This is really informative and useful and has something for everyone to take note of I think, both new customers and existing customer alike. One can never stop learning or bettering themselves, even customers that have been doing it for years and are “experienced” at it (as horrendously self-aggrandising as that sounds for me to say), and even having been a custom customer for many years there are things that I am well aware I am guilty of both doing and not doing - including some of those you mentioned here - and know that there are things that I could do to make your job a lot easier based on this video. For example, I am guilty of writing full screenplays, which in itself might not be so bad if I wasn’t also guilty of not summarising those scripts and the key details, which is something that I will address. Feedback is an invaluable tool for both creators and customers, like us providing feedback so you could learn what you could perhaps do differently and focus on in future customs, this video is like feedback for customers for them to learn how they can be more efficient, more helpful, be a better customer and make your job and life easier and it’s all mutually beneficial. While I also understand why people might sometimes e-mail creators simply to share their fantasies and fetishes because they're after validation and acceptance from having the creator agree to shoot it, it's really not fair to waste your time. Not only that, but when you've shot their fetish and they repeatedly ask you whether you're getting into it and finding it hot yourself? It does very much sound as though their commissioning the custom isn't always their primary reason for contacting you and some people are seemingly unable to differentiate fantasy from reality. As you said so wonderfully, hilariously and eloquently put, you are your own person and you have your own sexual identity and sexual fantasies that you want to realise and bring to life (which might sometimes coincide with what your customers are commissioning), and while you're happy to shoot some of your customers' fantasies you're not about to change what your kink is simply because it's what they like, and them repeatedly asking whether you're coming around to the kink is pushing boundaries. You are a normal person simply doing your job, running a business and earning a living. Just because that work can sometimes involve shooting sexual and fetish content it does not mean that you are there to be used as an object for their gratification and does not mean that you should have your time wasted, not least when you're already as busy as can be. You're a professional and a human being and should be treated as such. Thank you for making and sharing this, I've been looking forward to seeing it and learning from it from the moment you said you were making it!
As always, erudite, articulate and most instructive. You're so right about the language and words being important. For me, your voice is absolutely key, so I can't relate to the customer who prefers you silent. To each his own. Useful point about sending a photo of the exact outfit to show exactly what is required. Stupidly, I balked at doing that, as for some unfathomable reason I thought it might make you jealous! Silly.
Just remember, people. These models are working women, trying to run their own business. Don’t waste their time. Be direct, patient and respectful. Understand that they have their own preferences and limits.
Fascinating to listen to that. Your monthly videos really are so enjoyable to watch. They are always so well thought out and intelligent. PS - loved the bleeped out bit - that was very funny.
I gotta start saving up for a custom. I feel like I could write it out very well. Especially with you in mind. There's little bits that I love in all your videos and I'd love to see them all together in one.
This is really informative and useful and has something for everyone to take note of I think, both new customers and existing customer alike. One can never stop learning or bettering themselves, even customers that have been doing it for years and are “experienced” at it (as horrendously self-aggrandising as that sounds for me to say), and even having been a custom customer for many years there are things that I am well aware I am guilty of both doing and not doing - including some of those you mentioned here - and know that there are things that I could do to make your job a lot easier based on this video. For example, I am guilty of writing full screenplays, which in itself might not be so bad if I wasn’t also guilty of not summarising those scripts and the key details, which is something that I will address. Feedback is an invaluable tool for both creators and customers, like us providing feedback so you could learn what you could perhaps do differently and focus on in future customs, this video is like feedback for customers for them to learn how they can be more efficient, more helpful, be a better customer and make your job and life easier and it’s all mutually beneficial. While I also understand why people might sometimes e-mail creators simply to share their fantasies and fetishes because they're after validation and acceptance from having the creator agree to shoot it, it's really not fair to waste your time. Not only that, but when you've shot their fetish and they repeatedly ask you whether you're getting into it and finding it hot yourself? It does very much sound as though their commissioning the custom isn't always their primary reason for contacting you and some people are seemingly unable to differentiate fantasy from reality. As you said so wonderfully, hilariously and eloquently put, you are your own person and you have your own sexual identity and sexual fantasies that you want to realise and bring to life (which might sometimes coincide with what your customers are commissioning), and while you're happy to shoot some of your customers' fantasies you're not about to change what your kink is simply because it's what they like, and them repeatedly asking whether you're coming around to the kink is pushing boundaries. You are a normal person simply doing your job, running a business and earning a living. Just because that work can sometimes involve shooting sexual and fetish content it does not mean that you are there to be used as an object for their gratification and does not mean that you should have your time wasted, not least when you're already as busy as can be. You're a professional and a human being and should be treated as such. Thank you for making and sharing this, I've been looking forward to seeing it and learning from it from the moment you said you were making it!
I love your open honesty and joy for life 🙂
This was an absolute delight, on top of being helpful. Thank you for sharing the good, the bad, and the one-would-have-thought-it-was-obvious.
As always, erudite, articulate and most instructive. You're so right about the language and words being important. For me, your voice is absolutely key, so I can't relate to the customer who prefers you silent. To each his own. Useful point about sending a photo of the exact outfit to show exactly what is required. Stupidly, I balked at doing that, as for some unfathomable reason I thought it might make you jealous! Silly.
Just remember, people. These models are working women, trying to run their own business. Don’t waste their time. Be direct, patient and respectful. Understand that they have their own preferences and limits.
Fascinating to listen to that. Your monthly videos really are so enjoyable to watch. They are always so well thought out and intelligent. PS - loved the bleeped out bit - that was very funny.
I gotta start saving up for a custom. I feel like I could write it out very well. Especially with you in mind. There's little bits that I love in all your videos and I'd love to see them all together in one.
14:16!! (haha!) Thanks for this video!
How lovely you always look .
Love your moves. Are you coming out with some new one's
Great video and article as usual....gotta say though.....bleargh@peanut butter lol 😉😀
I would love to have a video of you and love to see you in leather boots and leather outfits and have a great day 🙂☺️☺️