His EXPOSED MESSAGES will destroy their MARRIAGE 😯 | Ep. 2

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  • Опубликовано: 16 окт 2024
  • OnePath Network presents Episode 2 of the College Diaries "Red Flag Romance".
    In this episode we cover the struggle of young people getting to know one another for marriage and the clear red flags they need to be wary of in a potential spouse.
    We also capture the important questions to ask when getting to know someone, and how to identify your values and boundaries before venturing into marriage.
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Комментарии • 554

  • @OnePathNetwork
    @OnePathNetwork  Год назад +135

    Salaam! Before you head over to the comments - be sure to like, subscribe and leave a comment too! This helps our content reach more people and benefit others. May Allah bless you all 🤲🏼☺️

    • @rubiyanti2800
      @rubiyanti2800 Год назад +1

      عليكم سالم وراح مطوله وبركاته 😊
      🤲 Ameen

    • @TWStimes
      @TWStimes Год назад +3

      Mashallah, well done again!

    • @MSRproduction2066
      @MSRproduction2066 Год назад +1

      Co education is Haram...

    • @zk4654
      @zk4654 Год назад

      What is the purpose of this video

    • @komo5278
      @komo5278 Год назад

      ​@@zk4654 watch it, it tells you. It says marry someone because of their religion and character.

  • @TalkIslam1
    @TalkIslam1 Год назад +604

    Behind the skit and light humour - there is an important message for BOTH brothers and sisters. Be careful who you marry and be very mindful of their religion AND character.

    • @user-yt2mo8ze7y
      @user-yt2mo8ze7y Год назад

      For those searching for marriage _(and even those who are already married)_ , this is a dua for a righteous spouse and children from Surah Furqan (25:74):
      ‎رَبَّنَا هَبْ لَنَا مِنْ أَزْوَاجِنَا وَذُرِّيَّاتِنَا قُرَّةَ أَعْيُنٍ وَاجْعَلْنَا لِلْمُتَّقِينَ إِمَامًا
      Transliteration: Rab-ba-na hab la-na min az-waa-ji-na wa thur-ri-yaa-ti-na qur-ra-ta a’-yu-nin waj-’al-na lil mut-ta-qee-na imaa-ma.
      (Rabbana hab lana min azwaajina wa thuriyyatina qurrata a’yunin waj’alna lil muttaqeena imama).
      Translation: Our Lord! Grant unto us spouses and offspring who will be the comfort of our eyes, and give us (the grace) to lead the righteous.
      ___________
      Also, the following dua from the Quran led to Musa (A.S) getting a job and getting married:
      ‎رَبِّ إِنّى لِما أَنزَلتَ إِلَىَّ مِن خَيرٍ فَقيرٌ
      Transliteration: Rab-bee in-nee li-ma an-zal-ta ilay-ya min khay-rin fa-qeer.
      (Rabbee innee limaa anzalta ilayya min khayrin faqeer).
      Translation: “My Lord! Truly I am in (desperate) need of whatever good you (would) send down to me.”
      [Quran 28:24].
      _____
      Good advice: I think it was Mufti Menk who said if your potential spouse has deen (piety) and akhlaaq (good character) give them 1 point. If they have good looks, add a zero on the end so now they have 10 points! If they have a good job add another zero now they have 100 points! For every thing you like about them keep adding zeroes - a house , a car, nice smile, beautiful eyes etc. BUT if they don’t have deen and akhlaaq then *_take away the ONE_* and now what are you left with?
      ZeroOoOoOoOoOoOo!! 😂
      I thought this was great advice because all those “nice” things can be taken away any time, except for deen and akhlaaq.
      Final point: If you’re not praying tahajjud every night and making dua in your sujood, then you’re not serious about getting married.
      ___
      If you want to share these duas you can easily copy + paste this comment by going to my Just Paste It link below, and inshaAllah we can all have a share in the reward:
      justpaste.it/SearchingForSpouse

    • @aminam9594
      @aminam9594 Год назад +5

      SubhannAllah you are rught. It us still very very common in our families that the parents do the research for the child and they dont do such deep research. I experienced ot with 4 of my ssitwrs where none of them ended up marrying men who had good characters because parents assum life will be fine after marriage and all

    • @onlyforallah6179
      @onlyforallah6179 Год назад +4

      ​@@aminam9594 Absolutely 😢
      This is the main problem these days
      And how to know the deep character and relationship with Allah in a man or women these days as most of them live astray

    • @KILLER.KNIGHT
      @KILLER.KNIGHT 8 месяцев назад +1

      @@onlyforallah6179Back in the day, people used to use their 5 senses on the other party before making a decision.

  • @ANabiha
    @ANabiha Год назад +142

    I could listen to the woman who acted as the mum for ages and ages
    Such a soft and comforting soul

    • @abukitten
      @abukitten Год назад +8

      I knoooooowwwwwww right. I was just sitting here whilst watching that part like, subhanallah, she is so lovely, Allahumma baarik lahaa!

    • @PoeticAmmunition.
      @PoeticAmmunition. Год назад +9

      She wasn't acting🙃 she is a sheikha and teacher also a psychologist

    • @msruag
      @msruag Год назад +3

      i love how she isn't like a lot of muslim moms who just blame everything on women 😭i'm a man and the way women are treated during a "muslim" marriage is just so wrong, it's so misogynistic

    • @rafiaasif6099
      @rafiaasif6099 Год назад +1

      @@PoeticAmmunition.does she have any online platform???

    • @noneofyourbusiness8296
      @noneofyourbusiness8296 Год назад +4

      She literally taught me Islamic studies in school mashallah 😊

  • @brotheraskedverygoodquesti845
    @brotheraskedverygoodquesti845 Год назад +265

    Dont end these after ramadan!!!! Keep making this series!!!! May Allah reward you

  • @AM_-wg1hj
    @AM_-wg1hj Год назад +138

    Remember brothers and sisters that engagement is not nikkah and can be canceled anytime. So if you see any red flags on your potential spouse, don't be afraid to cancel everything.

    • @AM_-wg1hj
      @AM_-wg1hj Год назад +2

      @@mianatwood The mother was saying is this the man you wanna marry ?
      I don't think that's the kind of question that's asked after nikah is already done.
      And where was she talking to him in the video ?

    • @tokkigifs
      @tokkigifs Год назад +2

      @@mianatwood the diff in this context is people don’t do nikkah on engagement

    • @shairafaiza7261
      @shairafaiza7261 Год назад +2

      @@mianatwood they're not - they're just engaged. yes it's not proper to have no walis present but that's how a lot of people in the west operate.

    • @noorasmahidris1721
      @noorasmahidris1721 Год назад +1

      @@AM_-wg1hj she not already nikah..

  • @Al-dk2id
    @Al-dk2id Год назад +107

    The person I was engaged to used to pray salaah, not drink nor smoke. However, he was very controlling and used to abuse me mentally, emotionally and physically. 😢 I prayed and begged Allah to help me get out of it alive and in one piece. Alhamdulilah, it's been 7months and Allah has blessed me with peace of mind and happiness.

    • @Lily.0623
      @Lily.0623 Год назад

      exactly! sometimes they are fake Muslims, they look like they pray and care, but their character is not what a Muslim does or says.

    • @serenemaisam2393
      @serenemaisam2393 Год назад +5

      Alhamdulilah

    • @noormuzamil9850
      @noormuzamil9850 Год назад +2

      Why you do it

  • @Dr.IrtazaRehman
    @Dr.IrtazaRehman Год назад +45

    If any girl is listening please don't marry a person like Bilal in this episode, if he is hanging up on her before marriage and resisting his sins, then how he is going to treat her after marriage! Don't wait for some miracle or hope that he will change for you. Find out the negotiable things, but if something is unacceptable for you before marriage, then you better pull yourself out.

    • @susu130390
      @susu130390 Год назад +5

      If I was the sister in this video I wouldn’t need to do ishiqhara I would’ve ended it as soon as he hung up the call because if he’s like that before marriage then it wouldn’t been chaotic after marriage!

  • @TeeLion
    @TeeLion Год назад +62

    As a male, even I was like leave that waste man. People like that do exist, the only thing they can offer is wealth don't get trapped in to that, it's sad because parents are to blame aswell, they get smitten with the guys wealth but don't care if he prays or not. Obviously if the brother has both, fair play definitely go for it, but deen and character is definitely important for your future kids, for the respect of your parents, people will laugh at you finding someone like that, especially when the signs were there for you to see, in society it's unfortunate women are labelled expired goods when they have to come back to there parents house, let's hope people choose the right one because I've made a mistake myself marrying someone in the past, but alhamdullilah I'm married again with 2 kids, so there are decent people out there.

    • @husseinarasan9897
      @husseinarasan9897 Год назад

      Are you now taken as the second wife pls I'm just curious don't take it personally sister coz some men nowadays they take divorcees as second

    • @TeeLion
      @TeeLion Год назад +1

      @@husseinarasan9897 I'm a brother lol.

    • @arliyan1931
      @arliyan1931 6 месяцев назад

      Alhamdulillah

  • @sheezakhalid656
    @sheezakhalid656 Год назад +38

    Loved being a part of this project! May Allah accept our efforts. Ameen.

    • @abukitten
      @abukitten Год назад +2

      May Allah SWT bless you. These videos really remind me of the "If I Should speak" trilogy by Umm Zakiyyah!

  • @DestinyToParadise
    @DestinyToParadise Год назад +61

    💯✨ “Our Lord! Bless us with ˹pious˺ spouses and offspring who will be the joy of our hearts, and make us models for the righteous.”Surah Al-Furqan - 74👆💯✨

    • @user-yt2mo8ze7y
      @user-yt2mo8ze7y Год назад

      For those searching for marriage _(and even those who are already married)_ , this is a dua for a righteous spouse and children from Surah Furqan (25:74):
      ‎رَبَّنَا هَبْ لَنَا مِنْ أَزْوَاجِنَا وَذُرِّيَّاتِنَا قُرَّةَ أَعْيُنٍ وَاجْعَلْنَا لِلْمُتَّقِينَ إِمَامًا
      Transliteration: Rab-ba-na hab la-na min az-waa-ji-na wa thur-ri-yaa-ti-na qur-ra-ta a’-yu-nin waj-’al-na lil mut-ta-qee-na imaa-ma.
      (Rabbana hab lana min azwaajina wa thuriyyatina qurrata a’yunin waj’alna lil muttaqeena imama).
      Translation: Our Lord! Grant unto us spouses and offspring who will be the comfort of our eyes, and give us (the grace) to lead the righteous.
      ___________
      Also, the following dua from the Quran led to Musa (A.S) getting a job and getting married:
      ‎رَبِّ إِنّى لِما أَنزَلتَ إِلَىَّ مِن خَيرٍ فَقيرٌ
      Transliteration: Rab-bee in-nee li-ma an-zal-ta ilay-ya min khay-rin fa-qeer.
      (Rabbee innee limaa anzalta ilayya min khayrin faqeer).
      Translation: “My Lord! Truly I am in (desperate) need of whatever good you (would) send down to me.”
      [Quran 28:24].
      _____
      Good advice: I think it was Mufti Menk who said if your potential spouse has deen (piety) and akhlaaq (good character) give them 1 point. If they have good looks, add a zero on the end so now they have 10 points! If they have a good job add another zero now they have 100 points! For every thing you like about them keep adding zeroes - a house , a car, nice smile, beautiful eyes etc. BUT if they don’t have deen and akhlaaq then *_take away the ONE_* and now what are you left with?
      ZeroOoOoOoOoOoOo!! 😂
      I thought this was great advice because all those “nice” things can be taken away any time, except for deen and akhlaaq.
      Final point: If you’re not praying tahajjud every night and making dua in your sujood, then you’re not serious about getting married.
      ___
      If you want to share these duas you can easily copy + paste this comment by going to my Just Paste It link below, and inshaAllah we can all have a share in the reward:
      justpaste.it/SearchingForSpouse

  • @OnePathNetwork
    @OnePathNetwork  Год назад +60

    Salaam☺
    What was your take home message from the episode? Comment below 👇🏼

    • @__-hm9ol
      @__-hm9ol Год назад +10

      if you're willing to marry make sure to ask and look first for Deen and character, and if you find that there is a problem on one of these both things don't pray for your partner to change and get better after marriage cuz he'll be worst. may Allah grant us with the rightoues partners and protect us from men like bilal🤲

    • @Smoothie642
      @Smoothie642 Год назад +2

      Wa salam
      =>Good marriage advices
      => Men with even a bit of traditional understanding of men and women roles are kinda toxic and not pious internally 😅

    • @chief4923
      @chief4923 Год назад +5

      ​​@@Smoothie642you got it wrong bro, the point is not having traditional women men roles, but their akhlaq and islam and correct understanding of the views of Ahlul sunnah

    • @آمنة-ب4ت
      @آمنة-ب4ت Год назад +2

      "What we should find in a person who we are willing to marry"

    • @yara.no98
      @yara.no98 Год назад +2

      Ask Allah swt for guidence in any matter, have tawakkul and educate ourself more so we have a clear and open mindset

  • @FearlessVXI
    @FearlessVXI Год назад +17

    The vast majority of divorces are a result of one of the spouses neglecting the other's opinions and belittling them. Make sure you marry someone who has good religion and good character so that way they take you seriously and never belittle your thoughts and concerns.

  • @asmausabiu5632
    @asmausabiu5632 Год назад +112

    The skit was so tastefully done being quite realistic,touching serious every day matters that end up shaping our lives.Masha Allah!may we all learn from this,amin.

    • @user-yt2mo8ze7y
      @user-yt2mo8ze7y Год назад

      For those searching for marriage _(and even those who are already married)_ , this is a dua for a righteous spouse and children from Surah Furqan (25:74):
      ‎رَبَّنَا هَبْ لَنَا مِنْ أَزْوَاجِنَا وَذُرِّيَّاتِنَا قُرَّةَ أَعْيُنٍ وَاجْعَلْنَا لِلْمُتَّقِينَ إِمَامًا
      Transliteration: Rab-ba-na hab la-na min az-waa-ji-na wa thur-ri-yaa-ti-na qur-ra-ta a’-yu-nin waj-’al-na lil mut-ta-qee-na imaa-ma.
      (Rabbana hab lana min azwaajina wa thuriyyatina qurrata a’yunin waj’alna lil muttaqeena imama).
      Translation: Our Lord! Grant unto us spouses and offspring who will be the comfort of our eyes, and give us (the grace) to lead the righteous.
      ___________
      Also, the following dua from the Quran led to Musa (A.S) getting a job and getting married:
      ‎رَبِّ إِنّى لِما أَنزَلتَ إِلَىَّ مِن خَيرٍ فَقيرٌ
      Transliteration: Rab-bee in-nee li-ma an-zal-ta ilay-ya min khay-rin fa-qeer.
      (Rabbee innee limaa anzalta ilayya min khayrin faqeer).
      Translation: “My Lord! Truly I am in (desperate) need of whatever good you (would) send down to me.”
      [Quran 28:24].
      _____
      Good advice: I think it was Mufti Menk who said if your potential spouse has deen (piety) and akhlaaq (good character) give them 1 point. If they have good looks, add a zero on the end so now they have 10 points! If they have a good job add another zero now they have 100 points! For every thing you like about them keep adding zeroes - a house , a car, nice smile, beautiful eyes etc. BUT if they don’t have deen and akhlaaq then *_take away the ONE_* and now what are you left with?
      ZeroOoOoOoOoOoOo!! 😂
      I thought this was great advice because all those “nice” things can be taken away any time, except for deen and akhlaaq.
      Final point: If you’re not praying tahajjud every night and making dua in your sujood, then you’re not serious about getting married.
      ___
      If you want to share these duas you can easily copy + paste this comment by going to my Just Paste It link below, and inshaAllah we can all have a share in the reward:
      justpaste.it/SearchingForSpouse

    • @vaastafraja5685
      @vaastafraja5685 Год назад +4

      No it's not. The guy is put on the spot because it suits your narative. When ever i have been with a women. She was the one liking and talking to other guys. Realitiy is different.

    • @m3ga975
      @m3ga975 Год назад +3

      @@vaastafraja5685 It can go both ways we know that your are too busy nitpicking the example that your not getting the message.

    • @komo5278
      @komo5278 Год назад

      ​@@vaastafraja5685 SubhanAllah. And where your relationships with those women halal? I'll assume the best and that it was halal relationship with the purpose of marrying them

    • @vaastafraja5685
      @vaastafraja5685 Год назад

      @@komo5278 Yes, they were Halal relationships with the intent to get married.

  • @hanshah_
    @hanshah_ Год назад +126

    Appreciate aunties advice, think we all needed to hear this 😭 Jazak’Allah Khair x

    • @OnePathNetwork
      @OnePathNetwork  Год назад +34

      She done really well in communicating an important message to young women 🤲🏼

    • @khabibnurmagomedov3486
      @khabibnurmagomedov3486 Год назад +2

      ​@@OnePathNetwork also young men

    • @M.A.K47
      @M.A.K47 Год назад

      @@mianatwood You mean, towards the fembot audience?

    • @shairafaiza7261
      @shairafaiza7261 Год назад

      @@mianatwood erm please elaborate?

  • @YAR_original
    @YAR_original Год назад +56

    This is the ONLY online series that I've been following from the beginning and plan to stay with till the end. JazakAllahu Khairan for making this informative and high quality mini-series, as it may help my high school self kind of understand what college may look like :))

    • @ASD-ss2lq
      @ASD-ss2lq Год назад

      It is indeed of high quality but does not align with islamic values rather watching it will be sinful. No lowering of gaze, improperly covered ladies plus promotes free mixing. A scholarly consultation would have avoided such haraam.

    • @YAR_original
      @YAR_original Год назад

      @@ASD-ss2lq This series is meant to combat problems with lowering of gaze and free mixing. Also, what makes you think these hijabi women are not properly covered? And how would you know without looking at them yourself? This episode is meant for Muslim sisters, so you shouldn't be looking at them anyway lol

  • @najwaelmalki7861
    @najwaelmalki7861 Год назад +12

    Wow, it's truly amazing how the mother explained it so well and that we didn't have to see the final decision of the girl so we can focus more on the lesson taught here and maybe the man will improve himself, only Allah knows.
    Thank you again for your hardwork and May Allah bless you and us all insha'Allah.🤲🌻

  • @themiddlepath5723
    @themiddlepath5723 Год назад +11

    Solutions
    1. Have the correct intention
    2. Do not do anything without seeking council (mashwara) from TRUSTED and Knowledgeable people.
    3. Make dua

  • @sidra4618
    @sidra4618 Год назад +3

    We as parents and children need such content so much!

  • @JarelAhmed
    @JarelAhmed Год назад +5

    I actually love this series man😭 I'd be sad when this ends bro.

  • @starcherry6814
    @starcherry6814 Год назад +29

    She's got a good friend ma sha Allah
    I want this for every young woman

  • @sumayyap6822
    @sumayyap6822 5 месяцев назад +1

    For such a short clip, I learnt a lot (and got some beneficial reminders too) - jzk

  • @SomeonewashereX0
    @SomeonewashereX0 6 месяцев назад

    Hi, I just wanted to say that I’m the kid that was behind the recording with the blonde hair and it took me a while but I found this video! This was so great to watch and hope to watch more!

  • @saadshoaib901
    @saadshoaib901 Год назад +4

    Alhamdulillah
    Gone are the times for books and lectures
    Our youth and young ones need this
    May Allah accept everything

    • @chief4923
      @chief4923 Год назад

      ​@@mianatwoodwe still need videos like this to attract the youth

  • @asimshani
    @asimshani Год назад +17

    Spot on! MashAllah, very balanced way to address a sensitive matter. JazakAllah for creating and sharing such amazing and much-needed content!

    • @vaastafraja5685
      @vaastafraja5685 Год назад

      No it's not. The guy is put on the spot because it suits your narative. When ever i have been with a women. She was the one liking and talking to other guys. Realitiy is different.

  • @neko7981
    @neko7981 Год назад +27

    huge respect for the dude who volunteered to take the L

  • @hussainmohammad7992
    @hussainmohammad7992 Год назад +5

    Like the message this channel is trying to spread but the conversations between fiancé’s before Nikah I.e messaging and calling each other is haram unless a mahram is present as 3rd party. May Allah guide us!

  • @sssppp1773
    @sssppp1773 Год назад +13

    Bilal was clearly the villain in the skit, but in real life friends may not always be the best people to get advice from. Turn to Allah SWT first through istikhara..

  • @strawberryslush1424
    @strawberryslush1424 Год назад +2

    this is so emotional and motivational 😭😭😢

  • @leilasitichairani4480
    @leilasitichairani4480 Год назад +2

    This need to be viral

  • @Turnpainhopegain
    @Turnpainhopegain Год назад +1

    It may sounds simple but I 'm pretty sure its informative and useful for people thinking of marriage and their parents as well. Jazak Allah Khair

  • @RenderingUser
    @RenderingUser Год назад +10

    Chemical storage thing got a prequel lmao

  • @Ayla40902
    @Ayla40902 Год назад +1

    She is right everything will make sense you will thank Allah for opening your eyes i have seen my friend going through same and she did find not only peace but she finds it so filthy to even think he was his fiance how Allah Alhamdullilah saved her

  • @Bu.T.F.I
    @Bu.T.F.I Год назад +2

    Subhanallah havent even finished but this is sooo good! Halal and educative form of entertainment! TV show who?

  • @muhammadaffan516
    @muhammadaffan516 Год назад

    One path acing the game Luke always! Alhumdolillah

  • @samandaromonov6307
    @samandaromonov6307 6 месяцев назад

    I love how she said " What if my boundry is too high" not just this in this modern age there are so little part of people questions themselves I mean it is true in there like about having boundries but also thinking about like what if I am making mistake what would I do if i am her or his shoes?

  • @indihurung
    @indihurung Год назад

    MasyaAllah .. dari setiap episodenya mengandung banyak pelajaran. Bagaimana menyampaikan suatu ilmu yang di kemas secara ringan melalui series ini. Tabaraqallah ❤️

  • @salamatumansaray2998
    @salamatumansaray2998 Год назад +3

    Ladies let look out for red flags in a Relationship

  • @servantofthetruth8203
    @servantofthetruth8203 Год назад +2

    Please tell me I'm not the only one who burst out laughing when the sister showed the texts the brother sent her @ 1:02 😂😂😂. I know the concept or the message that's being presented isn't funny but maybe because i know it's only a skit i find it so funny..

  • @ayahaltalhouni9272
    @ayahaltalhouni9272 Год назад +79

    Of course it's Bilal 😅 Mashallah great video as always. Thank you for educating the youth in the west, where we probably aren't even getting lessons like this everyday.

    • @OnePathNetwork
      @OnePathNetwork  Год назад +45

      Please pray for Bilal 🤲🏼😅

    • @Bilal_is_joking
      @Bilal_is_joking Год назад +4

      My name is Bilal

    • @CuckooBirdie
      @CuckooBirdie Год назад +3

      I knew from the first episode we would be seeing more of Bilal!

    • @user-yt2mo8ze7y
      @user-yt2mo8ze7y Год назад

      For those searching for marriage _(and even those who are already married)_ , this is a dua for a righteous spouse and children from Surah Furqan (25:74):
      ‎رَبَّنَا هَبْ لَنَا مِنْ أَزْوَاجِنَا وَذُرِّيَّاتِنَا قُرَّةَ أَعْيُنٍ وَاجْعَلْنَا لِلْمُتَّقِينَ إِمَامًا
      Transliteration: Rab-ba-na hab la-na min az-waa-ji-na wa thur-ri-yaa-ti-na qur-ra-ta a’-yu-nin waj-’al-na lil mut-ta-qee-na imaa-ma.
      (Rabbana hab lana min azwaajina wa thuriyyatina qurrata a’yunin waj’alna lil muttaqeena imama).
      Translation: Our Lord! Grant unto us spouses and offspring who will be the comfort of our eyes, and give us (the grace) to lead the righteous.
      ___________
      Also, the following dua from the Quran led to Musa (A.S) getting a job and getting married:
      ‎رَبِّ إِنّى لِما أَنزَلتَ إِلَىَّ مِن خَيرٍ فَقيرٌ
      Transliteration: Rab-bee in-nee li-ma an-zal-ta ilay-ya min khay-rin fa-qeer.
      (Rabbee innee limaa anzalta ilayya min khayrin faqeer).
      Translation: “My Lord! Truly I am in (desperate) need of whatever good you (would) send down to me.”
      [Quran 28:24].
      _____
      Good advice: I think it was Mufti Menk who said if your potential spouse has deen (piety) and akhlaaq (good character) give them 1 point. If they have good looks, add a zero on the end so now they have 10 points! If they have a good job add another zero now they have 100 points! For every thing you like about them keep adding zeroes - a house , a car, nice smile, beautiful eyes etc. BUT if they don’t have deen and akhlaaq then *_take away the ONE_* and now what are you left with?
      ZeroOoOoOoOoOoOo!! 😂
      I thought this was great advice because all those “nice” things can be taken away any time, except for deen and akhlaaq.
      Final point: If you’re not praying tahajjud every night and making dua in your sujood, then you’re not serious about getting married.
      ___
      If you want to share these duas you can easily copy + paste this comment by going to my Just Paste It link below, and inshaAllah we can all have a share in the reward:
      justpaste.it/SearchingForSpouse

    • @vaastafraja5685
      @vaastafraja5685 Год назад +1

      No it's not. The guy is put on the spot because it suits your narative. When ever i have been with a women. She was the one liking and talking to other guys. Realitiy is different.

  • @__-hm9ol
    @__-hm9ol Год назад +27

    I really appreciate this episode especially the aunt's advice fortunately I watched this before marrying 😅.Jazakom Allah khayr May Allah bless your efforts on educating and reminding people about the real meaning of marriage 👏

    • @chief4923
      @chief4923 Год назад +1

      May Allah bless your marriage with every khayr
      Amiin 💕

    • @__-hm9ol
      @__-hm9ol Год назад +1

      @@chief4923 thank u ameen may Allah bless yours too

  • @aminaayad4928
    @aminaayad4928 Год назад +25

    Perfectly done ❤ keep it up and jazakum Allah khayran guys!

  • @KA-hw4ec
    @KA-hw4ec Год назад +2

    Jazakallahu for this great series! 👌🏽. If possible, please could you also do one for the men as well, with regards to when it comes to them looking for a wife and the most important things they should look for when searching

    • @KA-hw4ec
      @KA-hw4ec Год назад

      *Jazakallahu Khairan

    • @shairafaiza7261
      @shairafaiza7261 Год назад

      the same thing. good character and good religion.

  • @AbdulBaki61
    @AbdulBaki61 Год назад +2

    We appreciate this work and loved it so far. Please make more of these. May Allah bless you. Selam from Germany

  • @skywa7183
    @skywa7183 Год назад +4

    As much as this is better than the first in terms of theme and messages given, I do hope the next is some strong answers against the CURRENT, RELEVANT issue of rabid feminism that we're facing and not anything that caters to it.

  • @sameer_hossain
    @sameer_hossain 5 месяцев назад +1

    the girl that is getting engaged is sooooooooo beautiful Allahumma Baariq!

  • @susu130390
    @susu130390 Год назад +20

    MashAllah this is a good video and I’m glad they pointed this out because this is exactly what is happening with social media. People are even married go online and do inappropriate things and this is why nowadays I find it hard to trust people because you don’t know what else they get up to. For those who are considering marrying someone I think it’s important to check their socials and if I was the girl in the video I would just end this engagement right there and then.

  • @urjiiabdulmalik
    @urjiiabdulmalik Год назад +3

    Not the chemical storage room 🤣🤣🤣

  • @malak3229
    @malak3229 Год назад +1

    MashaAllah this such an amazing episode...I am learning so much about religion & life & even practicing my English language 🙂💙جزاكم الله خيرا

  • @syedmuheed7753
    @syedmuheed7753 Год назад +1

    The quality keeps getting better masha Allah

  • @IqraaFamilyProduction
    @IqraaFamilyProduction Год назад +4

    Masha Allah tabarakallah, we're first ❤💙😊

  • @sameer_hossain
    @sameer_hossain 5 месяцев назад +1

    girl, he literally hung up on you! that in of itself is a HUGE RED FLAG!!!!!!

  • @MFischer27
    @MFischer27 Год назад

    Good to put some light on this topic👍🏽

  • @sarabenkhaffou
    @sarabenkhaffou Год назад +2

    I love this series! Allahumma barik ❤

  • @subikishayeri
    @subikishayeri 4 месяца назад

    This video is perfect
    Wedding is not about dress and diamond ring
    Its about peace

  • @skywa7183
    @skywa7183 Год назад

    The quality is so good, but I wish the messages were better and less watered down. Really. This cud make such impact.

  • @salmaahmed3867
    @salmaahmed3867 Год назад

    This was soooo beautiful plz make more😭💗💗💗💗💗💗💗

  • @YaserShareefMohammed
    @YaserShareefMohammed Год назад +1

    May Allah reward you all for making these videos.

  • @AiSenussi
    @AiSenussi Год назад +2

    One Path it’s the 10 days of Mercy of RAMADAN I don’t think these kinda videos are appropriate for this Holy Month give us more substance relating to this Month so we can take advantage of it. You have another 11 to do as you wish. Jazakume Allah

  • @Dr.Afiya_Ghori
    @Dr.Afiya_Ghori Год назад +134

    Nowadays marriage seems scary 🥺

    • @Bilal_0078
      @Bilal_0078 Год назад +27

      If we follow the sunnah and trust in Allah and focus on fixing our relationship with Allah SWT he will manage all of our Affairs im married Alhamdulillah and I thank Allah everyday for such a wife May Allah SWT grant you a spouse who will be the coolness in your eyes Ameen

    • @mohsinsheikh1961
      @mohsinsheikh1961 Год назад +5

      Yes, we men and women cross our boundaries , are not forgiving and neither we are raheem

    • @mohsinsheikh1961
      @mohsinsheikh1961 Год назад +1

      Yes, we men and women cross our boundaries , are not forgiving and neither we are raheem

    • @abd-el-latifdin3095
      @abd-el-latifdin3095 Год назад +7

      Less than haram relationship

    • @peace_Palestine20
      @peace_Palestine20 Год назад +5

      I agree but marriage I believe is a huge leap of faith may help us Allah thoes who are seeking to get married and thoes who are already married for indeed it is a very heavy contract.

  • @soniabenhamed8549
    @soniabenhamed8549 Год назад

    Love it. JazakaAllah khair

  • @sajid279
    @sajid279 Год назад +2

    There should be one video about girls too chatting on social media with non-mehram boys they met at school, college....becs they seek validation.

  • @jonah3365
    @jonah3365 Год назад +1

    Aunty is so wise cute, such a noorful Aunty

  • @stsmile4901
    @stsmile4901 Год назад

    Very nice series. Would love for it to continue. May Allah reward all of you for your work

  • @abuyeenate1682
    @abuyeenate1682 Год назад +2

    Asalamu Alykum Warahamtullahi Wabarekatuh and Ramadan Mubarak. This is really a v.good video short interns of time but with a huge message for life. Most importantly will benefit the young and the restless and for those who are planning to get married. Please make more of such videos specially before Ramadan is over. May Allah help you and accept your deeds.

    • @user-yt2mo8ze7y
      @user-yt2mo8ze7y Год назад

      For those searching for marriage _(and even those who are already married)_ , this is a dua for a righteous spouse and children from Surah Furqan (25:74):
      ‎رَبَّنَا هَبْ لَنَا مِنْ أَزْوَاجِنَا وَذُرِّيَّاتِنَا قُرَّةَ أَعْيُنٍ وَاجْعَلْنَا لِلْمُتَّقِينَ إِمَامًا
      Transliteration: Rab-ba-na hab la-na min az-waa-ji-na wa thur-ri-yaa-ti-na qur-ra-ta a’-yu-nin waj-’al-na lil mut-ta-qee-na imaa-ma.
      (Rabbana hab lana min azwaajina wa thuriyyatina qurrata a’yunin waj’alna lil muttaqeena imama).
      Translation: Our Lord! Grant unto us spouses and offspring who will be the comfort of our eyes, and give us (the grace) to lead the righteous.
      ___________
      Also, the following dua from the Quran led to Musa (A.S) getting a job and getting married:
      ‎رَبِّ إِنّى لِما أَنزَلتَ إِلَىَّ مِن خَيرٍ فَقيرٌ
      Transliteration: Rab-bee in-nee li-ma an-zal-ta ilay-ya min khay-rin fa-qeer.
      (Rabbee innee limaa anzalta ilayya min khayrin faqeer).
      Translation: “My Lord! Truly I am in (desperate) need of whatever good you (would) send down to me.”
      [Quran 28:24].
      _____
      Good advice: I think it was Mufti Menk who said if your potential spouse has deen (piety) and akhlaaq (good character) give them 1 point. If they have good looks, add a zero on the end so now they have 10 points! If they have a good job add another zero now they have 100 points! For every thing you like about them keep adding zeroes - a house , a car, nice smile, beautiful eyes etc. BUT if they don’t have deen and akhlaaq then *_take away the ONE_* and now what are you left with?
      ZeroOoOoOoOoOoOo!! 😂
      I thought this was great advice because all those “nice” things can be taken away any time, except for deen and akhlaaq.
      Final point: If you’re not praying tahajjud every night and making dua in your sujood, then you’re not serious about getting married.
      ___
      If you want to share these duas you can easily copy + paste this comment by going to my Just Paste It link below, and inshaAllah we can all have a share in the reward:
      justpaste.it/SearchingForSpouse

  • @TheKingsMindset
    @TheKingsMindset Год назад +5

    Just read the book "Hard Times Create Strong Men", on what a real men is.

  • @Killuaslayer
    @Killuaslayer Год назад

    I really like to watch this series it has many lessons and I take many important live lessons form it mayAllah reward you ameen🤲

  • @infonet184
    @infonet184 Год назад +1

    Riyad as-Salihin 278
    Abu Hurairah (May Allah be pleased with him) reported:
    Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said, "The believers who show the most perfect Faith are those who have the best behaviour, and the best of you are those who are the best to their wives".
    [At-Tirmidhi, who categorized it as Hadith Hasan Sahih].

  • @hanadikadayunan9392
    @hanadikadayunan9392 Год назад

    Assalamualaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuhu I'm loving these, please keep on uploading

  • @suzeteandre8346
    @suzeteandre8346 Год назад

    Masha ALLAH.
    Great job!
    May Allah reward you with the best. Ameen

  • @oyekanmieniolanaheemat3063
    @oyekanmieniolanaheemat3063 Год назад

    I have learnt so much after this video.

  • @ghulamfatima6298
    @ghulamfatima6298 Год назад

    Ma shea Allah really helping and guiding video❤

  • @sansamarwa
    @sansamarwa Год назад +21

    Ma shaa Allah ❤️
    So educative and entertaining.

  • @dawahtothepeople1510
    @dawahtothepeople1510 Год назад +1

    Interesting content. Hope to see more Insha Allah. The youth today prefer visuals and the arts, over reading. I think the script may seem leaning towards comforting sisters and those who say Islam is misogynistic. Men are imams of our families.

  • @eddymiles7229
    @eddymiles7229 Год назад +1

    I need more of these videos please

  • @ghtr.
    @ghtr. Год назад

    Just Wow ما شاء الله 👏👏
    Keep going OnePath💚

  • @YourLordIsOne
    @YourLordIsOne Год назад +2

    I advise against displaying that which is prohibited and would lead to sinful gazing

  • @KS-sl4ji
    @KS-sl4ji Год назад

    That was HEAVY
    Well done and may Allah swt bless you all

  • @ashifhassan1148
    @ashifhassan1148 Год назад +1

    This can also be vice versa especially in this age.

  • @zorero1
    @zorero1 Год назад

    Well done.
    بارك الله فيكم

  • @Aecif
    @Aecif Год назад +1

    Positive Work.

  • @uibikun3567
    @uibikun3567 Год назад

    Masha'Allah Tbarak Allah, keep it up.

  • @omismaeel2011
    @omismaeel2011 Год назад

    Mashai Allah, very good lessons for all the Muslims.

  • @m.a1153
    @m.a1153 Год назад

    Asalaamualaikum wrb.
    Great video Ma'shala.
    It'll be good to make a version where sisters need to be checked before marrying before it's too late.

  • @sxc1293
    @sxc1293 Год назад

    Subhanallah this was so informative, jazakallahu khairan 🥺🤍

  • @PTaylor1087
    @PTaylor1087 Год назад

    This is a beautiful lesson for men and women. May Allah guide us.

  • @Minatheowl394
    @Minatheowl394 Год назад +2

    Was Bilal's ringtone the very beginning of Andrew Tate's theme song?😭

  • @aeronation7465
    @aeronation7465 Год назад +6

    Yet another gem 💎 well done one path!

  • @syedah9145
    @syedah9145 Год назад

    Thanks for this video

  • @CATNINJAEDITS
    @CATNINJAEDITS Год назад

    Episode 3 please !!!!

  • @salamatumansaray2998
    @salamatumansaray2998 Год назад

    Maşallah , may Allah bless you guys ❤this is really educative

  • @naso603
    @naso603 Год назад

    Bilal characters is not well portrait but any way don't want to be negative vibe
    Well done for making this film

  • @farhatfatima181
    @farhatfatima181 Год назад +1

    I'm dealing with same red flags. I'm making lots of duas may Allah guide me to make the best decision

    • @komo5278
      @komo5278 Год назад

      Please seek help from a pious and wise person! Your family memebers might be biased, so I suggest a local sheikh

    • @farhatfatima181
      @farhatfatima181 Год назад

      @@komo5278 tbh I'm someone with islamic knowledge the other person is hafiz too but we still have red flags 😔 why I'm giving chance? Because Allah forgives and people do change. I hope he will not prove me wrong in future iA 🤲

    • @mynmeisname4825
      @mynmeisname4825 Год назад

      @@farhatfatima181 do istikharah

  • @sharpiefatah3657
    @sharpiefatah3657 Год назад +1

    Hey, one path Network, A Gambling Ad was shown before the Video!!!!

  • @sumayyahasim5987
    @sumayyahasim5987 Год назад

    Waiting for the next episode!!!!!😍😍😍

  • @dinaf.k5372
    @dinaf.k5372 Год назад +2

    3:38 I expect Bilal to be educated at least, but he couldn't even read the sign. What's the point of marrying a guy like that then? 😂😅

  • @reazul2005
    @reazul2005 10 месяцев назад

    Mashallah ❤️❤️❤️ well said Mother 😊💖

  • @khadija1292
    @khadija1292 Год назад

    I love this channel

  • @boxofluxurycar1529
    @boxofluxurycar1529 Год назад

    Take love to one of my favourite channels from Bangladesh❤.

  • @ahteshamulhaque4447
    @ahteshamulhaque4447 Год назад +9

    Please upload one video daily ❤
    And ofcourse this is the best series for youth 😊
    Keep it up
    #Keep youth motivating 🤗

    • @OnePathNetwork
      @OnePathNetwork  Год назад +11

      These productions are very resource intensive. We wish we could 🤲🏼 May Allah allow us to continue working and benefit more people.

    • @ahteshamulhaque4447
      @ahteshamulhaque4447 Год назад +1

      @@OnePathNetwork Ameen 🤲🥰

  • @salimyasini3100
    @salimyasini3100 Год назад +5

    Life's not fair hey. The right sister engages with the wrong brother.
    and the "nice" brother who was another option loses

    • @komo5278
      @komo5278 Год назад +1

      Reminds me of Prophet Lut and his wife, and Firoun and Asiya.
      Allah says in the Quran, the good women are for good men and good men are for good women. The bad women are for bad men and bad men are for bad women.
      But sadly, some righteous people are married to bad people as I mention above😥💔

    • @xillerrz7328
      @xillerrz7328 Год назад

      @@komo5278 Allah (SWT) knows what we do not know. Those marriages happened with a purpose. Fear Allah (SWT) and obey him.