The Shame Caused by Decluttering

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  • Опубликовано: 7 фев 2024
  • The Minimalists talk about the judgment, criticism, and shame that sometimes accompany decluttering. This is a highlight from episode 429. Watch the entire Private Podcast episode: / theminimalists
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Комментарии • 29

  • @TheMinimalists
    @TheMinimalists  3 месяца назад +7

    What judgments have you dealt with after decluttering?

    • @elaineclaire7063
      @elaineclaire7063 3 месяца назад +1

      Other than the fact that my dad thinks im throwing clothes away when im donating - he says i shouldnt buy and declutter cause than is a waste of money, he hates me decluttering - even though clothes no longer fit for me.

    • @user-3l1
      @user-3l1 3 месяца назад +4

      people think is wired or wrong that I don't have decor for example, or that I don't have an active social life after I let go people and activities that don't make me happy

    • @user-rq3qh5lz4h
      @user-rq3qh5lz4h 3 месяца назад +10

      Some people don’t understand and commented about that I still use old furniture or decorations from my childhood or teenage years instead of buying new stuff. I still like it. It makes me happy and I save money 😅.

    • @Fittnesj
      @Fittnesj 3 месяца назад

      Yes, I done the same, it so much more easy now to save up a lot money. And don't buy a lot decor to my home and consumer stuff, also waste to much money on going outside with freinds ​@@user-3l1

    • @Fittnesj
      @Fittnesj 3 месяца назад +3

      People jugde me now as poor, because I dont buy new clothes, as before. Wear a lot older clothes now. Most people jugde me as poor now

  • @Betty-mm9gz
    @Betty-mm9gz 3 месяца назад +10

    At first my family didn't understand my decisions of becoming a minimalist. Now, they are becoming a minimalist too. They are into buying the best things but less to show it off. They will not give up their clothes because it hides in their closets. But, they understand and we enjoy each other's company when we visit each other.

  • @TiffanySordillo
    @TiffanySordillo 3 месяца назад +15

    Tk’s analogies are so perfectly executed!

  • @katgallardo2797
    @katgallardo2797 3 месяца назад +7

    I really enjoy ❤ hearing TK speak. So happy he was added to the minimalist show.

  • @truthtelleranon
    @truthtelleranon 3 месяца назад +9

    TK is incredibly wise. Has he written a book yet?

    • @shinobuchan
      @shinobuchan 3 месяца назад +2

      Yep. It's called "emotional clutter" ❤❤

  • @vanessaportillo7381
    @vanessaportillo7381 3 месяца назад +3

    Excellent highlight. This goes beyond decluttering, it applies to our life in general

  • @lb1798
    @lb1798 3 месяца назад +3

    Love and respect are about being engaged even when you dont agree or fully understand.

  • @azsinger49
    @azsinger49 3 месяца назад +3

    I had to laugh when you played the first question and there's TK holding an old school black push button phone to his ear. Too funny.

  • @SRLevine7
    @SRLevine7 3 месяца назад

    I love the way TK talks. He is always so insightful and spot on

  • @anttoronto3202
    @anttoronto3202 3 месяца назад +7

    How can you live in such a small space?
    You need your own space separate from your spouse, with your own stuff.
    Judged all the time. As I said to someone, I don’t want to live in a storage locker, because that is exactly what all the years of clutter and consumerism ends up being, a storage locker. I don’t care.

  • @viyahtastinyhousevillage2727
    @viyahtastinyhousevillage2727 3 месяца назад +4

    Wisdom from author Don Miguel says “Don’t take anything personal “!!!!! Life is better that way

  • @natashyas4149
    @natashyas4149 3 месяца назад

    Thank you, TK

  • @Lisatwade
    @Lisatwade 3 месяца назад

    Great video guys!!!

  • @bobbid65
    @bobbid65 3 месяца назад

    Wisdom! Thanks.

  • @Betty-mm9gz
    @Betty-mm9gz 3 месяца назад

    I appreciate and like your videos.

  • @maryannlesh1
    @maryannlesh1 3 месяца назад +8

    ❤TK

  • @TM-nb9zf
    @TM-nb9zf 3 месяца назад

    Love TKs beard and hair so so much❤

  • @GizmoBeach
    @GizmoBeach 3 месяца назад

    If you're single it's easy to declutter and keep only what *you* feel is important.
    To be in a relationship of any kind and remain clutter-free is a challenge if they're not so inclined. It's also not an issue to be a minimalist if you don't plan on having company over (like ever) in a Western society environment where guests expect sofas and tables and kitchen appliances galore and perhaps a place to stay over a night or several etc.