Why we chose to educate my son in the USA
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The U.S. education system has various flaws, but starting from the third grade, children are taught that the country has a constitution, that they are citizens of the nation, and what rights and obligations they have. In contrast, China's education teaches children how to be grateful to the Party and even tells them that it is the Party that provides for their families. When the interests of the Party conflict with family interests, they are told to choose the Party. As a result, children brought up this way are unfamiliar with concepts like citizens and taxpayers. When they encounter difficulties in life, they often blame the United States for oppressing us. Therefore, if there's a choice, I'd certainly choose the US education system.
@@BanksLee-k1u 家国情怀，不限于政党
the shortcomings of American or even Western education are weak in hard knowledge like mathematics, physics and chemistry, literature art lack logic(including mathematical logic)
@@余明新 incorrect
@@余明新that is not true for kids going through US education system where kids can make much more choices.
家長們都是為孩子考慮，無論是基於什麼考量，都是有原因，都是對的，祝福你們一家中秋節快樂
My kid has the same situation. He doesn't hold the Chinese citizenship. But fortunately we apply the Chinese Green Card or PR for him at the last moment of his first year primary school enrollment. At first he was allocate to a very far away primary school. But we went to the education office, and they change the decision and allocate my son to a good primary school which near my home.
The education office told us this was the first time they change the allocation decision, and also my kid is the first pr in my district in Guangzhou.
I felt so lucky.
哪儿的父母都一样为孩子的教育操碎了心❤！
小麦 is such a sweet and smart boy. I'm sure Mom would love to see that he becomes a doctor or lawyer!
I am so happy for 小麦 for his first day of school!
Returning to the us to study was the best decision
小麦长高了！❤祝学业进步！
看到你和你的家庭在美國過上幸福的生活，為你們感到高興！
你很有钱，我懂！我还是留下在上海好好的😂😂😂
I love how Xiaomai said: I'm exired. What a cheerful baby.
thank u for ur content ,which helps me better to know with the differences in education,culture,concept and so on btw china and us.absolutely，it is useful for me as a english learner.Expect more nice content
小麦外向是好事，多运动，消耗体力，哈哈哈，小麦这么平顺地入学真不错，我女儿当时哭了三天。不过现在一年级很适应公校了。
我儿子哭了三个月😅
小麦is soooo cute😂❤oh I love to watch him.
Love these videos you made about English and please keep making ❤. Thanks 👍😊!
I know exactly how you feel! I also left China this summer so my son could go to school back home. We tried online homeschool, and the education was pretty good, but like you said, I want him to be socialized. Wishing you and your family all the best!
P.S. Other people’s kids grow up so fast!
是的，我孩子也是从一所不错的公立被在线高中录取了。就学习而言绝对是无敌的。
The annual education fee for an international school in Shanghai is 30万RMB+. It is not really for normal families.
Your son is so adorable.
小麦长大了。 Some question marks can be showed in his eyes. Wonderful little Mike day after day...
祝一切顺利
We have a little 3 year old right now. My wife has been thinking about doing one of the options that you considered - basically going to China for a couple of years right around 1st grade or so to help solidify his Mandarin. But we haven't yet made a final decision on doing that. Right now we live in Utah, and a lot of the schools here also have Chinese language immersion - so that's another option we are considering.
When I was growing up in Texas there was about 1 or 2 years in which my elementary school did a "year-round" schedule, and we really loved it as well. It worked essentially the same as how you described it in your video.
Very good video clip. I think you definitely made the right choice for 小麦。I’m a doctoral degree background, and worked in mncs 20 years, my daughter is Chinese American mixture too, I 100% agree that those expensive schools have no values, the only value is your kid can make rich family friends. In the way of academic or basic study, it’s not needed to be too expensive for education, it’s actually bad for young children between 3-15 years old. At the end of the day, overall kindergarten, primary school and high schools. The total knowledge and practices are not much, it does not needed to spend too much money in schooling. As parents we should save more funding for kids from 14-24 years old when they go to higher education, and funding for their work start ups after university.
Totally understand your way of thinking. Right now my daughter (4yo) is in a private kindergarten with mostly Chinese kids. She would also have problems to get into public school in Shanghai.
For us as well paying for international school would not be an option considering that our daughter could enter any public school in the EU with ease.
Hence, when school time comes, we also are considering a move back to the EU.
我女儿（爸爸美国人）出生在上海，5岁到美国乔治亚州北部小镇入学，整个小学charter school体验都是不错的，快乐教育，德智体美，老师和蔼可亲，学校和家长沟通顺畅。但自从开始上中学public school，我们就发现有各种问题，公立学校的老师根本就不在乎学生，没有回家作业，理由是大部分学生不理会作业，所以学校决定取消。只要完成课堂作业，不管质量如何，所有学生都拿A。校园杂草丛生，教学楼脏乱不堪，英文老师一些简单的拼写都不会，招生办的老师公认撒谎，学生染着各种五颜六色的头发，还有男生化妆等等。。这是一家评级A，打分8/10的公立学校，学校重点放在应付各种联邦或州的统考。我们无法忍受，两周后就把孩子转去私立学校，并打算一路读到12年纪。这就是美国公共教育的现状，我们的亲历。
从你描述的乔治亚公立中学的情况来看，还好！加州公立学校，吸毒，变性，比监狱还热闹
@@yanphilip5937 监狱可不热闹，像是冷宫，关的都是良民🤣
我体验的是不一样的。应该是学区问题吧。我们住在Murrieta SoCal。我们的小学每天都有作业，每个家长只要有空都可以去教室帮忙辅导并且时不时都有家长和老师的presentation。我女儿目前是K但是每晚都有作业，英语和数学都有。
We are in Texas, at one of the best ISDs in the metroplex. Great schools from elementary to high school. Excellent teachers and great students. My kid is an 8th grader, they get 30mins free time at school to finish any homework for the day so they can focus on extracurricular activities after school. There are lots of clubs, sports, music and field trips to keep them busy, kids often have to arrive early or stay late after school for practice. He spends most time on other "homework" like tennis matches, robotics and orchestra competitions, volunteer works-- all required by the school.
我家孩子从pre-k 到 6th grade感觉美国的学校还是可以的，进中学是个转折点一路下滑急转直下
Forget Shanghai, you already find great state in America as a home. After few years, I will Love 北卡 more and more. Great place!
Germans are generally not in favour of private schools, in their opinion educations should be absolutely fair and basic education should be free so that all children can get education, that's why there are private schools, but they are not so popular. My son went to kindergarten in China when he was 5, but after one day he refused to go, the reason was that the classroom was not like a living room like in German kindergartens, and the children had to sleep at noon, they had to sit in a circle and sing and read, and they had ‘have to’ too much.
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U can apply travel doc for Kai then he can easily get Hukou in Shanghai. Same situation.
*谢谢你的视频啊！💓*
thanks for your video
The year round schedule is an interesting idea! We don’t have that in my county. My children go to a Mandarin after-school that picks them up from school but even so, maintaining Mandarin level is difficult.
right decision
Thanks for sharing🎉
美国基本能普遍保证幼儿园和小学阶段孩子的优质的人性化教育，从中学开始会出现很多问题和挑战，对于一个体积巨大繁杂的移民国家来说这已经是一种不错的分层了。
因为人类在幼年和童年时的理性成分很少，所以他们接受到的环境影响会直接写入大脑最底层部分，很难通过后来的理性认知调整，因此保证孩子幼儿和童年时期的高质量人性化对待，将稳固其情感基本盘--即这个世界是欢迎他的是接纳他的是允许他舒展自己的意志的。
到了青少年时期，理性部分开始逐渐抬头，这个时期受到的更多的是理性认知的影响，既然是理性的影响，那么就可以通过其它的理性认知来调整。
因此如果不得不做出选择，应该优先大面积保证幼儿和童年时期的优质的人性化教育。
So cute ❤
My son also start kindergarten this year in CA. The school starts at 8am and have very strict uniform policy, he is not happy 😂
我没有小孩😂，但我见我老公女儿从小到大都是各种运动训练，也没怎么复习，上了大学学医，见她几乎每周六都飞去和男友团聚，也没怎复习，却A+，所以如果我有小孩，我更希望她们可以在国内的国际学校读小学，初中。
小麦这个年纪可以开始一项或者几项体育运动了，集体运动和个人运动同时进行有不同的锻炼效果， 试试冰球和网球
不用担心小麦，我相信小麦在父母及老师的关心下能健康成长，能做自己喜欢的事，并做好。麦克老师原是打算让小麦在中国公立学校接受小学教育，但小麦是外国国籍，不能进入中国公立小学而已，希望麦克老师不要在意有些言论。
Nice👍
小麦长到十来岁的时候再看这段视频，会说这是他的黑历史，yummy.
That's true, grass-roots hard to get social resources from Chinese gov.
Is Teacher Mike actually a licensed teacher? There's no way he couldn't have gotten a job at an international school and had Kai go to school there.
小麦长大了❤
Household registration 不是registation
看着小麦长大 我囡囡比小麦小半岁 今年都是最后一年幼稚园，明年要上小学了
Does most public schools in your area start at 9am? That’s so cool but I guess it’s not parent friendly. Here in LA, many public elementary schools start at 7:50, some TK even start at 7:30am! Mostly before 8:30. Do they get off from school later too? Here it goes from 7:50-2:30pm or 3pm
麦克老师加油🎉
😢我们现在一年级，8:15到学校，亲妈表示娃和我们早晨都起不来😂
中秋节快乐，Mike!
I have a one year old, but what we heard here in Texas is that public schools start around 7:30, making me a bit worried of getting her (and myself) up early in the morning. And they dismiss kids like 3 in the afternoon, when obviously I'm at work, do I need to send her to another after school?🤣
We are in Texas, my kid has been taking the school bus since kindergarten and he loved it. He get to hangout with his friends on the ride.
And schools have after school care for parents who work, for very little fees. No worries
@@nancyn8324 I’m wondering if the school schedule works better in North Carolina. But good to know, thanks for sharing more info!
hey 麦克老师, where do you live in NC? I used to live in Raleigh NC for 7 years, you are doing the best for your family, and respect. You do look like my friend who lives in Greensboro, i think you two need to meet up sometimes haha.
We moved to Cary, made a video about it 2 weeks ago.
Or he could finish highschool then learn a trade, maybe even travel to Europe to learn a trade there . He will have no or much less debt and will make more money. Americans always think law or doctor. But who is going to build your manufacturing lines, houses, lay tiles, dig trenches...? The us educational system really needs to think out of the "college" box
What kind of trade do you recommend
美国可比中国重视学历😅
医生不是手艺？法律没有技术？麦当劳叫做快餐，米其林叫艺术。差异在收入。政客也是一种技术活。
@@chunli8169重视圈子。顶级大学70%是来自前100的顶级私立高中。
It was joke...jeez you really need to learn sarcasm. Of course he can choose what he wants to be when he gets older.
Leaving Shanghai for USA was the smartest decision you guys ever made🎉🎉
Can’t agree more!
I am curious as to why u stated that…because of the tuition or others?
因为美国教育没那么卷，注重人性，相比之下更能给孩子启发和一个幸福的童年。赞！
到高中一样非常卷的，焦虑程度不相上下，只是不会仅限于数理化
@@hazelabcd高中的卷是因为美国这的公立学校基本上不怎么教，基础打不好学习就越来越难….！
你錯了，美國社會頂層還是競爭，從幼兒園名額就開始競爭，只是這位美國人不是社會頂層。
你確定嗎？AP（大學先修課）、課外活動、實習（對！沒錯，從高中開始就要找），基本沒見過快樂的高中生。公立學校老師良莠不齊，小孩本身要有強大心理素質加上父母精神與財力支持。哪裡都不簡單。
Compared to China, no not as much pressure. Some parents put more pressure on their kids than others. We did not want my son to face so much pressure as a kid. He's pretty smart so I'm not at all worried about his academics.
why we chose to educate our son
他不是幾年前，才在上海買房子了，現在賣了？
So you moved to NC?
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真不明白。以前说中国多好多好。现在为什么生活在美国？
@@黄王-y1h 以前需要赚人民币，现在不需要了！
小Mike跟爸爸长得真像，太帅了!
帅气的小麦更像爸爸，我见过中国妈妈加拿大爸爸生的儿子， 儿子太多亚洲人特征。
我咋觉得一点儿也不像爸爸，像妈妈。
沒有一點像，只有會說英文像😂😂😂
睁眼说瞎话
反话😂
旅游签几乎不可能租到公寓的，需要看信用分收入证明等东西，现在很严格
We went to Cary to check it out after your "where to live" video and learnt there are lots of bugs and insects in NC, e.g., water bugs..... Have you had any problems with bugs?
Not really. My home state of Minnesota has terrible mosquitoes in the summer. Much worse than here. It's all relative. We do see some cockroaches occasionally.
我拿到美签了 想去美国学英语
不对啊，小麦完全可以拿中国旅行证啊，就可以上户口的啊，直到18岁。很多混血儿都这样的，拿爸爸国家的护照，也拿中国的旅行证上户口
北卡的magnet school是抽签的？我们这里magnet school是要考试的，charter school是要抽签的
why don't you think of having another child, so Kai can have a sibling to play with?
不对啊，你太太只要没有美国绿卡，父母一方中国籍一方美国籍，在中国小孩就是可以上户口的。
我现在让孩子先读几年公立小学，中文基础扎实了，再去美国读书
肯定回美国好咯
我们可以让孩子之间交流. 如果需要联系哈
How old are you miketeach
談論美國公立學校居然忽視校園槍擊？ NC is an open carry without permit and no limits on size and capacity. GOOD LUCK.
Is that why it's so safe here?
😂 same joke in Texas too. That's one of those basic rights, government should not take them away. It's protected by Constitution.
可能老师那个区的教育比较好一点吧，就我自己看纽约这的公立学校经过疫情后老师混水摸鱼的情况太严重了….！
我們也是經過2022年上海封城後馬上就搬來美國了 懂的都懂
你儿子跟我四岁半的儿子名字一样，Kai好像很流行的名字，他也是爸爸是白人，我们选择了私立学校，在Arizona school choice 可以把公立学校的钱申请出来上私立学校
你这植发保住了吗，感觉回到解放前了啊
我最后悔的事情就是把小孩从上海的福外转到美国的公立学校。 南加州10分的学校教育就是一坨，每个年级都有那种什么都不教的老师知道吧。要是想教育质量好一点，newport beach sage hill那种学校每年要10万刀。公立学校每天吃的午饭用我的儿子的话说就是poo。现在读到高中了，小学初中的快乐教育现在都变成了脑子里的水，眼睛里的泪。
中国的基础教育确实质量很高，我儿子小学二年级，现在他们做的题目比我们小时候要灵活很多，但也不是很累，每天能户外玩一个小时，回家再复习作业预习一个小时，感觉刚好
為什麼我們選擇讓孩子在美國閱讀？X閱讀 O讀書.為什麼我們選擇讓孩子在美國讀書/入學.
中美教育好像没得比，中国不知道现在如何，我学生时候在中国的，应试/被洗脑/卷作业，家长送礼走后门找补习班
人家精英教育也鸡娃的，底层快乐教育当然无所谓。
My husband used to working in a good international school in China,even in there the book import from abroad,sometimes you find out that the page after P34 is P36,Why page 35 has been missing ? Because they can’t show you that ,Even this happening in an international school ,In china there’s nothing about international,How a country can be international without embracing the world ?
For international school faculty ,Tuition for their kids are free ,but the education there is not what we want, We moved back to the States with determination.
Absolutely right,they will only make fool of us,I’m from china, I don’t want my kids to go through what I have Been through,so I choose not to have kids forever,what a sad life!
走好，不送
If the book is imported, those pages missing might be imparting some ideas or values that is contradicting the Chinese values. It might be a protection. Not all things from oversea is good. I have heard that in US, they tell children from young age that they can choose their gender if they want, and hey have like over 90 genders. Sorry, I wouldn't send my young kids to US for school.
what was the subj for pg35 missin?
Same situation at the international school I worked at but I still enjoyed working there.
北卡房子也过剩了
如果你有足够钱会选择私立学校吗？其实我发觉美国公立小学一个老师教所有课其实也很忙的，全班20个学生根本无法照顾学生的个性发展。
确实如此。
公立学校的教育理念是让学生不要掉队 通过测评 落后的学生往往能得到老师更多的关注 超前的学生就自由发展了
麦克老师只是懂英语，对教育应该也是一张白纸。看到中国的教育虽然很好，但更多的是担心与不满。回到美国选好学区应该也是受中国影响😂
估计他自己都搞不清楚了。
家长的摇摆对孩子的教育最不好😂
@@chunli8169 从他的这个视频里并没有看出担心和不满，他孩子是美籍，读不了上海的好的公立小学，私立又读不起，只好回到美国读公立。
一个老师教所有课，在正经好公立小学，是不存在的的事。私立良莠不齐，很多很便宜，但是好的少，绝大多数开的课程范围狭窄，老师不需要凭证上岗，一般家长不敢随便送的。
美国好大学多如牛毛，大学之前相对不像中国那么卷，孩子看的紧点不走歪路，念个好大学问题不大。
好大学就前几十所，能上顶级的前20的就这2万学生。基本是顶级私立高中的孩子。美国的社会是圈子的社会，讲究认可度。中国还有高考。美国首先是认可，其次是成绩。
排名前20的顶级大学还用你说当然卷了。我说的好大学是哪怕排名150之内的大多都是不错的大学。
@@fifibao8895 你真较劲了，现在UCLA都烂了，我说是本科，您还前150。毕业的时候差5名，工资就不同。您没经历过，不知道。中国还有高考，这里哈佛的门都不知道往哪开。幼稚了。
@@fifibao8895 每个人不同，认定好坏不一样。但哈佛不是清华，上清华看高考。读哈佛看肚皮。已经到了如何投胎了，你说不卷。150名大学收多少学生？就算50万，还有320万怎么办？美国大学教育是顶级的，机会也多很多，但是都非常卷。
@@huagan2657 谁在较劲很明显啊，老师你开口不是哈佛就是top 20的学校，敢情是把国内卷的精神带到美国来继续，那我真不打扰你了，我就继续幼稚下去吧。
在美国生活成本低呀，可以0元购，真羡慕你们美国人。👍
美国生活成本低？？你是从那听来的？？
為什麼不帶兒子返回中國讀書？中國那麼好的教育👍福利，上學，醫療，完全高於世界👍那麼福利必然高於美國🇺🇸回中國吧！
because you he won't need to learn Xi thought, and will be a free person growing up.
中国的正常人想破了头让孩子逃到正常的国家去上学，你这不是废话吗？各种移民、留学广告最关键的就是“没有思想禁锢、没有洗脑”，有条件的谁愿意孩子在一座巨大的精神病院里上学？
正常人都会选择在美国读书，中国啥样，我们不清楚吗？😂
恐怕你应该不知道国内的国际学校很多 外国人 很多很多各个国家的都有
你在说笑话吗？
2024了
啥样 你来介绍下
这么多中国人都不正常，就你正常？😂
Kai真的长大了很多........
怎么感觉像混血宝宝
很简单，上海的国际学校太贵，美国公立学校免费。难道在上海的菜场小学天天学习治国理政思想
父子两长得不是很像呀🥶
麦克老师让自己孩子在美好学区接受教育是极其明智的选择，如果还在上海小麦念书从小就要被洗脑，小学生都要学习二百斤的《治国理政》，
真的吗😟
笑死 太肤浅了 难道其他国家没有爱国主义教育吗
咱那是爱党教育
你上过美国学校嘛？ 😆
@@XINLONGHAN-c8p 美国的小学教育是人格教育，培养孩子的人品世界观价值观，不要长大了还要到处张贴不要随地吐痰丢垃圾，不要攀爬折花不要大声喧哗要先下后上....，这和中国古代师者传道授业解惑有异曲同工，而国内教育把传道变为了洗脑。
留在美国读书更好，中文也不要放弃，多元国家双语竞争力更强
非美国合法身份的孩子也能入读美国公立学校吗？比如中国父母持旅游签带着孩子来美国，可以让孩子读公立中小学校吗？
不可以的， 那有那么好的事！
可以啊，学校又不管你什么身份，只要住在那片就可以了
不可以❌
道理上可以，实际操作上很难，1.旅游签租房很难 2.小孩读书读成黑户了，以后还出境吗，还回国吗？出境再回来会被美国海关禁止入境的。除非父母铁了心黑在美国，但让小孩身份也变黑户，没有了黑在这的意义，一般黑户都是在美国生娃，这样小孩直接美籍，正常身份。
麦克老师你会投票给谁，川普还是哈里斯？另外，请问你怎么看关于川普的两次刺杀？
他们两个都不行， 我很有可能投票给第三方候选人。还没确定。
@@maikelaoshithe US politic is a mess. Take the less of 2 evils i guess 🤷🏻♂️
@@yongdeng1813 It's a mess by design. The president doesn't actually change the country very much. The president was never supposed to be in the forefront and act as the face of the country. The government's main role in the US traditionally has been to protect the rights of its citizens. Lately, it has been trying to take away some of those rights, but mostly unsuccessfully. This is the true battle.
人不作妖，就沒人會想要刺殺他。想想那些刺客都是些什麼人？普通人而已，對他失望至極的人，看來原先也都是支持共和黨的，但沒想到政黨出了這麼個爛貨，讓他們心理落差極大，遂行走極端。
@@maikelaoshi 100% agree. I always said the president doesnt decide what policy to implement, he is just a mouth piece. The deep state decides what is in place, and thats the military industrial complex.
不對啊 媽媽是中國籍 又在中國結婚的 身邊很多這樣的父母單方外國籍也住上海都能給上戶口呀
I think you have developed some chinglish accent 😅
留在中國學什麼？學馬列主義習思想嗎？