The spreading of our Father's ashes

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  • Опубликовано: 28 авг 2024
  • Honoring our Father's wishes to have his ashes spread upon the ocean waters. Sunset on Captiva Island, October 2014.

Комментарии • 68

  • @user-qi8yi4ko3y
    @user-qi8yi4ko3y Месяц назад

    ❤ my heart breaks for you. I’ll be doing this for my mother on Tuesday or Wednesday, and came across your video to help me with the process of my mother’s finally wishes and this was simply beautiful. Prayers for peace and comfort for your family.

  • @JG-hy3sl
    @JG-hy3sl 2 года назад +12

    So beautiful!!! My heart goes out to each and everyone of you!!! What a difficult but incredibily original and sweet thing to do!!!

  • @johnha6531
    @johnha6531 2 года назад +5

    Beautiful!!! My mom and I will scatter my dad's ashes too on his bday. God, I miss him!!

  • @tonyparra8459
    @tonyparra8459 2 года назад +7

    My great uncle passed in November 2014 and his dying wish is to have his ashes dumped into the ocean but we're not ready to let go yet.

  • @xiuehe
    @xiuehe 3 года назад +10

    Good luck. Not having a father must be hard.. hopefully he rests in heaven.

  • @elaineq9565
    @elaineq9565 Год назад +2

    This was so beautiful and emotional. When I were watching this video I instantly got tears in my eyes and a lump in my throat. I immediately thought of my beloved uncle that passed 13 years ago this way . He was spread by a pond 😭😭😭💔💔💔 I miss him deeply . Rest in piece for your beloved father and my beloved uncle. 😭❤️❤️

  • @Firebrand55
    @Firebrand55 5 лет назад +18

    Music from Schindlers List film , known as the Violin Theme, ( played at the end).....very emotional and very fitting here.

  • @pfumero627
    @pfumero627 7 лет назад +16

    Beautiful specially the sunset

  • @steveashworth4615
    @steveashworth4615 3 месяца назад

    this is what i want to happen to my remains that are cremated. i want what can be donated to help others - everything else i want to go to the oceans of this earth. it’s the place i feel most at peace, serene and happy.
    my condolences for your loss, and thank you for sharing this beautiful moment with us 💚

  • @CarmenGarcia-bu3so
    @CarmenGarcia-bu3so Год назад +1

    He will be so happy😢 now. Amen

  • @BeUniqueCustoms
    @BeUniqueCustoms 4 года назад +5

    my most sincere condolences 💔 may he fly high and rest in peace❤️

  • @lunamoone5231
    @lunamoone5231 3 года назад +4

    May he rest in peace and fly high.❤️💕♥️

  • @showingoffhotwheels8361
    @showingoffhotwheels8361 2 года назад +4

    I'm so sorry of your death of your father rip your family loved you 😭

  • @rwfgh123
    @rwfgh123 Год назад

    it's hindu way of funeral. When our loved ones leaves this world we cremate them either in electric furnace or on wooden furnace in cremation ground.
    Then we collect those ash and spread it in the flowing Ganga river.
    In southern India the ashes are scattered in Godavari river or in Rameshwaram sea water because these places are holy according to Hinduism.
    I hope Americans to bring their loved one's ashes to scatter it in our Ganga river who takes the ashes of all deceased one.

  • @qwertstrewq
    @qwertstrewq 4 года назад +3

    I apologize if this is late. May God rest his soul up above. I'm sorry for your loss.

  • @theunexpressedable
    @theunexpressedable 2 года назад +2

    I have to do this soon, my heart is broken, I am seeking to follow my mom’s wishes.

  • @GABRIELADAWSON
    @GABRIELADAWSON 3 года назад +3

    R.I.P 😇😇😇💐💐💐

  • @serenitycatherine9660
    @serenitycatherine9660 10 месяцев назад

  • @positivybz2602
    @positivybz2602 3 года назад

    Thanks for sharing! 🌺🙏💐

  • @suzannemistretta9275
    @suzannemistretta9275 3 года назад +1

    We did the same for my mom. That waa her wish. Im so sorry

  • @JhpNetwork
    @JhpNetwork 4 года назад

    Sorry for your lose and that was beautiful

  • @brittneysanders4027
    @brittneysanders4027 3 года назад

    Sorry for your loss

  • @123gozane
    @123gozane 3 года назад

    How beautiful..

  • @joinmeonthedarkside2
    @joinmeonthedarkside2 2 года назад

    Beautiful

  • @CarmenGarcia-bu3so
    @CarmenGarcia-bu3so Год назад

    I want the same when i die..

  • @tfw.mcw5
    @tfw.mcw5 3 года назад +3

    The fish: OOOH FOOD

  • @CeeLiberty
    @CeeLiberty 2 года назад +1

    Fortunate to do this in Florida....California has so many regulations we have to either abide by them or sneak around.
    FLORIDA ROCKS!

    • @Jo4evaa
      @Jo4evaa 2 года назад +1

      Is it illegal to spread ashes in the ocean in California?

    • @peepsicle
      @peepsicle 2 года назад

      @@Jo4evaa No. I’m spreading my fathers ashes in the ocean in California next weekend. You’re just not permitted to spread them on or near the beach. “The Federal Clean Water Act requires that cremated remains be scattered at least three nautical miles from shore, which means you can't scatter ashes on California beaches.”

    • @ctrl8337
      @ctrl8337 2 года назад

      Nobody wants to be sifting through human remains while they're relaxing on the beach. Thank God California doesn't allow this disgusting behavior on the beaches.

  • @aaronberns8485
    @aaronberns8485 3 года назад +1

    The scary thing is we're going to be ashes too.

  • @bobnandez
    @bobnandez Год назад

    that’s what i want for me.

  • @549BR
    @549BR Год назад

    This is illegal in Florida; there is a three mile rule. If you do it, mum is the word.

  • @rosannamiranda5948
    @rosannamiranda5948 2 года назад

    I have my mom ashes she die Jan 27 2020
    My family want keep the ashes
    Miss my mom every day :(

  • @charlottelong894
    @charlottelong894 3 года назад

    This is so sad

  • @KauJul
    @KauJul 5 лет назад

    Awesome

  • @michellehuynh8451
    @michellehuynh8451 5 лет назад

    Whats the title of the song played in the background? Thanks.

    • @x7525w
      @x7525w  5 лет назад

      Michelle Huynh -Theme from Schindler’s list.

    • @ecsep1571
      @ecsep1571 5 лет назад

      Hokages funeral

  • @asomeone8650
    @asomeone8650 4 года назад +3

    I heard this is illegal is this true

    • @emilyvogt66
      @emilyvogt66 4 года назад +3

      Nobody, although this family is honoring their father's wishes in a beautiful and respectful manner, you are correct that scattering cremated remains along the waterline at a beach is illegal within the United States. The federal Clean Water Act requires that any burial at sea - which includes the scattering of cremated human remains into the ocean - must be performed at least 3 nautical miles from shore. There's also an online form documenting the burial at sea that is supposed to be submitted to the EPA within 30 days of the ash scattering event.
      The family in this video has my deepest condolences. I found out all of the EPA information for burials at sea (please see the link below) just this week because my sisters and I are currently making the necessary arrangements to scatter our beloved mother's ashes at sea.
      www.epa.gov/ocean-dumping/burial-sea

    • @asomeone8650
      @asomeone8650 4 года назад +1

      @@emilyvogt66 Thank you for this information And I'm sorry for your loss

    • @emilyvogt66
      @emilyvogt66 4 года назад +1

      @@asomeone8650 Thank you so much for your kind words...

    • @x7525w
      @x7525w  3 года назад +1

      @@emilyvogt66 My family and I never even remotely suspected there were any laws covering this, and certainly never meant to do any ecological harm. I've tried to find out since if Cremains themselves were considered hazardous material for a marine environment, after all they're simply ashes and material itself looks like sand. Apparently, and depending on the deceased, medical devices like pace makers may contain metals or chemicals which remain toxic even after cremation, beyond that however it should be harmless. That said if a loved one ever makes such a request again, I'll certainly abide by any restrictions covering this topic.

    • @emilyvogt66
      @emilyvogt66 3 года назад +1

      @@x7525w You and your family have my deepest condolences for your loss...I don't fault - or judge - anybody who has scattered their loved one's ashes without knowing about the state or federal guidelines for doing so, especially since crematories don't provide ANY of that information with their cremation paperwork. I wouldn't have known anything about the state and federal guidelines for scattering cremains had I not researched whether or not it's OK (it's not OK) to scatter cremains from a fishing pier. 💜

  • @Erin-be4uz
    @Erin-be4uz 4 года назад

    Good work

  • @Practise_with_Abir
    @Practise_with_Abir 3 года назад +2

    I think, this is humiliating for human beings

  • @TinyToes
    @TinyToes 6 лет назад

    So lovely.

  • @genarob.domingo
    @genarob.domingo Год назад

    I'm sorry but this is prohibited....

  • @saadahmed5640
    @saadahmed5640 3 года назад

    Sentiments aside, why do you have to pollute the water

  • @benizzles.1565
    @benizzles.1565 5 лет назад +2

    The poor water :(

    • @lorettazims1253
      @lorettazims1253 5 лет назад

      ikr thats nasty we are swimming in peoples ashes

    • @ccodyy9896
      @ccodyy9896 4 года назад +7

      so rude

    • @dradra2day
      @dradra2day 4 года назад +9

      @@lorettazims1253 if that's the only thing you're worried about us swimming in with the Ocean then please google...

    • @arrowhdar1574
      @arrowhdar1574 4 года назад +5

      Bruh ashes dont harm it have u seen singapore pouring ashes into water? Nothing happend and place still smell beautiful

    • @savage4312
      @savage4312 3 года назад +2

      The water will be fine, it has both human and fish excrement in it.

  • @broaverage3394
    @broaverage3394 4 года назад

    y’all he finna drown

    • @manalaldura5179
      @manalaldura5179 4 года назад +1

      Ngl this is extremely offensive but it's funny asf lmfao

  • @kjensen900
    @kjensen900 7 лет назад +1