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Would you invite former Miss Universe Sushmita Sen to your podcast? She is a force for South Asian women, who carved her life in her own terms. The whole India and Philippines love her.
DEAR THE DIARY OF THE CEO, YOU OFTEN ASK FOR A LIKE FOR THE CHANNEL TO GROW WHICH IS A FAIR ENOUGH REQUEST! BUT I FEEL YOU DONT ADDRESS THE COMMENTS ENOUGH PERSONALLY , WHICH I CAN UNDERSTAND IS A DAUNTING TASK HAVING TO SIFT THROUGH EVERY SINGLE SOLITARY COMMENT ... ALMOST IMPOSSIBLE . HENCE THE NEED FOR CAPITAL LETTERS. BUT MY FAVOUR FROM YOU IS TO ASK YOU TO HAVE A GUEST ON TO TALK ABOUT RACISM AT LARGE. SOMEONE WHOS NEITHER FAR LEFT OR FAR RIGHT PARTICULARLLY TO DO WITH BLACK PEOPLE AND BLM. IM A YOUNG WHITE BRITISH MAN AND AM STRUGGLING TO SEE THE FAR WIDE MAJOR ISSUE, AND IF IM REALLY AND TRULY HONEST .... NEVER BEEN RACIST BEFORE IN MY LIFE BUT I FEEL ALOT OF WHITE PEOPLE ARE (NOW) BECOMING THAT WAY TOWARDS BLACK PEOPLE BECAUSE OF THE WHOLE BLM MOVEMNT! WHICH I CAN DEEPLY EMPATHISE WITH ALL TYPES OF PEOPLE. FOR EXAMPLE IF ANY WHITE PERSON SAYS IM NOT A RACIST, THEY GET HIT WITH A RACIST WOULD SAY THAT. OR YOU HAVE YOUR WHITE PRIVELLGE YOU WOULDNT UNDERSTAND. IF YOU SAY I HAVE MANY BLACK FREINDS, WHAT EVER THE CASE MAYBE , YOU GET SHOT DOWN WHEN PEOPLE SAY ALL LIVES MATTER YOU GET THROWN UNDER THE BUS AND TOLD (WE NEVER SAID THEY DIDNT WERE JUST STATING BLACK LIVES MATTER)!!!!! I WAS RECENTLY IN A DEBATE WERE SOMEONE THOUGHT I WAS VERY NAIVE FOR QUOTING PEOPLE.SUCH AS BOB DYLAN , BEFORE I HAD A CHANCE TO SPEAK HE PATRONISINGLY SAID I SUPPOSE YOUR GOING TO TELL ME ABOUT 'BLOWING IN THE WIND' PUT YET ENDED WITH DON'T EVEN GET ME STARTED 🤷♂️ IVE SEEN MANY FILMS SUCH AS 12 , YEARS A SLAVE , AMERICAN HISTORY X , CASS ...ETC ETC ETC ETC IVE LISTENED TO ALL SORTS OF SONGS SUCH FROM ALL WORKS OF LIFE NOTIABLY NEIL YOUNG - SOUTHERN MAN MARVIN GAYE - WHATS GOING ON BRUCE HORNSBY - JUST THE WAY IT IS MICHAEL JACKSON - JUST THE WAY IT IS JAMES BROWN - FUNKY PRESIDENT PUBLIC ENEMY - WE GOT GAME I COULD GO ON ..... I HAVE ALSO INTERGRATE WITH A LARGE DIVERSE AMOUNT OF PEOPLE AND HAVEN'T LIVED IN A BOX ALL MY LIFE ! FOR EXAMPLE THE MAIN SISTERS ON THE WARDS ALMOST MORE THAN 30 YEARS AGO IN HOSPITALS WERE BLACK AND IRISH ... IS THAT NOT PROGRESS ? SLAVERY IS ABOLISHED WE ALL HAVE THE SAME RIGHTS AND OPPURTUNITES AND I BELIEVE WE ARE ALL SEEN AS EQUALS IN THIS DAY AND AGE REGARDELSS OF RACE ,COLOUR ,RELIGION ETC ETC OBVIOUSLY YOU CAN QUOTE SOME COUNTRIES THAT ARENT BUT I BELIEVD BRITIAN AS A WHOLE IS A GOOD EXCEPTING COUNTRY. WE CAN TALK ABOUT THE WINDRUSH SOCIETY , BANARDOS CHILEREN , LIVE AID ETC ETC ETC. BUT WHAT IM STRUGGLING TO UNDERSTAND IS WHAT IS THE PROBLEM AND HOW CAN IT BE RESOLVED , ALOT OF ALL I SEE NOW IS ALOT OF FAR LEFT PEOPLE WHO WANT TO LOVE EVERYONE AND BE PEOPLE PLEASERS AND AS SOON AS SOMETHING NONE PC IS UTTERED (DON'T WANT TO LISTEN TO IT ANYMORE) OR THE FLIP SIDE OF THE COIN IS YOU HAVE ALOT OF ANGRY DISGRUNTLED YOUNG BLACK PEOPLE RAGING AND LARGE AMOUNT OF WHITE PEOPLE SECRETLY RAGING INSIDE BECAUSE THEY DON'T UNDERSTAND ! RACISM IS EVERYWHERE TO A DEGREE ,BEING JUDGEMENTAL AND MAKING ASSUMPTIONS IS EVERYWHERE AND IN ALL OF US .....IM EVEN GUESSING SOME PEOPLE HAVENT MADE IT THIS FAR AND HAVE TUNED OUT AND MADE UP THERE OWN ASSUMPTIONS! SO IN A NUT SHELL I ENJOY WATCHING YOUR CHANNEL AND THE MAIN BEST QUALITY ABOUT YOU IS YOU LISTEN AND REFLET AND YOU HAVE A GREAT PLATFROM FOR DEEP THINKERS AND PEOPLE WILLING TO LEARN !!!!!!!!!! ALSO BEING A SUCCESFUL MAN OF BLACK ORIGINS YOURSELF WITH A CALM AND COOLING DEMEANOUR ID LIKE FOR YOU TO ORGANISE SOME SORT OF DEBATE BETWEEN BLACK PEOPLE AND OTHERS WHO ARE WILLING TO HAVE THE BALLS TO ADMIT THEY DONT SEE IN SOCIETY AT LARGE A MAJOR ISSUE AND A DEEP LONG CONVERSATION ABOUT IT , TOUCHING ON THE PAST BUT MORE PRESENTLY THE PRESENT AND WHERE WE TEND TO GO IN THE FUTURE. BECAUSE WITH ALL THE ANIMOSTY AND WHAT I BELIEVE FROM WHAT IM SEEING IS ALOT OF YOUNG IMPRESSIONABLE MINDS BECOMING SERIOUSLY MENTALLY ILL AND BECOMING DANGEROUSLY OUT OF CONTROL IF NOT ADRESSED SOON! KIND DEGARDS AND HOPE TO HEAR FROM YOU OR ANYONE SOON (P.s romesh sorry to drop it on your moment 🤣 and was an insightful in look to your life)
I really like Romesh. No nonsense, down to earth. No bollocks. Far more interesting than he might appear from his TV stuff - obviously a really smart, introspective guy.
Romesh for what it's worth if you're reading this, I've never heard my dad laughing so much in my 28 years of life than when he was watching one of your shows. I think a lot of us have that voice but it's great to know we are not alone. I think it is because of this voice (among other things) that has made religion so prevalent throughout history as a coping mechanism for it. I can't begrudge anyone's religion when its purpose is to heal/sooth the voice and keep us content/happy like "normal" folk
My Dad smiles from ear to ear but only when he's hurting me. I can't remember ever hearing him laugh, just that nasty wide smirk. I just caught him today, he's been lying and hiding my paperwork. I'm absolutely furious. I have thoughts of hurting him. I won't but I sure want to and damn it does he deserve it.
I might be off kilter with this but it’s coming from a place of sympathy for those suffering with a negative disposition. I want to lean into Transactional Analysis as a scaffold and suggest that we have three ego states to which we might be cathected : child, parent or adult (please checkout their respective characteristics for your own clarity). If your propensity is towards cathextion to your child ego state under moments of discord and your early life experience is somewhat fraught then this might lead to an understanding why you’re caught in the anxious state that’s typically attributable to a scared, fractious child despite your adult or parent state trying to remind you to not be so worried. Your inner child is insecure and doesn’t trust and doesn’t listen to your inner parent or inner adult to help you stay calm and positive. This might not be a solution for you but for me it gave me a starting point to build on and I hope that it will maybe give you some help.❤
Are you familiar with IFS (internal family systems)? I also have a group of internal voices that have made things really challenging and IFS has been really helpful so I thought I'd suggest it. Wishing you peace.
The reason why you develop that part, the "prick inside of your head" is due to trauma. What Romesh went through as a child was super traumatic. Really appreciate this talk.
How he spoke about the inner voice in his head is the most relatable piece of podcasting i've every heard. It was simultaneously exciting and a relief to hear someone talk about something I understand so articulately. Great podcast!!!
Romesh is one of the most genuine people in entertainment. Every time I’m feeling low or having similar thoughts to the ones he speaks about, I watch his vids and automatically feel 100x better. Thanks for sharing your light with the world Romesh, even though you struggle to see it yourself
I am continually impressed by the quality of these interviews. Your guests are interesting but your questions bring out these fascinating insights. And you give them enough space to explore these topics without any pressure to move on to the next thing.
Literally got chills when Romesh said about believing that he's horrible and the nice stuff he does is all conditioning.. This is something the 'prick in my head' has been telling me for years now. Dope conversation as always.. Thanks for creating this space for so many great minds to come in and share ❤️
“Not that I’ve worn a leather suit and I never will” - as funny as Romesh is, he’s dead serious when it comes to not supporting animal abuse and that’s what makes him a truly incredible person, the comedy is just a fantastic addition. 👌🏆🍇🌱
Is his family vegetarian? Leather doesn't come from conventional animal abuse, they're a byproduct of the beef industry. They would be wasted otherwise. Leather has a lot of practical uses, and isn't simply aesthetic.
This is not true actually, leather is in many instances its own industry and even if it was a byproduct, it's a byproduct of an insane and cruel industry. Imagine walking around wearing someone's dogs skin,@@poppinc8145
I felt so moved by this podcast. Such a rich life story, held with so much compassion, courage, and curiosity. I wish more men would have this type of profound conversations...I feel like is culturally needed. Thank you for your open hearts!
This CD has three separate relaxation/meditation sessions on it ruclips.net/user/postUgkxzpa8CIfZcihW4Z0F_ja0QF3W9KIatrsq guided by a very pleasant and direct male voice. Unlike so many other products of its type, this CD does not have bad synthesizer music, does not feature a phony or affected style of narration, and does not make any bogus claims to be subliminal or to re-train the brain or any of that balderdash. What you get is 1. a guided meditation for getting into a pleasantly relaxed state of body awareness while taking a stroll (superb for those easing back into a fitness routine slowly after an illness or injury) 2. A nice long breath-awareness relaxation session that if followed diligently can put you into very deep states of full-body relaxation and mental calmness, and 3. a buddhist-inspired meditation session designed to help you develop and maintain feelings of loving kindness toward not just yourself and your friends, but toward people you don't even like. The CD makes no claims to be designed for advanced meditators or for buddhists or hindus/yoga practitioners looking for very deep and esoteric stuff. It is geared more toward the average person who just wants to develop the habit of relaxation and stress relief through natural, healthy means. him, if you happen to be reading this, keep up the good work fella, and I love your accent. I would also like to note that I have never fallen asleep while listening to this product. I would like to kindly suggest to the reviewer who said this CD makes him fall asleep, that he might want to get checked to see if he has a sleep disorder, or if he is simply not setting aside ample time for restful sleep at night. A healthy person getting adequate rest at night should be able to go into deep states of mental relaxation without dozing off, if not all the time, then most of the time.
Wow, last night I was just looking at tickets to see Romesh again. Such a lovely guy, so pleased to see him open up like this. I totally relate with that negative inner voice, it's been with me my whole life too. Thank you for these videos, I really think they're helping people.
What a joy to listening to Romesh, so authentic and raw. This discussion really helped me think about my own dad and life circumstances. Thank you both for sharing so vulnerably.
This was one of my favourite DOAC episodes. I loved Romesh’s candour and honestly, his personal insights resonated and I’m so grateful for this episode and for Romesh sharing his story.
His description of why he didn't put so much weight on stereotypical success, is the same reason Jim Carrey gives for not trying to take a "safe job" and to go for his highest dreams instead. Because his dad took a safe job and ended up getting fired and everything falling apart. So he realized hey if you can fail at the safe job that you don't want, you might as well take a chance at what you DO want.
Totally relate to this. I can't believe other people don't have that inner 'critic' voice in their head - it must be so nice lool. Great podcast as per!
I find it incredible that he was talking to Stephen about the fear of not being a good enough guest to then being probably the best interview that's been on this. Unbelievable interview!!!👏👏
Dealing with the voice in my head - man that absolutely resonates. It's me and it frustrates the crap out of me. I did a management course last and 9 out of 10 of us felt like we had imposter syndrome. Scary stats. John Cleese has the same thing, too. Incredible really and so annoying if you suffer from it.
FANTASTIC interview. I don’t wish dark voices or dark feelings/thoughts on anyone, but the more open others are about theirs, especially those who look like they have the best lives ever, gives me more courage and determination to manage mine as best as I can and be of value to others. Thank you Steven for asking important questions and thank you Romesh for your openness.
Romesh my dear, you are such a lovely, intelligent, beautiful and truly funny person. Thank you for sharing your candid story. It was so recognisable in so many ways. Your story has helped me alot and I'm sure it will help others too. Just by being you, can you imagine? I wish you all the best and thank you for sharing your talent. And thank you Steven for this amazing interview! You both have made my day!🙏🏽💝
Another really great interview. What an interesting man Romesh is. A wonderful comedian, and a man of real depth. Thank you Steven for another rivetting conversation.😊
Its good to know im not the only one struggling, I've essentially got PTSD from being bullied on the daily In school which lead me down soo many different avenues one of which was thinking I was Trans. I know im not now but it had such a profound affect on my mental health for the past 10 years. Ive been battling anxiety and depression for the longest time and its shit Everyday feels like a battle im at war in my head with anxiety misfiring trying to figure the stuff out. Its ok not to be ok luv y'all xx
Would love to hear more from Romesh. Such a great interview in many ways. A really down to earth , no nonsense discussion on depression which he expresses far better than I ever could that has been so helpful to me in my own struggles with it. Steven's question's , as always, are excellent .Great stuff ! I love these podcasts.
Stephen, I don't know if you'll read this, but man you are absolutely perfect interviewer. It's a joy to listen to someone who can pay such respect to his guests and intervern only when is needed. Listening is a skill that very few interviewers have. Keep going man, you are young and I'm sure you'll achieve a lot in your life. 👍
I feel the exact same way as he describes himself with that voice in his head. It's very rare that it goes away and when it does it's the greatest feeling in the world.
What an important conversation you've had. You've been so validating and I've never heard anyone articulate the feelings I deal with so concisely. I thank you for your candour - it's resonated with me so much and for that, I thank you. 💛
What a powerful episode! Love Ramesh but this is so valuable to so many different people, from all walks of life and all stages of thier life. Definitely helps to know we all have little voices in our head!
First time ever hearing of this guy but will be looking for his work in the future. He’s interesting, honest and thought provoking. So many aha moments.
Want to find meaning and more happiness? Get off ur phone, stop chasing meaningless likes, stop gaming, get out of ur basement, get a job and start living. Oh, quit feeling sorry for yourself. Man up.
This was so powerful. I love Romesh anyway, he's a hilarious comedian, but I felt the same sadness Steve did watching him speak about his mental health. Will definitely be rewatching this one.
The reaction of his parents moving his stereo is real. I behave like that when my anxiety and worry is through the roof. With a great therapist I'm learning a whole different way of thinking.
So so relate to this whole upbringing! It is so character shaping! These horrible situations give you a sense of humour, it’s a mechanism for coping… and I wouldn’t change my internal comedian and my ability to find “Jonathan” VERY funny. Romesh, you keep being you ❤
Notes and Quotes from the podcast: (being added at the moment) 1. Everyone can have imposter syndrome. Don't assume that people are doing "great", listen to them and don't dismiss it! 2. You can always find things that you regret not talking with your friends about it. Try to think about the good things you did. 3. All it takes is for someone to believe in you. If you prove that you are worth it, then it will propel you to new heights!
I only learned about Romesh after watching his recent Netflix special, and became a fan instantly! Thanks for having him on here, it was a really interesting chat. 🙂
Man i love these comedian interviews,theyre always the most interesting.I'd be keen to see what noel fielding was like,i reckon he'd make a awesome interview
@@kendallstark4302 I guess it depends on your perspective. I share a very similar heritage to Romesh. I found the BTS funny because of him giving shade to his father and the interactions between his mother and wife. The stand-up felt a bit different to his previous material. A colleague of mine who saw the tour live was disappointed because his material changed. She's quite clean cut and most probably liked the "cleaner" stuff that he previously did while on the Netflix show it seemed to be a bit more edgy and sexual. I guess we all have our own perspectives and opinions. However, I loved this interview. Unlike other panel show interviews, it really got under the skin and you really got to know him.
Would love to see some round table type episodes with several guests having a conversation/discussing different things (maybe people that have already been on)
Romesh, thank you so much. Every time I hear somebody else has these issues, it brings just a little bit more peace. These kind of revelations from other people, start to reassemble the jigsaw of self respect again. So thank you for your honesty and bravery. And oh my God, you make me laugh....more good medicine.
So particularly sympathetic to his dealing with that awful inner gremlin that gnaws away at your head all the time. His humor is one of his coping mechanisms. Such a good and intelligent man.
So glad Romesh has brought up his mental health struggles. Can relate massively to that harsh voice in the head, a daily struggle! Great comedian as well, wish him well
Steven, your podcast is the best in the world along with Joe Rogan's. The vulnerability that you manage to get the guests to show and the depth of the conversation is just wonderful, thank you
Listening to this the second time, because there are so many things a middle class Asian can relate to. What Romesh might perceive his dad as "very bad with money", it was possible that he spent all his money on his family that he went broke, and still came home to a nagging wife and an entitled kid with tantrums (my interpretation to relate to it, based on other things mentioned in this talk). That's what happened with my dad and how I treated him, he was hanging by the edge making ends meet and all hell tipped over in the family once he went down with a heart problem.
The tragedy of most comedian geniuses is that there is this inner demon that on one hand condemns the person but on the other hand lends to that special dissonance in thought patterns and perspectives such that it comes out really funny in the ears of the general others. Romesh, if you're reading this I just need you to know that your inner voice is partly an indication that you're an absolute genius... it's bloody obvious enough from the quality of your jokes.
Just finished watching this. Thanks for getting Romesh on. I’m a big fan of his. Once again another brilliant interview. My husband watched it with me and he suffers at times with mental health and I could see from his reactions that some of the things that Romesh goes through that he resonates with
Be nice to know more about his Mum. Somehow think she is was the influencer for him loving jokes/ comedy. Not in the sense he had to make her laugh. More she had comedic talents of her own…..be interesting to know more about his Mum
This was such a Great interview, I had never seen Romesh perform and after this interview I realised what a great comedian he is! I have that voice too in my head and this conversation made me feel less alone. Thank you for being so open Romesh you’ve really helped people by being so humble.
If you enjoyed this conversation, please do me a little favour and like the video 👍- it really helps the channel and allows us to keep having these conversations. Thank you 🙏
Would you invite former Miss Universe Sushmita Sen to your podcast? She is a force for South Asian women, who carved her life in her own terms. The whole India and Philippines love her.
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DEAR THE DIARY OF THE CEO, YOU OFTEN ASK FOR A LIKE FOR THE CHANNEL TO GROW WHICH IS A FAIR ENOUGH REQUEST!
BUT I FEEL YOU DONT ADDRESS THE COMMENTS ENOUGH PERSONALLY , WHICH I CAN UNDERSTAND IS A DAUNTING TASK HAVING TO SIFT THROUGH EVERY SINGLE SOLITARY COMMENT ... ALMOST IMPOSSIBLE .
HENCE THE NEED FOR CAPITAL LETTERS.
BUT MY FAVOUR FROM YOU IS TO ASK YOU TO HAVE A GUEST ON TO TALK ABOUT RACISM AT LARGE.
SOMEONE WHOS NEITHER FAR LEFT OR FAR RIGHT
PARTICULARLLY TO DO WITH BLACK PEOPLE AND BLM.
IM A YOUNG WHITE BRITISH MAN AND AM STRUGGLING TO SEE THE FAR WIDE MAJOR ISSUE, AND IF IM REALLY AND TRULY HONEST .... NEVER BEEN RACIST BEFORE IN MY LIFE BUT I FEEL ALOT OF WHITE PEOPLE ARE (NOW) BECOMING THAT WAY TOWARDS BLACK PEOPLE BECAUSE OF THE WHOLE BLM MOVEMNT!
WHICH I CAN DEEPLY EMPATHISE WITH ALL TYPES OF PEOPLE.
FOR EXAMPLE IF ANY WHITE PERSON SAYS IM NOT A RACIST, THEY GET HIT WITH A RACIST WOULD SAY THAT.
OR YOU HAVE YOUR WHITE PRIVELLGE YOU WOULDNT UNDERSTAND.
IF YOU SAY I HAVE MANY BLACK FREINDS, WHAT EVER THE CASE MAYBE , YOU GET SHOT DOWN
WHEN PEOPLE SAY ALL LIVES MATTER YOU GET THROWN UNDER THE BUS AND TOLD (WE NEVER SAID THEY DIDNT WERE JUST STATING BLACK LIVES MATTER)!!!!!
I WAS RECENTLY IN A DEBATE WERE SOMEONE THOUGHT I WAS VERY NAIVE FOR QUOTING PEOPLE.SUCH AS BOB DYLAN , BEFORE I HAD A CHANCE TO SPEAK HE PATRONISINGLY SAID I SUPPOSE YOUR GOING TO TELL ME ABOUT 'BLOWING IN THE WIND'
PUT YET ENDED WITH DON'T EVEN GET ME STARTED 🤷♂️
IVE SEEN MANY FILMS SUCH AS 12 , YEARS A SLAVE , AMERICAN HISTORY X , CASS ...ETC ETC ETC ETC
IVE LISTENED TO ALL SORTS OF SONGS SUCH FROM ALL WORKS OF LIFE
NOTIABLY
NEIL YOUNG - SOUTHERN MAN
MARVIN GAYE - WHATS GOING ON
BRUCE HORNSBY - JUST THE WAY IT IS
MICHAEL JACKSON - JUST THE WAY IT IS
JAMES BROWN - FUNKY PRESIDENT
PUBLIC ENEMY - WE GOT GAME
I COULD GO ON .....
I HAVE ALSO INTERGRATE WITH A LARGE DIVERSE AMOUNT OF PEOPLE AND HAVEN'T LIVED IN A BOX ALL MY LIFE !
FOR EXAMPLE THE MAIN SISTERS ON THE WARDS ALMOST MORE THAN 30 YEARS AGO IN HOSPITALS WERE BLACK AND IRISH ... IS THAT NOT PROGRESS ?
SLAVERY IS ABOLISHED WE ALL HAVE THE SAME RIGHTS AND OPPURTUNITES AND I BELIEVE WE ARE ALL SEEN AS EQUALS IN THIS DAY AND AGE REGARDELSS OF RACE ,COLOUR ,RELIGION ETC ETC
OBVIOUSLY YOU CAN QUOTE SOME COUNTRIES THAT ARENT BUT I BELIEVD BRITIAN AS A WHOLE IS A GOOD EXCEPTING COUNTRY.
WE CAN TALK ABOUT THE WINDRUSH SOCIETY , BANARDOS CHILEREN , LIVE AID ETC ETC ETC.
BUT WHAT IM STRUGGLING TO UNDERSTAND IS WHAT IS THE PROBLEM AND HOW CAN IT BE RESOLVED ,
ALOT OF ALL I SEE NOW IS ALOT OF FAR LEFT PEOPLE WHO WANT TO LOVE EVERYONE AND BE PEOPLE PLEASERS AND AS SOON AS SOMETHING NONE PC IS UTTERED (DON'T WANT TO LISTEN TO IT ANYMORE)
OR THE FLIP SIDE OF THE COIN IS YOU HAVE ALOT OF ANGRY DISGRUNTLED YOUNG BLACK PEOPLE RAGING AND LARGE AMOUNT OF WHITE PEOPLE SECRETLY RAGING INSIDE BECAUSE THEY DON'T UNDERSTAND !
RACISM IS EVERYWHERE TO A DEGREE ,BEING JUDGEMENTAL AND MAKING ASSUMPTIONS IS EVERYWHERE AND IN ALL OF US .....IM EVEN GUESSING SOME PEOPLE HAVENT MADE IT THIS FAR AND HAVE TUNED OUT AND MADE UP THERE OWN ASSUMPTIONS!
SO IN A NUT SHELL I ENJOY WATCHING YOUR CHANNEL AND THE MAIN BEST QUALITY ABOUT YOU IS YOU LISTEN AND REFLET AND YOU HAVE A GREAT PLATFROM FOR DEEP THINKERS AND PEOPLE WILLING TO LEARN !!!!!!!!!!
ALSO BEING A SUCCESFUL MAN OF BLACK ORIGINS YOURSELF WITH A CALM AND COOLING DEMEANOUR ID LIKE FOR YOU TO ORGANISE SOME SORT OF DEBATE BETWEEN BLACK PEOPLE AND OTHERS WHO ARE WILLING TO HAVE THE BALLS TO ADMIT THEY DONT SEE IN SOCIETY AT LARGE A MAJOR ISSUE AND A DEEP LONG CONVERSATION ABOUT IT , TOUCHING ON THE PAST BUT MORE PRESENTLY THE PRESENT AND WHERE WE TEND TO GO IN THE FUTURE.
BECAUSE WITH ALL THE ANIMOSTY AND WHAT I BELIEVE FROM WHAT IM SEEING IS ALOT OF YOUNG IMPRESSIONABLE MINDS BECOMING SERIOUSLY MENTALLY ILL AND BECOMING DANGEROUSLY OUT OF CONTROL IF NOT ADRESSED SOON!
KIND DEGARDS AND HOPE TO HEAR FROM YOU OR ANYONE SOON
(P.s romesh sorry to drop it on your moment 🤣 and was an insightful in look to your life)
Congrats on a million 3 subs! You deserve it👍🏼🌎💙
Why you always wear black?
1 hour and 26 minutes of just pure awesome chat. I love Romesh, who he is, how he chats and his total sense of humor. Big fan!
I really like Romesh. No nonsense, down to earth. No bollocks. Far more interesting than he might appear from his TV stuff - obviously a really smart, introspective guy.
I definitely agree!
He seems plenty interesting to be fair 😅
Aren't you supposed to be more interesting on TV than you are in real life?
@@clivet3252 I merely stated what I observed. Why be a contrarian wanker?
@@MatthewCyUK why are you being like that? I make a good point don't I?
Romesh for what it's worth if you're reading this, I've never heard my dad laughing so much in my 28 years of life than when he was watching one of your shows. I think a lot of us have that voice but it's great to know we are not alone. I think it is because of this voice (among other things) that has made religion so prevalent throughout history as a coping mechanism for it. I can't begrudge anyone's religion when its purpose is to heal/sooth the voice and keep us content/happy like "normal" folk
I love your comment, thank You
My Dad smiles from ear to ear but only when he's hurting me. I can't remember ever hearing him laugh, just that nasty wide smirk.
I just caught him today, he's been lying and hiding my paperwork. I'm absolutely furious. I have thoughts of hurting him. I won't but I sure want to and damn it does he deserve it.
What a moving and beautiful, complex human. A gloriously real conversation. Thank you for sharing it with us.
I think everyone has these conversations in them. I think sometimes we think it's more special and watchable because they are on the telly.😁😁😁
I'm a broadcaster who's lived with a hostile inner voice for years. This podcast is invaluable.. so freeing and helpful!
Me also, all the best mate!
Oh thank you for replying. I have the worst inner voice .
I might be off kilter with this but it’s coming from a place of sympathy for those suffering with a negative disposition.
I want to lean into Transactional Analysis as a scaffold and suggest that we have three ego states to which we might be cathected : child, parent or adult (please checkout their respective characteristics for your own clarity).
If your propensity is towards cathextion to your child ego state under moments of discord and your early life experience is somewhat fraught then this might lead to an understanding why you’re caught in the anxious state that’s typically attributable to a scared, fractious child despite your adult or parent state trying to remind you to not be so worried.
Your inner child is insecure and doesn’t trust and doesn’t listen to your inner parent or inner adult to help you stay calm and positive.
This might not be a solution for you but for me it gave me a starting point to build on and I hope that it will maybe give you some help.❤
Are you familiar with IFS (internal family systems)? I also have a group of internal voices that have made things really challenging and IFS has been really helpful so I thought I'd suggest it. Wishing you peace.
The reason why you develop that part, the "prick inside of your head" is due to trauma. What Romesh went through as a child was super traumatic. Really appreciate this talk.
If you’re having any issues with audio being in sync , it’ll be fixed very soon ! X
I was wondering if it was me tv! Thanks lol
Mine is still out of sync 😢
Glad I have just seen this I was going mad on my settings thinking it was my setup thanks for the FYI.
Fine on phone but not on the TV fyi
Thank you! Looking forward to watching when the problem is fixed 😊
How he spoke about the inner voice in his head is the most relatable piece of podcasting i've every heard. It was simultaneously exciting and a relief to hear someone talk about something I understand so articulately. Great podcast!!!
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Romesh is one of the most genuine people in entertainment. Every time I’m feeling low or having similar thoughts to the ones he speaks about, I watch his vids and automatically feel 100x better. Thanks for sharing your light with the world Romesh, even though you struggle to see it yourself
You might like to listen to Matt Khan. He's very loving. I always feel good when I listen to him.
I think Steven has had the best podcast list in history. Always got bangers!
I am continually impressed by the quality of these interviews. Your guests are interesting but your questions bring out these fascinating insights. And you give them enough space to explore these topics without any pressure to move on to the next thing.
And may I add that you are clearly well informed, have done your research and prep, and are unfailingly respectful.
Literally got chills when Romesh said about believing that he's horrible and the nice stuff he does is all conditioning.. This is something the 'prick in my head' has been telling me for years now.
Dope conversation as always.. Thanks for creating this space for so many great minds to come in and share ❤️
I bet everyone has that voice my friend, just some admit it and others don’t. X
I have the same voice in my head but is a lot more vicious. Wasn't sure if other's also had it.
Looking forward to this. I adore Romesh. He kept us going through lockdown with his Facebook lives. ❤
“Not that I’ve worn a leather suit and I never will” - as funny as Romesh is, he’s dead serious when it comes to not supporting animal abuse and that’s what makes him a truly incredible person, the comedy is just a fantastic addition. 👌🏆🍇🌱
Is his family vegetarian? Leather doesn't come from conventional animal abuse, they're a byproduct of the beef industry. They would be wasted otherwise. Leather has a lot of practical uses, and isn't simply aesthetic.
There was me thinking he meant that he would look ridiculous in a leather suit haha
This is not true actually, leather is in many instances its own industry and even if it was a byproduct, it's a byproduct of an insane and cruel industry. Imagine walking around wearing someone's dogs skin,@@poppinc8145
@@poppinc8145He's vegan.
We love you Romesh. You are a legend, and I don't care if you don't care! Big love man.
I felt so moved by this podcast. Such a rich life story, held with so much compassion, courage, and curiosity. I wish more men would have this type of profound conversations...I feel like is culturally needed.
Thank you for your open hearts!
This CD has three separate relaxation/meditation sessions on it ruclips.net/user/postUgkxzpa8CIfZcihW4Z0F_ja0QF3W9KIatrsq guided by a very pleasant and direct male voice. Unlike so many other products of its type, this CD does not have bad synthesizer music, does not feature a phony or affected style of narration, and does not make any bogus claims to be subliminal or to re-train the brain or any of that balderdash. What you get is 1. a guided meditation for getting into a pleasantly relaxed state of body awareness while taking a stroll (superb for those easing back into a fitness routine slowly after an illness or injury) 2. A nice long breath-awareness relaxation session that if followed diligently can put you into very deep states of full-body relaxation and mental calmness, and 3. a buddhist-inspired meditation session designed to help you develop and maintain feelings of loving kindness toward not just yourself and your friends, but toward people you don't even like. The CD makes no claims to be designed for advanced meditators or for buddhists or hindus/yoga practitioners looking for very deep and esoteric stuff. It is geared more toward the average person who just wants to develop the habit of relaxation and stress relief through natural, healthy means. him, if you happen to be reading this, keep up the good work fella, and I love your accent. I would also like to note that I have never fallen asleep while listening to this product. I would like to kindly suggest to the reviewer who said this CD makes him fall asleep, that he might want to get checked to see if he has a sleep disorder, or if he is simply not setting aside ample time for restful sleep at night. A healthy person getting adequate rest at night should be able to go into deep states of mental relaxation without dozing off, if not all the time, then most of the time.
One of the best interviewers I've seen in my 54 years on the planet. 👍
I agree!!!
Wow, last night I was just looking at tickets to see Romesh again. Such a lovely guy, so pleased to see him open up like this. I totally relate with that negative inner voice, it's been with me my whole life too. Thank you for these videos, I really think they're helping people.
What a joy to listening to Romesh, so authentic and raw. This discussion really helped me think about my own dad and life circumstances. Thank you both for sharing so vulnerably.
This was one of my favourite DOAC episodes. I loved Romesh’s candour and honestly, his personal insights resonated and I’m so grateful for this episode and for Romesh sharing his story.
Great interview. Romesh is amazing and I really am amazed how Steven asks such probing questions. ❤️
His description of why he didn't put so much weight on stereotypical success, is the same reason Jim Carrey gives for not trying to take a "safe job" and to go for his highest dreams instead. Because his dad took a safe job and ended up getting fired and everything falling apart. So he realized hey if you can fail at the safe job that you don't want, you might as well take a chance at what you DO want.
Totally relate to this. I can't believe other people don't have that inner 'critic' voice in their head - it must be so nice lool. Great podcast as per!
Yes I just can't imagine how peaceful it would be not to have the voice.
I knew i liked Romesh but now i love Romesh.
What a lovely person Romesh is 😊
I find it incredible that he was talking to Stephen about the fear of not being a good enough guest to then being probably the best interview that's been on this. Unbelievable interview!!!👏👏
Completely agree, the best episode. Up there with Davina's
I was just thinking exactly the same thing, remarkably open. Such a brilliant bloke
Dealing with the voice in my head - man that absolutely resonates. It's me and it frustrates the crap out of me. I did a management course last and 9 out of 10 of us felt like we had imposter syndrome. Scary stats. John Cleese has the same thing, too. Incredible really and so annoying if you suffer from it.
FANTASTIC interview. I don’t wish dark voices or dark feelings/thoughts on anyone, but the more open others are about theirs, especially those who look like they have the best lives ever, gives me more courage and determination to manage mine as best as I can and be of value to others. Thank you Steven for asking important questions and thank you Romesh for your openness.
Hi Stephen that was the best interview i have seen with you and a guest, Romesh was so open with all his answers, keep up the good work !!
Romesh my dear, you are such a lovely, intelligent, beautiful and truly funny person. Thank you for sharing your candid story. It was so recognisable in so many ways. Your story has helped me alot and I'm sure it will help others too. Just by being you, can you imagine?
I wish you all the best and thank you for sharing your talent. And thank you Steven for this amazing interview! You both have made my day!🙏🏽💝
This is so powerful, thank you!❤
Another really great interview. What an interesting man Romesh is. A wonderful comedian, and a man of real depth. Thank you Steven for another rivetting conversation.😊
Its good to know im not the only one struggling, I've essentially got PTSD from being bullied on the daily In school which lead me down soo many different avenues one of which was thinking I was Trans. I know im not now but it had such a profound affect on my mental health for the past 10 years. Ive been battling anxiety and depression for the longest time and its shit Everyday feels like a battle im at war in my head with anxiety misfiring trying to figure the stuff out.
Its ok not to be ok
luv y'all xx
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sending love to you!x
This was beautiful ☀️ Just added his Netflix standup to my queue
Brilliant episode. Love Romesh, such a genuine person.
He has an amazing voice.
Would love to hear more from Romesh. Such a great interview in many ways. A really down to earth , no nonsense discussion on depression which he expresses far better than I ever could that has been so helpful to me in my own struggles with it. Steven's question's , as always, are excellent .Great stuff ! I love these podcasts.
Stephen, I don't know if you'll read this, but man you are absolutely perfect interviewer. It's a joy to listen to someone who can pay such respect to his guests and intervern only when is needed. Listening is a skill that very few interviewers have. Keep going man, you are young and I'm sure you'll achieve a lot in your life. 👍
Can’t wait to watch this. Love Romesh. So funny-but more than that he is clearly a great guy. Love his Wolf & Owl podcast.
Absolutely fresh honest and interesting. Love their banter and openness. We all have "a prick living in our head", though ♡♡
to the max!
My favourite chat for a while! Romesh, Steven 🎉👏
First person, at least to my knowledge that has made Steven laugh
You never what ppl are going through
@@jettyharrison4377 are you fkn yoking?!! I mean the OP left a whole word out and stil makes more sense than you in your response.
I feel the exact same way as he describes himself with that voice in his head. It's very rare that it goes away and when it does it's the greatest feeling in the world.
What an important conversation you've had. You've been so validating and I've never heard anyone articulate the feelings I deal with so concisely. I thank you for your candour - it's resonated with me so much and for that, I thank you. 💛
What a powerful episode! Love Ramesh but this is so valuable to so many different people, from all walks of life and all stages of thier life. Definitely helps to know we all have little voices in our head!
First time ever hearing of this guy but will be looking for his work in the future. He’s interesting, honest and thought provoking. So many aha moments.
Want to find meaning and more happiness? Get off ur phone, stop chasing meaningless likes, stop gaming, get out of ur basement, get a job and start living. Oh, quit feeling sorry for yourself. Man up.
This was so powerful. I love Romesh anyway, he's a hilarious comedian, but I felt the same sadness Steve did watching him speak about his mental health. Will definitely be rewatching this one.
One of the best diary entries so far. Thanks Romesh,this kept me captivated right through. 👍
The reaction of his parents moving his stereo is real. I behave like that when my anxiety and worry is through the roof. With a great therapist I'm learning a whole different way of thinking.
OMG I ❤❤❤❤❤ Romesh
"Between carpets" killed me 😂😂
same man! :D hilarious
So so relate to this whole upbringing! It is so character shaping! These horrible situations give you a sense of humour, it’s a mechanism for coping… and I wouldn’t change my internal comedian and my ability to find “Jonathan” VERY funny. Romesh, you keep being you ❤
Loved this, Romesh is a legend 🎉
Notes and Quotes from the podcast: (being added at the moment)
1. Everyone can have imposter syndrome. Don't assume that people are doing "great", listen to them and don't dismiss it!
2. You can always find things that you regret not talking with your friends about it. Try to think about the good things you did.
3. All it takes is for someone to believe in you. If you prove that you are worth it, then it will propel you to new heights!
Love Romesh he's a good dude and happy for his success.
He’s so likeable!
I only learned about Romesh after watching his recent Netflix special, and became a fan instantly!
Thanks for having him on here, it was a really interesting chat. 🙂
One of my fav comedian. Sad to hear he is goes through dark times. Hope he sees how much strangers care for him and love his work
Very candid interview by Romesh. He doesn't hide anything or try to dress it up as something that it's not.
Man i love these comedian interviews,theyre always the most interesting.I'd be keen to see what noel fielding was like,i reckon he'd make a awesome interview
I think Seann Walsh would be interesting too.
Can't wait to listen to this!!!! I came across his Netflix special recently and he had me howling 🤣
2nd episodes behind the scenes was awkwardly funny and better the stand up.
@@wilfredarasaratnam hello! I have to disagree! His stand-up show was better, although the BTS was good.
@@kendallstark4302 I guess it depends on your perspective. I share a very similar heritage to Romesh. I found the BTS funny because of him giving shade to his father and the interactions between his mother and wife. The stand-up felt a bit different to his previous material. A colleague of mine who saw the tour live was disappointed because his material changed. She's quite clean cut and most probably liked the "cleaner" stuff that he previously did while on the Netflix show it seemed to be a bit more edgy and sexual.
I guess we all have our own perspectives and opinions.
However, I loved this interview. Unlike other panel show interviews, it really got under the skin and you really got to know him.
I have the voice 😢 Thank You
I have voice in my head two , I call it my inner critic. I thought everyone had this❤
It's such a transparent model, this podcast - MAKE THE GUESTS RELIVE TRAUMA!
Would love to see some round table type episodes with several guests having a conversation/discussing different things (maybe people that have already been on)
One person I'd like to see you interview is Peter Kay. Now THAT would be interesting, just to see if he actually has a 'straight' side.
Romesh, thank you so much. Every time I hear somebody else has these issues, it brings just a little bit more peace. These kind of revelations from other people, start to reassemble the jigsaw of self respect again. So thank you for your honesty and bravery. And oh my God, you make me laugh....more good medicine.
So particularly sympathetic to his dealing with that awful inner gremlin that gnaws away at your head all the time. His humor is one of his coping mechanisms. Such a good and intelligent man.
So glad Romesh has brought up his mental health struggles. Can relate massively to that harsh voice in the head, a daily struggle! Great comedian as well, wish him well
Can’t explain to you how much I enjoy your podcasts, such a great way to spend time
Something I need to do, be here and now more!
Steven, your podcast is the best in the world along with Joe Rogan's. The vulnerability that you manage to get the guests to show and the depth of the conversation is just wonderful, thank you
Listening to this the second time, because there are so many things a middle class Asian can relate to. What Romesh might perceive his dad as "very bad with money", it was possible that he spent all his money on his family that he went broke, and still came home to a nagging wife and an entitled kid with tantrums (my interpretation to relate to it, based on other things mentioned in this talk). That's what happened with my dad and how I treated him, he was hanging by the edge making ends meet and all hell tipped over in the family once he went down with a heart problem.
yes that my feeling also, I wonder what his father's recollection would be
What?! Some people don’t have this voice in there head? Who are these people, what is that like?
Well this was eye opening.
So good to hear Steven laugh so much ;) thx gentlemen !
I love Romesh...but your churning way too many videos a week right now...your diluting the magic of your podcasts:-(
I didn't know that some people don't have that voice. Lucky them.
The tragedy of most comedian geniuses is that there is this inner demon that on one hand condemns the person but on the other hand lends to that special dissonance in thought patterns and perspectives such that it comes out really funny in the ears of the general others. Romesh, if you're reading this I just need you to know that your inner voice is partly an indication that you're an absolute genius... it's bloody obvious enough from the quality of your jokes.
I love Romesh, I listened to his book and it was really good but he puts himself down sooo much!
A revelation. Romesh is one of my favourites. So glad he is travelling well.
Love Romesh and always have. Completely understand this ‘prick’ voice he talks about in his head as I have the same. This is such a relatable chat ❤
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Just finished watching this. Thanks for getting Romesh on. I’m a big fan of his. Once again another brilliant interview. My husband watched it with me and he suffers at times with mental health and I could see from his reactions that some of the things that Romesh goes through that he resonates with
I'd love more interviews with writers, their struggles, and careers. Also, a great guy who deserves some attention and focus is NICK LOVE.
You love and respect your mother...says everything.
Thanks for this, Romesh is one of the greats of our time and this interview shines a light on where his brand of comedy really comes from. Great stuff
What a fabulous and inspiring interview. Who doesn’t love Romesh ?! Very honest and very raw. Another great interview Steven. X
PAUL CHOWDHRY, get Paul on go on
Be nice to know more about his Mum. Somehow think she is was the influencer for him loving jokes/ comedy. Not in the sense he had to make her laugh. More she had comedic talents of her own…..be interesting to know more about his Mum
I'm pretty sure his mom has done guest appearances on a show he hosted??? & if I recall correctly she was funny & They bounced off each others humor 😊
Brilliant chat! I love Ramesh, he’s my favourite British comedian.
In between carpets probably the best thing I heard for 2023 !!!!Trevor Noah should be next …
Well done Steven I love your chats it’s such a skill, it’s a joy every time. Thank you 🎉
I absolutely love Romesh. Everything about him. It would be a dream to meet him. X
Stephen you should interview a "normal person". They did it on 'Ths is your life' (a show you'll have to Google!) once and it was one of their best.
Probably the best podcast I've watched. Just honesty and devoid of any pretentious BS.
This was such a Great interview, I had never seen Romesh perform and after this interview I realised what a great comedian he is! I have that voice too in my head and this conversation made me feel less alone. Thank you for being so open Romesh you’ve really helped people by being so humble.