When my parents were first married, my mother, a NICU nurse, had a patient that stayed in the NICU for 18 months. My mother fell in love with that baby and bought him toys, clothes, and books. The mother was a major druggie and had already had multiple children removed, she refused to put this baby up for adoption and it had to go into foster care instead. My mother wanted to adopt him and my parents were willing to become foster parents to take him in. CPS decided since the boy was Hispanic he should only go to a Hispanic foster home. The foster mother they sent him to ignored his care instructions and he was dead within 24 hours of leaving the hospital. It’s been 47 years and my mother still cry’s over that baby. You know the mother and idiotic CPS agent don’t remember him.
If I ever had cps contact or even if the school even contacted me about my sons well fair I would have been mortified!!! These people talk about cps involvement like it's a resource that your entitled too . No its bc you are a shitty parent . I watch these cps cases that stream from Texas courts and the resources these people get is insane . They get gas cards to SEE THEIR KIDS, housing, furniture,freaking furnishings, bedding , CARS FIXED AND PUT ON ROAD!! And this is all While their kids are in foster care and they maybe make a visit once a month. They have scattered neg /pos drug tests or take Their time to finish their safety care plan. They know exactly what to do just so they just make it to not loose your kid. It's fu($ing infuriated. This whole Social media begging thing has to stop too it's just just fair and not right!
Thank you for saying abused kids still love their parents. So many abused kids love and miss their parents, and that's perfectly normal and okay for a child to feel that way. It doesn't mean the abuse wasn't real, or wasn't that bad.
One child I fostered absolutely hated his biological Mum because of the severity of his abuse. He was 5 years and 2 months old when he was removed with his five other siblings. His sister was a year older and had been adopted for about 6 months. He came to me at age 7 and at that time they were interviewed by the police for court. She refused to say anything in a police interview and she wanted to go back to her parents while he was the complete opposite and gave very detailed information on the abuse he suffered. It could of been because the mum liked girls and hated boys. He was also the most abused.
I do not love my mother who gave me to the court system because she didn't want to take care of me but instead have her freedom, do drugs, drink, and hop from one pos man to another. My trauma stems from and is only within the time frame she had custody of me until 3 years old but just that short amount of time is all it took to screw my mind up for the rest of my life but because of that I am a better mother to my children. It's a terrible thing but I turned it into good because I had to.
Well judging by the conditions in that "home" they are already traumatized so any other please has a good chance of being an upgrade...you can hardly get lower than this unless there's sexual and physical abuse etc.
Awe my last name is Shadden which is a cousin of your name...love it. I'd love to be a foster parent as I never had kids at 45 but I'm a truck driver and I am not settled enough and don't have a partner 😞 I can't provide a "home" because I live in my truck. Maybe one day I'll get a local job or something and a home. I'll try to make someone's life a bit better ❤❤❤
I bet the kids have been having the time of their lives to be honest 🤷🏼♀️ They are actually getting real food and not cold canned ravioli. They are in proper clothes, proper beds and most importantly, proper hygiene. Them being removed, as harsh as it sounds, has been the best thing that’s happened
@@604bcqtpie you’re operating under the assumption that the foster home is properly caring for them. Foster home does not automatically equal a safe and caring place.
I was a teen mom. I got pregnant with my oldest son when I was 15 and had him at 16. I completely 100% agree with not glorifying teen pregnancy!!! I wouldnt trade my son for anything in this world but if had a choice of having him in my 20s vs 16 I would take my 20s any day of the week! I was extremely lucky and had him with a really good guy, who was only 1 year older than me, but he comes from an amazing family and both of our families supported us and helpes us whenever they could. We ended up getting married after high school, went to college and ended up having 2 more sons. This is not the norm and our marriage has not come without A LOT of struggles.
That is an amazing story. I meet my husband in high school and we have been together for 27 years. Married for 20. Relationships alone are difficult and too add a kid… it’s a miracle but you are proof it have happened. I wish you and your family continued happiness.
Thank you for sharing! Self-aware parents return my hope. The fact that you realise you were lucky and not everyone that age would have support you did is actually a good thing. And that it would be easier in your 20s, because ofc it would. But things do happen so I'm glad it worked out. Wishing the best to you and your family.
Who the hell capitalizes on losing their kids to CPS? If that were me, I would be so embarrassed and humiliated that I for sure wouldn’t want random people on the internet knowing that my kids had to be removed from my care. Her entire story also doesn't add up at all and sounds like a huge fabricated lie. Person was arrested for SA and she's saying that she was charged with neglect, but her children were *voluntarily* removed from the home? No... CPS showed up, saw everything, and took those kids.
Omg.... yessss... im embarrassed listening to this. Really cringe she is just so non chalant about it all. How is she so open and don't care for the whole world to see this big mess. I'm not trying to judge but seriously she puts it out so you can see all the bad and sad. 😮😢
She didn’t take the time to get a birth certificate for her kid but she’s going to “start the process” of getting ALL her kids back from foster care?? Mmmkay good luck.
@@aliciamcgarvey2774 thanks, that’s very interesting. Not registering your child here would definitely get social services involved with your family. I have my doubts that these children were voluntarily surrendered to foster care.
I'm confused. There were comments on her first tik tok saying he had brain cancer before. How did he get treatment for that but can't now? Why can't the older adult kids take care of the younger ones until she is out of the hospital. Lastly they would automatically do an DNA test to prove she is the mother. He story just doesn't make sense.
@@chrissyb7916exactly 💯 & For the record, my youngest was born at home (hospital error, they sent me home without even checking to see if my water had broke, & had her as soon as I got home, less than 15mins later, I almost had her in my sister's van, smh). But, It's simple, you call 911 & the baby & mom are taken to the hospital for a check over & a birth certificate is issues then. It just won't have the hospital as the place of birth. No DNA test needed. It's obvious if a woman has just gave birth, after birth/placenta ect... The ONLY reason I can think of that someone wouldn't take a baby born at home to the hospital is because they'd be in trouble for DRUGS in their baby's system.... & Not just weed. They can't take your baby just for marijuana, I know for a fact. This lady should be ashamed of herself
Her son had cancer you sound think she would understand the importance of following the instructions on medications not to mention being a parent to all the other kids. I'm always so careful about how I give my kids medications
@@rosesweetcharlottevery true. Obvious lie is obvious. No adult takes too much Tylenol by accident to the point of an OD that requires hospitalization. I could see a child making that mistake but even then like a very young child honestly.
Her neck is where her central line was. ER nurse here- it takes waaaayyy more to cause the severity of her liver failure to cause that much of jaundice. We only see that is intentional overdoses or something else. There definitely waaaay more to the story
I agree. Pharmacy School grad here and there is far more to this story, as you mentioned. Couple things off the bat that scream out to me as to what the actual story may be...
I’ve got CVID so my organs throw tantrums on the regular. 2020 I spent a month in hospital with autoimmune hepatitis and the drs saying I might never go home. My LFTs were nuts. Yet I still looked healthier than her. The liver is a very hardy organ so I’m with you thoughts wise.
I lost a friend in February who had kidney and liver failure. Partly from a medication he was taking, then add on drinking, and he hid it from all friends. When I went to see him in the hospital (coma and never woke) I’ve never seen someone more jaundice in my life. He was just this crazy deep golden color… I’ll never forget it.
It's possible she had something like a low-dose hydrocodone or oxycodone - like 5mg, & maybe took a LOT of those? They have 325mg of Tylenol in them, each (& don't some have 500? I think so) - & so, if you wanted to take like 20mg of hydrocodone, you're taking 1.3 grams of Tylenol. Say she's doing that 4 times in a single day - there you go, Tylenol overdose. (And maybe could have taken Tylenol on top of that without realizing it's in the pain meds.) And, obviously I don't know this, I have nothing specific to indicate that she's abusing any pain medication, but, that's a way someone could accidentally overdose on Tylenol, so it's possible.
So I went through addiction myself. I was pregnant. I voluntarily gave my children to. Today I set at 6 years/dad 7yrs. It took 3 years of fighting with zero relapses. They don’t just hand them back when your ready again lol not hownitbworks
I’m proud of you for doing the work it takes to get your kids back! Staying clean is a kickass accomplishment and I hope you’re proud of yourself everyday.
My mom had eleven children and nine of us was born at home except for the last two, they were born in the hospital and we all have birth certificates. The oldest is 81 and I'm 57 the last one born at home. No excuses for not having a birth certificate.
Yup my mom is from 15 kids. Small town in West Virginia. All 15 born at home! My mom is the 2nd to last born. And yes she has her birth certificate from a child
Was just thinking this! I would also hate realizing that the patient next to me was making videos and that medical info or conversations were posted online without permission.
Dude, I was in the hospital once and the woman next to me was on the phone and she was telling the person that she was not going to get her dialysis because she's tired of it, even though she's 4 months pregnant, and the doctors keep telling her to stop having kids because she could die. But she wasn't gonna get it anymore.
Agreed. I work in an ER and we have people who overdose on fentanyl and other dangerous substances that don’t get intubated and she took 2 extra Tylenols and had to be intubated?? 😏 doesn’t make sense
No birth certificate? Immediate red flag. That also means the baby did not have any follow up care after birth. You need to have a follow up appointment less than a week after the baby is born. Red flag. Unfortunately for her looks like she ran into a social worker that cared.
💯💯 Only reason not to call 911 & baby & mom be taken to the hospital is because they were scared they'd be in trouble because of drugs in the baby's system. & Not just weed, idk anywhere that will take a child just over marijuana THAT'S why there's no birth certificate I had my youngest at home (hospital error, they never should have sent me home) so I know how it should work. VERY easy to get a birth certificate, it just won't have the hospital listed as the birth place
She’s disgusting! Probably unpopular opinion, but I have such strong feelings for women who pop out babies they can’t take care of. Meanwhile there are amazing, responsible women desperate to have a child and can’t.
I honestly don't feel like this is the worst way to explain it in regards to the youngest kids. I mean, yes, we know it isn't like summer camp, but how do you explain it to the very young kids? Doesn't help that she is absolutely delusional.
Jesus if I had to give up my kid I’d be a hysterical mess. You’d have to sedate me. My little boy is my entire world. He’s the only thing that matters to me. I’d have trouble even spending a day without him. I had to spend a week in the ICU once and kids weren’t allowed to visit. I was a mess. When I finally got to a normal room I called my husband to bring him to me immediately. I couldn’t stop hugging him.
Right I only ever went to my BFFs wedding over night once I have never left my babies otherwise I couldn't ever imagine being away from them I sure as shit wouldn't be on TikTok!
Me too! My son is 8 and I've never been away from him other than when I'm at work and even then I'm only leaving him with his dad. My husband. I doend every minute I'm not at work with my chikd I can't imagine not being with my chikd it's mind boggling
My husband is in the medical field. They had a who was a mother in there for repeat drug overdose. CPS finally decided her kids needed to be removed and my husband said the whole ward could hear her howling like a wounded animal.
Same here! My kids are my life, I take my role as a mom very seriously. I can’t imagine the trauma these kids have gone through. It makes me feel sick.
These poor babies. I'm heart broken about my 5 year old starting kindergarten and having to say goodbye for a few hours, yet this cow is so nonchalant about her children being taken by CPS. As far as the statement of mom's being looked up to by their children despite their shortcomings outnumbering the positive. I did the same as a kid, I couldn't stand to hear negative comments about how my mother was wrong or her she value alcohol over being a mother. Now as an adult, I see how lousy she really was.
Btw... thanks for covering this Josh. I'm sharing to get more coverage about these exploiters. Love how proud you are of your lovely wife. Nurses are angels on earth!
My sister gave her daughter up to us voluntarily because she knew she was struggling with drugs and if she didn’t, they would have lifted her out of the home, she was 12 when it happened, she turns 18 next month and she’s still with me, she sees her mum anytime she wants and always has, but it’s on her terms, not her mums, she’s doing a lot better now and we all made the right choice
I’m so glad you were capable to take her in. When CPS got involved with me at 15 they told my dad the case plan and he said nah. He’s not doing it and I’m almost 18 anyway. I was a kid. My mother died years before from driving drunk and my father was also an alcoholic. He died six months after I went into care. They got me in case just in time. But before he died they tried to have my father pay child support because he wasn’t willing to sign over custody and wasn’t willing to do classes or anything. He wanted to still have a say in my life, so they wanted him to pay. If she isn’t signing over custody she’s either doing classes and rehab (whatever the case plan says) or she’s paying ALOT of child support or signing them over. Also he’s right, I loved my dad and was such a daddy’s girl even though he wasn’t a good dad. I bet y’all went through the same struggle. I’m so glad the mom chose a new life for herself, and all of you. Loving an addict isn’t easy.
@@moodymama4576 im sorry you lost your parents, that’s hard for a kid, and course you loved your parents, you always do, no matter what, like you will always love your kids, you may not love what they say or do, but always love them ❤️
You are both beautiful examples of being a mother 👏🏼 it takes a village and she is going to do great in life! Good job you two . We all know these kids deserve better so it's a good thing they are gone. Sometimes people need help But it's not supposed to look so easy! It's devastating when you know you're the only person in the world who has to make the best decision for another human being and it will affect them forever !! This thing is not a mother she is a story telling lying monster!
I cannot deal with people. Unless you have honestly been through DCF or CPS, please do not give your children up .I grew up in foster care of my whole life. It was horrible.
ah yes it’s so funny someone struggling with what appears to be addiction just lost her kids, nearly died and is losing her house, it’s so funny right? i don’t like this women but laughing at the horrible shit she’s going through makes you no better then her.
@@FaithMichelle420She knew this was coming and did nothing to try to stop it. She had to have her CHILD go in on that house with her and she failed to do any of the work it needed when they moved in. She gets no pity. She is an adult and if she’s got 12 kids, she better have the responsibility level to deal with all 12 of them, the house, etc. She begs online and absolutely made enough to at least patch that roof or do the lead abatement, there are even grants for those types of things which she said herself. Did she put any of the work in? No. She expects someone to swoop in and save her.
@ first of all i’m not talking about the kids i’m talking about people laughing at shit she’s going through even her mental health, and no one wants to talk about the baby daddies just the women.
@@FaithMichelle420and she has only 1 person to blame which is herself. I feel no remorse for a person like this, you’d expect all the ramifications to motivate even the slightest of self improvement especially her case where she’s actively online and essentially receives crowdfunding for every pity story thrown out. Yet you’ll find her latest post living life in Margaritaville! Her selfish cycle of ignoring all diligence and responsibility is what lead her in this position in the first place. Additionally her self admittance of one of her children being an experiment is all I needed to hear to see she is the enabler & abuser. This is typical sociopathic behaviour
24:14 you are so right. I was taken from my dad after my mom died as the drunk driver in a DD accident. He was an alcoholic and I deserved better but I was a daddy’s girl thru and thru. He died from alcohol related issues six months after I went into foster care. Fostercare got me just in time and saved my life. Doesn’t mean I loved my dad any less.
This is a sad situation. First a child giving birth tells me she comes from neglect. Her parents failed her and she went down a horrible path and brought innocent children into this mess. I pray for the kids they don't deserve this horror.
Exactly! This is a systemic issue in a lot of families. Generational trauma with no resolution. It's so sad and a huge problem in our very real world. Obvious deep neglect in her own childhood; pregnant at 14, lived at her aunt's house... She had no upbringing, she's not going to be a functional member of society she's been off the rails since 14. (I kinda feel like you're mocking her pain, tbh. That's neither kind nor helpful ..)
Listen being a teen mother isn’t an excuse for abusive and neglectful behavior. Plenty of teen parents are good and caring parents. It could point to neglect on her parents part but not always. When I was 14 I was sneaking out to see my boyfriend without my parents permission or knowledge and could have easily became a teen parent. I was being sneaky and breaking the rules, not being neglected.
I bet this is the real story: They come and arrest dad, she gets overwhelmed and wants to get a break from mom life, so she ODs thinking she can get some rest in a hospital while CPS takes care of her kids for a few weeks. Or CPS came shortly after dad was arrested and she ODed cause she didnt know what else to do to cover it up and seem as the victim
She is forever mentally 14. I think sometimes when we have babies that young it alters their brain or something. It’s like they never fully get away from that teenager mentality and attitude. I’m not saying all teen moms act this way but several I know personally and several I watch online are extremely childish.
She was probably heavily sedated and shouldn't have filmed any videos in this state. I think her later videos where she is upset and says CPS betrayed her are a way of damage control... she must have realized her kids were going to watch her talking about how giving them away was the best option and how it was gonna be fun for them. She also mentioned talking to one of her teen daughters on the phone.
@@PatriotafVeniseI’m guessing she’s referring to the fact that thismadmama gave up her kids and she’s irresponsible etc while OP is infertile so she’s angry And the second neck part of the comment was just in response to what DCP said
Same. I was lucky enough to have one child but have had secondary infertility for 10 years. What I would give to be able to give my child a sibling even though it's probably too late for them to have a good bond.
@@amandarae6262 aww it's never too late to bond my daughter's 11 and only now I'm considering trying but I'm pushing 33 so I'm very nervous to start trying because I'm scared of fertility issues , so it's very brave of you to keep at it 🫶💕
Sadly, a glioblastoma cannot be cured. Treatment (chemotherapy & or radiotherapy) can give extra time but the outcome isn’t a good one. So this poor child who, not only has brain cancer and faces a gruelling time of treatment, he is placed with people he doesn’t know. And then STILL exploits him on Tik Tok. What a wonderful human NOT!!!
Tylenol for a dental procedure . . . Most likely it is Tylenol CODEINE. It's the one painkiller that dental offices can Rx without having "extra" licensing etc. I'm an 18-year sober drug addict and I took 4 Tylenol codeine within 8 hours (Rx from major dental surgery). FTS. Hallucinations, no equilibrium, couldn't hold thoughts together, vertigo, feelings of impending doom. It was awful. She must have taken a shit ton for the hospital to admit and treat her like they did.
Shes delusional. In the US, once you involve the state, they call the shots. Everything gets looked at...medical records, regular medical and dental visits, if they are on meds do you fill them on time, they look in your fridge, they backround check every other adult in the home, they look at grades, talk to teachers. She has a very uphill battle ahead of her. And my kids Summer Camp cost $15,000 for 8 weeks which is middle of the road for US Sleep Away Camp for 8 weeks. Her kids will not be swimming in the lake 1x per day, pool 1x per day, boating lessons, campfires, participating in plays. They will be with strangers and that is a crap shoot at best.
I’ve been waiting for her to say something like this, so sad for these poor kids. And now one or more will be thrown into that mess, but will prob look like the Taj Mahal after leaving their shack….
Sorry but being an RN, she took more than a few extra “Tylenol” (brand name for acetaminophen)! What’s wrong with her neck is, she had her Central line taken out (which was visible earlier in the video.) And she’s talking about a liver transplant because many who overdose on Tylenol can need a liver transplant due to irreversible damage an Acetaminophen overdose can cause to the liver. She did have liver damage (thus the jaundice {yellow eyes & skin}). Luckily for her, her liver must be recovering (the liver is 1 organ that can regenerate) but everything You said here Josh, I agree with wholeheartedly. I keep adding more as this video progresses because she is so, so pathetically ignorant…..How does she think People who donate a kidney for an organ transplant; live perfectly healthy normal lives but I guess she’s “Special”???
Exactly, it’s all about if the person is a good person or not. Plenty of teen mothers(and fathers) are smart, caring good parents. No excuse for neglect and abuse.
When I purposely took too much, for reasons (I'm better now thankfully, this was years ago) it didn't even have any sort of effect. I probably took about 10. Ever since then I've never accidentally taken more than like two when I feel physical pain. Maybe the stuff she took was different or she fabricated it but it doesn't make sense at all that she took a few more than she should have and ended up nearly dying.
Do you know how much Tylenol you need to take to overdose at this level?? It’s no accident. Just like hospitals not only would not but it’s illegal to refuse health care in the United States. All hospital ERs MUST provide health care to everyone which is why we have criminals illegally crossing the border and going to our health care system. Then hospitals also have slush funds and programs for doctors to do pro bono work for kids who have cancer. This will NOT cover experimental or non regular forms of treatment for what he diagnosis is and you will probably rack up huge bills but I’m guessing she snd kids are on family health plus which is AMAZING INSURANCE and it’s free for low income. I know cuz my kids and I temporarily used this service after my marriage of 15 years ended. $0 copay for visits for prescriptions for hospital stays. Free dentist, free eye care including one free pair of glasses every year. (Frames under $100 or you get $100 credit towards frames) It’s literally a 10-15 minute phone call to get signed up.
She would have needed to down an entire bottle and even then it's not usually life-threatening (especially if you get yourself to a hospital). I think she did OD on Tylenol, but in the form of Percs or Norco.
I’ve had two home births…literally no reason to not have a birth certificate. Even without a witness there, it’s more difficult, but you can still get one. She’s negligent is the issue.
I was voluntarily in fostercare and my parents didn't get me back! I really hope she doesn't get her kids back from the little I know about this so called mom!
A mother’s job is first and foremost to protect and provide for her children, even at the cost of her own life if need be….for a mom to allow a child abuser to have access to her children is the most disgusting and evil thing ever! She’s a massive failure of a mother.
The profoundly disabled girl I am legal guardian of was originally with her mother, who had a live-in boyfriend with a… sketchy history with kids. The mom was told she couldn’t have her child and the boyfriend under the same roof- one had to go. She kept the boyfriend. Thank god though, because this girl has grown up to be living a wonderful life with excellent care in a supportive environment. FAR AWAY from her bio mom.
This is the most asinine story I've ever heard. Obviously all of her children were taken out of her Care at the same time. I think the overdose happened after the kids were taken away from her. I think the kids were taken out of her custody because of what her husband was charged with and then she tried to take her own life. Now she's trying to grift on the internet.
@@valtoton2982it's funny how husbands do this 😅😂😅 or act like the show we watched are ridiculous but can't help not watching them 😂 they get so invested, it's great!
Just a side note for anyone thinking of becoming a foster parent, there is an amazing creator on here who gives wonderful advice on the process and the legal stuff as well as being a good foster home. I believe the channel is called FosterParenting but not positive. It's a wonderful look inside what a good foster mother actually does. And you will NEVER see, hear or even know if she has children in her care at any time as she does not use them to make content!
To be fair, as foster parents are are not allowed to be posted on social media. I also never post about mine. To me not only is endangering the kids, but it’s a safety issue for myself!
I’m 31 and still traumatised from when my mum had my little brother whom has a heart condition and a speech impediment, went to a special school to help him. I threw chairs and had a meltdown because I couldn’t protect my little brother. The schools made sure I got to speak to him before and after recess and lunch until I seen him at the end of the day. I protected my brothers when we were younger and went through some terrible shit, I still do it today in my 30s. I also have 4 kids myself that I’m very protective off. I don’t want my kids to see or go through the shit I and my brothers did. They get to school on time, I’m sitting at the school 45 minutes early, waiting for them to finish. We live around the corner. No amount of talking to anyone will help me through my traumas, it’s just how it is.
I just looked and she’s no longer “verified”~she’s lost her little “blue checkmark” Pray for these kids!!! I’ve been keeping my eye on DD on all 3 platforms and so far she hasn’t posted about an additional child. Omgg~you KNOW she’d end up with one if not more of her kids!!!
I know someone with 6 kids, she had sets of 2 with the same dads(two were born while she was still married to her first husband because she ran off on her husband and abandoned her other kids) and she blasts all her personal business online, she acts proud of herself and all of her children are HORRIBLY bullied because of the actions of their mother who simply doesn't care. Her two oldest get it the worst. Its heartbreaking and she simply doesn't care. Anyone who says anything about her behavior is accused of "slut shaming" her
I just wanna say thank you so much for what you do. I also wish I had someone to protect me when I was younger. There’s nothing better than ending the cycle.
As a former foster parent this makes me sick!!!! You can’t believe how many bad foster homes we came across while doing foster care!! We meet so many kids that were being abused by foster parents!!! We would do respite care for some and I promise you we meet more bad hikes than good!! We were able to help several kids get out of bad homes and praying they went to better.. it was so hard on my mental health that I had to step back and take a break one day we might reopen our home but as of now my heart breaks!!! We had a family emergency and had to go out of state they would not let us take our foster kids out of state so unfortunately we had to use a respite home.. unfortunately it was triable.. we had no clue until we got back unfortunately there state worker dropped them off for us as we had to leave and when we got there to pick them up the house was out of control. My foster kids were not even there we waited almost an hour for them to get home and when they arrived they had 10 kids in one van none of my kids were in car seat my youngest was 2 and we found out they had just got back from Indiana, and we live in Kentucky. They were not allowed to cross the state line. My two year old had a hand print bruise on her leg!! So mush more I cried for weeks and promised I would never take them to respite again!! Two years later that state sent them home!! To a mom who abused them and basically lived in a crack house sadly the state failed them and I have nightmares over it!!! Why can’t people love and protect children 😢
Alot of times cps will give the parents the option to do it voluntarily. They plan to take them anyways but when the parents think they are making the choice it goes alot smoother. They where going to take the kids even if she didn't do it voluntarily.
Yup. This is what they always do before a removal. They always ask you to voluntarily surrender them to a family member to avoid a traumatic removal and foster care
I can't believe this woman got on line and told her whole life , what about those poor kids . This world today it blows my mind every single day . I hope and pray these kids are taken care of . Wake up lady for real !!!
And I DON’T believe for a second that she had her wisdom teeth pulled!!! Do her children without birth certificates/SSN’s & insurance see a pediatrician? Likely not… but she has major dental surgery… Sure🤷🏽♀️🤦🏻♀️
I love the Christmas countdown at the beginning of the vid. My husband is currently deployed and this year has been so incredibly hard, BUT he should (fingers crossed) be home for Christmas, so I’m counting down every day until then with you!
Ok so she says being in CPS system is like summer camp? Are you freaking kidding me? She acts like she just pawned a PS5 and can just come back when she pays the bill.
Sounds more like CPS said sign over these children or we will go before a judge to take them forcibly so she can technically say she did it voluntarily
Exactly. And they do this for every single removal. They always ask if you want to surrender them to family before they go for a removal. Every time. Even bad abuse this is what they do. It’s to try to keep them with family instead of foster care
Who's paying to house, feed, clothe, warm or cool and transport all of these children? Oh, that's right, us the taxpayers. I've struggled wuth homelessness myself and can be understanding but NOBODY should have this many children that are biologically theirs if they're NOT able or willing to financially support them yourselves.
Josh I love u, not in that way, but as an advocate for children as an OB/GYN myself who has a lot of friends who do foster care these type of people make me sick and you shining a light on them is amazing. I’m so glad you’re doing what you’re doing. I support you 150%.
I remember the first time I saw her on Facebook years ago doing an interview about color coding her kids. I thought she was so disgusting then, glad to see the shoe has finally dropped for her. She just gave me the most icky feeling.
@@rachaelgoldstein6134 she would chose one color for each kid. They had to wear that color, their room was that color, and all theirs toys and accessories were that color.
9:17 totally agree. Unfortunately our foster care system is so incredibly broken they most likely won’t end up in better homes and may end up in worse. I sincerely, with all my heart, hope that sweet baby gets the medical care he needs and they all get adopted into a wonderful home. They will all be (and have been) severely traumatized regardless. You hit it right on the head with everything you said.
After an overd0se your organs can end up permanently damaged and one can require a transplant to survive. That could be liver damage as seen in her eyes, kidney/s and even heart. Many people are woke up to be informed, that although you have been woke up there is nothing the drs can do and within days you'll be gone ( this was the outcome of a family friend) who had tried to delete themselves, sadly when they woke they were happy they survived only to receive that news.. He had to face his wife and children who were utterly devastated as was he. Deleting oneself is a permanent solution for a temporary problems.
I was asked at urgent care while getting rabies shots about getting a hepatitis test in like huh I think I got vaccinated... they told me hepatitis c and it's outta control I say like an std huh they say no light bulb duh drug addicts nah I definitely don't need one thank you tho just rabies vaccine please...
There's some serious BS going on with her story! She said at 29:10 that she took 2 extra strength tylenol every 4 hours with a couple extra here and there. That would suggest that she did NOT take them all at once but over an extended period of time and maybe it was 10 total for the duration. It is written on the bottle to not exceed 8 a day so she only had a couple more than she should have IF she is telling the truth on how many she took. She would not have had to "voluntarily" send her kids to foster care because of that. Child Services doesn't get involved because someone took a couple extra tylenol. I have known of a couple others who have swallowed the whole bottle at once and were given the charcoal stuff to make it all come back up at the hospital. If she does have kidney issues, that would explain her yellow look and maybe the tylenol irritated her condition. The spots on her neck look like track marks NOT IV marks! They don't poke a bunch of times on both sides just to get an IV in. Also, those marks are at various healing stages so clearly not done all at the same time! As someone who does have to take tylenol on a regular basis, you have to keep track of the amount you take. Yes, my Doctors are aware and suggest that I use tylenol. I have a whole heap of illnesses and problems that cause severe all over pains, headaches, migraines and spasms. Anyone who takes any type of pain relief needs to research and be super careful of the amount they're taking. They should definitely speak to their Doctor about it as well, especially if they have any chronic illnesses or allergies! I am allergic to ASA (asprin) and any medication that has it in it. It would be a bad day if I accidently took some.
Her dentist might have given her the medical grade medication, like the 500 mg. Mine did after my recent oral surgery. Plenty of warnings on the bottle, and it would make it easier to od.
@@KYAmy-HickExactly. Just bought Tylenol that was 650 mg because it was the one for arthritis. You can buy it at most stores, just like the other kinds.
Not trying to nitpick, just sharing. The charcoal isn’t to bring pills back up, the charcoal absorbs the pills if the patient can keep the charcoal in the stomach.
Yes a lot of Americans receive food stamps also known as SNAP. It's a federal program and she would be getting 1000s a month with that many kids. However, she would not be able to receive any on any kids that aren't "registered" with the government.
I think this woman is suffering from some developmental delays. She sounds very childlike and listening to her logic and reasoning for some things just doesn’t sound like the thought process of a mentally mature person. I think this woman has been taken advantage of throughout her life and doesn’t have the skills or mental capacity to be self sufficient. I feel terrible for these children
I’ve gone through my story 1000 times and I don’t have it in me to do it again, but my wife and I can’t have children both have medical issues we went through multiple rounds of IVF, nothing. The adoption system is absolutely ridiculous., foster care is ridiculous, We’ve gotten close to guardianship only to have it torn away because CPS says that a pedophile parent has more rights then they do…. My wife and I ever wanted to do would be parents and that will never happen. Yet somebody like this can pop it out every nine months and just imagine how much money she gets at tax time wow.. 😢
Yes voluntarily giving up your kids is a thing always has been. But you don’t get them back whenever you want!!! She will never get them back ever she has to prove she has a stable home and she can’t provide that.
Rumor has it Alicia does have one of the kids, and that's why she didn't go to California. And if its a true foster situation, she cant show her on the social media.
I have a hard time believing that. Her home was already too full for the last few placements. She does not have the adequate space and resources and they already made exceptions last time because they were kinship. And if she did get these kids through kinship, she would be posting them.
Josh I have a family member (who I do not claim) that has 3 innocent children. They live in a roach infested house, filled with marijuana and cigarette smoke, with no running water no working stove/oven and no working washing machine or dryer. Mom or Dad don’t work. CPS came to their house and seen that because they got EBT (Food stamps) and filled their fridge and cabinets with food, everything was okay and the conditions were livable. The only thing that they needed to fix on site was an extension cord that was in the living room accessible to the children. It’s so sad that they turn a blind eye to these kinds of things. Those poor children deserve so much better. Not even cops finding one of the kids walking along the side of the road while the parents were passed out made any difference. They still got to keep their kids in that house. The system has definitely failed them. I’m so glad to see where CPS steps in and actually does their job and helps the children involved but unfortunately it doesn’t happen often here… Florida based. 😢
Cps shouldnt turn blind eye to no no running water. Thats something they're supposed to check! Id call and make sure they know that part bc they may not have checked ...
Some women just love the newborn stage but can't handle a walking talking kid with their own personality. I heard one women who lost 8 kids and counting to CPS say that she likes being pregnant because that way she doesn't feel alone 🤯
Former drug addict here, blessed that I was smart enough to not have kids when I was addicted...I noticed they had to put the ports in her neck to hit her veins and not in her arms.......maybe an iv user 😢
Going to foster care would be like summer camp is actually a true statement for these poor kids because of all the hell they are going through at home! Anywhere is better
It's a process to get kids back out of the system. When my parents divorced my one brother went to live with my dad. My dad worked early in the morning n my brother was 14 n responsible to get up n walk to school but choose to skip many many days. The truancy officer stepped in along with cps n took my brother. It was only supposed to be 6 months that turned into 2.5 yrs. My mom n dad went thru hell getting him back. Luckily he went to a great home that was close & we were allowed visits with him. Not all kids get that lucky tho
I'm not familiar with where she lives exactly, but I've never heard of CPS taking a child for insurance reasons. There are programs that will automatically cover a child for this reason and allow the family time to get it handled. Children take precedent and they absolutely don't want to traumatize a child with an unnecessary removal over something that is basically financial. She lost her kids for something else, then tried to overdose, and came up with this con while in the hospital (you know those sympathy views).
I made a selfless decision not to have children, because I knew I wasn't cut out to be a parent. I love children because of my own childhood was challenging due to health complications 😢 Children should be gift not an assumption one has a right to bring a child into this world, when one isn't a quipped to provide a love, and a secure roof over their precious heads ❤
"Doctor talked me out of it." Why do I call BS because the more babies you have, the more it wears on your body and you actually become high risk. Plus, if her heart truly wanted to stop having kids, she would of found a doctor who would have tied her tubes.
Depending on where she lives and what kind of doc she saw I can believe a "good ol boy" old school doctor telling her it's a blessing and keep on letting nature happen.. I have seen doctors like this in the past unfortunately. That is why you get a second opinion though, she doesn't have an excuse. Also if she is aware of her ovulation timing... she knows not to be having unprotected intercourse. She seems like she has never had to take responsibility before.
That’s a load of shit! The doctor may have said no, they did this to my sister 10 years ago and said that they needed to speak to her husband and couldn’t do it without his permission! Another friend of mine was told no, cause she might change her mind! She said you come to my house and look after my kids, I won’t change my mind! Then fell pregnant with twins she was furious and then he tied her tubes 😂😂😂😂
@@kasie680Yeah, unfortunately, I have heard similar stories from other people before, including some from my own family. Sometimes, they’ll recommend getting your tubes tied after you’ve had 3 or 4 babies, but sometimes, they will also try to talk the woman out of doing it/flat out refuse to do it, depending on the age of the woman and/or how many kids she has because if it’s only 1 or 2, “she might want more”. I also knew of another doctor in my area who didn’t want to tie anyone’s tubes unless they were over a certain age (I think it was like 26 or 27).
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Thinking you can use CPS as an extended babysitting service is WILD…
WILD indeed , like WTH is seriously wrong with people ? Awe look she needs “a little understanding right now” oh and some CA donations
That one girl gave up her 5 kids to get her life together, and then got booked for murder.
@@heatherlindsey971wow who
When my parents were first married, my mother, a NICU nurse, had a patient that stayed in the NICU for 18 months. My mother fell in love with that baby and bought him toys, clothes, and books. The mother was a major druggie and had already had multiple children removed, she refused to put this baby up for adoption and it had to go into foster care instead. My mother wanted to adopt him and my parents were willing to become foster parents to take him in. CPS decided since the boy was Hispanic he should only go to a Hispanic foster home. The foster mother they sent him to ignored his care instructions and he was dead within 24 hours of leaving the hospital. It’s been 47 years and my mother still cry’s over that baby. You know the mother and idiotic CPS agent don’t remember him.
If I ever had cps contact or even if the school even contacted me about my sons well fair I would have been mortified!!! These people talk about cps involvement like it's a resource that your entitled too . No its bc you are a shitty parent . I watch these cps cases that stream from Texas courts and the resources these people get is insane . They get gas cards to SEE THEIR KIDS, housing, furniture,freaking furnishings, bedding , CARS FIXED AND PUT ON ROAD!! And this is all
While their kids are in foster care and they maybe make a visit once a month. They have scattered neg /pos drug tests or take
Their time to finish their safety care plan. They know exactly what to do just so they just make it to not loose your kid. It's fu($ing infuriated. This whole
Social media begging thing has to stop too it's just just fair and not right!
Thank you for saying abused kids still love their parents. So many abused kids love and miss their parents, and that's perfectly normal and okay for a child to feel that way. It doesn't mean the abuse wasn't real, or wasn't that bad.
One child I fostered absolutely hated his biological Mum because of the severity of his abuse. He was 5 years and 2 months old when he was removed with his five other siblings. His sister was a year older and had been adopted for about 6 months. He came to me at age 7 and at that time they were interviewed by the police for court. She refused to say anything in a police interview and she wanted to go back to her parents while he was the complete opposite and gave very detailed information on the abuse he suffered. It could of been because the mum liked girls and hated boys. He was also the most abused.
So very true. Good, bad, or indifferent. There is nothing more precious than a child and the pure, unadulterated love that they give.
I do not love my mother who gave me to the court system because she didn't want to take care of me but instead have her freedom, do drugs, drink, and hop from one pos man to another. My trauma stems from and is only within the time frame she had custody of me until 3 years old but just that short amount of time is all it took to screw my mind up for the rest of my life but because of that I am a better mother to my children. It's a terrible thing but I turned it into good because I had to.
Former foster child here: it is absolutely NOT like summer camp.
Maybe for her it’ll be a vacation but the kids will be traumatized.
Well judging by the conditions in that "home" they are already traumatized so any other please has a good chance of being an upgrade...you can hardly get lower than this unless there's sexual and physical abuse etc.
Awe my last name is Shadden which is a cousin of your name...love it. I'd love to be a foster parent as I never had kids at 45 but I'm a truck driver and I am not settled enough and don't have a partner 😞 I can't provide a "home" because I live in my truck.
Maybe one day I'll get a local job or something and a home. I'll try to make someone's life a bit better ❤❤❤
@@aqua6613veronica's husband is a sex offender
I bet the kids have been having the time of their lives to be honest 🤷🏼♀️ They are actually getting real food and not cold canned ravioli. They are in proper clothes, proper beds and most importantly, proper hygiene. Them being removed, as harsh as it sounds, has been the best thing that’s happened
@@604bcqtpie you’re operating under the assumption that the foster home is properly caring for them. Foster home does not automatically equal a safe and caring place.
I was a teen mom. I got pregnant with my oldest son when I was 15 and had him at 16. I completely 100% agree with not glorifying teen pregnancy!!! I wouldnt trade my son for anything in this world but if had a choice of having him in my 20s vs 16 I would take my 20s any day of the week! I was extremely lucky and had him with a really good guy, who was only 1 year older than me, but he comes from an amazing family and both of our families supported us and helpes us whenever they could. We ended up getting married after high school, went to college and ended up having 2 more sons. This is not the norm and our marriage has not come without A LOT of struggles.
That is an amazing story. I meet my husband in high school and we have been together for 27 years. Married for 20. Relationships alone are difficult and too add a kid… it’s a miracle but you are proof it have happened. I wish you and your family continued happiness.
Thank you for sharing! Self-aware parents return my hope. The fact that you realise you were lucky and not everyone that age would have support you did is actually a good thing. And that it would be easier in your 20s, because ofc it would. But things do happen so I'm glad it worked out. Wishing the best to you and your family.
Who the hell capitalizes on losing their kids to CPS? If that were me, I would be so embarrassed and humiliated that I for sure wouldn’t want random people on the internet knowing that my kids had to be removed from my care. Her entire story also doesn't add up at all and sounds like a huge fabricated lie. Person was arrested for SA and she's saying that she was charged with neglect, but her children were *voluntarily* removed from the home? No... CPS showed up, saw everything, and took those kids.
Omg.... yessss... im embarrassed listening to this. Really cringe she is just so non chalant about it all. How is she so open and don't care for the whole world to see this big mess. I'm not trying to judge but seriously she puts it out so you can see all the bad and sad. 😮😢
She didn’t take the time to get a birth certificate for her kid but she’s going to “start the process” of getting ALL her kids back from foster care?? Mmmkay good luck.
Do you know how hard it is to take time to get a birth certificate when you have to heal up and start working on the next pregnancy? 😂😂😂
Are there not laws around registering births in the US? Where I live you must register within 42 days of the child’s birth.
@@aliciamcgarvey2774 thanks, that’s very interesting. Not registering your child here would definitely get social services involved with your family. I have my doubts that these children were voluntarily surrendered to foster care.
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@@clamh84 Here I think it’s 10 days! But not sure if that varies state to state or what not..
“I’m a piece of shit mom, gave up my kids, cash app in my bio!”
What a waste of a human being.
*Oxygen thief.
Waste of skin
That first pregnancy was predatory… I’m pretty sure that messed her entire brain up
I'm confused. There were comments on her first tik tok saying he had brain cancer before. How did he get treatment for that but can't now? Why can't the older adult kids take care of the younger ones until she is out of the hospital. Lastly they would automatically do an DNA test to prove she is the mother. He story just doesn't make sense.
@@chrissyb7916exactly 💯
& For the record, my youngest was born at home (hospital error, they sent me home without even checking to see if my water had broke, & had her as soon as I got home, less than 15mins later, I almost had her in my sister's van, smh). But, It's simple, you call 911 & the baby & mom are taken to the hospital for a check over & a birth certificate is issues then. It just won't have the hospital as the place of birth. No DNA test needed. It's obvious if a woman has just gave birth, after birth/placenta ect... The ONLY reason I can think of that someone wouldn't take a baby born at home to the hospital is because they'd be in trouble for DRUGS in their baby's system.... & Not just weed. They can't take your baby just for marijuana, I know for a fact.
This lady should be ashamed of herself
If this woman can’t handle taking Tylenol at the proper dosage I can’t imagine her parenting twelve children. 😱
Her son had cancer you sound think she would understand the importance of following the instructions on medications not to mention being a parent to all the other kids. I'm always so careful about how I give my kids medications
I'm guessing it was probably intentional. You don't take that much by accident
@@rosesweetcharlottevery true. Obvious lie is obvious. No adult takes too much Tylenol by accident to the point of an OD that requires hospitalization. I could see a child making that mistake but even then like a very young child honestly.
You've heard of free-range chickens? That's how
Her neck is where her central line was.
ER nurse here- it takes waaaayyy more to cause the severity of her liver failure to cause that much of jaundice. We only see that is intentional overdoses or something else. There definitely waaaay more to the story
I agree. Pharmacy School grad here and there is far more to this story, as you mentioned. Couple things off the bat that scream out to me as to what the actual story may be...
I’ve got CVID so my organs throw tantrums on the regular. 2020 I spent a month in hospital with autoimmune hepatitis and the drs saying I might never go home. My LFTs were nuts. Yet I still looked healthier than her. The liver is a very hardy organ so I’m with you thoughts wise.
I lost a friend in February who had kidney and liver failure. Partly from a medication he was taking, then add on drinking, and he hid it from all friends. When I went to see him in the hospital (coma and never woke) I’ve never seen someone more jaundice in my life. He was just this crazy deep golden color… I’ll never forget it.
It's possible she had something like a low-dose hydrocodone or oxycodone - like 5mg, & maybe took a LOT of those? They have 325mg of Tylenol in them, each (& don't some have 500? I think so) - & so, if you wanted to take like 20mg of hydrocodone, you're taking 1.3 grams of Tylenol. Say she's doing that 4 times in a single day - there you go, Tylenol overdose. (And maybe could have taken Tylenol on top of that without realizing it's in the pain meds.) And, obviously I don't know this, I have nothing specific to indicate that she's abusing any pain medication, but, that's a way someone could accidentally overdose on Tylenol, so it's possible.
Idiot here, I've taken about 30 benadryl before, and thankfully, nothing happened. She definitely took more than 10 of something 😂😂
So I went through addiction myself. I was pregnant. I voluntarily gave my children to. Today I set at 6 years/dad 7yrs. It took 3 years of fighting with zero relapses. They don’t just hand them back when your ready again lol not hownitbworks
I’m proud of you for doing the work it takes to get your kids back! Staying clean is a kickass accomplishment and I hope you’re proud of yourself everyday.
My mom had eleven children and nine of us was born at home except for the last two, they were born in the hospital and we all have birth certificates. The oldest is 81 and I'm 57 the last one born at home. No excuses for not having a birth certificate.
True my grandparents were born at home and they had birth certificates. Many ppl are born at home. Thos is so sad for her kids
Yup my mom is from 15 kids. Small town in West Virginia. All 15 born at home! My mom is the 2nd to last born. And yes she has her birth certificate from a child
I had my son at home two years ago. Very easy to get the birth certificate. I agree.
My youngest was born at home very quickly. I went down to the registrar and got a cert.
True laziness on her part
Can you imagine being her hospital roommate hearing all this 😂
Was just thinking this! I would also hate realizing that the patient next to me was making videos and that medical info or conversations were posted online without permission.
I bet her roommate is nonstop rolling their eyes 🤣
Dude, I was in the hospital once and the woman next to me was on the phone and she was telling the person that she was not going to get her dialysis because she's tired of it, even though she's 4 months pregnant, and the doctors keep telling her to stop having kids because she could die. But she wasn't gonna get it anymore.
Crazy@@dontworryaboutit4255
As a nurse I’m calling bull crap. She didn’t not overdose on Tylenol and was unaware afterwards. Nope. Doesn’t work that way.
Same here girl
Agreed. I work in an ER and we have people who overdose on fentanyl and other dangerous substances that don’t get intubated and she took 2 extra Tylenols and had to be intubated?? 😏 doesn’t make sense
Tylenol? Yeah nope. Norco or percs cut with aceta? Yes.
Right. Especially since CPS is involved....
@@Msmiyagii Exactly
The fact that she admitted that one of her pregnancies was an expirament is INSANE.
Yea that’s some sociopath/narcissist behavior right there. Huge red flag 🚩
No birth certificate? Immediate red flag. That also means the baby did not have any follow up care after birth. You need to have a follow up appointment less than a week after the baby is born. Red flag. Unfortunately for her looks like she ran into a social worker that cared.
Great point!!!! That means that baby ain’t ever been to the doctor!!
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Only reason not to call 911 & baby & mom be taken to the hospital is because they were scared they'd be in trouble because of drugs in the baby's system. & Not just weed, idk anywhere that will take a child just over marijuana
THAT'S why there's no birth certificate
I had my youngest at home (hospital error, they never should have sent me home) so I know how it should work. VERY easy to get a birth certificate, it just won't have the hospital listed as the birth place
That was my thinking, medical neglect.
“It’s like summer camp”
I’m done y’all 💀
The delusion is strong with this woman.
She's a damn weirdo!!
She’s disgusting! Probably unpopular opinion, but I have such strong feelings for women who pop out babies they can’t take care of. Meanwhile there are amazing, responsible women desperate to have a child and can’t.
I honestly don't feel like this is the worst way to explain it in regards to the youngest kids. I mean, yes, we know it isn't like summer camp, but how do you explain it to the very young kids?
Doesn't help that she is absolutely delusional.
@@rosesweetcharlotte She didn't explain that to them. It's a delusion of hers that she thinks will make her followers feel better about it.
Lush better NOT end up with any of these kids as fosters.
Oh my god could you imagine?!
She's gonna try to take them honestly they shouldn't be allowed near Alicia
Ooooooh boy….. I wonder!!
Also it turns out that her eldest daughter was abused by Marty which is Veronica's 2nd ex husband
Where did she say she was getting this child ?
Jesus if I had to give up my kid I’d be a hysterical mess. You’d have to sedate me. My little boy is my entire world. He’s the only thing that matters to me. I’d have trouble even spending a day without him. I had to spend a week in the ICU once and kids weren’t allowed to visit. I was a mess. When I finally got to a normal room I called my husband to bring him to me immediately. I couldn’t stop hugging him.
Right I only ever went to my BFFs wedding over night once I have never left my babies otherwise I couldn't ever imagine being away from them I sure as shit wouldn't be on TikTok!
Me too! My son is 8 and I've never been away from him other than when I'm at work and even then I'm only leaving him with his dad. My husband. I doend every minute I'm not at work with my chikd I can't imagine not being with my chikd it's mind boggling
My husband is in the medical field. They had a who was a mother in there for repeat drug overdose. CPS finally decided her kids needed to be removed and my husband said the whole ward could hear her howling like a wounded animal.
Exactly. I love my boy more than anyone in this world. He is my everything. I would definitely need to be sedated as well.
Same here! My kids are my life, I take my role as a mom very seriously. I can’t imagine the trauma these kids have gone through. It makes me feel sick.
These poor babies. I'm heart broken about my 5 year old starting kindergarten and having to say goodbye for a few hours, yet this cow is so nonchalant about her children being taken by CPS.
As far as the statement of mom's being looked up to by their children despite their shortcomings outnumbering the positive. I did the same as a kid, I couldn't stand to hear negative comments about how my mother was wrong or her she value alcohol over being a mother. Now as an adult, I see how lousy she really was.
Btw... thanks for covering this Josh. I'm sharing to get more coverage about these exploiters.
Love how proud you are of your lovely wife. Nurses are angels on earth!
Her kids were taken. Period. She didnt voluntarily do anything but put herself in the hospital.
"It will be fun for them, kinda like camp" WHAT IN THE ACTUAL F!!!!
Girl that statement will be her downfall.
How delusional is this woman?!
How delusional is this woman?!
My jaw DROPPED to the floor.
This is how respite care was described to me 😆
My sister gave her daughter up to us voluntarily because she knew she was struggling with drugs and if she didn’t, they would have lifted her out of the home, she was 12 when it happened, she turns 18 next month and she’s still with me, she sees her mum anytime she wants and always has, but it’s on her terms, not her mums, she’s doing a lot better now and we all made the right choice
Your niece is very blessed to have an Aunt like you. ❤
I’m so glad you were capable to take her in. When CPS got involved with me at 15 they told my dad the case plan and he said nah. He’s not doing it and I’m almost 18 anyway. I was a kid. My mother died years before from driving drunk and my father was also an alcoholic. He died six months after I went into care. They got me in case just in time. But before he died they tried to have my father pay child support because he wasn’t willing to sign over custody and wasn’t willing to do classes or anything. He wanted to still have a say in my life, so they wanted him to pay. If she isn’t signing over custody she’s either doing classes and rehab (whatever the case plan says) or she’s paying ALOT of child support or signing them over. Also he’s right, I loved my dad and was such a daddy’s girl even though he wasn’t a good dad. I bet y’all went through the same struggle. I’m so glad the mom chose a new life for herself, and all of you. Loving an addict isn’t easy.
@@moodymama4576 im sorry you lost your parents, that’s hard for a kid, and course you loved your parents, you always do, no matter what, like you will always love your kids, you may not love what they say or do, but always love them ❤️
You are both beautiful examples of being a mother 👏🏼 it takes a village and she is going to do great in life! Good job you two .
We all know these kids deserve better so it's a good thing they are gone. Sometimes people need help But it's not supposed to look so easy! It's devastating when you know you're the only person in the world who has to make the best decision for another human being and it will affect them forever !!
This thing is not a mother she is a story telling lying monster!
If her mouth is moving she's lying
I cannot deal with people. Unless you have honestly been through DCF or CPS, please do not give your children up .I grew up in foster care of my whole life. It was horrible.
It wasn't like summer camp?
And yes, that was sarcasm.
LOL as of 5 hours ago on TikTok, she has announced that the city wants to condemn her house
ah yes it’s so funny someone struggling with what appears to be addiction just lost her kids, nearly died and is losing her house, it’s so funny right? i don’t like this women but laughing at the horrible shit she’s going through makes you no better then her.
@@FaithMichelle420She knew this was coming and did nothing to try to stop it. She had to have her CHILD go in on that house with her and she failed to do any of the work it needed when they moved in. She gets no pity. She is an adult and if she’s got 12 kids, she better have the responsibility level to deal with all 12 of them, the house, etc. She begs online and absolutely made enough to at least patch that roof or do the lead abatement, there are even grants for those types of things which she said herself. Did she put any of the work in? No. She expects someone to swoop in and save her.
@ first of all i’m not talking about the kids i’m talking about people laughing at shit she’s going through even her mental health, and no one wants to talk about the baby daddies just the women.
@@FaithMichelle420and she has only 1 person to blame which is herself. I feel no remorse for a person like this, you’d expect all the ramifications to motivate even the slightest of self improvement especially her case where she’s actively online and essentially receives crowdfunding for every pity story thrown out. Yet you’ll find her latest post living life in Margaritaville! Her selfish cycle of ignoring all diligence and responsibility is what lead her in this position in the first place. Additionally her self admittance of one of her children being an experiment is all I needed to hear to see she is the enabler & abuser. This is typical sociopathic behaviour
Fast forward a week: “Here’s what I fed my 22 kids today “ -Alicia 😅
😂😂😂😂😂
Stop it right now HAHAHA 😂
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The sad thing is even Alicia is a more fit parent than she is.
LOL
24:14 you are so right. I was taken from my dad after my mom died as the drunk driver in a DD accident. He was an alcoholic and I deserved better but I was a daddy’s girl thru and thru. He died from alcohol related issues six months after I went into foster care. Fostercare got me just in time and saved my life. Doesn’t mean I loved my dad any less.
❤❤I'm sorry you had to go through that.. lots of love sent to you. I hope you're so happy in life now
This is a sad situation. First a child giving birth tells me she comes from neglect. Her parents failed her and she went down a horrible path and brought innocent children into this mess. I pray for the kids they don't deserve this horror.
Exactly! This is a systemic issue in a lot of families. Generational trauma with no resolution. It's so sad and a huge problem in our very real world.
Obvious deep neglect in her own childhood; pregnant at 14, lived at her aunt's house... She had no upbringing, she's not going to be a functional member of society she's been off the rails since 14.
(I kinda feel like you're mocking her pain, tbh. That's neither kind nor helpful ..)
@@kellyshea7716 What? You agree with my comment but I'm mocking her pain?
@@kellyshea7716 She feels no pain to mock. She's clearly a delusional self obsessed narcissistic. Also the original comment never mocked her
Listen being a teen mother isn’t an excuse for abusive and neglectful behavior. Plenty of teen parents are good and caring parents. It could point to neglect on her parents part but not always. When I was 14 I was sneaking out to see my boyfriend without my parents permission or knowledge and could have easily became a teen parent. I was being sneaky and breaking the rules, not being neglected.
"Did you eat meth for breakfast" took me out lol😂
I bet this is the real story:
They come and arrest dad, she gets overwhelmed and wants to get a break from mom life, so she ODs thinking she can get some rest in a hospital while CPS takes care of her kids for a few weeks. Or CPS came shortly after dad was arrested and she ODed cause she didnt know what else to do to cover it up and seem as the victim
Her no big deal attitude makes me sick. Those poor kids, how traumatic.
She is forever mentally 14. I think sometimes when we have babies that young it alters their brain or something. It’s like they never fully get away from that teenager mentality and attitude. I’m not saying all teen moms act this way but several I know personally and several I watch online are extremely childish.
Yeah she’s gross 🤮 she’s deff on drugs. In recovering for 14 years just passed in Feb 4 2024. This is a total lie about Tylenol,
She was probably heavily sedated and shouldn't have filmed any videos in this state. I think her later videos where she is upset and says CPS betrayed her are a way of damage control... she must have realized her kids were going to watch her talking about how giving them away was the best option and how it was gonna be fun for them. She also mentioned talking to one of her teen daughters on the phone.
She seems to have a lot of sociopathic red flags.
As someone with fertility issues this makes me mad.
"Whats wrong the her neck?"
They removed her temporary central line
what do u mean
@@PatriotafVeniseI’m guessing she’s referring to the fact that thismadmama gave up her kids and she’s irresponsible etc while OP is infertile so she’s angry
And the second neck part of the comment was just in response to what DCP said
Same. The people who want children for the right reasons can't have them...
Same. I was lucky enough to have one child but have had secondary infertility for 10 years. What I would give to be able to give my child a sibling even though it's probably too late for them to have a good bond.
@@amandarae6262 aww it's never too late to bond my daughter's 11 and only now I'm considering trying but I'm pushing 33 so I'm very nervous to start trying because I'm scared of fertility issues , so it's very brave of you to keep at it 🫶💕
Haha she's acting like she's using CPS as a "babysitter"
Ugh-like CAMP!
Sadly, a glioblastoma cannot be cured. Treatment (chemotherapy & or radiotherapy) can give extra time but the outcome isn’t a good one. So this poor child who, not only has brain cancer and faces a gruelling time of treatment, he is placed with people he doesn’t know. And then STILL exploits him on Tik Tok. What a wonderful human NOT!!!
Tylenol for a dental procedure . . . Most likely it is Tylenol CODEINE. It's the one painkiller that dental offices can Rx without having "extra" licensing etc. I'm an 18-year sober drug addict and I took 4 Tylenol codeine within 8 hours (Rx from major dental surgery). FTS. Hallucinations, no equilibrium, couldn't hold thoughts together, vertigo, feelings of impending doom. It was awful. She must have taken a shit ton for the hospital to admit and treat her like they did.
Nope. Google it. Tylenol can be deadly...but not accidently. No way
Shes delusional. In the US, once you involve the state, they call the shots. Everything gets looked at...medical records, regular medical and dental visits, if they are on meds do you fill them on time, they look in your fridge, they backround check every other adult in the home, they look at grades, talk to teachers. She has a very uphill battle ahead of her. And my kids Summer Camp cost $15,000 for 8 weeks which is middle of the road for US Sleep Away Camp for 8 weeks. Her kids will not be swimming in the lake 1x per day, pool 1x per day, boating lessons, campfires, participating in plays. They will be with strangers and that is a crap shoot at best.
Dougherty Dozen “here’s what my 16 kids ate tuhday”
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Omg omg I was just thinking the same
I’ve been waiting for her to say something like this, so sad for these poor kids. And now one or more will be thrown into that mess, but will prob look like the Taj Mahal after leaving their shack….
Better check the Dougherty basement for any of these kids
They're in the garage sleeping behind the Mini Bites, stacks of White Claw and Velveeta!
@@valtoton2982 now that's summer camp!
Sorry but being an RN, she took more than a few extra “Tylenol” (brand name for acetaminophen)! What’s wrong with her neck is, she had her Central line taken out (which was visible earlier in the video.) And she’s talking about a liver transplant because many who overdose on Tylenol can need a liver transplant due to irreversible damage an Acetaminophen overdose can cause to the liver. She did have liver damage (thus the jaundice {yellow eyes & skin}). Luckily for her, her liver must be recovering (the liver is 1 organ that can regenerate) but everything You said here Josh, I agree with wholeheartedly. I keep adding more as this video progresses because she is so, so pathetically ignorant…..How does she think People who donate a kidney for an organ transplant; live perfectly healthy normal lives but I guess she’s “Special”???
My sister was in 7th grade, getting ready to be in 8th when she got pregnant her first time. She's an amazing mama to my nieces and nephews.
Exactly, it’s all about if the person is a good person or not. Plenty of teen mothers(and fathers) are smart, caring good parents. No excuse for neglect and abuse.
How does an almost 40 year old take too much Tylenol on accident? That makes no f****** sense!
When I purposely took too much, for reasons (I'm better now thankfully, this was years ago) it didn't even have any sort of effect. I probably took about 10. Ever since then I've never accidentally taken more than like two when I feel physical pain. Maybe the stuff she took was different or she fabricated it but it doesn't make sense at all that she took a few more than she should have and ended up nearly dying.
I also used it for this reason on purpose and I was so sick in hospital. It was dangerous. But I downed alot. It was no accident@@Astrocam88
Do you know how much Tylenol you need to take to overdose at this level?? It’s no accident. Just like hospitals not only would not but it’s illegal to refuse health care in the United States. All hospital ERs MUST provide health care to everyone which is why we have criminals illegally crossing the border and going to our health care system. Then hospitals also have slush funds and programs for doctors to do pro bono work for kids who have cancer. This will NOT cover experimental or non regular forms of treatment for what he diagnosis is and you will probably rack up huge bills but I’m guessing she snd kids are on family health plus which is AMAZING INSURANCE and it’s free for low income. I know cuz my kids and I temporarily used this service after my marriage of 15 years ended. $0 copay for visits for prescriptions for hospital stays. Free dentist, free eye care including one free pair of glasses every year. (Frames under $100 or you get $100 credit towards frames)
It’s literally a 10-15 minute phone call to get signed up.
She would have needed to down an entire bottle and even then it's not usually life-threatening (especially if you get yourself to a hospital). I think she did OD on Tylenol, but in the form of Percs or Norco.
I’ve had two home births…literally no reason to not have a birth certificate. Even without a witness there, it’s more difficult, but you can still get one. She’s negligent is the issue.
Yes i have had 3 you go in to the office and get b.c
Yep both my home birth kids have Birth Certs
I can almost guarantee the baby was born with drugs in its system which is why she had a home birth & didn’t get his birth certificate 😢
I was voluntarily in fostercare and my parents didn't get me back! I really hope she doesn't get her kids back from the little I know about this so called mom!
i’m sorry to hear that ❤ i hope things are better for you now
@@Jacqueline888 for me foster care was a blessing in the end even if things was rough in care from time to time.
A mother’s job is first and foremost to protect and provide for her children, even at the cost of her own life if need be….for a mom to allow a child abuser to have access to her children is the most disgusting and evil thing ever! She’s a massive failure of a mother.
The profoundly disabled girl I am legal guardian of was originally with her mother, who had a live-in boyfriend with a… sketchy history with kids. The mom was told she couldn’t have her child and the boyfriend under the same roof- one had to go. She kept the boyfriend. Thank god though, because this girl has grown up to be living a wonderful life with excellent care in a supportive environment. FAR AWAY from her bio mom.
This is the most asinine story I've ever heard. Obviously all of her children were taken out of her Care at the same time. I think the overdose happened after the kids were taken away from her.
I think the kids were taken out of her custody because of what her husband was charged with and then she tried to take her own life. Now she's trying to grift on the internet.
YESSSSS... I thought the same thing
I was thinking this exact thing! Her money train was gone so she tried to take her self out of the game!
Exactly what I thought too!!
Good Lord… y’all gonna gossip about someone who tries to su*cide themselves
I think you’re 100% on the right page w this one
i guess my cat isn’t in trouble for waking me up now, he must’ve known dad posted
My cat knows his voice and comes right over to watch 😂
How cute 🥰
Oh wow 😂 my husband does the same! lol
He pretends that he's not listening ... but 😂
6th sence
@@valtoton2982it's funny how husbands do this 😅😂😅 or act like the show we watched are ridiculous but can't help not watching them 😂 they get so invested, it's great!
Just a side note for anyone thinking of becoming a foster parent, there is an amazing creator on here who gives wonderful advice on the process and the legal stuff as well as being a good foster home. I believe the channel is called FosterParenting but not positive. It's a wonderful look inside what a good foster mother actually does. And you will NEVER see, hear or even know if she has children in her care at any time as she does not use them to make content!
To be fair, as foster parents are are not allowed to be posted on social media. I also never post about mine. To me not only is endangering the kids, but it’s a safety issue for myself!
Thank you for always putting kids ahead of all else. Your making a difference.
I’m 31 and still traumatised from when my mum had my little brother whom has a heart condition and a speech impediment, went to a special school to help him. I threw chairs and had a meltdown because I couldn’t protect my little brother. The schools made sure I got to speak to him before and after recess and lunch until I seen him at the end of the day. I protected my brothers when we were younger and went through some terrible shit, I still do it today in my 30s. I also have 4 kids myself that I’m very protective off. I don’t want my kids to see or go through the shit I and my brothers did. They get to school on time, I’m sitting at the school 45 minutes early, waiting for them to finish. We live around the corner.
No amount of talking to anyone will help me through my traumas, it’s just how it is.
My mom was addicted to prescription medication. She once overdosed on Tylenol. She took a lot and was already taking other meds. She’s lying.
True could be Percocet
Well technically Percocet has Tylenol in it 😂
@@Babytalk1963 exactly my point !
Losing my kids to CPS is my worst fricking nightmare. She's insane.
I just looked and she’s no longer “verified”~she’s lost her little “blue checkmark” Pray for these kids!!!
I’ve been keeping my eye on DD on all 3 platforms and so far she hasn’t posted about an additional child. Omgg~you KNOW she’d end up with one if not more of her kids!!!
OMG and he was arrested for CSA?? 🚫🚩
I know someone with 6 kids, she had sets of 2 with the same dads(two were born while she was still married to her first husband because she ran off on her husband and abandoned her other kids) and she blasts all her personal business online, she acts proud of herself and all of her children are HORRIBLY bullied because of the actions of their mother who simply doesn't care. Her two oldest get it the worst. Its heartbreaking and she simply doesn't care. Anyone who says anything about her behavior is accused of "slut shaming" her
Pharmacist here: if the Tylenol already did too much damage before the antidote is given, a liver transplant becomes necessary.
This is accurate I have a friend who took a bottle of Tylenol and now has a donor liver
Food stamps used to be paper bills that looked like Monopoly money. They switched to debit card several years ago.
Back in the 70s food stamps were actual stamps 👍
I just wanna say thank you so much for what you do. I also wish I had someone to protect me when I was younger. There’s nothing better than ending the cycle.
As a former foster parent this makes me sick!!!!
You can’t believe how many bad foster homes we came across while doing foster care!! We meet so many kids that were being abused by foster parents!!!
We would do respite care for some and I promise you we meet more bad hikes than good!! We were able to help several kids get out of bad homes and praying they went to better.. it was so hard on my mental health that I had to step back and take a break one day we might reopen our home but as of now my heart breaks!!!
We had a family emergency and had to go out of state they would not let us take our foster kids out of state so unfortunately we had to use a respite home.. unfortunately it was triable.. we had no clue until we got back unfortunately there state worker dropped them off for us as we had to leave and when we got there to pick them up the house was out of control. My foster kids were not even there we waited almost an hour for them to get home and when they arrived they had 10 kids in one van none of my kids were in car seat my youngest was 2 and we found out they had just got back from Indiana, and we live in Kentucky. They were not allowed to cross the state line. My two year old had a hand print bruise on her leg!! So mush more I cried for weeks and promised I would never take them to respite again!! Two years later that state sent them home!! To a mom who abused them and basically lived in a crack house sadly the state failed them and I have nightmares over it!!!
Why can’t people love and protect children 😢
Alot of times cps will give the parents the option to do it voluntarily. They plan to take them anyways but when the parents think they are making the choice it goes alot smoother. They where going to take the kids even if she didn't do it voluntarily.
Yup. This is what they always do before a removal. They always ask you to voluntarily surrender them to a family member to avoid a traumatic removal and foster care
I wonder if shes more upset that they took her kids OR if shes more upset over the benefits shes going to lose now that her kids are gone?
I can't believe this woman got on line and told her whole life , what about those poor kids . This world today it blows my mind every single day . I hope and pray these kids are taken care of . Wake up lady for real !!!
Oh how I freaking LOVE ❤ your humor and antics!!!! Thank you for making this 65 year old Grammie!
What??!! OMG?! I didn’t know they were extra strength?? 😂😂😂😂 I can’t….
And I DON’T believe for a second that she had her wisdom teeth pulled!!! Do her children without birth certificates/SSN’s & insurance see a pediatrician? Likely not… but she has major dental surgery… Sure🤷🏽♀️🤦🏻♀️
I love the Christmas countdown at the beginning of the vid. My husband is currently deployed and this year has been so incredibly hard, BUT he should (fingers crossed) be home for Christmas, so I’m counting down every day until then with you!
The really aggressively canadian "oh now you're mad eh?!?!" made me actually LOL
I’m Canadian as well and he brings these losers to the surface ,,,,just like her bff alusha D
She's the worst, and people don't talk about her enough.
Neglect is abuse. LOUDER FOR THE PEOPLE IN THE BACK
It's giving me serial killer vibes 😂 I absolutely love you and your energy!!! Thank you for all the laughs and the awareness❤
Ok so she says being in CPS system is like summer camp? Are you freaking kidding me? She acts like she just pawned a PS5 and can just come back when she pays the bill.
Happy Monday Josh, i am from England would lpve to see you cover the RADFORD 22 kids and counting
I was thinking the same thing
That's a crazy family too! watching their videos gives me a headache!!
I love them and it is chaos but they do an amazing job!
Sounds more like CPS said sign over these children or we will go before a judge to take them forcibly so she can technically say she did it voluntarily
Exactly. And they do this for every single removal. They always ask if you want to surrender them to family before they go for a removal. Every time. Even bad abuse this is what they do. It’s to try to keep them with family instead of foster care
Who's paying to house, feed, clothe, warm or cool and transport all of these children? Oh, that's right, us the taxpayers. I've struggled wuth homelessness myself and can be understanding but NOBODY should have this many children that are biologically theirs if they're NOT able or willing to financially support them yourselves.
I forgot that you were Canadian until you got confused about how food stamps work😂
Josh I love u, not in that way, but as an advocate for children as an OB/GYN myself who has a lot of friends who do foster care these type of people make me sick and you shining a light on them is amazing. I’m so glad you’re doing what you’re doing. I support you 150%.
I remember the first time I saw her on Facebook years ago doing an interview about color coding her kids. I thought she was so disgusting then, glad to see the shoe has finally dropped for her. She just gave me the most icky feeling.
What color coding your kid?
@@rachaelgoldstein6134 she would chose one color for each kid. They had to wear that color, their room was that color, and all theirs toys and accessories were that color.
@@bethanydorton4098 oh that kinda of weird, did they like it?
You don't have your kids anymore so you're not "mad mama" your just "mad"!
Ha! Exactly 💯
9:17 totally agree. Unfortunately our foster care system is so incredibly broken they most likely won’t end up in better homes and may end up in worse. I sincerely, with all my heart, hope that sweet baby gets the medical care he needs and they all get adopted into a wonderful home. They will all be (and have been) severely traumatized regardless. You hit it right on the head with everything you said.
After an overd0se your organs can end up permanently damaged and one can require a transplant to survive.
That could be liver damage as seen in her eyes, kidney/s and even heart. Many people are woke up to be informed, that although you have been woke up there is nothing the drs can do and within days you'll be gone ( this was the outcome of a family friend) who had tried to delete themselves, sadly when they woke they were happy they survived only to receive that news..
He had to face his wife and children who were utterly devastated as was he. Deleting oneself is a permanent solution for a temporary problems.
Her eyes scream hepatitis.
Tylenol can damage your liver in large doses
I was asked at urgent care while getting rabies shots about getting a hepatitis test in like huh I think I got vaccinated... they told me hepatitis c and it's outta control I say like an std huh they say no light bulb duh drug addicts nah I definitely don't need one thank you tho just rabies vaccine please...
There's some serious BS going on with her story! She said at 29:10 that she took 2 extra strength tylenol every 4 hours with a couple extra here and there. That would suggest that she did NOT take them all at once but over an extended period of time and maybe it was 10 total for the duration. It is written on the bottle to not exceed 8 a day so she only had a couple more than she should have IF she is telling the truth on how many she took. She would not have had to "voluntarily" send her kids to foster care because of that. Child Services doesn't get involved because someone took a couple extra tylenol. I have known of a couple others who have swallowed the whole bottle at once and were given the charcoal stuff to make it all come back up at the hospital. If she does have kidney issues, that would explain her yellow look and maybe the tylenol irritated her condition. The spots on her neck look like track marks NOT IV marks! They don't poke a bunch of times on both sides just to get an IV in. Also, those marks are at various healing stages so clearly not done all at the same time!
As someone who does have to take tylenol on a regular basis, you have to keep track of the amount you take. Yes, my Doctors are aware and suggest that I use tylenol. I have a whole heap of illnesses and problems that cause severe all over pains, headaches, migraines and spasms. Anyone who takes any type of pain relief needs to research and be super careful of the amount they're taking. They should definitely speak to their Doctor about it as well, especially if they have any chronic illnesses or allergies! I am allergic to ASA (asprin) and any medication that has it in it. It would be a bad day if I accidently took some.
Her dentist might have given her the medical grade medication, like the 500 mg. Mine did after my recent oral surgery. Plenty of warnings on the bottle, and it would make it easier to od.
@@VictoriouslyRandom500mg is over the counter listed as Extra Strength
@@KYAmy-HickExactly. Just bought Tylenol that was 650 mg because it was the one for arthritis. You can buy it at most stores, just like the other kinds.
Not trying to nitpick, just sharing. The charcoal isn’t to bring pills back up, the charcoal absorbs the pills if the patient can keep the charcoal in the stomach.
@@hiddenhand6973 Well it did make them vomit and bring the pills up.
Yes a lot of Americans receive food stamps also known as SNAP. It's a federal program and she would be getting 1000s a month with that many kids. However, she would not be able to receive any on any kids that aren't "registered" with the government.
I think this woman is suffering from some developmental delays. She sounds very childlike and listening to her logic and reasoning for some things just doesn’t sound like the thought process of a mentally mature person. I think this woman has been taken advantage of throughout her life and doesn’t have the skills or mental capacity to be self sufficient. I feel terrible for these children
I’ve gone through my story 1000 times and I don’t have it in me to do it again, but my wife and I can’t have children both have medical issues we went through multiple rounds of IVF, nothing. The adoption system is absolutely ridiculous., foster care is ridiculous, We’ve gotten close to guardianship only to have it torn away because CPS says that a pedophile parent has more rights then they do…. My wife and I ever wanted to do would be parents and that will never happen. Yet somebody like this can pop it out every nine months and just imagine how much money she gets at tax time wow.. 😢
Ty for putting the creepy music over it lady. Cause i was already thinking this is a horror show 😂 this is some vc Andrews stuff.
Yes voluntarily giving up your kids is a thing always has been. But you don’t get them back whenever you want!!! She will never get them back ever she has to prove she has a stable home and she can’t provide that.
They give kids back to parents every day without proving anything.
Rumor has it Alicia does have one of the kids, and that's why she didn't go to California. And if its a true foster situation, she cant show her on the social media.
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Thank God for that! She doesn't need to exploit this poor kid any more than he/she has been
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Not Alicia of all people
I have a hard time believing that. Her home was already too full for the last few placements. She does not have the adequate space and resources and they already made exceptions last time because they were kinship. And if she did get these kids through kinship, she would be posting them.
if she gave them up voluntarily, why would they need to go to court?
She's lying!
@@arlenabrown1815 I know, I'm just pointing out her the gaps in her logic.
Did she seriously say she thinks going into foster care will be FUN for her children???? 😮 What kind of mother actually thinks this way?!?!
One that knows her home is an absolute nightmare for her children
Josh I have a family member (who I do not claim) that has 3 innocent children. They live in a roach infested house, filled with marijuana and cigarette smoke, with no running water no working stove/oven and no working washing machine or dryer. Mom or Dad don’t work. CPS came to their house and seen that because they got EBT (Food stamps) and filled their fridge and cabinets with food, everything was okay and the conditions were livable. The only thing that they needed to fix on site was an extension cord that was in the living room accessible to the children. It’s so sad that they turn a blind eye to these kinds of things. Those poor children deserve so much better. Not even cops finding one of the kids walking along the side of the road while the parents were passed out made any difference. They still got to keep their kids in that house. The system has definitely failed them. I’m so glad to see where CPS steps in and actually does their job and helps the children involved but unfortunately it doesn’t happen often here… Florida based. 😢
That’s bc cps doesn’t care about kids at all smh , I personally know 2 children that were murdered by their “parent” bc cps failed them
Cps shouldnt turn blind eye to no no running water. Thats something they're supposed to check! Id call and make sure they know that part bc they may not have checked ...
Definitely republicans
They turn a blind eye because they don't have the resources
My step sister got pregnant in 8th grade. And she had 7 kids. And she too lost her kids to CPS.
Some women just love the newborn stage but can't handle a walking talking kid with their own personality. I heard one women who lost 8 kids and counting to CPS say that she likes being pregnant because that way she doesn't feel alone 🤯
@@annaf3915she needs to get a pet, not babies
@@estherross1not even bro
i requested you cover this!!! i’m gonna believe this whole video is just for me. thanks dad
Former drug addict here, blessed that I was smart enough to not have kids when I was addicted...I noticed they had to put the ports in her neck to hit her veins and not in her arms.......maybe an iv user 😢
Going to foster care would be like summer camp is actually a true statement for these poor kids because of all the hell they are going through at home! Anywhere is better
She seems more tore up about losing followers than her kids being gone
It's a process to get kids back out of the system. When my parents divorced my one brother went to live with my dad. My dad worked early in the morning n my brother was 14 n responsible to get up n walk to school but choose to skip many many days. The truancy officer stepped in along with cps n took my brother. It was only supposed to be 6 months that turned into 2.5 yrs. My mom n dad went thru hell getting him back. Luckily he went to a great home that was close & we were allowed visits with him. Not all kids get that lucky tho
I'm not familiar with where she lives exactly, but I've never heard of CPS taking a child for insurance reasons. There are programs that will automatically cover a child for this reason and allow the family time to get it handled. Children take precedent and they absolutely don't want to traumatize a child with an unnecessary removal over something that is basically financial. She lost her kids for something else, then tried to overdose, and came up with this con while in the hospital (you know those sympathy views).
CPS takes kids for no reason but leaves the ones who are abused in the homes, but in this case they were taken, thankfully
He was covered and they gave her time to get it handled. They gave her FOUR YEARS to get it handled actually.
@@taylorm1997🎯🎯🎯
I made a selfless decision not to have children, because I knew I wasn't cut out to be a parent. I love children because of my own childhood was challenging due to health complications 😢
Children should be gift not an assumption one has a right to bring a child
into this world, when one isn't a quipped to provide a love, and a secure roof over their precious heads ❤
Not her talking about CPS like it’s a babysitting service. Smh.
"Doctor talked me out of it." Why do I call BS because the more babies you have, the more it wears on your body and you actually become high risk. Plus, if her heart truly wanted to stop having kids, she would of found a doctor who would have tied her tubes.
Exactly!! Considering the fact that she had her kids so close together and been pregnant since she was 14! Smh
Depending on where she lives and what kind of doc she saw I can believe a "good ol boy" old school doctor telling her it's a blessing and keep on letting nature happen.. I have seen doctors like this in the past unfortunately. That is why you get a second opinion though, she doesn't have an excuse. Also if she is aware of her ovulation timing... she knows not to be having unprotected intercourse. She seems like she has never had to take responsibility before.
That’s a load of shit! The doctor may have said no, they did this to my sister 10 years ago and said that they needed to speak to her husband and couldn’t do it without his permission!
Another friend of mine was told no, cause she might change her mind! She said you come to my house and look after my kids, I won’t change my mind! Then fell pregnant with twins she was furious and then he tied her tubes 😂😂😂😂
She lost her mind when she found out she needed a hysterectomy because she didn't think she was done having kids. Insanity.
@@kasie680Yeah, unfortunately, I have heard similar stories from other people before, including some from my own family. Sometimes, they’ll recommend getting your tubes tied after you’ve had 3 or 4 babies, but sometimes, they will also try to talk the woman out of doing it/flat out refuse to do it, depending on the age of the woman and/or how many kids she has because if it’s only 1 or 2, “she might want more”. I also knew of another doctor in my area who didn’t want to tie anyone’s tubes unless they were over a certain age (I think it was like 26 or 27).