My Parents Kept Me In A Cage Throughout My Childhood
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- Опубликовано: 23 ноя 2023
- Welcome back to Unfiltered Stories! Today, our guest Melissa Cline bravely shares the heart-wrenching story of her childhood. Melissa's parents kept her in a 5x8 cage throughout her childhood and she endured challenges such as being tied up in bed when they left home.
In the face of these unimaginable challenges, Melissa's resilience shined through. Despite the hardships, she held onto hope and persevered through the darkest moments and now tells her story to inspire others.
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Her story is confusing. Who would put up a property bond for her? If her family had already disowned her because of her affiliation with a black man who would put up a bond that was worth enough to send a bounty hunters for prostitution. To another state with a flight back.
As soon as I'm successful I have a story.
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yes and it’s a doozy
wow what a horrible story, I was sexually abused, that nothing what you went thru, so sad, glad you made it. & stayed strong, the Almighty will avenge your horror.
when she said she would make animal noises to get some sort of attention or physical touch i broke down in tears. no child should ever endure any of the pain you experienced love. i am so so sorry for what you had to go through but i am so so proud of you for sharing your story! that shows extreme strength. you are no longer a VICTIM, you’re a VICTOR! stand tall beautiful, you won❤
I saved my grandson he's now in a loving foster care family. When they tried to find out what my son and his partner did to him....he curled up in a ball and barked like a dog. Good news he's still with his new family and doesn't ever want to go back to his father. He doesn't curl up and bark like a dog anymore
God save the children.
Couldn’t agree more, she’s incredible! The part about her making animal noises for affection, also completely broke my heart. I don’t know how she survived this, let alone became a nurse & all round wonderful human being. She’s amazing!
@@IhaveMy0pinionGood for you! More people need to stand up & speak when they suspect abuse. I’m so very happy your grandson now has a good forever home. Kudos to you for protecting him! 💕
@@IhaveMy0pinionHopefully your son and his partner are facing legal charges? I am a foster parent. It breaks my heart knowing what some of these children go through.
This is why being nice to strangers, bc u just never know what they're going through or have been through in their life.
Absolutely!
Good take away from this.
I agree with you,.. a kind interaction is life changing….but unfortunately people are stupid.. Idk why but sometimes I watch those bodycam video and I read the 🤢 sickening comments. Horrible ignorant shit from people with no empathy literally. They can’t possibly see that person before or after the incident they are watching… they’re like a mob mentality, all name calling and chanting for someone to be “thrown in jail forever” or “take their kids away forever” …. And all I can think is how ridiculously stupid they are. …never considering HOW that person got to be in their current state , or if they will get help and be forever changed.
I’m grateful that my five kids (adults) have always been so kind to people who are homeless , drug users, or whatever….people deserve basic respect .
Being forced to go through labor in handcuffs is like another assault. She was treated terribly her whole life, I hope she has found peace.
This woman is a living miracle
T R U T H
Not a hot enough place in HELL for anyone who abuses Children and Animals! Defenseless Trusting and Loving naturally. I’m so very glad this woman found her strength to share her story.
Don't worry, there is a hot enough place in hell.
@@Picksleand that’s where her “mother” is
Bible says that's where they go if they never repent and trust Jesus Christ. But we still need to report when we know about it so they can go to prison. No justice, no peace.
ABSOLUTELY not hot enough!!!
And there are loving people who cannot conceive. Why,God, why?
Some people really shouldn't be parents. This is just heart breaking. You're an amazing survivor.
Yea but she’s here now and became a nurse!
"really shouldnt be parents"????? Some people should be sterilized!!!!!!!!!!!!!
@@oooh19 : just really think about it how many children do not survive those tortures and abuse every day on this planet - not every child does really survive those things without having big trauma and mental illness for the rest of their lifes - not everybody is able to become anything at all - but - stay broken for the rest of their lifes. What happened to and with Melissa is a real and big exception - most miracle happens not just like that - without lots of mental strenght and lots of work on yourself.
@@oooh19so what did you mean ???
My mother grew up very similar after her mother passed away when my mom was 7.
I'm an adult with kids of my own, and my poor mother still has secrets she is protecting us from knowing. 🥺
I hope she has Jesus.
@@marilynwillett804 She most definitely does.
@@crystallotzer5400would love to hear her story on how she found Jesus, amongst all of those hardships and pain.. if u don’t mind sharing of course
@@crystallotzer5400bless her, glad to hear that she found love in the world with her children AND our Lord and savior 🙏🏻
Proof that your past doesn't stop you from doing what you want to do.
Her story is soul crushing, she has to be protected and loved at all cost.
💯 she is a walking talking miracle
I hate to hear stories about children being abused.
As a former victim of childhood sexual abuse by my step father, various molestations from a stepbrother, neighbor boys & then attempts by my Father in Law I used to think I had a sign on my back that said “Abuse Me”! I’ve since realized those experiences molded me into the person I am today. I have since retired from a corporate career, was a Sexual Assault Counselor and volunteered in the battered women’s shelter watching children while Moms had some fun time. I did not allow those men to break me!
What an amazing lady you are! You didn’t let those low lives break your extraordinary spirit. I admire you so much & sincerely hope you’ve reached a place where you’re unconditionally loved & appreciated for who you are. My best to you. Hugs. 💕
Reality is there is more men like them then not
@@erismana2105
True. Good men are almost as rare as unicorns.
me too re feeling like I must have some invisible sign on my back which guys pick up on saying "sexually assault or rape me". I really do not know how any female gets through her life without that happening to her as I had so many different unrelated in any way guys do it to me in all kinds of situations eg I was on a packed lift of a department store holding onto my mother's hand and a guy standing behind me started molesting me unknown to my mum (and I was too embarrassed to yell out). I don't even live in a bad area.
I’ve often thought the same thing I must have a certain kind of smell, or some kind of universal sign that says come to abuse me. Or I thought I had a sign that says kick me on it my abuser my stepbrother my rapist at 3 1/2 years old. Once told me I had a galactic kick me sign.
Her parents were horrible people, I was so shocked to hear this story. No-one should ever be treated this way. I hope she finds love and happiness; she needs some love and friends and a good community. At least she got some help with a therapist and became a nurse like she wanted to.
I just can't imagine. You are a survivor!
Sadistic abuse. Makes me wonder if her parents were abused as well as it’s typically handed down through the generations. A viscous cycle. Very, very sad story. Thank you for sharing your story.
Correct. Mental, Emotional, Physical and Sexual abuse is handed down through the generations--a cycle. The good news is contrary to the psychiatric profession healing is possible with Transformation Hypnosis to access the unconscious and subconscious level.
Don’t make excuses for them!
Probably because of how it was back then. Children were seen not heard and al authorities always believed the adults with no question. There was no safe haven 😢😢😢
Generational Satanic ritual abuse
The pain in her voice is heartbreaking. Still needs inner healing!
Yes. I was thinking this the entire time. She is still suffering so much.
We never heal
Trauma counselling needed.
Nope when she talks about her abuse it's triggers the bad memories
Omg. I have been through healing in 30 years, and I still cry. It's actually a good sign, that she is in touch with her emotions, and is not shut down. I don't think it stops. But for people who haven't experienced deep trauma, I can see how they would think it's "something to get over".. it doesn't really work like that..and yet parts of it will transform over time
What a strong woman to be able to re-live & talk about this is absolutely incredible & brave. I have SO much respect for you.
You’re a very strong women, thank you for sharing your story. I know that had to have been tough. I’m sure it will help other people who went through the same thing. God bless you.
It's unfortunate that child abuse victims have to rely so much on their inner strength to get by. We care more about stray dogs as a society then abused children.
@@kellylestig4941 Some what the same, but not boxed in. I could not speak or have an opinion in the household, if I did my mom would mock me and laugh and tell me to be quiet. ON my wedding day, she said, "Do you know how fat you look in the dress"? Then I had to fix her hair and make-up. I just kept....cool. Who wants a big family event, then? Then she wanted to tell the photographer how to place people etc. He told her off.
@@littleme3597 I’m so sorry you had to go through that and so glad you’re one of the few that survived your abuse and you’re still with us
To all the sweet babies and children inside of the fierce survivors in this thread and all over the world, I give all my love and admiration. To those here, you have grown into strong, amazing people with huge hearts and I'm so proud of you.❤
As a child who was also abused, my inner child is healing and I wish for yours to heal too. You didn't deserve any of it and even if they never apologized, know that they KNOW they were wrong, and will have to deal with the "bill" when on the other side. Light and love to you❤
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I have ptsd from a childhood of physical, mental, emotional, sexual abuse. I do not ever go back in my head to all the things I remember. I have found, that for me personally, I’ve put it all in the furthest corners of my mind, locked up virtually, as past bad experiences + moved forward. Unfortunately I went into having children of my own with zero parenting skills. I didn’t have the patience I should have had + if I could have a “ ground hog day” I would change a lot of my behaviors. My kids are adults + they understand. ( I never interfered with them getting to know my parents- they figured out on their own just what kind of childhood I had!) I raised my granddaughter for a while when my ex son in law bolted, leaving my daughter + baby. She went to school, + worked,+ has a doctorate in medicine + is an ama ing mother+ medical provider. I became the parent I should have been, with my granddaughter. It is so difficult to be a good wife,+ mother when you’re very young( fresh out of high school) when you absolutely no idea what” normal” is. Child abuse is so rampant. I lived in a beautiful home, my parents had money. They both drove brand new cars. I was always dressed beautifully. But underneath that facade lived a very sad child- me. My heart goes out to every person that never knew what love from a parent was 🤗
You, ma’am, are on of the STRONGEST women and your story is powerful. I am so proud of who you have become. Thank you for not giving up and helping others.
As a parent, I am struggling to understand how her parents could do this to her, she was a child. An innocent, pure angel who just wanted love and affection. I will never understand how people can be so evil. I'm glad she survived and is now able to tell her story.
Same. I was crying watching this and thinking about my children. All I do is love and protect them. I can’t imagine the level of evil it takes to abuse any child, let alone your own children like this. It’s so sickening. 😢
Seriously. Like, even if you dislike or don't want your kids - give them to someone who will treat them kindly. It takes more effort to abuse them than find them a new home. Sick people.
I believe that the father was trying to imply that they knew they'd be ignoring her, and out of the cage she could hurt herself. Obviously they should have watched her, and kept her safe by their presence, instead of putting her in a cage.
They were both demon possessed! Heavily! Otherwise you can't do such things!
Sadly, there are too many unwanted children who end up being neglected and abused by their parents for existing. The parents usually don’t care enough to even find the child a better home.
this video is devastating you can literally SEE the little girl in her eyes. If I feel this much pain and sorrow just from hearing her story, I cannot ever imagine being her parent, and putting her through what she has gone through. seriously one of the strongest women I have ever heard from this video is devastating
Yes it grabs your heart alright. Her strength is super human. Incredibly amazing woman
But at some point she has to learn to take accountability for her actions too! She had a second chance with her aunt and uncle but threw it away to go get pregnant by a blk man whos a dead beat too. She did this to herself. Her childhood isn't her fault but after she make deliberate bad choices 14+ is her fault. She had a good chance innher aunts and uncle's home!! All she had to do was go to school, study hard. But noooo
@@FS02012 I really don’t think you can say that. Actually it sounds really cold. What kind of decisions would you have made after a childhood of abuse? And besides I think there were reasons she left aunts house. Doesn’t sound like she any kind people in her life at all. This absolutely cannot be blamed on her. That kind of abuse destroys you at the core. It’s amazing she has recovered as well as she has.
That part!
@@FS02012You're not in any position to tell anyone that, especially her. Countless people are given chance after chance even if they make mistakes for their choices, people with substance abuse, people who went to jail even get chances. The fact she became a nurse shows she clearly has taken some accountability. For what though? It wasn't her who did all that damage. She had no real adults to show her the way of life. People like you are why people can't change.
My heart aches for Melissa. The pain she went through is still so palpable for her. Continued healing!!!
My goodness I’ve never heard anyone go through so much pain and suffering and only be 22. Melissa, you are an absolutely AMAZING woman and human, I salute you, your courage, determination and positivity to come through such terrible things. You give others courage sharing your story and prove that there is life after abuse and pain. It makes my life seem like a breeze, and I’ve been through a fair bit. It’s women like you who give me courage to keep going and inspire me and thousands of others to be courageous and strong and able to move on after trauma. You should receive an award in recognition of these things. Keep inspiring others, and a huge well done on believing in yourself and for what you’ve achieved, you’re truly incredible. Sending much love to you Melissa 🥰 xx
🥰 thank you
I was shaking with rage over this story. Those parents did NOT deserve her.
Ohhhh you are really speaking strong language!!! Ohhhh I can really see your rage!!! Those parents should be in prison for life!! NOT "did not deserve her". Grow some balls!
Wtf😂 @@Wisdom-Nuggets-Tid-Bits
No wonder the mom met the demise she met. Karma 🎶 🎵
But not everyone deserves to be parents. It's a blessing. Not a curse.
You are the strongest woman I have ever seen! You made me cry tears of sadness & happiness that you made it through such a horrible upbringing. You deserve an amazing life & you are an inspiration for all the women who have suffered abuse. And you recovered from drugs - absolutely incredibly - Congratulations you sweet, smart, tough, beautiful woman….❤❤❤
@@Wisdom-Nuggets-Tid-BitsIf your looking for attention...go play with the traffic or just shut up.
Why would people want to hurt there children? What a strong woman.
Mental illness plays a big roll . Sociopaths, psychopath, FASD narcissist and other .
Psych studies show that often, its learnt behaviour. Sometimes, (not always), children who grow up in abuse get desensitized & see it as a norm they model & repeat. Or , they repeat it to try & take back their lost power & avoid their victimhood.
Accurate
Why do garbage, severely damaged people like her parents and mine even have children? Rhetorical question.
@@sarahholland2600 I think I could put my mother in this category.
No longer the victim but the VICTOR!! So sorry that you went through all that😢 You have become an inspiration for others. God bless you with a fabulous life from here on out 🥰💙
I had a similar experience. Having my hands ironed palms up at age eight on an ironing board. Daily beatings some sexual molestation from her. Constantly put down . Told I was worthless, no good was stupid and would never amount to anything. No love. Bullied in grade school and high school at the same time the other stuff was going on. Random beatings whenever they wanted to. Desperate burning loneliness from age six to seventeen. Had a cowed personality that attracted abuse way into my thirties. Almost normal now with some problems in my late sixties. Went to get counciling in my late twenties from a Southern Baptist preacher telling him what happened. He told me "everybody suffers". Knew I like boys at age seven in the second grade. Still get bullying from females at work. Still not as bad as this woman.
Oh wow. So sad for your suffering too. It is hard to stand up for yourself when you are being bullied, victimized and abuse.
😢 I'm so sorry for your experience.
I am so sorry you had to endure all of that. The fact that you still became a nurse despite all of that is absolutely incredible. Your story is very inspiring. I hope the rest of your years are full of happiness
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My heart breaks hearing what you went through! I'm so sorry! 🫂💔😢
Amen 🙏🏽 ❤
Amen.
Melissa, you are one of life's true survivors. You're not only alive, but you've managed to rebuild your trust in people, to love people, to feel good about yourself, and you met your dream of becoming a nurse. I do believe, without any doubt, that the man at the pool that day was indeed sent from Above. And now you are becoming that angel for other women who are trapped in the same dark world you started life in. I'm a parent of two daughters and I can't even begin to try to understand what prompted your parents to treat you the way they did. I can only hope that you are always looking forward now, never looking back at what you left behind. Thank you for having the courage to tell your story.
I have so much respect for this woman. 🙏 she went through all of that and managed to overcome it all and remain SANE. 🙌. I hope the rest of her life is filled with great moments. ❤
It's so wrong and you aren't seeing all the trauma ... And it's ok too if people come out of this with mental problems... So effing sick of this incredibly abusive society that says it's ok if you get abused so long as youre quiet about it and able to adjust to this sick unhealthy society which does nothing absolutely nothing for the abused, but protects abuse by demanding that people should acclimate to it. You are sick! Especially for judging people who experience abuse and haven't fully healed... It's ok and perfectly healthy for people to express their trauma and to be imperfect... So sick of judgemental amerikkkans!!
@alllifematters 1st of all I was depressed for 10+ years because of the trauma I went through growing up and i had a lot of fucked up shit happen to me but nothing compared to this woman. I commend her Because if it was me being honest, I would not have made it because my trauma honestly is not even comparable to hers. I cried because she has sooooo much strength in her. U, my friend, is being judgmental. No 1's pain is greater than another, but for me, I commened her for continuing to exist when most would have been dead.
So inspired by this ladies resilience. Our God most definately sent angels to watch 24:54 over you. Thank you so much for sharing your story! So any are and will continue to be inspired by it. Merry Christmas strong one.
I'm not sure you intended your comment to be hurtful but it does come across that way. It implies that people with mental illness are less than and/or at fault for their illness.
How on this earth can parents treat their children this way is beyond me , god bless this beautiful lady ❤❤❤❤
Absolutely atrocious criminal and disgusting what they did. I started out in a similar situation and went through the foster system and thank god was adopted at 5. When I was removed from the home I couldn’t walk or talk because I had been forced to stay in a baby bed in a dark room. Love light peace and joy to you dear one! We made it!
My dear friend we help get a young child out on a similar situation. Parents were wealthy and highly inflencial
Child Protective Services admitted to me they wouldn't do anything because they were afraid of loosing their licience.
Found the Viet Nam Pray Warriors. During their prayers I had a feeling to call the Ombudsman
BINGO. I am disabled myself so I know it wasn't me.any of us that can't have children long to hold you in our arms. We watch out. We cry when you cry..❤️
I also was a mute as a child because of what I went through, we can never be 100% normal but we can try and live through life
I know and met Melissa through Facebook and I can tell you she is an amazing person. It's unbelievable what she endured and STILL made something wonderful of her life including being a loving and caring person.
It’s always a miracle to me when these survivors manage to become such productive and capable people ❤
you either rise despite of it or allow it to destroy you…that choice often depends on your brain chemistry, wiring, hope, loving people who finally create stability and determination. We all have an innate drive to survive. She did it! Rather than become a victim of it even though she probably relives the scenes of her childhood every night but you just have to forgive, for your sake so you can move on and be at peace with a soft heart and focus 100%?on the present moment and the future.
It’s truly a miracle from GOD!!! Only JESUS keeps us going, believer or not because HE understands how the enemy tried to destroy our lives from the beginning. 🙏😔JESUS is so real. HE is always with us. 🙏 These stories make me believe in HIM even more.
Nurse to nurse, I just want to thank you for being brave enough to share your story. Maybe some other child, who is dealing with the same kinds of abuse, will hear this and find the strength to speak up and find a way out of that situation. We have to tell kids how valuable they are, and remind ourselves how valuable we are as well...🥰
Same here, I’m a nurse as well. While I didn’t go through anything as she did I have tried to find those that grew up feeling unloved and love on them
That woman who told you “you’re going to be a nurse”, was the second guardian angel in your life. You may have had others but didn’t recognize them at the time. I’m so glad you were able to realize and appreciate your value as a person worthy of living the life you deserve. Just look what you’ve overcome.
What you said resonated in me. I too had a terrible childhood. I did not get away from them until I was twenty five. They obliterated my future to ensure that I couldn't get away from them but they miss stepped and I got out by rapid marriage. Thirty years later my sons and I and our beasties are free from my ex who is also abusive.
I am 59. I still have pieces of myself, my life that have not been recovered. I am damaged.
Your candity helped me immensely. I am not alone.
You are not damaged. That is the story they made up. You are whole, beautiful,and loving. You were just in their path. I salute you youxx♥️
Thank you. I will try to remember what you said as truth rather than what I was told.
Melissa, I am so very sorry for the way you have been treated.Your mother was not a mother, she was an abuser. I wish you the best.
Actually my mother herself was abused by my father, it was the late 60's early 70's when women still didn't have a voice.
You know, people who go through difficult times make very good counselors/psychologists/psychiatrists, they are able to speak from the heart and know what’s needed when they see others struggling. I’m glad you were able to persevere, I’m so proud of you!
Noooooooo, not true in many cases dear!!!!!!!!!!!!! Most people who have gone through "difficult times"...as YOU put it too delicately, have alot of hidden rage, unfinished business, and abusive tendancies!!! They can do major damage if they try to be any type of counselors - even for laughs. Grow up
We can walk on the moon but can't provide for a pregnant woman. The World has lost its collective mind.
@@instanteggnoodl Why should we provide for a pregnant woman? Why wasnt she on birth control. She is NOT my responsiblity. I was smart young woman who took care of myself and did not force society to take out my garbage of bills and needs.
@@instanteggnoodl "The world lost its collective mind" and "we can walk on the moon" check out : a funny thing happened on the way to the moon. And where did that moonrover came from? and who took the photos of neil armstrong stepping down the ladder? So the photographer was the first man on the moon? And who filmed the apollo lift from the moon? So they left the photographer on the moon? Poor soul. And how can combustion engine function in a vacuum? Think again.
@@Wisdom-Nuggets-Tid-Bitsdon't you realize that overcoming that rage and refusing to become like your abusers is you growing up? Those things that this woman had to endure were not deserved so what else is it other than trials to make you stronger? The thing is most psychiatrists grow up very stable and therefore have no idea what I would be talking about expressing my trials and hurt and abuse. You see the texts books they read didn't quite create a sense of knowing. Btw... Why add the "grow up" but in any case? People have a right to their opinions. Why take a personal jab at a positive, beautiful comment and a better point of view than where you're sitting? Please heal with us. We are all here because we are hurting and looking for love. Join us in seeing a purpose and reason for all the suffering to turn it around and stick it to the light and love and forgiveness.
She rose above the abuse and the abusers..
she became a better person than any of those that tried to destroy her and blossomed into the beautiful person she was ment to be🌸thanks for sharing
🥰 thank you
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Thank you for sharing your story, Melissa. A reminder that people are often stronger than they know.
giving birth in handcuffs was unnecessary and cruel. Children are turned out on the street to be raped for profit You are strong survivor. Proud of you ❤
I am so proud of her testimony of how she overcame an abusive childhood and adulthood and became a professional nurse when all odds were against her. She stated that she told her mom when she was four that she wanted to be a nurse. Her dream of becoming a nurse came through by her making ip in her mind that she did not want to live a life of trauma and tragedy. God Bless her for her courage to persevere when all odds where against her.❤
❤ thank you
Thank goodness someone saw who you were always meant to be.
What a magnificent, inspirational woman. 'A Future not a Past' is a wonderful philosophy for life. Reminds me of the saying: 'Don't look back - you're not going there'.
God bless Melissa. may she continue to fulfil her positive destiny of love, strength and healing - for herself and others - in this world.
Merry Christmas and a Happy and Healthy 2024 to All! ❤😘😻❤😘😻❤😘😻❤😘😻❤😘😻❤😘😻
Oh woman! You have no idea how many lives you saved by sharing this, your truth. You are more than a survivor you are a living beacon of hope. I am so sorry you were treated so badly by your parents. I felt it listening to you, the need for love, kindness, gentleness the need to be a child and have fun! Thank you for sharing this. Thank you for becoming such a wonderful and amazing nurse!! God bless and keep you
She really is a miracle. I'm so happy she's doing what she was intended to do and in a position to show kindness to people at their most vulnerable points.
All I know is that you're absolutely gorgeous Ma'am. Your brave, you're capable, you're special and I'm so glad you're free
You were born to pass on to others that we can love ourselves no matter what has happened to us, and that we are all worthy of being loved
What an absolute winner. The very definition of resolute strength and resilience. She is a true survivor, and her trials made her so very strong. Respect and admiration.
I had such a loving upbringing by my parents, I can't even imagine how parents could do this to a child. It breaks my heart 😭
This woman deserves every warm loving hug.
She's a true survivor and inspiration.
God Bless you ,thanks for sharing,and yes I am praying that your story reaches many ,many women in this world🌎 Praying 🙏
I’m so sorry for everything you went thru. What horrible parents. I’m so glad you came out of this abuse and became a nurse.
I worked with her. She really is such an amazing woman 💛 I hate that this happened, but I'm so glad to see her healed from this and become an advocate for the troubled teen industry. Takes a lot of courage to relive your trauma and use it to help others. ❤
Hard to believe that such parents really exist. God bless you dear lady.
You are a rock star. Your story should be in every school, public forums, everywhere. You got the power to change so many lives. I’m so glad you survived and you conquered. You will always be in my heart and prayers.
❤thank you 😊
I didn't cry until the end. God bless you and that woman that believed in you. It was obviously a great decision on her part.
So many congratulations for making your life better.
Wishing you nothing but love for the rest of your days 🥰
You are a credit to women! I understand where you've been and I am so proud that you speak your truth and have found your way. Enjoy the rest of your life... You deserve it!
My daughter is an addiction counselor in that area, I’d like to think she helped someone like you, I’m sure she has. I’m so glad you got out of that horrible situation.
Addiction councillors are so important and hugely needed in this day and age! Thank you to your daughter for everyone she’s helped ❤
@@TJ-bn2cn ❤️❣️❤️
Let God take revenge.
Jesus will take you in HIS Arms.
Your strength is incredible. When you said your abuse started in the womb and that you were caged as a toddler I just cried. I was a preschool teacher in a public school for 22 years and the thought of the 2 year old you being isolated and ignored made me sick. To know what you have been through and then hear you are a nurse and helping other woman in the situation you were in is an amazing testament to bravery. I wish you nothing but love, kindness, happiness, and peace for the rest of your life.
❤thank you 🙏
What an amazing survivor with such strength! God bless her!
You can hear the pain in her voice… absolutely one of the strongest woman I’ve seen. I’m so happy for you that you made it alive and you accomplished being what you wanted to be.
All the props to you for surviving this and turning it around to help other people. You’re a super hero!
Yes, what a brave woman.
Her parents are so fortunate she survived the horrific abuse and neglect. I wish we lived in a society that saved children from the hands of monsters like her parents. My parents were very much the same.
Why would they be fortunate? Fuck them.
I’m so proud of how you have overcome so much in life & now share your story to help others do the same! This type of life is one NO ONE should EVER have to endure but you did it & you really are a miracle! Thank you for using your voice ❤️🫂
What an incredible woman, what she’s gone through and what she’s become, they brought me to tears
Your suffering helps you be a fantastic nurse. I’m sorry you had to endure such horrible experiences. As a nurse myself I know that my own trauma helps me have empathy and compassion. Bless you for sharing your experiences ❤
Your so right I'm also a nurse I had an severly abusive childhood SA beatings isolation medical/educational neglect I was not fed my sister was I was a parentified child I was taken out of school in 4th grade to care for home/ siblings my parents belonged to a religious cult which co-signed on their treatment of me I started working full-time @age 15yr old paying rent I finally ran away @age 16 I married an abusive man at age 17 I got an GED with a 4th grade education because I inhaled books I got into nursing school my first full time job was juvie psych I understood these kids I got not being fed or being beat with an extention cord other nurses resented me because I could these residents to talk they would tell me details of their lives my childhood was HELL but it gave me great empathy for my patients I understand the shame of not having school clothes etc. It has also helped me help ppl outside of my job it has given me a great deal of compassion for other humans I've had therapy im on rx for depression im a survior im healing the best REVEGE I can get is to 1 survival 2.to thrive which is wht I try to do daily
I was a nurse. I love making people feel better.
I’m currently developing something to help dementia patients and their families.
I am glad you were finally able to fulfill your life's dream of becoming a Nurse and an award winning one at that!
God bless this lady 😢 and bless her Aunty for caring for her.
I am blown away that you have such compassion, care & empathy for others given the torture, abuse & negative judgement you experienced. To not only choose this in your personal life but also in the career you've chosen is a testament to your strength & determination.
Animals, no being, no one should be caged. Thank you for so much for sharing your powerful story!
So sorry for what she went through but so proud she achieved her dream of being a nurse. Her desire to help others is a testiment to her character,
You are such a strong woman lm surprised your still sane bless your heart ❤
My heart bleeds for all you went through. I am so proud of you being a survivor and now giving help to others. What an inspiration you are for so many. Blessings
Treatment she received from her parents and other was such an atrocity! It is amazing she was able to get beyond the horrid treatment she endured. May God bless and provide you with comfort and blessings the rest of your days on this earth!
She’s a hero in every way. She has unimaginable strength.
Your childhood and early adulthood was devastating. My goodness you lived without love until around 36. You’re amazing and against all odds in your life you became a beautiful nurse. You would have great compassion and you’ve chosen just the right profession for you to help heal people. Thank you for sharing your story.
OMG. I went through something very similar from the age of 10 until I was 14, when I finally became "too old for him". The worst part was knowing that my mother had given him permission and I told my older sister about it and asked her for help. Her help was to leave me living in that house of horrors and take my twin brother with her so that nothing would happen to him. And forget my existence.
That is awful. 😭
@@megbes2193 I know.
I am so happy that she is happy now. That she reached her goal is amazing. Melissa is a wonderful person and that she survived all that and was able to find herself again is just so awesome. I hope she is having a wonderful life this Christmas.
From a complete stranger I wrap my arms around that child in you & gently whisper 'you deserve love don't stay in that stuck place, live now celebrate your freedom' I'm so sorry that you had that. I know how hard it is to break free of the past just do it one day at a time. So brave of you to tell you story here just know you are helping others dig themselves out of their past hurts. Deepest hugs from a grandmother in Australia XXX
the pain in her voice 🥹🤍 proud of her fr 🙏
Melissa, You are an amazing woman! So proud you are a nurse! I just want to hug you ❤
You are an amazing lady,thank you for sharing you're story.I pray that the rest of you're life is a happy one.God Bless you
I am SHOCKED that Melissa actually turned out sane and a productive member of society. Seriously. I've seen people that have not gone through have of that horror and spend their lives playing the victim card.
@avelainmarie2907 Those who experience life in similar ways that Melissa did, dont want to play the "victim card" its the only card in their hand. The mental and physical limitations that are the effect of their abuse aren't excuses. They are victims until the day they die. They don't have realistic choices. Be thankful you can't understand their prison .You have the mental freedom and capacity to be judgemental. That's a privilege. Melissa may seem to you as someone who escaped the circumstances of her life, but she would tell you that her 20 year nursing career isnt because she chose a different card in her hand. She was lucky to meet other people who were willing to share their cards, and teach her how to play cards.
There is no such thing as a victim card unless the person is just lying. Everyone heals differently.
@@ogis49thank you. ❤
Why use the term "victim card"? People don't learn to live with trauma in the same way or rate as others. The amount of story they have shared with you (that you have decided is not enough trauma) you don't know the amount of their story they didn't share with you.
Someone has never experienced any trauma 😭
The channel makes me appreciate how protective my parents were in my formative years.
Amazing story of survival and thriving! Keep working on your healing. I could see some wounds are still fresh ❤
You are not only a nurse, you are a true Angel here to help humanity heal! Feeling so much gratitude for your strength and resilience to go beyond the pain and hurt. Many blessings to you on your journey as a nurse and healer.
WOW . Amazing woman! She knew from 4 yrs old. If she was my nurse, I’d probably never guess the nightmares she lived through and overcame. What an inspiration.
I remember holding my breath too so that I didn't cry. I also learned to make my vision go blurry so I didn't have to see them. I would go inside of myself and they didn't even know! I was proud of myself. But, as an adult, I found it difficult to stop doing that whenever I felt stressed.
She is such a beautiful person, I don't understand how ANY ONE could do that to their babies. So heart breaking, You could hear it in her voice. What a strong and amazing woman. ❤
God bless you sweetheart ❤
This woman’s pain is so heavy and strong I can feel it in the room with me. My heart hurts for her
Oooh - take care of that empath heart my dear.
This has me in tears. I think about my grandchildren and I can't even fathom them having to go through being treated like that. That anyone could come back from a life of this is a miracle.
I bet she's an amazing nurse. 🙏🏽❤️
I'm so glad you made it to become a nurse. Congratulations! You are wonderful.❤
I have a chronic illness and always have contended that nurses are really the brains of the medical care outfit. You’re living proof. To go through what you did and have the capacity to study medicine and care for others is astounding. I will never understand how two people like your parents find each other in this world. Did this parenting style come up at some point? It’s madness.
My mom was a hint of this. Some woman hate their female children
Like my mother. Glade I go my own way.
My mom is a sociopath narcissist. DANGEROUS . I was always her scape goat .
@@KathyJensen-vh2yk me too. I see it now in conversations with her. Its bizarre. So sorry it happened to you too.
What is your grandmother & mother's relationship like? Not that it makes your mother's behavior towards you acceptable... but it's usually safe to say that happy people don't hurt others. The hurt that your mother inflicts on you comes from a place of hurt inside of her. She may lack the awareness needed to change but that doesn't mean you have to.❤
@@KathyJensen-vh2yk Yes it's hard to believe there are people out there with that angle toward others. Yet sadly there are. Many are undiagnosed which makes situations all the more frightening. They think everyone else is the problem - they are the perfect ones. Was raised by such a female; she died several years ago in her 90s - I do not miss her at all.
Proud of you for rising above your childhood and early adult life not allowing it to define who you are today. Congratulations for improving your life and receiving your nursing degree.🙏❗
Bless you ❤. I’m proud of you. My oldest is an RN and as smart as he is it required a lot of studying. You are a survivor and I’m proud of you and you should be proud of yourself.
This is truly horrific. This poor lady. Scarred for life by evil adults. Such a strong and brave lady to find a way forward, I am full of admiration and respect for her resilience
This story made me cry. I’m so so sorry you had to go through such a horrendous childhood. I’m so sad no one helped you. I do believe that man who came to the pool was an angel. God bless you for sharing your story and give you the strength to live what’s left of your life to the fullest. 👏🏻❤️🙏🏻
❤ thank you
We're proud of you Melissa. Know that God truly loves you.🙏🏽❤️
You are so very interesting to listen to. You held my attention throughout the entire video! I’m so sorry for all you went through, and so happy that you were loved and able to overcome it and find your purpose! Nurses kept me alive speaking positive affirmations to and for me when I was in the trauma unit. God bless you
So glad you turned your life around and became a nurse, such a strong woman. No one should ever have to endure this
An amazing story of strength, resilience and healing. You can hear that there is still a lot of pain in her voice, may God bless her and the angels protect her and bring positive energy and love her way.
She's an amazing Nurse because she can relate to her patients. Such an amazing woman who conquered her past 🖤