She Was Just 7 When Her Uncle Shattered Her Innocence
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- Опубликовано: 17 апр 2024
- Today, our guest Samantha Conn shares her experience with abuse and overcoming challenges related to trauma. From facing significant challenges early in life, Samantha discusses how these experiences helped her discover her inner strength and the power of overcoming adversity. Tune in to hear her inspiring story and the valuable insights she has to share.
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This is Samantha. Thank you so much for allowing me to share my story. ❤
Thank YOU!!!!!!! Thank you for sharing your story and for the beautiful, empowering message at the end. You are such a beautiful human! ❤️🩹❤️🩹❤️🩹
Omg. 💔💔 I'm so sorry you experienced this hellscape of abuse and neglect. You needed love and protection. 😢💖
Sam dear I'm truly sorry you went through terribly terribly times. I don't even know what to say..my heart breaking for you.
WOW! It's incredibly difficult to even begin to comprehend what you were subjected to, and forced to endure ... and at such a young age to. My heart aches for you. I am soooo sorry, but BOY! You have come a longgggg way, and are absolutely beautiful both inside and out.
How brave and generous of you to speak out and share your story in order to help others as unfortunate as you were. God bless and nurture you always and in all ways sweetheart. 🙏🤗🥰😍 Much love from South Africa. 🌍🦁
Thank you for sharing your story ♥️
Your "friend" belongs in jail with your attackers, and so does that detective 😢
And the bus driver!!
100% she trafficked her
I could not believe the treatment Samantha was put through. First when she was seven and then again at 17.You are to be applauded for standing up and telling your story. 👏😂👏👏👏
And to think everyone involved is living their lives right now
You are such a strong WONDERFUL GIRL . GOD BLESS YOU.. II TOO HAVE GONE. THRU A SIMILAR NIGHTMARE
Your friend sets you up, She literally set you up. That was not your friend.
I'm so sorry that happened to you😢, and the friend who asked you what happened wasn't your friend. She was your enemy.
Her,so call friend and the men should have gone to prison ..Her friend set her up to be raped ...Sad that someone would do that to someone is sad..
@@jameshampton2899 and Lord only knows, how many times after they did it to another girl 😢
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" FRIENEMEY" ...
Another 8 year old wouldn't know how to respond. The info is like an alien talking at 8 years old. So sad she couldn't go to an adult.
The bus driver should have been fired and that girl wasn’t your friend.
That bus driver was a man day reporter, he was supposed to report that, since he did not, he was supposed to be put in jail
She was 8, give over
I’m so sorry you went through this horrible abuse. Your uncle should be in jail for the rest of his life.
Yep, you are not alone. My Dad was a disabled Vet. He became house bound. My mother was busy caring for dad. His brother, my uncle took this opportunity to molest me at age 11. He pretended to care about Dad and visited often.
I told my parents the 1st time it happened but Dad didn't believe me. My uncle was middle classed, married with four kids. Church dude. It happened until I was 14. Dad died and his reason to visit was done. My Aunt, his wife would have gotten jealous of mom being a widow so he didn't risk it. Ha, he wasn't interested in mom. He later got caught by a mother of two kids. He was molesting them and their mother walked in on it. She called the cops and my aunt divorced him. Finally someone stopped him!!
What he did to me changed the course of my life. I was a school dropped out, drunk and in abusive relationships. No self worth. I finally said enough of beating me up. I was a kid when it happened. It was not my fault. I went back to school, became a college grad, have a career. My life is good.
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So happy for u. You are very brave!
That police detactive, personal at school, all the ones who should have protect you, failed you. Nothing is your fault. Evil evil peoples did this to you. You are a true survival and I'm so glad that you are in a good place today ❤
Most detectives take the easy way out and would sooner demonize a girl (who they consider to be the lesser sex) that got r*ped than actually do their jobs. ACAB and this detective is sure proof why.
This means a lot you guys and I can't tell you how grateful I am for your love, kindness, and support. God Bless you all. ❤
You are a brave and strong woman who didn't deserve ANY of this 💩, I pray for your so called friend... I will be worried if I was her, karma is a bxtch like her. God bless you and protect you. My thoughts, prayers and love are with you. xo
You're a lovely person. ❤ God Bless you @@royallyfruit
Hi Samantha. My name is Anna and I'm from Oregon. I can't tell you how much I appreciate that you shared your story...I think you can tell a lot about a person by the way they speak. I can tell you are a genuine and sweet person. I hate what happened to you in your story but I love that you are so strong to share it, and I'm so happy you are in a good place with a family of your own now including a wonderful husband. You deserve all that dear.
I hate that your uncle, your best friend, and all those boys/men who assaulted you did all that to you. They should all be in jail. While I'm glad the school nurse reported to the Police, it doesn't sound like justice took place.
I don't know if something can be done about those boys/men who assaulted you, but I think it's still possible. I absolutely believe something can be done about your uncle, your best friend, the bus driver, and the cops/the DA who failed to do justice by you. I'd like to explain myself.
I would just like to encourage you to report all those who abused you, your uncle, your best friend, those boys/men, as well as those who were responsible to do something about your abuse like the Bus Driver and the Police/DA, I'd just like to encourage you to report them all to Law Enforcement. People who commit such heinous crimes as they all did, whether it's what they did or didn't do, should be held accountable. Reporting people like ALL of them should also prevent them from harming anyone else ever again, especially a child/minor.
I know some people think that if sexual abuse happened awhile ago, the Statue of Limitations to report it is over. But 14 States as of a few years ago, did away with this Statue of Limitations, so now anyone who was sexually assaulted as a child/minor from these States can report their sexual abuse and receive justice, no matter how long ago the abuse took place. I'm sure since a few years ago, even more States have joined in this needed and Noble cause. 🙂
Thanks again for sharing your story. Your story has touched me deeply. I can see it's touched others deeply as well. I wish and hope nothing for you but continued joy and all the good life has to offer. God bless you and all your loved ones dear. Hugs. 🙏❤️
@@annasteig2923 thank you SO MUCH. Your words are so kind and they make me tear up. For all the bad I've experienced I've always known there are amazing people like yourself out there
I am so sorry for everything you endured growing up! Please know, none of it was ever your fault! You are so strong and brave coming forward with your story! I hope today is a little easier for you and that you have some king of peace in your life!!!
I'm sorry that so many people failed you. My heart breaks for every little girl that has been through anything remotely like this. 😢
The PERPETUAL cycle of being victimized over and over again is HORRIFIC way beyond imagination of Stephen King himself.
Yep. I too was at the tender age of 7 yrs old when my “step-uncle” rpd me. I remember every aspect, the complete layout of their apartment, what he was wearing -or not wearing. I STRONGLY remember what he smelled like. To this day, if I smell that I am triggered. I haven’t been able to match it to a men’s cologne or after shave that I could peg without doubt that the smell. Yes, it was incredibly painful. BLOOD EVERYWHERE. My mother managed to turn a blind eye. I never got justice. The ONLY thing that has kept me out of prison and alive is INTENSE therapy.
Don’t give up on urself girls, ladies. There is help out there. All you have to do is make it to a hospital emergency room. I promise you, we will hide you and protect you AND your children.❤ There is life after trauma.❤
Oh wow!!!!
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Yeah. Boogie men are real.
@@No.ThatPrettyGirl Yeah sadly
I think you mean perpetual.
Can u tell your story on this show
I’m so proud of you. I have Complex PTSD from childhood trauma. I’m so happy you were able to move on and be an advocate for others by sharing your story
I'm sorry, I hope you to be alright now, never give up and remember how strong and brave you are for share this❤
💓🙏 same. Cptsd. People who don't know..they can Empathize but, they don't Really know (& I absolutely don't want anyone else to know) but I want u 2 know. You're not alone
That “friend” was NEVER your friend…
I think she knows that
She was 8
@@user-kp2do5ie1c She means the "friend" from high school when she was 17 that set her up for gang rp.
OH my god poor little girl😭hugs & hugs & hugs to you😭I’m so sorry.
I love animals too.
They are the greatest healers and comforters.
You are beautiful.
I think most animal lovers are empaths ❤
You are strong and so beautiful both on the outside, and within
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With friends like that,you don't need enemies.Good luck with the rest of your life,how brave you are!!!!!!!!
Samantha is a remarkable woman for finding the courage to speak up about her trauma many people failed her in her life
Your story was one of the saddest stories I've ever heard. May The Almighty heal Your heart. Wow.
Well then you couldn’t handle my story then. I was s3x trafficked as a child.
I too was ra$@&$+ by 10 men. They put something in my drink. I got pregnant from this. I was unable to talk about it to anyone. I became an addict to fog away the trauma. Many years later I am still suffering from PTSD that I know will never go away. Forty years later I'm just now getting the counseling I need. Despite whether or not your reputation will be ruined. Ladies you HAVE TO SPEAK UP. YOU USE YOUR VOICE. You may be labeled unjustly. Being silent let's THEM WIN. You are worth the fight. Please don't do what I did. Don't be silent. The memories of that will NEVER go away. But you can through help, have the tools to help cope with the trauma . Peace be with you always
I’m so sorry you went through that ❤
Were they all black?
PERFECT. YOUR ENCOURAGEMENT IS PERFECT.
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@@MillennialMountainMama 🤤 Some boyfriend. I'm so sorry that happened to you and I hope you are going through counseling for your trauma.
This breaks my heart. I'm so sorry the Detective failed you. I'm sorry this happened to you. That girl set you up. Sending you love and hugs. May God Bless you.
This happens every day in this country. This is why so many rapes are never reported.
I'm so saddened none of her abusers were held accountable. I'm just in disbelief
Hi sweetheart I'm so sorry I know that's not enough I've been there's you are not to blame. You have to live with it police don't want to know about abouse to wemon x
That detective needs to be in prison😡
You have a Lawsuit against police, detective, county and maybe even State. Hope you can sue...
Thanks for sharing.
Bless You🙌❤
I’m so sorry you didn’t have an adult or friend you could trust then. Thank you for sharing your story. I know it will help others.
I would NEVER have friends. I had to stop this story several times to process. This was so heavy. I am so sorry she experienced this horrible trauma and at such a young age. I am glad her life is happy and it didn’t define her.
That bus driver😡🤬🤬🤬
Youre incredibly strong for being able to tell this story... i am so sorry you had to experience this. God bless your soul. That monster deserves to rot in a cell.
This has to be one of the darkest stories I've ever heard. This woman is incomprehensibly strong to even be able to share this story. Hearing about it was hard enough. It's harrowing to know her story isn't uncommon.
The darkest story you have ever heard? Really? Well then you obviously couldn’t handle my story, because mine is WAY worse.
😢 so glad you found strength and genuine love after this horrific time in your life.
So sorry for all the pain you endured at the hand of those heartless people.... you're strong, beautiful and intelligent...
Thanks for sharing your story with us ..
I can’t imagine you have very many friends to this day After being wickedly betrayed by “a friend”
You are a strong spiritual person💟✨
I’m so sorry you had to go through those experiences. It makes me really angry for you that none of those people were punished and for that cop to place the blame on you! They may not pay in life but they will certainly pay in hell. You’re a super strong person and I applaud you for rising above such a difficult childhood.
This story breaks my heart!!! And for your so called friends to do that to you 😤😤😤. The second friend should have gone to jail with those guys, she set you up.
You are a beautiful person. Thank you for sharing
I’m in complete shock. But what’s sad is that I shouldn’t be. This is a vile, corrupt world. This poor young woman. I’m so upset and my heart is just breaking for her. But I’m so happy she’s doing well now.
So sickening how many times sexual abuse victims are made victims over and over again by people who are so utterly ignorant, insensitive, and uncompassionate. What comes around, goes around, ...Karma. You are very brave Samantha, for sharing your story. God Bless.
The only karma is the justice you take
Unbelievable. That cop was an idiot.
Unfortunately some cops do treat survivors like that
He was probably a friend or relative of one of the men remember she said it was a very small town
Maby the cop was in a hurry to take his coffee break !Because most of them get paid for parking on a back road to sleep on duty all night !
Never trust anyone !!! you only trust your instincts, people ignore it and push it aside to listen to people, friends, family, etc. instead, to please them, Please your self, and trust your self, never listen to them at all.if your instinct tells you this is sound right ,don't go, walk away , and continue to listen to your instinct , if you feel uncomfortable with a friend that is your instinct telling you you are not save with that person, leave them.
Hope your uncle was prosecuted! Thank you for sharing your story, I am so glad your managed to get away from it all and now you're safe ❤
Unfortunately, rap3 and child molesting have had a statute of limitation on them. However, many states have changed that or are in the process of changing it. (That has taken place since the Cosby trial and a couple of other high-profile cases.). It is long overdue and there never should have been on those crimes just as on murder.
Thank you for sharing your story. It makes us who have gone through similar not feel so alone. I know more women who have been abus3d and graped than not. It’s awful and we are finally talking about it and refuse to suffer in silence.
I'm sorry, I hope you to be alright now ❤ never give up!
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That “friend” and “detective” - I have no words. I am so sorry this happened to you but am so impressed that you survived and now have a happy life. Thank you for sharing.
Your words made me cry. Absolutely disgusting that a so say friend could do that!?!?….as for your uncle……no words…..
Animals are indeed beautiful creatures and I’m so glad that you have such a wonderful job❤️
Sending love and light❤️✨🌙
I’m so sorry this happened to you. There are some people that are so cruel. You have been through hell and back since age 7. God has you girl always remember that.🙏🌹 you are a very strong lady
The World needs more STRONG woman like you in .I feel so very very sorry for what you went through 😢. Noreen Australia 🦘
I love Australia. Such an awesome country. Thank you for your kindness and watching my story
Thank you. You're a powerful role model and a hero. You gave me oh-so-much-needed hope just when I needed it the most.
I’m so sorry that you had to go through all that. You have been through so much and did not let your past hold you down. You’re very strong and beautiful. Bless you and your beautiful family. Stay safe and happy!
Just know Samantha that there are many, many women out here that have very similar heartbreaking experiences. "Friends" have let so many of us down as well. And so many of us have never told anyone. You are so brave to have talked to anyone about this....even if not believed... which is so sad! CSA almost always leads to other kinds of abu*se throughout our lives....I just wish that people would realize this.
Everyone else has completely failed you... this is the most frustrating story I've ever heard. I hope you find the peace you deserve. I'm very sorry for what you had to endure.
Same same. My heart breaks for her greatly.
I’m so sorry this happened to you and you weren’t believed. You should be proud of yourself for making it through and sharing your experience. Hugs to you
I've been raped several times and I can understand what yyou talk about... The fear of speaking, the power of men over women... Times are changing but still there's a lot to change... So many evil minds.😢
You are so inspiring sharing your story so others feel more powerful sharing theirs...
It's a brutality what happened to you.
I wish you can heal❤
Why do u automatically thi k its always men abusing woman. I was abused by 2 woman in my.childhood & I am a male🤔😡
❤❤❤ you are a Warrior and a SURVIVOR. So Brave to share this ..and i hope someone is helped hearing it. I 🙏 send you Hugs. I also can relate
It sounds like there was GHB in the alchohol since she has no memory. GHB isn't always detectable on standard drug tests. I find it incredibly unsettling that out of 10 people not even ONE of them put a stop to this. Truly a scary world out there.
I also want to mention that no matter how many prior partners, she always has a right to say no. She wasn't even afforded the chance! They don't like to prosecute cases of grape if the victim isn't squeaky clean, thankfully that's starting to change. The fact that she was all torn up and didn't remember anything should have been enough but that cop was probably scared his DNA was in there! What a creep.
She said DNA of at least ten men was found in her rectum - that does not mean there were only ten. From what she said about how many were there when she went into the house, it was likely even more. However, even one was horrible. However, anyone who would do that is a monster of the ultimate cruelty.
@@GlennaVan OH gosh. I didn't even think about that. Disgusting. People are the worst when it comes to group think.
@@thatcreepyxmastreeinyourat8950 more like if males think they can get away with abusing a woman, they will. Its a problem we need to stop ignoring.
Wow. Thanku so much. Im litterly crying so hard rn. I have so much trauma from S.A.'s. I've carried this self shame for years. Ive self sabotaged myself in so many ways. Put myself in bad situations, i hated myself so much. All the medication, the hospital stays, nothing clicked for me until I watched ur video.. a real victim, and u made it. The way u articulated how these things made u so strong afterwards. I never thought of things that way. I felt like everyone else was stronger, and i was week because of the anxiety i have now, the ptsd, the nightmares. No, ur right. Not everyone survives these things. We did. Omg, thanku. This story, the way u told it, I think u saved me. God bless u, thanku .. i have no doubt in my soul that u will save many girls and women. There is something about u, something very healing. God has blessed u w/ a purpose . Please keep advocating for women. U r an angel❤❤❤❤❤
OMG . Always said to my kids. Always talk to us anyone does anything to you . Will do time and the individual will not be walking this planet. No place for that evil in this cruel world already .
I would have called the cops myself years ago. Sorry that is jus t how I feel.
Gf you are a brave STRONG WOMAN. YOUR STRENGTH IS SO ADMIRED. GODSPEED BIGGEST HUG
Heartbreaking story but I’m glad you found the courage to share it.
You're tough. Girl I'm sorry that those things happened to you, but your getting through it. God Bless you.
Famous last words, “that is not your friend”. A lesson we need to learn so much sooner in life. When some one who loves you says these words to you, listen to them. Take it to heart.
I'm shaking and in tears. Thank you for sharing your story. You're right. We do need to know that we can still survive.
Ypur so brave. I cant believe the way you were treated and that the authorities didnt notify your parents.
Your story will help many❤
Animals are so amazing & healing.❤❤
I was wondering that too… Since she was under 18, why didn’t they reach out to her parents?
Dam im so pissed off at that friend. This hurt so much. That detective was a pervert as well
This was painful to hear. I see you, I hear you, you are loved & valued no matter what.
You don't need to censor the word "alcohol," "unfiltered stories."
I’m so very sorry you went through all this horrible experience with your uncle, you friend & the bus driver that didn’t save you. God has brought you to a better place Amen 🙏🏼
Just remember that you have a light inside you that no one can extinguish. I know you've been through hell but we're all rooting for you! ❤
Your A Brave young Lady. Other Women don't ever speak about it.
I’m so sorry. Police are still like this nothing has changed
I'm so sorry you went through this
Cops are the absolute worst sometimes!!!
They act like they so f stupid
Nazis with badges.
Sincerest thank you for sharing your story. You turned your tribulation into a testimony. I’m so proud of you. Many blessings beautiful friend
Wow!!!! I hate those people!!! And what a beautiful way to describe what animals do (absorb the pain). You’re a rockstar ALL BY YOURSELF!!!!!!❤
People are so freaking evil u didn't deserve this 😢❤❤
My lawd I’m so sorry. I just want to hug you. How horrific. ❤
I'm so sorry 😢 Thank you for sharing and speaking up for rape victim's and sexual abuse. You are so strong 😔😔❤
You are so strong...such an amazing survivor
You are a wonderful woman and very brave ❤❤❤
God bless yall on what yall do always
You are an amazing person. Strong, courageous and brave. Thank you for sharing your story to help and inspire others. ❤❤
People make me sick... especially people who are suppose to protect children...like wtf? It's heartbreaking what kids have to go thru . Sexual predators are monsters, soul snatchers...I know I've been there..I've been a victim. My innocence stolen.
Usually the people who are sicken by people are those capable of this horrible things. When you appreciate people you don't do horrible things to them.
The Courage of this woman, and others, is astounding, these Truths need to be told.
These CRIMES need to be exposed, and those guilty of them should Face the Law.
I am so sorry that so many people failed you in your life. In the South, when something happens to us, we are supposed to get over it and never mention the abuse ever. Thank you for sharing your experience.
How brave of you to share your story. I’m proud of you! Thank you for sharing.
Revelation 21: 3 and 4,,,John 17:3,,,,wow, you are amazing lady.
Wow. What a truly heartbreaking story. My heart just goes out to you. I’m in awe of your strength and determination to get your experiences out in the open, so others can focus on their own strengths and courage and learn from your pain. Bless you forever 🙏🏻💜🙏🏻💜🙏🏻💜
Karma will get those that hurt you. So if you are the guys that are reading what goes around comes around. thank you for your story and its good to see you happy
Will Karma also get them for what they did to other girls and women? If they did this to her, it is a safe bet they did it to others as well. It was obviously a planned event and her so-called friend provided her as the recipient of their cruelty and knew what was going to happen when she convinced her to go there. Karma would have been for them to take her friend to another room and do the same to her. However, it should never happened to anyone. One might wonder how many other "friends" her friend provided to these monsters.
I'm really sorry ❤ please never give up, use this video as a prove of how strong and brave you are and how you haved passed for so much situation until reach here! And even you shared it after all! You are really strong and brave!
God bless you. Prayers for healing.
It's a miracle that you are brave enough to share this story. The complete ignorance and evil of the "friend" on the bus, the negligence of the bus driver, the horrific depravity of your uncle, those other "friends"... a perfect storm of abuse perpetuated on an innocent young girl. People are completely sick, and it's a miracle you are lucid, articulate and able to expose those who failed you. As far as the police officer is concerned, names need to be named and he needs to be formally reprimanded for what he did.
I love this channel, maybe one day I can publicly share my story.
I'm sorry that something tragic occurred to you, even if I don't know what it it's, I'm sorry and I hope you to be alright now❤ stay strong and brave as you are now for share this!
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Wow! Your compassion for that so-called girlfriend of yours is unimaginable. If that had happened to me, that girl would have been un-alived by me and it wouldn't have been easy. I would have done things to her that would have helped her experience everything you had experienced on that horrifying night. She would have begged me to un-alive her when I was through. You have the patience of a Saint! I'm so sorry for all the bad things that happened to you, starting with your uncle. I'm glad you have a wonderful husband and family today. Thank you for sharing your story and may you and your family continue to be blessed!!
You are a beautiful strong young woman. I hope you have a peaceful and happy future. Btw, I agree, Pet therapy is amazing ❤ thank you for sharing your story. You're a survivor ❤🎉
I literally cried through most of your story! You’re an extremely strong woman!
You're a strong woman. Those people that hurt you in life are weak people. God knows you. He loves you. God bless you
I’m so so so glad you found some peace in your life after everything you have went through. Thank you for your strength! ❤️❤️
Poor woman, being trapped by your family and friends, she sounds so sweet, nobody is angel but every one of us have morals or not
I am sooo glad that you are speaking out!!! You are so brave. You are healing!!!
I’m so sorry this happened to you. This is absolutely heartbreaking and appalling. I’m so glad to see how you’ve overcome and beat the odds
Sorry You went threw that. You should've gone to the Hospital and i hope that they got those guys in jail
This hurts my heart so much. Thank you so much for your bravery. I have a 6 yo and a 1 yo and i cannot imagine.
One of my parents was repeatedly SA as a child and although he stopped the multigenerational cycle, I have mental health issues from the emotional/psychological abuse.
I’m so sorry this all happened to you. You deserved better.
You are so brave! I am in tears i want to send you a hug. Brought up ugly memories of my own from 50's & 60's. Im so happy you are happy now & so strong 😢❤