What should a 20-30 year old focus on?

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  • Опубликовано: 9 июн 2022
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Комментарии • 150

  • @robinmceachern1911
    @robinmceachern1911 2 года назад +265

    As a 26 year old parent of two struggling with finding my place in the world, I would say I needed to hear this. For some reason i fear I will run out of time everyday. Thank you for your words you make a difference.

    • @hckynrscnd8916
      @hckynrscnd8916 Год назад +7

      Same, even as a 33 year old with no kids but as I got older I also realized life goes on and I can keep living year after year as a new adventure. When you get what he’s saying it’s such an empowering feeling because you don’t feel like life ends at 30 which is what I feared in my mid 20’s

    • @tupakkaonhyvaa
      @tupakkaonhyvaa Год назад

      ​@Refreshing Breeze Your grandma passing has nothing to do with when you will pass. You might get a heart attack tomorrow or get run over by a car or get cancer, you name it.

    • @tupakkaonhyvaa
      @tupakkaonhyvaa Год назад

      Well done, Robin. You're confused about life and you decided that it's a great idea to make kids now! 👏

    • @luccianoblock5127
      @luccianoblock5127 9 месяцев назад

      ​@@GrowPrayLoveBelieve you have 5 years left because ,you probably don't care what you did 5 years ago or you don't know who that is so it's like your reborn so change is vital for both Men and women changing dietary and traditional values too because it gives you a boost in joy and long life because many think they are normal and think they will live till 80 but many that think that they are normal becomes the normal and normal is a difficult life. Becoming the best of people and inspiration to others is my point here.

    • @reeses712300
      @reeses712300 9 месяцев назад +9

      My former boss and mentor went to engineering school in his 60s and graduated with a master's degree. Started a HVAC company and made millions he's in his 80s still working and inspiring others. Age is beginning to be less and less of a factor it's never to late to pursue your passion!

  • @Stand.Your.Ground.
    @Stand.Your.Ground. 2 года назад +144

    29 now beat a opiate addiction 9 years ago, started my own business when covid started. Still figuring it all out. Good luck to all who read this I pray we all can live happy soon!

    • @Westcoast10
      @Westcoast10 Год назад +5

      I pray that you find success too 🙏🏾

    • @laptopandme3631
      @laptopandme3631 Год назад +6

      You got this! Keep going!

    • @tristanvanderwalt6321
      @tristanvanderwalt6321 10 месяцев назад

      What business did you start, if you don't mind me asking?
      Oh, and how is it going? I only now realize that this comment was a year ago.

    • @KokonatMusic
      @KokonatMusic 9 месяцев назад

      God is with you

    • @JoshLuck95
      @JoshLuck95 8 месяцев назад

      Massive well done

  • @Saveg36
    @Saveg36 2 года назад +162

    Fuck what they say. If youve done things for yourself and found happiness in it, trust yourself. Quit. They will shame you, they will guilt you, they will do everything in there power to make you follow. Fuck all that. True drive and confidence comes from making things work on your terms. Once you feel it there is no going back. Be aware and good night team.

    • @Vagabondobiondo
      @Vagabondobiondo 2 года назад

      Thanks for this

    • @tenchu006
      @tenchu006 Год назад

      Bro you are the realest! God bless you

    • @y.m.iprofit3324
      @y.m.iprofit3324 10 дней назад

      how is your business going now ?
      Just checking in 2 years later

  • @ceeceebrownn
    @ceeceebrownn Год назад +242

    I’m 30 and I just figured out what I want to do with my life

    • @yashd05
      @yashd05 Год назад +2

      what is it?

    • @RG_Eph
      @RG_Eph Год назад +5

      That’s great:) what is it?

    • @djaytv1621
      @djaytv1621 Год назад +10

      Still young asf 😅

    • @RG_Eph
      @RG_Eph Год назад +23

      @@djaytv1621 Lol gen z (which I’m a part of) is basically telling everyone they expire at 30 (or even 25)…it’s madness! Also the red pill crowd who spout that women become useless sometime around 25-30 doesn’t help!

    • @rangerbird270
      @rangerbird270 10 месяцев назад +4

      I’m 19 and I already got it all figured out

  • @coffeeismyvice
    @coffeeismyvice 7 месяцев назад +18

    Recently turned 25, needed to hear this.

  • @ChrisSandyShow
    @ChrisSandyShow Год назад +47

    I'm going for it all at 51

    • @monaalei9922
      @monaalei9922 10 месяцев назад +4

      I think I'm going all in at 45 😂❤🎉

    • @Prometheus-Staple
      @Prometheus-Staple 6 месяцев назад +1

      I’m going all in at 18. I wish I could fast forward 10 years because things are really hitting the fan. High school taught me many things, but unfortunately, how to be financially and mentally free wasn’t one of them.

    • @DoyinVoice
      @DoyinVoice 3 месяца назад

      @@Prometheus-Staplewhy pressure yourself with all that at just 18. it's not realistic - you need to focus on education wisdom and skill mastery / i'm in my 20s life is not sprint; i don't get what the rush is to have it all ?

  • @davidgarridoecunha7102
    @davidgarridoecunha7102 3 месяца назад +2

    The earliest you realize you are not special, that you are a deeply flawed human being, the further you go in life. This realization puts you into a mindset of improving yourself constantly.

  • @Winskl9010
    @Winskl9010 9 месяцев назад +10

    I’m 23 turning 24 in 2 months, I really needed this thank you

    • @joshuaholbrook3826
      @joshuaholbrook3826 6 месяцев назад +2

      Dude you’re so you you’re still a baby you have plenty of time.

    • @Youngairmoney
      @Youngairmoney 2 месяца назад +1

      I turned 20 this month and I’m pretty confident in taking action this summer, better yet this year 🫡

  • @himanganapanwar3832
    @himanganapanwar3832 Год назад +13

    You know but when you see people younger than you doing so well in life or when people younger than you are successful and rich it sucks it demotivates you......

    • @naghmanrahman
      @naghmanrahman 3 месяца назад

      Yes it is the worst type of guilt and shame....

  • @treally4337
    @treally4337 2 года назад +17

    It’s nice to hear this, as a person who graduated this year I feel like I’m already being pressured to figure what I want for my future. I’m just not sure what I have ahead of me and I want to have time to think.

  • @Barbara-tc1ip
    @Barbara-tc1ip Год назад +29

    As someone who just turned 21 thank you i started feeling old and like my best years were ruined and skipped over bc of covid and hearing this helped❤️

    • @MohamedAmin-zz8wo
      @MohamedAmin-zz8wo Год назад +4

      21..you are way too young.
      Enjoy your life enjoy your 20s but don't loose focus.Those years go by so so quick

    • @unknownman1035
      @unknownman1035 8 месяцев назад +4

      @@MohamedAmin-zz8woI know man! I’m 22 it felt like I was just 18 graduating high school. Now I understand what my mom was saying she rather be a kid again than an adult lol. All this responsibility now which I’m ready for. I’m a grown man now so in the end I’m proud of myself. Have a little one on the way still at home but plan on moving out next year or by 24. Don’t want to be old at moms & pops house a thats a bad look 😂

    • @Youngairmoney
      @Youngairmoney 2 месяца назад

      @@unknownman1035congrats fam I just turned 20 this month man I’m confident within myself to change in 6 months

  • @willjb89
    @willjb89 10 месяцев назад +16

    Great advice! I tried a bunch of jobs in my 20s. More clarity in my 30s now and better pay.

  • @brendanfogel4573
    @brendanfogel4573 10 месяцев назад +9

    21 as a 2nd year electrician, if I keep it up and master my craft I can make great money

    • @AveChristusRex789
      @AveChristusRex789 10 месяцев назад +2

      Great to hear. I wish I could go back in time to chose an apprenticeship for plumbing instead of university. I’m going to be doing it anyway after I graduate next year, but knowing you wasted 3 years of your life just to take an apprenticeship for another 3/4 years isn’t great

  • @mm_me
    @mm_me Год назад +9

    It simply comes down to one thing: what do you define success as as an individual

  • @oppttimuspprime7383
    @oppttimuspprime7383 9 месяцев назад +8

    I’m 30 having the worst year of my life but I’m still alive

    • @naghmanrahman
      @naghmanrahman 3 месяца назад +1

      How is everything now bro???

    • @Probl3m100
      @Probl3m100 2 месяца назад +1

      @@naghmanrahmanhe passed away man

    • @oppttimuspprime7383
      @oppttimuspprime7383 2 месяца назад +2

      @@naghmanrahman best year ever lol

    • @oppttimuspprime7383
      @oppttimuspprime7383 2 месяца назад +1

      @@Probl3m100 yeah my old self passed away

    • @naghmanrahman
      @naghmanrahman 2 месяца назад

      @@oppttimuspprime7383 glad to hear that.....👏👏

  • @JoeandSil
    @JoeandSil 9 месяцев назад +2

    He’s 100% right on this comment

  • @nashfaulk
    @nashfaulk 6 месяцев назад +6

    The biggest mistake is their relationship with (or lack of) relationship with Jesus

  • @snehalkrishnan618
    @snehalkrishnan618 Год назад +15

    I’m 36 yrs old and am falling behind in life. It feels like my drive has diminished. How to I get that drive and spark I had in my 20’s back?

    • @joaquin67
      @joaquin67 Год назад +11

      You need a purpose or goal that gives you some internal feeling of “I just have to do it”. You kinda instinctually know when you figure it out. Usually lies behind interests and skills.
      But a little more practical thing would be to find something that overlaps with the following 3 things: something that you’re good at, something that interests you, and something that can make you money
      For me this was coding because I’m good at visual design stuff, technology interests me, and it can make me money

    • @gravelor78
      @gravelor78 Год назад

      ​@@joaquin67Great advice.

    • @DayonBledsoe2000
      @DayonBledsoe2000 6 месяцев назад

      You need youth medicine that can make your body young again and then you will wanna express the youth.

  • @jacqueslee2592
    @jacqueslee2592 5 месяцев назад +2

    This is true, but ironically going to the university made my life the mess and chaos that I am in. I was hoping to have explored many subjects and experience the world when in the university, but my university restricted me in doing this, counselors literally provided misinformation to me that I ended up getting degrees and having to start over again because jobs required me more coursework and certification. I should have never gone to the university and started working at 18. My peers were getting laid at their retail jobs in the summer and always saying that they are at their prime in life as they had hot girl coworkers. I am 33 and I truly got the good paying job until 31. I never gotten laid and the women in my work are all married. At this age, I gave up with women, but now my only goal is to save money and invest.

    • @enocksparta2634
      @enocksparta2634 20 дней назад

      You are like me, never fucked a college girl at campus yet am attractive and tall, world is evil

  • @limbiMele-gv4ke
    @limbiMele-gv4ke Год назад +14

    I am turning 29 AMD still I haven't figured out what to do😥

    • @sachinranaa8795
      @sachinranaa8795 10 месяцев назад

      Use this anxiety and fear to found a way you have unlimited internet and every resource is free ... Learn read book apply test fail and you will figure out because nobody did figured out anything even in theirs 80s ...it's a journey ...only dead people figured out everything in their life

    • @johnnymember
      @johnnymember 10 месяцев назад +5

      Don’t worry too much. Just try to live and be happy day to day. Try to do at least one thing you enjoy every day and focus on your physical and mental health…. You got this!

    • @ripplechips5391
      @ripplechips5391 10 месяцев назад

      Try being 32

    • @DayonBledsoe2000
      @DayonBledsoe2000 6 месяцев назад +1

      Should we start a group that can meet up n talk n travel ?

  • @MilesLeslie
    @MilesLeslie 2 года назад +18

    Great to hear stay focused everyone your time is soon!

  • @Andhapaisa-mm6zp
    @Andhapaisa-mm6zp 6 месяцев назад +3

    I am 21 nd stressed outtt ☠️🎲

  • @alemtiden1687
    @alemtiden1687 6 месяцев назад +1

    It’s like, we don’t follow other people timeline. We have our own journey, we have our own walk of life that we have.

  • @notdcddrt
    @notdcddrt 8 месяцев назад +1

    I am panicking because I think I am 22 years old and I should have everything in ordering my life.
    I just can't wait to get successful and strong.

  • @andrewmeer5071
    @andrewmeer5071 2 года назад +1

    Working to spend the time wisely!

  • @yadiramartinez2820
    @yadiramartinez2820 5 месяцев назад +1

    I’m 24 & I feel like I should be further in life.

  • @sachinranaa8795
    @sachinranaa8795 10 месяцев назад +2

    Those who didn't figured out everything yet whatever the age may be 20s 30 s 40s ... The truth is nobody did figured out everything... The solution is begin where you are ..commit to change ...every resource and books are free on internet ....figure out ..
    Fuck the norm

  • @serinahsharif2255
    @serinahsharif2255 Год назад +8

    29 with a BA and I feel utterly lost so idk what this means.

    • @harrisonmartens5444
      @harrisonmartens5444 11 месяцев назад

      What’s your BA in?

    • @mothosir
      @mothosir 10 месяцев назад +1

      hopefully, your BA isn't in a useless subject like psychology, communications, or political science

    • @serinahsharif2255
      @serinahsharif2255 10 месяцев назад +1

      @@mothosir political science

    • @serinahsharif2255
      @serinahsharif2255 10 месяцев назад +1

      @@mothosir the bots are going wild these days.

    • @andrerodgers5809
      @andrerodgers5809 7 месяцев назад

      @@mothosirhow is psychology useless 😂

  • @shaunengle
    @shaunengle 2 года назад

    Thank you Gary !

  • @jogwithpurpose
    @jogwithpurpose Год назад

    Gary is so wise

  • @SundaysTechLab
    @SundaysTechLab 8 месяцев назад +1

    _"It's good that a Man (any human) should bear his yoke of exemplary discipline in the days of his youth"_
    *Lamentations **3:23** [AMP]*

  • @Woody10719
    @Woody10719 Год назад

    I needed to hear that

  • @dbailey45th94
    @dbailey45th94 5 месяцев назад

    Video games and social media fucked things up..

  • @GRIMRAJ
    @GRIMRAJ 15 дней назад

    My friend committed suicide .... At 32 he couldn't able to clear exam of upsc but i chose not to and fight back by changing career

  • @stennsonn
    @stennsonn 2 года назад +1

    The removed pixels were purposeful?

  • @UCeddWhat
    @UCeddWhat Год назад

    Damn right! Lets go Gary

  • @falkenvir
    @falkenvir 10 месяцев назад +1

    Meanwhile in Germany and Austria at 28 yo they already be an expert

  • @peterkim3392
    @peterkim3392 7 месяцев назад

    So late 20s here And I'm doing progress. 😊

  • @kuskusdikus6014
    @kuskusdikus6014 6 месяцев назад +6

    I was working since I was 15, by the time I hit 30 my body's breaking down and I'm mentally burnt out.
    The last two years I've just been sitting around trying to figure out if it was all worth it.

    • @zero81888
      @zero81888 5 месяцев назад +1

      I started working at 15 too. i hit my burnout point around 28. thankfully things got better, but I don't regret my first career. I try to look at it like "that was me back then, a different season of life etc, I'm always changing no matter what age"
      take what you can from your experiences and leave the rest; that's how you got here today. one day you could think back to this period of time as someone completely different. wishing the best for you

    • @kuskusdikus6014
      @kuskusdikus6014 5 месяцев назад

      @@zero81888 Ty, you to man.

  • @kevinmalone8564
    @kevinmalone8564 5 месяцев назад

    Great advice ngl

  • @randytidmore8021
    @randytidmore8021 10 месяцев назад

    We're not guaranteed nothing but the second that we live in now

  • @markypee1232
    @markypee1232 Год назад

    Big facts

  • @RoyalYoutube_PRO
    @RoyalYoutube_PRO 2 года назад +9

    I'm giving up at 18

  • @tranquiljoe7816
    @tranquiljoe7816 4 месяца назад +1

    I’m 26 turning 27 am I to late to travel, or study or do things? I have regret not doing it between the ages of 13 - 25 😅

    • @Mohdrij
      @Mohdrij 3 месяца назад

      What job you are doing bro I'm turned 21 this year😁

  • @crumbskiibruh2462
    @crumbskiibruh2462 2 года назад +1

    Anyone else notice the dots

  • @omnipotentlenny
    @omnipotentlenny 2 года назад +3

    I am happier than Ive ever been since I left school to purse my passions

  • @learningvideosbynikhil8308
    @learningvideosbynikhil8308 2 месяца назад +1

    Another big mistake: thinking alcohol and tobacco are good for them

  • @jonathansamuel4886
    @jonathansamuel4886 5 месяцев назад +1

    23 years and a first year medical student....

    • @enocksparta2634
      @enocksparta2634 20 дней назад

      It doesn't matter, BTW you can pursue another degree at 30 while a doctor

  • @noxvalentine6520
    @noxvalentine6520 8 месяцев назад +1

    I just saw a video where the comments were full of comments that women are old at 26, 27, 28 and 30 is midlife
    And that gave me more anxiety that I had. Since I turned 28 I've been full of anxiety and stress and sadness because I haven't been able to do much with my 20s due to family commitments and just not being able to really figure out what I want from life.
    Being told in those comments that I'm old and I should have it all figured out and should be married cos no men want to date a woman who is 28 or 30 ngl made me cry... just from the pile on of stress and anxiety
    I wanted to study abroad and finish college but I couldn't do that, because of responsibilities to my family and no money. Even though I have a so called "career" I make low income and it doesn't allow me to save to do anything
    I want to go back to university to get my Bachelor's but I can't afford it. It's really hard being alive rn for a lot of people, and the others who call us old and say we need to have our crap together don't help at all....
    Will I die single and without finding satisfaction and doing all that I wanted to do in life?

    • @Elespectador94
      @Elespectador94 7 месяцев назад +1

      You seem like an intelligent and nice woman. Don't listen to others my dear.

    • @Xb4743
      @Xb4743 6 месяцев назад

      Why dont you try taking a small loan and going to a cheaper country for education. Education and loans in the US are ridiculously expensive. A lot of doctors in India study in Russian/ukrainian universities.

    • @enocksparta2634
      @enocksparta2634 20 дней назад

      Never listen to people in this world as some people are naturally sadists lucky and dumb and they are here to put others down. You'll still get married as long as you don't have a kid. Stop comparing yourself to other people who were lucky to have fees. Take heart and pray, seek GOD.

  • @joycharles1055
    @joycharles1055 Месяц назад

    So i have only a decade to get myself together lol

  • @backwoodz7160
    @backwoodz7160 9 месяцев назад

    None of us are promised tomorrow

  • @liampoirier
    @liampoirier 9 месяцев назад

    not me had a kid at 17 cant do it ive made peace with my situation

  • @ww021883
    @ww021883 10 месяцев назад +2

    No the biggest mistake is doing drugs doing something that makes you incapable of getting anything else done so what if your lazy then Tire Globe is lazy but when you get addicted to drugs and become homeless then you're in trouble

  • @Cherry-qs9rh
    @Cherry-qs9rh 7 месяцев назад

    Is it too late for me to become athlete in baseball player at age of 20yo? Ill turn to 21 next year 🙃

  • @MR-AK
    @MR-AK 8 месяцев назад

    Thx dalai lama. Lol

  • @jonlee6114
    @jonlee6114 9 месяцев назад

    …is their Daddy didnt own a liquor store like mine.

  • @sasapetroski981
    @sasapetroski981 6 месяцев назад

    30s are best to find serious job... Salary 4.000-6.000€

  • @Darkersky17
    @Darkersky17 2 года назад +1

    But also not an excuse to sit around and do nothing

  • @davidphones7290
    @davidphones7290 10 месяцев назад

    The biggest mistake you made is cutting your wife off so you can run around with a model while telling everyone how “important” family is

  • @NekoNebula1313
    @NekoNebula1313 10 месяцев назад

    How old is that guy?

  • @kufudokungfu
    @kufudokungfu 9 месяцев назад

    What about 44 year old I'm fkd 😢

  • @iamyoungballa
    @iamyoungballa 10 месяцев назад

    there are quicker ways, don’t get dumb though

  • @michaelfriedrich5571
    @michaelfriedrich5571 10 месяцев назад

    Who is this

  • @ksdmanikumar4263
    @ksdmanikumar4263 2 года назад

    Need just small help part-time job..

  • @nonsensefam
    @nonsensefam 10 месяцев назад

    Pixels

  • @Coinkydinkk
    @Coinkydinkk 6 месяцев назад

    Cap game

  • @denverrafael1494
    @denverrafael1494 5 месяцев назад

    Fuck just make Babies chase love more than money,😂😂😂 money doesn't make you happy but having beautiful women have babies make me happy😆😆😆

  • @ThothOne
    @ThothOne 6 месяцев назад

    Gary, you should just shut up for a decade or until we all forget what you did with people on pursuing them for buying NFTs

  • @xin215
    @xin215 8 месяцев назад +2

    Please dont listen to Gary Vaynerchuk. Please for the love of God ignore this guy.

  • @TheRealAG622
    @TheRealAG622 10 месяцев назад

    My biggest regret is not taking the time after highschool to live life before grinding and settling down.