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  • Опубликовано: 7 янв 2025

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      @coolcats12345678910 5 лет назад

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      @sherylschannel4458 5 лет назад +1

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  • @amberleitao4727
    @amberleitao4727 5 лет назад +620

    My parents were high school sweethearts. Got married at 21 and 22 and that was back in 1972. And they are STILL married today, grossly in love 😂 and their relationship has been a wonderful example growing up of love, mutual respect and hard work.

    • @refinery29
      @refinery29  5 лет назад +15

      +amberleitao That's so nice to hear!

    • @Daaaanielle
      @Daaaanielle 4 года назад

      Goals tbh. Not high school because 1. I went to an all girls school 2. I was a nerd that never attracted a boy.
      But being married 48 years and still having love for one another? Absolute life goals

  • @imtoolazyyyy
    @imtoolazyyyy 5 лет назад +1087

    holy shit she and michael come from rich families, casual house in the hamptons, what a nice life that must be

    • @leonm.goldsteinhighschoolf8254
      @leonm.goldsteinhighschoolf8254 5 лет назад +5

      imtoolazyyyy Excuse me, sir, madam adopt me
      😆 lol

    • @tabr9055
      @tabr9055 5 лет назад +41

      I love that despite that she still seems so nice and down to earth and is hard working.

    • @napperforlife2020
      @napperforlife2020 5 лет назад +8

      Yes, they worked hard to make money over time. Working hard. It takes time and can be done.

    • @io2255
      @io2255 5 лет назад +40

      napperforlife im sure generational wealth plays a part. Regardless she seems to work hard.

    • @farzanayasmin887
      @farzanayasmin887 4 года назад +4

      Why does it matter? Lucie and Michael both earned their own money which obviously came from hardwork not like their families pay for their everything. They bought their house with their own hardworking money and yess having rich families means they got nice background and that nice background brought a lot of friends overall we all can work hard and get house in Hamptons then get a lots of friends so CHILL

  • @thempenguindrums0
    @thempenguindrums0 5 лет назад +725

    LITERALLY the hamptons. suddenly Lucy and michaels nice ass NY apartment makes so much sense lol

    • @Daaaanielle
      @Daaaanielle 4 года назад +12

      When they showed his family home, which I am 99% sure was featured in the show "Revenge" I was like.... ohhhhhhhhh ok.

  • @indiraespinal8015
    @indiraespinal8015 5 лет назад +1080

    “We both have big families...we had over 200 guests”
    Me: *laughs in Spanish*

    • @imahaziz483
      @imahaziz483 5 лет назад +33

      Me: laughs in Malay

    • @rosemaryreggie595
      @rosemaryreggie595 5 лет назад +63

      Me: laughs in Indian

    • @lusianau
      @lusianau 5 лет назад +27

      Laughs in Indonesia *my neighbors usually invite thousand guests lol

    • @isabellarain_
      @isabellarain_ 5 лет назад +36

      Laughs in person of color

    • @samblake7170
      @samblake7170 5 лет назад +38

      Me: laughs in Asian

  • @verena.helen.8445
    @verena.helen.8445 5 лет назад +482

    That is probably the most aesthetic wedding i‘ve ever seen

  • @luciebfink
    @luciebfink 5 лет назад +276

    YESSSS! This wedding was an absolute dream and I'm so grateful to be able to share bits and pieces with you all. Thank you for watching

  • @auroramorice1229
    @auroramorice1229 5 лет назад +388

    Ohhh so they have money money, suddenly it makes much more sense that they had an expensive big ass wedding and an incredibly nice apartment in nyc even though she’s a blogger

    • @vaish_chavan
      @vaish_chavan 5 лет назад

      What is her Instagram or RUclips or blog

    • @liviamartin3641
      @liviamartin3641 5 лет назад +2

      Vaishnavi Chavan She works part time for Refinery29 and is on their channel, her youtube is Lucie Fink

    • @napperforlife2020
      @napperforlife2020 5 лет назад +3

      Yes. They worked hard to make their money over time like many families who have money.

  • @hebakhan4728
    @hebakhan4728 5 лет назад +627

    I love how they think that 200 people is a lot. Desi families will think a 1000 people wedding is a personal gathering

    • @laibakhan3769
      @laibakhan3769 5 лет назад +8

      Heba Khan sooo trueee😂 my closest cousin are more than 50😂😂😂

    • @ShahiMehndi
      @ShahiMehndi 5 лет назад +14

      THATS WHAT I WAS THINKING. My dad is the one of 9 siblings and my mom is the eldest of 11. Each with average 3-4 kids and now their kids have kids. JUST immediate family for me is about 93 people

    • @DiaN-do3jm
      @DiaN-do3jm 5 лет назад +2

      to me 100 people is hell a lot.

    • @Sofie2734
      @Sofie2734 5 лет назад +1

      Arabs too! Seriously, my aunts wedding had a thousand people and it lasted for five days

    • @leonm.goldsteinhighschoolf8254
      @leonm.goldsteinhighschoolf8254 5 лет назад

      Heba Khan My mom is the youngest of 9, and then my dad has 4 full siblings and 4 or 5 half siblings he’s very close to. In cousins I’m at about 100(close)

  • @heyitsshah4621
    @heyitsshah4621 5 лет назад +476

    their definition of a big family:200 guests
    **laughs in Asian**

    • @Ggiah0
      @Ggiah0 5 лет назад +19

      Talk about indians ... My gosh

    • @hibashamim3979
      @hibashamim3979 5 лет назад +3

      My aunt (phupo's) wedding had 500 guests minimum😂

    • @heyitsshah4621
      @heyitsshah4621 5 лет назад +1

      my sister had invited at least a 1000 but we all know that they all had extra baggage 😂

    • @wallflower2769
      @wallflower2769 4 года назад

      200 are uninvited ones here 🙋

    • @Daaaanielle
      @Daaaanielle 4 года назад

      Went to a Pakistani wedding once.
      Never have I ever seen so much people in one place outside of like, a concert or something public. LOL

  • @pleasantlydrifting6663
    @pleasantlydrifting6663 5 лет назад +32

    Such a rare thing to marry your high school sweetheart! Dating for ten years was a smart decision in your situation being so young. You gave yourselves time to grow into adults and into your careers first. What a beautiful couple

  • @marisapearce3328
    @marisapearce3328 5 лет назад +359

    Husband has family home in hamptons... nice

  • @carnificina7724
    @carnificina7724 5 лет назад +38

    My parents have been married for 13 years, they were both 27 at the time, and started dating during their 3rd or 4th year of high school. Hope you two will continue on!

  • @dariabaranoff9687
    @dariabaranoff9687 5 лет назад +124

    Oh My God his house is INSANELY BIG!!!! How rich are they!?!

  • @sherylschannel4458
    @sherylschannel4458 5 лет назад +87

    This content proves that dating in a very long period of time and ending to a lifetime of being together is really a pure love. That means they really are meant to be. Congratulations.😊😊😊

    • @refinery29
      @refinery29  5 лет назад +5

      +sherbear That's so sweet and well put!

    • @luciebfink
      @luciebfink 5 лет назад +4

      AWWWW we think so too!!!! Thanks for watching :)

    • @sherylschannel4458
      @sherylschannel4458 5 лет назад +2

      @@refinery29 my heart beats fast upon watching you guys. How i wish i can walk down the isle as pretty and as happy as you are 😊😊

  • @medicspirit
    @medicspirit 5 лет назад +135

    Excuse me what that was his childhood house

  • @Marina-xd7gp
    @Marina-xd7gp 5 лет назад +40

    Who are these people and why am I invested in their wedding

  • @sydney.lorddd
    @sydney.lorddd 5 лет назад +73

    Oh my gosh Lucie your wedding was amazing! And please do a video about your hair, it’s stunning! Congratulations by the way!!

  • @ItsaboutbeautyNl
    @ItsaboutbeautyNl 5 лет назад +50

    Me: 200 guests? Must be super expensive!
    Them: Our family's house in the Hamptons...
    Me: Never mind. I'll go back to planning my super low budget wedding

  • @StrawberryNinja1296
    @StrawberryNinja1296 5 лет назад +53

    Me and my husband are also high school sweet hearts. We celebrated by going out to eat sushi lmao. There’s beauty in simplicity, being poor ain’t all bad.

    • @Daaaanielle
      @Daaaanielle 4 года назад +5

      I wish you all the happiness in the world.
      You are 100% right, simple is also amazing. This wedding was great but I'd want something super tiny, just a restaurant with our immediate families. No one else.

  • @amalk2036
    @amalk2036 5 лет назад +30

    omgggg they're so cuteeee also imagine being him in high school and knowing ur gonna marry ur gf

  • @Riquilina
    @Riquilina 5 лет назад +13

    Mike doesn’t stop looking at her 🥰 they’re soooo in love 🥰
    How beautiful !!!

  • @coryf725
    @coryf725 5 лет назад +524

    To be rich....

  • @jemma-joon
    @jemma-joon 5 лет назад +7

    The wedding and her makeup hair are goalssss, even the sunny day!! The dress, to each his taste!

  • @seemapatil6060
    @seemapatil6060 5 лет назад +33

    Wow....just wow such a lovely & beautiful couple . 😊Speechless . Totally amazing...you guys are lucky not everyone gets the chance.

  • @MindfulMya
    @MindfulMya 5 лет назад +12

    Aww we love a sensitive man ... he is so sweet. Congrats again you two! xo

  • @Rhiles44
    @Rhiles44 5 лет назад +4

    Been married for 9 years, together for 13. Ages 27 and 29. Still madly in love and having the time of our lives.

  • @henriettewakatolo4747
    @henriettewakatolo4747 5 лет назад +229

    (cries in poor 😭)

    • @masens.9010
      @masens.9010 5 лет назад +13

      Henriette Wa Katolo same lol. Some people seem to win the “life lottery”

    • @AddieWagenknecht
      @AddieWagenknecht 5 лет назад +2

      what does her husband do? Cause content doesn't pay that well

  • @Flinch4Me
    @Flinch4Me 5 лет назад +4

    I have been with my high school sweetheart for eleven years and been married for a few months. We've been together for so long already and everything about our wedding was awesome.

  • @lsuzicosbw644
    @lsuzicosbw644 5 лет назад +208

    I want my divorce party to be this aesthetic 🎊

  • @Nobody78910
    @Nobody78910 5 лет назад +19

    This is so wonderful! I’m also going to be marrying my high school sweet heart next year, we’ve been together for 7 years 💕

    • @refinery29
      @refinery29  5 лет назад +1

      +none Aw! Congrats!

    • @luciebfink
      @luciebfink 5 лет назад +1

      WOW, congrats! Sending so much love.

  • @moreafterthistime
    @moreafterthistime 5 лет назад +49

    My dark soul loves the Black box room!

    • @refinery29
      @refinery29  5 лет назад +2

      +issarae'sbodydouble Same! 🖤

  • @carolinemeier362
    @carolinemeier362 5 лет назад +50

    He looks like the tennisplayer djokovic

  • @EmilieFox_
    @EmilieFox_ 5 лет назад +5

    I'm celebrating my 10 year relationship with my fiance on January 1st. Lasting relationships that start in high school are rare!

  • @shiwan45
    @shiwan45 5 лет назад +15

    Wow such a beautiful couple . This wedding was so romantic and loving

  • @Ema-hg7nm
    @Ema-hg7nm 5 лет назад +83

    i thought it was Novak Djokovic

  • @Bhailluv
    @Bhailluv 5 лет назад +4

    Looked like a beautiful wedding for a lovely couple! I’m glad they were able to balance creating content and enjoying their day.

  • @billion86
    @billion86 5 лет назад +17

    Nothing like EARTH, WIND AND FIRE!!

  • @veggiebea
    @veggiebea 5 лет назад +24

    Wasn’t this already posted? Or was that on her channel? I’ve seen so much content about this wedding.

  • @wooof.
    @wooof. 5 лет назад

    Thanks Lucie for sharing your wedding with us!!! It looked lovely. CONGRATS

  • @AnaRuiz-vu4cg
    @AnaRuiz-vu4cg 5 лет назад +18

    My niece dated her boyfriend 10 years too. His name is Muchael .

  • @Nina-om7th
    @Nina-om7th 4 года назад +2

    Lol why is everyone talking about the guests or their wealth.. its a beautiful wedding and I wish you two all the best!

  • @crystaldeboer
    @crystaldeboer 5 лет назад +4

    Congrats! Basically have the same story with my husband (10 years together before we married, from the same home town, huge family party for the wedding)

  • @Osea-hello
    @Osea-hello 5 лет назад +3

    It’s so nice to see another high school couple get married! My husband and I have been together for 9.5 years and we eloped almost 5 years ago (His deployment and most of my family being in Mexico did not make for easy or affordable planning)... We’ll have an actual wedding and honeymoon eventually 😂😅

  • @couchpotato9060
    @couchpotato9060 4 года назад +3

    They literally have the most wattpad-y relationship.

  • @KaseyGall
    @KaseyGall 5 лет назад +1

    I’m with my boyfriend of over 13 years, fiancé for 6. It would be a dream come true to have a wedding even remotely close to this. Beautiful!

  • @CSmith-tn8nv
    @CSmith-tn8nv 5 лет назад

    This video was just a joy to watch. I love how sweet and comfortable you all are with each other. Your wedding was beautiful. Wishing you all the best for the future.

  • @justbecause6472
    @justbecause6472 5 лет назад +3

    😂😂😂 High school sweethearts? Wow! God really wanted you guys to be together! Blessings over your marriage ❤️

  • @nicholejones683
    @nicholejones683 4 года назад

    That dress!! You look like a fairy princess that doubles as a high fashion model!!! You looked beautiful !!

  • @izzythegolden759
    @izzythegolden759 5 лет назад +15

    Her: we had 200 guests
    Me: laughs in Italian

  • @alexaevans7628
    @alexaevans7628 5 лет назад +4

    They’re such a gorgeous couple 😭

  • @billion86
    @billion86 5 лет назад +5

    "I think I took his breath away " ☺️

  • @beandog1713
    @beandog1713 5 лет назад +1

    Her dress and crown are simply perfect

  • @MuthiaKP
    @MuthiaKP 5 лет назад +79

    no one:
    definitely no one:
    me: they look alike.

    • @LittleMissSunshineHA
      @LittleMissSunshineHA 5 лет назад +7

      dr. Muthia Kamal Putri they look nothing alike. diff eyes, brows, face shapes, noses

    • @leonm.goldsteinhighschoolf8254
      @leonm.goldsteinhighschoolf8254 5 лет назад +2

      VeganQueen No actually they kinda do, but like not enough that you could get them confused

    • @vaish_chavan
      @vaish_chavan 5 лет назад

      Holy shit I'm not the only one

    • @vaish_chavan
      @vaish_chavan 5 лет назад +2

      @@LittleMissSunshineHA they have a similar jaw and similar lips

    • @userzquid
      @userzquid 5 лет назад +1

      she has a brother who looks exactly like him!!!

  • @midnightdreams519
    @midnightdreams519 5 лет назад +1

    This was a beautiful wedding, congratulations Lucie and Michael!

  • @stephaniebrewster3109
    @stephaniebrewster3109 5 лет назад +2

    You both are an amazing, powerful, encouraging couple! Congratulations on your stunning wedding! I had small tears watching it. It is such a important and personal even, thank you for sharing this. 💛💛

  • @Cami-ud5hj
    @Cami-ud5hj 5 лет назад +2

    That dress is a dream, you look stunning Lucie 🖤🖤

  • @olioliwoo
    @olioliwoo 5 лет назад

    Congratulations!!!! 🎉 Your story reminded me so much of our story (I asked him to prom and we were together 10 years before we got married.) Wishing you many more decades of happiness in this new chapter!

  • @rachelle2227
    @rachelle2227 5 лет назад

    Wow still being compatible with your high school sweetheart 10 years later! I have grown so much since high school. I'm 26 so a similar age.

  • @elliotd.5183
    @elliotd.5183 5 лет назад +1

    Now I know what I want my wedding to look like!😍 oh, and I love your hairstyle

  • @kfie3731
    @kfie3731 5 лет назад

    BEAUTIFUL BEAUTIFUL BEAUTIFUL.
    The black room was perfect.

  • @MeruAyano
    @MeruAyano 5 лет назад +1

    My bff married his hs sweetheart of 10 years and we all became friends. She thought marriage would change things, then she thought a child would fix things. When it didn't (and she didn't let my bff or us in on this) she decided she was gonna convince us all shd was polyamorous and cheat with a mutual friend. Turns out she was just a lesbian. That didn't stop her from kicking my bff out on thanksgiving and then telling him she was pregnant with their second child two weeks before xmas. All in a matter of 2 years of marriage. She's fat now and miserable and the kids suffer for it. He's happy and moved on. Point is, it depends on the people whether the relationship lasts. Don't hide things, be honest and compromise on both sides. Remember to grow with each other, not away from one another, and communication is key. Keep it open; don't lock it up.

  • @marysimbapooh
    @marysimbapooh 5 лет назад +1

    Such a beautiful wedding! Congrats Lucie and Michael!

  • @magaliiii6798
    @magaliiii6798 5 лет назад +5

    Very beautiful wedding ! 😍

  • @rowenaramsaran6568
    @rowenaramsaran6568 4 года назад

    This was Truly the Perfect look for U, U look Absolutely Gorgeous & Ur husband Very Handsome!!! Congratulations!!!!! I love the aesthetics of Ur wedding!!!!

  • @snishasura5371
    @snishasura5371 5 лет назад +60

    “We wound up having over 200 guests at the wedding”
    When you’re Indian and 200 is nothing...

    • @tp8716
      @tp8716 5 лет назад +6

      Yeahh.. In India, we have a minimum of 1000 guests lol

    • @nandinishah1709
      @nandinishah1709 5 лет назад +5

      Even engagement ceremonies have more than 200 people

  • @cinephile1712
    @cinephile1712 2 года назад

    Holy wedding production!

  • @JustMe-12345
    @JustMe-12345 5 лет назад +2

    You have been together for more than half of my life...

  • @Wigconic.
    @Wigconic. 5 лет назад +8

    Me : **reads title**
    Also me : cant relate

  • @eleanorm3356
    @eleanorm3356 5 лет назад

    Her dress is absolutely gorgeous!

  • @Victoria-yo6pm
    @Victoria-yo6pm 5 лет назад +1

    Awww I’m so happy for Lucie ❤️

  • @justmeherexx482
    @justmeherexx482 5 лет назад +2

    Such a fun recap. ❤️

  • @Jaydanasir
    @Jaydanasir 5 лет назад +1

    #notificationsquad love your videos ✨🎊🎊🎊...congrats guys!!

  • @NLAnna
    @NLAnna 4 года назад +2

    I don't even know 200 people x'D My sister got married last year and there were 50 guests and she even invited colleagues who she had known for less than a year (which I would never do)

  • @fatemehahmadi6409
    @fatemehahmadi6409 5 лет назад +35

    ‘we had over 200 guests’
    all the middle Easterns like 👀👀👀

  • @darsyausten7053
    @darsyausten7053 5 лет назад +1

    Beautiful couple! Congratulations💞

  • @ss_whole
    @ss_whole 4 года назад

    Congrats guys, livin the dream

  • @user-zn9oj3in9x
    @user-zn9oj3in9x 5 лет назад +38

    I invited over 400 people to my quinceañera

  • @a.dawson5076
    @a.dawson5076 5 лет назад +1

    Congratulations!! ♥️

  • @maylee5569
    @maylee5569 5 лет назад

    I hope you two have a happy married life. Best of wishes

  • @KaseyGall
    @KaseyGall 5 лет назад

    His parents house was gorgeous!

  • @sara-elahhoffman
    @sara-elahhoffman 5 лет назад +2

    Omg! You guys finally got married! I’ve been watching you for over 3 years, and this whole entire time I never knew you were Jewish, that’s amazing. I am too! I’ve always felt like an outsider bc of it, bc everyone I know is Christian which is totally fine, it’s just not a lot of people really get it. Happy Hannukah by the way!

    • @elladuwell6579
      @elladuwell6579 5 лет назад

      It made me feel really happy too! Happy Chanukah!

  • @dreamz2239
    @dreamz2239 5 лет назад +1

    Congratulations Lucie🎉🎉

  • @jana_5225
    @jana_5225 5 лет назад

    First!
    Totally
    Love ya😻

  • @adrianavalenzuela808
    @adrianavalenzuela808 4 года назад

    absolutely beautiful! I dont think I would be able to be calm on my wedding day Im a natural bridezilla lmaooo

  • @platymel
    @platymel 5 лет назад +49

    looks like a Paul Rudd-ish Djokovic ¿

    • @IvanaHonda
      @IvanaHonda 5 лет назад +1

      I was like Oh man he is Djokovic lookalike 😂

    • @lena.martinovic
      @lena.martinovic 5 лет назад

      @@IvanaHonda and he has a gluten allergy 😆

    • @NiaJD
      @NiaJD 5 лет назад

      I was thinking more like Djokovic x Adam Scott

  • @silvanindya
    @silvanindya 5 лет назад +14

    by the title, i think she married her best friend since high school lol

  • @wrappedinsunflowers5428
    @wrappedinsunflowers5428 5 лет назад

    Her dress is sooo pretty

  • @ramyamurali7347
    @ramyamurali7347 5 лет назад +1

    Congrats guys😘❤️

  • @nf3588
    @nf3588 5 лет назад +119

    Must be nice to be rich, cant relate

  • @nejrahasic6124
    @nejrahasic6124 5 лет назад +6

    He looks like Djokovic :D

  • @tilly113
    @tilly113 5 лет назад

    You look so pretty in the flower crown!

  • @hopemurungi9453
    @hopemurungi9453 5 лет назад +2

    Incredible

  • @alonglongkumer1549
    @alonglongkumer1549 5 лет назад

    Waited 10 years to get married. Wow.😅 Congratulations any way

  • @Gsvjrchy
    @Gsvjrchy 5 лет назад +8

    We had 200 guests
    *me: laughs in arabic*

    • @alab7931
      @alab7931 5 лет назад

      Meera Alsari I know right 😂

  • @raquelljones7446
    @raquelljones7446 5 лет назад +1

    Congratulations!

  • @laurenpaz4375
    @laurenpaz4375 4 года назад

    Awww such a sweet couple

  • @mayangcesarani488
    @mayangcesarani488 5 лет назад +1

    Im in relationship for 6 years now🥺

  • @tammilabedow3071
    @tammilabedow3071 5 лет назад +1

    Congrats you both are so beautiful!!!!

  • @msmalubaby
    @msmalubaby 5 лет назад +1

    I love your dress and wedding you should do a video on your dress and hair. (Remake)