This comment..is taking me down the memory lane, followed with contemplation, again Loved the inner dialogue.. What they mean and instead what they're saying it out loud
I'm currently going through a divorce that I didn't want, from someone I'm still in love with. Tried to get them back for a long time but they said the door is closed, they moved out and moved on. This film is beautiful and watching it sure hurt like hell
I am sorry you are experiencing this. This hurts indeed like hell. However, we need to learn to let go those who do not want to stay with us. Those who do not choose us. Stay strong❤❤❤
I am sorry for what you are going through, It has to be hard, when mine happened, not a divorce but a break up after 15 years, the vacuum her absent created was excruciating and I went into a horrible depression but one time I read something that became profound to me...." do not make room for those who do not want to be with you" and what I realized is that my time in existence is precious and fleeting and it is what is more valuable and only those who are worthy of it get to share it. I hope you get better and you will and keep your chin up and hopefully you will come to realized what you want that will make you stronger and have a greater opportunity to give a deserving soul the gift of your love.
Thank you both for your kind words. I am slowly learning to leave what is not for me ❤ It is excruciating but it is something I have to go through so I am trying to see whatever silver linings I can hold on to
I don't know if this is any kind of consolation, but in the few relationships I've had, with just one exception, the other person ended it. I got over them all, except for the one that I left. I'll never get over that one; I still feel very sad about it. Maybe because she was the best friend I'd ever had and -- 41 years after we first met -- she still is. Unfortunately, we live about 2000 miles apart, but phone calls with her are my lifeline.
@@BlackEagle352 It could I suppose. It’s not just that though, people can amicably break up and still remain friends, if that’s the case then saying that you still care for the other could ruin that friendship and I wouldn’t say that’s ‘not handling rejection’, that’s just the fear of losing someone you still care about as well as their company. Edit: people should be honest, I completely support honesty but when it comes to confession, even you must admit it’s one of the hardest things about relationships to do.
I agree but subconsciously you are not aware about your OWN feelings and why you feel WHAT YOU FEEL. E.g. if you don't like your neighbour you say: it seems that he does not like me.But in real YOU don't like him. Or another example: if you are jealous about someones talent you tell him that he has to improve it to be better. What do you think ?
The problem is not that they weren't being honest and straight to each other, the problem is their ego that prevents then from being vulnerable and honest about their love to each other.
Robin Williams instantly comes to mind, may he rest in peace! Thing is, so many comedians live really dark lives. It's where they draw so much of their material from. It's like, by going through so much pain, they're able to understand what others go through, and make it relatable. The art comes by being able to find comedy in even the darkest of places.
I find that people who are honest often don't have many people around them because although they say they do, many don't like to hear the truth. Facts.
A few years ago I was struggling to move on after my break-up from a toxic relationship b/c I was still in love w/ my ex. One of the best pieces of advice I got then was: "You might always love that person, but, they're not right for you. And, that's ok to still have love for them." These 2 look beyond repair despite their love for each other. On a surface level, it seems like a communication issue. You want to scream at them "Shut up and just pour your heart out! You guys still love each other! Cmon!" But, they've reached that point where they can't even communicate b/c they're both so hurt at each other that even the smallest things trigger them then it turns into a pissing match to see who can belittle the other the most. Not healthy. Keep it moving. Work on yourselves & heal.
A more significant reason is that the younger generations can't even communicate, because they so immature. It's almost like they are permanently stunted.
If they attack each other in a five-minute meeting to give back a couple of items they don't really love each other. They remind me of a couple that were together just because they don't want to be alone... that's not love oh, that's not even close to love
I'm not against seperation.. but as you said there's a huge communication problem between them and if they work that out they could become awesome.. i used to work in a divorce attorneys office. Seeing many couples reconsider their decision and staying happy later, I can't help say 'what if'
We often lash out instead of saying how we really feel. We can be defensive and argumentative when all we really want is to hear that we are loved and worthy. It isn't right or fair to the other person or to ourselves, but it is a totally human way to disguise our pain.
I didn't know Lola Blanc was not only a singer but also this good as a director, writter and actress, I LOVE HER!!! I loved this short film, pretty accurate
You said that backwards.. " The sooner we stop lying to ourselves the sooner we can be true to each other and express how we truly feel ".. It starts within first..
Everyone: "My Goodness why can't people just say what thy mean!!!" Cz it doesn't work anyway. I have done that enough & more but you only end up looking like the needy one and no1 gives a fcuk. Fact: People do fall out of love just like they fall in it!!!
I feel you man. I would always talk about the problems in the relationship so that way we can try to work through it like normal humans communicating. But he never wanted communication and saw it as me being naggy. I learned the hard way that you can’t force someone to hear you, they have to be willing to themselves
I agree. Guy I just broke up with was always saying just say what's on your mind, but REALLY didn't like it when I called him out on his lies. Men don't want real, they want agreeable.
@@wiseweirdo9254 What's meant for you won't pass by you. Guess he wasn't the one for you🤷🏻♀️ People who value would address the real issues, rest would only turn a blind eye & a deaf ear...
Still remember the one that left me, 40 years ago. She wore a top like the actress in this clip. Life goes on, but it left a huge scar that never heals, on a place nobody sees.
The real moral to me is these two really didn't love each other when you really love somebody you tell them what you're thinking like me and my wife do
I don't agree. I think people can truly love each other and have difficulty expressing how they feel. Whether or not these two loved each other, I couldn't say, but I have known people to love somebody so much but they just didn't know how to communicate well without their own personal issues messing it up, like anger issues or an inability to swallow their pride or inability to put themselves in the other's shoes.
Lucky guys... atleast got chance to say SOMETHING, may be behind the face and unreal in front, but still, got a chance to do so. Every one doesn't get this chance to talk for The Last Time. People simply get vanished. Hard hitting. Again great work channel.
Would definitely say WOW! However, the captions weren’t needed, as they interrupted the action for me, and could have be cleverly embedded via after effects to enhance the scenes. Great directions and the actors deliver but, the editing could use a bit more finesse. I feel a few cuts were needed between shots to build timing properly. Over all outstanding! DOP… Epic & lighting crew-fabulous work’
Idk about you guys but to me it just seems like these ex-lovers are very insecure about each other. Breaking up is probably the wisest decision for both 🤷♂️
I think my break up was easy because i cried a lot during the end of the relationship as we were always fighting and didn't see him ever again after the brkup
How sad ... they’re both so cute and quirky and seemed like such a good fit for each others worlds ... His body language when walking out The door ... 😞
Oh snap!! He is definitely one of the twins that's in college from the movie "22 jump st" So cool! Glad he's still on the go of his/they're acting career! Congrats! So love it! Wish you all the best.
Similar situation with my ex (we had been together for 7 years). We didn't completely being honest that actually we still loved each other and wanted to get back. He got married a few years after broke up, and has kid. but hardly move on from our past relationship. I found out later, 8 years later after we broke up. If i am still with him, probably I've already married and has kid with him. Glad it didn't end up that way. Don't think we are good fit, i have changed and have different mindset compared to myself 15 years ago. Sometimes, things happened for a reason that we didn't know but will find out later.
just listening to these two bicker made my head hurt so badly, the fifteen years ive lived alone, and had no relationship's has been bliss, i would never be drawn into that shixte again, thats all people ever do is argue, a lifetime of listening to it.
This hit me differently. If only I had said what I meant that time. PAUSE BEFORE YOU RESPOND AND MAKE SURE IT'S EXACTLY WHAT YOU WANTED TO SAY, GUYS. Might cost you your life.
I broke up with my girl six months ago. This may sound crazy, but I feel like I love her more now than then. I want to go see her with the excuse of giving her back her Dracula book, but I can't; I know she hates me.
why can't people leave politics out of entertainment? Which ever side of the political spectrum you're from most of us watch films/tv for escapism, not to have someone else's political views rammed down your throat !
Politics are a very real part of life. If this film had been set during the Nixon era and the comments were about him would we even see comments like yours?
I agree, you hear about political stuff throughout the course of a day and at the end of that day when all you want to do is watch a bit of entertainment, you can't enjoy it because they throw political BS into it.
@@tishw4576 then what's the point of entertainment, people can talk about politics 24/7 all day everyday, the reason entertainment exists is so that we can escape some of the stresses of life for a couple of hours or so, nobody wants to be inducted into a political conversation when you're supposed to be having fun and enjoying your past time.
When I split from the first serious girlfriend I lived with, we divided our stuff down the middle. Some time later, she came with her big, new boyfriend and took my half too. I lived in the house for ages after, with virtually nothing, just to wallow in my self pity !!
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"I'm lashing out because I feel I've lost you." Gosh, this so real.
This comment..is taking me down the memory lane, followed with contemplation, again
Loved the inner dialogue.. What they mean and instead what they're saying it out loud
Lloyd Robert
Same :(
When you stop thinking you can own someone, you stop feeling like you lose them.
Yea...
This is why I say what I mean.
Good on you, bro.
hee hee
Even if when it hurts?
We all should.
And then they get pissed at you for being too forward
People are weird
he forgot the shirt, now he has to come back again.
That’s right!
Director's Brilliance
That old trick, good eye.
@@237g LOL The Good Old Trick ;)
This calls for a second part of this story where they get back together!
I'm currently going through a divorce that I didn't want, from someone I'm still in love with. Tried to get them back for a long time but they said the door is closed, they moved out and moved on. This film is beautiful and watching it sure hurt like hell
I am sorry you are experiencing this. This hurts indeed like hell. However, we need to learn to let go those who do not want to stay with us. Those who do not choose us. Stay strong❤❤❤
I am sorry for what you are going through, It has to be hard, when mine happened, not a divorce but a break up after 15 years, the vacuum her absent created was excruciating and I went into a horrible depression but one time I read something that became profound to me...." do not make room for those who do not want to be with you" and what I realized is that my time in existence is precious and fleeting and it is what is more valuable and only those who are worthy of it get to share it. I hope you get better and you will and keep your chin up and hopefully you will come to realized what you want that will make you stronger and have a greater opportunity to give a deserving soul the gift of your love.
Thank you both for your kind words. I am slowly learning to leave what is not for me ❤ It is excruciating but it is something I have to go through so I am trying to see whatever silver linings I can hold on to
I don't know if this is any kind of consolation, but in the few relationships I've had, with just one exception, the other person ended it. I got over them all, except for the one that I left. I'll never get over that one; I still feel very sad about it. Maybe because she was the best friend I'd ever had and -- 41 years after we first met -- she still is. Unfortunately, we live about 2000 miles apart, but phone calls with her are my lifeline.
* sends you virtual hugs *
Sometimes being in love isn't enough. They were right to break up
Why you gotta hit me like that?
Why.. they could also work things up and be together.
@@priyaj5283: Because they are two broken people. They both need to work on their issues separately.
Seems like all they have to do is actually communicate with each other and not take everything seriously and they'll be fine together.
The spark is gone. They must move on.
Why we can't be honest?
Because ego matters more than anything.
I think it’s both that and because they’re afraid that the other isn’t going to feel the same way.
@@hunnylemonfilms107 that could still be under the grasp of the ego that it cannot accept rejection.
@@BlackEagle352 It could I suppose. It’s not just that though, people can amicably break up and still remain friends, if that’s the case then saying that you still care for the other could ruin that friendship and I wouldn’t say that’s ‘not handling rejection’, that’s just the fear of losing someone you still care about as well as their company.
Edit: people should be honest, I completely support honesty but when it comes to confession, even you must admit it’s one of the hardest things about relationships to do.
I agree but subconsciously you are not aware about your OWN feelings and why you feel WHAT YOU FEEL. E.g. if you don't like your neighbour you say: it seems that he does not like me.But in real YOU don't like him.
Or another example: if you are jealous about someones talent you tell him that he has to improve it to be better.
What do you think ?
People are afraid of being vulnerable and getting hurt.
Most ppl can’t handle the truth. When you’re honest it’s offensive. But when you lie it’s wrong. 🤔🤔
That's why I don't have or try to make many friends. I'm a very honest and direct person.
@@Axzuin all you need is one good one.
People who can't handle someone else's truth can't handle life outside their own perspective, which is unfortunately many people. 🤷🏾♀️
@@bluebutterflywellness2273 i think it’s more than 50% of ppl.
@@xMister.Misterx Me too. 🙁
This is why I love being honest, I pretty much say what I feel and think.
The problem is not that they weren't being honest and straight to each other, the problem is their ego that prevents then from being vulnerable and honest about their love to each other.
Is it that hard to find a person who speaks directly from their true intentions. Can we just stop playing the fools!
plenty people do
Me
I love how being a comedian translated to being miserable. People who are funny are depressed
The tears of a clown.
“I'm only laughing on the outside
My smile is just skin deep
If you could see inside I'm really crying
You might join me for a weep.”
Robin Williams instantly comes to mind, may he rest in peace! Thing is, so many comedians live really dark lives. It's where they draw so much of their material from. It's like, by going through so much pain, they're able to understand what others go through, and make it relatable. The art comes by being able to find comedy in even the darkest of places.
@dadad adqwdqq yes like robin williams :/ i was really shocked to hear that he did suicide
TV presenter Caroline flack rest in peace
I find that people who are honest often don't have many people around them because although they say they do, many don't like to hear the truth. Facts.
I totally agree: being honest and telling the truth keeps people away. This is also true if people are too honest with you, tho.
A few years ago I was struggling to move on after my break-up from a toxic relationship b/c I was still in love w/ my ex. One of the best pieces of advice I got then was: "You might always love that person, but, they're not right for you. And, that's ok to still have love for them."
These 2 look beyond repair despite their love for each other. On a surface level, it seems like a communication issue. You want to scream at them "Shut up and just pour your heart out! You guys still love each other! Cmon!" But, they've reached that point where they can't even communicate b/c they're both so hurt at each other that even the smallest things trigger them then it turns into a pissing match to see who can belittle the other the most. Not healthy. Keep it moving. Work on yourselves & heal.
A more significant reason is that the younger generations can't even communicate, because they so immature. It's almost like they are permanently stunted.
My ex still has two of my really nice jackets, it's been three years now 😔
Lmao get I ffs
Get your sh*t.
take em back!!
If it's been 3 years... not your jackets anymore someone she's banging is wearing them hahaha
@@chukwuemekaananti2230 Noone flushes jackets down the toilet dude.
I was worried that they were going to get back together, but the communication was so horrible I just hate imagining that relationship.
i know what you mean... you could see why they broke up. also didn't learn anything or move on...
If they attack each other in a five-minute meeting to give back a couple of items they don't really love each other. They remind me of a couple that were together just because they don't want to be alone... that's not love oh, that's not even close to love
I'm not against seperation.. but as you said there's a huge communication problem between them and if they work that out they could become awesome.. i used to work in a divorce attorneys office. Seeing many couples reconsider their decision and staying happy later, I can't help say 'what if'
@@priyaj5283 fact
We often lash out instead of saying how we really feel. We can be defensive and argumentative when all we really want is to hear that we are loved and worthy. It isn't right or fair to the other person or to ourselves, but it is a totally human way to disguise our pain.
This hurts because it's so accurate.
Why can't people just say "I made a mistake...I don't want to break up"! So many relationships would have been saved!!!
Cuz that bond is gone where they don’t feel comfortable saying how they feel anymore
I didn't know Lola Blanc was not only a singer but also this good as a director, writter and actress, I LOVE HER!!! I loved this short film, pretty accurate
And do you know what the sad thing is? The only thing that deviates their words is pride.
He'll be back, he forgot his t shirt!
The sooner we stop lying to each other the sooner we can be true to ourselves and express how we truly feel.
You said that backwards.. " The sooner we stop lying to ourselves the sooner we can be true to each other and express how we truly feel ".. It starts within first..
@@greenhornetkato1568 it is what it is.
@@themutualfriend5286 I hear you my Friend...
Amazing! In spite of the power of words, we all too often use the wrong ones 😢
This film was priceless. So many of us say what we don't mean, lash out, and act out instead of exposing our hearts...
Its amazing how we don't communicate to get what we want.
"We hide our emotions under the surface trying to pretend. "
Oceans between people
Allo Allo Seafret Fan ;)
Everyone: "My Goodness why can't people just say what thy mean!!!"
Cz it doesn't work anyway. I have done that enough & more but you only end up looking like the needy one and no1 gives a fcuk.
Fact: People do fall out of love just like they fall in it!!!
I feel you man. I would always talk about the problems in the relationship so that way we can try to work through it like normal humans communicating. But he never wanted communication and saw it as me being naggy. I learned the hard way that you can’t force someone to hear you, they have to be willing to themselves
I agree. Guy I just broke up with was always saying just say what's on your mind, but REALLY didn't like it when I called him out on his lies. Men don't want real, they want agreeable.
@@misss299 But I guess... It's all about destiny... What's meant to be is meant to be... 🤷🏻♀️
@@wiseweirdo9254 What's meant for you won't pass by you. Guess he wasn't the one for you🤷🏻♀️ People who value would address the real issues, rest would only turn a blind eye & a deaf ear...
@@wiseweirdo9254 facts
Yup. This is why transparency is important in relationships. Take note, kids.
That brutal subtitle honesty! It's so beautiful! 😭
Wow, this inner dialog subtitles thing is a great idea.
If people could have the courage to say what they feel and to be honest with each other the world would be a better place.
This film perfectly described just about every breakup, ever. Well done!
SKIP THE E LET'S GO
Still remember the one that left me, 40 years ago. She wore a top like the actress in this clip. Life goes on, but it left a huge scar that never heals, on a place nobody sees.
Be fully honest with yourself, and with those around you. Life is too short for mind games. Song at the end is quite lovely.
This broke my heart.
Anyone here thinks that Omeleto is better than Netflix?
Yep :)
"I should probably go"
*I want you to stop me*
Damn
The real moral to me is these two really didn't love each other when you really love somebody you tell them what you're thinking like me and my wife do
I don't agree. I think people can truly love each other and have difficulty expressing how they feel. Whether or not these two loved each other, I couldn't say, but I have known people to love somebody so much but they just didn't know how to communicate well without their own personal issues messing it up, like anger issues or an inability to swallow their pride or inability to put themselves in the other's shoes.
Smart left his things so he can come again
Soulful. Hurt to watch, and think about all the breakups, ever....
This not only entertaining but therapeutic. Thank You
This needs to be a limited series
Loved every single thing about this, from the script to the color-grading to the music used in the end credits.
:-( if only we said the things we really mean...
Stop watching youtube
Then no one would like me.
@@saadsahi7951 Why?
0:18 *The moment I realized this was going to be a comedy.*
Saying what you really mean in a long text is really therapeutic
Lucky guys... atleast got chance to say SOMETHING, may be behind the face and unreal in front, but still, got a chance to do so. Every one doesn't get this chance to talk for The Last Time. People simply get vanished.
Hard hitting. Again great work channel.
Dope film!! . . Real talk in action. Great script, acting and cinematography. . Only one snag - how does the subtitled version work??
If this is really how people are then it's an even sadder story. Personally I don't do this. 😔
wow, ok, too true. btw, these film shorts are so well done. very impressed.
Wow..I've been in this situation and if I didnt speak up I wouldn't be celebrating my 22nd anniversary with my husband & 2 kids.
This is how it goes. I try to be honest and direct and vulnerable now. That's better and more mature of me.
Real, meaningful communication - requires vulnerability and courage in the face of rejection
He left the t-shirt, may be next time they meet(with the pretext to getting his t-shirt back) they actually say what they are actually thinking.
and bang
This is just another reason not to date. Too much work. I gave up dating many years ago.
Would definitely say WOW! However, the captions weren’t needed, as they interrupted the action for me, and could have be cleverly embedded via after effects to enhance the scenes. Great directions and the actors deliver but, the editing could use a bit more finesse. I feel a few cuts were needed between shots to build timing properly. Over all outstanding! DOP… Epic & lighting crew-fabulous work’
Idk about you guys but to me it just seems like these ex-lovers are very insecure about each other. Breaking up is probably the wisest decision for both 🤷♂️
I think my break up was easy because i cried a lot during the end of the relationship as we were always fighting and didn't see him ever again after the brkup
How sad ... they’re both so cute and quirky and seemed like such a good fit for each others worlds ...
His body language when walking out
The door ... 😞
Body language can say so much more than words. Good acting cause their body language says it all, even without the captions.
Oh snap!! He is definitely one of the twins that's in college from the movie "22 jump st"
So cool! Glad he's still on the go of his/they're acting career!
Congrats! So love it!
Wish you all the best.
Wow she is gorgeous!!!
Similar situation with my ex (we had been together for 7 years). We didn't completely being honest that actually we still loved each other and wanted to get back.
He got married a few years after broke up, and has kid. but hardly move on from our past relationship.
I found out later, 8 years later after we broke up.
If i am still with him, probably I've already married and has kid with him. Glad it didn't end up that way. Don't think we are good fit, i have changed and have different mindset compared to myself 15 years ago.
Sometimes, things happened for a reason that we didn't know but will find out later.
😂😂😂so this is how we look like from the window...so funny when people just can't say what they really mean...😊😉
I just got out of a 2 year relationship... this hit too close.
The difference between expressing and explaining your feelings
That was great. If only we said what we meant…and immediately recognized when we lash out.
Thanks for the CC omleto
just listening to these two bicker made my head hurt so badly, the fifteen years ive lived alone, and had no relationship's has been bliss, i would never be drawn into that shixte again, thats all people ever do is argue, a lifetime of listening to it.
This hit me differently.
If only I had said what I meant that time.
PAUSE BEFORE YOU RESPOND AND MAKE SURE IT'S EXACTLY WHAT YOU WANTED TO SAY, GUYS.
Might cost you your life.
That was great. Why is it so hard to speak our minds?
This is the best channel on RUclips
"I apologize for waisting your water, it's a drought" LOL!
Such a nice film I watched on Valentine's weekend.
Jees! how much simpler life would be with subtitles! :-) x
As a Blackman with a mildly similar affliction, 4:13 to 4:30 murdered me with laughter...
In some countries green is the color of hope... 💚
I broke up with my girl six months ago. This may sound crazy, but I feel like I love her more now than then.
I want to go see her with the excuse of giving her back her Dracula book, but I can't; I know she hates me.
why can't people leave politics out of entertainment? Which ever side of the political spectrum you're from most of us watch films/tv for escapism, not to have someone else's political views rammed down your throat !
No, deal with it. God you people are fragile.
People can do whatever they want with their mediums
Politics are a very real part of life. If this film had been set during the Nixon era and the comments were about him would we even see comments like yours?
I agree, you hear about political stuff throughout the course of a day and at the end of that day when all you want to do is watch a bit of entertainment, you can't enjoy it because they throw political BS into it.
@@tishw4576 then what's the point of entertainment, people can talk about politics 24/7 all day everyday, the reason entertainment exists is so that we can escape some of the stresses of life for a couple of hours or so, nobody wants to be inducted into a political conversation when you're supposed to be having fun and enjoying your past time.
Action figures are cool I hate when girls attack nostalgic things that they don't understand.
So relatable!
This hit home in so many ways . Damn .
Just....so, SO good.
This clever stuff just gets me every time.
When I split from the first serious girlfriend I lived with, we divided our stuff down the middle.
Some time later, she came with her big, new boyfriend and took my half too.
I lived in the house for ages after, with virtually nothing, just to wallow in my self pity !!
Damn! strong arm robbery...cold game⁹
Awwwww..... I just LOVE this couple. They are so adorable. But can the filmmaker make a sequel where they get back together? Pleeeeeze?
BRILLIANT!!
i love the filter of this video 🥺
3:10 4:14 *No wonder they broke up. He's a racist!*
Yes, people in comments. We all know we should say what we mean. But we all know that sometimes it’s not that easy.
Wow, maybe I'm unusual, but by the time I break up, I KNOW it is time.
I have found being honest has resulted in actual relationships. Imagine that?!?
Did youtube found i had a breakup?
I like the decor of her home. I like uses of gold, rose gold and green colors.
The acting is on point! I totally believed.
I love it, thanks Omeleto ❤️
( THAT HIT HARD, NOW I'M DROWNING IN THOUGHTS BUT I FEEL RELIEF THAT THEY AREN'T REALLY DOING THAT GREAT) :3
Sinatra hit the spot with 'In other words, let me love you'
This is from Lola blanc’s channel originally she makes really good songs
"i can't wait for this lease to be up" LOL
Excellent parody