My Husband Molested Our Daughter
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- Опубликовано: 27 сен 2024
- Today on unfiltered stories, Tracey Heisler shares her life story. After finding out her husband molested their daughter, she worked with law enforcement to prosecute him andtried to help her daughter recover from this horrific trauma.
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Thank you for choosing your daughter. So many moms don't. She loves you and you helped her grow into a great adult!! You rock, Mom!!!
I wish my mother had stood up for me.
@babytheNarcSlayer me too ..
She turned a blind eye for years
@@lydiamontey9194unfortunately true
All these red flags and did nothing
Let’s be honest here…this is how a REAL mother acts. They don’t turn away, they don’t hide, they protect. Blessings on this woman and her family. Victims are bred, and this woman does not breed victims.
And that she set him up together with the law enforcement to get him charged, unfortunately way too many would try to ignore the problem like it never happen. Very brave mother and daughter.
🎉❤🎉❤amen to that!
yea but that doesn’t excuse the fact she’s a weirdo 😂 12:15 in the vid she says she was trying to problem solve on how to keep both of them a good mother wouldn’t have to do that when it comes to a pedo 💀
Go back and listen 👉🏽 @8:32 " It was at that moment I KNEW SOMETHING WAS DREADFULLY WRONG. He swore up and down he never ACTED ON ANY THOUGHTS, he'd never done any of these things. It was JUST A THOUGHT IN HIS HEAD. And I was REALLY RELUCTANT to say to my daughter BTW ,has your father ever molested you " Now, as a mother would you dare let your child around a man, ANY MAN that admitted to you that he even HAD THOUGHTS about molesting her !? NO ! Also , IF that child had been around that man at ANYTIME prior..you would DEFINITELY ASK YOUR CHILD had that man ever touched them ! She ( the mom) knew "what time it was" so to speak DIDN'T WANT to ask her daughter because she already knew the answer 'an DIDN'T WANT to face THE TRUTH. So she turned a blind eye for YEARS. Until her daughter couldn't take it no more and told her and then she acted. Better late than never, BUT STILL MOM GETS NO PROPS FORM ME. 🙅🏽♀️ At THAT POINT..she could just be turning him in so she don't go down with him ! Even the way she babied him all the way to the police station was disgusting to me the police AND staying with him TWO DAYS in a motel 🤢 would have got him with that without her help feeding him to get in there 🙄 that's why she can tell the story so EMOTIONLESS & NONCHALANTLY ! Not to mention how throughout the entire story she saying "he can't COME BACK until he gets this fixed" 😧 AFTER YOUR DAUGHTER ALREADY TOLD YOU HE DID IT !!! Think about it SHE WAS WRONG TOO. 🤞🏽 Healing in the name of you Yeshua Hamashiach to that child in her siblings.🥺 I grew up in a household like that as well. BUT GOD.., IS A HEALER, A COMFORTER AND HE LOVES JUSTICE ! 🙌🏽 WE ALL HAVE TO GIVE AN ACCOUNT ONE DAY !! 🤞🏽❤️🙏🏽🕊️
@@therealfatouEXACTLY 💯💯💯💯
I went through this with my 5yr old daughter. None of his family or mine believed it.But I believed my daughter, to this day she thanks me for believing in her.She is now 46yrs old and getting married.
You’re a hero and a good mother! How did you protect her after you found out?
My mother was not so loving, I think she was angry at me as thats how she treated me with anger and indifference and contempt.. I was 3 or 4 years old but her treatment was consistent untill I left home as a teen, after a man of 34 engaged with me and recked my life further and I fell pregnant, then he deserted me and the baby. I now don't want any male company and feel they are un trust worthy. I would rather have a robot friend I could turn off at night. None of my siblings give a toot infact 2 brothers tried having sex with me but got interupted one pushed me out of his window so not to get court. I felt like a dirty rag, being discarded, I felt like something was terribly wrong but didnt know what. at that time I was6 or 7 and didnt realy know what they were trying to do. Then my girlfriend over the road had a brother of about 15 came in the cubby house ,made me strip so he could see me and made me promise when I was 21 I would strip for him again. It never happend. I still remember his name. It was realy even worse but I've told you the bare minimum and have never expirianced love between a man and a woman for me I am doomed to die without love. I am now elderly and look to Jesus and his promise he I can trust.
@@user-karenforchrist that’s a sad story I’m so sorry you’ve felt so used and abandoned and unprotected. Maybe you can do volunteer work or mentoring to fill the void in your heart
@@user-karenforchrist " I now don't want any male company and feel they are un trust worthy." I am doomed to die without love"
Search for love within yourself my sister, don't look outside you. Love you and as you do, it will radiate through the self confidence which you will display.
Very cruel your up bringing was but use it to make yourself stronger because strong you must be to have reached this moment in life.
I wish you well!
Glad she could find room in her Heart to love someone amd let herself be loved.
He taught piano, that means he has hurt other children who has not yet come forward
Most likely yes. He got off easy with only a 48 month prison sentence too.
Others might come forward yet and he will get even longer next time. @@Lil-Whiskies
I believe he did,if he molested his own daughter,he did it to others. He probably was molested as well.
Lady naive and annoying. All these self admitted red flags and did nothing
How do you know that the younger children were not in the same situation as your older daughter ???
This is the most needed unfiltered story. It’s rare to hear from a women that stood up for her daughter.
What.
Still spreading a narrative that it’s RARE
FOR MOTHERS TO PROTECT THIER CHILDREN. That’s a lie.. you’re projecting!!
Not really, I am a mother that stood up for her son that was molested.
@@INDIGO.GODDESS_573 considering the stories we hear all the time, its pretty rare. My own mother sided with my father after my assault. And she even uses it manipulate me with it.
Go back and listen 👉🏽 @8:32 " It was at that moment I KNEW SOMETHING WAS DREADFULLY WRONG. He swore up and down he never ACTED ON ANY THOUGHTS, he'd never done any of these things. It was JUST A THOUGHT IN HIS HEAD. And I was REALLY RELUCTANT to say to my daughter BTW ,has your father ever molested you " Now, as a mother would you dare let your child around a man, ANY MAN that admitted to you that he even HAD THOUGHTS about molesting her !? NO ! Also , IF that child had been around that man at ANYTIME prior..you would DEFINITELY ASK YOUR CHILD had that man ever touched them ! She ( the mom) knew "what time it was" so to speak DIDN'T WANT to ask her daughter because she already knew the answer 'an DIDN'T WANT to face THE TRUTH. So she turned a blind eye for YEARS. Until her daughter couldn't take it no more and told her and then she acted. Better late than never, BUT STILL MOM GETS NO PROPS FORM ME. 🙅🏽♀️ At THAT POINT..she could just be turning him in so she don't go down with him ! Even the way she babied him all the way to the police station was disgusting to me the police AND staying with him TWO DAYS in a motel 🤢 would have got him with that without her help feeding him to get in there 🙄 that's why she can tell the story so EMOTIONLESS & NONCHALANTLY ! Not to mention how throughout the entire story she saying "he can't COME BACK until he gets this fixed" 😧 AFTER YOUR DAUGHTER ALREADY TOLD YOU HE DID IT !!! Think about it SHE WAS WRONG TOO. 🤞🏽 Healing in the name of you Yeshua Hamashiach to that child in her siblings.🥺 I grew up in a household like that as well. BUT GOD.., IS A HEALER, A COMFORTER AND HE LOVES JUSTICE ! 🙌🏽 WE ALL HAVE TO GIVE AN ACCOUNT ONE DAY !! 🤞🏽❤️🙏🏽🕊️
Yes, my family would defend the predators. It's sickening but when I said boy did I get the backlash
I begged my mother not to leave me alone with my father at bath time. But as I would get in the tub, she would put nylons on, and I'd hear her high heels walking down the hall, and she'd say "I'm going to the library." My own mother might as well have handed me to him. She saw herself as the victim!!! My father was a voyeur too. One morning I opened up the back door to let my dog in, and found him doing a peeping tom number in my bedroom window. I closed the door quickly and went into a hallway, raised my shaking hands to heaven, and with tears streaming down my face I prayed "God, help!" I kid you not, 10 days later my 38 year old father died of a blood clot in his aorta.
He struck him down.
Hahahaha rip
Firstly, I'm very sorry you were put through this - i cannot imagine what it would be like as my father may he rest in peace was my protector, my rock.
One thing though, please don't jump to the conculsion a god or God's killed your dad - any decent god would never have let it go on in the first place! This was just a 'happy' coincidence.
@@dawnatkinson7704GOD answered her prayers
Hallelujah ❤ how are things today with you and your mom
I think a lot of men who killed their entire family this kind of thing happens when somebody confronted him it's very dangerous to confront them without law enforcement with you
Yep, the steps they took were brilliant!
I AGREE... THANK GOD THIS DID NOT TURN OUT THE WRONG WAY🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
💯
Exactly 💯
48 months 🤨
I love this mom! She put her kids first and not her man. This is refreshing. I hope the kids, especially the victim, is okay today.
Go back and listen 👉🏽 @8:32 " It was at that moment I KNEW SOMETHING WAS DREADFULLY WRONG. He swore up and down he never ACTED ON ANY THOUGHTS, he'd never done any of these things. It was JUST A THOUGHT IN HIS HEAD. And I was REALLY RELUCTANT to say to my daughter BTW ,has your father ever molested you " Now, as a mother would you dare let your child around a man, ANY MAN that admitted to you that he even HAD THOUGHTS about molesting her !? NO ! Also , IF that child had been around that man at ANYTIME prior..you would DEFINITELY ASK YOUR CHILD had that man ever touched them ! She ( the mom) knew "what time it was" so to speak DIDN'T WANT to ask her daughter because she already knew the answer 'an DIDN'T WANT to face THE TRUTH. So she turned a blind eye for YEARS. Until her daughter couldn't take it no more and told her and then she acted. Better late than never, BUT STILL MOM GETS NO PROPS FORM ME. 🙅🏽♀️ At THAT POINT..she could just be turning him in so she don't go down with him ! Even the way she babied him all the way to the police station was disgusting to me the police AND staying with him TWO DAYS in a motel 🤢 would have got him with that without her help feeding him to get in there 🙄 that's why she can tell the story so EMOTIONLESS & NONCHALANTLY ! Not to mention how throughout the entire story she saying "he can't COME BACK until he gets this fixed" 😧 AFTER YOUR DAUGHTER ALREADY TOLD YOU HE DID IT !!! Think about it SHE WAS WRONG TOO. 🤞🏽 Healing in the name of you Yeshua Hamashiach to that child in her siblings.🥺 I grew up in a household like that as well. BUT GOD.., IS A HEALER, A COMFORTER AND HE LOVES JUSTICE ! 🙌🏽 WE ALL HAVE TO GIVE AN ACCOUNT ONE DAY !! 🤞🏽❤️🙏🏽🕊️
Why can't a man understand that he is hurting an innocent child?
And why can't a woman understand it?
@@savedbygrace463statistics show males are the main abusers of the population. this video is about a man. go complain on a video about a woman abuser.
Because their concern is self gratification aka self centered
Wow because these men are not well they are depraved
Are you ok
@@cynthiastevens8302it’s because they are depraved not just about getting off
Thanks for believing your daughter. Most "mothers" would protect the abuser over the victim. Thanks for being a mom ❤
Most? Really?
@@jerseybred732 sadly yes I have heard so many survivors telling there mother what happened to them and not only not believe them but just didn't care
@@jerseybred732yup, the assholes no it too☠️
@@jerseybred732Sadly yes. Many do choose their husband and marriage
It has been my own experience and the experience of other victims that I've spoken intimately with, unfortunately more common then receiving support from the mother.
@jerseybred732
I'm glad you sided with your daughter.
Go back and listen 👉🏽 @8:32 " It was at that moment I KNEW SOMETHING WAS DREADFULLY WRONG. He swore up and down he never ACTED ON ANY THOUGHTS, he'd never done any of these things. It was JUST A THOUGHT IN HIS HEAD. And I was REALLY RELUCTANT to say to my daughter BTW ,has your father ever molested you " Now, as a mother would you dare let your child around a man, ANY MAN that admitted to you that he even HAD THOUGHTS about molesting her !? NO ! Also , IF that child had been around that man at ANYTIME prior..you would DEFINITELY ASK YOUR CHILD had that man ever touched them ! She ( the mom) knew "what time it was" so to speak DIDN'T WANT to ask her daughter because she already knew the answer 'an DIDN'T WANT to face THE TRUTH. So she turned a blind eye for YEARS. Until her daughter couldn't take it no more and told her and then she acted. Better late than never, BUT STILL MOM GETS NO PROPS FORM ME. 🙅🏽♀️ At THAT POINT..she could just be turning him in so she don't go down with him ! Even the way she babied him all the way to the police station was disgusting to me the police AND staying with him TWO DAYS in a motel 🤢 would have got him with that without her help feeding him to get in there 🙄 that's why she can tell the story so EMOTIONLESS & NONCHALANTLY ! Not to mention how throughout the entire story she saying "he can't COME BACK until he gets this fixed" 😧 AFTER YOUR DAUGHTER ALREADY TOLD YOU HE DID IT !!! Think about it SHE WAS WRONG TOO. 🤞🏽 Healing in the name of you Yeshua Hamashiach to that child in her siblings.🥺 I grew up in a household like that as well. BUT GOD.., IS A HEALER, A COMFORTER AND HE LOVES JUSTICE ! 🙌🏽 WE ALL HAVE TO GIVE AN ACCOUNT ONE DAY !! 🤞🏽❤️🙏🏽🕊️
❤ I wish your daughter the strength and courage to tell her story.
Go back and listen 👉🏽 @8:32 " It was at that moment I KNEW SOMETHING WAS DREADFULLY WRONG. He swore up and down he never ACTED ON ANY THOUGHTS, he'd never done any of these things. It was JUST A THOUGHT IN HIS HEAD. And I was REALLY RELUCTANT to say to my daughter BTW ,has your father ever molested you " Now, as a mother would you dare let your child around a man, ANY MAN that admitted to you that he even HAD THOUGHTS about molesting her !? NO ! Also , IF that child had been around that man at ANYTIME prior..you would DEFINITELY ASK YOUR CHILD had that man ever touched them ! She ( the mom) knew "what time it was" so to speak DIDN'T WANT to ask her daughter because she already knew the answer 'an DIDN'T WANT to face THE TRUTH. So she turned a blind eye for YEARS. Until her daughter couldn't take it no more and told her and then she acted. Better late than never, BUT STILL MOM GETS NO PROPS FORM ME. 🙅🏽♀️ At THAT POINT..she could just be turning him in so she don't go down with him ! Even the way she babied him all the way to the police station was disgusting to me the police AND staying with him TWO DAYS in a motel 🤢 would have got him with that without her help feeding him to get in there 🙄 that's why she can tell the story so EMOTIONLESS & NONCHALANTLY ! Not to mention how throughout the entire story she saying "he can't COME BACK until he gets this fixed" 😧 AFTER YOUR DAUGHTER ALREADY TOLD YOU HE DID IT !!! Think about it SHE WAS WRONG TOO. 🤞🏽 Healing in the name of you Yeshua Hamashiach to that child in her siblings.🥺 I grew up in a household like that as well. BUT GOD.., IS A HEALER, A COMFORTER AND HE LOVES JUSTICE ! 🙌🏽 WE ALL HAVE TO GIVE AN ACCOUNT ONE DAY !! 🤞🏽❤️🙏🏽🕊️
From the little girl who’s mother chose “him”, thanks for being a good mom.
I am just two minutes in and I absolutely love and respect how you took all precautions to keep your children safe. You believed your daughter and covered all bases with keeping your husband from getting to her and your other children. You must’ve been extremely distraught but you held it together.
Go back and listen 👉🏽 @8:32 " It was at that moment I KNEW SOMETHING WAS DREADFULLY WRONG. He swore up and down he never ACTED ON ANY THOUGHTS, he'd never done any of these things. It was JUST A THOUGHT IN HIS HEAD. And I was REALLY RELUCTANT to say to my daughter BTW ,has your father ever molested you " Now, as a mother would you dare let your child around a man, ANY MAN that admitted to you that he even HAD THOUGHTS about molesting her !? NO ! Also , IF that child had been around that man at ANYTIME prior..you would DEFINITELY ASK YOUR CHILD had that man ever touched them ! She ( the mom) knew "what time it was" so to speak DIDN'T WANT to ask her daughter because she already knew the answer 'an DIDN'T WANT to face THE TRUTH. So she turned a blind eye for YEARS. Until her daughter couldn't take it no more and told her and then she acted. Better late than never, BUT STILL MOM GETS NO PROPS FORM ME. 🙅🏽♀️ At THAT POINT..she could just be turning him in so she don't go down with him ! Even the way she babied him all the way to the police station was disgusting to me the police AND staying with him TWO DAYS in a motel 🤢 would have got him with that without her help feeding him to get in there 🙄 that's why she can tell the story so EMOTIONLESS & NONCHALANTLY ! Not to mention how throughout the entire story she saying "he can't COME BACK until he gets this fixed" 😧 AFTER YOUR DAUGHTER ALREADY TOLD YOU HE DID IT !!! Think about it SHE WAS WRONG TOO. 🤞🏽 Healing in the name of you Yeshua Hamashiach to that child in her siblings.🥺 I grew up in a household like that as well. BUT GOD.., IS A HEALER, A COMFORTER AND HE LOVES JUSTICE ! 🙌🏽 WE ALL HAVE TO GIVE AN ACCOUNT ONE DAY !! 🤞🏽❤️🙏🏽🕊️
Thank you for believing her!
Amen
RIGHT! So many don't.
I don’t care if I married my soulmate, if my daughter told me this story…game over. I love my daughter more.
exactly what she said at 12:15 was a major red flag you shouldn’t want to keep a sick man in your life & why is she asking her daughter why she didn’t tell her sooner? weird..
Your soulmate is never a male that's the patriarchy brainwashing talking. If you decide to live with a male and have kids around that male, you must always stay alert always. Male nature is male nature.
I wish my mother had stood up for me like this ❤
Thank you for setting him up and protecting your children.
Go back and listen 👉🏽 @8:32 " It was at that moment I KNEW SOMETHING WAS DREADFULLY WRONG. He swore up and down he never ACTED ON ANY THOUGHTS, he'd never done any of these things. It was JUST A THOUGHT IN HIS HEAD. And I was REALLY RELUCTANT to say to my daughter BTW ,has your father ever molested you " Now, as a mother would you dare let your child around a man, ANY MAN that admitted to you that he even HAD THOUGHTS about molesting her !? NO ! Also , IF that child had been around that man at ANYTIME prior..you would DEFINITELY ASK YOUR CHILD had that man ever touched them ! She ( the mom) knew "what time it was" so to speak DIDN'T WANT to ask her daughter because she already knew the answer 'an DIDN'T WANT to face THE TRUTH. So she turned a blind eye for YEARS. Until her daughter couldn't take it no more and told her and then she acted. Better late than never, BUT STILL MOM GETS NO PROPS FORM ME. 🙅🏽♀️ At THAT POINT..she could just be turning him in so she don't go down with him ! Even the way she babied him all the way to the police station was disgusting to me the police AND staying with him TWO DAYS in a motel 🤢 would have got him with that without her help feeding him to get in there 🙄 that's why she can tell the story so EMOTIONLESS & NONCHALANTLY ! Not to mention how throughout the entire story she saying "he can't COME BACK until he gets this fixed" 😧 AFTER YOUR DAUGHTER ALREADY TOLD YOU HE DID IT !!! Think about it SHE WAS WRONG TOO. 🤞🏽 Healing in the name of you Yeshua Hamashiach to that child in her siblings.🥺 I grew up in a household like that as well. BUT GOD.., IS A HEALER, A COMFORTER AND HE LOVES JUSTICE ! 🙌🏽 WE ALL HAVE TO GIVE AN ACCOUNT ONE DAY !! 🤞🏽❤️🙏🏽🕊️
You are an amazing mom. May you continue to have a lovely life.
You’re the hero, not the other man. I’m so glad he’s good to you and your kids but you ARE the hero in your story .
Amen, you've said that well
You are an amazing mother. So many mothers. Including my mother never believed me.
Oh no I am so sorry that your mother never believed you
Same here 👍
I’m so sorry
@@SweetUniverseI’m so sorry
What an absolute amazing mother and exactly how a mum should be ❤
I wish her daughter happiness and love in her life xx
When someone is traumatized, the last thing they need to hear is “just get over it.” Thank you for saying that!
I’m so sorry this happened to your family. I pray for God to heal your wounds completely! 🙏🕊❤️
Yes exactly survivors have a long road to heal from their trauma sadly some never do
That is what my mother said to me, and it broke my heart.
Kids never get over abuse, whether it’s sexual, physical, or emotional
Maybe my mind is warped, but as soon as she mentioned that the guy goes to church, teaches piano lessons, etc, already my mind has gone to that place of being very suspicious of this guy and his predilections around children.
This kind of thing runs in families. It’s a generational curse.
True
Even this mother noticed red flags over the years. That’s why I never believe when the wives say they were totally oblivious, there’s always signs. They may have not witnessed the abuse outright but there ARE signs. So glad to hear this mom took her children’s side no matter what ❤
I was stationed with a woman that was molested by her father and none of her family believed her. Just said she was promiscuous and she was lying to get out of trouble. She graduated high school and went in the military. She didn't have a close relationship at all with her parents. Fast forward about five years in, her younger siblings calls her and tells her that her father was caught at church messing with some young girls because he was a minister. Plus he had also touched the younger sister too and she didn't come forward because she saw how they treated the oldest and she didn't want to get treated like that. He did time in prison got out and their mother stayed married to him and never left his side. Until he got caught again then she finally left him. He is still working in the church and her mother finally met her daughter husband and grandchildren. It's really sad people don't believe the victims.
Looking in the windows at his own daughter. He should be locked up in an insane asylum permanently.
Yet it took her own Mom to raise the red flag of him napping in the kids bedroom "because it was the quietest room in the house". What adult takes their naps in a childs bedroom & not their own adult bedroom? ( I dont count falling asleep together after rying to settle them or reading them bedtime stories). I would bet the piano lessons were used to be abusive toward his pupils too.
What do you think would have happened if she called the police on her own husband for this?
@@2021noname She set him up with the police and got him arrested. I just wish he got locked up for the rest of his stinking life.
@@2021nonamehe hopefully would have been arrested
@@debihester7284 hopefully but in my town I think he wouldn’t have been prosecuted because they would have said there’s no proof sans confession, and he could’ve filed for divorce and gotten custody of the children
memories, horrible memories, stepdad, and his boyfriend, my cousins I have horrible memories😢
🙏🏽🙏🏽❤️🫶🏽sending love and light
I am soooo sorry. I hope you get the healing you need
God bless you Yvonne ❤🙏
God bless you pour them out to Jesus give all your burdens to Jesus. My God help you heal
Jesus loves you and wants to save you
This is one of my worse nightmares and fear as a parent…I believe that I might go crazy like into some kind of manic state and black out I afraid I might harm someone behind hurting my only child
Same... I'm not afraid though. That's why I stay to myself. Just my son and I. Tooo many demons lurking around, seeking vulnerable people to prey on.
I have this same fear. I get really extremely worked up listening to stories like this so I could only imagine what I’d do if it happened to my child…
If you want to know how to feel your feelings and let them come to a natural end, there are two books that helped tremendously.
Like when a kid falls and hurts his knee. He cries for a while, and then he rubs his knee, wipes the tears from his face, takes a deep breath, shudders a little, and gets back up to carry on.
Unfortunately, too many times, that process is stopped, and emotions are surpressed.
The two books that helped me are The Primal Scream by Arthur Janov and Focusing by Eugene T Glendin PhD.
It is hard work, but it's so rewarding. There's nothing like the truth and feeling your feelings instead of stuffing them. We tend to forget that emotions are energy in motion.
I hate hunting, but maybe you've heard of a deer having a close call. The poor creature will shake for a while and release all of those terrifying emotions. Then it gets up and walks off to go back to their family and live out their God-given life.
A baseball coach will tell you to walk off a pain. It allows that energy to clear out of your body.
I heard someone say that cancer comes because your energy is stagnant and you're not doing what you're supposed to. Your energy needs the cancer to get you going again. It comes when you should be moving forward, but you're not.
I hope this information is of help to anyone who needs it.
Also check out Dr Royal Rife.
Gregg Braden also talks about 3 monks walking around a cancer patient and chanting and believing that tumour would shrink. And it did ! ❤
Well, it DID happen to my child. It was horrible. But I believed my son, told the police and all my kids and myself left him. Unfortunately he was never charged because my son was 5.
@@debihester7284 😢😭 then what happened? Did your son have to go back with his dad?
I would've called the cops and had him arrested. He taught piano lessons who knows how many victims he had. Good for you mom. You got a predator locked up.
You are a HERO for choosing your daughter over him. Wish I could hug you for that. Because most mothers do the opposite. God bless you and thank you for sharing! 💜💜💜
I know someone whos child went through the same thing with her Father and explained how He always tried to manipulate Situations by playing her Mother against her when it was Him that was causing certain Actions that she displayed as far as Rebellion. The Victim finally ran away to some other Relatives house in another State and thats when she Finally revealed that her own Father had been Molesting her for 4-5 years starting around the age of 9. Of course her Father never admitted it but her Tesimony was enough for him to get sentenced for a Few years. His ultimate punishment was that he never saw the rest of his Children grow up because he died in a Freak Accident a few years after release. Stay Diligent Mothers when it comes to your little ones and do NOT hesitate to ask Questions. Nomatter what
Tracey, that whole situation is so heavy and heartbreaking, but it means so much that you believed your daughter and chose to do whatever it took to protect her and her siblings. You are a brave and beautiful person. Blessings and continued healing to you and your family.💜
We need more mamas like you! You sprung right into action instead of brushing her off, dismissing her, being in denial or blaming her. YOU ROCK!
My loser ex- brother -in-law served 8 years , and not long enough 😡
Right? The victim gets a life sentence
what did he do? did he abused you? tell us the whole story please i'm just curious (if you want i'm not forcing anyone)
@@iamahugefan-p7lDon’t be weird, get therapy
@@iamahugefan-p7l I think it's pretty obvious that he committed some sort of crime against a child. Why so eager to know the whole story ?
It's a life sentence for the victim. It should be for the perpetrator.
Thank you for sharing. NEVER ask a child victim, "why didn't you say something sooner?" Awful accusation!!!!!
are you slow? the only reason why she asked her that because she told her kids whenever someone touches them no matter who it is to tell her so she was curious why she didn’t come to her, how is that making a accusation?
You are an amazing woman. Thank you for believing your daughter and taking swift action and protecting your children.
What an amazing mother you are.
My "father" sexually abused me from ages 4-12.
I told my mom when I was 12. Her response was "get out of here you liar". That was 51 years ago.
She apologized for the abuse 3 weeks ago, but denied that she knew, which is not true. I told her when I was 12.
My heart goes out to you. I wish you were cared for and believed
I’m so sorry honey. God cares. Pour out your heart to Jesus
My mother acted the same way. She can't understand why I won't talk to her at all. It's been 31 years, and she still tries. I WONT forgive her, she knew.
@@paulalewis5179 She's in denial. I told my mom 51 years ago when I was 12.
To this day, she says she didn't know. She knew. I told her. But I truly believe she's in denial
@@paulalewis5179 😭 it’s like you have no mother so sad
You are a lioness! the way you handle the situation makes you larger than life, you saved your children’s future. I wish y’all lifetime of freedom and happiness.
My Mom not only turned a blind eye but went on to have 5 girls with him. Unbelievable.
Some of these comments are rude, shes taking responsibility for her part and fixed it
Not
@chick-fil-agal2264 you should finish maturing before watching adult content.
Took responsibility after ignoring 3 red flags. She's just as bad
@@chick-fil-agal2264that’s a weird thing to say……☠️
the comments are rude for a reason, she saw red flags & ignored it instead of asking her daughter if anything was happening & had the audacity to ask her daughter why she didn’t tell her sooner & what she said at 12:15 was a major red flag because you shouldn’t want to keep both of them in your life that is just nasty what she said
My aunt and uncle took my siblings and I in after my mom died. My aunts husband Joe molested my sister and I. My aunt disowned us and separated us. He is now in jail but they are working on releasing him early. I've mentally detached since. They can do whatever they want with him.
Thank you for looking out for your daughter. That's great parenting. You should get an award.
I agree.Always always believe your child,whether it's a girl or boy.
I love the way you handled that God bless you and your family.❤❤❤❤
What a absolute wonderful momma and mother you are and have been 🩷
I must comment on your post for being a great and serious mum,and you didn't sweep it under the carpet 🙂💪💯🇬🇾
Such a great mom
Thank you for sharing. Going through this now myself. The betrayal is real and my heart breaks for my kids. Needed to hear another mom's story.
This is a great how to video…love it🇺🇸🌹❤️
It happened to me and my son too, if you want to talk.
You’re a good Momma for speaking up for your child and being there for her. Some women are a disgrace and just dismiss it. ❤
This woman is the definition of courage and responsibility. Her daughter must feel so much love her mother for believing her and taking any and all steps to protect her. Mother put her ego aside and protected the victim instead of the criminal. God bless her and her daughter.
She never had a ego in the first place
48 months!?! unreal…sick sick sick…a thought in his head?!?! he basically confessed. 🤮😵💫😵
This is one of the most raw, honest, and heartwrenching stories of generational SA I've ever heard. But, it sounds as though you've broken the cycle. ❤️ It's all because you believed your daughter, and took steps to protect your vulnerable child. Your daughter sounds like a badass, but, so are you, mama. 🤗
Oh yes you case sounds like mine . My daughter was 4 years and 2 months when he touch her. Yes her own father but of course I choose my daughter over everything. Today she is almost 21 years old . Was painful and hard to digest but by the Grace of God we made it 🙌♥️. Thank you for sharing your story . Blessings!
Those were not red flags, they were flashing neon signs.
I love the honesty, and I’m proud of both you and your daughter
Excellent article. Absolutely on point! I’m 72 and couldn’t process my abuse until I was almost 50. My health has been wrecked because I suppressed my emotions.
I was abused over 50 yrs ago and still can’t be in the same room as a man I don’t know or have a man physically near me. I rely on carers and a few weeks ago they tried to send in a male carer, i went through the roof and asked would you send in a male carer to a woman who had been raped or abused? Well don’t send one in to me then. It still affects you, even when your 65..
Moms and daughters love you for this . Kids first !
You are an amazing woman. You chose your daughter over her father. May God continue to heal your daughter.
I'm glad you did the right thing and protected your children. Thanks for sharing 🙏🏽🍀🍼
Some men are so very, very awful. You are a good mother.
This was unbelievably moving!! You are so brave and honest!!! Thank you for sharing ❤
They don’t give sexual crimes enough time.
Thanks for sharing I'm also just healing only now and I'm 57 years
Wow you did the right thing. That’s amazing. I’m so sorry that happened
GOD BLESS YOU BEAUTIFUL SUPERWOMAN QUEEN👑WARRIOR. FOR BELIEVING YOUR DAUGHTER AND TAKING A STAND . BLESS YOUR BEAUTIFUL SUPERWOMAN QUEEN 👑 WARRIOR DAUGHTER THANK YOU FOR SHARING THIS WITH THE WORLD. YOU BOTH ARE AMAZING🙏🏽👑👑❤️❤️👏🏽
A perfect example of a real mother. 🙏
It's terrifying when somebody you trusted has abused you, it is a very high responsibility. It was crushing. It took me till I was 52 to bring this out. It stopped in my teens, I left home.
A 'good parent' story for a change! Well done on being a great example.
I’m so happy to hear that this woman chose to protect her child ❤️❤️
I Love this mom❤❤❤ this mom is the mom everyone child deserves!
I’m so sorry this happened to your daughter/family. However, as a Mother, I am very thankful that you believe your daughter and stayed by her side. I’ve read and heard stories about this and the parent takes the spouse side. U are FOREVER My Shero. TY so much for sharing your story. May God Continue to Bless your family.
This mom is awesome. I can't imagine going through that.
You are a smart, brave women and a great mom and protector
What an absolutely brilliant mother. Hope your daughter is able to heal from her trauma. 🙏
Thank you for listening to your daughter and making her life safe again and letting her know you loves her! I just want you to know your such a good mother for taking care of the situation and choosing you kids first!
Thanks for telling us your story ❤🙏🏽
You are an amazing Mom. You couldn't have handled this devastating experience any better. Your insight, understanding, going immediately to law enforcement, protecting the children and rebuilding your lives, is a road map for others to follow. I'm sure you struggled, and there were some hard years, but you are a success story. Thank you so much for sharing your story. Truly❤
Why cant all mothers be like this mother?. Brave mother👏
Oh my goodness you are amazing. Thank you for protecting your kids. Thank you for protecting all of them in every way that you can. Letting the little ones see their dad was amazing of you. Wow and believeing her and being there for your daughter and your kids. You are a rockstar mom
The same thing happened to my first cousin. She was molested by her own father.
Thank you for believing your daughter, and protecting all of your kids, and making sure that her dad was made accountable. Hopefully this stopped him from having future victims.
I told my mom that. My stepfather was abusing me. It had started shortly after she married him, and I was three yrs old. I told her what he was doing to me when I was about 7 yrs old. I felt safe to tell her, bc he was on a Navy ship that was deployed for 6 months. This meant that he couldn’t kill me or hurt me, bc he was on the other side of the world. When he pulled into a port and called her, she asked him if he did it, and he denied doing anything inappropriate. That was it….. I continued to endure the bedroom visits every morning @ 5am. He retired from the Navy, we moved, and it stopped until we were settled into our new home about three months later. The abuse resumed , and I continued to pretend it wasn’t happening, bc it’s very hard to deal with. When I started high school and had a boyfriend things really got worse, bc he was jealous of my bf. I couldn’t take it. Anymore, and I told my mom again. This time she busted my lip when she slapped my face and ranted about how I caused this, and it was all my fault. I ended up having to run for my life to a neighbor to call my aunt and uncle. They came and got me. Authorities told my mom that her husband couldn’t live with me under the same roof. My mom decided to move to another state, and once we moved she allowed him to move in with. Us. I was almost 18 yrs old so I was just waiting patiently to move out, and I was very aggressive to defend myself against any advances that he made towards me. I had to carefully walk through mine field, and get out alive.! After moving out, trying to find myself and having counseling, I went through a failed marriage However, that union blessed me with my first son. Then, I bumped into a school friend one day, and coincidentally he had just gone through the same thing. Surprisingly, he ended up being my true love, and we ended up getting married a few months after randomly bumping into one another. It was like fate and destiny had figured it all out for us. We added another son and a daughter to turn our trio into a fabulous family of five. Our kids are grown and married now, no grand babies yet, but my husband and I are going strong 30 yrs later, til death do us part.
The reason that I shared the details of my life was bc I chose to rise above the chaos of what happened to me, and I chose not to allow it to define me. I chose to be a better friend, wife, and mother. And, I made it a priority to make sure that my kids were protected, safe, and wiser to who the real boogie monsters are, so that my kids knew what to do if they found themselves in the presence of a boogie monster. Ironically, my daughter ended up being stalked and harassed by an abuser. She knew what to do, she told me immediately after getting away from him, and filed a police report. The investigation ended up uncovering several other victims, and my daughter testified in the court hearing to make sure that he was punished and put where he belongs, in a cell! Hopefully he won’t be able to hurt anymore victims. Thanks again for sharing your horrifying story.
Hugs and God bless you and your family!
To anyone out there that is being abused, please go to or call your local victim’s advocate office, and ask for help!! You don’t have to be a victim anymore!! Pray for God to guide you and give you strength, wisdom, and protect you on your journey to recovery and safety. Hugs and love to you all! 🤗💞
Your an amazing Mother and a strong woman, and your daughter is amazing at what she’s achieved in life. You and your daughter really are an inspiration ❤
Thank you for making me realize that some moms choose their kids over their husband in these situations. My mom chose him and kicked me out. I have asked her why she chose him after he raped me for years. She calmly said “ I chose my happiness “. It still hurts me to this day 20 years later. She didn’t even want me to be at my fathers house because she was afraid that 16 yo me would’ve told and showed proof that would have made everyone realize that I wasn’t lying. I’m having a hard time today. The flashbacks and pain is making me want to ensure that I am not going to be able to go through this tomorrow or in the future. I’m doing my best not to give up.😢
This is how you do it!! Amazing mother who did the right thing immediately with no questions. She believed her child.
I really appreciate her sharing this with us. She is one of the few who can know what it's like to be in this position, to do the right thing and even share honestly what her feelings were. She wanted to keep both her husband and her daughter at first.
YOU ARE AN AWESOME MOM. WE NEED MORE LIKE YOU IN THESE SITUATIONS. GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY.
I wish you were my mother. When I finally told my mom (I was 17 when I spoke up) she chose him. She married me off to a man who was 20 years older than me… me being 17!!! It wasn’t that she didn’t believe me. She did. Once I told her what had been going on then found out that it had happened to my older sister…
Your crown in heaven is waiting… ❤ bless you and your family
FINALLY!! A Parent who just didn't ignore it
Your story off your daughter is an inspiration to you and your family what a brilliant parent you are protector off your family thanku for sharing ❤️
I love how the mum didn't muck around and did something about it as soon as her daughter opened up to her. So many of these stories we see the mothers turned their backs on their own children for men. WELL DONE MAMA BEAR❤
She is a very strong mother. I love the fact she choose her child. I’m glad she pull through. Work hard , still kept the income rolling on her own.
How very, very difficult. I’m so sorry this happened to you & your family, but I admire your courage and bravery. ❤
This woman is angel may God bless her soul. That was a very bold step. And for her to put her life on the line was beyond words. Wow. And i am happy he did not hurt her at the time she was trying to convince him.
You, My Dear, are a very special person. Thank you for your actions.
This is an absolutely outstanding woman. Like wow.
Anyone read the book or see the movie "Burning Bed"?.... Great idea in this instance 😉
Incredible mom.
What does the Prius have to do with anything? And why is she smiling when she mentioned why her daughter could not tell her about the abuse??
She was relating that she thought she had a normal family life and a good marriage....but she admitted it was all an illusion. Have you ever heard of a rueful smile? Thats what hers was, regretful that she didn't see the red flags sooner.....and she knows it's common for victims to keep quiet and feel responsible for holding the family together...and she smiled regretfully about that. You need to brush up on your communication skills because you obviously didn't understand where she was coming from, while the rest of us did.
@@Juanita-gf4te I appreciate your advice and will look up rueful smile, but I doubt that I am alone and "the rest of us" understood. Maybe you are part of the 10% group of the people that understood... while the rest of us did not (90%)...
It's called Emotional Intelligence. Some people have more than others. There are skills which can be learned. It seems like @buse victims become hypervigilant and can read people because they had to as children. There are books on how to develop your own emotional Intelligence.
We have to remember to be kind to each other when pointing out something. Some people have a tough time being corrected and they shut down and dont learn from their mistake. We have to remember to support people. We tell them the right answer because we want them to learn. Doing it in a fun light-hearted way makes it easier. 🙃
You are a great woman omg u had to deal with so much