This girl being so excited about moths makes me want to start a new special interest. I miss going to the insect house in our park. After lockdown threw off all routines and them preparing for the big flower show event next year, the park was closed for so long, I dont know what to expect when I go there again.
I want her to tell me about Madagascan Sunset Moths. I've never been a huge fan of moths, but those are gorgeous and have been my favorite moth since ACNH released.
The one where she was talking about death was so true. I hate change, and my Dad passed away one year ago in May. I couldn't bring myself to cry, I was just devasted. But the thing I would lie awake wishing every night was that he could've lived because everything changed after that.
My second grandpa died when I was like 10 and I had no idea how to feel. I wasn't really sad until like 2 weeks later when I started to notice how stuff was changing bc of it and ended up spending a ton of time under my bed crying
@@justinnovator7718 I’m sorry you went through that, that’s awful. I totally get where you’re coming from, the same thing kinda happened with my grandma and father. People who have never lost a family member don’t realize how big of a change it makes in your life >:(
3:15 so I strongly believe that I'm autistic and am looking into it with my therapist next week, and this one actually helped me a lot. When my granddad died, I wasn't sad or anything otherwise. I didn't grieve one bit, and I thought I was mean and broken. The thing that did make me sad was how it affected my family. Then again, my grandad was not a nice person so I always passed it off as that. Seriously, my life is beginning to make sense now.
Yea my cousin died and when i told my friends how he died i laughed, and obviously they thought i was crazy, all i was trying to show was that i was fine. and when my favorite doggy in the world died, i watched my suster scream and cry and the rest of my family get really upset, while i just went back to doing whatever i was doing, later that night i cried partially cause i missed the dog but mostly because i felt broken for not haveing a reaction like them
@@ksisisoaoakalaowpwo768 considering there was no sketching beforehand, it's very impressive imho. when he heard the prompts, he instantly formed a clear picture in his head and was able to reproduce it on paper swiftly. line art can be really tricky to get right and he just, bam, first try, no hesitation. the drawings are unique and clearly showcase his thinking style. i think that's pretty awesome.
@acethepacifist1041 It stands for Applied Behavior Analysis. According to this creator, it is not dissimilar to dog training and does not help the child learn how to self regulate or deal with their autism. Furthermore, it basically only trains obedience and puts the children in great discomfort. ruclips.net/video/8MndJ1PJnsk/видео.htmlsi=AaGm_5JhmvSl4F9M
@@acethepacifist1041it's a kind of torture disguised as "therapy" for autistic people (I think especially kids but don't trust me on that). It's supposed to "help get rid" of autistic traits, or even "cure" them, but it's fucking sick and awful and horrible and no one should ever go through that
@@acethepacifist1041I don’t know much about ABA so I’m probably not the best person to explain. But I believe ABA is a type of autism behavioural therapy, and their methods from what I’ve seen are quite poor and often not very autistic friendly. Some videos I’ve seen of it, it looks way too much like dog training. Its gross. and boundaries of the autistic person are often ignored, for example in some ABA there is a “reward” system for doing something right, and their reward can be: loudly cheering, or touching, or shoving a treat down the kids’ throat-doesn’t matter if the autistic person does not like this as they will, quote: “learn to like it,” according to ABA. Yuck! My knowledge is only based off a few videos I’ve seen though.
How are there no comments on this video? I adore it, very informative and puts you into the different perspectives of nerodivergent folk. I have ADHD and undiagnosed autism, these types of videos helped me discover that I wasn't alone in this.
I like these too and agree 💯 . These and other autism RUclipsrs have made such a huge difference for me. I still almost cry sometimes because finally I know why I was so different all my life. I wish I would have known sooner. It's good stuff these TikTokers make me smile 💗
I was shocked at how relateable that grief one was. I have similar experiences with grief as well. Even when my fiance had to deal with the death of a yard cat at his work I didn't feel anything for the cat and was only focused on comforting my fiance at the time. I did get upset later, when I was alone cause I realized I wouldn't get to interact with the cat again and that I had actually held her for the last time earlier that day. (I was visiting his workplace)
From an autistic person: no matter if someone is verbal, non verbal, whether you think they’re “all there” or not, please don’t talk about us like we aren’t in the room. It’s extremely weird and awkward for us. Autistic people are way more in the moment than you may think & are completely aware of our surroundings. Even more than you are. Just because he didn’t know what a leash was doesn’t mean he can’t hear or understand what his parents are saying about him. Even though they weren’t particularly rude or demeaning, it felt a bit like they were infantilizing him.
Lol the inflation one is giving me vibes of my existential crisis when my HS government explained how currency only has value because we all collectively believe it does. Then I decided to major in anthropology in college realized everything is like that.
The moth woman is so very highly relatable!! I react exactly like that when I get to open a package I ordered and I'll love. I also very much understand what she's talking about when it comes to death and it sounds funny because to me that's exactly what everyone is sad about when they lose someone. She's not weird at all. She just words her sadness way more accurate and directed than a lot of people. Not sad that person is dead, but sad because of everything that will change now they are dead. So to the point!!
I love the bug girl does she have a channel. One of my most memorable experiences as a kid is that I used to get about 4 to 6 monarch caterpillars and feed them and they made their pretty chrysalis til they hatched out & they'd dry on my hand & fly awaaaaay...
I think about that a lot. Parent(s) that know their kid is never going to be able to live on their own. Plus, even if a will or whatever is left & money allotted for care & etc. if there's no sib or at least not a good & caring one, that plan goes to sh*t bc people take advantage or sue or something.
I think I might have autism (I've already been diagnosed with ADHD, generalized anxiety disorder and depression) but my psychologist said I can't be autistic because, and I quote 'you don't have a monotone voice or face and autistic people can't feel anything and I don't like that diagnosis because it has been made broader over the past few years' . I have like nearly every other symptom and I do talk in a monotone voice a lot when I talk to people I'm comfortable with, but now my mother won't take me seriously anymore.
Your psychologist sounds like they are full of 💩, and I doubt they know the first thing about Autism. Autistic people (I'm Autistic) feel everything, and sometimes we feel emotions more intensely than neurotypical people. A lot of us just have a hard time identifying our emotions. Self diagnosis is valid, so don't let anyone try to make you feel like you aren't.
(5:43) Made me realize I do the exact same thing. I was recently gifted an axolotl plushie and started info-dumping about them lmao 😭 The one about grief made some things make sense as well. The death itself isn't the upsetting part, it's the change and not being able to see them anymore. Like, when a cat of mine passed away years ago, I was too shocked to really be sad. It hit me weeks later when not being able to see her, and pet her anymore got to me more than her death.
Loss hits me hard but it’s true it’s not the death itself. They are just gone, they just don’t exist anymore. What hits me is the impact they had on everyone and how they won’t anymore. That you will not see or hear their voice again, see them doing anything etc.
Next time if there's a tiktok that has sounds of eating or drinking can you put a warning for it? Sounds of people eating and drinking really bother me to the point where I have to cover my ears or walk away. So Next time could you please put a warning about it so I could skip that tiktok? I'm sure at least a few other people would agree with me. The first tiktok really bothered me because of the sound of him drinking (I have autism and adhd, I'm putting this here for context)
That guy around 2 mins has a mansion to himself, here in the UK you'll be living in something the size of his wardrobe. I love the drawings at the end, he does things similar to me, what I want to draw just appears in my mind and I draw it.
At around 3:12 i also show my emotions differently, i told my friends that one of my cousins died and they asked how and i said s*****e, because that is true, and they were all sighlent and i laughed, I didn’t know why i laughed i miss him alot and they were looking at me horrified that i laughed and i was trying to explain whg but I couldn’t so i feel really guilty, but I didn’t feel like that was the wring response i was aimply trying to ahow that i was okay and they shouldnt be affected by this revelation
1:40 I so want her contact and give her Jacque Fresco interview videos. She'll love him, as I had. Oh the jealously I would have of seeing her face light up over realizing what resource-based economy is for the first time... that eureka moment is chocolate yummy cake times 1000. I absolutely understand what her rank is all about. Jacque Fresco thought the monetary-market system is a BS idea after WW2 and believes that we can use modern day science and technology to fully automate our society and live a resource based economy. ruclips.net/video/PN6puH9DYnQ/видео.html&ab_channel=TysonEberly A link for those who want to know more about Jacque Fresco. I think his obsession would've put him beside us all at a spectrum.
"just don't let it inflate" we used to do that. It was tied to gold values and didn't have inflation the way modern money does. There are some other problems with that though.
This girl being so excited about moths makes me want to start a new special interest. I miss going to the insect house in our park. After lockdown threw off all routines and them preparing for the big flower show event next year, the park was closed for so long, I dont know what to expect when I go there again.
I was soooo excited for her! And also a bit jealous because of the gorgeous White Witch moth 😍
Those moths were so pretty!
Yes, love the moths.
I love insects, I collect insects and I like to just admire them outside, I especially like to watch bees
I want her to tell me about Madagascan Sunset Moths. I've never been a huge fan of moths, but those are gorgeous and have been my favorite moth since ACNH released.
The girl opening her package made me so happy! It reminded me of my friend, whos special interest is also insects.
The one where she was talking about death was so true. I hate change, and my Dad passed away one year ago in May. I couldn't bring myself to cry, I was just devasted. But the thing I would lie awake wishing every night was that he could've lived because everything changed after that.
I'm sorry about your loss. I was and still in the same stance since my mom died when I was 13.
My second grandpa died when I was like 10 and I had no idea how to feel. I wasn't really sad until like 2 weeks later when I started to notice how stuff was changing bc of it and ended up spending a ton of time under my bed crying
@@justinnovator7718 I’m sorry you went through that, that’s awful. I totally get where you’re coming from, the same thing kinda happened with my grandma and father. People who have never lost a family member don’t realize how big of a change it makes in your life >:(
Yeah me too! But I'm not neurodivergent.?..... I'm pretty sure
@@MrSirBoyoDude even if you’re not, still a valid way to feel :)
3:15 so I strongly believe that I'm autistic and am looking into it with my therapist next week, and this one actually helped me a lot. When my granddad died, I wasn't sad or anything otherwise. I didn't grieve one bit, and I thought I was mean and broken. The thing that did make me sad was how it affected my family. Then again, my grandad was not a nice person so I always passed it off as that. Seriously, my life is beginning to make sense now.
I mean my dad isn’t autistic yet he didn’t cry or get upset during his mom and dads funeral but not everyone reacts the same way
Me too. Anytime a loved one passes I don't cry unless I see how upset it makes everyone else.
Yea my cousin died and when i told my friends how he died i laughed, and obviously they thought i was crazy, all i was trying to show was that i was fine.
and when my favorite doggy in the world died, i watched my suster scream and cry and the rest of my family get really upset, while i just went back to doing whatever i was doing, later that night i cried partially cause i missed the dog but mostly because i felt broken for not haveing a reaction like them
The last dude should be a children's book illustrator, HE'S AMAZING!
And soundoftheforest is as iconic as usual
why is nobody talking about the last guy??? that is TALENT, his strokes are so quick and decisive and his style is so cute!
talent is a push, the drawings are okay
@ksisisoaoakalaowpwo768 or you could NOT be unnecessarily negative, and just let the original commenter appreciate art
@@ksisisoaoakalaowpwo768 considering there was no sketching beforehand, it's very impressive imho. when he heard the prompts, he instantly formed a clear picture in his head and was able to reproduce it on paper swiftly. line art can be really tricky to get right and he just, bam, first try, no hesitation.
the drawings are unique and clearly showcase his thinking style. i think that's pretty awesome.
2:21…. Did they say YEARS OF ABA????! My heart brakes for this dude. No one should be in ABA. Ever.
same here dude, I feel like that should *not* be a thing
hey i’m sorry but can you explain what ABA is to me? i’ve seen the term but it’s never been explained to me
@acethepacifist1041 It stands for Applied Behavior Analysis. According to this creator, it is not dissimilar to dog training and does not help the child learn how to self regulate or deal with their autism. Furthermore, it basically only trains obedience and puts the children in great discomfort.
ruclips.net/video/8MndJ1PJnsk/видео.htmlsi=AaGm_5JhmvSl4F9M
@@acethepacifist1041it's a kind of torture disguised as "therapy" for autistic people (I think especially kids but don't trust me on that). It's supposed to "help get rid" of autistic traits, or even "cure" them, but it's fucking sick and awful and horrible and no one should ever go through that
@@acethepacifist1041I don’t know much about ABA so I’m probably not the best person to explain. But I believe ABA is a type of autism behavioural therapy, and their methods from what I’ve seen are quite poor and often not very autistic friendly. Some videos I’ve seen of it, it looks way too much like dog training. Its gross.
and boundaries of the autistic person are often ignored, for example in some ABA there is a “reward” system for doing something right, and their reward can be: loudly cheering, or touching, or shoving a treat down the kids’ throat-doesn’t matter if the autistic person does not like this as they will, quote: “learn to like it,” according to ABA. Yuck!
My knowledge is only based off a few videos I’ve seen though.
How are there no comments on this video? I adore it, very informative and puts you into the different perspectives of nerodivergent folk. I have ADHD and undiagnosed autism, these types of videos helped me discover that I wasn't alone in this.
I like these too and agree 💯 .
These and other autism RUclipsrs have made such a huge difference for me. I still almost cry sometimes because finally I know why I was so different all my life. I wish I would have known sooner. It's good stuff these TikTokers make me smile 💗
Undiagnosed autism? So you just guessed you have it?
I have undiagnosed Autism as well. I want to tell my mom but I think she will dismiss all of the signs.
I was shocked at how relateable that grief one was. I have similar experiences with grief as well. Even when my fiance had to deal with the death of a yard cat at his work I didn't feel anything for the cat and was only focused on comforting my fiance at the time. I did get upset later, when I was alone cause I realized I wouldn't get to interact with the cat again and that I had actually held her for the last time earlier that day. (I was visiting his workplace)
Just realized yesterday that when I have sleepovers with my friends and when they arrive I start jumping and running around that I’m happy stimming
From an autistic person: no matter if someone is verbal, non verbal, whether you think they’re “all there” or not, please don’t talk about us like we aren’t in the room. It’s extremely weird and awkward for us. Autistic people are way more in the moment than you may think & are completely aware of our surroundings. Even more than you are. Just because he didn’t know what a leash was doesn’t mean he can’t hear or understand what his parents are saying about him. Even though they weren’t particularly rude or demeaning, it felt a bit like they were infantilizing him.
Lol the inflation one is giving me vibes of my existential crisis when my HS government explained how currency only has value because we all collectively believe it does. Then I decided to major in anthropology in college realized everything is like that.
My cousin’s dog is named Izzy. She is definitely the best love that crazy doggo
The moth woman is so very highly relatable!! I react exactly like that when I get to open a package I ordered and I'll love. I also very much understand what she's talking about when it comes to death and it sounds funny because to me that's exactly what everyone is sad about when they lose someone. She's not weird at all. She just words her sadness way more accurate and directed than a lot of people. Not sad that person is dead, but sad because of everything that will change now they are dead. So to the point!!
I love the bug girl does she have a channel.
One of my most memorable experiences as a kid is that I used to get about 4 to 6 monarch caterpillars and feed them and they made their pretty chrysalis til they hatched out & they'd dry on my hand & fly awaaaaay...
I believe her channel is called soundoftheforest
I think about that a lot.
Parent(s) that know their kid is never going to be able to live on their own.
Plus, even if a will or whatever is left & money allotted for care & etc.
if there's no sib or at least not a good & caring one, that plan goes to sh*t bc people take advantage or sue or something.
My pet tiger moth just died today and the video of the girl with the moth was comforting
Thr last guy has such amazing drawings! I never draw animals this easily. That's really impressive. Also love the leash 😂😂 it ended up geat anyway ❤️
6:02 bless this woman I love listening to people talk about their special interests!
The dude in the last video is super good at drawing I need them to share their skills with me bro!
I think I might have autism (I've already been diagnosed with ADHD, generalized anxiety disorder and depression) but my psychologist said I can't be autistic because, and I quote 'you don't have a monotone voice or face and autistic people can't feel anything and I don't like that diagnosis because it has been made broader over the past few years' . I have like nearly every other symptom and I do talk in a monotone voice a lot when I talk to people I'm comfortable with, but now my mother won't take me seriously anymore.
Your psychologist sounds like they are full of 💩, and I doubt they know the first thing about Autism. Autistic people (I'm Autistic) feel everything, and sometimes we feel emotions more intensely than neurotypical people. A lot of us just have a hard time identifying our emotions.
Self diagnosis is valid, so don't let anyone try to make you feel like you aren't.
So many ah-ha moments watching these beautiful and enlightening people ♥️
(5:43) Made me realize I do the exact same thing. I was recently gifted an axolotl plushie and started info-dumping about them lmao 😭
The one about grief made some things make sense as well. The death itself isn't the upsetting part, it's the change and not being able to see them anymore. Like, when a cat of mine passed away years ago, I was too shocked to really be sad. It hit me weeks later when not being able to see her, and pet her anymore got to me more than her death.
The money one is so relatable 😂
Dilly Bar, can't go past a classic. That and rootbeer floats are my go to!
Loss hits me hard but it’s true it’s not the death itself. They are just gone, they just don’t exist anymore. What hits me is the impact they had on everyone and how they won’t anymore. That you will not see or hear their voice again, see them doing anything etc.
Next time if there's a tiktok that has sounds of eating or drinking can you put a warning for it? Sounds of people eating and drinking really bother me to the point where I have to cover my ears or walk away. So Next time could you please put a warning about it so I could skip that tiktok? I'm sure at least a few other people would agree with me. The first tiktok really bothered me because of the sound of him drinking
(I have autism and adhd, I'm putting this here for context)
I HATED that too
I also didn’t know why there are 20 and 1 dollar bills
That man is a true KING
That guy around 2 mins has a mansion to himself, here in the UK you'll be living in something the size of his wardrobe.
I love the drawings at the end, he does things similar to me, what I want to draw just appears in my mind and I draw it.
1:21 i think about this every day
Indeed😮
I love moth girl
✨dairy queen✨
0:55 I remember that infuriating me too! Unfortunately you get used to it.
Petition to burn money in large groups to deflate it
YES
I wanna have more interests but the others weigh down the new ones
At around 3:12 i also show my emotions differently, i told my friends that one of my cousins died and they asked how and i said s*****e, because that is true, and they were all sighlent and i laughed, I didn’t know why i laughed i miss him alot and they were looking at me horrified that i laughed and i was trying to explain whg but I couldn’t so i feel really guilty, but I didn’t feel like that was the wring response i was aimply trying to ahow that i was okay and they shouldnt be affected by this revelation
Where does she get her butterflies ???
I think random people send her stuff they think she will like just to see her open the package on line.
I love moths!! Where can I get that big one?
1:40 I so want her contact and give her Jacque Fresco interview videos. She'll love him, as I had. Oh the jealously I would have of seeing her face light up over realizing what resource-based economy is for the first time... that eureka moment is chocolate yummy cake times 1000. I absolutely understand what her rank is all about. Jacque Fresco thought the monetary-market system is a BS idea after WW2 and believes that we can use modern day science and technology to fully automate our society and live a resource based economy.
ruclips.net/video/PN6puH9DYnQ/видео.html&ab_channel=TysonEberly
A link for those who want to know more about Jacque Fresco. I think his obsession would've put him beside us all at a spectrum.
"just don't let it inflate" we used to do that. It was tied to gold values and didn't have inflation the way modern money does. There are some other problems with that though.
cringe
Ya sure are.
What. How?
Yeah you really are
If you don’t like it you can leave
The worse cringe is cringe
That girl with the moths is such a faker
Please refrain from calling people fake because this can be harmful.
no, you just aren’t used to seeing other parts of the spectrum, I’m actually a lot like her and I’m on the spectrum-
You're no different from "transvestigators" who think everyone is trans. Who are you to question someone else's identity?
Explain exactly how YOU SPECIFICALLY know HER brain and HER diagnosis is not real?