5 Things Boys Do After A Breakup....

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  • Опубликовано: 10 янв 2025

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  • @Malcolm-kr9ol
    @Malcolm-kr9ol 10 месяцев назад +2176

    “Crying doesn’t mean your weak, it means you have been strong for too long”.

    • @____A_M_E_L_I_A____
      @____A_M_E_L_I_A____ 10 месяцев назад +17

      This is so true

    • @Aspire_15
      @Aspire_15 10 месяцев назад +29

      ngl i cant even cry anymore i used to when my parents hit me and shit but now i dont and i was 7 back then and i have never cried ever again I CANT EVEN FCKIN CRY OR VENT TO ANYONE IM SUCH A DISGRACE

    • @Malcolm-kr9ol
      @Malcolm-kr9ol 10 месяцев назад +4

      @@Aspire_15 don’t think like that man that was in the past move on you will be okay I’m praying for you 🙏

    • @trevornewton9687
      @trevornewton9687 10 месяцев назад

      My sensitive bitch alarm is going off

    • @FankubaVR
      @FankubaVR 9 месяцев назад +1

      I lost my friend... And i will never forget how i got betrayed by my own friend that i was loyal to

  • @IANLORIO01177
    @IANLORIO01177 9 месяцев назад +847

    "Pain doesn't heal us, it teach us how to live in pain"
    -itachi

  • @AshikaTamang-gl1bf
    @AshikaTamang-gl1bf 11 месяцев назад +699

    🙂he moved on with a new girl......after saying I'll never be replaced and here I'm having sleeping disorders, having panic attack every second☮️after all these still hoping he will come back

    • @RekhaTayung
      @RekhaTayung 10 месяцев назад +76

      I can understand we're suffering the exact condition girl 🙂 he told me that he'll never be able to love someone again but just 1 week after our breakup I saw his instagram page he is with someone new 💔 and here I am... not able to move on and just like dumb girl I am waiting for him... that maybe someday he'll come back.

    • @cracking907hero4
      @cracking907hero4 10 месяцев назад +21

      I broke up today😄...........wait thats not actually that happy........😐.......
      😓

    • @matilda.graciesversion
      @matilda.graciesversion 10 месяцев назад +15

      Me too, I saw him with his new gf and I started hyperventilating

    • @shaheedakeelath1806
      @shaheedakeelath1806 10 месяцев назад +20

      just focus on ur career not others

    • @keshavsharma5250
      @keshavsharma5250 10 месяцев назад +14

      Everyone is not same
      I am still waiting for her to return ❤

  • @emerie9709
    @emerie9709 5 месяцев назад +205

    "Were not friends, were not enemies, were just strangers with Memories."

    • @LovelyFactsWorth
      @LovelyFactsWorth 5 месяцев назад

    • @Malika-fk9sb
      @Malika-fk9sb 4 месяца назад +7

      yeahhhh shit...I missed him

    • @ArmstrongMutekede
      @ArmstrongMutekede 4 месяца назад +5

      😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢 he loves and hates me at the same time 😔 I love him😢.....

    • @safarifirearms3979
      @safarifirearms3979 3 месяца назад +4

      Thanks alot u just made me tear up

    • @Alina-Butterfly753
      @Alina-Butterfly753 3 месяца назад +5

      thank you for making me take the hardest pill I have to swallow again.

  • @WantingVideosTHEROOKIE
    @WantingVideosTHEROOKIE 7 месяцев назад +10

    1. crying in silence is way better then breaking out with people around.
    2. no one cares if we are ok or not its a cruel world.
    3. no one to listen to our broken heart or mind.
    4. u lose when u show your weakness keep your heads up and be strong.
    5. we got more responsibilities keep up the act and move on brothers.

    • @RyanWoolstenhulme
      @RyanWoolstenhulme 19 дней назад +1

      Respect for the reasonable answers. I'm going to be honest, I wish 5 was as easy as you said

  • @Itsme_thatgirl
    @Itsme_thatgirl Год назад +854

    This really tested my patience 😂
    Edit: I'm famous

  • @SparkZOfficial1
    @SparkZOfficial1 10 месяцев назад +80

    The only person I honestly cared about just left me and cut me off. I honestly acted like I didn’t need her. I said things about her that were wrong to not seem weak. I’m dying inside. I wish she could come back

    • @MelanieNataliaRuano2012
      @MelanieNataliaRuano2012 10 месяцев назад +6

      Awe sorry to hear that she doesn’t deserve you one day there’s someone out there waiting for you to be together with them it’s just takes time and you’ll move on soon ur strong u can get thru it I have faith in u

    • @-L-I-L-Y-
      @-L-I-L-Y- 9 месяцев назад +1

      I have the same thing just happened to me. we are still friends, but i really want him back. i’ve cried for 5 days straight and i’ve been praying for him to come back, and i know he won’t.

    • @SparkZOfficial1
      @SparkZOfficial1 9 месяцев назад +1

      @@-L-I-L-Y- Honestly I did the same crying for like a month 😂 I mean I still hurt and miss her rllyyyy bad but I realized maybe it’s for the best. It’s just hard to let go all the memories we made

    • @-L-I-L-Y-
      @-L-I-L-Y- 9 месяцев назад +1

      @@SparkZOfficial1 yeah, i agree. i hope you’re doing better now.

    • @SparkZOfficial1
      @SparkZOfficial1 9 месяцев назад +1

      @@-L-I-L-Y- still in horrible pain but I am 😅 Wish you the best of luck cause Ik it’s hard 🫶

  • @sorrynotsoph
    @sorrynotsoph 8 месяцев назад +17

    he gave me so much stress and anxiety over the stupidest stuff and yet i still can go back to him an instant. why you ask… he made me smile when i was going thru a breakup.

  • @JoyceB.Schlueter
    @JoyceB.Schlueter 2 месяца назад +47

    Great video, A month ago, my five-year relationship came to an end. I really can't stop thinking about the love of my life, who made the decision to leave me. I've done everything in my power to win him back, but it's all in vain, and I can't imagine my life with anyone else. I genuinely miss him and just can't stop thinking about him, even though I've tried my hardest to stop thinking about him. I'm not sure why I'm saying this here.

    • @CynthiaTomlin-u5b
      @CynthiaTomlin-u5b 2 месяца назад

      It's hard to say goodbye to someone you love; I experienced this when my 12-year relationship ended. However, I couldn't just let him go; instead, I tried everything to win him back. Eventually, I turned to a spiritual counsellor for assistance, and he was able to help me win him back.

    • @JoyceB.Schlueter
      @JoyceB.Schlueter 2 месяца назад

      Interesting! How did you locate a spiritual counselor, and how can I get in touch with him most effectively?

    • @CynthiaTomlin-u5b
      @CynthiaTomlin-u5b 2 месяца назад

      His name is Father Akunna, and he is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.

    • @CynthiaTomlin-u5b
      @CynthiaTomlin-u5b 2 месяца назад

      he is Father Akunna, he has great powers, he can help you.

    • @JoyceB.Schlueter
      @JoyceB.Schlueter 2 месяца назад

      I appreciate you providing this important information; I've just checked Father Akunna online, and wow, he's really genuine. Thank you so much again ❤

  • @peterjohnvarghese7277
    @peterjohnvarghese7277 День назад

    After breakup.. If you both settled in life... Later when you see them.... You feel lije heaven... That one person had so much emotional influence 😍❤️❤️

  • @mongestuhosuki7960
    @mongestuhosuki7960 Год назад +443

    When my girlfriend broke up with me I was devastated but did not mention it to anyone because I did not want to bother them with my problems and be shamed

    • @snicole24
      @snicole24 Год назад +18

      aww i’m sorry. i’m always here if you need

    • @rental991wetsuit
      @rental991wetsuit Год назад +8

      Fr feel u

    • @laquantiscoker4302
      @laquantiscoker4302 Год назад +9

      Going through it now. Bf broke up with me last night

    • @snicole24
      @snicole24 Год назад

      @@laquantiscoker4302 i am so so so so so sorry. i’m always here if you need anything and i’ll be praying for you

    • @elihw6871
      @elihw6871 Год назад +4

      I agree with everything you just said

  • @Libertygracesouthernbell
    @Libertygracesouthernbell Год назад +47

    They get into other relationships and act like it’s fine and then they ask you out again and say they changed

    • @HalloweenRy7
      @HalloweenRy7 11 месяцев назад +1

      I 100 percent agree

  • @sonaliwanjari2471
    @sonaliwanjari2471 Год назад +180

    Some boys doesn't care if they broke a girl's heart😢💔

  • @Nissan_Iife
    @Nissan_Iife 6 месяцев назад +14

    i’ve always pretended like i’m fine. it’s become normal for me. i feel like i should be sad but im not

  • @Fortnite12B
    @Fortnite12B 22 часа назад

    This is so real, but my friends start to worry when I don’t open up to them 😔

  • @Nightcorekara
    @Nightcorekara Год назад +79

    My girlfriend broke up with me at school right after first period and laid my head down and cried in silence the rest of the week

    • @angielalonde7161
      @angielalonde7161 Год назад +5

      sorry about that

    • @diegoolariaga5051
      @diegoolariaga5051 11 месяцев назад +3

      I'm sorry you went through that

    • @ibbi_ibra5096
      @ibbi_ibra5096 11 месяцев назад +1

      ,same

    • @Sumiko-cx5oj
      @Sumiko-cx5oj 11 месяцев назад +4

      My girlfriend broke up with me at the end of the day in a note. And I found out she might have liked her friend and they might have been dating when we were dating.

    • @SethsetSey5050
      @SethsetSey5050 10 месяцев назад +1

      Me too 😭😭😭😭💔

  • @wassupmydudes8320
    @wassupmydudes8320 Год назад +81

    It’s sad how people expect men to take the emotional damage of a breakup like it’s nothing, I found out my girlfriend cheated on me and she broke up with me because I “didn’t try to win her back”. Looking back on it she was super abusive and toxic. I remember after the break up I was playing video games in my room so people wouldn’t see me cry. My homies then we’re let in by my mom (bless her) and They took me out to do a bunch of fun stuff like going to a movie, getting junk food, and hanging out at a fort we built by a creek when we were 10. Their efforts to make me happy helped me cope with the break up. I’m so glad I have my friends, it’s like brotherhood between me and my friends. (:

    • @Tieme911
      @Tieme911 Год назад +8

      Ur gf is a massive L nobody deserves her glad ur having fun with ur friends bro.

    • @pureone8350
      @pureone8350 Год назад +3

      You had good friends. With some male friend groups they can literally laugh at you for being cheated on or getting dumped.

    • @DeltaPlayzRBLX
      @DeltaPlayzRBLX 7 месяцев назад

      i need ur friends bro, im aboutta go through one

    • @wassupmydudes8320
      @wassupmydudes8320 7 месяцев назад

      @@DeltaPlayzRBLX dang man, if you need to talk I’m always open, I’ll respond as soon as I see the comment

    • @LincolnBash-iq6tj
      @LincolnBash-iq6tj 3 месяца назад

      My girlfriend just broke up with me yesterday. I wish my homies were here to get me through it. All of them but one left me about a month ago

  • @Albania4Life879
    @Albania4Life879 9 месяцев назад +46

    1.cry
    2.cry
    3.cry
    4.act like ain’t nothing happend
    5.Silence for 1-4 weeks
    I’m a boy😢

    • @The-reaper-god
      @The-reaper-god 5 месяцев назад

      That’s what I did

    • @poweredpie9443
      @poweredpie9443 4 месяца назад

      Same bro this is happened to me 😢😢😢 I also cried alone

  • @PhoenixDrew-n7z
    @PhoenixDrew-n7z 15 дней назад

    This video pulled at my heartstrings😢

  • @AbnerLopez-pb1ou
    @AbnerLopez-pb1ou 2 месяца назад +1

    also talking to someone else to try and get over them but it never works cause u realise that they didnt love you and that you’ll never find someone quite like them

  • @eleanorkenzie4569
    @eleanorkenzie4569 Год назад +111

    My bf got with another girl 2 hours after breaking up with me and literally saying “it’s not you or anyone else” and then I asked one of his friends about it and he said that this new girl was the entire reason he broke up with me

    • @Crazyyyyy-95
      @Crazyyyyy-95 Год назад +8

      That happened to me too but he broke up with me and immediately got with her

    • @debbiebenfold7624
      @debbiebenfold7624 Год назад +4

      𝚖𝚎 𝚝𝚘𝚘 😢

    • @Strawnanana
      @Strawnanana Год назад +6

      Yeah my relationship lasted a year and she broke up with me and said the next day how much she’s inlove with someone, she also was cheating on me and I’m way over her now but I have no one to support me because she stole all my friends

    • @violetrutgers1151
      @violetrutgers1151 Год назад +2

      Me too but I broke up w him then with in an HOUR he got with the girl he said not to worry abt

    • @LandonMcghee-n8m
      @LandonMcghee-n8m Год назад

      Oop

  • @SMLFANDOM_11
    @SMLFANDOM_11 10 месяцев назад +7

    This is so true... But is for girls and boys it was a hard time when my gf broke up with me I wouldn't stop crying and till this day I still thinking about her I still have feelings for her but I wish her the best to find a better man but I still love her😞😞😞😞😞😞😞

    • @MelanieNataliaRuano2012
      @MelanieNataliaRuano2012 10 месяцев назад +1

      Awe I’m sorry you had to experience that but look on the bright side I’m sure there’s another girl who would be with you forever and love u the way u are, and I know it’s hard to move on from the girl u really loved but you just gotta let it go sometimes and move on and being with the new person one day just wait patiently and u will get thru it:D

  • @shaunawagner994
    @shaunawagner994 8 месяцев назад +18

    my daughter got broken up with today and her ex acted like she was a stranger to him

    • @abe22367
      @abe22367 4 месяца назад +1

      dang am 13 am nice person

    • @Malika-fk9sb
      @Malika-fk9sb 4 месяца назад

      My ex do it today to me I am in stress but I try to nothing happened it is so hard

    • @abe22367
      @abe22367 4 месяца назад

      @@Malika-fk9sb u good

    • @SamuelSmith-ui5tl
      @SamuelSmith-ui5tl 2 месяца назад

      ​@@abe22367 my ex is a fuckin bitch even tho I try and reason with her it always ends with a fuck you 🤷‍♂️

  • @talia.cutiepie
    @talia.cutiepie Месяц назад +2

    guys i NEED ADVICE!!
    my best friend got broken up with yesterday and her bf is already talking to a new girl and my friend says she’s fine but i know her, she’s not. what can i do to support her???

    • @Ash-x9m
      @Ash-x9m Месяц назад

      Just try to talk about it with her

  • @creeperhl1123
    @creeperhl1123 2 месяца назад

    as a broken hurt guy that brokeup with my gf i can relate to this i act like i aint crying telling people im fine and good

  • @fellowalthlete
    @fellowalthlete 11 месяцев назад +6

    dude i had such a good relationship

  • @Thisperson223
    @Thisperson223 Год назад +25

    When I found out my gf was cheating on me with my EX BEST FRIEND (ex is because he knew we were dating and still dated her) and I did all of this but I could only hold my tears for so long. I was mid sentence with my friends and I burst out crying. Luckily, they were good friends and knew what happened and tried to comfort me. That is why friends help the most with breakups. The rest of the day we talked about her being a dirty little hoe, slut, and whore. She also tried getting back with me after that and I said “bros before hoes” and walked away. Also, in misery business (a song made by paramore) it says “second chances, they don’t ever matter people never change. Once a whore your nothing more I’m sorry that’ll never change.” And that hit deep…😢

    • @idiot6266
      @idiot6266 10 месяцев назад

      Listen to runaround sue by dion, that's my cheating song, that little whore cheated on me with a guy from school

    • @urboy_12
      @urboy_12 10 месяцев назад +1

      No one helped me with my break up with my best friend which I knew for 5 years

    • @Thisperson223
      @Thisperson223 10 месяцев назад

      @@urboy_12 im sorry and i hope you moved on🙂🙂

    • @AmberYbarra-uz9qd
      @AmberYbarra-uz9qd 8 месяцев назад +2

      My bf broke up with me he is dating my ex best friend but they were holding hands like at school but I don’t care cuz I don’t like him anymore or love him anymore

  • @jackmuscle4898
    @jackmuscle4898 Год назад +19

    10 years ended yesterday…

    • @snicole24
      @snicole24 Год назад +10

      i am so incredibly sorry. if you need anything, i’m always here ❤

    • @AdyGreer
      @AdyGreer Год назад +3

      just now that yall are loved

  • @JordanBoles-b6n
    @JordanBoles-b6n 2 месяца назад +1

    Hey guys, I’m in eight grade. I’ve had feelings for this one girl since I was in 6 grade. She is amazing. Me and her have liked eachother on and off, but yesterday I think it ended for good. She texted me that she needs space from me, and I cried in my sleep. This was my first heartbreak. I know a lot of you guys don’t care about this, but I just wanted to share with someone. Thank you.

  • @Robloxedits-z4j
    @Robloxedits-z4j Месяц назад +1

    The past can hurt, but the way I see it you can ethier run from it, or learn from it
    -lion king

  • @ImAWorkingTv
    @ImAWorkingTv 8 месяцев назад +6

    this js happened to me and all of these are right which makes me even more sad bc ppl know what someone goes through after this yet they ignore u and dont check on u.

  • @Empress1111
    @Empress1111 Год назад +13

    Girls can feel the same way

    • @LowkDontEvenUseYt
      @LowkDontEvenUseYt Год назад

      Tbh we weren’t talking about girls right?

    • @Empress1111
      @Empress1111 Год назад

      @Yoaveragemonkey well your not the only one in this comment section. I think your Opinion is not the only one that matters!

    • @LowkDontEvenUseYt
      @LowkDontEvenUseYt Год назад +1

      @@Empress1111 bro this ain’t bout opinions normally we would celebrate sometimes but if you see a about girls vid y’all say we weren’t talkin bout boys so I’m just stating the facts and i Better not get jumped by little kids for saying that

    • @LowkDontEvenUseYt
      @LowkDontEvenUseYt Год назад

      @@Empress1111and since when did I state my opinion?

    • @Empress1111
      @Empress1111 Год назад

      @Yoaveragemonkey when you said you weren't talking about girls

  • @lilahjewel2010
    @lilahjewel2010 Год назад +51

    That’s so true. But it’s not just for boys. It’s for girls too. Some girls open up about things and are vulnerable, but that’s not always the case. When I had a heartbreak, I would not let anybody see or know I was crying. I didn’t tell anyone, not even my parents because I didn’t want to be a burden to them with my problems. It can go both ways.

    • @TobyStreet2009
      @TobyStreet2009 11 месяцев назад

      When my ex ended things with me I did those exact things 😢😢

    • @Neha45678
      @Neha45678 11 месяцев назад +1

      Am girl and i cry in silence and i did same things

    • @smokevrofficial
      @smokevrofficial 10 месяцев назад

      Nobody ever said that it's for boys only. It's for both genders, but they were just pointing out the hints that boys probably give, because, in my experience, girls will show it more that they just had a breakup

    • @faith_graceversion
      @faith_graceversion 10 месяцев назад +1

      For real same I’m making up lies to make it seem like I’m fine when in reality I fricking hate it so much

    • @RamseyPicks5
      @RamseyPicks5 7 месяцев назад

      being a boy is not harder or easier than being a girl

  • @Sav4321-r5f
    @Sav4321-r5f 3 месяца назад +1

    Girls after breaking up: cry for days text their ex saying sorry and eat ice cream and fast foods

  • @AndrewSpinler
    @AndrewSpinler 6 месяцев назад +5

    That is so reliable that when I have been broken up those 5 things happen 😢. I never tell my friends these things because I don’t wanna my friends to see me sad or anyone to see when I’m sad.😔

  • @Marckeh
    @Marckeh 10 месяцев назад +4

    My girlfriend, shazz we've been 2 years of relationship, I can't just over it, his attitude is just so crazy, so that she sweard to me, and said that "I am cheating on you." like I loved him for 2 years, and exchange me some attitude it happened on 2am.

  • @Stef_DP
    @Stef_DP Год назад +6

    that's litterally me
    like i didn't tell it to any friends and not even my parents
    and ye, cried many times but still told ppl i'm fine every time they asked

  • @SportShark8774
    @SportShark8774 2 месяца назад +1

    My gf broke up with me 6 days ago and i still cry at night thinking about her she would always say that i never had to worry about her breaking up with me too

  • @Valid69
    @Valid69 Месяц назад

    Exactly like mine, I heard rumours in my class he never liked me so I tried to find an excuse to “break up with him”, so I did to see his reaction and he said “I’m free!” And now he doesn’t look sad, (it’s been 4 weeks) he’s happy with his friends and I miss him so much

  • @axelfigueroa1876
    @axelfigueroa1876 Год назад +8

    My girlfriend cheated on me with my best friend and she did it with him that broke me mentally but it was hard to focus when people were talking me cause I kept thinking about her cheating and it is hard but crying won’t do anything but make you look weak this is absolutely relatable.

    • @pureone8350
      @pureone8350 Год назад +1

      How are you doing now? My girlfriend also went for my best friend which literally mentally destroyed me. I'm not in a good place now.

    • @Shadow92105
      @Shadow92105 4 месяца назад

      Now thats truely the worst way a friend can betray you

    • @Shadow92105
      @Shadow92105 4 месяца назад

      Like people say true enemies are better then fake friends

  • @ThatOneAJ
    @ThatOneAJ Год назад +17

    Wow that seems like me every day... And I'm not even a boy

  • @Snr_Riyang
    @Snr_Riyang Год назад +6

    That true mine also same bro😢😢

  • @Caiden-x6u
    @Caiden-x6u 8 дней назад +1

    1. ✅
    2. ✅
    3. ✅
    4. ✅
    5. ✅

  • @Ash19SR
    @Ash19SR 15 дней назад +1

    "QUIT WATCHING THESE AND GET BACK TO THE GYM MATE"

  • @lyricmccubbin
    @lyricmccubbin Год назад +5

    Today I broke me and my boyfriend broke up and he was walking in the hall and I saw him I thought he was crying so I asked him if he was okay and he looked at me he had tears running down his face and he said he was fine

    • @Kel3452
      @Kel3452 8 месяцев назад

      😢he’s not

  • @liamfrazier3733
    @liamfrazier3733 Год назад +6

    My girlfriend broke up with me and I didn’t want to feel weak and I was so sad and I went to school like nothing happened and I didn’t want to bother anyone so I pushed it down and cried without tears

    • @Kel3452
      @Kel3452 8 месяцев назад

      I did too it hurts just start talking to friends and family and then get through it I’ll pray for you

  • @SK_XHunter
    @SK_XHunter Год назад +9

    This is so true 😞 had a breakup yesterday with my gf that i knew for 4 years. Not once have i showed emotion to anyone about it. Its just so hard idk what to do.

    • @ginnylily
      @ginnylily 6 месяцев назад

      I know you comment that a while ago but I’m sorry that happened to you. I hope you’re doing better

  • @J3PSON21
    @J3PSON21 3 месяца назад

    It’s been 2 years and we’re both freshmen now but sometimes it’s still hurts to see her with another guy, after she broke up with me I told her I’d always be there for her, and after 2 years someone is spreading rumors about her and her new boyfriend and I wasn’t going to put up with that kind of disrespect so I sat with them at my football game even though I was technically supposed to be with the team. so to any women that read this comment, when a guy tells you that he will always be there for you no matter what, through thick and through thin, he means it

  • @lion19557
    @lion19557 18 дней назад +1

    This season is full of pain for me 😢 💔

  • @pokemostar4685
    @pokemostar4685 Год назад +15

    I am sorry to say but this is true😞

  • @DaneDePain
    @DaneDePain 8 месяцев назад +18

    brothers, it’s not worth crying over. they come and go. don’t chase butterfly’s, build a beautiful garden to attract them.

    • @Havxudkbaydjdnehsh
      @Havxudkbaydjdnehsh 7 месяцев назад +1

      Thanks bro, my girlfriend told me today that she doesn't love me anymore. I really needed to see this.😢

    • @TommyCharles-ek1su
      @TommyCharles-ek1su 7 месяцев назад +1

      Same bro jeasus loves u bro u r the literal best

    • @JulioANAYA-ks8yh
      @JulioANAYA-ks8yh 7 месяцев назад

      Thanks my girl said she love her ex more Behind my back i trusted her

    • @Havxudkbaydjdnehsh
      @Havxudkbaydjdnehsh 7 месяцев назад

      @@JulioANAYA-ks8yh exactly what happend with me I just wasn't brave enough to say it because I was scared to be bullied about it.

  • @ricardodoble6615
    @ricardodoble6615 2 месяца назад +4

    Someone:I want my girlfriend back😢
    Me:nah it's fine I can get another girl😈

  • @Bogstandardbrit
    @Bogstandardbrit 4 месяца назад

    The hardest part is that I know he is hurting just as much as I am. And we used to be each others lifeline when we were hurting. But he ended it and I know I am totally powerless in being able to make either of us happier. And much as I want to, I will never bring him joy or comfort again

  • @ZAZAISTHEGOAT19
    @ZAZAISTHEGOAT19 Месяц назад

    Thank u so much I'm in a tough time right now so this helps alot😭

  • @Kenny_With_A_Gun
    @Kenny_With_A_Gun 3 месяца назад +5

    I’m a girl and my girlfriend broke up with me yesterday because someone dared her to. She was so shitty and i have some tips for anyone going through the same thing:
    -Cry, let it out, feel everything.
    -Get in the shower and just let your emotions out, put Heather by Conan Gray on and just let everything go
    -don’t overthink it. You don’t have to get over them just yet.
    -you don’t need a rebound person. Don’t focus on Making them jealous *yet*, give yourself time to process:)
    I love you so much, and you’re worth everything. I spent around two hours crying yesterday while she was busy hooking up with someone else. ❤❤ we do recover and it WILL get better I promise you

  • @abdulwaheed1221
    @abdulwaheed1221 Год назад +4

    Bro men and women are in this
    Together so there is no shame in it u just want to be strong and sometimes the strongest thing to do is to aseapt it

    • @XecupsXD
      @XecupsXD Год назад

      I just feel woman are
      mentally stronger than men

  • @JulianBowser-gr6zf
    @JulianBowser-gr6zf 8 дней назад +1

    The start of 2025 is horrible because me and my girlfriend have been dating for a year and she just told her mom about us and her mom got mad and said that she can't date me so i tried to act like nothing happened but I really miss her and want her back but im trying to get my mind settled on new things

  • @TyroneVera-y1b
    @TyroneVera-y1b 2 месяца назад

    It's true, we cry in silence because we don't want anyone to think we are weak, but guys, it's not good, even if you manage to keep these feelings down, sooner or later, you will break down, so, some advice, cry, cry until you can't cry anymore, and don't hold back in front of anyone.

  • @SniperKingFn_YT
    @SniperKingFn_YT 2 месяца назад +1

    Pain is a universal thing we all feel it it just hits harder sometimes. -NF.

  • @Neilharvi3
    @Neilharvi3 4 месяца назад +1

    Bro is stalking me 😔
    I just cried because I'm not weak, I've been strong for so so long.

  • @jeremybaumeister9609
    @jeremybaumeister9609 4 месяца назад

    As a girl who just went through a break up I still love him and we are always gonna wait for eachother In the future

  • @BeadedbyLois
    @BeadedbyLois 5 месяцев назад +1

    I loved him. I did. But then he started to go and spend more time with her then with me. It hurts so bad. Even though we broke up like 3 month’s ago .🤕

  • @MargaretGourlay
    @MargaretGourlay 3 месяца назад +1

    My boyfriend broke up with me over text today saying “my mum said I can’t date anyone.” an hour later he’s dating his best friend’s sister……..acting like we were nether together,throwing the 2 months of our relationship down the drain….i kinda realised like now that..I already have fallen for someone else 😂

  • @chessmasteryzone123
    @chessmasteryzone123 5 месяцев назад

    "In your highest moment , the devil comes for you" - wise person

  • @TeoGrate_official
    @TeoGrate_official 3 месяца назад +1

    I am a guy, and I’d like to say. Most of this, is an anyway thing. Dudes can’t help but feel the need to be the strong, ideal man they want to be, or are “supposed” to be. My girlfriend has never seen me cry, most she has seen is see me near my breaking point. And I never want that, I’d feel like the worst boyfriend if she saw me cry, because it is a burden I wish to carry alone, and projecting it to her is a nightmare. But that’s what couples do, they help each other. Even if she hasn’t seen me cry, she fixes so much, just by being my gf. And I guess what I’m trying to say is, don’t be scared to share with your lover, they (should) support you through hell and back. That doesn’t necessarily mean vent and give all you hold, because a load to shoulder makes us human. But they should be able to know if you at least know they’re there to help.
    Love to you all, my girl, and the creator for making this known. Thanks for reading, have a great day or night. ❤❤

  • @Cookie.2025
    @Cookie.2025 2 месяца назад

    That’s true, especially when it was your biggest crush you dated then you lost her it really hits you😢

  • @AylaOROURKE
    @AylaOROURKE 4 месяца назад

    we aren’t friends we don’t talk,we aren’t enemies we don’t talk abt each other,we are strangers with memories that can’t be erased.

  • @thechillfortdude
    @thechillfortdude 3 месяца назад

    a dates this girl when for like 2 years during 5-6 grade. She broke up with me in January of 2022. I shoved down my feelings and did not care about them until 2 years later. I am now in 8th grade and she is in my middle school. She is so beautiful my feelings for her have come back. I cant stand seeing her now every day

  • @Riannalynn123
    @Riannalynn123 2 месяца назад

    He and i did some not ok stuff to each other after the break up. He hurt me and humiliated me bad after the breakup. I remember asking a friend that was coworkers with him if he ever seemed to care about the breakup and she said he seems fine like nothing ever happened. That broke me. I think one of the things that suck most about breakups is that u spend so much time loving this person that they’re like ur best friend but then u look at their actions and wonder if it was all one sided.

  • @g0j0nickzx
    @g0j0nickzx 2 месяца назад +1

    we broke up ages ago but i still cant get her out of my mind

  • @Angry_Ostrich
    @Angry_Ostrich 11 дней назад

    All my friends knew at the time early in the year, six months ago when my girlfriend broke up with me after 2 years, i was not fine, despite saying it. I still don’t feel fully fine, but i pretend i am to not worry them. I know i should move on, but I’m finding it so difficult. What makes it worse is that we are still friends, in the same friend group, so i just have to stay silent. So this is definitely realistic
    To anyone who feels a similar way, you’re not alone

  • @sararamos1782
    @sararamos1782 4 месяца назад +1

    I'm a girl and that.....I can understand alot idk if any other girls can but it hurts

  • @band1tgamer516
    @band1tgamer516 7 месяцев назад

    Keep your head held high I just got the break up text due to "family issues", whatever happened it happened for a reason god is only looking out for us so don't stay sad for too long and work on yourselves. Remember to love yourself first🫶

  • @GoofyGhostface7
    @GoofyGhostface7 3 месяца назад +1

    They also be hittin the gym like crazy

  • @super_nova_in_space
    @super_nova_in_space 2 месяца назад

    Even though it's sad it's true and I have been through all five, no it's not healthy but guys just don't want to burden or show weakness. It's more of a burden to show our weakness, and the response we get the most is something like walk it off or be a man or even grow up. And that's the sad truth. Just never think about suicide it makes things a whole lot worse. Best of luck to all men.

  • @Maxy-ip9wg
    @Maxy-ip9wg 5 месяцев назад +2

    Ik this is supposed to be sad but....
    The "Put the phone away" got me

  • @SUN-FLOWER-DRAGON
    @SUN-FLOWER-DRAGON 6 месяцев назад +1

    My boyfriend is the complete opposite. He did everyone of these. I’m the one that was doing these never want to show my emotions or any of that. And I said I was fine, but I never was.

  • @ItzMe_Frosty
    @ItzMe_Frosty 4 месяца назад +1

    We were dating for 8 months.
    He moved away because his parents wanted to be closer to family. He hasn’t even been in school for 2 weeks and he has a new girlfriend.
    Like Olivia Rodrigo says, “You didn’t cheat but you’re still a traitor”

  • @PatrickOcmond
    @PatrickOcmond 4 месяца назад

    You’re never the same after. I know because I’ve been dealing with the sadness for 2 years. I don’t cry anymore, because I trust no one.

  • @AYE_23B
    @AYE_23B 5 месяцев назад +1

    Guys if anyone is going through a rough time come and reply to my chat and I’ll pray for anyone bc I’ve been suffering a lot after my ex left me and I haven’t felt the same and she left me since the first day of summer break 😭😭😔💔

    • @shaunjayallison2436
      @shaunjayallison2436 3 месяца назад

      Pray for me gang i broke up with my girl and its been really stressful for me

    • @AYE_23B
      @AYE_23B 3 месяца назад

      I got you brother no one should be suffering like that I got you brother

  • @dsturman4890
    @dsturman4890 7 месяцев назад

    Why was this so accurate, I started dating this girl only a little under 2 months she broke up with me. She said I didn’t see her enough and broke up sending a text with a smiling face like this :).

  • @Cooki3PlaysRoblox
    @Cooki3PlaysRoblox Месяц назад +1

    OMG! I got back with my crush❤❤ I am 😭 crying with Happiness!

  • @Parzival98246
    @Parzival98246 5 месяцев назад

    I have been through a breakup and I can say that all of these are true
    I didn’t want to open up or show how broken I was because I was scared of getting hurt again or being judged.

  • @Sunny00bunny
    @Sunny00bunny 5 месяцев назад +1

    I lost my first relationship in May we were together almost 3 years, I wish him the best I do and he didn’t want to tell anyone we broke up.. But the next day his 3 best friends walked up to me and said he was in the wrong and they said he lost me and I was someone who loved him and it showed. They were mad and still are mad at him, and stopped talking to him for some time now. They said I deserved better. The next day I am in my first class and one of the professors wants to take us on a trip we do so and as we get their he says I like this girl ( let’s name her Amy) everyone is in complete shock and that night theirs a party and he says Amy do you like me? Amy says no sorry someone told me your a snake until you bite. One of his friends had told her that so he cried at the party. Now we are still friends but he acts like nothing happened and everyone is totally on my side. He blamed it on his parents saying he couldn’t be with me. And even today I still am hurt and he said if we ever do happen again we can’t tell anyone. And I said well I am gonna have to tell my best-friend, he says no. The convo didn’t really last after that we just forgot. But he left me heartbroken and in pieces and a total mess for weeks and months after. I still miss him, but I think I might have just found someone else

    • @Sunny00bunny
      @Sunny00bunny 5 месяцев назад

      and yep prob got a while

  • @STR4W_MM2
    @STR4W_MM2 4 месяца назад +1

    he just broke up with me and he was all for me idk what to do now and im crying watching this ....

  • @Hoyyyyyyaaaaaaaa
    @Hoyyyyyyaaaaaaaa 7 месяцев назад +1

    As a boy who had a breakup yesterday can confirm all of these

  • @noahlee3886
    @noahlee3886 Месяц назад

    The worst part of a relationship is the end but the good times hurt the most.

  • @SwagCane
    @SwagCane 7 месяцев назад +2

    1. Sit there and think of things we could have done different
    2. Cry
    3. Struggle with depression
    4. Wonder when the right girl will come
    5. Spend more time with the boys

  • @KeanneklintsilverioSilveri-g3z
    @KeanneklintsilverioSilveri-g3z 4 месяца назад

    It happened on Monday to Wednesday, I liked her but rejected.and this video,showed girls/women how fragile's man's heart

  • @40kJay-w
    @40kJay-w 2 месяца назад

    POV: me hanging out with the boys being happy😂😂😂

  • @liamvr-sn6sg
    @liamvr-sn6sg 5 месяцев назад +1

    I'm watching this cuz I broke up yesterday 😭😭😭😭😭

  • @A5TRO_IN4NIMAT3
    @A5TRO_IN4NIMAT3 3 месяца назад

    I’ve been through this before and trust me everything that is said is true

  • @Chunky-chomp
    @Chunky-chomp 5 месяцев назад +1

    I just went through a break up and this is exactly what I’m feeling rn…

  • @PokemonGamer09-zl5je
    @PokemonGamer09-zl5je 25 дней назад

    We have all felt this before. This is what some women don't understand. We have feeling we just push them away to save room for theres no matter what.

  • @random-ru4qo
    @random-ru4qo 4 месяца назад

    After losing friends so much over time and losing love after love, you get used to it and move on quicker, I speak from experience. It feels fine but you also feel like it shouldn’t be…

  • @Isaac_Fletcher
    @Isaac_Fletcher 6 месяцев назад +1

    6. They continue the search for Atlantis

  • @blobster007
    @blobster007 2 месяца назад

    he fought so hard for me, not listening to what any of his friends said about me.. yet i couldnt protect him... i couldnt be that ideal girlfriend.. i let him down.. i gave up on us. i broke up with him. i didnt give it another shot. what happened to solving everyrhing together i couldnt keep my promise at all. im sorry.
    ik why we broke up and ik it was for the better but i want to know how u feel rn i js wanna hear how your doing i just wanna hear if u miss me i just wanna hear if ur doing fine i js wanna hear if u still love me i dont expect anything but
    i still love u.. we cant be together but i still love you and ill wait for you if fate gives us another chance but right now we both know we need to focus on ourselves and our studies..

  • @PrernaBhambore
    @PrernaBhambore 2 месяца назад

    Same happens with girls too...I felt those things 😞❤️‍🩹

  • @remingtonmitchell4460
    @remingtonmitchell4460 Месяц назад

    My brother got cheated on. 5-year relationship, and he wasn't eating for days, not talking, and got arrested.

  • @Cookie46354
    @Cookie46354 4 месяца назад

    If anyone cry’s it doesn’t mean they’re weak it means they hold on for to long