Can you REALLY reconnect with a Dismissive Avoidant? Truth vs Myth
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- Опубликовано: 24 июн 2024
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Does a part of you secretly wonder if it's really possible to reconnect with a dismissive avoidant ex? There are myths and truths to reconnecting with an avoidant ex. In this video, we will explore what is really possible between you and your dismissive avoidant partner.
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I can't imagine jumping back into that bowl of spinning razor blades again. It will take months to set my life straight.
@@MrSamIAm39 months... you got this 👍
So hard when the chemistry and sexual chemistry was amazing. 😢
I can’t stop loving her. I don’t yet understand how, but I believe we will be together in the future.
I felt like I connected so deeply with my DA. He knew he was a DA. I tort him about attachment theory. He really showed up, we spent so much time together, everyday, did so much together, trips etc the 1st 3 months was a lot of push and pull - we were always a situationship but he hasn’t had an official partner for like ten plus years. he moved to the other side of the world a couple of weeks ago, was calling and messaging constantly daily, but the last couple of days basically nothing. I know it doesn’t have a future and I need to let go, no matter how much I love them. I will stay away from avoidant people going forward, not that they are bad people, they’re not. I just can’t investment in them anymore.
I would never get involved with another DA, especially my DA ex.
I was in love but I have no time to get someone that’s nuts. Bye bye. Life is to hard. 🏃♀️
Hard part about being with a avoidant is that they give so much time and energy to all other aspects of their lives social media binge watching Netflix work friends their home pets but the one person who truly loves them. They struggle with a phone call or a text or I love you just being vulnerable it sucks because deep down side, you know they really care and love you how do you get them to open up or exposed their attachment style?
Yup!! You nailed it. Riding around drinking beer with a work buddy but won't take the time to go fishing or a date with me...stuck in a situationship. Workaholic. Busy Busy Busy, Slammed with work always.
This is my experience exactly, like Jekyll and Hyde. The flip once the honeymoon phase was over, was devastating. No more sex or affection, like being with a sexless robot. And you know they actually love you way more than they'll ever admit, that's why their subconscious defenses have overridden their brain. In time, they will realize what a mistake and how childish their behaviors are. Maybe
Honestly, I think this is a form of autism
@@CryptoTaurusMoonsome avoidants are on the spectrum by the way
I always said to my ex “ I wish there was as much room in your head for me as there is for everything else”.
@@BirdieHaze2207Nice one.
If he is healed why not ... if it is not .No thanks!
There is a lot of focus on one person changing to more secure however I would not take my ex back unless they had made changes too. If they aren't meeting your basic needs for connection and intimacy then the cycle will repeat over time. Both parties need to change imo
Most things in life are counter-intuitive; for example, struggling in quicksand is intuitive but will likely hasten one’s demise.
Thus, becoming one with the universe, through natural living and lifestyle, will, with no further effort on your part, attract others, and possibly your ex….
PS
Keep your hands up at all times 👊 and careful what you wish for ❤
Yes, I really connected with my disconnection.
I have a Q, I dated an Aviodant (6 month) that worked on himself (admited that he is afraid cus it becaomes srious) it did bacame better until we had an amotional fight were I cryed in. Anyhow, day after he spoke to his freind and broke up from me saying my reaction was too much for him. After a month I so him again in the dating app this time he wrote that he is looking for a long- term and open for children. And found a new girlfreind and deleted the app. I am so hurt... did I make the "Job" for the new girl? Cus Now he knows how to behave, after he had the exprience with me....😔
Wouldn't reconnecting prelude to a on off relationship , Wouldn't reconnection be better after the treated or shadow worked their attachment style. I would say no don't recconect until if they treated or shadow worked ln them self. But then do DA's really admit their attachment style first of all?