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  • @refinery29
    @refinery29  5 лет назад +1388

    What cultural traditions do you relate the most to from this Nigerian wedding in the U.K.? Share with us below!

    • @hht6676
      @hht6676 5 лет назад +18

      Do an northeastern Indian wedding next coz it differs from mainland

    • @Nidhi-ll3yq
      @Nidhi-ll3yq 5 лет назад +34

      Definitely Indian.
      Indian weddings are just as crazy

    • @lovesbeauty9564
      @lovesbeauty9564 5 лет назад +20

      Am from Nigeria based his Italy thanks for good job and congratulations to the couples

    • @hotcheetos2463
      @hotcheetos2463 5 лет назад +12

      Polynesian Wedding. Any of the islands in the Pacific - because I feel like our weddings are similar to a Nigerian wedding with all the families, food, dancing, music, culture & money

    • @refinery29
      @refinery29  5 лет назад +6

      @@hotcheetos2463 We did cover a Maori wedding here: ruclips.net/video/lcoNjMx3GEI/видео.html

  • @loopums
    @loopums 5 лет назад +10522

    This is a Traditional *Yoruba* Nigerian wedding. It'd be helpful to specify because "Traditional Nigerian Weddings" look verrrry different depending on your ethnic group.

    • @zandiledlamini8160
      @zandiledlamini8160 5 лет назад +311

      Thanks for educating. I’m South African and didn’t know this.

    • @cynthiauzoka2291
      @cynthiauzoka2291 5 лет назад +500

      very true. There is Yoruba, Igbo, Hausa, Calabar, Benue, we have so many beautiful cultures

    • @quinjou
      @quinjou 5 лет назад +198

      @@cynthiauzoka2291 Yeah my mother is Edo Nigerian and even though she had a western wedding her family and nigerian friends all wore traditional edo clothing and I just love staring at my parents' wedding photos because of that lol

    • @sumadre101
      @sumadre101 5 лет назад +41

      @@cynthiauzoka2291 dont forget Efik!

    • @Alex-ki1yr
      @Alex-ki1yr 5 лет назад +1

      +

  • @daniellemarable2775
    @daniellemarable2775 5 лет назад +5366

    I think my favorite part about this marriage ceremony is how important the theme of family is.

    • @refinery29
      @refinery29  5 лет назад +54

      +daniellemarable Yes!!

    • @thaliasghost
      @thaliasghost 5 лет назад +16

      It is not family in the sense we think of. It is family in the sense of tribal affiliation and ownership.

    • @madlingmsp1183
      @madlingmsp1183 5 лет назад +83

      thaliasghost no, it’s just family 😊

    • @neghiethervil5606
      @neghiethervil5606 5 лет назад +74

      Marriage is hard enough. You're marrying each others' family, not just the person, so makes all the sense in the world. If they don't get along, it absolutely affects your marriage.

    • @daniellemarable2775
      @daniellemarable2775 5 лет назад +3

      Neghie Thervil yessss I totally agree!

  • @stephaniemcintosh2808
    @stephaniemcintosh2808 5 лет назад +4238

    The bride looked so beautiful - the headress gave her such a regal look.

    • @Uncle_Smidge
      @Uncle_Smidge 5 лет назад +28

      Right? Reminiscent of the western/religious halo imagery, but self-made.

    • @juacey
      @juacey 5 лет назад +109

      It's called a gele and that's just one style of wearing it albeit a really popular one

    • @donthinkso9740
      @donthinkso9740 5 лет назад +63

      A Smidge of Boise no it’s Nigerian nothing western about it

    • @livetaster6943
      @livetaster6943 5 лет назад +38

      @@Uncle_Smidge it's the West African Gele.

    • @Black_pearl_adrift
      @Black_pearl_adrift 4 года назад +11

      And the reception will last until 3am the next day. I'm sorry I dont make the rules

  • @enukau
    @enukau 5 лет назад +8307

    This is a Yoruba wedding. We have about 250 ethnic groups.

    • @mariagalleriaxi8632
      @mariagalleriaxi8632 5 лет назад +311

      @@theimpoftheperverse7598 they aren't complaining? They are just sharing information. Control yourself

    • @bukster337
      @bukster337 5 лет назад +51

      I think the Bride is Igbo

    • @funkeysho
      @funkeysho 5 лет назад +205

      @@bukster337 Only the mother of the bride is igbo, her dad is yoruba.

    • @fumis2045
      @fumis2045 5 лет назад +121

      Yoruba have the best clothes. Completely biased perspective.

    • @bukster337
      @bukster337 5 лет назад +7

      @@funkeysho That's good to know but how can you tell?

  • @Lipstickforever84
    @Lipstickforever84 5 лет назад +2344

    The 🇳🇬 wedding culture is spot on, however, there are hundreds of tribes in Nigeria. Each tribe has there own traditional wedding practices. Great video. Congrats to the couple.

    • @refinery29
      @refinery29  5 лет назад +40

      +ogo Thanks for checking out the video!

    • @anyagaff1471
      @anyagaff1471 5 лет назад +33

      I'd LOVE to see an Igbo wedding here.

    • @Belema_
      @Belema_ 4 года назад +13

      @Ant Nam on the contrary, none's more important.

    • @keshinro...6979
      @keshinro...6979 4 года назад +7

      It's still Nigerian,what you want them to show hundreds of culture in Nigeria? Take a seat

    • @Bas_tet
      @Bas_tet 4 года назад +20

      @@keshinro...6979 They should have specified

  • @Abekeuweme
    @Abekeuweme 5 лет назад +2981

    Another thing. People. Make sure if you invite 200 you have enough for 300 because your uncle will invite his friend who will invite his cousin and that cousin will invite his grandmother😂😂no joke!

    • @melislifestyle9409
      @melislifestyle9409 5 лет назад +165

      I was wondering if the couple knows 200 people to invite 🤣 not knowing that the uncle will invite his friend and his friend will invite his girlfriend and the girlfriend will invite her ancestors 🤣

    • @nigerdeltamirrortv9311
      @nigerdeltamirrortv9311 5 лет назад +48

      melis mefeuwo lol....gf invite her ancestors. That was funny.

    • @ritacampbell7217
      @ritacampbell7217 4 года назад +7

      @@melislifestyle9409 lol

    • @sarahfantasy4624
      @sarahfantasy4624 4 года назад +67

      It's kinda same here in Indian weddings haha 😂✨ I really enjoyed watching this video and I found so many similarities between the Nigerian and Indian culture. For sure I wanna attend a Nigerian wedding someday!

    • @sarahackah-yensu9213
      @sarahackah-yensu9213 4 года назад +48

      Its same in Ghana ...i think its same everywhere in Africa...😂😂😂. So in Ghana we say always take your number and +50...especially when its ooen like funerals, traditional marriage ceremonies and naming ceremonies. Of course now some people are doing a "strictly by invitation " policy. However prepare to receive some insults from the African 'aunties.'🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @SylvieSij
    @SylvieSij 5 лет назад +2872

    One thing i love about african weddings is the FOOD. We go all out...

    • @dan19mas
      @dan19mas 5 лет назад +135

      Sylvie Sij my auntie had a Nigerian wedding 2 years ago and I’ve never seen so many people take away food after the wedding 😅😂😂😂

    • @SylvieSij
      @SylvieSij 5 лет назад +71

      @@dan19mas because there's always extra🤣🤣😂

    • @amykarr6163
      @amykarr6163 5 лет назад +3

      what kind of things you guys put out? mexican food will always be on top but i wanna know

    • @iloveyou-pm4tj
      @iloveyou-pm4tj 5 лет назад +41

      @@amykarr6163 I am not Nigerian but probably the best jollof 🤤

    • @omosefenoruwa700
      @omosefenoruwa700 5 лет назад +46

      Larry Mexican food cannot compare 😂🤣

  • @a.h.i267
    @a.h.i267 5 лет назад +5214

    What’s up with Nigerian men and wearing sunglasses, literally EVERYWHERE 😂 (I’m Nigerian as well lol)

    • @lilacrosewood6730
      @lilacrosewood6730 5 лет назад +641

      Succulent lol don’t question it. It engrained in our men’s sense of swag.

    • @ansh0133
      @ansh0133 5 лет назад +29

      😅

    • @gh1Mikie
      @gh1Mikie 5 лет назад +97

      Ask again!! It’s a mystery

    • @lesleyk1727
      @lesleyk1727 5 лет назад +137

      😂🤣😅They tryna stay mysterious, I guess!

    • @Omangozika
      @Omangozika 5 лет назад +60

      Succulent I think it’s used to cover their shyness at least that’s what I use it for

  • @javiergarza5544
    @javiergarza5544 5 лет назад +658

    The bride and groom looked stunning, like literal royalty.

  • @edwardkaf9336
    @edwardkaf9336 5 лет назад +752

    I'm asian and seeing new cultures like this always amaze me!This is such a beautiful wedding and it's very nice to see everyone's enjoing it !

    • @justanotheruser2611
      @justanotheruser2611 4 года назад +3

      Gonna reply to let you know how many likes you have :)

    • @mayqueen1155
      @mayqueen1155 4 года назад

      Eeekkk I need me an Asian bf/ bestie

    • @desert._rose
      @desert._rose 4 года назад +22

      @@mayqueen1155 why tho

    • @TedEhioghae
      @TedEhioghae 4 года назад +2

      What do you mean by 'new cultures' ?

    • @mina-jf7pd
      @mina-jf7pd 4 года назад +14

      @@TedEhioghae I think the person is talking about seeing "new cultures" other than their own.

  • @jonelljonelljonell
    @jonelljonelljonell 5 лет назад +938

    The outfits are beyond stunning! So much detail and unique mix of traditional and modern

    • @refinery29
      @refinery29  5 лет назад +11

      +jonell We think so, too! :)

  • @chumisasokupe3587
    @chumisasokupe3587 5 лет назад +746

    In this lifetime, I need to attend a Nigerian wedding I just have to.

  • @78vette11
    @78vette11 5 лет назад +830

    Many of my coworkers are Nigerian so I’ve been to two weddings. Sooo beautiful and so much fun. Of course I loved the food and dancing. The cultural aspect is just awesome. Way better than any American wedding

    • @Leo-iq6ks
      @Leo-iq6ks 5 лет назад +24

      It would be interesting to witness such a wedding. It surely is a lot of fun.

    • @silentstorm8071
      @silentstorm8071 5 лет назад +24

      What are you a nurse? So many Nigerians in hospitals lol

    • @euphoriarose201
      @euphoriarose201 5 лет назад +44

      Nigerians are one of the most intelligent immigrants in the us if that's where u are talking about. I watched a documentary yesterday, and literally 40 percent of people in ivy league school are from there. Lucky ducks. They are either doctors, or lawyers, or buisness owners lol. In my job my boss is Nigerian and she is soooo nice and rich lol. I wonder how African Americans are falling back if Africans Nigerians and otherafrican countries come here and thrive. A mystery to me.

    • @Sasha-kw5ud
      @Sasha-kw5ud 5 лет назад +41

      Euphoria Rose I think it’s because Nigerians are RAISED to be smart for example my mother went to a Nigerian school until she was about 13. In her school your exam scores are broadcasted to everyone in your year so if you fail an exam EVERYONE will know. In my opinion that embarrassment will motivate you to do better. And you will end up excelling

    • @lilyshealinggarden5648
      @lilyshealinggarden5648 4 года назад +1

      So true

  • @PaperPlanePages
    @PaperPlanePages 4 года назад +63

    as an Indian, I am here for extra AF weddings!! loud, boisterous, lots of dancing, lots of amazing food, family and love so much love! this was sooooo wonderful I smiled the whole time!

    • @fdavid7970
      @fdavid7970 3 года назад +3

      Yessss and lots of colours!!!!

  • @narmada8815
    @narmada8815 5 лет назад +462

    Wow. Nigerian wedding looks so similar to Indian wedding. The importance given to family, song, dance, food then this 'spraying' of money is just like in Indian wedding 😍😍

    • @ggtracy02
      @ggtracy02 5 лет назад +72

      Narmada yes! And also similar b/c of the colorful traditional clothes. Both have such beautiful, rich cloths of clothing.

    • @refinery29
      @refinery29  5 лет назад +23

      +narmada That's so cool!

    • @KingofgraceSARA
      @KingofgraceSARA 5 лет назад +9

      At one point, they were the same people.

    • @yazzyab5798
      @yazzyab5798 5 лет назад +66

      @@KingofgraceSARA Cut the bullshit lol

    • @lilmizzije
      @lilmizzije 5 лет назад +51

      Texas Princess Nigerians and Indians have the best weddings 🤷🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️

  • @tolu144
    @tolu144 5 лет назад +241

    I think people mistake distinction for tribalism. Each different culture and its distinctions are what makes Nigeria the beautiful mosaic of a country that it is. For us, it’s important to understand the beautiful aspects of each culture and there’s absolutely nothing wrong with that. This is a Yoruba wedding, and if it was an Igbo wedding, that distinction should also be made to showcase the beauty of the tribe 💁🏾‍♀️

  • @t8mera
    @t8mera 5 лет назад +3205

    I wish my african ancestry was not stripped for me i love to find out my heritage

    • @alexisaspy2429
      @alexisaspy2429 5 лет назад +108

      Tamera same

    • @t8mera
      @t8mera 5 лет назад +108

      alex is a spy it really sucks honestly

    • @MsEliteForever
      @MsEliteForever 5 лет назад +8

      @@t8mera stripped how?

    • @MsEliteForever
      @MsEliteForever 5 лет назад +53

      Im Black American or American. Nothing stripped from me.

    • @t8mera
      @t8mera 5 лет назад +230

      Health&Glitter i have no ideo what part of africa my african ancestry is from all people tell me that ny great grandmother was hispanic

  • @davidmadison9369
    @davidmadison9369 5 лет назад +505

    So basically a Nigerian wedding is a big party! I’m feeling that!

    • @onitaijeoma1450
      @onitaijeoma1450 5 лет назад +3

      😂 😂 Aren't you nigerian

    • @janeaa4666
      @janeaa4666 5 лет назад +28

      Yep. Pretty much.
      Your folks will invite all their friends and village people who will invite all their friends and village people.
      Everyone's invited

    • @CocoaAyoola
      @CocoaAyoola 4 года назад +3

      huge more like lol

    • @ajoaayebo6752
      @ajoaayebo6752 4 года назад +8

      Most african traditional wedding is huge and lots of party

    • @kennedicampbell2266
      @kennedicampbell2266 4 года назад

      Onita Ijeoma no

  • @username01675
    @username01675 5 лет назад +960

    Any Nigerians here?👋🏽

  • @moira4784
    @moira4784 5 лет назад +255

    Listen African weddings are bright family celebrations. I love them. Each side has different cultural aspects but at the end we get down like no one else

    • @refinery29
      @refinery29  5 лет назад +3

      +moiramajaha Sounds like such a good time!

  • @BeeNdlovu
    @BeeNdlovu 5 лет назад +1807

    I feel like all african traditional weddings are just amazing, hit like 🖒if you agree ❤❤❤

    • @Elubial
      @Elubial 5 лет назад +1

      I agree, very colourful affairs

    • @BeeNdlovu
      @BeeNdlovu 5 лет назад +36

      @Kaelene Ashmore i do agree to that aswell. Just speaking on the Nigerian context and it being an african country and Africa being proven to be a continent filled with many different tribes, lots of different languagies and of course a very rich and diverse culture.

    • @refinery29
      @refinery29  5 лет назад +4

      +beendlovu 100%!!

    • @PHlophe
      @PHlophe 5 лет назад +3

      mma ndlovu, molo

    • @BeeNdlovu
      @BeeNdlovu 5 лет назад +2

      @@PHlophe yebo, kunjani?

  • @aminaabdi2670
    @aminaabdi2670 5 лет назад +47

    I’m Somali 🇸🇴 but I love all my African brother and sister

  • @debbienehikhuere
    @debbienehikhuere 5 лет назад +76

    YESSS!!!! As a Nigerian-American this made me smile too much!!! Nigerian weddings are bomb!!!!

  • @dawnlittle2501
    @dawnlittle2501 3 года назад +36

    As a black American, a product of slavery, this makes me very sad. We are so disconnected and have no such traditions from our original culture. What a lovely event and the bride was gorgeous! Having family like that is really wonderful. I bet we would be far more successful as a group if we were able to maintain families and events that unify us such as this.

    • @robertopacheco2997
      @robertopacheco2997 Год назад +1

      Slavery is slavery, but in Latin America, Afro-descendants nonetheless preserved way more of their ancestral cultures and languages. For example, Cuban "Santeria" is basically traditional Yoruban (non-Islamic) religion.

    • @zae73
      @zae73 Год назад +1

      We do still have customs and traditions from where we were taken in Africa, it’s just unfortunately a lot of African Americans, like yourself, arent aware!!

  • @chiderahugwu7670
    @chiderahugwu7670 5 лет назад +718

    Wow so beautiful 😍. As an Igbo Nigerian currently living in Australia, the traditional attire, language and energy brings back so many amazing memories 😁

    • @chim2394
      @chim2394 5 лет назад +29

      I'm igbo too ayeee🤪🇳🇬🇳🇬

    • @amara333
      @amara333 5 лет назад +11

      Same

    • @refinery29
      @refinery29  5 лет назад +10

      +chideranugwu That's so lovely to hear! Glad you enjoyed the video!

    • @IHFPodcast
      @IHFPodcast 5 лет назад +4

      I live in Australia too lol

    • @lilmizzije
      @lilmizzije 5 лет назад +10

      Igbo kwen👏🏽🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

  • @SamMKKK
    @SamMKKK 5 лет назад +550

    Naija we don land! 😭
    (I’m originally Ghanaian btw, but I love y’all.)

    • @lagosian123
      @lagosian123 5 лет назад +55

      Samantha M. You're so sweet, we love you too. Ghana & Nigeria are brothers for life just like in a big family we have few bad eggs but the love is undaunted. 😘

    • @morayoadewumi6016
      @morayoadewumi6016 5 лет назад +4

      ❤️❤️❤️❤️ you

    • @cocote718
      @cocote718 5 лет назад +5

      This was so cute 🙌🙌🙌🙌

    • @inthestyleofuzezi
      @inthestyleofuzezi 5 лет назад +11

      Samantha-M. Ghana the wife of Nigeria. Love you right back sis. I’m Nigerian btw❤️

    • @adejokebakare
      @adejokebakare 5 лет назад +9

      lagosian “gana oo naija oo” we’re one abeg🥰

  • @vikvik16
    @vikvik16 4 года назад +57

    I used to work in banquets and African weddings are something else. Everyone was so nice, the food was AMAZING, music was as well. I remember there were 4 women that exchanged larger Bill's for single and they made it rain on the newly weds. This was also when I realized the influence of african music on Latinx music.

    • @Idcanymore510
      @Idcanymore510 4 года назад +7

      We are cousins.

    • @Usthereout
      @Usthereout 4 года назад +8

      That's crazy to me that we have influences on people all over the world

    • @unfazedjae2645
      @unfazedjae2645 3 года назад

      Reggaeton sounds like Afro beat songs sometimes ✨. Ex. Myke Towers - Diosa and Farruko - Loco

  • @nanaaraj
    @nanaaraj 5 лет назад +129

    I’m a Ghanaian from the Ashanti tribe but I love the Yoruba culture. I’d love to see a video about a traditional Ghanaian wedding.

    • @coconutheads9459
      @coconutheads9459 5 лет назад +20

      I'm Nigerian and we love Ghanaians too...

    • @FERESE
      @FERESE 4 года назад +7

      Ghanian /Yoruba wedding on RUclips is lit. I saw a couple of videos last year

    • @lovelyxpew6716
      @lovelyxpew6716 4 года назад

      Way

    • @lovelyxpew6716
      @lovelyxpew6716 4 года назад

      Wat

  • @anyagaff1471
    @anyagaff1471 5 лет назад +50

    This is why everyone from Naija is sooo very proud of where we come from. Whether we live in Canada, the US, the UK, Russia or France we love to talk about the beauty of home! When your culture is so rich and fabulous, it's hard NOT to talk about it 😂😂😂

    • @chietoesther4334
      @chietoesther4334 4 года назад +3

      thanks alot your really making blush about my culture

  • @lakshmisubramanian2471
    @lakshmisubramanian2471 4 года назад +25

    The similarity is uncanny! Even we Indians fall at our elders' feet to get their blessings. Indian and Nigerian traditions have so much in common.

    • @annalovelove3269
      @annalovelove3269 4 года назад +1

      Yes. We use henna aswell

    • @Mindofuche
      @Mindofuche Год назад

      As a Nigerian, this is very true. Although I would have to say the core difference would be food, Indian food are spicy BUT Nigerian food in on a whole different level😂😂😂😂😂
      I think Indian brides are very graceful too

  • @TakiMomoify
    @TakiMomoify 5 лет назад +107

    I wish I knew where I came from. The concept of having a culture that wasn’t born from trauma is a beautiful one.

    • @Idcanymore510
      @Idcanymore510 4 года назад +26

      You come from Africa, Sis. You can claim all of them as your own.

    • @Usthereout
      @Usthereout 4 года назад +11

      I'd say learn as much as you can about west African cultures/tribes. And just remember that that's where you descended from

  • @jgallub
    @jgallub 5 лет назад +24

    This was so beautiful. The inclusiveness of the families is incredible. Beyond all of that her dress is the most beautiful wedding dress. I’m not girlie by any means, but I’d wear her whole wedding look. She looked absolutely stunning and regal.

  • @jasminealwedyan874
    @jasminealwedyan874 5 лет назад +70

    This is so beautiful. I love how interactive the wedding is with friends and family. I love how God is so prevalent in the marriage in that family and friends are praying for them and blessing them. This is such a wonderful thing to see.

  • @NyarRailakende
    @NyarRailakende 5 лет назад +15

    I live In Iceland Reykjavik raised here but am Kenyan and my African heritage has no boundary..I feel warmth watching anything from Africa, food, music,...thanks for uploading this...Blessings guys..🇮🇸🇰🇪

  • @Ifeyinwa
    @Ifeyinwa 5 лет назад +131

    Ain't no wedding like a Nigerian wedding! Congrats Ayo and Ruth

  • @graceomoboye4996
    @graceomoboye4996 5 лет назад +14

    As an Nigerian from the Yoruba tribe living in America, this wedding really does represent the Nigerian culture in the colors for each side of the family to making sure everyone enjoys the food and is filled #NIGERIA 🇳🇬

  • @Mimi-sk5ld
    @Mimi-sk5ld 4 года назад +15

    I'm Guinean and Malian, but sending love to all y'all Nigerians out there👑

  • @allysellsitall
    @allysellsitall 4 года назад +5

    If Disney will have a movie inspired from an African princess this woman would have been the muse...what a beautiful gown, makeup , everything looks so beautiful!

  • @ingupin
    @ingupin 4 года назад +4

    Wow this is a SHOW. Like a musical or something. The way they all dance so gracefully, know their place, like a choreography, and so colorful. But at the same time it has so much meaning. Absolutely stunning, I'm envious.

  • @SouthernMocha-mf8ke
    @SouthernMocha-mf8ke Год назад +5

    Nigerians are top tier people. I’ve never met a Nigerian who wasn’t successful here. Most are doctors, health professionals or business owners. It’s all about culture and values.

  • @jayla1151
    @jayla1151 5 лет назад +237

    i wish it was easier for black americans to learn about their cultures. i’d give anything to have something like this

    • @tok1879
      @tok1879 5 лет назад +11

      But you can though.

    • @livindeadghoul
      @livindeadghoul 4 года назад +20

      @@tok1879 Lmao, read the comment. It's not easy

    • @Heymeeeeeeeeeee
      @Heymeeeeeeeeeee 4 года назад +3

      @@livindeadghoul How? people were being nice?

    • @umhi5743
      @umhi5743 4 года назад +1

      @@Heymeeeeeeeeeee ?

    • @nnekavanessa3005
      @nnekavanessa3005 4 года назад +17

      You can. Just marry a Nigerian or any other African or even engage in making friends from our continent

  • @kakashiishot8819
    @kakashiishot8819 5 лет назад +175

    My Nigerian people are beautiful 😍😩

  • @onitaijeoma1450
    @onitaijeoma1450 5 лет назад +27

    I am a proud Nigerian 🇳🇬... And I love when my country is represented.... I love this... Thanks @Refinery29

  • @TheDifferentOne1000
    @TheDifferentOne1000 5 лет назад +41

    I’m Nigerian and Yoruba as well and I’m soooo looking forward to having a traditional Nigerian wedding

  • @rheam3920
    @rheam3920 4 года назад +11

    Was really surprised by some similarities of nigerian culture to indian culture. We also spray money on the wedding on family members, bride and groom and basically anyone who dances well 🤭 of course theres some subtle differences but wow loved to know that we share the love for colourful clothes, passion for dancing and of course FOOD ! 💜💜
    Love from India

  • @MISSPHOTOGENICBABY
    @MISSPHOTOGENICBABY 5 лет назад +88

    I’ve never seen something so beautiful 😩💜😍! I love how everyone is blending together 🥳🥰

  • @jadooe5519
    @jadooe5519 5 лет назад +6

    My stepdads mom (She is Jamaican) remarried into a Nigerian family and they had a Yoruba wedding. It was by far the coolest wedding I had ever seen (I am Jamaican, ans for some reason Nigerian and Jamaicans are always competing). It was such a fun time

  • @notnazo
    @notnazo 4 года назад +12

    I'm Pakistani so I definitely know what it's like to have huge, traditional weddings and I love how surprisingly similar Nigerian weddings are to Pakistani weddings. The bride and groom look stunning 😁

  • @Ozzy_b-b6r
    @Ozzy_b-b6r 3 года назад +8

    Beautiful Nigerian wedding! Culture, food and dance.
    🇳🇬 Represent. Proud to be African. 🇸🇴

  • @IshanAli
    @IshanAli 5 лет назад +233

    Black excellence

  • @kerosene3222
    @kerosene3222 5 лет назад +17

    I'm indian and my Yoruba friend loves to watch corny bollywood movies with me and we watch wild nollywood movies.... WHY ARE YOU RUNNING? Her wedding was so much fun!!!!

  • @Leah-xv3zf
    @Leah-xv3zf 5 лет назад +46

    This made me tear up. I love how much it means to the whole family. The beautiful shots of the bride and her mother were priceless ❤

    • @refinery29
      @refinery29  5 лет назад +2

      +leahcontreras It was so beautiful!

    • @AMOE_30
      @AMOE_30 4 года назад

      Imagine! That is the baby she brought home from the hospital not so long ago!

  • @TheLadydanni
    @TheLadydanni 5 лет назад +28

    I think this is the most beautiful marriage I’ve ever seen. I never wished I knew where I was from more.

  • @celestialfortuna9453
    @celestialfortuna9453 5 лет назад +5

    wow. how beeautiful. i am boringly british and caucasian. we have missed out so much on this joyous vibrant community vibe. special colours, songs, food, dance, costumes. some of us need a bit of help here!!! i come from a british irish catholic tradition nothing as vibrant as this in any weddings i ahve been to. thank you for this. blessings to all brides grooms and their families

  • @SniperRose1
    @SniperRose1 5 лет назад +37

    Her parents look so young and good looking. Good genes

  • @CosplayHeroUnite
    @CosplayHeroUnite 4 года назад +4

    I love how the family’s have their own themed color, and it’s shown them dancing and having a good time together. It just executed perfectly the look of how two family’s unite/blend

  • @ayomideojo258
    @ayomideojo258 4 года назад +8

    I'm a Nigerian teen and I've always looked forward to my weddings (traditional and white wedding)! I know it sounds weird coming from a teenager but I just LOVE our weddings and I can't wait for my day😭 These comments made me so happy cuz other people appreciate our culture🥺 I'm proud to be Nigerian😤🇳🇬❤

  • @anngodwin9894
    @anngodwin9894 5 лет назад +13

    As a Nigerian with both Yoruba and Uhrobo heritage.... I can say yes there are difference in our traditional marriages but there are also similarities. The fact the a Yoruba marriage was use to portray our culture shouldn't make anyone mad. it a celebration of love ( with a few different scenes and events) and that's what matters

    • @anngodwin9894
      @anngodwin9894 5 лет назад +6

      @Black To Grace If someone is still ignorant enough to think Africa is a country in 2019 there no fixing to that. And I still stand by my opinion Yoruba or not it's still Nigerian, it's about love so picking offence is the problem

    • @Usthereout
      @Usthereout 4 года назад +2

      right. I'm igbo and it's not that deep

  • @fiohnainoke3405
    @fiohnainoke3405 5 лет назад +13

    Her dress is so beautiful, and really matches her skin so well...

  • @TheeAsyelm
    @TheeAsyelm 4 года назад +10

    I’m African American. I took a DNA test and it revealed that I’m mostly Nigerian. I’d love to embrace the culture I never knew and have a traditional wedding. This wedding was absolutely beautiful and very informative!

    • @Correctgistlover
      @Correctgistlover 4 года назад +2

      Listen you can't just call yourself Nigerian because you saw in a DNA test because of your ancestors, Nigerians are very tribalistic and unless you are a direct descendant like from your great grandparents or grandparents you are very much American take pride in that. I'm tired of seeing black Americans want to lay claim to a culture that they are very far removed from it is insulting to the people. You don't see white Americans stress over their European roots so why stress over your African roots? Enjoy being American and the culture blacks have created over there.

    • @user-mh2gb2mo1m
      @user-mh2gb2mo1m 4 года назад +3

      author nikkih How is it her fault her ancestors were slaves? Sorry that she wants to learn where she came from...you’re acting like Nigerians aren’t whitewashing themselves anyways

    • @mbm1ame
      @mbm1ame 4 года назад +5

      @@Correctgistlover that was unnecessarily mean

    • @TheeAsyelm
      @TheeAsyelm 4 года назад +4

      author nikkih I understand your point of view. Thanks for your comment, but how can I call myself “African” American and not embrace the African part? I’ll never do anything without educating myself. I am Nigerian by blood. I’m connecting with my roots. Therefore, I am still African American. I’m just embracing the African part.

    • @Correctgistlover
      @Correctgistlover 4 года назад

      @@user-mh2gb2mo1m well slave trade has the word trade in it so who do you think sold her ancestors? Whites or blacks? And I'm pretty sure her ancestors were among the people that fought alongside Martin Luther King Jr for their rights in America! America oh not Nigeria! So please enjoy your American culture it is not a bad thing to enjoy the freedom your ancestors fought for you all earned it and like I said unless you are a direct descendant you will never be accepted as an African that is just the honest truth our people are very tribalistic.

  • @dakotac180
    @dakotac180 5 лет назад +45

    Geez I love it when people really stick to their culture. This was a lot but it was also beautiful.

  • @nicford548
    @nicford548 4 года назад +10

    What a fascinating culture! We Africans in the diaspora(I’m from Guyana 🇬🇾) have lost 😞 so much!

    • @FERESE
      @FERESE 3 года назад

      You can start from your lineage. The marriage rites is very simple. You can start from your family and elders coming together to instill this practice and dowry for your young women in your family. As for African clothes, thank God you can get that in your country too. I would do the same if I were you because I'm first African. Just look at some Nigerian and Ghanaian weddings to see how it's done and what part of the culture you want to infuse into yours. It will work. Shalom!

  • @charite2886
    @charite2886 5 лет назад +96

    I love this! Make more videos celebrating different cultures!

    • @refinery29
      @refinery29  5 лет назад +1

      +charite Stay tuned on Saturday's!

  • @ebonyperkins4129
    @ebonyperkins4129 5 лет назад +20

    They look great. IM NOT CRYING BECAUSE OF TRIBAL TRADITION AND BECAUSE IT WAS SO BEAUTIFUL. I'm cutting onions.

  • @miadulcelymartinez8912
    @miadulcelymartinez8912 5 лет назад +16

    I love the importance Nigerian culture puts in marriage and the sacredness❤️❤️❤️

  • @Nikunikuniku583
    @Nikunikuniku583 5 лет назад +82

    Your culture is absolutely beautiful . Lots of ❤️

  • @chelseacco6
    @chelseacco6 4 года назад +26

    And in case y'all don't know those clothes are handmade and custom made 👏

  • @criseldhyneannesydney2276
    @criseldhyneannesydney2276 4 года назад +5

    I am filipino and seeing a blast of culture in this wedding makes me feel happy. Seeing difderent traditional practices in other parts of the world is just fantastic. It makes me wonder and realize how wonderful our world is. 😍

  • @sheilavil3244
    @sheilavil3244 2 года назад +6

    Im haitian and I absolutely love yoruba traditionnal wedding ! 🇳🇬🇳🇬❤❤

  • @Neo-23
    @Neo-23 4 года назад +5

    I like the Nigerian dancing. It's like when you see it, you really feel like dancing. It's unique, interesting, they have such a vibe with that dancing alone.
    The wedding was beautiful, I've never seen one like this before.

  • @nadiaa6899
    @nadiaa6899 5 лет назад +252

    I'm Ethiopian but damn I may have to find myself one of these fine Nigerian men to marry 😍

    • @nadiaa6899
      @nadiaa6899 5 лет назад +41

      @@mercy901 hahaha as long as he is not scamming me 😂

    • @normanrockwell9906
      @normanrockwell9906 5 лет назад +56

      BlackEmpress how rude and disrespectful

    • @Jennifer-uh8th
      @Jennifer-uh8th 5 лет назад +7

      BlackEmpress shut up

    • @lilmizzije
      @lilmizzije 5 лет назад +17

      Ọsạọsẹmwen girl do you know how many times I’ve defended you on here? That idiot just tagged Nigerian men as scammers...

    • @onitaijeoma1450
      @onitaijeoma1450 5 лет назад

      😂... Its beautiful

  • @imswaathik
    @imswaathik 4 года назад +4

    Beautiful! It feels heartwarming to see these cultures and rituals thrive despite the blatant colonialism and forced conversion from traditional cultures.

  • @manager-nim2623
    @manager-nim2623 5 лет назад +55

    The Nigerians at my uni are like super rich and just walk in every day with a new set of traditional clothes, usually the guys wear them more than the girls. I'd love to go to a Nigerian wedding

    • @Shakira98
      @Shakira98 5 лет назад +9

      The way am Nigerian yet super broke 24/7 also hello worldwide handsome 💜

    • @manager-nim2623
      @manager-nim2623 5 лет назад +5

      @@Shakira98 ikr, also hellooooo lovely army💜

    • @coconutheads9459
      @coconutheads9459 5 лет назад

      Would gladly give you a great time when you come to Nigeria...
      My sisters wedding is in December 2019... Come over... +2347069740509

    • @manager-nim2623
      @manager-nim2623 5 лет назад +3

      @@coconutheads9459 you serious? 😂

    • @leilleebitiyong9746
      @leilleebitiyong9746 5 лет назад +7

      You don’t need an invitation to a Nigerian Wedding...if you show up; you’re family! Join the party!

  • @KiRetteCouture
    @KiRetteCouture 5 лет назад +6

    The theatrical aspect is what just about every African traditional wedding I've seen has. I love it!

  • @anapiunticarol9983
    @anapiunticarol9983 5 лет назад +11

    They are all so beautiful and fancy. Looks like African royalty! Love it

  • @ldyluv6988
    @ldyluv6988 4 года назад +7

    BEST wedding I've ever been to was an Nigerian wedding. Yall know how to party 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾😍

  • @tangiemarie6317
    @tangiemarie6317 5 лет назад +11

    I love the outfits, especially the aspect of the bride wearing a veil though its a traditional wedding.
    And did you guys see how those gentlemen laid flat on their stomach infront of the bride's parents? Yuroba people are so respectful and i love that.
    Am a Cameroonian but i envy this culture 😍

    • @euphoriarose201
      @euphoriarose201 5 лет назад +5

      That's our culture in Africa but especially in Nigeria lol. There's also a tradition where the husband hides and the bride is holding a marriage wine and she has to find him in the crowd. When she does, she kneels in front of him and serves him the cup. When he drinks it it kind of shows he accepts her.

    • @myhappiness1258
      @myhappiness1258 4 года назад

      *Yoruba not Yuroba

    • @myhappiness1258
      @myhappiness1258 4 года назад

      Thank you 🥰🥰

    • @AncientHebrewNeverDied
      @AncientHebrewNeverDied 2 года назад

      The veil is traditionally part of the Yoruba Bride's costume for the traditional wedding.

  • @stephanierichard7231
    @stephanierichard7231 3 года назад +2

    This video will forever remain one of top 5 RUclips Nigerian wedding video.... love every single part☺️

  • @Swimfan82
    @Swimfan82 5 лет назад +16

    I wish i wasn’t stripped of my heritage because I’d love to have a wedding like this! I used to say that I only wanted to marry an African man just to experience this type of union with so many family and friends.

    • @ev6564
      @ev6564 4 года назад +6

      Maybe try a DNA heritage test and whichever one you match with more try to learn more about that explore and have your wedding this way if you want!

    • @lauraaniakor9815
      @lauraaniakor9815 4 года назад +1

      Or try learning about west African countries, odds are you come from many of those places. You have your pick of the culture. It’s unfortunate that African Americans were stripped of their African heritage, but the culture that arose from it is truly something to be proud of. Everyone copied black culture, even in Africa, black culture is everywhere. Black Americans truly are a special group of people. I have never seen another culture have such a global impact the way black culture does.😊😊

  • @13niharika98
    @13niharika98 4 года назад +5

    This really reminds me of our big fat Punjabi weddings... They are very similar in ideology to this but just different customs. I loved this and would definitely want to see one in person ❤️

  • @silverwolfeve
    @silverwolfeve 4 года назад +3

    Shall i say this marvelous weddings has lots of point of connections with south Italians ones? How beaut. I got very emotional. The dance and everything warmed my heart so much. Bless.

  • @saranimi7117
    @saranimi7117 5 лет назад +89

    Awww I'm Nigerian and I love our weddings but I'm not a big fan of big weddings lol. My wedding is probably going to be super super low-key, without all the fanfare. Plus, I don't wanna spend a lot of money on a big wedding 😂.

    • @muadline5989
      @muadline5989 5 лет назад +22

      If you come from a rich family, you can't avoid a big 9ja wedding. If you come from a large family, you can't avoid a big 9ja wedding. In 9ja weddings are not for the couple, so you have no say in the matter. It's a union of two families (including but not limited to the families' friends, neighbors, coworkers etc, that's just how we roll in 9ja regardless if the ethnic group. We are rich in people, we never lack people.

    • @limelyte5390
      @limelyte5390 5 лет назад +19

      @@muadline5989 the only way to achieve low key wedding as a nigerian is probably to wed on mars. Nigerians don't require invitation cards and seeing the bride is some kind of a rush for most people 🤣🤣🤣

    • @saranimi7117
      @saranimi7117 5 лет назад +21

      @@limelyte5390 lmaooo too true! But my family is pretty low key for Nigerians lol. And I'm very stubborn when it comes to getting what I want. I can compromise but ultimately it's my wedding...I'd like to save money for better things. A long marriage is more important than a big wedding ( in my opinion) but to each their own.

    • @User-fp8dk
      @User-fp8dk 3 года назад +1

      Me too

  • @mariannasprague7673
    @mariannasprague7673 2 года назад +1

    Absolutely beautiful. I’m crying watching this. I want to thank my best friend for sharing this with me.

  • @naijalovin
    @naijalovin 5 лет назад +72

    Thank you for this beautiful depiction of Yoruba weddings.

  • @vaasmin
    @vaasmin 5 лет назад +269

    Spraying looks like making it rain on the couple haha

    • @nkroks4492
      @nkroks4492 5 лет назад +5

      Yes you are right

    • @onlygood222
      @onlygood222 5 лет назад +12

      Yes, It comes from us!

    • @YuusufAkorede
      @YuusufAkorede 5 лет назад +59

      @@onlygood222 who is "us". Spraying money is an ancient Yoruba cultural practice way wayyyy before slavery

    • @cleanwaternasenyiuganda8124
      @cleanwaternasenyiuganda8124 5 лет назад +9

      @@YuusufAkorede
      We brought it to America with "us"
      😉🇺🇸

    • @nca4794
      @nca4794 5 лет назад +1

      @@YuusufAkorede I was going to ask if this was a modern practice. Barring times when currency wasn't made of paper, is this how it's always been done?

  • @Miaasfashion
    @Miaasfashion 5 лет назад +17

    Yess I am Nigerian our weddings are the best

  • @joycethomas84
    @joycethomas84 5 лет назад +4

    Wow, absolutley beautiful. The Nigerian culture and other African cultures, I think personally is underrated in American culture. There is so much beauty in the textiles, food, and music/instrumentals, etc.

    • @helenodiah9420
      @helenodiah9420 5 лет назад +1

      I am Nigerian, i live in the US now, i miss weddings and Nigerian food, Nigerians have the best parties.

    • @joycethomas84
      @joycethomas84 5 лет назад +2

      @@helenodiah9420 yes, it def looks like it does. Me personally, because I been to like a million weddings in my life and been part of 3, im so over going to weddings cus my ass cant sit still, lol, but I would soo love to go to a Nigerian like this one. Looks like so much fun. And out of all the varies foods ive had in my life, I never had Nigerian. Now I want Nigerian food :-). Any suggestions?

  • @navheer4916
    @navheer4916 2 года назад +2

    I went to a Nigerian wedding yesterday it was so fun the culture is so bright and colourful. Had a blast

  • @mbm432
    @mbm432 4 года назад +2

    This whole wedding is so royal! I love it. My cousin married a Nigerian man and the wedding we AMAZING

  • @MsKrystle91
    @MsKrystle91 4 года назад +7

    OMG! This was so cool to watch and she looked gorgeous in her wedding outfit!

  • @ASHLINW185
    @ASHLINW185 5 лет назад +81

    So telling that this rich African history is told with a British accent. History is complicated and messy, but strangely beautiful.

    • @gloria9157
      @gloria9157 5 лет назад +30

      What is very interesting is that there are Nigerians who have never been to the UK before but they have a British accent.

    • @tok1879
      @tok1879 5 лет назад +5

      @@gloria9157 🙄😒

    • @ifeojo9948
      @ifeojo9948 5 лет назад +3

      @@gloria9157 as innn

    • @dlilwon
      @dlilwon 5 лет назад +1

      Gloria Iji did you watch the video? 🤦🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️

    • @gloria9157
      @gloria9157 5 лет назад +1

      @@dlilwon Yes, what's your point?

  • @kianoush7294
    @kianoush7294 4 года назад +4

    Nigerians have such a beautiful cultural! I’m stunned

  • @francescaiannuzzi9577
    @francescaiannuzzi9577 4 года назад +2

    I can't express with words how beautiful I think it is everything, the love, the union, and the beautiful ceremony, I can't get over how special it was

  • @emzostyles2318
    @emzostyles2318 5 лет назад +5

    Seeing and going to Nigerian (usually Yoruba) weddings like these always me so excited for the day I get married, as a fellow Nigerian

  • @noonewashere9100
    @noonewashere9100 5 лет назад +10

    I love how everyone gets to shine in their own unique way. Reminds me a bit of my Indian culture too. What a splendid wedding ❣️
    Wishing the best to the married couple. ❤️

    • @refinery29
      @refinery29  5 лет назад +1

      Thanks for checking out the video!

  • @Aoudhubillahi
    @Aoudhubillahi 5 лет назад +4

    Ah Ah. It looked beautiful. [I said "Ah Ah" in the traditional Nigerian way. Just as I heard it in Lagos in 1977.] Much love for Nigeria. Congratulations to you both.

  • @m.anniejohnson5494
    @m.anniejohnson5494 5 лет назад +6

    This is so incredible! So beautiful and romantic

  • @singhchetna3809
    @singhchetna3809 5 лет назад +1

    M from India Cultural beauty is the most unique thing in all over the world nd there is one common thing in every wedding which is elders blessing...... In every culture

  • @totalynotcatherine
    @totalynotcatherine 4 года назад +1

    I'm Irish/Italian and really love watching the intensely colorful weddings from different cultures.