with someone she didn’t even know and trusted that person more than she trusted her own wife so yeah
@@bryannadavis1804 not excusing it but I can see why Arizona doesn’t want Callie to touch her:
Callie’s the one who had to make the shitty call to cut her leg off
A random person doesn’t have the weight of that decision hanging over their heads they’re just some person who can make you feel good and different about yourself
Arizona should have NEVER cheated and the shitty thing is Callie tried so hard to be there for her
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This break was such a coin toss, either one of them would realize there were other things to be happy about instead of always fighting and trying to fix things. Arizona realized how much she loved her, and all she needed was Callie to be happy, but on the other hand Callie realized she loved her, but it was killing her in the process. I LOVE them together, and i do hope they get back together sometime. As Callie said, "i should be myself for a while, i should love me, and you should love you" its so, so important, they need to learn to love themselves before they love each other again and get back together.
Alex and Izzie have reconciled. Jackson and April have reconciled. Maybe Callie and Arizona can too.
I watched the whole episode!!! And this episode was heart breaking!!! I am shocked!!! I can't believe it!!!! Omg i can't handle it!!!
i hate it when things dont happen the positive way.
idiotinha100 it hurts watching this!!!!! 😭😭😭😭
idiotinha100 it hurts watching this!!!!! 😭😭😭😭
I understand why they broke up non of this would have happened if Arizona didn’t cheat
Callie: thank u, next
Krizia Belen lol
one taught me love : George
one taught me patience : Arizona
one taught me pain : Mark
@@yuvireyes7600 id say pain: erica
@@CalleyPochePe no I don't think so
@@Sunsetdreamin2002 yes
Arizona is just so frustrating. Callie has been nothing but honest and loving towards her. The Sofia thing was wrong... but Callie deserved better.
This right here facts
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Ummm are we ignoring the affair that put them there in the first place
Trying to fix their relationship for so long,callie forgot how and what really makes her happy its nice to have the old callie back
It's the best scene in the whole series. It was real and relatable..
"Maybe instead of loving you so hard, I should be myself for a while. I should love me. And you should love you. And together we love Sofia rather than..."
I loved Calzona right up until the point Arizona did a George and cheated on Callie after everything she had done for her. At that point, all I wanted was for Callie to be happy with someone who deserved her... Which was DEFINITELY not Penny, but still... At least she's happy.
Arizona and George don’t “deserve” Callie cuz they cheated? Yet Callie cheated on Erica and George and they both forgave her
Braelyn Andrade that’s different
Braelyn Andrade she didn’t cheat on George💀
@@braelynandrade356 the difference here is MARRIAGE. Callie had sex with Mark AFTER she broke up with George while they were just dating. And Callie had sex with Mark while she was dating Erica but ... Erica and Callie hadn't had any exclusivity talks at that time. They were DATING. George and Callie were married when he cheated on her. Callie and Arizona were married when Arizona cheated on her. HUGE difference. HUGE.
@@happyaccident105doesn't matter if you're married or dating cheating is still cheating. You don't cheat on the person your with regardless if your married or dating
it's been 6 years and this scene still broke every piece of my heart. i still can't understand why Shonda had to ruined this perfect couple :(
I’m sorry to say they were never perfect ever since Arizona cheated their relationship has never been the same Callie tried everything to forgive Arizona but Callie will always see Arizona “ as the wife who cheated because I tried to save her life” it’s just mind blowing that Arizona doesn’t realize that if Callie never cut off her leg she would never see Sofia take her first steps, or say her first words. But to me the relationship has never been the same since the accident and when Arizona cheated. And I also respect your opinion
when you finally realize enough is enough
This scene is so heartbreaking why am I watching it again??
No matter how hard we try we have to realize somethings just can't be fix
I sooo love this scene. One of the best episodes of Grey
sara is such a good actor
For some reason, I really enjoy watching this episode, despite it being such a sad Calzona episode. My shipper heart hurts, yet still finds room to appreciate it. I think it's because for so many couples on TV we get slow burns, which I love, but we didn't really get that for Calzona they jumped quite quickly into their relationship. I also appreciate the fact that both Arizona and Callie are much more mature in this episode, it really shows.
Omg this made me cry. What a great scene.
This is what happens when you push your issues down. You end up feeling trapped in the relationship and like it's a burden. They should have dealt with their issues ages ago rather than rushing things and trying to act like everything is ok until someone does something big like cheat.
This scene has saved my life so many times...
They are destined for each other, I hope that when they are dating new people they finally realise that they can't live without each other.
I love this scene so much!! Callie deserves so much better
this made me melt and cry
I don’t understand why Arizona didn’t go therapy from the beginning ? She definitely needed it, if she did all of this would have been avoided. I’m so happy for Callie, she did nothing but put Arizona first from agreeing to not having children, to agreeing to go Africa then Arizona leaving her at the airport, car crash, losing mark and nearly losing her wife, being emotional abused by her wife then cheated on. Sorry Callie has been through alot and not once did she think about herself.
Calzona was my main ship, but I knew it was over the second Arizona cheated
I really loved Callie and Arizona in the beginning. I did. But after Arizona left Callie over kids and then left her again to go to Africa and then checked out on her emotionally when Mark died and blamed Callie for saving her actual life by removing her leg ... then denied her sex ... then CHEATED on her with a total stranger ... I was kinda over it. The final nail in the coffin for me where this ship is concerned was Arizona taking Callie to court for custody of Sofia and THEN deciding in the end, after she OBLITERATED Callie by taking her child ... that Callie's initial idea of sharing custody of Sofia was the right thing to do. Arizona acted like she was doing Callie some huge favor by letting her take Sofia to New York but it was Callie's idea to begin with. That's how Callie wanted it. They didn't need the courts or Arizona having full custody of Sofia. They should have worked it out together like Callie wanted them to do. Arizona is just really selfish and self-involved. She claimed to be a good man in the storm ... and then avoided Callie over stupid chicken pox because she wanted to stay in the sexy place instead of taking care of her. She eventually caved but it took seeing Mark actually being there for Callie to make her realize that SHE should be there. She's just ... awful in so many ways.
My dear friend I applaud your entire statement. There were no lies told in this entire statement. This entire statement is 💯 percent correct.
Yes! Thank you! You totally get it! Unlike the lunatics defending Arizona taking custody of Sophia on that clip! Omgosh… I just said basically the same thing you said to those people on that clip. I just can’t even with those people. Arizona is just the worst! Callie is too good for her!
Her leaving over kids was valid
Muy buen resumen 😮❤
yes like oh em gee
Go Callie.. ❤️
I FELT SO MUCH PAIN IN SARA (CALLIE) IN THIS EPISODE
Oh no! I hope they reconnect some way and soon! !!
go Callie Torres ❤
Broke my heart
This scene gave me the courage to finally leave my toxic relationship. I owe this show so much.
Finally time to love myself.
Huzzah!!! Finally they have broken up. I used to like the as a couple, but the last 2 seasons, yeesh! On to greener pastures and new love interests, these two had become the new Crowen.
+gardenhead904 hey how about you shut your punk ass up ok. I have also lost a little calzona hope BUT I SURELY DONT HOPE THEY GO FUCK OTHER PEOPLE. I mean really. Calzona shippers are mourning, thats why we come to this episode. And you had to make your punkass comment like some little punkass. I hate you.
Why is everyone cursing like first of all it was an opinion and I understand people are moarning but the reason I came to watch this is so I can comment that thank god they broke up because after Arizona cheated I hated her couldn’t look at her the same and remember this is my opinion you are aloud to disagree but not to tell me I’m wrong
Marc was the only person Callie never had a problem with
Mark was her soulmate
Mark was the best!
I think Marc and callie would've a better relationship
callie didn’t deserve to be cheated on again!!!!! queen of being free of toxic arizona
see like the moment when you can kind of feel like callie isn’t crying cos she’s happy and like everything changes in that moment
"i dont wanna do it anymore, i dont wanna fix it or fix us anymore..
maybe instead of loving you so hard ..
i should be myself for awhile .. i should love me.." 😔🥺
callie's character is loving person but she gaves up for choosing herself..
callie deserves more..
slow clap for sara ramirez on this scene 👏👏
The exact situation I am going through. Thanks for this
I needed to hear this
I know i am 9 years late but i understand Callie 😢 i cried a lot in their journey but this is the reality 💔 they tried so hard .. and i believed Callie deserves better. People all calling her out for acting like she is in the plane crash but the truth is she is just sympathetic towards her partner's feeling ,support and understand her even in her worst days due to PTSD and blaming her for that leg and worst she cheated , her reason is because lauren accepts or likes her for what she is now without realizing that Lauren knows her less than a week and disappear in the morning when she knows that Callie found out about it🤦 gosshhh .. her reasons ? I am not buying it
Quedé en coma inducido luego de ver a Sara Ramírez hablar :'( mi
Back then when I watched this scene I didn’t understand. I was so sad that they broke up. Now that I rewatch it I finally understand. You must love yourself in order to love someone else.
“Your the only one I want” girl don’t even like you cheated on her with someone else so the only one you want really sis don’t
period
Callie 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏
Callie was like: Aighttt I'mma head out.
A Callie encenou tão bem nesse episódio. Senti que ela estava triste de verdade, aí...
they're a beautiful and perfect couple!♡☆♡♡♡
Arizona never deserved Callie
That part!!
one of the best moments in greys.
you can see how numb and done she is at the beginning
heart broken!!!!!!!!!!!
I never liked Arizona and I always thought Callie deserved better... this was honestly such a beautiful moment where Callie finally realized that she was better off without her and I really wish they followed through with it and gave her a better love interest than P*nny lmao
more than being stuck with someone who feels stuck
this episode was told by the two of them. right? cuase I think I hear Arizona's voice in some scenes and Callie's in others. Am I wrong?
No You are right
It hurts
Years later, just noticed that Arizona was wearing red 😭
and... they still ended up together at NY
They never made that clear
Sometimes the truth has to be said... We all grow and sometimes even growing apart is best for everyone We all should focus on loving ourselves more that's were the healing is ❤ Because sometimes some things are better left broken 👏#Free#unconitionallyloveyou#BebetterDoBetter
my girlfriend just sent me this after breaking up, grrrr
😂😂😂
...I'm sorry
Fiona Jackson *respect left the chat*
According to Shonda, Callie & Arizona will begin relationships with other people in season 12. I think they'll get back together before the shows ends, though ...... at least that's what I hope for!
I know of mark was there he what is said to his best friend that you deserve better
Eu não entendia pq a callie fez isso... Hoje estando na mesma posição que ela e abrindo mão da pessoa que mais amei na vida. Simplesmente não dá! Tentar consertar algo sozinha é tóxico e te mata aos poucos
If it's really true love then you wouldn't cheat on your partner and emotionally abuse her.
Everything Callie does is put Arizona's best interest at heart. Even if the execution isn't perfect, none of it was Callie's fault. Callie did not break Arizona's leg, but she had the best interest at heart because she knew that Arizona's life was more valuable than just be a leg. Callie baby's Arizona for more than a year and in turn she gets emotionally abused. Callie is stressed out, burnt out and used her utmost effort to try and make Arizona happy yet Arizona continues to put Callie through an undeserving hell and cheats not once but 20 times. I understand, Arizona may feel that she doesn't want Callie to keep fixing things when others already see her as enough, but Callie sees Arizona as perfect and wants things better for Arizona - this is the reason Callie baby's her because she thinks of new bond with Arizona as true love.
Amen sister
Arizona cheated once they were separated when she was with Leah
i am so happy for callie. she finally choose her happiness. their relationship was becoming so toxic since arizona cheated on callie, and i honestly felt so happy for callie, they both deserve someone better for eachothers.
I choose to be okay.
Crying so hard
HEARTBREAKING
Anyone else recognize that the therapist is the teacher from thats so raven
also the local mechanic from gilmore girls and veronica's obgyn in shameless lol
It's like you want a couple to be together and hate the writers for messing things up. But the way the story was going I actually cried of joy with Callie, you deserve better honey. Fuck Arizona
P.s. I love the therapist's face. "Dammn"
Yesss and the therapist is just like “oh shit”
Worst. Therapist. Ever! Good for Callie though! Arizona has always been a jerk! That’s putting it mildly!
I miss them
Which season?
if they break up do they still pay the couples counselor lol
Lmao yes
If you get food poisoning do you get a refund on the meal?
The Great Gabby yeah you do tho! You call the restaurant and they give you a refund. Mostly because they don’t want you to call a health inspector 😂😂
Shonda broke this...
Oh you all should see the lunatics pulling for Arizona to have custody of Sophia on that clip. I just had to remind them all how awful Arizona has been to Callie from the very beginning of their relationship. She never even wanted kids. Then she wanted to die after she lost her leg… Arizona didn’t think Sophia was worth fighting to live for then. She just wanted to hate on Callie and blame her for her leg, and hate her for not being on the plane, and use that as an excuse for cheating on her. Then go to this crappy therapist who gives them the worst advise and Arizona is all to eager to take what any sane person who really wants to save their marriage knows is crappy advice. There is a reason people tell married people to never go to bed angry at each other. This is that reason. Animosity stews and grows with each silent night. So 30 in a row… That was cruel and wrong of Arizona. And bad advice from a “marriage therapist.” It did give Callie the confidence to stand up for herself…finally! And I give the therapist no credit for that at all. Arizona is the reason their marriage ended and they even had to have joint custody of Sophia to begin with. Then she gets jealous of Callie for moving on with Penny. And takes custody of Sophia. Because she hasn’t hurt Callie enough and just can’t stand to let Callie go in with her life and take her child and be happy. No Arizona has to be selfish once again. I truly cannot stand how Arizona has always treated Callie! Arizona is just a rotten and selfish person.
Arizona loves Sofia and called her her child before she was even born... I agree with a lot of Arizona slander but invalidating her as a mother isn't right. And tbh she deserved to win that custody battle. Sofia was her daughter too, and Callie was trying to make a huge change while assuming Arizona would just lie down and be ok with it.
Arizona loves Sofia and called her her child before she was even born... I agree with a lot of Arizona slander but invalidating her as a mother isn't right. And tbh she deserved to win that custody battle. Sofia was her daughter too, and Callie was trying to make a huge change while assuming Arizona would just lie down and be ok with it.
Arizona: "Paging Dr. Boswell, paging Dr. Lauren Boswell."
The most romantic divorce
That therapist looked super unimpressed and awkward lol