3 tips that will help you deal with a disrespectful inmate.
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- Опубликовано: 29 сен 2024
- 3 tips that will help you deal with a disrespectful inmate.
Tonight on Tier Talk, Anthony Gangi and Connie Alleyne discuss three tips that will help staff deal with disrespectful inmate.
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Let inmates disrespect you when comes to their visits and rec time also chow. Just remember these little things when a inmate want extra time his or her visit or want an extra time in the shower at recreation. Finally, when passing out food trays during lockdown when you have extra food. Just remember what you said to me the other day. No I will not give anything other what you supposed to have nothing more nothing less. Go home treat yourself to a steak dinner.
Welll Said Paul. The keyword is always no
I got called the "N" word the other night by an inmate. It was very disrespectful and loud. It was heard all over our small facility.
It happens. But how you react will stop that from happening again.
Thats why they are in there. They yell it from a large group. An inmate yelled from a group that I was a B@tch. I asked all of them how would they feel if someone spoke to their mother like that. I never get upset. Maintain professionalism. The inmates state themselves that if you get a DR from her you earned it and she will cuff you with professionalism and with a smile (with a zero cocky attitude). Our job is to lead. I never show my bad mood. Don't give them the ammo.
@@conservativejew3229 spot on sir.
@@TierTalk i learned from the best.... YOU.
I believe I would look at a inmate as if they're a child going through puberty but I'm getting paid the big bucks to deal with them.😅
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Hi
These tips also apply to restaurants and other businesses
That’s good to know. I love when what we express has higher level application. Thank you for being so open-minded to see that.
Every time I listen to your videos you reiterate that fact as to why I love my job!
That is awesome. Thank you for that
Remember inmates are in prison for a reason . . . because they can't control themselves.
I agree Monica. And staff need to always make sure they can control themselves in a world so unpredictable
Don't let it get to you 💕 they only want you to have a bad day!! Always stay positive!!
Ps talk about be positive I was mad at my hubby not getting the book for me little I know, he was waiting to give it to me on my birthday!! I have no patience Lol 😂 Typical Virgo I can’t wait to read it
Dear Mr.Gangi, I hope you and your family are enjoying the new house 🏠
Thank you sir. I hope you are doing well
Very interesting video and thank you for the tips
Thank you Deon
I read the Carnegie book years ago. Loved it.
It’s a great read
the hardest thing i had to learn was to not take these things personally. Every now and again you have to bow out of a situation. Happens to the best of us
It does. So true
@@TierTalk I want to say thak you for what you do. You and your guests give great advice and to all the other CO's I just want to say, listen to this advice, be yourselves, but most of all realize the job you do is without a doubt one of the toughest in the country and take pride in that no matter what anyone else says. You are my brothers and sisters on the thin grey line.
Need examples
Have you seen this one. ruclips.net/video/5IQ_FraNdPc/видео.html
That's one of the most difficult things that I deal with in my work.
I've had inmates call me names that I wouldn't even think about saying to another human being.
Sometimes when I go home I ruminate hours about what I should have said to the inmate. I maintain my professionalism and proceed to discipline them. When an inmate is disrespectful he is violating a rule disrupting the environment.
It happens every 2 or 3 weeks which bothers me.
Remember, this is not about a win / loss. This is more about building respect. The advice in the video can help with that.
Treat prison inmates as you would patients in a mental hospital . . . they are both in a prison or a locked ward because they can't control themselves.
So true. Spot on Monica
Your disgusting. Inmates are HUMANS. Just like me, just like YOU. I for one, have never been convicted of a crime and have a clean record. But I don’t think I’m better then people who have.
It makes me sick that people who choose a profession in corrections aren’t doing so to try and make a difference and because they want to HELP BE APART OF THE PROCESS OF REHABILITATING PEOPLE
Very informative. Thank you very much
Thank you
Love all your videos. I am applying for corrections and am learning a ton a new stuff. much appreciated
Awesome. Adam. Thank you. That made my day. Good luck. You got this.
Yes great book Who moved my cheese....I loved it.
Now I have to read it.
I just started working units on my own thid past Friday,on my first day I had an inmate try to make fun of me saying "I dident know they hired 14yos here" he's right I'm 18 and do look like I'm 14 lol but he dident make the statement in a joking manner he was saying it to try to insult me so I said "No,im 15 and going home tonight,you?" Then his "homeboys" all laughed and he felt dumb. Might not of been the best way for me to react since I don't want to be in a fit for tat situation but it felt right in the moment. I just wanted to show that I don't care about their insults.
That’s the key..don’t let it get to you…I think you handled it great…you remained professional and got a shot right back …well done…
You're lucky his homeboys didnt jump your dumb young ass. U r a professional ACT LIKE ONE!!!!!
Great video! I loved those tips. Thank you Mr Anthony and Ms Connie🙂
Thank you for watching Cecilia.
@@TierTalk You bet🙂👋🏻
These are excellent tips for teachers, too!
Awesome. I look forward to your comments. You add great value to what we provide at a higher level. …thank you
I was called a bed bug by an inmate
Never heard that one before. LOL
@@TierTalk All I said was good night don't let the bed bugs bite, the inmate replied "the bed bug is behind the desk" 🤣