Marriage - Nikah | Advice on Choosing A Spouse | Dr. Abdulilah Lahmami

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Комментарии • 35

  • @DiscoverALLAH7777777
    @DiscoverALLAH7777777 4 года назад +47

    Times of the Salaf
    Nikaah is Easy! Zinaah is hard!
    Today
    Nikaah is hard and Zinaah can be easy to do!

    • @deistormmods
      @deistormmods 3 года назад +6

      And we are to blame.

    • @mo11-04
      @mo11-04 3 года назад +4

      I don't get it, some brother and sisters decide to get marriage late best to get married early إِنْ شَاءَ ٱللَّٰهُ

    • @karimtemri1664
      @karimtemri1664 Год назад

      Back in the day: 100 pound mahr now 10.000 pound mahr

  • @thecreedandmethodologyofas9118
    @thecreedandmethodologyofas9118 4 года назад +23

    May Allah reward you and bless you, aameen

    • @thecreedandmethodologyofas9118
      @thecreedandmethodologyofas9118 4 года назад +4

      I recommend people to listen to this
      www.troid.org/comprehensive/marital-issues/2854-fiqh-course-marriage-and-divorce

    • @nahidulislam9497
      @nahidulislam9497 4 года назад +5

      May Allah bless you for your channel akhi, it has benefitted me also

  • @faizamajid55
    @faizamajid55 4 года назад +18

    Couldn't agree more! I'm of marriagable age and I want emphasize on the fact that people nowadays are very superficial. They only want to attach themselves to people who "look" good or who appear to be wealthy.
    May Allah ease this process for all of us, Ameen

    • @kenkaneki2509
      @kenkaneki2509 Год назад

      Are you still looking?

    • @faizamajid55
      @faizamajid55 Год назад

      @@kenkaneki2509 Yes

    • @kenkaneki2509
      @kenkaneki2509 Год назад

      ​@@faizamajid55 Same. After 2 years still no one?

    • @keifer7813
      @keifer7813 Год назад

      I mean those things are extremely important. Looks at least, idc about a woman's wealth

    • @kenkaneki2509
      @kenkaneki2509 10 месяцев назад

      ok @@Kazim058

  • @ninarodriguez5922
    @ninarodriguez5922 4 года назад +13

    Too many of that type of people and families, they measure ppl's success thru material possessions and status but never the deen, the true deen based on the Quran and Sunnah. Today, ppl look at ppl who follow the sunnah as weird or extremist..and i truly asked Allah to keep me in the company of the true followers.

    • @zahralilian4776
      @zahralilian4776 4 года назад +3

      ameen!

    • @ninarodriguez5922
      @ninarodriguez5922 4 года назад +3

      @@zahralilian4776 oh Allah please keep all the believers in the straight path. We may not know each other today, but inshaallah will meet in Jannah. Ameen

    • @zahralilian4776
      @zahralilian4776 4 года назад +3

      Nina Rodriguez ameen. may the Most Loving love you ameen!

    • @ninarodriguez5922
      @ninarodriguez5922 4 года назад +1

      @@zahralilian4776 jazakallahu khayr. As for u too dear

  • @arabiyyah7965
    @arabiyyah7965 4 года назад +5

    Jazakum Allah khair for this advice! Many people forget the importance of Deen and akhlaq when it comes to marriage! And they end up with broken homes, kids who lost their purpose of life.

  • @jihadhazameh9635
    @jihadhazameh9635 4 года назад +13

    ‏جزاكم الله خير

  • @MrThearijal
    @MrThearijal 4 года назад +3

    The one who have good deen won't let his family suffer, thank you for the advice Dr.

  • @shahyd
    @shahyd 4 года назад +5

    May Allaah Subhanahu Wa Ta'aala reward you with good.

  • @abuibraheem_al-athari
    @abuibraheem_al-athari 2 года назад +1

    May Allah provide us with righteous spouses with whom we can work in unity to attain Hs Face and Firdaus

  • @dali3240
    @dali3240 4 года назад +8

    i wish if i can marry a revert muslim woman oneday

    • @zahralilian4776
      @zahralilian4776 4 года назад +2

      Da li why revert? no offense, just curious.

    • @dali3240
      @dali3240 4 года назад +4

      @@zahralilian4776 when i read the stories of the followers of our prophet Muhammad peace be upon him how they reverted to islam and the way they found the truth that brings an amazing feeling inside me and i still find that feeling when i see someone saying the shahada and revert to islam i love him from the bottom of my heart

    • @dali3240
      @dali3240 4 года назад +6

      ​@@SaidMetiche-qy9hb not a descriminate my brother there's no difference between a born muslim and a revert except on the basis of personal piety and righteousness... it's just that i have a special feeling towards them when i see someone revert to islam i feel so so so happy especially when i see them tryin to seek more knowledge and learn islam, then they call to islam and live for islam..i love that

    • @lillyypondsxz8027
      @lillyypondsxz8027 4 года назад

      Does it matter where the revert is from? I know an African and Chinese revert lol

  • @mrsk8518
    @mrsk8518 4 года назад +2

    Please reverts TAKE YOUR TIME!

  • @samskieonner502
    @samskieonner502 3 года назад

    Barakaflafiq

  • @DiscoverALLAH7777777
    @DiscoverALLAH7777777 4 года назад

    We need a fitnah like that of the Jews, to get over ourselves and of that high-horse. Maybe if we are in a Camp like the ughuri's then we can stop being arrogant as Bani Isra'EEL! Step by Step we are like Ahl Al Kitaab in every way!

    • @nahidulislam9497
      @nahidulislam9497 4 года назад +11

      Do not ask for a fitnah just as the Hadith of the prophet salAllahu'alayhi wasallam where a man asked Allah for the punishment of the akhirah. The messenger of Allah commanded him to instead say " Rabbana aatina fidunya hasanat wa fil akhirati hasanat wa kina athaab anNar "

    • @zahralilian4776
      @zahralilian4776 4 года назад +2

      well high standards is a cultural thing and has nothing to do with islam. our religion teaches just to choose a spouse rich in faith, manners and taqwa and not the one with the biggest car. it’s nowadays fathers asking unrealistic dowries from the groom. this might influence the daughters and they think that only a 50k mahr will make the marriage successful when we all know the less money you waste, the bigger the blessings. some people strive for dunya only and don’t think about halal rizq or blessings of Allah azza wa jal. we have already enough fitan going on and ummah is still in the old same heedless state. that’s why our situation isn’t changing.