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  • @refinery29
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      @coolcats12345678910 4 года назад

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      @sherylschannel4458 4 года назад +1

      I would like to hear more of your stories as a lovers before and how did you manage your relationship to have come this far.

  • @imtoolazyyyy
    @imtoolazyyyy 4 года назад +1087

    holy shit she and michael come from rich families, casual house in the hamptons, what a nice life that must be

    • @leonm.goldsteinhighschoolf8254
      @leonm.goldsteinhighschoolf8254 4 года назад +5

      imtoolazyyyy Excuse me, sir, madam adopt me
      😆 lol

    • @tabr9055
      @tabr9055 4 года назад +41

      I love that despite that she still seems so nice and down to earth and is hard working.

    • @napperforlife2020
      @napperforlife2020 4 года назад +8

      Yes, they worked hard to make money over time. Working hard. It takes time and can be done.

    • @io2255
      @io2255 4 года назад +39

      napperforlife im sure generational wealth plays a part. Regardless she seems to work hard.

    • @farzanayasmin887
      @farzanayasmin887 4 года назад +4

      Why does it matter? Lucie and Michael both earned their own money which obviously came from hardwork not like their families pay for their everything. They bought their house with their own hardworking money and yess having rich families means they got nice background and that nice background brought a lot of friends overall we all can work hard and get house in Hamptons then get a lots of friends so CHILL

  • @amberleitao4727
    @amberleitao4727 4 года назад +621

    My parents were high school sweethearts. Got married at 21 and 22 and that was back in 1972. And they are STILL married today, grossly in love 😂 and their relationship has been a wonderful example growing up of love, mutual respect and hard work.

    • @refinery29
      @refinery29  4 года назад +15

      +amberleitao That's so nice to hear!

    • @Daaaanielle
      @Daaaanielle 4 года назад

      Goals tbh. Not high school because 1. I went to an all girls school 2. I was a nerd that never attracted a boy.
      But being married 48 years and still having love for one another? Absolute life goals

  • @thempenguindrums0
    @thempenguindrums0 4 года назад +725

    LITERALLY the hamptons. suddenly Lucy and michaels nice ass NY apartment makes so much sense lol

    • @Daaaanielle
      @Daaaanielle 4 года назад +12

      When they showed his family home, which I am 99% sure was featured in the show "Revenge" I was like.... ohhhhhhhhh ok.

  • @indiraespinal8015
    @indiraespinal8015 4 года назад +1081

    “We both have big families...we had over 200 guests”
    Me: *laughs in Spanish*

    • @imahaziz483
      @imahaziz483 4 года назад +33

      Me: laughs in Malay

    • @rosemaryreggie595
      @rosemaryreggie595 4 года назад +63

      Me: laughs in Indian

    • @lusianau
      @lusianau 4 года назад +27

      Laughs in Indonesia *my neighbors usually invite thousand guests lol

    • @isabellarain_
      @isabellarain_ 4 года назад +36

      Laughs in person of color

    • @samblake7170
      @samblake7170 4 года назад +38

      Me: laughs in Asian

  • @verena.helen.8445
    @verena.helen.8445 4 года назад +483

    That is probably the most aesthetic wedding i‘ve ever seen

  • @hebakhan4728
    @hebakhan4728 4 года назад +627

    I love how they think that 200 people is a lot. Desi families will think a 1000 people wedding is a personal gathering

    • @laibakhan3769
      @laibakhan3769 4 года назад +8

      Heba Khan sooo trueee😂 my closest cousin are more than 50😂😂😂

    • @ShahiMehndi
      @ShahiMehndi 4 года назад +14

      THATS WHAT I WAS THINKING. My dad is the one of 9 siblings and my mom is the eldest of 11. Each with average 3-4 kids and now their kids have kids. JUST immediate family for me is about 93 people

    • @DiaN-do3jm
      @DiaN-do3jm 4 года назад +2

      to me 100 people is hell a lot.

    • @Sofie2734
      @Sofie2734 4 года назад +1

      Arabs too! Seriously, my aunts wedding had a thousand people and it lasted for five days

    • @leonm.goldsteinhighschoolf8254
      @leonm.goldsteinhighschoolf8254 4 года назад

      Heba Khan My mom is the youngest of 9, and then my dad has 4 full siblings and 4 or 5 half siblings he’s very close to. In cousins I’m at about 100(close)

  • @auroramorice1229
    @auroramorice1229 4 года назад +388

    Ohhh so they have money money, suddenly it makes much more sense that they had an expensive big ass wedding and an incredibly nice apartment in nyc even though she’s a blogger

    • @vaish_chavan
      @vaish_chavan 4 года назад

      What is her Instagram or RUclips or blog

    • @liviamartin3641
      @liviamartin3641 4 года назад +2

      Vaishnavi Chavan She works part time for Refinery29 and is on their channel, her youtube is Lucie Fink

    • @napperforlife2020
      @napperforlife2020 4 года назад +3

      Yes. They worked hard to make their money over time like many families who have money.

  • @luciebfink
    @luciebfink 4 года назад +276

    YESSSS! This wedding was an absolute dream and I'm so grateful to be able to share bits and pieces with you all. Thank you for watching

  • @marisapearce3328
    @marisapearce3328 4 года назад +359

    Husband has family home in hamptons... nice

  • @heyitsshah4621
    @heyitsshah4621 4 года назад +476

    their definition of a big family:200 guests
    **laughs in Asian**

    • @Ggiah0
      @Ggiah0 4 года назад +19

      Talk about indians ... My gosh

    • @hibashamim3979
      @hibashamim3979 4 года назад +3

      My aunt (phupo's) wedding had 500 guests minimum😂

    • @heyitsshah4621
      @heyitsshah4621 4 года назад +1

      my sister had invited at least a 1000 but we all know that they all had extra baggage 😂

    • @wallflower2769
      @wallflower2769 4 года назад

      200 are uninvited ones here 🙋

    • @Daaaanielle
      @Daaaanielle 4 года назад

      Went to a Pakistani wedding once.
      Never have I ever seen so much people in one place outside of like, a concert or something public. LOL

  • @pleasantlydrifting6663
    @pleasantlydrifting6663 4 года назад +32

    Such a rare thing to marry your high school sweetheart! Dating for ten years was a smart decision in your situation being so young. You gave yourselves time to grow into adults and into your careers first. What a beautiful couple

  • @sherylschannel4458
    @sherylschannel4458 4 года назад +87

    This content proves that dating in a very long period of time and ending to a lifetime of being together is really a pure love. That means they really are meant to be. Congratulations.😊😊😊

    • @refinery29
      @refinery29  4 года назад +5

      +sherbear That's so sweet and well put!

    • @luciebfink
      @luciebfink 4 года назад +4

      AWWWW we think so too!!!! Thanks for watching :)

    • @sherylschannel4458
      @sherylschannel4458 4 года назад +2

      @@refinery29 my heart beats fast upon watching you guys. How i wish i can walk down the isle as pretty and as happy as you are 😊😊

  • @dariabaranoff9687
    @dariabaranoff9687 4 года назад +124

    Oh My God his house is INSANELY BIG!!!! How rich are they!?!

  • @carnificina7724
    @carnificina7724 4 года назад +38

    My parents have been married for 13 years, they were both 27 at the time, and started dating during their 3rd or 4th year of high school. Hope you two will continue on!

  • @StrawberryNinja1296
    @StrawberryNinja1296 4 года назад +52

    Me and my husband are also high school sweet hearts. We celebrated by going out to eat sushi lmao. There’s beauty in simplicity, being poor ain’t all bad.

    • @Daaaanielle
      @Daaaanielle 4 года назад +5

      I wish you all the happiness in the world.
      You are 100% right, simple is also amazing. This wedding was great but I'd want something super tiny, just a restaurant with our immediate families. No one else.

  • @medicspirit
    @medicspirit 4 года назад +135

    Excuse me what that was his childhood house

  • @coryf725
    @coryf725 4 года назад +523

    To be rich....

  • @lsuzicosbw644
    @lsuzicosbw644 4 года назад +208

    I want my divorce party to be this aesthetic 🎊

  • @Marina-xd7gp
    @Marina-xd7gp 4 года назад +40

    Who are these people and why am I invested in their wedding

  • @ItsaboutbeautyNl
    @ItsaboutbeautyNl 4 года назад +50

    Me: 200 guests? Must be super expensive!
    Them: Our family's house in the Hamptons...
    Me: Never mind. I'll go back to planning my super low budget wedding

  • @sydney.lorddd
    @sydney.lorddd 4 года назад +73

    Oh my gosh Lucie your wedding was amazing! And please do a video about your hair, it’s stunning! Congratulations by the way!!

  • @amalk2036
    @amalk2036 4 года назад +30

    omgggg they're so cuteeee also imagine being him in high school and knowing ur gonna marry ur gf

  • @Riquilina
    @Riquilina 4 года назад +13

    Mike doesn’t stop looking at her 🥰 they’re soooo in love 🥰
    How beautiful !!!

  • @henriettewakatolo4747
    @henriettewakatolo4747 4 года назад +228

    (cries in poor 😭)

    • @masens.9010
      @masens.9010 4 года назад +13

      Henriette Wa Katolo same lol. Some people seem to win the “life lottery”

    • @AddieWagenknecht
      @AddieWagenknecht 4 года назад +2

      what does her husband do? Cause content doesn't pay that well

  • @Rhiles44
    @Rhiles44 4 года назад +4

    Been married for 9 years, together for 13. Ages 27 and 29. Still madly in love and having the time of our lives.

  • @carolinemeier362
    @carolinemeier362 4 года назад +50

    He looks like the tennisplayer djokovic

  • @Somelikeitthrift
    @Somelikeitthrift 4 года назад +49

    My dark soul loves the Black box room!

    • @refinery29
      @refinery29  4 года назад +2

      +issarae'sbodydouble Same! 🖤

  • @Flinch4Me
    @Flinch4Me 4 года назад +4

    I have been with my high school sweetheart for eleven years and been married for a few months. We've been together for so long already and everything about our wedding was awesome.

  • @seemapatil6060
    @seemapatil6060 4 года назад +33

    Wow....just wow such a lovely & beautiful couple . 😊Speechless . Totally amazing...you guys are lucky not everyone gets the chance.

  • @Nobody78910
    @Nobody78910 4 года назад +19

    This is so wonderful! I’m also going to be marrying my high school sweet heart next year, we’ve been together for 7 years 💕

    • @refinery29
      @refinery29  4 года назад +1

      +none Aw! Congrats!

    • @luciebfink
      @luciebfink 4 года назад +1

      WOW, congrats! Sending so much love.

  • @Ema-hg7nm
    @Ema-hg7nm 4 года назад +83

    i thought it was Novak Djokovic

  • @jemmaj2919
    @jemmaj2919 4 года назад +7

    The wedding and her makeup hair are goalssss, even the sunny day!! The dress, to each his taste!

  • @MindfulMya
    @MindfulMya 4 года назад +12

    Aww we love a sensitive man ... he is so sweet. Congrats again you two! xo

  • @EmilieFox_
    @EmilieFox_ 4 года назад +5

    I'm celebrating my 10 year relationship with my fiance on January 1st. Lasting relationships that start in high school are rare!

  • @shiwan45
    @shiwan45 4 года назад +15

    Wow such a beautiful couple . This wedding was so romantic and loving

  • @vegbeth
    @vegbeth 4 года назад +24

    Wasn’t this already posted? Or was that on her channel? I’ve seen so much content about this wedding.

  • @billion86
    @billion86 4 года назад +17

    Nothing like EARTH, WIND AND FIRE!!

  • @Osea-hello
    @Osea-hello 4 года назад +3

    It’s so nice to see another high school couple get married! My husband and I have been together for 9.5 years and we eloped almost 5 years ago (His deployment and most of my family being in Mexico did not make for easy or affordable planning)... We’ll have an actual wedding and honeymoon eventually 😂😅

  • @KaseyGall
    @KaseyGall 4 года назад +1

    I’m with my boyfriend of over 13 years, fiancé for 6. It would be a dream come true to have a wedding even remotely close to this. Beautiful!

  • @AnaRuiz-vu4cg
    @AnaRuiz-vu4cg 4 года назад +18

    My niece dated her boyfriend 10 years too. His name is Muchael .

  • @Bhailluv
    @Bhailluv 4 года назад +4

    Looked like a beautiful wedding for a lovely couple! I’m glad they were able to balance creating content and enjoying their day.

  • @justbecause6472
    @justbecause6472 4 года назад +3

    😂😂😂 High school sweethearts? Wow! God really wanted you guys to be together! Blessings over your marriage ❤️

  • @Nina-om7th
    @Nina-om7th 4 года назад +2

    Lol why is everyone talking about the guests or their wealth.. its a beautiful wedding and I wish you two all the best!

  • @MuthiaKP
    @MuthiaKP 4 года назад +79

    no one:
    definitely no one:
    me: they look alike.

    • @LittleMissSunshineHA
      @LittleMissSunshineHA 4 года назад +7

      dr. Muthia Kamal Putri they look nothing alike. diff eyes, brows, face shapes, noses

    • @leonm.goldsteinhighschoolf8254
      @leonm.goldsteinhighschoolf8254 4 года назад +2

      VeganQueen No actually they kinda do, but like not enough that you could get them confused

    • @vaish_chavan
      @vaish_chavan 4 года назад

      Holy shit I'm not the only one

    • @vaish_chavan
      @vaish_chavan 4 года назад +2

      @@LittleMissSunshineHA they have a similar jaw and similar lips

    • @userzquid
      @userzquid 4 года назад +1

      she has a brother who looks exactly like him!!!

  • @crystaldeboer
    @crystaldeboer 4 года назад +4

    Congrats! Basically have the same story with my husband (10 years together before we married, from the same home town, huge family party for the wedding)

  • @billion86
    @billion86 4 года назад +5

    "I think I took his breath away " ☺️

  • @couchpotato9060
    @couchpotato9060 4 года назад +3

    They literally have the most wattpad-y relationship.

  • @snishasura5371
    @snishasura5371 4 года назад +60

    “We wound up having over 200 guests at the wedding”
    When you’re Indian and 200 is nothing...

    • @tp8716
      @tp8716 4 года назад +6

      Yeahh.. In India, we have a minimum of 1000 guests lol

    • @nandinishah1709
      @nandinishah1709 4 года назад +5

      Even engagement ceremonies have more than 200 people

  • @alexaevans7628
    @alexaevans7628 4 года назад +4

    They’re such a gorgeous couple 😭

  • @stephaniebrewster3109
    @stephaniebrewster3109 4 года назад +2

    You both are an amazing, powerful, encouraging couple! Congratulations on your stunning wedding! I had small tears watching it. It is such a important and personal even, thank you for sharing this. 💛💛

  • @izzythegolden759
    @izzythegolden759 4 года назад +15

    Her: we had 200 guests
    Me: laughs in Italian

  • @user-zn9oj3in9x
    @user-zn9oj3in9x 4 года назад +38

    I invited over 400 people to my quinceañera

  • @wooof.
    @wooof. 4 года назад

    Thanks Lucie for sharing your wedding with us!!! It looked lovely. CONGRATS

  • @fatemehahmadi6409
    @fatemehahmadi6409 4 года назад +35

    ‘we had over 200 guests’
    all the middle Easterns like 👀👀👀

  • @olioliwoo
    @olioliwoo 4 года назад

    Congratulations!!!! 🎉 Your story reminded me so much of our story (I asked him to prom and we were together 10 years before we got married.) Wishing you many more decades of happiness in this new chapter!

  • @CSmith-tn8nv
    @CSmith-tn8nv 4 года назад

    This video was just a joy to watch. I love how sweet and comfortable you all are with each other. Your wedding was beautiful. Wishing you all the best for the future.

  • @beandog1713
    @beandog1713 4 года назад +1

    Her dress and crown are simply perfect

  • @MeruAyano
    @MeruAyano 4 года назад +1

    My bff married his hs sweetheart of 10 years and we all became friends. She thought marriage would change things, then she thought a child would fix things. When it didn't (and she didn't let my bff or us in on this) she decided she was gonna convince us all shd was polyamorous and cheat with a mutual friend. Turns out she was just a lesbian. That didn't stop her from kicking my bff out on thanksgiving and then telling him she was pregnant with their second child two weeks before xmas. All in a matter of 2 years of marriage. She's fat now and miserable and the kids suffer for it. He's happy and moved on. Point is, it depends on the people whether the relationship lasts. Don't hide things, be honest and compromise on both sides. Remember to grow with each other, not away from one another, and communication is key. Keep it open; don't lock it up.

  • @rachelle2227
    @rachelle2227 4 года назад

    Wow still being compatible with your high school sweetheart 10 years later! I have grown so much since high school. I'm 26 so a similar age.

  • @nicholejones683
    @nicholejones683 3 года назад

    That dress!! You look like a fairy princess that doubles as a high fashion model!!! You looked beautiful !!

  • @midnightdreams519
    @midnightdreams519 4 года назад +1

    This was a beautiful wedding, congratulations Lucie and Michael!

  • @JustMe-12345
    @JustMe-12345 4 года назад +2

    You have been together for more than half of my life...

  • @Cami-ud5hj
    @Cami-ud5hj 4 года назад +2

    That dress is a dream, you look stunning Lucie 🖤🖤

  • @platymel
    @platymel 4 года назад +49

    looks like a Paul Rudd-ish Djokovic ¿

    • @IvanaHonda
      @IvanaHonda 4 года назад +1

      I was like Oh man he is Djokovic lookalike 😂

    • @lena.martinovic
      @lena.martinovic 4 года назад

      @@IvanaHonda and he has a gluten allergy 😆

    • @NiaJD
      @NiaJD 4 года назад

      I was thinking more like Djokovic x Adam Scott

  • @Wigconic.
    @Wigconic. 4 года назад +8

    Me : **reads title**
    Also me : cant relate

  • @NLAnna
    @NLAnna 4 года назад +2

    I don't even know 200 people x'D My sister got married last year and there were 50 guests and she even invited colleagues who she had known for less than a year (which I would never do)

  • @nf3588
    @nf3588 4 года назад +119

    Must be nice to be rich, cant relate

  • @marysimbapooh
    @marysimbapooh 4 года назад +1

    Such a beautiful wedding! Congrats Lucie and Michael!

  • @elliotd.5183
    @elliotd.5183 4 года назад +1

    Now I know what I want my wedding to look like!😍 oh, and I love your hairstyle

  • @kfie3731
    @kfie3731 4 года назад

    BEAUTIFUL BEAUTIFUL BEAUTIFUL.
    The black room was perfect.

  • @magaliiii6798
    @magaliiii6798 4 года назад +5

    Very beautiful wedding ! 😍

  • @sara-elahhoffman
    @sara-elahhoffman 4 года назад +2

    Omg! You guys finally got married! I’ve been watching you for over 3 years, and this whole entire time I never knew you were Jewish, that’s amazing. I am too! I’ve always felt like an outsider bc of it, bc everyone I know is Christian which is totally fine, it’s just not a lot of people really get it. Happy Hannukah by the way!

    • @elladuwell6579
      @elladuwell6579 4 года назад

      It made me feel really happy too! Happy Chanukah!

  • @nejrahasic6124
    @nejrahasic6124 4 года назад +6

    He looks like Djokovic :D

  • @silvanindya
    @silvanindya 4 года назад +14

    by the title, i think she married her best friend since high school lol

  • @cinephile1712
    @cinephile1712 2 года назад

    Holy wedding production!

  • @rowenaramsaran6568
    @rowenaramsaran6568 3 года назад

    This was Truly the Perfect look for U, U look Absolutely Gorgeous & Ur husband Very Handsome!!! Congratulations!!!!! I love the aesthetics of Ur wedding!!!!

  • @Victoria-yo6pm
    @Victoria-yo6pm 4 года назад +1

    Awww I’m so happy for Lucie ❤️

  • @justmeherexx482
    @justmeherexx482 4 года назад +2

    Such a fun recap. ❤️

  • @eleanorm3356
    @eleanorm3356 4 года назад

    Her dress is absolutely gorgeous!

  • @darsyausten7053
    @darsyausten7053 4 года назад +1

    Beautiful couple! Congratulations💞

  • @lastchance1101
    @lastchance1101 4 года назад +12

    Their will be 1500 to 2000 guests if are habesha.

  • @hendrixsolis3437
    @hendrixsolis3437 4 года назад +46

    Sounds about white ....

  • @KaseyGall
    @KaseyGall 4 года назад

    His parents house was gorgeous!

  • @maylee5569
    @maylee5569 4 года назад

    I hope you two have a happy married life. Best of wishes

  • @ss_whole
    @ss_whole 3 года назад

    Congrats guys, livin the dream

  • @ryanmellina5205
    @ryanmellina5205 4 года назад +6

    I want to see photos when you're both teens.. Hehehe

    • @luciebfink
      @luciebfink 4 года назад +1

      Ryan Mellina follow me on Instagram (@luciebfink). I share these occasionally 😀😀😀

  • @dreamz2239
    @dreamz2239 4 года назад +1

    Congratulations Lucie🎉🎉

  • @Gsvjrchy
    @Gsvjrchy 4 года назад +8

    We had 200 guests
    *me: laughs in arabic*

    • @alab7931
      @alab7931 4 года назад

      Meera Alsari I know right 😂

  • @Jaydanasir
    @Jaydanasir 4 года назад +1

    #notificationsquad love your videos ✨🎊🎊🎊...congrats guys!!

  • @NicholleCarvajal
    @NicholleCarvajal 4 года назад +4

    He looks like Novak Djokovic

  • @a.dawson5076
    @a.dawson5076 4 года назад +1

    Congratulations!! ♥️

  • @msmalubaby
    @msmalubaby 4 года назад +1

    I love your dress and wedding you should do a video on your dress and hair. (Remake)

  • @alonglongkumer1549
    @alonglongkumer1549 4 года назад

    Waited 10 years to get married. Wow.😅 Congratulations any way

  • @fagiography
    @fagiography 4 года назад +40

    they look related

    • @lsuzicosbw644
      @lsuzicosbw644 4 года назад +1

      🤣

    • @AddieWagenknecht
      @AddieWagenknecht 4 года назад +6

      "grew up in the same town"

    • @DrizzyDrakeII
      @DrizzyDrakeII 4 года назад +9

      LMFAOO I was thinking that when they said there wasn’t a clear distinction between guests🥴

    • @TheBellaLuna94
      @TheBellaLuna94 4 года назад +3

      sollochs he looks like her brother lmao

    • @mdjelon8373
      @mdjelon8373 4 года назад

      য়্য্বাএ

  • @hopemurungi9453
    @hopemurungi9453 4 года назад +2

    Incredible

  • @mayangcesarani488
    @mayangcesarani488 4 года назад +1

    Im in relationship for 6 years now🥺

  • @wrappedinsunflowers5428
    @wrappedinsunflowers5428 4 года назад

    Her dress is sooo pretty

  • @tammilabedow3071
    @tammilabedow3071 4 года назад +1

    Congrats you both are so beautiful!!!!

  • @tilly113
    @tilly113 4 года назад

    You look so pretty in the flower crown!