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  • @refinery29
    @refinery29  5 лет назад +1390

    What cultural traditions do you relate the most to from this Nigerian wedding in the U.K.? Share with us below!

    • @hht6676
      @hht6676 5 лет назад +18

      Do an northeastern Indian wedding next coz it differs from mainland

    • @Nidhi-ll3yq
      @Nidhi-ll3yq 5 лет назад +34

      Definitely Indian.
      Indian weddings are just as crazy

    • @lovesbeauty9564
      @lovesbeauty9564 5 лет назад +20

      Am from Nigeria based his Italy thanks for good job and congratulations to the couples

    • @hotcheetos2463
      @hotcheetos2463 5 лет назад +12

      Polynesian Wedding. Any of the islands in the Pacific - because I feel like our weddings are similar to a Nigerian wedding with all the families, food, dancing, music, culture & money

    • @refinery29
      @refinery29  5 лет назад +6

      @@hotcheetos2463 We did cover a Maori wedding here: ruclips.net/video/lcoNjMx3GEI/видео.html

  • @loopums
    @loopums 5 лет назад +10512

    This is a Traditional *Yoruba* Nigerian wedding. It'd be helpful to specify because "Traditional Nigerian Weddings" look verrrry different depending on your ethnic group.

    • @zandiledlamini8160
      @zandiledlamini8160 5 лет назад +311

      Thanks for educating. I’m South African and didn’t know this.

    • @cynthiauzoka2291
      @cynthiauzoka2291 5 лет назад +500

      very true. There is Yoruba, Igbo, Hausa, Calabar, Benue, we have so many beautiful cultures

    • @quinjou
      @quinjou 5 лет назад +197

      @@cynthiauzoka2291 Yeah my mother is Edo Nigerian and even though she had a western wedding her family and nigerian friends all wore traditional edo clothing and I just love staring at my parents' wedding photos because of that lol

    • @sumadre101
      @sumadre101 5 лет назад +41

      @@cynthiauzoka2291 dont forget Efik!

    • @Alex-ki1yr
      @Alex-ki1yr 5 лет назад +1

      +

  • @daniellemarable2775
    @daniellemarable2775 5 лет назад +5368

    I think my favorite part about this marriage ceremony is how important the theme of family is.

    • @refinery29
      @refinery29  5 лет назад +54

      +daniellemarable Yes!!

    • @thaliasghost
      @thaliasghost 5 лет назад +16

      It is not family in the sense we think of. It is family in the sense of tribal affiliation and ownership.

    • @madlingmsp1183
      @madlingmsp1183 5 лет назад +83

      thaliasghost no, it’s just family 😊

    • @neghiethervil5606
      @neghiethervil5606 5 лет назад +74

      Marriage is hard enough. You're marrying each others' family, not just the person, so makes all the sense in the world. If they don't get along, it absolutely affects your marriage.

    • @daniellemarable2775
      @daniellemarable2775 5 лет назад +3

      Neghie Thervil yessss I totally agree!

  • @Abekeuweme
    @Abekeuweme 5 лет назад +2980

    Another thing. People. Make sure if you invite 200 you have enough for 300 because your uncle will invite his friend who will invite his cousin and that cousin will invite his grandmother😂😂no joke!

    • @melislifestyle9409
      @melislifestyle9409 4 года назад +164

      I was wondering if the couple knows 200 people to invite 🤣 not knowing that the uncle will invite his friend and his friend will invite his girlfriend and the girlfriend will invite her ancestors 🤣

    • @nigerdeltamirrortv9311
      @nigerdeltamirrortv9311 4 года назад +48

      melis mefeuwo lol....gf invite her ancestors. That was funny.

    • @ritacampbell7217
      @ritacampbell7217 4 года назад +7

      @@melislifestyle9409 lol

    • @sarahfantasy4624
      @sarahfantasy4624 4 года назад +67

      It's kinda same here in Indian weddings haha 😂✨ I really enjoyed watching this video and I found so many similarities between the Nigerian and Indian culture. For sure I wanna attend a Nigerian wedding someday!

    • @sarahackah-yensu9213
      @sarahackah-yensu9213 4 года назад +48

      Its same in Ghana ...i think its same everywhere in Africa...😂😂😂. So in Ghana we say always take your number and +50...especially when its ooen like funerals, traditional marriage ceremonies and naming ceremonies. Of course now some people are doing a "strictly by invitation " policy. However prepare to receive some insults from the African 'aunties.'🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @stephaniemcintosh2808
    @stephaniemcintosh2808 5 лет назад +4234

    The bride looked so beautiful - the headress gave her such a regal look.

    • @Uncle_Smidge
      @Uncle_Smidge 5 лет назад +28

      Right? Reminiscent of the western/religious halo imagery, but self-made.

    • @juacey
      @juacey 5 лет назад +109

      It's called a gele and that's just one style of wearing it albeit a really popular one

    • @donthinkso9740
      @donthinkso9740 5 лет назад +63

      A Smidge of Boise no it’s Nigerian nothing western about it

    • @livetaster6943
      @livetaster6943 4 года назад +38

      @@Uncle_Smidge it's the West African Gele.

    • @Black_pearl_adrift
      @Black_pearl_adrift 4 года назад +11

      And the reception will last until 3am the next day. I'm sorry I dont make the rules

  • @a.h.i267
    @a.h.i267 5 лет назад +5211

    What’s up with Nigerian men and wearing sunglasses, literally EVERYWHERE 😂 (I’m Nigerian as well lol)

    • @lilacrosewood6730
      @lilacrosewood6730 5 лет назад +640

      Succulent lol don’t question it. It engrained in our men’s sense of swag.

    • @ansh0133
      @ansh0133 5 лет назад +29

      😅

    • @gh1Mikie
      @gh1Mikie 5 лет назад +97

      Ask again!! It’s a mystery

    • @lesleyk1727
      @lesleyk1727 5 лет назад +137

      😂🤣😅They tryna stay mysterious, I guess!

    • @Omangozika
      @Omangozika 5 лет назад +60

      Succulent I think it’s used to cover their shyness at least that’s what I use it for

  • @enukau
    @enukau 5 лет назад +8307

    This is a Yoruba wedding. We have about 250 ethnic groups.

    • @mariagalleriaxi8632
      @mariagalleriaxi8632 5 лет назад +311

      @@theimpoftheperverse7598 they aren't complaining? They are just sharing information. Control yourself

    • @bukster337
      @bukster337 5 лет назад +51

      I think the Bride is Igbo

    • @funkeysho
      @funkeysho 5 лет назад +205

      @@bukster337 Only the mother of the bride is igbo, her dad is yoruba.

    • @fumis2045
      @fumis2045 5 лет назад +121

      Yoruba have the best clothes. Completely biased perspective.

    • @bukster337
      @bukster337 5 лет назад +7

      @@funkeysho That's good to know but how can you tell?

  • @Lipstickforever84
    @Lipstickforever84 5 лет назад +2344

    The 🇳🇬 wedding culture is spot on, however, there are hundreds of tribes in Nigeria. Each tribe has there own traditional wedding practices. Great video. Congrats to the couple.

    • @refinery29
      @refinery29  5 лет назад +40

      +ogo Thanks for checking out the video!

    • @anyagaff1471
      @anyagaff1471 5 лет назад +33

      I'd LOVE to see an Igbo wedding here.

    • @Belema_
      @Belema_ 4 года назад +13

      @Ant Nam on the contrary, none's more important.

    • @keshinro...6979
      @keshinro...6979 4 года назад +7

      It's still Nigerian,what you want them to show hundreds of culture in Nigeria? Take a seat

    • @Bas_tet
      @Bas_tet 4 года назад +20

      @@keshinro...6979 They should have specified

  • @SylvieSij
    @SylvieSij 5 лет назад +2876

    One thing i love about african weddings is the FOOD. We go all out...

    • @dan19mas
      @dan19mas 5 лет назад +135

      Sylvie Sij my auntie had a Nigerian wedding 2 years ago and I’ve never seen so many people take away food after the wedding 😅😂😂😂

    • @SylvieSij
      @SylvieSij 5 лет назад +71

      @@dan19mas because there's always extra🤣🤣😂

    • @amykarr6163
      @amykarr6163 5 лет назад +3

      what kind of things you guys put out? mexican food will always be on top but i wanna know

    • @iloveyou-pm4tj
      @iloveyou-pm4tj 5 лет назад +41

      @@amykarr6163 I am not Nigerian but probably the best jollof 🤤

    • @omosefenoruwa700
      @omosefenoruwa700 5 лет назад +46

      Larry Mexican food cannot compare 😂🤣

  • @t8mera
    @t8mera 5 лет назад +3208

    I wish my african ancestry was not stripped for me i love to find out my heritage

    • @alexisaspy2429
      @alexisaspy2429 5 лет назад +108

      Tamera same

    • @t8mera
      @t8mera 5 лет назад +108

      alex is a spy it really sucks honestly

    • @MsEliteForever
      @MsEliteForever 5 лет назад +8

      @@t8mera stripped how?

    • @MsEliteForever
      @MsEliteForever 5 лет назад +53

      Im Black American or American. Nothing stripped from me.

    • @t8mera
      @t8mera 5 лет назад +230

      Health&Glitter i have no ideo what part of africa my african ancestry is from all people tell me that ny great grandmother was hispanic

  • @chumisasokupe3587
    @chumisasokupe3587 5 лет назад +747

    In this lifetime, I need to attend a Nigerian wedding I just have to.

  • @jonelljonelljonell
    @jonelljonelljonell 5 лет назад +940

    The outfits are beyond stunning! So much detail and unique mix of traditional and modern

    • @refinery29
      @refinery29  5 лет назад +11

      +jonell We think so, too! :)

  • @username01675
    @username01675 5 лет назад +959

    Any Nigerians here?👋🏽

  • @javiergarza5544
    @javiergarza5544 5 лет назад +660

    The bride and groom looked stunning, like literal royalty.

  • @BeeNdlovu
    @BeeNdlovu 5 лет назад +1808

    I feel like all african traditional weddings are just amazing, hit like 🖒if you agree ❤❤❤

    • @Elubial
      @Elubial 5 лет назад +1

      I agree, very colourful affairs

    • @BeeNdlovu
      @BeeNdlovu 5 лет назад +36

      @Kaelene Ashmore i do agree to that aswell. Just speaking on the Nigerian context and it being an african country and Africa being proven to be a continent filled with many different tribes, lots of different languagies and of course a very rich and diverse culture.

    • @refinery29
      @refinery29  5 лет назад +4

      +beendlovu 100%!!

    • @PHlophe
      @PHlophe 5 лет назад +3

      mma ndlovu, molo

    • @BeeNdlovu
      @BeeNdlovu 5 лет назад +2

      @@PHlophe yebo, kunjani?

  • @edwardkaf9336
    @edwardkaf9336 5 лет назад +753

    I'm asian and seeing new cultures like this always amaze me!This is such a beautiful wedding and it's very nice to see everyone's enjoing it !

    • @justanotheruser2611
      @justanotheruser2611 4 года назад +3

      Gonna reply to let you know how many likes you have :)

    • @mayqueen1155
      @mayqueen1155 4 года назад

      Eeekkk I need me an Asian bf/ bestie

    • @desert._rose
      @desert._rose 4 года назад +22

      @@mayqueen1155 why tho

    • @TedEhioghae
      @TedEhioghae 4 года назад +2

      What do you mean by 'new cultures' ?

    • @mina-jf7pd
      @mina-jf7pd 4 года назад +14

      @@TedEhioghae I think the person is talking about seeing "new cultures" other than their own.

  • @tolu144
    @tolu144 5 лет назад +241

    I think people mistake distinction for tribalism. Each different culture and its distinctions are what makes Nigeria the beautiful mosaic of a country that it is. For us, it’s important to understand the beautiful aspects of each culture and there’s absolutely nothing wrong with that. This is a Yoruba wedding, and if it was an Igbo wedding, that distinction should also be made to showcase the beauty of the tribe 💁🏾‍♀️

  • @SamMKKK
    @SamMKKK 5 лет назад +551

    Naija we don land! 😭
    (I’m originally Ghanaian btw, but I love y’all.)

    • @lagosian123
      @lagosian123 5 лет назад +55

      Samantha M. You're so sweet, we love you too. Ghana & Nigeria are brothers for life just like in a big family we have few bad eggs but the love is undaunted. 😘

    • @morayoadewumi6016
      @morayoadewumi6016 5 лет назад +4

      ❤️❤️❤️❤️ you

    • @cocote718
      @cocote718 5 лет назад +5

      This was so cute 🙌🙌🙌🙌

    • @inthestyleofuzezi
      @inthestyleofuzezi 5 лет назад +11

      Samantha-M. Ghana the wife of Nigeria. Love you right back sis. I’m Nigerian btw❤️

    • @adejokebakare
      @adejokebakare 5 лет назад +9

      lagosian “gana oo naija oo” we’re one abeg🥰

  • @jayla1151
    @jayla1151 5 лет назад +237

    i wish it was easier for black americans to learn about their cultures. i’d give anything to have something like this

    • @tok1879
      @tok1879 5 лет назад +11

      But you can though.

    • @livindeadghoul
      @livindeadghoul 4 года назад +20

      @@tok1879 Lmao, read the comment. It's not easy

    • @Heymeeeeeeeeeee
      @Heymeeeeeeeeeee 4 года назад +3

      @@livindeadghoul How? people were being nice?

    • @umhi5743
      @umhi5743 4 года назад +1

      @@Heymeeeeeeeeeee ?

    • @nnekavanessa3005
      @nnekavanessa3005 4 года назад +17

      You can. Just marry a Nigerian or any other African or even engage in making friends from our continent

  • @78vette11
    @78vette11 5 лет назад +831

    Many of my coworkers are Nigerian so I’ve been to two weddings. Sooo beautiful and so much fun. Of course I loved the food and dancing. The cultural aspect is just awesome. Way better than any American wedding

    • @Leo-iq6ks
      @Leo-iq6ks 5 лет назад +24

      It would be interesting to witness such a wedding. It surely is a lot of fun.

    • @silentstorm8071
      @silentstorm8071 5 лет назад +24

      What are you a nurse? So many Nigerians in hospitals lol

    • @euphoriarose201
      @euphoriarose201 4 года назад +43

      Nigerians are one of the most intelligent immigrants in the us if that's where u are talking about. I watched a documentary yesterday, and literally 40 percent of people in ivy league school are from there. Lucky ducks. They are either doctors, or lawyers, or buisness owners lol. In my job my boss is Nigerian and she is soooo nice and rich lol. I wonder how African Americans are falling back if Africans Nigerians and otherafrican countries come here and thrive. A mystery to me.

    • @Sasha-kw5ud
      @Sasha-kw5ud 4 года назад +40

      Euphoria Rose I think it’s because Nigerians are RAISED to be smart for example my mother went to a Nigerian school until she was about 13. In her school your exam scores are broadcasted to everyone in your year so if you fail an exam EVERYONE will know. In my opinion that embarrassment will motivate you to do better. And you will end up excelling

    • @lilyshealinggarden5648
      @lilyshealinggarden5648 4 года назад +1

      So true

  • @notnazo
    @notnazo 4 года назад +12

    I'm Pakistani so I definitely know what it's like to have huge, traditional weddings and I love how surprisingly similar Nigerian weddings are to Pakistani weddings. The bride and groom look stunning 😁

  • @davidmadison9369
    @davidmadison9369 5 лет назад +505

    So basically a Nigerian wedding is a big party! I’m feeling that!

    • @onitaijeoma1450
      @onitaijeoma1450 5 лет назад +3

      😂 😂 Aren't you nigerian

    • @janeaa4666
      @janeaa4666 5 лет назад +28

      Yep. Pretty much.
      Your folks will invite all their friends and village people who will invite all their friends and village people.
      Everyone's invited

    • @CocoaAyoola
      @CocoaAyoola 4 года назад +3

      huge more like lol

    • @ajoaayebo6752
      @ajoaayebo6752 4 года назад +8

      Most african traditional wedding is huge and lots of party

    • @kennedicampbell2266
      @kennedicampbell2266 4 года назад

      Onita Ijeoma no

  • @narmada8815
    @narmada8815 5 лет назад +463

    Wow. Nigerian wedding looks so similar to Indian wedding. The importance given to family, song, dance, food then this 'spraying' of money is just like in Indian wedding 😍😍

    • @ggtracy02
      @ggtracy02 5 лет назад +73

      Narmada yes! And also similar b/c of the colorful traditional clothes. Both have such beautiful, rich cloths of clothing.

    • @refinery29
      @refinery29  5 лет назад +23

      +narmada That's so cool!

    • @KingofgraceSARA
      @KingofgraceSARA 5 лет назад +9

      At one point, they were the same people.

    • @yazzyab5798
      @yazzyab5798 5 лет назад +66

      @@KingofgraceSARA Cut the bullshit lol

    • @lilmizzije
      @lilmizzije 5 лет назад +51

      Texas Princess Nigerians and Indians have the best weddings 🤷🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️

  • @chiderahugwu7670
    @chiderahugwu7670 5 лет назад +719

    Wow so beautiful 😍. As an Igbo Nigerian currently living in Australia, the traditional attire, language and energy brings back so many amazing memories 😁

    • @chim2394
      @chim2394 5 лет назад +29

      I'm igbo too ayeee🤪🇳🇬🇳🇬

    • @amara333
      @amara333 5 лет назад +11

      Same

    • @refinery29
      @refinery29  5 лет назад +10

      +chideranugwu That's so lovely to hear! Glad you enjoyed the video!

    • @IHFPodcast
      @IHFPodcast 5 лет назад +4

      I live in Australia too lol

    • @lilmizzije
      @lilmizzije 5 лет назад +10

      Igbo kwen👏🏽🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

  • @dawnlittle2501
    @dawnlittle2501 3 года назад +36

    As a black American, a product of slavery, this makes me very sad. We are so disconnected and have no such traditions from our original culture. What a lovely event and the bride was gorgeous! Having family like that is really wonderful. I bet we would be far more successful as a group if we were able to maintain families and events that unify us such as this.

    • @robertopacheco2997
      @robertopacheco2997 Год назад +1

      Slavery is slavery, but in Latin America, Afro-descendants nonetheless preserved way more of their ancestral cultures and languages. For example, Cuban "Santeria" is basically traditional Yoruban (non-Islamic) religion.

    • @zae73
      @zae73 10 месяцев назад +1

      We do still have customs and traditions from where we were taken in Africa, it’s just unfortunately a lot of African Americans, like yourself, arent aware!!

  • @PaperPlanePages
    @PaperPlanePages 4 года назад +63

    as an Indian, I am here for extra AF weddings!! loud, boisterous, lots of dancing, lots of amazing food, family and love so much love! this was sooooo wonderful I smiled the whole time!

    • @fdavid7970
      @fdavid7970 3 года назад +3

      Yessss and lots of colours!!!!

  • @moira4784
    @moira4784 5 лет назад +256

    Listen African weddings are bright family celebrations. I love them. Each side has different cultural aspects but at the end we get down like no one else

    • @refinery29
      @refinery29  5 лет назад +3

      +moiramajaha Sounds like such a good time!

  • @aminaabdi2670
    @aminaabdi2670 4 года назад +47

    I’m Somali 🇸🇴 but I love all my African brother and sister

  • @SouthernMocha-mf8ke
    @SouthernMocha-mf8ke Год назад +5

    Nigerians are top tier people. I’ve never met a Nigerian who wasn’t successful here. Most are doctors, health professionals or business owners. It’s all about culture and values.

  • @nanaaraj
    @nanaaraj 5 лет назад +130

    I’m a Ghanaian from the Ashanti tribe but I love the Yoruba culture. I’d love to see a video about a traditional Ghanaian wedding.

    • @coconutheads9459
      @coconutheads9459 5 лет назад +20

      I'm Nigerian and we love Ghanaians too...

    • @FERESE
      @FERESE 4 года назад +7

      Ghanian /Yoruba wedding on RUclips is lit. I saw a couple of videos last year

    • @lovelyxpew6716
      @lovelyxpew6716 4 года назад

      Way

    • @lovelyxpew6716
      @lovelyxpew6716 4 года назад

      Wat

  • @kakashiishot8819
    @kakashiishot8819 5 лет назад +176

    My Nigerian people are beautiful 😍😩

  • @Ifeyinwa
    @Ifeyinwa 5 лет назад +132

    Ain't no wedding like a Nigerian wedding! Congrats Ayo and Ruth

  • @vaasmin
    @vaasmin 5 лет назад +270

    Spraying looks like making it rain on the couple haha

    • @nkroks4492
      @nkroks4492 5 лет назад +5

      Yes you are right

    • @onlygood222
      @onlygood222 5 лет назад +12

      Yes, It comes from us!

    • @YuusufAkorede
      @YuusufAkorede 5 лет назад +59

      @@onlygood222 who is "us". Spraying money is an ancient Yoruba cultural practice way wayyyy before slavery

    • @cleanwaternasenyiuganda8124
      @cleanwaternasenyiuganda8124 5 лет назад +9

      @@YuusufAkorede
      We brought it to America with "us"
      😉🇺🇸

    • @nca4794
      @nca4794 5 лет назад +1

      @@YuusufAkorede I was going to ask if this was a modern practice. Barring times when currency wasn't made of paper, is this how it's always been done?

  • @IshanAli
    @IshanAli 5 лет назад +233

    Black excellence

  • @MISSPHOTOGENICBABY
    @MISSPHOTOGENICBABY 5 лет назад +88

    I’ve never seen something so beautiful 😩💜😍! I love how everyone is blending together 🥳🥰

  • @anyagaff1471
    @anyagaff1471 5 лет назад +50

    This is why everyone from Naija is sooo very proud of where we come from. Whether we live in Canada, the US, the UK, Russia or France we love to talk about the beauty of home! When your culture is so rich and fabulous, it's hard NOT to talk about it 😂😂😂

    • @chietoesther4334
      @chietoesther4334 3 года назад +3

      thanks alot your really making blush about my culture

  • @lakshmisubramanian2471
    @lakshmisubramanian2471 4 года назад +25

    The similarity is uncanny! Even we Indians fall at our elders' feet to get their blessings. Indian and Nigerian traditions have so much in common.

    • @annalovelove3269
      @annalovelove3269 4 года назад +1

      Yes. We use henna aswell

    • @Mindofuche
      @Mindofuche Год назад

      As a Nigerian, this is very true. Although I would have to say the core difference would be food, Indian food are spicy BUT Nigerian food in on a whole different level😂😂😂😂😂
      I think Indian brides are very graceful too

  • @chelseacco7567
    @chelseacco7567 4 года назад +26

    And in case y'all don't know those clothes are handmade and custom made 👏

  • @TakiMomoify
    @TakiMomoify 5 лет назад +107

    I wish I knew where I came from. The concept of having a culture that wasn’t born from trauma is a beautiful one.

    • @Idcanymore510
      @Idcanymore510 4 года назад +26

      You come from Africa, Sis. You can claim all of them as your own.

    • @Usthereout
      @Usthereout 4 года назад +11

      I'd say learn as much as you can about west African cultures/tribes. And just remember that that's where you descended from

  • @debbienehikhuere
    @debbienehikhuere 5 лет назад +76

    YESSS!!!! As a Nigerian-American this made me smile too much!!! Nigerian weddings are bomb!!!!

  • @kerosene3222
    @kerosene3222 5 лет назад +17

    I'm indian and my Yoruba friend loves to watch corny bollywood movies with me and we watch wild nollywood movies.... WHY ARE YOU RUNNING? Her wedding was so much fun!!!!

  • @charite2886
    @charite2886 5 лет назад +97

    I love this! Make more videos celebrating different cultures!

    • @refinery29
      @refinery29  5 лет назад +1

      +charite Stay tuned on Saturday's!

  • @jasminealwedyan874
    @jasminealwedyan874 5 лет назад +70

    This is so beautiful. I love how interactive the wedding is with friends and family. I love how God is so prevalent in the marriage in that family and friends are praying for them and blessing them. This is such a wonderful thing to see.

  • @baldlondon6119
    @baldlondon6119 4 года назад +29

    The funny thing is that is isn’t even the wedding, it’s just the traditional part.

  • @mdm_222
    @mdm_222 3 года назад +1

    I'm Kenyan and I LOVE learning about other African countries. This was absolutely beautiful

  • @rheam3920
    @rheam3920 3 года назад +11

    Was really surprised by some similarities of nigerian culture to indian culture. We also spray money on the wedding on family members, bride and groom and basically anyone who dances well 🤭 of course theres some subtle differences but wow loved to know that we share the love for colourful clothes, passion for dancing and of course FOOD ! 💜💜
    Love from India

  • @nadiaa6899
    @nadiaa6899 5 лет назад +253

    I'm Ethiopian but damn I may have to find myself one of these fine Nigerian men to marry 😍

    • @nadiaa6899
      @nadiaa6899 5 лет назад +41

      @@mercy901 hahaha as long as he is not scamming me 😂

    • @normanrockwell9906
      @normanrockwell9906 5 лет назад +56

      BlackEmpress how rude and disrespectful

    • @Jennifer-uh8th
      @Jennifer-uh8th 5 лет назад +7

      BlackEmpress shut up

    • @lilmizzije
      @lilmizzije 5 лет назад +17

      Ọsạọsẹmwen girl do you know how many times I’ve defended you on here? That idiot just tagged Nigerian men as scammers...

    • @onitaijeoma1450
      @onitaijeoma1450 5 лет назад

      😂... Its beautiful

  • @babyvale610
    @babyvale610 4 года назад +23

    When the heritage dna says you are 25% Nigerian 😭😭

  • @vikvik16
    @vikvik16 4 года назад +56

    I used to work in banquets and African weddings are something else. Everyone was so nice, the food was AMAZING, music was as well. I remember there were 4 women that exchanged larger Bill's for single and they made it rain on the newly weds. This was also when I realized the influence of african music on Latinx music.

    • @Idcanymore510
      @Idcanymore510 4 года назад +7

      We are cousins.

    • @Usthereout
      @Usthereout 4 года назад +8

      That's crazy to me that we have influences on people all over the world

    • @unfazedjae2645
      @unfazedjae2645 3 года назад

      Reggaeton sounds like Afro beat songs sometimes ✨. Ex. Myke Towers - Diosa and Farruko - Loco

  • @manager-nim2623
    @manager-nim2623 5 лет назад +55

    The Nigerians at my uni are like super rich and just walk in every day with a new set of traditional clothes, usually the guys wear them more than the girls. I'd love to go to a Nigerian wedding

    • @Shakira98
      @Shakira98 5 лет назад +9

      The way am Nigerian yet super broke 24/7 also hello worldwide handsome 💜

    • @manager-nim2623
      @manager-nim2623 5 лет назад +5

      @@Shakira98 ikr, also hellooooo lovely army💜

    • @coconutheads9459
      @coconutheads9459 5 лет назад

      Would gladly give you a great time when you come to Nigeria...
      My sisters wedding is in December 2019... Come over... +2347069740509

    • @manager-nim2623
      @manager-nim2623 5 лет назад +3

      @@coconutheads9459 you serious? 😂

    • @leilleebitiyong9746
      @leilleebitiyong9746 4 года назад +7

      You don’t need an invitation to a Nigerian Wedding...if you show up; you’re family! Join the party!

  • @Mimi-sk5ld
    @Mimi-sk5ld 4 года назад +15

    I'm Guinean and Malian, but sending love to all y'all Nigerians out there👑

  • @Nikunikuniku583
    @Nikunikuniku583 5 лет назад +82

    Your culture is absolutely beautiful . Lots of ❤️

  • @saranimi7117
    @saranimi7117 5 лет назад +89

    Awww I'm Nigerian and I love our weddings but I'm not a big fan of big weddings lol. My wedding is probably going to be super super low-key, without all the fanfare. Plus, I don't wanna spend a lot of money on a big wedding 😂.

    • @muadline5989
      @muadline5989 5 лет назад +22

      If you come from a rich family, you can't avoid a big 9ja wedding. If you come from a large family, you can't avoid a big 9ja wedding. In 9ja weddings are not for the couple, so you have no say in the matter. It's a union of two families (including but not limited to the families' friends, neighbors, coworkers etc, that's just how we roll in 9ja regardless if the ethnic group. We are rich in people, we never lack people.

    • @limelyte5390
      @limelyte5390 5 лет назад +19

      @@muadline5989 the only way to achieve low key wedding as a nigerian is probably to wed on mars. Nigerians don't require invitation cards and seeing the bride is some kind of a rush for most people 🤣🤣🤣

    • @saranimi7117
      @saranimi7117 5 лет назад +21

      @@limelyte5390 lmaooo too true! But my family is pretty low key for Nigerians lol. And I'm very stubborn when it comes to getting what I want. I can compromise but ultimately it's my wedding...I'd like to save money for better things. A long marriage is more important than a big wedding ( in my opinion) but to each their own.

    • @User-fp8dk
      @User-fp8dk 3 года назад +1

      Me too

  • @chits28
    @chits28 4 года назад +25

    Who loves The Wedding Party series???
    🙋🏻

  • @TheDifferentOne1000
    @TheDifferentOne1000 5 лет назад +41

    I’m Nigerian and Yoruba as well and I’m soooo looking forward to having a traditional Nigerian wedding

  • @jgallub
    @jgallub 5 лет назад +24

    This was so beautiful. The inclusiveness of the families is incredible. Beyond all of that her dress is the most beautiful wedding dress. I’m not girlie by any means, but I’d wear her whole wedding look. She looked absolutely stunning and regal.

  • @naijalovin
    @naijalovin 5 лет назад +72

    Thank you for this beautiful depiction of Yoruba weddings.

  • @oyinkansolaadeiye3201
    @oyinkansolaadeiye3201 5 лет назад +132

    Beautiful as always! Ps: The fabric is "Aso oke" not Ashoke. If you are going this mile to show off beautiful cultures, it's also good to get the proper spelling/names of things so people learn the right things.

    • @oluwakemimichaels3385
      @oluwakemimichaels3385 5 лет назад +4

      It's the British accent that spoilt it

    • @victoriaemmanuel3105
      @victoriaemmanuel3105 5 лет назад +3

      I was thinking the same as well. Especially with the hyphen on the é that definitely changed the whole pronunciation and spelling of the word

    • @oyinkansolaadeiye3201
      @oyinkansolaadeiye3201 5 лет назад +1

      @@victoriaemmanuel3105 very true. That sign on the e is so off.

  • @SniperRose1
    @SniperRose1 5 лет назад +37

    Her parents look so young and good looking. Good genes

  • @onitaijeoma1450
    @onitaijeoma1450 5 лет назад +27

    I am a proud Nigerian 🇳🇬... And I love when my country is represented.... I love this... Thanks @Refinery29

  • @ASHLINW185
    @ASHLINW185 5 лет назад +81

    So telling that this rich African history is told with a British accent. History is complicated and messy, but strangely beautiful.

    • @gloria9157
      @gloria9157 5 лет назад +30

      What is very interesting is that there are Nigerians who have never been to the UK before but they have a British accent.

    • @tok1879
      @tok1879 5 лет назад +5

      @@gloria9157 🙄😒

    • @ifeojo9948
      @ifeojo9948 5 лет назад +3

      @@gloria9157 as innn

    • @dlilwon
      @dlilwon 5 лет назад +1

      Gloria Iji did you watch the video? 🤦🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️

    • @gloria9157
      @gloria9157 5 лет назад +1

      @@dlilwon Yes, what's your point?

  • @graceomoboye4996
    @graceomoboye4996 5 лет назад +14

    As an Nigerian from the Yoruba tribe living in America, this wedding really does represent the Nigerian culture in the colors for each side of the family to making sure everyone enjoys the food and is filled #NIGERIA 🇳🇬

  • @haninhyder2375
    @haninhyder2375 5 лет назад +62

    Please do a Sudanese wedding!😍

    • @reem3266
      @reem3266 5 лет назад +7

      Hanin Hyder yes! That would be amazing

  • @Dude-dx5ns
    @Dude-dx5ns 4 года назад +21

    I'm Nigerian and I've always felt like I would never, ever do a traditional wedding because I'm not interested in that pomp and paegantry, but now I'm rethinking that idea

  • @Leah-xv3zf
    @Leah-xv3zf 5 лет назад +46

    This made me tear up. I love how much it means to the whole family. The beautiful shots of the bride and her mother were priceless ❤

    • @refinery29
      @refinery29  5 лет назад +2

      +leahcontreras It was so beautiful!

    • @oma7698
      @oma7698 3 года назад

      Imagine! That is the baby she brought home from the hospital not so long ago!

  • @allysellsitall
    @allysellsitall 4 года назад +5

    If Disney will have a movie inspired from an African princess this woman would have been the muse...what a beautiful gown, makeup , everything looks so beautiful!

  • @Jewelstarr208
    @Jewelstarr208 4 года назад +7

    As an African American I wish that I could find out my culture😔

    • @annalovelove3269
      @annalovelove3269 4 года назад +3

      Aww. I hope you do. I'm hausa and igbo. Which means northern Arabic Nigerian cultures and eastern Nigerian cultures. Gl

    • @Usthereout
      @Usthereout 4 года назад +1

      @@annalovelove3269 I'm igbo as well, but Igbo people are in the southeast.

    • @Usthereout
      @Usthereout 4 года назад +2

      If you want find out your ancestry you can take a DNA test (African Ancestry), and they give you the tribe you descended from.

  • @TheLadydanni
    @TheLadydanni 5 лет назад +28

    I think this is the most beautiful marriage I’ve ever seen. I never wished I knew where I was from more.

  • @anngodwin9894
    @anngodwin9894 5 лет назад +13

    As a Nigerian with both Yoruba and Uhrobo heritage.... I can say yes there are difference in our traditional marriages but there are also similarities. The fact the a Yoruba marriage was use to portray our culture shouldn't make anyone mad. it a celebration of love ( with a few different scenes and events) and that's what matters

    • @anngodwin9894
      @anngodwin9894 5 лет назад +6

      @Black To Grace If someone is still ignorant enough to think Africa is a country in 2019 there no fixing to that. And I still stand by my opinion Yoruba or not it's still Nigerian, it's about love so picking offence is the problem

    • @Usthereout
      @Usthereout 4 года назад +2

      right. I'm igbo and it's not that deep

  • @NyarRailakende
    @NyarRailakende 5 лет назад +15

    I live In Iceland Reykjavik raised here but am Kenyan and my African heritage has no boundary..I feel warmth watching anything from Africa, food, music,...thanks for uploading this...Blessings guys..🇮🇸🇰🇪

  • @lysat7843
    @lysat7843 4 года назад +10

    I’m African American. I took a DNA test and it revealed that I’m mostly Nigerian. I’d love to embrace the culture I never knew and have a traditional wedding. This wedding was absolutely beautiful and very informative!

    • @Correctgistlover
      @Correctgistlover 4 года назад +2

      Listen you can't just call yourself Nigerian because you saw in a DNA test because of your ancestors, Nigerians are very tribalistic and unless you are a direct descendant like from your great grandparents or grandparents you are very much American take pride in that. I'm tired of seeing black Americans want to lay claim to a culture that they are very far removed from it is insulting to the people. You don't see white Americans stress over their European roots so why stress over your African roots? Enjoy being American and the culture blacks have created over there.

    • @user-mh2gb2mo1m
      @user-mh2gb2mo1m 4 года назад +3

      author nikkih How is it her fault her ancestors were slaves? Sorry that she wants to learn where she came from...you’re acting like Nigerians aren’t whitewashing themselves anyways

    • @mbm1ame
      @mbm1ame 4 года назад +5

      @@Correctgistlover that was unnecessarily mean

    • @lysat7843
      @lysat7843 4 года назад +4

      author nikkih I understand your point of view. Thanks for your comment, but how can I call myself “African” American and not embrace the African part? I’ll never do anything without educating myself. I am Nigerian by blood. I’m connecting with my roots. Therefore, I am still African American. I’m just embracing the African part.

    • @Correctgistlover
      @Correctgistlover 4 года назад

      @@user-mh2gb2mo1m well slave trade has the word trade in it so who do you think sold her ancestors? Whites or blacks? And I'm pretty sure her ancestors were among the people that fought alongside Martin Luther King Jr for their rights in America! America oh not Nigeria! So please enjoy your American culture it is not a bad thing to enjoy the freedom your ancestors fought for you all earned it and like I said unless you are a direct descendant you will never be accepted as an African that is just the honest truth our people are very tribalistic.

  • @brianna5903
    @brianna5903 4 года назад +4

    Ugh Yoruba women are so beautiful 😫😍

  • @victoriasho3452
    @victoriasho3452 5 лет назад +1

    This is a traditional Yoruba wedding, different tribes have their own traditions ✨ love seeing my culture being represented

  • @miel8935
    @miel8935 4 года назад +6

    Proudly Nigerian and proudly Yoruba, I'd never wish to be of another nationality.

  • @13niharika98
    @13niharika98 4 года назад +5

    This really reminds me of our big fat Punjabi weddings... They are very similar in ideology to this but just different customs. I loved this and would definitely want to see one in person ❤️

  • @jadooe5519
    @jadooe5519 5 лет назад +6

    My stepdads mom (She is Jamaican) remarried into a Nigerian family and they had a Yoruba wedding. It was by far the coolest wedding I had ever seen (I am Jamaican, ans for some reason Nigerian and Jamaicans are always competing). It was such a fun time

  • @ayomideojo258
    @ayomideojo258 3 года назад +8

    I'm a Nigerian teen and I've always looked forward to my weddings (traditional and white wedding)! I know it sounds weird coming from a teenager but I just LOVE our weddings and I can't wait for my day😭 These comments made me so happy cuz other people appreciate our culture🥺 I'm proud to be Nigerian😤🇳🇬❤

  • @TIAOFNEBULA
    @TIAOFNEBULA 3 года назад +5

    When i watch things like this i think about how much african americans were literally ROBBED from having and practicing their native african culture.... its sickening tbh.

    • @judithkanayo1803
      @judithkanayo1803 3 года назад +2

      Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a man in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (GODSTIME MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on +2349138533621) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you.

    • @TIAOFNEBULA
      @TIAOFNEBULA 3 года назад +1

      @@judithkanayo1803 I appreciate anyone that says they pray for me in a positive light.

    • @FERESE
      @FERESE 2 года назад

      He is a scammer from the pit of hell. He will pay back for all his atrocities and his children won't be spared. Mr scammer, kwantinue. Your end is near.

  • @osobomar5638
    @osobomar5638 3 года назад +8

    Beautiful Nigerian wedding! Culture, food and dance.
    🇳🇬 Represent. Proud to be African. 🇸🇴

  • @AYEITSOMO
    @AYEITSOMO 4 года назад +4

    Ayyyyy. Awon omo Yoruba da?

  • @ebonyperkins4129
    @ebonyperkins4129 5 лет назад +20

    They look great. IM NOT CRYING BECAUSE OF TRIBAL TRADITION AND BECAUSE IT WAS SO BEAUTIFUL. I'm cutting onions.

  • @nicford548
    @nicford548 3 года назад +10

    What a fascinating culture! We Africans in the diaspora(I’m from Guyana 🇬🇾) have lost 😞 so much!

    • @FERESE
      @FERESE 2 года назад

      You can start from your lineage. The marriage rites is very simple. You can start from your family and elders coming together to instill this practice and dowry for your young women in your family. As for African clothes, thank God you can get that in your country too. I would do the same if I were you because I'm first African. Just look at some Nigerian and Ghanaian weddings to see how it's done and what part of the culture you want to infuse into yours. It will work. Shalom!

  • @sheilavil3244
    @sheilavil3244 2 года назад +6

    Im haitian and I absolutely love yoruba traditionnal wedding ! 🇳🇬🇳🇬❤❤

  • @Cass_Suitor
    @Cass_Suitor 4 года назад +3

    I found out my Mom is 1/3 Nigerian.

  • @helvinaa.9243
    @helvinaa.9243 4 года назад +4

    Might this be a sign?? I keep seeing a lot of Nigerian wedding videos lately, where’s my Nigerian prince already?😂😂

    • @helvinaa.9243
      @helvinaa.9243 4 года назад +1

      Ntshi Dikgolo yesss I’m definitely considering going on holiday there 😂😂

    • @judithkanayo1803
      @judithkanayo1803 3 года назад

      Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a man in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (GODSTIME MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on +2349138533621) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you........

  • @naomikriss5208
    @naomikriss5208 4 года назад +5

    No one throws a party better than the beautiful 9ja people. Love Yoruba culture. Bathe them with that money!!! Bless this new family

  • @darkchocolat1214
    @darkchocolat1214 5 лет назад +15

    Beautiful traditional Yoruba wedding 🇳🇬💖

  • @miadulcelymartinez8912
    @miadulcelymartinez8912 5 лет назад +16

    I love the importance Nigerian culture puts in marriage and the sacredness❤️❤️❤️

  • @laetitiasales3527
    @laetitiasales3527 4 года назад +3

    I wish I still had traditions like this. Unfortunately since Italy became one Nation many (most) of the local traditions were put aside... We only have local languages/dialects

  • @frances4461
    @frances4461 3 года назад +3

    I'm igbo but I love Yoruba culture (sometimes even more than mine) cuz I was born and raised in Lagos, a predominantly Yoruba state.

  • @ldyluv6988
    @ldyluv6988 3 года назад +7

    BEST wedding I've ever been to was an Nigerian wedding. Yall know how to party 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾😍

  • @dakotac180
    @dakotac180 5 лет назад +45

    Geez I love it when people really stick to their culture. This was a lot but it was also beautiful.

  • @tosinakin2508
    @tosinakin2508 4 года назад +2

    It's known as spraying money, but I think it's more like touching/placing. Others spray proper, but it's like Yoruba people have to get close and personal to ensure you received the blessing or something 😂

  • @deepz513
    @deepz513 4 года назад +1

    Such rich culture and beautiful people 😍💗💕💖💗

  • @Justteejayy
    @Justteejayy 5 лет назад +16

    I wish i wasn’t stripped of my heritage because I’d love to have a wedding like this! I used to say that I only wanted to marry an African man just to experience this type of union with so many family and friends.

    • @ev6564
      @ev6564 4 года назад +6

      Maybe try a DNA heritage test and whichever one you match with more try to learn more about that explore and have your wedding this way if you want!

    • @lauraaniakor9815
      @lauraaniakor9815 4 года назад +1

      Or try learning about west African countries, odds are you come from many of those places. You have your pick of the culture. It’s unfortunate that African Americans were stripped of their African heritage, but the culture that arose from it is truly something to be proud of. Everyone copied black culture, even in Africa, black culture is everywhere. Black Americans truly are a special group of people. I have never seen another culture have such a global impact the way black culture does.😊😊

  • @Rainbluex1
    @Rainbluex1 5 лет назад +13

    My naija people!! Igbo kwenu!! ✊🏾❤️ beautiful wedding!

  • @Miaasfashion
    @Miaasfashion 5 лет назад +17

    Yess I am Nigerian our weddings are the best

  • @tangiemarie6317
    @tangiemarie6317 5 лет назад +11

    I love the outfits, especially the aspect of the bride wearing a veil though its a traditional wedding.
    And did you guys see how those gentlemen laid flat on their stomach infront of the bride's parents? Yuroba people are so respectful and i love that.
    Am a Cameroonian but i envy this culture 😍

    • @euphoriarose201
      @euphoriarose201 4 года назад +5

      That's our culture in Africa but especially in Nigeria lol. There's also a tradition where the husband hides and the bride is holding a marriage wine and she has to find him in the crowd. When she does, she kneels in front of him and serves him the cup. When he drinks it it kind of shows he accepts her.

    • @myhappiness1258
      @myhappiness1258 3 года назад

      *Yoruba not Yuroba

    • @myhappiness1258
      @myhappiness1258 3 года назад

      Thank you 🥰🥰

    • @AncientHebrewNeverDied
      @AncientHebrewNeverDied 2 года назад

      The veil is traditionally part of the Yoruba Bride's costume for the traditional wedding.

  • @raxaweynroyalty4804
    @raxaweynroyalty4804 5 лет назад +62

    I am Somali but I love how Nigerians dress and I can’t wait to wear their cultural dress on my wedding day. 😍

    • @duchesseebene1273
      @duchesseebene1273 5 лет назад +23

      Are you marrying a Nigerian? You do you sis but Somali attire is just as beautiful & vibrant with color!!! Paired with intricate Henna designs and a beat face, you'll make a gorgeous bride. This coming from a Congolese familiar with the African diaspora.

    • @jaedevrick
      @jaedevrick 5 лет назад +9

      Totally it's your wedding do what you want to do!!!

    • @raxaweynroyalty4804
      @raxaweynroyalty4804 5 лет назад +4

      Laetitia M No I am not but thanks

    • @lavenderflowers1075
      @lavenderflowers1075 4 года назад +2

      I think the Somali too have beautiful fashion 🤷

    • @raxaweynroyalty4804
      @raxaweynroyalty4804 4 года назад +1

      Lavendar Flowers I know but just wanted to be different 😊

  • @anapiunticarol9983
    @anapiunticarol9983 5 лет назад +11

    They are all so beautiful and fancy. Looks like African royalty! Love it