Weight Gain, Weight Loss & The Fear of Getting Older! - PRETTY BASIC - EP. 259
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- Опубликовано: 16 апр 2024
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For some of us 30 is a new era of self-discovery and for others comes the sad realization that you’ll never be your younger self again. On this episode, we chat about the impacting opinions of others, negative self-talk, the many phases and fluctuations our bodies go through, and we unlock a NEW FEAR, the fear of turning 30. But I’ll let you in on a little secret, entering your 30s is quite amazing!
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MERCH IDEA: we’re so different - Alisha makes her version and Remi makes her version. You make them for two besties to wear that are different!!
I like this sooooo much
I also like this so much
YESSSSSS
Like princess and the pauper vibes
do jaci and chelsea style!! two different colors
I just have to say….. since PxU has aired and I have watched every episode, i have never laughed harder. They are genuinely such funny episodes and I do not blame you at all for laughing into the mic. I can’t even tell that you’re doing that since I’m laughing so hard myself 😭😭😭
THIS!!!!!!
OMG LITERALLY!!! I laugh so much and their laughing doesn’t bother me. I never even noticed it 😭😂
we need a Just Trish collab!!!
Yesssss!!!!!!
she was talking shit on her podcast 😭
YES
@@kaiya7954hey which episode?
not over 30 yr, but turned 22 a month ago and a few things i wrote as lessons from the past year:
- inaction is action.
- you don’t have to fight to be loved
- don’t be afraid to be seen trying
- the way you do anything is the way you do everything
- we pick people that reinforce our wounds subconsciously as a way to try rewrite the ending
Love this ❤
@@sunvavachi thanks 🤍
Wow
As a 31yo, all of these are very real and I wish I took those more to heart your age! Especially the first one. So so incredibly important
I’m only 23 but remi I resonate with never being able to go back to an age. I morn my childhood and my teenage girl years so much randomly because I loved being a kid and it makes me so sad to think about
Cannot tell you how much I love the chat about growing up and how it feels, I’d be really interested to hear Zane and Heath talk about their perspectives in a serious (lol) way on the pod, if they’re open to being vulnerable about these things x
Yes JustTrish collab please!
I'm 30, I would say, to not put your energy into people who don't reciprocate. There are plenty of people who love and support you and you can put your energy into them ❤
9 months postpartum- feeling all the feelings listening to this ep! Yes I would never tell my baby their body isn’t perfect as long as it’s healthy. Great reminder
REMI! Your laugh is so contagious. Don’t feel self-conscious! I love it!!!
Things that I've said and done for myself in my late 20's going into my 30's
- people's opinions are none of my business
- when someone shows you who they are, believe them
- do things that feed my soul
- solo travel
- you accept the love you think you deserve
- keep your inner circle small
- always turn negativity into something positive, whether it be what you say to yourself to how you speak and approach people and situations
- heal your traumas
In your 30's you truly find yourself and what you will and will not tolerate. It's a really freeing time
Noooooooo I love hearing all the laughs… that’s what gets me going and start crying, sobbing, laughing, and losing my 💩 myself!
I really needed this episode. I am 22 and my body has changed so much and I’ve had such a hard time with excepting my body for what it is. I compare myself all the time. But hearing this episode made me cry because it’s so true we have one body we need to take care of it and be grateful. Thank you guys so much for being people that I look up to and being such great examples for us all.❤️
Wait until 25… you REALLY SEE A CHANGE it’s wild….
i NEED alisha to bring her red hair back. i’m contemplating dying mine back to red and i feel like if she does it, it’s a sign👀👀👀
me too! i’m blonde now and i’m like “going red would be ever better now” when alisha says it’s time. it’s time!!
Red is so her color
@@kaylag8687 omg YES!! when mom says it’s time, the red heads will RISE
@@emma.kathleen and we will be UNSTOPPABLE
Nooooo
First 💕 Morning ladies!
Update: Yes, we want that merch 🙂
Update: I am turning 33 this year and I also am giving out the same advice I was given growing up that I 100% DID NOT BELIEVE back then. And at this age, we do not have the energy to be putting up with someone else's drama.
1. Please we need the "We're so different" merch
2. I turn 30 this year in December, so I have been reflecting on my 20s lately but overall excited to be in my 30s!
3. I would love a Remi & Ashley episode as some one who is the eldest!
love this ep!!! im 31 about to turn 32 💟 i totally second the fact that once you hit 30 you just care wayyyyyy less about sh*t that bothered you in your 20s it is the best feeling EVER
I really want an episode with Ash and Remi, and Taryn and Alisha!
There's 2! One of each of their podcasts 😊
Im mid 30s and still have not found my people. I love this friendship and it’s what i envision to find, nothing less!
ok so now i need you two on trisha’s pod and vice versa!
This was the saddest episode ive watched of yal😂 i turn 30 this year, thanks for reminding me😩😩 This was the start of my day! 😢
Yes, we DO see you both as big sisters !! 🥺🫶🏼
MERCH IDEA: WE'RE SO DIFFERENT on the front, but PRETTY BASIC on the backkkk. its funny cuz its like "im different" but the back is like nahhhh theyre basic lmao
I love that!!
I’m currently a senior in college who graduates next month and the talk about your 20s has me simultaneously very excited yet also spiraling a little bit… I can’t believe I’m turning 23 this year
Love the conversation about focussing on yourself in your 30s and embracing your beauty, stop caring about what others think etc. I can't wait for that era myself!
as a girl who just turned 20 and is scared about this new chapter, it’s so inspiring and motivating to hear remi and alisha’s perspectives on getting older and learning to let go and live life how they want to.
I'm almost 34 and honestly my 30s so far have been so much better than my 20s. I just feel like I'm so much more myself now than I was 10 and even 5 years ago. Alisha is right: at some point, you just get exhausted of caring and do things for yourself, and it is life changing. If I had one piece of advice it would probably just be to do the things you love with the people that make you feel the best. It sounds simple, but once you get rid of the "excess" relationships and things that realize you were doing to please other people, and find the things and people that make you feel like your authentic self, that's when you experience real joy!
Yay I am so excited for this podcast episode today 🩷
I’m turning 30 in June and I have the mindset remi has where I feel like I’m gonna mourn my 20s also just the comparison of myself with others in my life where I don’t feel like I was as successful in my 20s. Hearing you guys talk about Ashley and Alisha thriving in their 30s give me hope maybe 30s won’t be as bad as I thought.
We NEED the merch …. 6:30 i knew exactly what u were talking about Alisha😂😭 11:20 I’m SO happy that my 2 worlds are colliding with Y’all and Trisha 😫😫💔❤️🔥
Also I LOVE LOVE LOVE pxu so much!!! It’s honestly my favorite podcast right now
Great episode!!!🥰 I turn 33 this year and Alicia saying do not live in fear of anything totes pushed me to apply for the job!!! Thanks girlies🥰💕
It’s my 26th birthday today and waking up to this felt like an actual present. Thanks girlies❤️❤️
happy birthday 🎉
I feel like you two gave me all the advice that I needed to hear💜
I want Kenna Marie to be on your show! It would be a dream of hers!! I’m literally making her dreams come true by 1. asking Wildflower Cases to collab with her and 2. asking you guys to let her be in your podcast since you two are her first fav RUclipsrs hihihi 💕💕💕💕
This is my first podcast that I hear and I love it 🥰 it really made me feel good about where I am in life ♥️♥️♥️♥️
LESSGOOOOO LADIES!!!
Love you girls and this pod so much 🫶🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼
just came from the coachella vlog! your looks were iconic love yall💗
Tana and Trish on PB & “We’re so different” merch please
Y'all I think the merch is SOOO great, plz do it
YESSS PLSSS RELEASE "WE;RE SO DIFFERENT" MERCH
amazing to have all the tea from you and Remi about turning thirty the reality of where both your lives are going into this new chapter. Alisha you are more relatable to me as I am single and dating, I am looking forward to Cal and Remi's wedding though. Great having two different perspectives and you two laughing at the irony of the situation. Anyway I have to agree sunscreen helps skin complexion, trusting your intuition a brilliant one. Doing what makes you happy. The genuine, true friends stay. So thanks ladies this guidance was much needed. Hope you're both well! xoxo Rebecca 🌺💐
LOVE THE TRISHA SHOUT OUT THE WORLD IS HEALING
REMI. i literally think about this all the time. i’m a senior in high school and i’ve been thinking so much about how i’m never going to go to school again. like what? and it passed so fast now i’m scared college is going to be the same way. i can’t believe we only get to experience these experiences once. like wdym this is my only chance at living this?
Don’t worry college drags on and on 😭😭 I’m finally graduating and it feels like it’s taken me ten years to
@@tedddybear i think that’s good. i’m also planning on studying medicine so that makes it longer.
the shoe conversation is sooo REAL
I’m actually really glad you guys went into talking about going into your 30s. I am going to be turning 34 in August but I still feel like I’m in my 20s time just goes so fast especially after you start having kids. And the first couple years of my 30s I didn’t feel so anxious but now that I’m almost halfway through my 30s I am starting to experience a lot of anxiety about getting older. But it’s nice to know I’m not alone. Love you girls ❤️
Brilliant
I was so sad when this episode ended it was so good ❤
WE NEED A CANCELLED x PB podcast episodeee
love the merch idea!! make it like a trendy over sized sweater, with like an aura starry look with like one sleeve with bows going down like the Lana merch, and the other stars going down. I would die
OMG I love that you brought up Trisha, just finished the new Just Trish Episode before this hahaha
Hey which episode were they mentioned?
this is the first episode i’m watched from you guys, i loved these topics! im a new subscriber 😁
WELCOME!! 🥹
i needed this episode so much you don’t even know it.
27:23 all my coworkers tell me I’m so lucky to be “skinny” and I have to remind them that I had to starve myself to get to this point :/
My comfort duo 🥰🥰
I turned 24 this year and the switch to not caring about people this year truly kicked into high gear. So I completely agree Alisha the concern of others is nonexistent 😂
“We’re so different” can HONESTLY make a good best friends shirt or even for couples who are different but still soulmates and just made for each other ❤
Do the merch !!
The PxU episodes are hilarious and you guys laughing into the mic makes me laugh more!! Don’t stop doing that completely please!!!
Been waiting on this all weekend ❤❤❤
The Instagrams were popping off
my 30's have been the best years of my life
Remiii I feel the same way, I just turned 29 April 15th, legit Monday lol. I am a pretty sentimental and nostalgic person so for me I am not scared of actual aging, but I feel like I am mourning the youth in my life and its hard to explain. Even though 30 is Not old. But you are not alone.
I'll be 30 in June. Exhaustion is definitely the key😬😭
this one hit hard as i'm about to turn 29 and already stressing out about turning 30 next year!
Love you guys so much !!!!!
Good morning PB! ♥️
“Don’t wear your shoes in the house”
Clip that PLS so I can share it with all of my friends who need to hear this PSA 😂❤
I loveeee that idea we are so different merch❤
As per Remi’s vlog we need a Cancelled crossover !
And appearance for the girls on Dish with Trish and they should all cosplay Lana/Sabrina Carpenter or like a Simple Life theme.
Turned 30 in February and I have to say you really get to a point where you just don’t care. I got married right before 30 when I was 29 this January. I don’t worry as much as when I was in my 20s. Here’s my advice: Continue to work on yourself, love yourself, be kind always, forgive, definitely wear your sunscreen men & women, keep your loved ones close and don’t take each day for granted. ❤
Remi i feel the exact same way about not being able to be 22 or a kid again. I feel sad about it too! I think I almost wish I could be my self now but be able to do those ages again
PLEASE yes I want We’re so different merch
the episode i didnt know i needed 😢😂
From a soon-to-be 31 girlie: Slow down... Life can wait... Don't rush everything
Don't rush your feelings, don't rush work, don't rush rest, don't rush fun, don't rush relationships.
Don't feel the need to rush just because someone does it faster... It's never too late
Two of my most favorite girlies❤
Wait but remi, u have such a good laugh! Especially with the PU episodes, hearing u and Alisha crack up makes me laugh even harder 😂😂
i’m only 23 and probably the past couple years, i’ve learned to just laugh at the hate because 99.9% of people don’t know me so whatever your opinion or thought is about me, who cares and if anything it shows me who you are.
I'm 22 and in my last year of college. I would LOVE some advice on how to be patient for the right person. I've always imagined myself in a relationship by now that would end in marriage. I'm trying to accept that it's not the end of the world if I don't meet someone in college, but I'm also worried about how I'll meet new people once I've graduated. btw, i've been listening since the first year of the pod and i love you both so so much! ♥♥
Please do we’re so different merch! Literally me and my sister say this EVERY SINGLE DAY 😂
Remi make be silly,be you be yourself!! It would be so iconic
GET TRISHA ON THE POD!!!!
We absolutely need “…we’re so different” merch
Remi, love the shoes!!! Could I get a link please? ❤love you guys
I turn 30 next month and I am 100% with Remi. I feel like I’m starting to mourn my 20’s.
Alisha i relate sooo hard to going on dates to have “more dating stories” 😭😭😭 that was my exact motivating factor hahaha
Srill Rooting and wishing for zane and alisha to go on a date together, haha.
omg I'm early!!! love you guys with all my heart from japan
My girlfriend just turned 30 she was clingy to those months in 29 like she was dying but it’s been almost a month and she’s already so much calmer as a person. She an anxious person usually but her being has been less stressed overall. Idk I think her mindset literally changed the week she turned 30
Remi hiding her protein bar behind the table 😂
I definitely would love we’re so different merch😂
Good morning ladies 💕
The “we’re so different” crewneck will be an INSTANT purchase
As someone who has been 31 for 3 months...I continue to forget that I am indeed NOT 30 anymore. I have forgotten to the point that I one day said I'm 29. I'm not sure if it is the result of the pandemic, maybe my brain thinks I'm aging backwards? So I definitely understand the Alisha saying-- "I recently turned 30" and realizing she is almost 31.
Would love to see a PB x Just Trish collab!
Morning ladies!! So I’m going to be 25 in May and this past year has been a lot. I got engaged and getting married in December, my fiancé and I bought a house and we just got a puppy lol!! But I’ve went through two huge friendship breakups and honestly I truly miss them but I know it wasn’t healthy for me, how do you deal with friendship breakups or know if you are supposed to have them in your life but maybe just not as close??
Thanks ❤❤
💕💕💕 turning 30 next year
How much important it is to reach certain goals by an age deadline? Should be having more grace would be the words to live by or more get in the game mentality?
26:00 set point theory!!
Don’t forget to prioritize friendships. It’s okay to rest.
Under 30 (turning 28 April 21!) Asking the 30+ crew: Im in my last 2 years of my 20s, what should I do to honor my youth and welcome in the next stage of aging?
Oh I am way over 30 My advice go one. Be patient too. Don't worry and be yourself
I saw ur fashion video and i wanted to say that some people rlly dislike when the outfit looks to color matchy if that makes sense!