Optimist: Someone who figures that taking a step backward. after taking a step forward is not a disaster, it's a cha-cha.” This quote from Robert Brault has been a small mantra for me. Just for today I will dance the cha cha. Wishing you wellness and wellbeing 🙏💙
I was recently diagnosed with stage IV cancer and had my 1st round of chemo last week. My faith in God and my husband and family and my friends are getting me thru. I have good days and bad days I see life differently now. I cherish my family and friends more, I don't know what I would do without them. I do know my cancer journey has just started but I know all I can do if try and be positive. I am blessed with 5 children, my youngest is only 11. I tell him everyday that I love him and he asks me to be here for him when he graduates high school. I tell him I will always be with you no matter what happens. He says I'm the best mama. I love him so much, I pray 🙏 to be healed and healthy. Blessings to all who are going through a life change. Take time to smell the roses, love as much as you can, pray and be thankful for all that you have. God Bless 🙏
You will be fine. God is good. You will be there for your son till he walk down the isle to marry and take care of your grandchildren. Godspeed and get well soon.
My husband of 49 yrs passed Easter Sunday. It has been the hardest time of my life. I thank God that I have my two children. Gary would be so proud of how we have helped one another through this sorrow.
Amen sister. After over 30 years of marriage I got divorced and had to start my life over again. Money is tight I am on disability and thats my only source of income. Its hard but with the love of my Lord and my Mom I am getting through it. Thank you for addressing this issue. It is like a sisterhood out here just open your heart and they will come. We are right down in the trenches together. God bless.😇🥰
People say that God doesn’t give you more than you can handle, however, that is a lie. God gives us more than we can handle many times. Why? To draw us closer to him. Seek him and rely on him to carry you through. The strong don’t need him, but in our weaknesses & struggles, we do need Him. Praying for you as you get through this time.
GOD does not give you anything that is not common to all of us! And we all are stronger & can endure more than what we think we are capable of! We just need to ask HIM for wisdom & to remove the veil from our eyes!!!🙏🙏🙏
You are such an inspiration to many. My marriage ended in 2009 and I lost my beloved special needs daughter age 26 4 months later. I had to take on a more challenging position to make ends meet and then at the beginning of 2011 I lost my precious son also aged 26. My world caved in and I couldn't see the light but i had to press on. Fast forward, I am taking care of my elderly parents and taken early retirement in order to do so resulting in downscaling and a huge lifestyle change. My belief is that it is only with my faith I have got this far and it will carry me one day at a time. God bless you and remember we are warriors ... draw on your faith and inner strength
GOD Bless you 🙏🏻🙏🏻 Prayers for you & your elderly parents … left my job - took care of my mom 6yrs dementia … she passed by it was very tough on me & my family. You have been through tremendous loss but people are praying for you!! Stay strong … keep the faith & Blessing all around you ✝️🙏🏻🙏🏻
I cannot imagine how much sorrow you have been through but your inner beauty and strength shines through. I am grateful to have read your sad but hopeful testimony; you have much to be proud of. Blessings to you. 🙏
Lesley - when I think I have problems and I hear a story like yours, it makes me realize so many more are going through so much more than I am. God bless and be with you.
I will keep you in my prayers. I know you have a beautiful eternal life ahead after the tremendous suffering you have endure here on earth. May your days ahead be so much better than those that have passed. God bless and keep you.
A woman a long time ago gave me this advice: Let yourself Cry out loud and often, as often as you feel it. Don’t hold emotion back. I too thought I had to always be so strong. I followed her advice and it got me through a very painful time more than once. Love to you.
I have been there. I can remember at one of my most challenging times in life driving my car and just sobbing, asking God "why did this happen?" I was so lost and over whelmed with grief. Over time i was ble to understad the situation and why things happened as they did but by reaching out to God and pouring out my hurt and my soul, God surrounded me with family and friends to get me through. Bless you Dominique and keep the faith that God will get you through this difficult time.
Dear Dominique, I understand what you're going through. My son had a brain tumor, my ex cheated on me with my cousin’s daughter 25 years younger than him. I also had some conflicts at work. What helped me was to forgive from the bottom of my heart. The Course of Miracles and my love for God supported me during this period of my life. Receive my sincere love and blessings! 🙏🏻💞🥰💕🙏🏻
Stay strong Veronica Betrayal is bad enough in itself but when it’s comes from one’s nearest and dearest - the people you should enable to trust - it’s always a double whammy. You deserve better! Wishing you well from across the pond 😊🇬🇧
My therapist once said to me “You can be sad and depressed while also being grateful.” Hearing that helped me let go of the guilt I had for being depressed when I have so much to be thankful for.
I’m so sad no energy, fatigue, so so much but I’m so grateful for so many blessings thank you Jesus… and thank you to everyone reading this. I send you blessings and love! God Bless you forever and always! Amen
Sometimes we all need to have a “come apart” as a friend told me. A good cry can be cathartic so if you need it, do it. God knows what you need and what’s in your heart. His answers may not be what you ask him for or what you think you need, but rest assured he has a plan for you and it is the perfect plan. Many prayers 🙏
Dominique, have you read the book “When the Heart Waits” by Sue Monk Kidd? I think it echoes so much of what you’ve said. Give it a read if you can…. It brings a paradigm shift in perspective
I care for my 93 yr old mom, my in-laws who are in their late 80’s, my brother who is 73 and a disabled veteran, and my daughter who is a young single mom. I can truly say I understand the heaviness and weight you feel. My faith and a close friend have always been there to help me. I’m so sorry you are experiencing all of this. Please know others care and understand. Your honesty and openness I know will resonate with so many. Thank you for your words of encouragement. We need to remember there are those all around us who may be going through tough times. We need to be aware and offer compassion and hope. What we go through can equip us to help others.
It’s sounds like you are an amazing woman who has strength and stoicism too, sending love and strength to you 70’slady Always.. keep the faith and love in your quiet moments.. your never alone 💖💖 (from Australia 🇦🇺)😘
Wow, and I thought I had a lot on my shoulders. You are amazing for everything you do. God bless you always and give you the strength to keep going. Sending you a big hug and prayers.
We all have major life transitions and we all find the way out. Letting the passed go and accepting the new reality helps. We are human you don't have to pretend be strong...being weak is part of being strong. Yes you got this.
Dominique, I totally get what you mean being in my early 50’s-just losing my father to covid, looking after a half paralyzed mother and taking care of a child who is going to university soon, needing to change career to be able to financially support everyone. Faith is what keeps me going. You are not alone in this. We all are fighting our battles but we will pull through. Be strong and keep the faith. Bight tight hugs to you Sister.
girls must be taught to live alone, to be financially independent, intellectually and emotionally decision-makers if a man passes by, so much the better we must not lie at 50 we will be old, the men will leave but if we have earned money we can have a gigolo. you have to know how to live alone and know how to take advantage of it And take things as they come  girls must be taught to live alone, to be financially independent, intellectually and emotionally decision-makers if a man passes by, so much the better we must not lie at 50 we will be old, the men will leave but if we have earned money we can have a gigolo. One has to know how to live alone and know how to take advantage of it And take things as they come. This way there will bé no transitions Juste life Taken care
The value in being able to enjoy just being in the moment without guilt if not being productive is huge. I retired and within about a year my 35 year marriage fell apart (I was completely unprepared and the full got pulled out) - my friends and family were the most supportive and wonderful support. I moved to a smaller condo that was all mine, did some sub work at my old job and was feeling productive again - then the pandemic and we all isolated and being active and engaged was a challenge. Now in this moment, I enjoy time just cuddling with my pup, watching tv or RUclips, reading ,puttering in the garden, and just enjoying this new journey. Housework will always wait and I am working at not feel guilty if I give my pup a few extra cuddles, or get some serendipitous time with my adult children. I never want to look back and wish I had spend less time keeping the perfect house while forfeiting time with family and friends - and time just with myself and being serene and comfortable in that time
That is a quote by Jane Marczewski, aka Nightbirde. She stated that on America's Got Talent. Sadly, she lost her cancer battle last year. Google her. Her brother is posting her music. It's beautiful. She was beautiful.
I totally understand your message. Funny I never really write in these platforms. But you touched my heart as I'm feeling exactly the same as you at the very same time. Day at a time Daisy girl. You can do this...
Yes, I was my mom's caretaker too. I lost her 3 years ago. Have weathered many a storm literally. I"m' in a good place now,, I have myself to count on.
Amen to you! I’ve always loved the quote “she is a beautiful piece of broken pottery, put back together by her own hands. And sometimes a critical world judges her cracks while missing the beauty of how she made herself whole again”! We are all there for you and rooting for you from the sidelines.....❤️❤️❤️❤️🙌🏻👊🏻🙏🏻
Oh my…. I don’t even know what to say.. this has helped me so much. I am one who keeps to myself and always have since I was a kid. Thanks so much for sharing your soul as it has helped mine. 💜
I’m sorry you’re going through this painful time. But I must tell you, the way you are turning your focus inward to reflect, to search for blessings, to grow and to stay strong in the belief that this too shall pass gives me pause and encourages my own reflection. You’re a special person and I thank you for sharing this vulnerable and so relatable moment. Maintain your grace as you do and keep moving forward. ❤️
Cindy, what a beautiful, moving comment. I am sure you touched Dominique's heart just like you touched mine. God Bless and may your struggles be few and passed through rapidly. Thank you!
@@katatude thank you, what a lovely thing to say. I suspect Dominique attracts a community that is a bit older and/or more interested in the type of inner journey she’s talking about here. But also the hair and makeup, because please.
As someone who has not seen her beloved daughter and 3 grandchildren in 4 years, I can sympathize with you. My downs come out of nowhere. I do still have my husband but he is not a talker and not much help. I’m 72 and need my family. I have learned to just keep my mouth shut and endure. God bless you, Dominique. I pray things come up quickly for you. Be so, so, so thankful you still have your Momma. I miss mine so much.
you are not alone. I too have been exiled from my children's lives. That includes my two grandchildren. My oldest at least lets me facetime once a week. it hurts so much......
I lost my mom 2 weeks ago. She was my mom, my friend and my confident. I ‘ m feeling really alone. I have my husband but he isn’t so supporting. Last settember i retired and i Miss my work, i was a teacher. Some months ago my younger daughter left and went living alone. For me all this is too much.
My husband and I have been exiled by our children as well. We haven't seen our 4 grandchildren ages 5-16 years in 2 1/2 years now. We don't even know what we have done. It hurts but we have decided to just live our lives the best we can.
I hear the sadness in your voice because it’s sounds like mine when I’m sad. As you know, it will pass. Thank you for being genuine and allowing all of us to to be genuine with you! ❤️
I totally needed to hear these words. Thank you so much for opening up. I lost my husband to pancreatic cancer over a year ago, and I just now I feel like I’m coming out of my shell and really grieving. Raising two teenage daughters on my own is not fun and it’s not what I want. But I know it’s the way God wanted it for some reason! One thing you said is very true and very important. We need to allow other people to help us. They do rise up to the occasion and they need to do it. I remember my mom used to tell me, ‘in order to be a good Christian you need to be able to gracefully receive, not just give.’. Let people help us. God bless you in this next chapter. And yes many blessings are in store for you in big ways!🙏
I, too, needed to hear these words. I lost my husband to acute myeloid leukemia 6 weeks ago. Grief is heavy and hard. I do not feel ok but I am trying. God bless you Maureen on your journey.
@@michellerobertson9929 so very sorry for your loss. Of course you feel very much not ok. I hope for you that you eventually feel ok. And better, better than ok. But for now, you’ll make it through the days until you get to the ok place.
@@michellerobertson9929 oh bless you. Ivam so sorry you are suffering the loss of a loved one. Thats incredibly hard. Of course you are not ok. Such very, very early days. Just take each day as it comes and take it from there,,,,, being bold, being blesses each day.
Hi Dominique, I am not saying anything this week, but I am giving You a listening ear. You have given us (Your Listeners) so much, we are here for you, we love you, we’ve got you, and we will be praying that God will provide all the help that you need. Trust me, we get it, like you’ve said, you are not alone. Robin
You are so incredibly brave to speak with such honesty, so many of us are feeling the same… but it takes massive guts to say it out loud for us all to hear. I’m so sorry you are having a hard time/week, but this too shall pass. You are strong for so many, just be kind to yourself. Xx
Can't help thinking that most of us have had our worlds turned upside down by the Pandemic. Even my thought process isn't who I was 3 years ago. There is a heaviness, a sadness, a fear, and a surrender I've felt that can't be lifted. It's changed our world in so many ways. To think of going through personal upheavals as well during this time is almost too much to bear. You're brave to share. It's hard to be vulnerable but you do it very well and set a very good example. Wishing that we all can find ways to lighten our hearts and experience the simple joys of what is good day to day. When looking forward is too hard, focus on today and take it slow. Thank you for your inspirations in all parts of life.
Dominique, I know all too well, how difficult life can get at times. My husband died unexpectedly two years ago and it has taken a lot out of me. Sadness, fear, loneliness, worry, and so many other emotions that come along with losing a spouse. He was only 60 years old. I’ve gone back to work, to keep busy and to get my mind off of things. It’s difficult, but like you, I know that God, family and friends will help me get thru this….they are. I wish you much love, happiness and peace. We are going to be okay! Stay strong beautiful lady. Things will get better. Gods got this! 🙏🏻🙏🏻❤️
I'm so sorry for your loss. I also lost my husband of 51 years a couple of years ago, and it's still very hard. My faith in God keeps me strong. Stay busy and positive. May God bless you 🙏
My husband passed away September 17, 2015. Ever since then, I go through a sad time starting the 1st of the month. I will set down and have a good cry and ask God for strength. We as women are wired completely different than men and it's ok to feel sadness. But, it's not ok to stay in that sad place to long. We need to get out of that place and move forward. ❤🙏❤
I'm so sorry for the loss of your husband. My husband of 28 years died suddenly while we were watching tv together in Oct 2013...I know it's painful but you are leaning on God the one who can really help and heal...I wish you peace and healing in Jesus name 😢❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
I was married 37 years and my husband passed after a long illness. So I did what I always say “Do the Best you can with what you have to work with “ god is good 😊 I am remarried now and he helped me after the loss of my parents. Being positive has always helped me. Life is good at 63 !
@@sandrahintz2617 my husband was only 61....6 years after his sudden death I moved to a new city to be closer to my son...I met a wonderful man at my church and we were married .. GOD is indeed Good and faithful ♥️. I am 72 and happily married again
I am keeping you in prayer. I went thru major life changes 20 years ago. Just hang on to Gods hand. He will get you thru this. One day at a time is all you can do. He will bless you beyond your dreams in the end.
Dominque this was such an encouraging word that you’ve shared with us, thank you! As a believer myself this scripture is what I have posted on my refrigerator. These things I have spoken to you, that in Me you may have peace. In this world you WILL have tribulation, but be of good cheer, I have overcome the world- John 16:33 ❤️
This is what I needed most desperately. Knowing scripture by heart is truly invaluable but having His word, the passages that we neglect to be brought before us. Especially when we are in the midst of being "crushed on all sides" "These things I have spoken to you, that in Me you may have peace. In this world you WILL have tribulation, but be of good cheer, I have overcome the world"- John 16:33 The tribulation can feel almost deadly I the despair, angst, searching for God to soothe our aching heart, calm our minds, tend to our wounds. We, like Dominique know all the right cheers to chant mid game. But to be reminding that we WILL have tribulation - an that to me means, whether I am doing everything correctly or not...tribulation WILL COMEand that I can "be of Good Cheer" for one reason alone. This world brings angst, pain, treachery, but HE has OVERCOME the World, HE is with Me an with YOU and we can actually "have peace" in that. Even when, ESPECIALLY when it seem impossible.
Remember…..”Don’t set yourself on fire to keep other people warm” So hard for women like us that are gifted with lifting other people up….that’s our pure joy. However, we often suppress our despair at times so that others won’t hurt for us the way we hurt for others and want to make everything all right for those we care about. Brokenness blossoms into cleansing then finally joy again. Let it take its course…..you can and will push through
Dear Dominique You've been a great help to me over the last five or so years and I'm sorry, although not surprised, you've hit a rough spot this week. I went through something unexpected and similar a decade ago when it was in my late 50s and it's taken pain and time to emerge whole and happy. You already know the most important thing: No matter the trauma and pain, you, like me, will emerge happier, healthier, kinder and wiser than I was before and my life is full and richer than ever. Embrace the adventure and live your life with beauty and boldness. I wouldn't give up my journey and the personal growth the unhappy end of my marriage brought me for anything. It's an odd blessing but a sweet one. Hugs Brenda
My husband is 71 and his health is deteriorating quickly. I've been trying to maintain a positive attitude and be a cheerleader but today I just feel so sad. So this video struck a nerve. I'm glad you posted it.
I heard in meditation this, "stop resisting, pray with the pain." What a relief, being given permission to just be. In the gift of pain, there is peace.
I just discovered you over the past couple of years. I have suffered from depression and anxiety since the age of four. I am now 63. I have had many blessings in my life but endured challenges similar to what you are going through now. Please know how much your videos... especially this one have been such a great support. You have brought some light back into my world and allowed me to say that I am OK as I am. You are a gift to us all. I send you blessings for now and the future. Thank you.
I am also in the state of “this is not how I pictured my life at this stage” currently. So many of my friends are in the same boat. Cling to the Lord. He is our only hope!
We lost our Queen today. So was feeling so sad but I watched you and you bless us with your wonderful words, your ‘ just being there’ and your grace. Thank you it was needed 🌿❤️🙏
I know for so many this is crushing and whether or not someone followed the Royal family, it would be hard to ignore that QEII's reign spanned so many generations, how could one not shed a tear for the loss. Even during the darkest hours of war, politics, family situations and her own personal sacrifices and losses, she always put her duty first. I would like to think before passing she grinned to herself, "I was the Queen of England...Well done"!
When I hear you, i am hearing "Pleasant words are like a honeycomb. Sweet and delightful to the soul and healing to the body". All praises to God our Saviour in times of need.
Years ago, one of my nursing instructors shared something so profound with my class. She said “The only thing that remains the same is CHANGE.” I really didn’t realize how true that statement was until years later. In the bad times, just knowing that things are going to change gives us hope. Hang in there my friend. Prayers lifted. Melissa 🍁
Nothing lasts forever, good or bad, so we all need to make friends with change & the unknown. When we take a step of faith, GOD's angels surround us with a hedge of protection. And this too shall pass!!!
Dominique, the power of prayer is the strongest bond I've formed in my adult life. I'm sorry that you had an emotionally draining week, but what a blessing you are for sharing it ❤️ I think all of us feel.alone at times and burdened by life's ups and downs. I will continue to lift you in prayer, and hope that these burdens will lighten for you. May your joy come in the morning
OMG it was like hearing my story ....this last two weeks no words because I was not sure what was happening....we sooooo need you in are lives and God has given a precious gift.... please note that we are with you and love and respect you.... big hug
3 months ago, we separated after 39 years of marriage...It's been tough. Thank you Dominique for your words, and for sharing not just the good (which is always brilliant) but also the true and the sad moments. We're all blessed in some way, no matter what.
I admire you for having the strength and courage to separate after so many years. So many would just stay. Praying for peace and a lovely and fulfilling new chapter for you. ❤
Dominique even when your down and sad and having a rough go of it, you are still helping us ladies out here with all your transparency. Now that should give you a sense of pride. We ALL love you when your happy, and when your sad. Your just like US. Go listen to some of your favorite music and let it help you thru it. Music heals so much . If you need more self time, take it. Love you sweety. 💖
Dominique- this video meant so much to me- I too had a hard week as a 55 year old who missing her family and friends. Feeling under appreciated, losing sleep. Because of your healing, vulnerable and encouraging words- it seemed as though you were talking directly to me that I fell asleep! Today I will watch the rest of the video. Thank you for doing what you do so gracefully.
Dominique, there are many of us who going through challenges in life. Take care of two elderly parents. Holding down stressful job. I have two children in college and one in high school. There are not enough hours in the day to tackle all of it. My husband passed away Four years ago. I understand struggle and grief. I pray that god give you the strength to manage your life. I am fine I get excited to tackle my challenges. I feel god has given me a lot to deal with and I am not going to disappoint him. I hope you can be happy and find that peace with in yourself.
Boy, can I relate! I just turned 75 and as if that wasn't enough to give me pause, I have had one of the worst months of my life. I have been feeling very much as you have been feeling but also realizing how so many of the people whom I have been there for are just not there for me when I stumble. While I don't necessarily need to turn my back on my fair-weather friends, I realize I need to look for more support and more positive and encouraging friends. I allowed myself to hear the kind words of your friend, as if she had spoken them to me, and it helped. I so admire your candor, because it would be easy for you to present yourself as flawless and without fear or limitations. When you talk about your difficult times it does make me feel less alone - I think, "See, even Dominique has bad days!" Oddly, I had been fooling around with magnetic lashes I bought some time ago and watching your old lash videos and I was about to give up and just throw them away. So I am looking forward to the magnetic lash video, but definitely needed the video from today. As always, thank you for being an inspiration and a positive role model - and for looking beautiful while you do it!
You know, I understand about the friends that don't support you. I hope you keep looking for them. Good and giving people are harder to find - its true. But they are out there.
When I have hard times like the one you share I think: "This is what means "To live"...when you FEEL (no matter is painful) it means you're ALIVE!! Embrace it and by the time everything gets in place you'll be stronger...mentally, phisically and spiritually!!!
Sun always show up after the storm. Everything happens for a reason and mostly the reason is to grow spiritually. You are not alone, it happens to all of us once in a while. Just remember it will pass ,keep the eyes on the light . Much blessings 🌸
Hears something recently that has helped me. You’ll be happy 1/3 of the time, sad 1/3 of the time and neutral 1/3 of the time. So you’re in that 1/3 time of sadness. Hang in there and thanks for the realness.
One of my favorite quotes from Corrie ten Boom is something like, "There is no pit that God's love is not deeper still." I have been in a pit most of this year, but I know God has me.
This is also my absolute favorite quote of CtB. Such great comfort in these words. His love has infinite depth! We are never out of His reach, and he will help us out of that pit!!
I found that my trials and testings come when I am feeling very secure independent and self reliant. When everything is perfect and I feel I have everything I need. The Lord has to remind me I am nothing without Him and I need to praise and be thankful in the good and the bad. He also reminds me He said He would never leave me or forsake me and I am not alone. Our God is the God of all comfort and brings people into our lives that have gone through the same storm and have come out in victory because of His deliverance. Praying for you and thank you for all you do. I have been following you for years and find you to be a true inspiration.
Needed this today.. I’m there right now myself in a hostile work environment and it’s really taking me down emotionally.. I’m thankful to know not that others are feeling down right now too but that I’m not alone and that my feelings are somehow validated. Thank you for sharing and big hugs to you and anyone else reading this that needs a virtual hug as well. 💕💕
Melissa, please do yourself a favor and try to get out of your hostile work environment. I stayed in one far too long and it took an emotional toll. Sending you a virtual hug! 💕
I quit, now i''m struggling but ok in a good bittersweet way. Not sure if i'm re-hireable ageism is real. I'm a uber delivery driver, every day is a challenge. I'm not comatose anymore. Good luck, keep the job and enjoy your off time to the max. Let the job be your base not your life.
@@sallyzaragoza4155 Thank you for taking time to send me a message. That is exactly why I’m forced to stay where I am. I’m at the tail end of my career. Closer to retirement age vs just starting out so I know what you’re saying. I hope you are blessed in many other ways just for your sheer kindness to reach out to me. Thank you very much! 💕💕
@@dancergal5068 Thank you for taking the time to reach out to me. I sincerely appreciate that. I’m closer to retirement as I’ve been with my company for over 20 years. So I’m in a little more difficult position. I appreciate your kinds words though. They truly do help at times like this. Thank you so much! 💕💕
@@dancergal5068 I was in a a similar situation and was suffering major depressive episodes. I had to resign to save myself- started a business 11 yrs ago🐾🐾
Oh my goodness...this segment could not have come at a better time!! I am dealing with nursing care for my 96 year old mother and it's overwhelming all of the decisions one must make. I struggle with guilt that I can't care for her anymore and I'm shocked at the prices for assisted living facilities. I pray that God gives us the ability to accept the things that we can change and accept those things we can't. Dominique, you are beautiful inside and out. Thanks for showing us that you, too, can be vulnerable and susceptible to life's difficulties. One thing I do know after 65 years: life will go on and better days are ahead.
I too am in the process of trying to get to grips with my Mother's situation, she has just gone into a nursing home. We had a good relationship before and now she hates me! I don't have any siblings so am dealing with this on my own. I'm told by the staff that she has friends and appears happy, she just won't let me see this. So many exhausting feelings! Reading all these comments just dmonstrates that we are all the same. Life is full of ups and downs. Its good you called out - your normal!
Oh Jeanie, I am right there with you. My 91 year old mother has had to move in with me and my husband. We've never been close or gotten along very well, needless to say, things are definitely not any better now. This is the hardest thing I've ever had to do, expect for burying my daughter this past June. She suffered from breast cancer for 3 years and finally lost the fight. So...what a year it's been. At this point I can't see light at the end of the tunnel, although I know it has to be there. We have a son, daughter in law and granddaughter who lives very close and they are so much a part of what is keeping me going. I have two other beautiful grandchildren from my daughter, I'm going to work very hard to stay as close to as I can. Lots of sad days, but lots of good days too.
I read this somewhere & I think it's so valuable to keep in our thoughts - a message from God. "My child, you worry too much, Remember.... I've got this! Love, God"
I have been where you are. I had to use the advise I gave my children when they would come home from school, complaining about what this kid did or that teacher did. I made them sit down and tell me one good thing that happened in their day. That moment made all the difference in their perspective of how they day actually went. I began to do that as well, and as time went by, the good moments began to take over the bad. My life has changed in so many beautiful and wonderful ways that I am truly blessed by the struggles of the past. It made me appreciate the blessings of today. You are wonderfully and beautifully made! The good days will surpass your wildest dreams. You are loved!
Dear Dominique, thank you for opening up to the people who followed you, my name is Elizabeth and I am Hispanic, I want to tell you that what seems to be bad is not, since in each season of our lives we learn and go through situations that they make us see life from a different perspective and teach us things that we would never have experienced if we did not go through that passage. In my case I am going through something similar, my husband fell with someone younger than me, and I have felt abandoned and despised and worthless, until I realized that he was my mirror and it was me, I had abandoned myself and there are many ways of abandoning to ourselves, just as I also gave my value to him and it was me who despised myself , so it is a new beginning where it makes us stronger, and we can do everything in God who strengthens us, do not forget, do not fear and HE is faithful, a big hug to distance. Elizabeth Forte
Elizabeth, te mando un abrazo lleno de positivismo. Aqui de lejos, estoy echandote buena vibra y deseandote muchos anos de crecimiento y logros personales. Aunque sea dificil creerlo ahora mismo, te aseguro que a veces lo que uno pierde, se va precisamente para que uno pueda hacer espacio para cosas que son mas grandes y significativas. Adelante, amiga! Carinos de Iraida en Virginia.
Life is very challenging at most times but I always have this beautifull quote in my head and it makes me feel so much better.. So today, I like to share it with this family… The most beautiful people we have known are those who have known defeat, known suffering, known struggle, known loss, and have found their way out of the depths. These persons have an appreciation, a sensitivity, and an understanding of life that fills them with compassion, gentleness, and a deep loving concern. Beautiful people do not just happen." ―Elisabeth Kübler-Ross
I was having a bad week last week and this week! Been there. I went to High school with you but was as shy as I am tall. But you influenced me in Ms. B’s art class. So happy for you and all you have accomplished! You told me my name sounded like royalty and I shot up 20 feet tall. Stay lifted up! You have a great spirit! Much continued success!
Thank you I needed this. I'm 52 years old, lost my job, had a breakdown, filed bankruptcy and my 94 year old mom had a massive heart attack and went into a temporary coma after being prescribed blood pressure medication that she didn't need all in 2021. She fully recovered, but I live with her right now. I never thought at my age and with two college degrees this is where I would be in my life. With the help of my therapist, I'm taking one day at a time and seeing the gratitude in my life.
I sympathize with you. I also have an advanced education that doesn't help me at all now including a law degree. I will pray that your life gets better. 💕
Search for Scripture to bring you guidance and peace. I love what Dr. Robert Schuller said, “Pain, disappointment, and tragedy never leaves you where it found you, you can become bitter or better, but you can choose the change to be better or bitter.” I felt your pain and cried as I watched you. You will get through this and be better and be able to help others through bad times through your experience. Thank you for being genuine and honest. ❤️🙏
What I love about you Dominique is your ability to be vulnerable, this allows for others to feel ok to be vulnerable too, I think we sometimes as woman feel we have to keep a brave face on when all we want to do is scream. How incredibly uplifting and insightful, this has lifted and inspired me. May God bless and keep you, may He put you into His shoulders as you face this difficult time.I can assure you it does and will get better once you have reached the top of the mountain there is freedom on the other side. Much love
I am so happy you found your Mr. Right. I vividly remembered after your divorce; a friend provided you with these loving words. She told you, " We both want to be safe, truly cherished, seen, heard, and loved for who we are on the inside with our outer beauty as icing on the cake." From her lips to God ears I think you finally found what you were looking for and I am sooooo happy for the both of you. May you have many happy years together. God bless.
Thank you for being so real and raw with your life with us. You can’t imagine how many people you inspired and lifted up today with your raw self. Many may look at you and think you have the perfect life and come away feeling sad they couldn’t have your “perfect” life. It just goes to show there really is no such thing as a perfect life as we are ALL dealing with pain in one form or another. Ladies, please share your pain with others because you never know who you may help as Dominique did today.
I'm not good at expressing how I feel, but at this moment, Friday evening I feel empty and emotionally lonely. I'm right now sitting in the dark & listening to you on RUclips and thinking...what a great time for me to hear this...thank you! I just take a deep breath and be grateful of of my blessings! All I have is my mom ²(who's 82 and looks fantastic)...I'm not married, no children, 52 years old, and love to just have a problem-free honest companion , which is hard to come by these days!😑
We think we are the only ones in a sad place. Be open to a new relationship, be open to new possibilities. My dogs are my comfort when I find I can't reach out for support. I wish you peace, joy and future happiness.
I totally understand. I'm 49, not married no kids. Feel so alone. Dating is so hard and can't seem to find the right person for me. Last guy treated me horribly. Glad to read im not alone!
Don't stop believing. Keep the faith. I went from a very dark lonely place just a few weeks ago to meeting someone that I never in my wildest dreams would find. Of course it's too soon to know if it will work out but my God Im having the most incredibly inspiring time.
Seems last week was "the week" for a lot of us. I had three deaths one day after another and the sense of loss was quite painful. My faith in God provides my strength. Hang in there. Much love and blessings! ❤️
Hello Dominique. I found being thrown into widowhood I needed to do something. I have had to go back to work but I also volunteered quilting for others less fortunate. It feels good and I keep doing it. It is hard but you can do it because “This to Shall Pass”. My mantra. God bless you and stay strong. One step at a time….
Oh Lia, this is very sad news and my heart is heavy for you. I cannot imagine the pain, but I do know, as Dominque says, The One who knows our pain and can be comfort that pain.
This is a huge time right now, energetic-wise. Everyone is going through this tumultuous duration at the same time. A lot of heavy energy is going on currently.
When I get like that, I tell God, I can’t take it any longer and just give it to him. You will be amazed when you let God take care of it. Love to you and speedy recovery
I felt like you were in my living room today talking with me. My husband passed away recently and I understand the loneliness of being one instead of two. Being grateful for each day is a big part of the solution. Sending you healing & loving thoughts.
I also lost my husband two years ago and the feeling of loss is still very strong. Being one after 51 years of marriage is incredibly hard, but I take one day at a time. I thank God every day for all his blessings. Stay strong and God bless you. I am so sorry for your loss.
Come back Dominique! I miss you and I am sure others too! You are amazing and while I understand the "crap" you are going through, don't allow it to affect your soul. You are an inspiration and we love you!
Wow! Your timing is impeccable. I have been having a stressful, depressing week with a newly diagnosed, and very scary, health issue. Your talk made me realize that we all have our cross to carry and that no matter how “perfect” someone else’s life looks they too have problems. Please take care of yourself and know that you truly make a difference in so many lives. Sending virtual hugs. 💕
My prayers go to you in beating whatever this diagnosis may be. I've received three diagnosis this year and they were all wrong. But even so, you are special that u can give to others.
@@carolmckenney8136 thank you so much for your kind words! I will keep you in my prayers as well. This is a wonderful community of caring individuals. Thank you Dominique for creating it and encouraging all of us. 💕
Hi. Dominique Thank you forv sharing. Your expression of faith, in times like these, was a reminder to me... You see. I had been diagnosed with cancer when it was already stage 4 b (out of c) and it had already metasticisized. I took the attitude that "I am not dieing of cancer. I am LIVING with cancer." I have since found that it is inoperable and I lost myself in self pity. It was as if my faith were failing me, which made me feel even worse. Your sharing of your faith has helped me to remember...nothing. has changed and certainly not God. He still has a plan for me. He still knows what's best for me and I, most certainly, am still LIVING with cancer. Every day is more precious and I get to be alive for it. I don't need to know for how long, as long as I see the beauty of each day, separately. YOU are a blessing. Thank you You, too, are already ok,, because you LIVE in the Lord's hands. : )
I am truly sorry that you are dealing with so much. Your faith and resolve to put your best foot forward are truly admirable. You are so strong and we uplift you with positive thoughts and well wishes.
The best advice my dearest mother gave me many many years ago that has helped me through life when I thought I could not go on is " God only gives you crosses he knows you can bear" I can still hear my dearest mothers voice saying these words and somehow they have helped me pull through. I hope they can be comfort to you. My mother passes away 27 years ago and never got a chance to see my only child. But I know somehow through my belief in God she is by my side and I am not alone. She so desperately wanted to hear the news she would be a grandma but it came 2 years after her passing. Not a day goes by I don't think of her and my father. Stay strong and God is with you 🙏🌸💗
Last week was such a week for me and I can honestly say I can't do anything without Jesus in my life.And good friends!They really lift me up in prayer.I once came face to face with my heartache and I realized that I always bury it deep away in my heart..but when I gave it to God He healed me..I just struggled to face the betrayel.May the Lord.really lift you up and place your feet on higher ground!Lots of love and hugs❤⚘❤⚘
I’m so sorry to hear you’re having a difficult time, Dominique. We all go through trials in this life, and while they’re not fun while we’re experiencing them, they do grow us in so many ways. I will be praying for you, my friend. And may I remind you to leave your burdens at the feet of Jesus. He will carry them for you. ❤️
Music gets me through the ups and the downs more than anything besides my faith. When I'm in my car, I turn it up and I sing! It has been my go-to for my entire life. Even at 4 yrs. old, I remember loving music so much that I would beg my mother not to turn the car off until the song was over. I just lost one of my best friends from the time we were 15 she was the new girl in school and feeling lost, we had to partner up in our physical education class, so I turned to her and asked if she would like to be my partner. She never forgot that. She had a very rough life and she and her brother both became alcoholics and passed away within one week of one another. She literally drank herself to death. They played her favorite song at the funeral. She loved music too. It was amazing how it lifted us up when that song came on. I'm just saying that music is sometimes can be a lifesaver. It didn't save hers but it got her through rough times. I hope this helps someone.
Thank you so much for sharing this. I’m very sorry for your loss. I also have had a special relationship with music, it moves me so much I’ve often wondered if other people are as affected as I! I shared the love of music with my dear best friend. I sadly lost her 2 days before her 43rd birthday on 1/11/2020. Like your friend, she had a tough life. I can safely say that music was a savior to her as well though! It’s helped both of us get through some tough times. The power of music is real. Wishing you happiness and peace.
@@JenDoe1 Thank you so much! I love your name Queen Groove! That says it all! I am so sorry for your loss as well. I hope you know she is still with you. My friend came to me in what one would call a dream but I know it to be real because everyone I've ever lost has come to me to leave a message or just communicate to give me closure. What she said to me was "I'm resting". We always said whoever goes first will contact the other. That was her telling me she was taking a much needed rest and I believe she will come back once more. Blessings to you and keep the music alive! Peace and all the best of everything!
God’s with you, Dominique. I recently heard a preaching about Peter who had come back to the shore with an empty nest. He had prepared to go fishing, he had given his best, but still. The nest was empty. That’s the point where we allow our Lord to come in our boat because we can’t do it without Him. And then with Him on our side it’s a new beginning, and He’ll bless us in ways we hadn’t imagined… I hope you have time to read it and that it’ll inspire you. You’re certainly not alone. 💕 Take care.
Thank you for your honesty, courage, perseverance and vulnerability. Each time I think you’re the most beautiful soul ever, you skyrocket and soar through the clouds. Bless you Dominique❣️❣️
Thank you for being real, raw and open. I’m overwhelmed with sadness and some of the same things your going through. It’s uncanny. I find it’s hard right now to find a trusted friend to share my pain. Someone to listen, understand and not judge in harshness. Thank you thank you for sharing your life with us. You are truly beautiful inside and out. God bless you times a million.
For many years, I have journaled because the result has been the shelving of all the distractions whirling in my mind and commiting them to a place of rest. We can always pick those distractions back up once our minds are more settled and discernment is possible. When "it's too much," it can be paralyzing and nothing is resolved. Journaling is tantamount to releasing the bees in your bonnet and allowing a breather. For me, journaling has often been a plea for God's divine intervention. The most gratifying experience is to back years later, and see how God did indeed show up by providing a lifeline (He sent you a wise and compassionate friend). In life, we will all experience what is often described as the dark night of the soul. What you are sharing about your own life does reassure anyone experiencing that dark place is that we are not alone. That is an act of great kindness. Carry on!
I am in the deepest valley I’ve been in after losing my significant other to cancer April 13. This came after my youngest of five moved away for college in December. I feel lonely sad and anxious amongst other emotions but like you I’m thankful for my faith family and friends who have been there for me during these most difficult times
I do not pretend to understand your deep loss of a loved one to cancer, but I do understand an empty nest and feeling alone. I am comforted when times like this have come into my life and realize that it did not take God by surprise. He walked the path ahead of me and has already provided all I need to get through If I choose to seek His loving refuge. 🙏
Dear Dominique I admire you since I met you in social media not only for your beauty, brave but for your faith in God. Don’t give up , everything happens for a reason . Be bold and be bless ❤️🌹👑
Thank you for this. I lost my husband of 29 years, the love of my life, a year ago. Then my mother, my best friend and my rock, died suddenly a few months later. I’m overwhelmed and heartbroken. I’ve kept my faith which has saved me. And my family and friends have been there n ways I’ll never be able to repay. Take care of you.
Oh my goodness, Ann. I don't even have the words for that kind of loss. I'm just so sorry. I am grateful to hear you have a support system and ways of coping and getting through. You take care of you, too 🙏
Oh Dominique, that was heartfelt, honest and so touching. We ALL go through the valleys! I hope yours is short lived and thank you for being you! We are all in this together!
Thank you for keeping it real. I know that when we are in the valleys, God is leading the way, through the darkness to the mountain tops. This too shall pass. Remember, you are Bold and you are Blessed!
Needed this today. Sometimes it gets old lifting people up when you feel like you occasionally need the same and nobody notices. I love giving to others and making them feel their worth but I hold in my wants and needs because they all think my life is without struggles. It’s not. No one can know what goes on behind closed doors, they may assume because of what they see on the outside through material possessions. We all have our insecurities…I am blessed but still feel like I am missing out on the support I need when I feel empty. Thankful for my faith because that will always me afloat.
Sending you virtual hugs. I hope they help you feel that there's someone who is here trying to help lift you up when you need it. I feel your words as my own so I'm hoping you can take a little something from the virtual hugs being sent your way. They should cover you like a mountain of jello and bring just as many smiles. ❤
We sound very similar Dominique with our own “unique gifts” and yesterday I texted my mother as she’s not close by and she could sense my anxiousness and fear and she told me this: Just plow thru. Sometimes those turn out to be good times & the times when you are comfortable might not turn out as well. ❤️ I’m grateful for my faith which some days I feel the whole day can be prayers and reaching to GOD and others I’m so blessed with his goodness. I can’t imagine not having my faith as it’s my rock. I live a very blessed life however each person has their struggles some my mask it better than others.. I appreciate your transparency and remember this: “I am in control of my thoughts” or my favorite 😍 “I can do all things through Jesus Christ who strengthens me”. 💕 👸
I’m at a loss for words. I kept putting off watching this video because of fear. On August 23rd of this year, it was 25 years that my husband passed away. Estranged from my eldest son for many years. A daughter that lacks empathy, who needs help mentally (depression runs in my mom’s side of the family. I have had genetic testing done and have been on anti-depressants for decades). My youngest son, like my daughter, has his own family. The more I reach out, the more I’m ignored, walking on eggshells. My faith has never been strong and God took my husband. No friends, except one who lives thousands of miles away that I met through Facebook years ago. People have turned their backs on me after I have listened to their problems. This is too long, I thank you for sharing, the tears are flowing. Just dread when I go through a period of time when silence is deafening. I feel your pain.
I love what you said about leaning in to friendships, or just a kind, listening ear. I can honestly say that I believe in lifting up others who seem to need it, or even when they don’t seem to need it.. I was a middle child of five and have a pleaser personality. I want people to feel good. Sadly, I can also say that I literally have nobody who attempts to lift me. It’s RARE. But I am grateful that this gives me space to listen to my own heart and soul. I wish you progress in your soul’s work. You share so much. Thank you.
I've just watched this again. I'm going through a time like this right now. As much as I'm trying to deal with the issues in my life it is such a struggle. The physical & emotional strain is evident as you have mentioned with the forced smile. I realise whatever the outcome of my problems I need to forge a life I'm happy in when this time has passed 🙏 Thank you so much x
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Optimist: Someone who figures that taking a step backward. after taking a step forward is not a disaster, it's a cha-cha.” This quote from Robert Brault has been a small mantra for me. Just for today I will dance the cha cha. Wishing you wellness and wellbeing 🙏💙
Love that!
I love that too!!!!!
Love this!
so very well said....love it.
I love that - thanks for sharing!
I was recently diagnosed with stage IV cancer and had my 1st round of chemo last week. My faith in God and my husband and family and my friends are getting me thru. I have good days and bad days I see life differently now. I cherish my family and friends more, I don't know what I would do without them. I do know my cancer journey has just started but I know all I can do if try and be positive. I am blessed with 5 children, my youngest is only 11. I tell him everyday that I love him and he asks me to be here for him when he graduates high school. I tell him I will always be with you no matter what happens. He says I'm the best mama. I love him so much, I pray 🙏 to be healed and healthy. Blessings to all who are going through a life change. Take time to smell the roses, love as much as you can, pray and be thankful for all that you have. God Bless 🙏
Our prayers go with you.
Please read Radical Remission by Dr. Kelly Turner. Game changer
Prayers for your healing.❤️🙏
You will be fine. God is good. You will be there for your son till he walk down the isle to marry and take care of your grandchildren. Godspeed and get well soon.
God bless you
My husband of 49 yrs passed Easter Sunday. It has been the hardest time of my life. I thank God that I have my two children. Gary would be so proud of how we have helped one another through this sorrow.
Amen sister. After over 30 years of marriage I got divorced and had to start my life over again. Money is tight I am on disability and thats my only source of income. Its hard but with the love of my Lord and my Mom I am getting through it. Thank you for addressing this issue. It is like a sisterhood out here just open your heart and they will come. We are right down in the trenches together. God bless.😇🥰
I wish you a healthy and happy future 🙏🏼
God is by ur side
Blessings to you 🙏
@@juliekostas7322 God Bless
@@Pwallace1 Thank you. Same to you
People say that God doesn’t give you more than you can handle, however, that is a lie. God gives us more than we can handle many times. Why? To draw us closer to him. Seek him and rely on him to carry you through. The strong don’t need him, but in our weaknesses & struggles, we do need Him. Praying for you as you get through this time.
Yeah, He really got the people of the Holodomor through great. Didn't he?
What is Holodomor?
You assume a lot about someone’s beliefs. Not everyone is a Christian.
He should give it to someone else. His pissed enough ppl off!!!
GOD does not give you anything that is not common to all of us! And we all are stronger & can endure more than what we think we are capable of! We just need to ask HIM for wisdom & to remove the veil from our eyes!!!🙏🙏🙏
Being able to call your mother and having her be able to come right to you when you call...priceless!!!
You are such an inspiration to many. My marriage ended in 2009 and I lost my beloved special needs daughter age 26 4 months later. I had to take on a more challenging position to make ends meet and then at the beginning of 2011 I lost my precious son also aged 26. My world caved in and I couldn't see the light but i had to press on. Fast forward, I am taking care of my elderly parents and taken early retirement in order to do so resulting in downscaling and a huge lifestyle change. My belief is that it is only with my faith I have got this far and it will carry me one day at a time. God bless you and remember we are warriors ... draw on your faith and inner strength
GOD Bless you 🙏🏻🙏🏻
Prayers for you & your elderly parents … left my job - took care of my mom 6yrs dementia … she passed by it was very tough on me & my family. You have been through tremendous loss but people are praying for you!!
Stay strong … keep the faith & Blessing all around you ✝️🙏🏻🙏🏻
I cannot imagine how much sorrow you have been through but your inner beauty and strength shines through. I am grateful to have read your sad but hopeful testimony; you have much to be proud of. Blessings to you. 🙏
Lesley - when I think I have problems and I hear a story like yours, it makes me realize so many more are going through so much more than I am. God bless and be with you.
So sorry for your loss of your beloved children, so sorry.
I will keep you in my prayers. I know you have a beautiful eternal life ahead after the tremendous suffering you have endure here on earth. May your days ahead be so much better than those that have passed. God bless and keep you.
A woman a long time ago gave me this advice: Let yourself Cry out loud and often, as often as you feel it. Don’t hold emotion back. I too thought I had to always be so strong. I followed her advice and it got me through a very painful time more than once. Love to you.
I've been doing alot of this lately
Great advice 💕
And here I know that fully and I still don't do it dang it I still hold strong
A good cry in the shower helps me deal with strong emotions
Its true. And someone also said that if you hold your emotions and don't cry, you can get some sickness in your body
I have been there. I can remember at one of my most challenging times in life driving my car and just sobbing, asking God "why did this happen?" I was so lost and over whelmed with grief. Over time i was ble to understad the situation and why things happened as they did but by reaching out to God and pouring out my hurt and my soul, God surrounded me with family and friends to get me through. Bless you Dominique and keep the faith that God will get you through this difficult time.
Dear Dominique, I understand what you're going through. My son had a brain tumor, my ex cheated on me with my cousin’s daughter 25 years younger than him. I also had some conflicts at work. What helped me was to forgive from the bottom of my heart. The Course of Miracles and my love for God supported me during this period of my life. Receive my sincere love and blessings! 🙏🏻💞🥰💕🙏🏻
God Bless 🙏
Stay strong Veronica
Betrayal is bad enough in itself but when it’s comes from one’s nearest and dearest - the people you should enable to trust - it’s always a double whammy. You deserve better! Wishing you well from across the pond 😊🇬🇧
My therapist once said to me “You can be sad and depressed while also being grateful.” Hearing that helped me let go of the guilt I had for being depressed when I have so much to be thankful for.
I’m so sad no energy, fatigue, so so much but I’m so grateful for so many blessings thank you Jesus… and thank you to everyone reading this. I send you blessings and love! God Bless you forever and always! Amen
Sometimes we all need to have a “come apart” as a friend told me. A good cry can be cathartic so if you need it, do it. God knows what you need and what’s in your heart. His answers may not be what you ask him for or what you think you need, but rest assured he has a plan for you and it is the perfect plan. Many prayers 🙏
Dominique, have you read the book “When the Heart Waits” by Sue Monk Kidd? I think it echoes so much of what you’ve said. Give it a read if you can…. It brings a paradigm shift in perspective
Prayers for you, Dominique!!! 😊♥️
Much love to you! Here's hoping you're soon to "turn the corner" into easier and happier times...they're bound to be awaiting you. 💕
@karencrane Amen...He is able - 24/7.
I care for my 93 yr old mom, my in-laws who are in their late 80’s, my brother who is 73 and a disabled veteran, and my daughter who is a young single mom. I can truly say I understand the heaviness and weight you feel. My faith and a close friend have always been there to help me. I’m so sorry you are experiencing all of this. Please know others care and understand. Your honesty and openness I know will resonate with so many. Thank you for your words of encouragement. We need to remember there are those all around us who may be going through tough times. We need to be aware and offer compassion and hope. What we go through can equip us to help others.
It’s sounds like you are an amazing woman who has strength and stoicism too, sending love and strength to you 70’slady Always.. keep the faith and love in your quiet moments.. your never alone 💖💖 (from Australia 🇦🇺)😘
Desde Buenos Aires, Argentina, te abrazo y ruego al Señor por tu fortaleza.
Kisses, Dusana
Susana sends a big hug
Wow, and I thought I had a lot on my shoulders. You are amazing for everything you do. God bless you always and give you the strength to keep going. Sending you a big hug and prayers.
We all have major life transitions and we all find the way out. Letting the passed go and accepting the new reality helps. We are human you don't have to pretend be strong...being weak is part of being strong. Yes you got this.
You are not alone. We all have or will be in a similar spot. Be blessed.
Dominique, I totally get what you mean being in my early 50’s-just losing my father to covid, looking after a half paralyzed mother and taking care of a child who is going to university soon, needing to change career to be able to financially support everyone. Faith is what keeps me going. You are not alone in this. We all are fighting our battles but we will pull through. Be strong and keep the faith. Bight tight hugs to you Sister.
girls must be taught to live alone, to be financially independent, intellectually and emotionally decision-makers if a man passes by, so much the better we must not lie at 50 we will be old, the men will leave but if we have earned money we can have a gigolo. you have to know how to live alone and know how to take advantage of it And take things as they come

girls must be taught to live alone, to be financially independent, intellectually and emotionally decision-makers
if a man passes by, so much the better
we must not lie at 50 we will be old, the men will leave but if we have earned money we can have a gigolo.
One has to know how to live alone and know how to take advantage of it
And take things as they come. This way there will bé no transitions Juste life
Taken care
Prayers from uk . With God all things are possible.
The value in being able to enjoy just being in the moment without guilt if not being productive is huge. I retired and within about a year my 35 year marriage fell apart (I was completely unprepared and the full got pulled out) - my friends and family were the most supportive and wonderful support. I moved to a smaller condo that was all mine, did some sub work at my old job and was feeling productive again - then the pandemic and we all isolated and being active and engaged was a challenge. Now in this moment, I enjoy time just cuddling with my pup, watching tv or RUclips, reading ,puttering in the garden, and just enjoying this new journey. Housework will always wait and I am working at not feel guilty if I give my pup a few extra cuddles, or get some serendipitous time with my adult children. I never want to look back and wish I had spend less time keeping the perfect house while forfeiting time with family and friends - and time just with myself and being serene and comfortable in that time
Someone once said “You can’t wait for everything to be right or good to decide to be happy”. That has helped me get through a tough day or week.
That is a quote by Jane Marczewski, aka Nightbirde. She stated that on America's Got Talent. Sadly, she lost her cancer battle last year. Google her. Her brother is posting her music. It's beautiful. She was beautiful.
I needed this today. I’m falling apart and can’t take much more. Prayers to you and everyone on here feeling overwhelmed also.
Good wishes to you. Others care.
Thinking of you Daisy…. Prayers and positive thoughts for you 🙏🏻
To you too Daisy x
Hugs sister!
I totally understand your message. Funny I never really write in these platforms. But you touched my heart as I'm feeling exactly the same as you at the very same time. Day at a time Daisy girl. You can do this...
I’ve been a caregiver for husband with brain cancer - I’ve learned one thing ! “you have go through and get through “ and “this to will pass”🙏🏻
Me too! Glioblastoma is a wild ride and changed my life forever. Blessings to you!
Bless you
Yes! There is no way through but through.
Yes, I was my mom's caretaker too. I lost her 3 years ago. Have weathered many a storm literally. I"m' in a good place now,, I have myself to count on.
The valleys truly help us to appreciate the summits. We just need to keep climbing.
Amen to you! I’ve always loved the quote “she is a beautiful piece of broken pottery, put back together by her own hands. And sometimes a critical world judges her cracks while missing the beauty of how she made herself whole again”!
We are all there for you and rooting for you from the sidelines.....❤️❤️❤️❤️🙌🏻👊🏻🙏🏻
Such beautiful words to remind us we can do this
Wow, beautiful quote.
Oh my…. I don’t even know what to say.. this has helped me so much. I am one who keeps to myself and always have since I was a kid. Thanks so much for sharing your soul as it has helped mine. 💜
I luv this! so well said
I have never heard that quote. It’s lovely. Thank you 😊
I’m sorry you’re going through this painful time. But I must tell you, the way you are turning your focus inward to reflect, to search for blessings, to grow and to stay strong in the belief that this too shall pass gives me pause and encourages my own reflection. You’re a special person and I thank you for sharing this vulnerable and so relatable moment. Maintain your grace as you do and keep moving forward. ❤️
Cindy, what a beautiful, moving comment. I am sure you touched Dominique's heart just like you touched mine. God Bless and may your struggles be few and passed through rapidly. Thank you!
@@katatude thank you, what a lovely thing to say. I suspect Dominique attracts a community that is a bit older and/or more interested in the type of inner journey she’s talking about here. But also the hair and makeup, because please.
Wonderful comment 😊
Lovely comment
May our heavenly Father continue to grant you the strength & wisdom for all of life's challenges.
As someone who has not seen her beloved daughter and 3 grandchildren in 4 years, I can sympathize with you. My downs come out of nowhere. I do still have my husband but he is not a talker and not much help. I’m 72 and need my family. I have learned to just keep my mouth shut and endure. God bless you, Dominique. I pray things come up quickly for you. Be so, so, so thankful you still have your Momma. I miss mine so much.
you are not alone. I too have been exiled from my children's lives. That includes my two grandchildren. My oldest at least lets me facetime once a week. it hurts so much......
I lost my mom 2 weeks ago. She was my mom, my friend and my confident. I ‘ m feeling really alone. I have my husband but he isn’t so supporting.
Last settember i retired and i Miss my work, i was a teacher. Some months ago my younger daughter left and went living alone. For me all this is too much.
God bless her x-husband. We only have mercy for you for leaving him.
@@barbarabain1477 whatdoes this mean?
My husband and I have been exiled by our children as well. We haven't seen our 4 grandchildren ages 5-16 years in 2 1/2 years now. We don't even know what we have done. It hurts but we have decided to just live our lives the best we can.
I hear the sadness in your voice because it’s sounds like mine when I’m sad. As you know, it will pass. Thank you for being genuine and allowing all of us to to be genuine with you! ❤️
I totally needed to hear these words. Thank you so much for opening up. I lost my husband to pancreatic cancer over a year ago, and I just now I feel like I’m coming out of my shell and really grieving. Raising two teenage daughters on my own is not fun and it’s not what I want. But I know it’s the way God wanted it for some reason! One thing you said is very true and very important. We need to allow other people to help us. They do rise up to the occasion and they need to do it. I remember my mom used to tell me, ‘in order to be a good Christian you need to be able to gracefully receive, not just give.’. Let people help us. God bless you in this next chapter. And yes many blessings are in store for you in big ways!🙏
I, too, needed to hear these words. I lost my husband to acute myeloid leukemia 6 weeks ago. Grief is heavy and hard. I do not feel ok but I am trying. God bless you Maureen on your journey.
Same!! This was liquid gold. Totally feel like this was divinely made just for ME! Thank you Dominique 🥰🥰🥰
@@michellerobertson9929 so very sorry for your loss. Of course you feel very much not ok. I hope for you that you eventually feel ok. And better, better than ok. But for now, you’ll make it through the days until you get to the ok place.
thank you for the sweet reminder to be able to receive too as it can be in the small things others can have great joy in giving:)
@@michellerobertson9929 oh bless you. Ivam so sorry you are suffering the loss of a loved one. Thats incredibly hard. Of course you are not ok. Such very, very early days. Just take each day as it comes and take it from there,,,,, being bold, being blesses each day.
Hi Dominique, I am not saying anything this week, but I am giving You a listening ear. You have given us (Your Listeners) so much, we are here for you, we love you, we’ve got you, and we will be praying that God will provide all the help that you need. Trust me, we get it, like you’ve said, you are not alone. Robin
You are so incredibly brave to speak with such honesty, so many of us are feeling the same… but it takes massive guts to say it out loud for us all to hear. I’m so sorry you are having a hard time/week, but this too shall pass. You are strong for so many, just be kind to yourself. Xx
Can't help thinking that most of us have had our worlds turned upside down by the Pandemic. Even my thought process isn't who I was 3 years ago. There is a heaviness, a sadness, a fear, and a surrender I've felt that can't be lifted. It's changed our world in so many ways. To think of going through personal upheavals as well during this time is almost too much to bear. You're brave to share. It's hard to be vulnerable but you do it very well and set a very good example. Wishing that we all can find ways to lighten our hearts and experience the simple joys of what is good day to day. When looking forward is too hard, focus on today and take it slow. Thank you for your inspirations in all parts of life.
Dominique, I know all too well, how difficult life can get at times. My husband died unexpectedly two years ago and it has taken a lot out of me. Sadness, fear, loneliness, worry, and so many other emotions that come along with losing a spouse. He was only 60 years old. I’ve gone back to work, to keep busy and to get my mind off of things. It’s difficult, but like you, I know that God, family and friends will help me get thru this….they are. I wish you much love, happiness and peace. We are going to be okay! Stay strong beautiful lady. Things will get better. Gods got this! 🙏🏻🙏🏻❤️
I’m so sorry for your loss.
I'm so sorry. Thank you for your openness and honesty
I'm so sorry for your loss. I also lost my husband of 51 years a couple of years ago, and it's still very hard. My faith in God keeps me strong. Stay busy and positive. May God bless you 🙏
My husband passed away September 17, 2015. Ever since then, I go through a sad time starting the 1st of the month. I will set down and have a good cry and ask God for strength. We as women are wired completely different than men and it's ok to feel sadness. But, it's not ok to stay in that sad place to long. We need to get out of that place and move forward. ❤🙏❤
I'm so sorry for the loss of your husband. My husband of 28 years died suddenly while we were watching tv together in Oct 2013...I know it's painful but you are leaning on God the one who can really help and heal...I wish you peace and healing in Jesus name 😢❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
I was married 37 years and my husband passed after a long illness. So I did what I always say “Do the Best you can with what you have to work with “ god is good 😊 I am remarried now and he helped me after the loss of my parents. Being positive has always helped me. Life is good at 63 !
@@sandrahintz2617 my husband was only 61....6 years after his sudden death I moved to a new city to be closer to my son...I met a wonderful man at my church and we were married ..
GOD is indeed Good and faithful ♥️. I am 72 and happily married again
I’m sorry for your loss and I hope God continues bringing you peace. God bless 😊
I am keeping you in prayer. I went thru major life changes 20 years ago. Just hang on to Gods hand. He will get you thru this. One day at a time is all you can do. He will bless you beyond your dreams in the end.
Dominque this was such an encouraging word that you’ve shared with us, thank you! As a believer myself this scripture is what I have posted on my refrigerator. These things I have spoken to you, that in Me you may have peace. In this world you WILL have tribulation, but be of good cheer, I have overcome the world- John 16:33 ❤️
My favorite verse in the Bible as well!
This is what I needed most desperately. Knowing scripture by heart is truly invaluable but having His word, the passages that we neglect to be brought before us. Especially when we are in the midst of being "crushed on all sides" "These things I have spoken to you, that in Me you may have peace. In this world you WILL have tribulation, but be of good cheer, I have overcome the world"- John 16:33 The tribulation can feel almost deadly I the despair, angst, searching for God to soothe our aching heart, calm our minds, tend to our wounds. We, like Dominique know all the right cheers to chant mid game. But to be reminding that we WILL have tribulation - an that to me means, whether I am doing everything correctly or not...tribulation WILL COMEand that I can "be of Good Cheer" for one reason alone. This world brings angst, pain, treachery, but HE has OVERCOME the World, HE is with Me an with YOU and we can actually "have peace" in that. Even when, ESPECIALLY when it seem impossible.
@Anji
Amen. One of my favorite verses.
Remember…..”Don’t set yourself on fire to keep other people warm”
So hard for women like us that are gifted with lifting other people up….that’s our pure joy. However, we often suppress our despair at times so that others won’t hurt for us the way we hurt for others and want to make everything all right for those we care about. Brokenness blossoms into cleansing then finally joy again. Let it take its course…..you can and will push through
Great words of advice to all that are going through sad things.
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This is so encouraging. Thanks. I needed to read your comment, Karen.
Dear Dominique
You've been a great help to me over the last five or so years and I'm sorry, although not surprised, you've hit a rough spot this week.
I went through something unexpected and similar a decade ago when it was in my late 50s and it's taken pain and time to emerge whole and happy.
You already know the most important thing: No matter the trauma and pain, you, like me, will emerge happier, healthier, kinder and wiser than I was before and my life is full and richer than ever.
Embrace the adventure and live your life with beauty and boldness.
I wouldn't give up my journey and the personal growth the unhappy end of my marriage brought me for anything.
It's an odd blessing but a sweet one.
Hugs
Brenda
Amen... Been there and done that.
Forgiving your ex no matter what it is in a letter and drop in the USPS mail is the greatest relief and happiness.
Totally agree.
My husband is 71 and his health is deteriorating quickly. I've been trying to maintain a positive attitude and be a cheerleader but today I just feel so sad. So this video struck a nerve. I'm glad you posted it.
Same with my husband at 72.
Praying for you & your husband. Thank you for sharing. ❤🙏
Praying for you to feel loved and comforted.
Praying for you to feel better 💕
My heart and prayers for you and your husband ♥️
I heard in meditation this, "stop resisting, pray with the pain." What a relief, being given permission to just be. In the gift of pain, there is peace.
I just discovered you over the past couple of years. I have suffered from depression and anxiety since the age of four. I am now 63. I have had many blessings in my life but endured challenges similar to what you are going through now. Please know how much your videos... especially this one have been such a great support. You have brought some light back into my world and allowed me to say that I am OK as I am. You are a gift to us all. I send you blessings for now and the future. Thank you.
I am also in the state of “this is not how I pictured my life at this stage” currently. So many of my friends are in the same boat. Cling to the Lord. He is our only hope!
Amen 🙏🏻
We lost our Queen today. So was feeling so sad but I watched you and you bless us with your wonderful words, your ‘ just being there’ and your grace. Thank you it was needed 🌿❤️🙏
I know for so many this is crushing and whether or not someone followed the Royal family, it would be hard to ignore that QEII's reign spanned so many generations, how could one not shed a tear for the loss. Even during the darkest hours of war, politics, family situations and her own personal sacrifices and losses, she always put her duty first. I would like to think before passing she grinned to herself, "I was the Queen of England...Well done"!
God bless the Queen. America values the relationships she had with ALL of our presidents.
When I hear you, i am hearing "Pleasant words are like a honeycomb. Sweet and delightful to the soul and healing to the body". All praises to God our Saviour in times of need.
Years ago, one of my nursing instructors shared something so profound with my class. She said “The only thing that remains the same is CHANGE.” I really didn’t realize how true that statement was until years later. In the bad times, just knowing that things are going to change gives us hope. Hang in there my friend. Prayers lifted.
Melissa 🍁
Nothing lasts forever, good or bad, so we all need to make friends with change & the unknown. When we take a step of faith, GOD's angels surround us with a hedge of protection. And
this too shall pass!!!
Totally agree! The one thing you can count on is that things will change! 💗
Dominique, the power of prayer is the strongest bond I've formed in my adult life. I'm sorry that you had an emotionally draining week, but what a blessing you are for sharing it ❤️ I think all of us feel.alone at times and burdened by life's ups and downs. I will continue to lift you in prayer, and hope that these burdens will lighten for you. May your joy come in the morning
OMG it was like hearing my story ....this last two weeks no words because I was not sure what was happening....we sooooo need you in are lives and God has given a precious gift.... please note that we are with you and love and respect you.... big hug
3 months ago, we separated after 39 years of marriage...It's been tough. Thank you Dominique for your words, and for sharing not just the good (which is always brilliant) but also the true and the sad moments. We're all blessed in some way, no matter what.
I admire you for having the strength and courage to separate after so many years. So many would just stay. Praying for peace and a lovely and fulfilling new chapter for you. ❤
Dominique even when your down and sad and having a rough go of it, you are still helping us ladies out here with all your transparency. Now that should give you a sense of pride. We ALL love you when your happy, and when your sad. Your just like US. Go listen to some of your favorite music and let it help you thru it. Music heals so much . If you need more self time, take it. Love you sweety. 💖
Yes, her story is a reflection of what’s going on in all of us ladies and we need each other’s support. Bravo Dominique
Dominique- this video meant so much to me- I too had a hard week as a 55 year old who missing her family and friends. Feeling under appreciated, losing sleep. Because of your healing, vulnerable and encouraging words- it seemed as though you were talking directly to me that I fell asleep! Today I will watch the rest of the video. Thank you for doing what you do so gracefully.
Dominique, there are many of us who going through challenges in life. Take care of two elderly parents. Holding down stressful
job. I have two children in college and one in high school. There are not enough hours in the day to tackle all of it. My husband passed away Four years ago.
I understand struggle and grief.
I pray that god give you the strength to manage your life. I am fine I get excited to tackle my challenges. I feel god has given me a lot to deal with and I am not going to disappoint him. I hope you can be happy and find that peace with in yourself.
Boy, can I relate! I just turned 75 and as if that wasn't enough to give me pause, I have had one of the worst months of my life. I have been feeling very much as you have been feeling but also realizing how so many of the people whom I have been there for are just not there for me when I stumble. While I don't necessarily need to turn my back on my fair-weather friends, I realize I need to look for more support and more positive and encouraging friends. I allowed myself to hear the kind words of your friend, as if she had spoken them to me, and it helped. I so admire your candor, because it would be easy for you to present yourself as flawless and without fear or limitations. When you talk about your difficult times it does make me feel less alone - I think, "See, even Dominique has bad days!" Oddly, I had been fooling around with magnetic lashes I bought some time ago and watching your old lash videos and I was about to give up and just throw them away. So I am looking forward to the magnetic lash video, but definitely needed the video from today. As always, thank you for being an inspiration and a positive role model - and for looking beautiful while you do it!
You know, I understand about the friends that don't support you. I hope you keep looking for them. Good and giving people are harder to find - its true. But they are out there.
When I have hard times like the one you share I think: "This is what means "To live"...when you FEEL (no matter is painful) it means you're ALIVE!! Embrace it and by the time everything gets in place you'll be stronger...mentally, phisically and spiritually!!!
Sun always show up after the storm. Everything happens for a reason and mostly the reason is to grow spiritually. You are not alone, it happens to all of us once in a while. Just remember it will pass ,keep the eyes on the light . Much blessings 🌸
Hears something recently that has helped me. You’ll be happy 1/3 of the time, sad 1/3 of the time and neutral 1/3 of the time. So you’re in that 1/3 time of sadness. Hang in there and thanks for the realness.
One of my favorite quotes from Corrie ten Boom is something like, "There is no pit that God's love is not deeper still." I have been in a pit most of this year, but I know God has me.
Amen
This is also my absolute favorite quote of CtB. Such great comfort in these words. His love has infinite depth! We are never out of His reach, and he will help us out of that pit!!
@@carrenellis5954 amen!
I have found that quote from Corrie Ten Boom to be so true! Be blessed and Shalom to you.
I found that my trials and testings come when I am feeling very secure independent and self reliant. When everything is perfect and I feel I have everything I need. The Lord has to remind me I am nothing without Him and I need to praise and be thankful in the good and the bad. He also reminds me He said He would never leave me or forsake me and I am not alone. Our God is the God of all comfort and brings people into our lives that have gone through the same storm and have come out in victory because of His deliverance. Praying for you and thank you for all you do. I have been following you for years and find you to be a true inspiration.
Needed this today.. I’m there right now myself in a hostile work environment and it’s really taking me down emotionally.. I’m thankful to know not that others are feeling down right now too but that I’m not alone and that my feelings are somehow validated. Thank you for sharing and big hugs to you and anyone else reading this that needs a virtual hug as well. 💕💕
Melissa, please do yourself a favor and try to get out of your hostile work environment. I stayed in one far too long and it took an emotional toll. Sending you a virtual hug! 💕
I quit, now i''m struggling but ok in a good bittersweet way. Not sure if i'm re-hireable ageism is real. I'm a uber delivery driver, every day is a challenge. I'm not comatose anymore. Good luck, keep the job and enjoy your off time to the max. Let the job be your base not your life.
@@sallyzaragoza4155 Thank you for taking time to send me a message. That is exactly why I’m forced to stay where I am. I’m at the tail end of my career. Closer to retirement age vs just starting out so I know what you’re saying. I hope you are blessed in many other ways just for your sheer kindness to reach out to me. Thank you very much! 💕💕
@@dancergal5068 Thank you for taking the time to reach out to me. I sincerely appreciate that. I’m closer to retirement as I’ve been with my company for over 20 years. So I’m in a little more difficult position. I appreciate your kinds words though. They truly do help at times like this. Thank you so much! 💕💕
@@dancergal5068 I was in a a similar situation and was suffering major depressive episodes. I had to resign to save myself- started a business 11 yrs ago🐾🐾
Oh my goodness...this segment could not have come at a better time!! I am dealing with nursing care for my 96 year old mother and it's overwhelming all of the decisions one must make. I struggle with guilt that I can't care for her anymore and I'm shocked at the prices for assisted living facilities. I pray that God gives us the ability to accept the things that we can change and accept those things we can't. Dominique, you are beautiful inside and out. Thanks for showing us that you, too, can be vulnerable and susceptible to life's difficulties. One thing I do know after 65 years: life will go on and better days are ahead.
I too am in the process of trying to get to grips with my Mother's situation, she has just gone into a nursing home. We had a good relationship before and now she hates me! I don't have any siblings so am dealing with this on my own. I'm told by the staff that she has friends and appears happy, she just won't let me see this. So many exhausting feelings!
Reading all these comments just dmonstrates that we are all the same.
Life is full of ups and downs. Its good you called out - your normal!
Oh Jeanie, I am right there with you. My 91 year old mother has had to move in with me and my husband. We've never been close or gotten along very well, needless to say, things are definitely not any better now. This is the hardest thing I've ever had to do, expect for burying my daughter this past June. She suffered from breast cancer for 3 years and finally lost the fight. So...what a year it's been. At this point I can't see light at the end of the tunnel, although I know it has to be there. We have a son, daughter in law and granddaughter who lives very close and they are so much a part of what is keeping me going. I have two other beautiful grandchildren from my daughter, I'm going to work very hard to stay as close to as I can. Lots of sad days, but lots of good days too.
I read this somewhere & I think it's so valuable to keep in our thoughts - a message from God.
"My child, you worry too much,
Remember.... I've got this!
Love, God"
I have been where you are. I had to use the advise I gave my children when they would come home from school, complaining about what this kid did or that teacher did. I made them sit down and tell me one good thing that happened in their day. That moment made all the difference in their perspective of how they day actually went. I began to do that as well, and as time went by, the good moments began to take over the bad. My life has changed in so many beautiful and wonderful ways that I am truly blessed by the struggles of the past. It made me appreciate the blessings of today. You are wonderfully and beautifully made! The good days will surpass your wildest dreams. You are loved!
Dear Dominique, thank you for opening up to the people who followed you, my name is Elizabeth and I am Hispanic, I want to tell you that what seems to be bad is not, since in each season of our lives we learn and go through situations that they make us see life from a different perspective and teach us things that we would never have experienced if we did not go through that passage.
In my case I am going through something similar, my husband fell with someone younger than me, and I have felt abandoned and despised and worthless, until I realized that he was my mirror and it was me, I had abandoned myself and there are many ways of abandoning to ourselves, just as I also gave my value to him and it was me who despised myself , so it is a new beginning where it makes us stronger, and we can do everything in God who strengthens us, do not forget, do not fear and HE is faithful, a big hug to distance.
Elizabeth Forte
Elizabeth, te mando un abrazo lleno de positivismo. Aqui de lejos, estoy echandote buena vibra y deseandote muchos anos de crecimiento y logros personales. Aunque sea dificil creerlo ahora mismo, te aseguro que a veces lo que uno pierde, se va precisamente para que uno pueda hacer espacio para cosas que son mas grandes y significativas. Adelante, amiga! Carinos de Iraida en Virginia.
It seems you have that inner beauty that brings strength to our lives. Your strength and wisdom will help others. 💕
Life is very challenging at most times but I always have this beautifull quote in my head and it makes me feel so much better..
So today, I like to share it with this family…
The most beautiful people we have known are those who have known defeat, known suffering, known struggle, known loss, and have found their way out of the depths. These persons have an appreciation, a sensitivity, and an understanding of life that fills them with compassion, gentleness, and a deep loving concern. Beautiful people do not just happen." ―Elisabeth Kübler-Ross
I was having a bad week last week and this week! Been there. I went to High school with you but was as shy as I am tall. But you influenced me in Ms. B’s art class. So happy for you and all you have accomplished! You told me my name sounded like royalty and I shot up 20 feet tall. Stay lifted up! You have a great spirit! Much continued success!
Wonderful story, thank you for sharing.
Thank you for your honesty & grace
what a beautiful share.... we are all royalty if only we would accept that. I am a child of the most high God.
Thank you I needed this. I'm 52 years old, lost my job, had a breakdown, filed bankruptcy and my 94 year old mom had a massive heart attack and went into a temporary coma after being prescribed blood pressure medication that she didn't need all in 2021. She fully recovered, but I live with her right now. I never thought at my age and with two college degrees this is where I would be in my life. With the help of my therapist, I'm taking one day at a time and seeing the gratitude in my life.
Gosh, that’s an awful lot to deal with. I’m so sorry.
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Me too very similar at 64
I sympathize with you. I also have an advanced education that doesn't help me at all now including a law degree. I will pray that your life gets better. 💕
@@carolmckenney8136 Thank you.
Search for Scripture to bring you guidance and peace. I love what Dr. Robert Schuller said, “Pain, disappointment, and tragedy never leaves you where it found you, you can become bitter or better, but you can choose the change to be better or bitter.”
I felt your pain and cried as I watched you. You will get through this and be better and be able to help others through bad times through your experience. Thank you for being genuine and honest. ❤️🙏
What I love about you Dominique is your ability to be vulnerable, this allows for others to feel ok to be vulnerable too, I think we sometimes as woman feel we have to keep a brave face on when all we want to do is scream. How incredibly uplifting and insightful, this has lifted and inspired me.
May God bless and keep you, may He put you into His shoulders as you face this difficult time.I can assure you it does and will get better once you have reached the top of the mountain there is freedom on the other side. Much love
For all of you who are feeling overwhelmed I will pray for you! I have been there and my faith got me through! Sending hugs and love! ❤️❤️🙏🙏
I am so happy you found your Mr. Right. I vividly remembered after your divorce; a friend provided you with these loving words. She told you, " We both want to be safe, truly cherished, seen, heard, and loved for who we are on the inside with our outer beauty as icing on the cake." From her lips to God ears I think you finally found what you were looking for and I am sooooo happy for the both of you. May you have many happy years together. God bless.
Thank you for being so real and raw with your life with us. You can’t imagine how many people you inspired and lifted up today with your raw self.
Many may look at you and think you have the perfect life and come away feeling sad they couldn’t have your “perfect” life. It just goes to show there really is no such thing as a perfect life as we are ALL dealing with pain in one form or another.
Ladies, please share your pain with others because you never know who you may help as Dominique did today.
I'm not good at expressing how I feel, but at this moment, Friday evening I feel empty and emotionally lonely. I'm right now sitting in the dark & listening to you on RUclips and thinking...what a great time for me to hear this...thank you! I just take a deep breath and be grateful of of my blessings! All I have is my mom ²(who's 82 and looks fantastic)...I'm not married, no children, 52 years old, and love to just have a problem-free honest companion , which is hard to come by these days!😑
We think we are the only ones in a sad place. Be open to a new relationship, be open to new possibilities. My dogs are my comfort when I find I can't reach out for support. I wish you peace, joy and future happiness.
I hear you! I'm 53 no kids no relationship and being single and trying to date is so ridiculously stupid. You are not alone!
🕯🤝👋Thank you so much! GBY'ALL ♡
I totally understand. I'm 49, not married no kids. Feel so alone. Dating is so hard and can't seem to find the right person for me. Last guy treated me horribly. Glad to read im not alone!
Don't stop believing. Keep the faith. I went from a very dark lonely place just a few weeks ago to meeting someone that I never in my wildest dreams would find. Of course it's too soon to know if it will work out but my God Im having the most incredibly inspiring time.
Seems last week was "the week" for a lot of us. I had three deaths one day after another and the sense of loss was quite painful. My faith in God provides my strength. Hang in there. Much love and blessings! ❤️
Oh my, that's very sad. I pray that God grants you peace. God Bless.
You have such faith! I can't imagine what you have been through.
@@Ev-vh3pf Thank-you
Thank you for being so honest. Going through a lot myself , retired and watching the world destroy itself.
Hello Dominique. I found being thrown into widowhood I needed to do something. I have had to go back to work but I also volunteered quilting for others less fortunate. It feels good and I keep doing it. It is hard but you can do it because “This to Shall Pass”. My mantra. God bless you and stay strong. One step at a time….
Embracing it,and feeling it, leads to the healing of it.
I lost my husband two weeks ago and I'm in unbearable pain. Thank you for this sharing and I pray you will get through your valley.
Oh Lia, this is very sad news and my heart is heavy for you. I cannot imagine the pain, but I do know, as Dominque says, The One who knows our pain and can be comfort that pain.
This is a huge time right now, energetic-wise. Everyone is going through this tumultuous duration at the same time. A lot of heavy energy is going on currently.
Very true!!!
When I get like that, I tell God, I can’t take it any longer and just give it to him. You will be amazed when you let God take care of it. Love to you and speedy recovery
Thank you, Dominique, for sharing this. A wise counselor once said to me, “What’s in the way IS the way.” It is true!
I felt like you were in my living room today talking with me. My husband passed away recently and I understand the loneliness of being one instead of two. Being grateful for each day is a big part of the solution. Sending you healing & loving thoughts.
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Patricia, so very sorry for your loss
I also lost my husband two years ago and the feeling of loss is still very strong. Being one after 51 years of marriage is incredibly hard, but I take one day at a time. I thank God every day for all his blessings. Stay strong and God bless you. I am so sorry for your loss.
Come back Dominique! I miss you and I am sure others too! You are amazing and while I understand the "crap" you are going through, don't allow it to affect your soul. You are an inspiration and we love you!
Wow! Your timing is impeccable. I have been having a stressful, depressing week with a newly diagnosed, and very scary, health issue. Your talk made me realize that we all have our cross to carry and that no matter how “perfect” someone else’s life looks they too have problems. Please take care of yourself and know that you truly make a difference in so many lives. Sending virtual hugs. 💕
My prayers go to you in beating whatever this diagnosis may be. I've received three diagnosis this year and they were all wrong. But even so, you are special that u can give to others.
@@carolmckenney8136 thank you so much for your kind words! I will keep you in my prayers as well. This is a wonderful community of caring individuals. Thank you Dominique for creating it and encouraging all of us. 💕
Hi. Dominique Thank you forv sharing. Your expression of faith, in times like these, was a reminder to me... You see. I had been diagnosed with cancer when it was already stage 4 b (out of c) and it had already metasticisized. I took the attitude that "I am not dieing of cancer. I am LIVING with cancer." I have since found that it is inoperable and I lost myself in self pity. It was as if my faith were failing me, which made me feel even worse. Your sharing of your faith has helped me to remember...nothing. has changed and certainly not God. He still has a plan for me. He still knows what's best for me and I, most certainly, am still LIVING with cancer. Every day is more precious and I get to be alive for it. I don't need to know for how long, as long as I see the beauty of each day, separately. YOU are a blessing. Thank you
You, too, are already ok,, because you LIVE in the Lord's hands. : )
May you find joy in EVERY day and blessings upon blessings. Peace and love from from San Antonio. ❤️🌹❤️
@@robinholbrook6576 Thank you. You, too! *hugs : )
I am truly sorry that you are dealing with so much. Your faith and resolve to put your best foot forward are truly admirable. You are so strong and we uplift you with positive thoughts and well wishes.
You are a blessing as well whatever God has planned for you! Love and prayers for you from Canada!
The best advice my dearest mother gave me many many years ago that has helped me through life when I thought I could not go on is " God only gives you crosses he knows you can bear" I can still hear my dearest mothers voice saying these words and somehow they have helped me pull through. I hope they can be comfort to you. My mother passes away 27 years ago and never got a chance to see my only child. But I know somehow through my belief in God she is by my side and I am not alone. She so desperately wanted to hear the news she would be a grandma but it came 2 years after her passing. Not a day goes by I don't think of her and my father. Stay strong and God is with you 🙏🌸💗
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Last week was such a week for me and I can honestly say I can't do anything without Jesus in my life.And good friends!They really lift me up in prayer.I once came face to face with my heartache and I realized that I always bury it deep away in my heart..but when I gave it to God He healed me..I just struggled to face the betrayel.May the Lord.really lift you up and place your feet on higher ground!Lots of love and hugs❤⚘❤⚘
Excellent! Philippians 4:13 (NKJV): "I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me."
Swishing gears is good. All good Dominique. I so get the tipping point. WE love you.
I’m so sorry to hear you’re having a difficult time, Dominique. We all go through trials in this life, and while they’re not fun while we’re experiencing them, they do grow us in so many ways. I will be praying for you, my friend. And may I remind you to leave your burdens at the feet of Jesus. He will carry them for you. ❤️
Amen!
Beautiful message
Amen!!!!
Music gets me through the ups and the downs more than anything besides my faith. When I'm in my car, I turn it up and I sing! It has been my go-to for my entire life. Even at 4 yrs. old, I remember loving music so much that I would beg my mother not to turn the car off until the song was over. I just lost one of my best friends from the time we were 15 she was the new girl in school and feeling lost, we had to partner up in our physical education class, so I turned to her and asked if she would like to be my partner. She never forgot that. She had a very rough life and she and her brother both became alcoholics and passed away within one week of one another. She literally drank herself to death. They played her favorite song at the funeral. She loved music too. It was amazing how it lifted us up when that song came on. I'm just saying that music is sometimes can be a lifesaver. It didn't save hers but it got her through rough times. I hope this helps someone.
Thank you so much for sharing this. I’m very sorry for your loss. I also have had a special relationship with music, it moves me so much I’ve often wondered if other people are as affected as I! I shared the love of music with my dear best friend. I sadly lost her 2 days before her 43rd birthday on 1/11/2020. Like your friend, she had a tough life. I can safely say that music was a savior to her as well though! It’s helped both of us get through some tough times. The power of music is real. Wishing you happiness and peace.
@@JenDoe1 Thank you so much! I love your name Queen Groove! That says it all! I am so sorry for your loss as well. I hope you know she is still with you. My friend came to me in what one would call a dream but I know it to be real because everyone I've ever lost has come to me to leave a message or just communicate to give me closure. What she said to me was "I'm resting". We always said whoever goes first will contact the other. That was her telling me she was taking a much needed rest and I believe she will come back once more. Blessings to you and keep the music alive! Peace and all the best of everything!
God’s with you, Dominique. I recently heard a preaching about Peter who had come back to the shore with an empty nest. He had prepared to go fishing, he had given his best, but still. The nest was empty. That’s the point where we allow our Lord to come in our boat because we can’t do it without Him. And then with Him on our side it’s a new beginning, and He’ll bless us in ways we hadn’t imagined…
I hope you have time to read it and that it’ll inspire you.
You’re certainly not alone. 💕 Take care.
Thank you for your honesty, courage, perseverance and vulnerability. Each time I think you’re the most beautiful soul ever, you skyrocket and soar through the clouds. Bless you Dominique❣️❣️
Aw, thank you Elaine for such kind words. That means the world..
Thank you for being real, raw and open. I’m overwhelmed with sadness and some of the same things your going through. It’s uncanny. I find it’s hard right now to find a trusted friend to share my pain. Someone to listen, understand and not judge in harshness. Thank you thank you for sharing your life with us. You are truly beautiful inside and out. God bless you times a million.
For many years, I have journaled because the result has been the shelving of all the distractions whirling in my mind and commiting them to a place of rest. We can always pick those distractions back up once our minds are more settled and discernment is possible. When "it's too much," it can be paralyzing and nothing is resolved. Journaling is tantamount to releasing the bees in your bonnet and allowing a breather. For me, journaling has often been a plea for God's divine intervention. The most gratifying experience is to back years later, and see how God did indeed show up by providing a lifeline (He sent you a wise and compassionate friend). In life, we will all experience what is often described as the dark night of the soul. What you are sharing about your own life does reassure anyone experiencing that dark place is that we are not alone. That is an act of great kindness. Carry on!
We all go through our own tragedies and triumphs in life. No one gets out unscathed. Blessings to you Dominque. The storm will pass.
I am in the deepest valley I’ve been in after losing my significant other to cancer April 13. This came after my youngest of five moved away for college in December. I feel lonely sad and anxious amongst other emotions but like you I’m thankful for my faith family and friends who have been there for me during these most difficult times
I do not pretend to understand your deep loss of a loved one to cancer, but I do understand an empty nest and feeling alone. I am comforted when times like this have come into my life and realize that it did not take God by surprise. He walked the path ahead of me and has already provided all I need to get through If I choose to seek His loving refuge. 🙏
Dear Dominique I admire you since I met you in social media not only for your beauty, brave but for your faith in God.
Don’t give up , everything happens for a reason .
Be bold and be bless ❤️🌹👑
Thank you for this. I lost my husband of 29 years, the love of my life, a year ago. Then my mother, my best friend and my rock, died suddenly a few months later. I’m overwhelmed and heartbroken. I’ve kept my faith which has saved me. And my family and friends have been there n ways I’ll never be able to repay. Take care of you.
Oh my goodness, Ann. I don't even have the words for that kind of loss. I'm just so sorry. I am grateful to hear you have a support system and ways of coping and getting through. You take care of you, too 🙏
Oh Dominique, that was heartfelt, honest and so touching. We ALL go through the valleys! I hope yours is short lived and thank you for being you! We are all in this together!
Thank you for keeping it real. I know that when we are in the valleys, God is leading the way, through the darkness to the mountain tops. This too shall pass. Remember, you are Bold and you are Blessed!
Needed this today. Sometimes it gets old lifting people up when you feel like you occasionally need the same and nobody notices. I love giving to others and making them feel their worth but I hold in my wants and needs because they all think my life is without struggles. It’s not. No one can know what goes on behind closed doors, they may assume because of what they see on the outside through material possessions. We all have our insecurities…I am blessed but still feel like I am missing out on the support I need when I feel empty. Thankful for my faith because that will always me afloat.
Sending you virtual hugs. I hope they help you feel that there's someone who is here trying to help lift you up when you need it. I feel your words as my own so I'm hoping you can take a little something from the virtual hugs being sent your way. They should cover you like a mountain of jello and bring just as many smiles. ❤
We sound very similar Dominique with our own “unique gifts” and yesterday I texted my mother as she’s not close by and she could sense my anxiousness and fear and she told me this: Just plow thru. Sometimes those turn out to be good times & the times when you are comfortable might not turn out as well. ❤️ I’m grateful for my faith which some days I feel the whole day can be prayers and reaching to GOD and others I’m so blessed with his goodness. I can’t imagine not having my faith as it’s my rock. I live a very blessed life however each person has their struggles some my mask it better than others.. I appreciate your transparency and remember this: “I am in control of my thoughts” or my favorite 😍 “I can do all things through Jesus Christ who strengthens me”. 💕 👸
I’m at a loss for words. I kept putting off watching this video because of fear. On August 23rd of this year, it was 25 years that my husband passed away. Estranged from my eldest son for many years. A daughter that lacks empathy, who needs help mentally (depression runs in my mom’s side of the family. I have had genetic testing done and have been on anti-depressants for decades). My youngest son, like my daughter, has his own family. The more I reach out, the more I’m ignored, walking on eggshells. My faith has never been strong and God took my husband. No friends, except one who lives thousands of miles away that I met through Facebook years ago. People have turned their backs on me after I have listened to their problems. This is too long, I thank you for sharing, the tears are flowing. Just dread when I go through a period of time when silence is deafening. I feel your pain.
I love what you said about leaning in to friendships, or just a kind, listening ear. I can honestly say that I believe in lifting up others who seem to need it, or even when they don’t seem to need it.. I was a middle child of five and have a pleaser personality. I want people to feel good. Sadly, I can also say that I literally have nobody who attempts to lift me. It’s RARE. But I am grateful that this gives me space to listen to my own heart and soul. I wish you progress in your soul’s work. You share so much. Thank you.
Sending you a big hug!!!💜💜💜💜💜💜. Hang in there. Nothing lasts forever. You are loved by God!
I've just watched this again. I'm going through a time like this right now. As much as I'm trying to deal with the issues in my life it is such a struggle. The physical & emotional strain is evident as you have mentioned with the forced smile. I realise whatever the outcome of my problems I need to forge a life I'm happy in when this time has passed 🙏 Thank you so much x