This is a no religious zone here,I don't trip right there,I like what I like n I like this Wayne song right here...one of the reasons why I Love n listen to this man,real right here,no pretenses or "hiding behind the cloth"...binge watching and learning a lot in fact 99.9% of what he say applies in my life,TEACH!!!! You are saving my life n soul,God keep using you.
You have me laughing while acquiring life lessons that are very powerful you are a very compassionate pastor and a magnificent man you are a product of gods artwork I can now appreciate that thank you and I can't quite thank you enough for what you bring to my life enriching my soul you are certainly a messenger of God.
C Jennings, Then why does queenjahneen 100 make more sense then you do? She's right, period...If my husband would have treated me with honor and lifted me up once in a while I would have showered him with love. He was too interested in his cell phone and didn't notice me or honor me. He wondered why I cooled off so much. I'd tell him HERE I AM!!! He just loved his tv and cell phone and didn't see ME!!!
Truth, my man expect adoration, but you can’t get that treating me less than I should be treated and expect me to adore you. You got to love me properly and I will be all up on you like that. I will submit and respect willingly.
When I say that this periscope session spoke DIRECTLY to me. It's been a long time coming, but I am finally gaining a better understanding and learning to let go. I love a teaching Pastor and I have found that in Pastor Blakes. God Bless you Sir!!!
I listened to this 4 times today and I still didn’t get enough. That word broke some strongholds and I am now focused on my primary relationship with God. I will trust Him to establish sub relationships in my life. That blessed me, thank you!
Dad, I've started my own list of you. I'm listening to most videos at least 5 times! Between work, home and prayer it's all about studying. I'm getting a PhD in all of this and God is blessing me! When are you guys coming to Texas or any part of it??? I'M THERE! Hug First Lady for me!!!!
I don't really know how to return love and I struggle with receiving love because I didn't receive it from dad or my family really alot I watch every video I can watch from him it is always pertains to me
I was truly blessed by the truth of this word. It was tight, but it was right!!! Thank you man of God. I watch a lot of your videos and I am always blessed.
I am just listening to this today. This is real deep. In my family, I, the girl never wanted to give love and my brother wanted love from all the women. I guess we are really messed up. we are both in our 40s and still experiencing these issues.
Please pardon me for pouring out my emotions right here..as a little girl I adored my daddy he was my everything I wanted to spend time with him,learn from him but he was more interested in fooling around with his company's secretary,he treated my mom like dirt,left her with four of us alive and two dead siblings for my mom to raise alone,I still crave for a father even in men please men don't be selfish,if you don't want kids don't have sex or marry,human lives suffer for your selfish actions for generations to come.
Sorry to hear about your experience. I am 30. Right up to about just over 1 year ago I would periodically tear up in public when I saw my pastor and her young daighter. I would feel envy for that little girl of about 13. I thought I was through with regularly crying for my dad until just the other day when I watched little kids with their dad that reminded me of me as a child with my dad. I started bowling like uncontrollably. Got very attracted and nearly fell in love with a guy for no good reason except that he reminded me about my dad even the negative characteristics of my dad. These are amazingly serious issues
You can read a book A SMART WOMAN KNOWS WHE TO SAY NO by Kevin Leman. It helped me understand myself and my daddy issues and learn about oedipal compldx and narcissism.
I love this, I've been celibate over 25 years and I'm bless to not have that itch like that. well pastor there aren't a whole lot men that want to serve the Lord and love him so I guess I'm going to be celibate for a lot longer.because I want it done right Amen.
Wow! You got me when you said; if it does that agree with God it's not love. So my boyfriend and I living together is not love. My boyfriend expecting sex before we are married when I have told him I want to be celibate and still date and he says that we began our relationship with sex and I would be depriving him; that situation isn't love. Wow!
Rosette Marshall that was for Antoinette, no problem here, I was just telling her if that’s not what you want, don’t start a relationship like that, God has my mind, body and soul, sex only with the husband of over 20 years.
This is so helpful. My father was in my life but focused on work so much that he wasn’t emotionally present or knowledgeable of his role as the father of all daughters. My parents gave us physical security but neither deposited emotional security into us. Thank you Pastor for these teaches. I am gonna break these generational curses.
I have to say your comment is disrespectful ( truly the enemy told you to TYPE it) how can you TYPE out a curse word ( to a man of GOD) then say excuse me... you knew it was wrong why you TYPED it ( could of deleted it) smh..
No one could EVER be mad at you, you are ALWAYS on point. I love everything about all your videos. You GET on my toes from time to time,but you are appreciated. You remind me of my Grandmother. She always spoke to me. She and my Granddaddy was married 57 yrs, and my other Grandparents had 60 plus yrs. That's who I learned how to love from. My mom was never with my dad cause he was married to someone else. So now you see my Grandparents set the foundation cause that's where I wanted to BE.😍😍 STAY BLESSED BROTHER!!🙏🏾
love how real you are. the fact that you are so well rounded in life and that "street knowledge" helps you see the people who have not moved themselves up from that place. it gives you the ability to reach a lot more people. you are truly truly a blessing for many,,, A True King👑👑
Yes. So not ready for a mate yet!! Got more work to do on myself. This was very needed. I thank my friend Mabel for sending it to me. Looking forward to seeing more videos and learning and growing! Thank you for your honesty and sharing with us
This video was THE BOMB for me...The way you broke it all down in detail just made everything so clear to me. Now I understand why my husband and I didn't work out. We are still together in seperate bedrooms while he's seeing a Jezebel whose house he's never been in because she running this scam in her home and won't commit. He never noticed me in 39 years he was always busy with something. I'm a professional artist and I'd be in the middle of an amazing painting and he'd look at me and say "What's for dinner?" He never complimented me or called me honey or other tender names. Then he wondered why I cooled off. This video explained so much to me. His father died when he was 7 and then his step-father molested him so he never learned how to show love. Thanks Pastor Blakes. You are awesome...
Thanks I am working on loving the Lord with all my heart soul and body and learning to love me. Thanks for this needed information which I understood all of this 4 centuries ago. Better late than never. I declare I am contented with God’s love. Amen.
Thank you for discussing this vitally important subject it is amazing teaching God bless you and your family and ministry and country love from Wendy Drummond from Adelaide South Australia
Showing this to my 21 year old daughter so she won't make the same mistakes a me. If the men in my life, when a was a kid, was like you I would've had a better understanding. This was a good one.
So educational,got me tuning several times,we need this pastor,some of us were never taught or have any examples.loose father a t a very tender age,u are so right pastor.
Thank you for your many wonderful videos. I have been referring you to some many different people who seem to be going through both in my life and on the internet. God is using you powerfully.
I'm so glad I have found your teachings Bishop... they are right on time! Thank you so much for each and every one of these. They have helped me so much with understanding myself and my relationships! Bless you! Thank you!
Hello Pastor! I just now found your channel and I'm trying to catch up! I appreciate your teaching and taking time out of your busy schedule to school us on matters of love and living. Thank you for your wisdom and more importantly the smile you bring with it. God bless you and your lovely wife!
Thank you RC Blakes for opening my eyes to so many things i wish i would have heard thease topics so many years ago better late than never God Bless you and your family
God bless you for the priceless messages that you deliver but I do not make it common practice to praise the messenger and not praise the source of where he derives his messages praise God for even creating a man of your caliber RC blakes you are certainly a king generous and heart and spirit and I truly appreciate all of your uplifting affirmations hallelujah.
USE HIM LORD GOD IN THE NAME OF JESUS!! PASTOR RC BLAKES GOD IS USING YOU TO TEACH THE WORLD WHAT HE WANTS US TO LEARN SO WE CAN GROW AMEN KEEP USING HIM FATHER!!
Amen Love is a commitment 💓🙌 it's not about emotions that is so so true. Like how I love my mum. My love for her was a decision I loved her till death as my best friend.
This is so true. My father didn't teach me about love and respect. He ruled the family and was abusive to my Mother. I didn't have a clue what love was and still don't. After 3 divorces and numerous relationships I still don't have a clue. That's why I'm here. Trying to learn what is love between a man and a woman and what is love period? I still don't know.
Pastor how do I get over the rejection of my father who was a deacon in the church who made me outside of his marriage? He was not married to my mother, he committed adultery with my mother and here I am. He has rejected me three times when I have tried to reach out to him. I believe his actions have made me extremely insecure and I have carried this throughout my life.
Talk to your mom. Build a solid relationship with her. Let God be your father and be patient. Your natural father may never be able to bridge the gap with you. But God has a plan for your life. He wanted you! That’s why you are here. Your heavenly father’s glory. You are His pleasure and His joy. He loves you. That’s all that matters.
Me i think u Jst hv to love yourself and accept all what happened. Let the life move on and always strive for the best in your life because you really deserve best. The good thing you have the mother's love which is the best .
Pastor Blakes, its truly uncanny and funny how you look EXACTLY like my youngest brother💯..😄 It's almost unbelievable the resemblance! Thats one of the many reasons why I love your ministry, you remind me so much of my dear brother..🙏🏽 Thank you very much for your time and efforts in helping us to recover, learn and understand lifes many experiences!🙏🏽
Lol. I remember that song from Gilligan's Island. Anyway, back to the topic at hand. I really got a lot from this message. My grandparents raised me and they were both great role models for me growing up. Somehow, I still felt like something was missing from my life as an adult.
This is a no religious zone here,I don't trip right there,I like what I like n I like this Wayne song right here...one of the reasons why I Love n listen to this man,real right here,no pretenses or "hiding behind the cloth"...binge watching and learning a lot in fact 99.9% of what he say applies in my life,TEACH!!!! You are saving my life n soul,God keep using you.
Girl me too. RC Blakes is anointed no doubt.
When you say, "never tolerate a person that only takes" that spoke to me.
You have me laughing while acquiring life lessons that are very powerful you are a very compassionate pastor and a magnificent man you are a product of gods artwork I can now appreciate that thank you and I can't quite thank you enough for what you bring to my life enriching my soul you are certainly a messenger of God.
Submission is a natural response to a man that loves her properly. TRUTH.
Not Right. She is NOT YOUR SERVANT. SHE IS YOUR EQUAL. Man. Woman. Equal level of IMPORTANCE.
C Jennings, Then why does queenjahneen 100 make more sense then you do? She's right, period...If my husband would have treated me with honor and lifted me up once in a while I would have showered him with love. He was too interested in his cell phone and didn't notice me or honor me. He wondered why I cooled off so much. I'd tell him HERE I AM!!! He just loved his tv and cell phone and didn't see ME!!!
Truth, my man expect adoration, but you can’t get that treating me less than I should be treated and expect me to adore you. You got to love me properly and I will be all up on you like that. I will submit and respect willingly.
When I say that this periscope session spoke DIRECTLY to me. It's been a long time coming, but I am finally gaining a better understanding and learning to let go. I love a teaching Pastor and I have found that in Pastor Blakes. God Bless you Sir!!!
Thank you for the encouragement.
ChinkyIz716 Thank you.😊
Go on three years in give my all and loving God with mind, soul and strength. Never felt so content in myself in my 55 years
Love always deposits more than it withdraws 💕🙏🏻❤️
I needed this 20 years ago!!! Facts!!!
Tonya Cowart amen, what pains I could have avoided.
Well Beloved you, me, we, us have it now so don’t beat yourself up let be Better
Come on pastor. This is awesome word from God
Me, too
I listened to this 4 times today and I still didn’t get enough. That word broke some strongholds and I am now focused on my primary relationship with God. I will trust Him to establish sub relationships in my life. That blessed me, thank you!
Dad, I've started my own list of you. I'm listening to most videos at least 5 times! Between work, home and prayer it's all about studying. I'm getting a PhD in all of this and God is blessing me! When are you guys coming to Texas or any part of it??? I'M THERE! Hug First Lady for me!!!!
Love love love this Pastor! He always tell it like it is!
Always.. it’s the MEDICINE THAT’s Healthy! I Live it and LOVE IT TOO
Like!!! Like!!! 👍 LIKE!!! 👍👍👍👍👍👀👀👀👍👍👍👍👍👌👌👌👌👌👌
u complaining about this too? daamn human beings.
I don't really know how to return love and I struggle with receiving love because I didn't receive it from dad or my family really alot I watch every video I can watch from him it is always pertains to me
I was truly blessed by the truth of this word. It was tight, but it was right!!! Thank you man of God. I watch a lot of your videos and I am always blessed.
Thank you!!!!
I am just listening to this today. This is real deep. In my family, I, the girl never wanted to give love and my brother wanted love from all the women. I guess we are really messed up. we are both in our 40s and still experiencing these issues.
Please pardon me for pouring out my emotions right here..as a little girl I adored my daddy he was my everything I wanted to spend time with him,learn from him but he was more interested in fooling around with his company's secretary,he treated my mom like dirt,left her with four of us alive and two dead siblings for my mom to raise alone,I still crave for a father even in men please men don't be selfish,if you don't want kids don't have sex or marry,human lives suffer for your selfish actions for generations to come.
Skky lotus No need to apologize. It's healthy.
Sorry to hear about your experience. I am 30. Right up to about just over 1 year ago I would periodically tear up in public when I saw my pastor and her young daighter. I would feel envy for that little girl of about 13. I thought I was through with regularly crying for my dad until just the other day when I watched little kids with their dad that reminded me of me as a child with my dad. I started bowling like uncontrollably.
Got very attracted and nearly fell in love with a guy for no good reason except that he reminded me about my dad even the negative characteristics of my dad.
These are amazingly serious issues
You can read a book A SMART WOMAN KNOWS WHE TO SAY NO by Kevin Leman. It helped me understand myself and my daddy issues and learn about oedipal compldx and narcissism.
I pray you find the healing for this deep wound that you don't deserve...many share it with you but we will all heal and live higher. Blessings.
I love this, I've been celibate over 25 years and I'm bless to not have that itch like that. well pastor there aren't a whole lot men that want to serve the Lord and love him so I guess I'm going to be celibate for a lot longer.because I want it done right Amen.
“Walk in love.” I love this word. Thank you!
This is life changing
Wow! You got me when you said; if it does that agree with God it's not love. So my boyfriend and I living together is not love. My boyfriend expecting sex before we are married when I have told him I want to be celibate and still date and he says that we began our relationship with sex and I would be depriving him; that situation isn't love. Wow!
Sincerely Madame Antoinette how you gonna begin a relationship with sex and not expect him to expect sex?
@@lorebay2593 you can change your heart back to God and stop the sex. If he stays that maybe good, if he leaves, that is probably better.
Rosette Marshall that was for Antoinette, no problem here, I was just telling her if that’s not what you want, don’t start a relationship like that, God has my mind, body and soul, sex only with the husband of over 20 years.
This is so helpful. My father was in my life but focused on work so much that he wasn’t emotionally present or knowledgeable of his role as the father of all daughters. My parents gave us physical security but neither deposited emotional security into us. Thank you Pastor for these teaches. I am gonna break these generational curses.
Walk in love not fall what a golden nugget..Thank you
Damnit! Excuse my French pastor but I wish there were more likeminded men like yourself out here.Thank you for the lessons in your videos.💯
I have to say your comment is disrespectful ( truly the enemy told you to TYPE it) how can you TYPE out a curse word ( to a man of GOD) then say excuse me... you knew it was wrong why you TYPED it ( could of deleted it) smh..
No one could EVER be mad at you, you are ALWAYS on point. I love everything about all your videos. You GET on my toes from time to time,but you are appreciated. You remind me of my Grandmother. She always spoke to me. She and my Granddaddy was married 57 yrs, and my other Grandparents had 60 plus yrs. That's who I learned how to love from. My mom was never with my dad cause he was married to someone else. So now you see my Grandparents set the foundation cause that's where I wanted to BE.😍😍 STAY BLESSED BROTHER!!🙏🏾
love how real you are. the fact that you are so well rounded in life and that "street knowledge" helps you see the people who have not moved themselves up from that place. it gives you the ability to reach a lot more people. you are truly truly a blessing for many,,, A True King👑👑
I thank God for my Father and my Mother. They both taught me well. Thank you Pastor Blakes!
i love your videos. Your teaching will go along way for me.
Wow I needed this tonight so bad. What a great way for me to start 2018 thank you!
Yes. So not ready for a mate yet!! Got more work to do on myself. This was very needed. I thank my friend Mabel for sending it to me. Looking forward to seeing more videos and learning and growing! Thank you for your honesty and sharing with us
Tracey Kadondo girl we are on this journey together 💃🏽💖
😦😩🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏 I am rendered speechless! I am committed to doing the work! For Me! Thanks You Bishop❤
This video was THE BOMB for me...The way you broke it all down in detail just made everything so clear to me. Now I understand why my husband and I didn't work out. We are still together in seperate bedrooms while he's seeing a Jezebel whose house he's never been in because she running this scam in her home and won't commit. He never noticed me in 39 years he was always busy with something. I'm a professional artist and I'd be in the middle of an amazing painting and he'd look at me and say "What's for dinner?" He never complimented me or called me honey or other tender names. Then he wondered why I cooled off. This video explained so much to me. His father died when he was 7 and then his step-father molested him so he never learned how to show love. Thanks Pastor Blakes. You are awesome...
Thank you for being a good father for those who didnt grow up with a dad like me. Thank you.
Thanks I am working on loving the Lord with all my heart soul and body and learning to love me. Thanks for this needed information which I understood all of this 4 centuries ago. Better late than never. I declare I am contented with God’s love. Amen.
Pastor, I love your realness and your wise words. Thank you for all that you do.
Thank you pastor for taking the time out to teach women like me ( w/o a father) how to love, trust and grow.
My self love is much bigger than when I was young. I know that healing and loving God Ramps up the standard. I love myself baby 💓🙌
Bishop!! I know that this video is old but you are preaching!!! I think that I have become too content with me and God... My God!!
Thank you for discussing this vitally important subject it is amazing teaching God bless you and your family and ministry and country love from Wendy Drummond from Adelaide South Australia
This video right here!!! 🔥🔥 🔥👏 👏, I will watch this one repeatedly, a million dollars worth of knowledge! Thank you Pastor!!!😊😊😊🙌🙌🙌
U r the best. I am 48 and never heard anyone speak like this. Thank you
Showing this to my 21 year old daughter so she won't make the same mistakes a me. If the men in my life, when a was a kid, was like you I would've had a better understanding. This was a good one.
So educational,got me tuning several times,we need this pastor,some of us were never taught or have any examples.loose father a t a very tender age,u are so right pastor.
U r such blessing.. I love how personable U are..God definitely uses U to confirms some things thru U!!! Thank U, Lord
You share AMAZING insight on the subject of LOVE! Thank you for the clarification from a Christian perspective.
PASTOR!! 🤣🤣🤣 You did NOT just break out into Betty Boop 🤣🤣🤣... your channel gives me life...!
I loved EVERY 👏🏽 SINGLE 👏🏽 WORD 👏🏽that came out of his mouth‼‼
You always bring me back to my center because you preach the God honest truth.
Thank you for your many wonderful videos. I have been referring you to some many different people who seem to be going through both in my life and on the internet. God is using you powerfully.
I'm so glad I have found your teachings Bishop... they are right on time! Thank you so much for each and every one of these. They have helped me so much with understanding myself and my relationships! Bless you! Thank you!
Crystal Bynum
Whew!! Issa word. Talking about self love, or lack there of! 🙌🏽🙌🏽
Recommending a book called Five Love Languages. Love people the way they want to be loved. You have to find out their love language.
Wow you blow my mind 😴😴😴😴 he said : if you love God with all your HEART how can a man break your HEART? ?? 💔
I thank The Most High for the Holy Spirit that is doing the much needed surgery on my heart!! This is so deep and powerful and honest..
Hello Pastor! I just now found your channel and I'm trying to catch up! I appreciate your teaching and taking time out of your busy schedule to school us on matters of love and living. Thank you for your wisdom and more importantly the smile you bring with it. God bless you and your lovely wife!
Yes! No Religion zone. No fake piety. Just real talk! Thank you Pastor. Keep it real.
Wow this was truly a eye opener. Thank you Pastor RC Blake's I really needed to hear this. I understand so much better now.
Thank you RC Blakes for opening my eyes to so many things i wish i would have heard thease topics so many years ago better late than never God Bless you and your family
Pastor keeps it all the way real 😂I love what he’s saying you have all of the love you need 😇
That was VERY helpful and informative. Really it was eye opening and I watched you all the time. Thank you
You know you be telling the truth. Keep on man of God🙏
This is deep!!! Thank you for the needed lesson.
Maneee, pastor, YOU GIVE ME ALL MY LIFE! God bless you and your family
You've no idea how specifically, this pertains to me, my soul, and my very countenance!
Your wisdom is a remarkable Gift. 🙏
That look at 23 minutes is real Dad super power! The Love relationships are out of order....
This message was so truthful! I learned so much.
I remember Gilligan's island. :(
Love should always start from within. Amazing
Pastor...I am grateful for you! How to love is literally my ring tone! 🙌I love you sir🦊
You spoke to me in this video. Thank you so much, reading my bible and taking notes!
I love everything about LOVE!!
I love this.
You are an amazing wise man.
Thk you so much & universe bless you & your family.♥️
Thank you so much for this.. I'm so glad I found this channel 😇
Wow.... congrats. It seems that you figured everything out.... great job..
GLAD TO SEE YOU PASTOR
Hi!! Thank you for you videos! Love listening to you, very eye opening!!🥰 God bless you!
This man is the real deal🤪🔥🔥🔥🔥
This video is a GREAT Blessing!!!!!
Thank you for this!
“I can’t believe you all stuck around for this abuse”.....You are so funny!!!!
Such a great video, I’m so glad i found you!
I’m learning a lot from you, may God bless you
God bless you for the priceless messages that you deliver but I do not make it common practice to praise the messenger and not praise the source of where he derives his messages praise God for even creating a man of your caliber RC blakes you are certainly a king generous and heart and spirit and I truly appreciate all of your uplifting affirmations hallelujah.
Old school music tells more love than hip hop sliding down a pole noise, listen to the 50's, 60's, 70's music
Yeah Pastor! Love that song
💞💞💖👣👣👣👸👸🙏🙏😘💓💕Pastor and Lisa! Thank you! Blessings!! Stay safe and well-being!!
Pastor 🙏❣️
Unadulterated Truth. Thank you.
loved this message!
USE HIM LORD GOD IN THE NAME OF JESUS!! PASTOR RC BLAKES GOD IS USING YOU TO TEACH THE WORLD WHAT HE WANTS US TO LEARN SO WE CAN GROW AMEN KEEP USING HIM FATHER!!
Amen Love is a commitment 💓🙌 it's not about emotions that is so so true. Like how I love my mum. My love for her was a decision I loved her till death as my best friend.
Preach pastor, we need to learn love I’m here to learn from you since my parents never taught me
I have to get it together 🙏
I really liked the way you said God is our primary relationship and everything else is a sub relationship
This video is very true! Thnak you for sharing.
This is so true. My father didn't teach me about love and respect. He ruled the family and was abusive to my Mother. I didn't have a clue what love was and still don't. After 3 divorces and numerous relationships I still don't have a clue. That's why I'm here. Trying to learn what is love between a man and a woman and what is love period? I still don't know.
😂😂😂 this a an older video, but this on-point!!
Pastor how do I get over the rejection of my father who was a deacon in the church who made me outside of his marriage? He was not married to my mother, he committed adultery with my mother and here I am. He has rejected me three times when I have tried to reach out to him. I believe his actions have made me extremely insecure and I have carried this throughout my life.
Talk to your mom. Build a solid relationship with her. Let God be your father and be patient. Your natural father may never be able to bridge the gap with you. But God has a plan for your life. He wanted you! That’s why you are here. Your heavenly father’s glory. You are His pleasure and His joy. He loves you. That’s all that matters.
Me i think u Jst hv to love yourself and accept all what happened. Let the life move on and always strive for the best in your life because you really deserve best. The good thing you have the mother's love which is the best .
Thank you so much for these lessons.
You Are My Brother Sir . Thanks 🙏🏻
Pastor Blakes, its truly uncanny and funny how you look EXACTLY like my youngest brother💯..😄
It's almost unbelievable the resemblance!
Thats one of the many reasons why I love your ministry, you remind me so much of my dear brother..🙏🏽
Thank you very much for your time and efforts in helping us to recover, learn and understand lifes many experiences!🙏🏽
PREACH!!! OMG THERE IT IS.
YOU speak to my heart.. thank you so much
Lol. I remember that song from Gilligan's Island. Anyway, back to the topic at hand. I really got a lot from this message. My grandparents raised me and they were both great role models for me growing up. Somehow, I still felt like something was missing from my life as an adult.